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Why Do People Sum Up A Guy''s "Size" When He Isn''t Erect?

I notice that a lot of people do this. They see a flaccid penis, and they instantly categorize it as small, or in DL terminology: "tinymeat". You don't know how big a guy is until he's fully hard. Are women just clueless to this phenomenon? Grower, not a shower, people? Has anyone been with a guy who was small when soft, but grew ginormous when erect?

by Anonymousreply 4410/19/2014

Because most penises don't grow all that much when erect. They grow some--but not hugely.

by Anonymousreply 111/13/2010

Nonsense, R1

by Anonymousreply 211/13/2010

Paint it blue and tell people it's a Tardis, OP.

by Anonymousreply 311/13/2010

meet a true grower sometime - and WOW

by Anonymousreply 411/13/2010

[quote] Has anyone been with a guy who was small when soft, but grew ginormous when erect? No, because as r1 said, it doesn't happen. Tiny ones never even get normal sized erect.

by Anonymousreply 511/13/2010

R2...R1 is right.

by Anonymousreply 611/13/2010

Yes they do grow - a lot.

by Anonymousreply 711/13/2010

My dick is about the same size as my BF when flaccid. Hell, mine might even be a little bigger.

Erect, mine is about 6", while he is 2" longer and so thick I can't touch my forefinger to my thumb without squeezing really hard.

(damn, I can't wait for him to return home Monday from his trip with his dad- just typing this made me horny as hell)

by Anonymousreply 811/13/2010

Medium dicks can grow a lot. Tiny and giant dicks rarely grow much.

by Anonymousreply 911/13/2010

OP = bitter tinymeat who's been the butt of one too many jokes.

by Anonymousreply 1011/13/2010

I am 6 inches soft, 8 inches erect....I suspect people think it's going to be a lot larger when erect. Don't get me wrong, I am big enough, but sometimes I wish it grew a little more

by Anonymousreply 1111/13/2010

Mine pretty much looks like an acorn when soft, but gets to about 6.5" when erect.

by Anonymousreply 1211/13/2010

Oh poor you, R11

by Anonymousreply 1311/13/2010

Sure it does, R12. I bet it looks like 2 acorns when erect.

by Anonymousreply 1411/14/2010

r9 is correct.

by Anonymousreply 1511/14/2010

Mine looks like an osage orange.

by Anonymousreply 1611/14/2010

I used to hook up with this guy who was very tiny when soft I could swallow it whole and almost massage it with my throat. It grew to almost 8 inches before he came. The funny thing is he never acted like someone with a small cock. He never jerked himself like he wanted it to be bigger before he allowed me to see it. I really liked his attitude.

by Anonymousreply 1711/14/2010

Fuck off R14: Your lack of personal experience is showing. I'm the same as R12; it looks like an acorn when soft, but it grows to 6" when hard

by Anonymousreply 1811/14/2010

i think this is common for womenfolk. they just don't get it.

by Anonymousreply 1911/14/2010

probably because the size of a penis when flaccid, and not just when it is erect, is also important to some size queens, OP. sex often begins with the cock in a soft or semi-soft state and at that state one wants to be turned on, and if one is a size queen one is going to be more turned on if one's partner's cock is sizable. my question is why such an obvious notion was so difficult for you to figure out. I'm not a size queen but I certainly think a large flaccid penis can be quite enticing.

by Anonymousreply 2011/14/2010

In the real world, OP, men aren't walking around with their cocks out sporting massive erections. Ergo, they are judged on their flaccid cocks because that is the state their cocks are generally in. It's not some vast conspiracy to make you look bad. Get over yourself and your tiny flaccid cock.

by Anonymousreply 2111/14/2010


by Anonymousreply 2211/14/2010

[quote]You don't know how big a guy is until he's fully hard.%0D %0D True, but a "ginormous" soft cock holds out more promise than a tiny soft cock. The former is the better bet for even if it expands hardly at all, the end result is at least passable. The latter, however, requires an act of Christian faith, a belief in angels and miracles and transubstantiation (or maybe a winning smile, a winning personaility, or a winning bank account.) The latter prospect offers the most room for disappointment.

by Anonymousreply 2311/14/2010

This is why most American actors don't do nude scenes. Even though a flaccid penis is in no way any indication of someone's erect penis size, people, are still hung up on it.

by Anonymousreply 2411/14/2010

My dick is unimpressive flaccid, maybe three inches. Erect it's 8 inches thick. It's given plenty of men happiness.

by Anonymousreply 2511/14/2010

That is not true R9. Masters and Johnson found that smaller to medium penises great proportionately more than medium to large penises. There is such a thing as a "grower;" however, not all small ones are growers. Also there are some big ones that are growers. But, as a rule, smaller ones tend to grow more than bigger ones (sometimes about 3X the original length).

by Anonymousreply 2611/14/2010

Big flaccid dicks sometimes don't grow too much larger when erect, which can be a little disappointing.

by Anonymousreply 2711/14/2010

[quote]Big flaccid dicks sometimes don't grow too much larger when erect, which can be a little disappointing.%0D %0D But not half as disappointing as a nubbin that swells mightily to become a Vienna sausage.%0D

by Anonymousreply 2811/14/2010

I'm a niblet flaccid, but massive when erect.%0D %0D If you want a comparison, you could say I go from Jonny Quest to Race Bannon.

by Anonymousreply 2911/14/2010

R29 is full of shit and OP needs to quit whining. I'm not huge, but there's no way that someone goes from 2 inches to 10 inches---as some of you would have us believe.

by Anonymousreply 3011/14/2010

There was a British TV series earlier this year designed to teach high school kids about sex education, and they showed photos of the same penises both soft and hard, to show the differences between the two states and the differences between different dicks. It was pretty surprising. One of the smaller ones grew a lot, and the bigger one not much at all.

by Anonymousreply 3111/14/2010

I'm sensing a lot of disgruntled princess tinymeats in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 3211/14/2010

I can be as little as three inches flaccid and as hard as a touch over seven when really turned on so, yes, growers can really grow.

by Anonymousreply 3301/26/2013

Some people here (like r1) obviously haven't dealt with many penises.

by Anonymousreply 3401/26/2013

This thread is useless without pics.

by Anonymousreply 3501/26/2013

The average American erect penis is 5.1 inches.

Yeah, I know you say that you're 7, but you're not.

by Anonymousreply 3601/26/2013

The flaccid size can vary a lot just based on the health of your cardiovascular system.

by Anonymousreply 3701/26/2013

I'd much rather have a big flaccid penis than a big erect penis. By the time it's erect, the deal's been sealed. But i'd prance all over that locker room with my big one swinging, were it were true.

by Anonymousreply 3801/26/2013

good question. society is known for judging someone (or something) by first impressions (appearances) alone. and as for anyone who is not a small while flaccid guy, and hasn't been with or seen a small while flaccid guy; stop responding to questions you don't know the answer to for sure; as in you know you are right for a fact. The real answer is: yes some men have a relatively small flaccid size and grow a significant amount (aka showers). For instance: being completely honest here: at my smallest (maybe cold outside or whatever) I am maybe an inch flaccid, normally 1.5-2.5, when erect I am about 6.5. thats up to a 650% gain -- I can prove this for those who do not believe me.

by Anonymousreply 3903/13/2014

My research corroborates R9 exactly.

My research is fairly extensive.

by Anonymousreply 4003/13/2014

Because your surrounded by size queens, OP

by Anonymousreply 4103/13/2014

No, a lot of us get it. Only some do not. I've noticed what the other poster mentioned, for the most part very big and very small do not grow as much. Flaccid for the majority is seems to be close to the final reality.

I've seen some growers, however. Unremarkable/smallish to bigger than average.

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