Do they exist? Or are the more flamboyant ones always the receivers?
Nelly Queens Who Are Tops
|by Anonymous||reply 86||Last Monday at 8:11 PM|
Didn't Clay Aiken say he topped that military dude?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||11/13/2010|
Of course they exist--I'd wager some you might suspect to be submissive bottoms are raging tops.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||11/13/2010|
Jesus Christ...why is it that I have to be nelly just to enjoy getting fucked? That is one stigma I abhor! Mary!
|by Anonymous||reply 3||11/13/2010|
I ssssssaid ssssssssay my name, bitch!
|by Anonymous||reply 4||11/13/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 5||11/13/2010|
About every six months I order in a LARGE.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||11/13/2010|
You'll find them in the library of very thin books.
Next to the book of straight male figure skaters.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||11/13/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 8||11/13/2010|
R3=Erik Rhodes.%0D %0D
|by Anonymous||reply 9||11/14/2010|
Hottest picture ever.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||11/14/2010|
I think a lot of gay men have the false notion that fucking another dude is some sort of a masculine thing. It isn't.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||11/14/2010|
Wasn't Paul Lynde a top
|by Anonymous||reply 12||11/14/2010|
Liberace was supposedly a raging top. "Queen in the streets, top in the sheets" we used to say.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||11/14/2010|
yes, get over the stereotypical internalized heteromania. there are nelly tops; there are even nelly straight guys. just like there are butch bottoms, and butch gay guys. when are we going to get beyond the 1955 sexual presumptions, people!
|by Anonymous||reply 14||11/14/2010|
I get so tired of the treatment of bottoms in our community. The bullying and the disrespect really has to stop. A person isn't a slut or a whore because he likes to get fucked. He also doesn't want to be a woman or is always effeminate. %0D %0D On the reverse side, people really need to stop putting top on a pedestal. They aren't always perfect.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||11/14/2010|
Why would they ever be tops? The whole Nelly Queen routine, is one big ongoing commercial to attract tops.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||11/14/2010|
A friend of mine always said if you want to get a good fucking, get a nelly hairdresser.
Now he is with a nelly hairdresser.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||11/14/2010|
"The whole Nelly Queen routine, is one big ongoing commercial to attract tops."%0D %0D %0D %0D %0D Wrong. There are definitely nelly tops. Liberace was one of them.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 19||11/15/2010|
I generally find that the gay men who have the most exaggerated masculine look are the biggest bottoms -- they look like they do because they are obsessed with masculinity. This is most obvious in the leather and bodybuilding scenes but is true elsewhere as well. So I suppose in a strange way it might make sense that very nelly men are tops.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||11/15/2010|
I know a VERY effeminate dude who is a total top. he weighs like 130 soaking wet and is extremely fussy and fem.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||11/15/2010|
Nelly = top. Butch = bottom.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||11/15/2010|
r15 is a big ole M.A.R.Y.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||11/15/2010|
Chris Colfer is a top.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||01/31/2011|
Richard Simmons is a brutal top from what I heard.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||01/31/2011|
I'm a big old girl, but when a hot piece of ass sees my 12 inch hard dick and wants it buried up his mussy, pounding away at him til he comes a river, who am I to refuse him the ride of his life!
|by Anonymous||reply 26||02/11/2011|
It is cognitive dissonance
|by Anonymous||reply 27||03/29/2013|
I think the Nelly Top is an urban myth, like the "most crossdressers are straight".
|by Anonymous||reply 28||03/29/2013|
They're called blouses. Blouse = feminine top
|by Anonymous||reply 29||03/29/2013|
Adam Lambert: "I like the top" (@ 1:20)
|by Anonymous||reply 30||03/29/2013|
I give you: Ms Matinga!
|by Anonymous||reply 31||04/16/2013|
Trust me, Liberace was not a strict top. Not even close. A dear friend of mine hooked up with Lib back in the early '70s. I know this for a fact because I was in the next room while their liaison was occurring. Liberace was a voracious power bottom. I don't know who started that 'top' story, but I know for a fact that it's not true.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||04/16/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 33||04/16/2013|
Chris Crocker [the "leave Britney alone!" queen] always insisted he was/is a strict top.
I agree with R27, it's cognitive dissonance at its finest.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||04/16/2013|
R34 I saw one of his porno vids that would beg to differ with his "strict top" declaration. He seemed more than willing to take that old man's wee-wee up his poo-poo.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||04/16/2013|
Why would a bottom let an effem dude top him?
|by Anonymous||reply 36||04/19/2013|
Because he like when the man go up into the man.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||04/19/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 38||05/06/2013|
Check out this drag queen:
|by Anonymous||reply 39||05/06/2013|
Here is the same drag queen fucking the living hell out of a whiny bottom!
|by Anonymous||reply 40||05/06/2013|
That drag queen is fabulous. He looks butch and imposing regardless of the act so I'm not surprised.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||05/06/2013|
dude, that is just gross.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||05/06/2013|
Man that drag queen at R39 and R40 has a BEAUTIFUL ripped and muscled body, and a huge dick!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 43||05/06/2013|
Who would want a fem on top of them?
|by Anonymous||reply 44||05/08/2013|
r44, Im guessing a lot of people would want r40/r39 on top of them, he fucks better than most of the "masculine" dudes out there!
|by Anonymous||reply 45||05/09/2013|
I often find that the butchest looking men are total bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||05/09/2013|
[quote]I often find that the butchest looking men are total bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||05/09/2013|
Lets cut to the chase, what you are really asking is whole likes nelly sex partners.
Top or bottom we all love masculine men. I think we all gravitate to what we see is equal or better to the level of masculinity we see our self as.
I know, shallow, but its true.
There is not exactly a plethora nelly tops in the porn industry is there? Only in the oddity section of the click list.
Why there is more people into scat then that.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||05/09/2013|
Of course, r48. I think "masculine" is the most used word in male-male profiles and ads, according to studies.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||05/09/2013|
It just depends on the person. I find it impossible to act in a stereotypical masculine way, I look masculine but act stereotypically homosexual, I just can't help it. Trying to act masculine makes me feel ridiculous.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||05/09/2013|
The Hall Monitor in the Game of Thrones threads exemplifies what happens when nelly queens try to top.
Dressed as a Lannister, no less.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||05/09/2013|
omg I would let r40 dick me down after each of his drag shows, damn!
|by Anonymous||reply 52||05/14/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 54||05/30/2013|
Why would a guy let a fem top him?
|by Anonymous||reply 55||06/17/2013|
There is this guy who works at my local supermarket who is a hard core nelly. His eyebrows are waxed and shaped like some 1930s starlet and one time I saw him smoking outside the store holding the cigarette high between two fingers. He has a profile on A4A and under the name MizzMike or something like that. Surprisingly though, his profile says he is a top. Its true what they say: you cant judge a book by its cover.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||06/17/2013|
I love the term blouse, that said my dick can't get hard for one nor will my ass open up for one.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||06/17/2013|
Miss Matinga could open you up. Are you ok with Crisco?
|by Anonymous||reply 58||06/17/2013|
[quote]Why would a guy let a fem top him?
It depends on
a. how fem b. how good looking
Most of the people mentioned in this thread are monsters no one would even consider in the first place, it really is TMI.. I don't want to know that shit. But if it's absolute Richard Simmons flamerville, never.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||06/17/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 60||09/11/2014|
[quote]Why would a guy let a fem top him?
Cute, sweet, big dick. Why not? Some of us aren't so twisted with internalized homophobia that we get caught up in shit like this. We like people for people and sex because it's FUN.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||09/11/2014|
Let a thousand flowers bloom, I always say.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||09/11/2014|
I love being topped, I frankly don't care who does it
|by Anonymous||reply 63||09/11/2014|
What about masculine dudes who are bottoms?
|by Anonymous||reply 64||09/11/2014|
So true! The ones who look like something from Tom of Finland or try to look hyper masculine are the biggest bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||09/11/2014|
I like to be topped by a large transvestite myself. Something like a Chi Chi La Rue type. OOh, I don't care that its dick is little nor that it sports man boobs. All I care about is that I'm properly enthralled. Long after he/she/it has tried to entertain me with its wit, I'll always have that yummy memory of a big fleshy fruitcake pounding away at me !
|by Anonymous||reply 66||09/11/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 67||09/18/2014|
aren't most tops still gay nelly queens underneath it all?
|by Anonymous||reply 68||09/24/2014|
[quote]Jesus Christ...why is it that I have to be nelly just to enjoy getting fucked? That is one stigma I abhor! Mary!
The OP wasn't doubting if there are butch bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||09/24/2014|
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|by Anonymous||reply 71||10/27/2014|
I especially love the big muscular toads who swish and sashay. They make me laugh because they look so ridiculous walking like queens with their big muscles
|by Anonymous||reply 72||10/27/2014|
The word "nelly" is archaic and lost on most people today.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||10/28/2014|
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|by Anonymous||reply 77||03/16/2015|
The queeniest guy I ever met and a trans guy with boobs I knew were both tops.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||03/16/2015|
OP= straight woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||03/16/2015|
I like both personally.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||03/16/2015|
|by Anonymous||reply 81||05/12/2015|
They exist. Control queens
|by Anonymous||reply 82||05/12/2015|
Probably already posted in this thread, but Adam Lambert prime example.
And apparently Andy Cohen is a top.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||05/12/2015|
no way dude
|by Anonymous||reply 84||05/12/2015|
|by Anonymous||reply 85||05/26/2015|
that's di hot  ;)
|by Anonymous||reply 86||Last Monday at 8:11 PM|