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Nelly Queens Who Are Tops

Do they exist? Or are the more flamboyant ones always the receivers?

by Anonymousreply 10105/07/2016

Didn't Clay Aiken say he topped that military dude?

by Anonymousreply 111/13/2010

Of course they exist--I'd wager some you might suspect to be submissive bottoms are raging tops.

by Anonymousreply 211/13/2010

Jesus Christ...why is it that I have to be nelly just to enjoy getting fucked? That is one stigma I abhor! Mary!

by Anonymousreply 311/13/2010

I ssssssaid ssssssssay my name, bitch!

by Anonymousreply 411/13/2010

plenty exist.

by Anonymousreply 511/13/2010

About every six months I order in a LARGE.

by Anonymousreply 611/13/2010

You'll find them in the library of very thin books.

Next to the book of straight male figure skaters.

by Anonymousreply 711/13/2010

Paging MHB.

by Anonymousreply 811/13/2010

R3=Erik Rhodes.%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 911/13/2010

Hottest picture ever.

by Anonymousreply 1011/13/2010

I think a lot of gay men have the false notion that fucking another dude is some sort of a masculine thing. It isn't.

by Anonymousreply 1111/13/2010

Wasn't Paul Lynde a top

by Anonymousreply 1211/13/2010

Liberace was supposedly a raging top. "Queen in the streets, top in the sheets" we used to say.

by Anonymousreply 1311/13/2010

yes, get over the stereotypical internalized heteromania. there are nelly tops; there are even nelly straight guys. just like there are butch bottoms, and butch gay guys. when are we going to get beyond the 1955 sexual presumptions, people!

by Anonymousreply 1411/13/2010

I get so tired of the treatment of bottoms in our community. The bullying and the disrespect really has to stop. A person isn't a slut or a whore because he likes to get fucked. He also doesn't want to be a woman or is always effeminate. %0D %0D On the reverse side, people really need to stop putting top on a pedestal. They aren't always perfect.

by Anonymousreply 1511/13/2010

Why would they ever be tops? The whole Nelly Queen routine, is one big ongoing commercial to attract tops.

by Anonymousreply 1611/14/2010

A friend of mine always said if you want to get a good fucking, get a nelly hairdresser.

Now he is with a nelly hairdresser.

by Anonymousreply 1711/14/2010

[quote]I get so tired of the treatment of bottoms in our community. The bullying and the disrespect really has to stop.%0D %0D LOL! And just how are the bottoms weeded from the gay masses for treatment? Anyone stupid enough to define themselves by the position they assume under the sheets fully deserves total disrespect. Seriously,

by Anonymousreply 1811/14/2010

"The whole Nelly Queen routine, is one big ongoing commercial to attract tops."%0D %0D %0D %0D %0D Wrong. There are definitely nelly tops. Liberace was one of them.%0D

by Anonymousreply 1911/15/2010

I generally find that the gay men who have the most exaggerated masculine look are the biggest bottoms -- they look like they do because they are obsessed with masculinity. This is most obvious in the leather and bodybuilding scenes but is true elsewhere as well. So I suppose in a strange way it might make sense that very nelly men are tops.

by Anonymousreply 2011/15/2010

I know a VERY effeminate dude who is a total top. he weighs like 130 soaking wet and is extremely fussy and fem.

by Anonymousreply 2111/15/2010

Nelly = top. Butch = bottom.

by Anonymousreply 2211/15/2010

r15 is a big ole M.A.R.Y.

by Anonymousreply 2311/15/2010

Chris Colfer is a top.

by Anonymousreply 2401/30/2011

Richard Simmons is a brutal top from what I heard.

by Anonymousreply 2501/30/2011

I'm a big old girl, but when a hot piece of ass sees my 12 inch hard dick and wants it buried up his mussy, pounding away at him til he comes a river, who am I to refuse him the ride of his life!

by Anonymousreply 2602/11/2011

It is cognitive dissonance

by Anonymousreply 2703/29/2013

I think the Nelly Top is an urban myth, like the "most crossdressers are straight".

by Anonymousreply 2803/29/2013

They're called blouses. Blouse = feminine top

by Anonymousreply 2903/29/2013

Adam Lambert: "I like the top" (@ 1:20)

by Anonymousreply 3003/29/2013

I give you: Ms Matinga!

by Anonymousreply 3104/16/2013

Trust me, Liberace was not a strict top. Not even close. A dear friend of mine hooked up with Lib back in the early '70s. I know this for a fact because I was in the next room while their liaison was occurring. Liberace was a voracious power bottom. I don't know who started that 'top' story, but I know for a fact that it's not true.

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by Anonymousreply 3304/16/2013

Chris Crocker [the "leave Britney alone!" queen] always insisted he was/is a strict top.

I agree with R27, it's cognitive dissonance at its finest.

by Anonymousreply 3404/16/2013

R34 I saw one of his porno vids that would beg to differ with his "strict top" declaration. He seemed more than willing to take that old man's wee-wee up his poo-poo.

by Anonymousreply 3504/16/2013

Why would a bottom let an effem dude top him?

by Anonymousreply 3604/19/2013


Because he like when the man go up into the man.

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by Anonymousreply 3805/06/2013

Check out this drag queen:

by Anonymousreply 3905/06/2013

Here is the same drag queen fucking the living hell out of a whiny bottom!

by Anonymousreply 4005/06/2013

That drag queen is fabulous. He looks butch and imposing regardless of the act so I'm not surprised.

by Anonymousreply 4105/06/2013

dude, that is just gross.

by Anonymousreply 4205/06/2013

Man that drag queen at R39 and R40 has a BEAUTIFUL ripped and muscled body, and a huge dick!!!

by Anonymousreply 4305/06/2013

Who would want a fem on top of them?

by Anonymousreply 4405/08/2013

r44, Im guessing a lot of people would want r40/r39 on top of them, he fucks better than most of the "masculine" dudes out there!

by Anonymousreply 4505/08/2013

I often find that the butchest looking men are total bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 4605/08/2013

[quote]I often find that the butchest looking men are total bottoms.

so true

by Anonymousreply 4705/08/2013

Lets cut to the chase, what you are really asking is whole likes nelly sex partners.

Top or bottom we all love masculine men. I think we all gravitate to what we see is equal or better to the level of masculinity we see our self as.

I know, shallow, but its true.

There is not exactly a plethora nelly tops in the porn industry is there? Only in the oddity section of the click list.

Why there is more people into scat then that.

by Anonymousreply 4805/08/2013

Of course, r48. I think "masculine" is the most used word in male-male profiles and ads, according to studies.

by Anonymousreply 4905/09/2013

It just depends on the person. I find it impossible to act in a stereotypical masculine way, I look masculine but act stereotypically homosexual, I just can't help it. Trying to act masculine makes me feel ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 5005/09/2013

The Hall Monitor in the Game of Thrones threads exemplifies what happens when nelly queens try to top.

Dressed as a Lannister, no less.

by Anonymousreply 5105/09/2013

omg I would let r40 dick me down after each of his drag shows, damn!

by Anonymousreply 5205/14/2013

cognitive dissonance

by Anonymousreply 5305/30/2013


by Anonymousreply 5405/30/2013

Why would a guy let a fem top him?

by Anonymousreply 5506/17/2013

There is this guy who works at my local supermarket who is a hard core nelly. His eyebrows are waxed and shaped like some 1930s starlet and one time I saw him smoking outside the store holding the cigarette high between two fingers. He has a profile on A4A and under the name MizzMike or something like that. Surprisingly though, his profile says he is a top. Its true what they say: you cant judge a book by its cover.

by Anonymousreply 5606/17/2013

I love the term blouse, that said my dick can't get hard for one nor will my ass open up for one.

by Anonymousreply 5706/17/2013


Miss Matinga could open you up. Are you ok with Crisco?

by Anonymousreply 5806/17/2013

[quote]Why would a guy let a fem top him?

It depends on

a. how fem b. how good looking

Most of the people mentioned in this thread are monsters no one would even consider in the first place, it really is TMI.. I don't want to know that shit. But if it's absolute Richard Simmons flamerville, never.

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by Anonymousreply 6009/11/2014

[quote]Why would a guy let a fem top him?

Cute, sweet, big dick. Why not? Some of us aren't so twisted with internalized homophobia that we get caught up in shit like this. We like people for people and sex because it's FUN.

by Anonymousreply 6109/11/2014

Let a thousand flowers bloom, I always say.

by Anonymousreply 6209/11/2014

I love being topped, I frankly don't care who does it

by Anonymousreply 6309/11/2014

What about masculine dudes who are bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 6409/11/2014

So true! The ones who look like something from Tom of Finland or try to look hyper masculine are the biggest bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 6509/11/2014

I like to be topped by a large transvestite myself. Something like a Chi Chi La Rue type. OOh, I don't care that its dick is little nor that it sports man boobs. All I care about is that I'm properly enthralled. Long after he/she/it has tried to entertain me with its wit, I'll always have that yummy memory of a big fleshy fruitcake pounding away at me !

by Anonymousreply 6609/11/2014

so wrong

by Anonymousreply 6709/18/2014

aren't most tops still gay nelly queens underneath it all?

by Anonymousreply 6809/24/2014

[quote]Jesus Christ...why is it that I have to be nelly just to enjoy getting fucked? That is one stigma I abhor! Mary!

The OP wasn't doubting if there are butch bottoms.

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by Anonymousreply 7110/27/2014

I especially love the big muscular toads who swish and sashay. They make me laugh because they look so ridiculous walking like queens with their big muscles

by Anonymousreply 7210/27/2014

The word "nelly" is archaic and lost on most people today.

by Anonymousreply 7310/28/2014

post pics

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by Anonymousreply 7703/16/2015

The queeniest guy I ever met and a trans guy with boobs I knew were both tops.

by Anonymousreply 7803/16/2015

OP= straight woman.

by Anonymousreply 7903/16/2015

I like both personally.

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by Anonymousreply 8105/12/2015

They exist. Control queens

by Anonymousreply 8205/12/2015

Probably already posted in this thread, but Adam Lambert prime example.

And apparently Andy Cohen is a top.

by Anonymousreply 8305/12/2015

no way dude

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by Anonymousreply 8505/26/2015

that's di hot [26] ;)

by Anonymousreply 8606/29/2015

Free your mind bro

by Anonymousreply 8711/11/2015

Jason Sechrest does bottoms mercilessly.

And Liza Minelli impressions.

by Anonymousreply 8811/11/2015

Isn't it dick size that matters. I mean a really effeminate man with a 9+ inch dick can't just let it go to waste, now can he?

Or a straight acting, butchy guy with a micro penis could get more action if he bottomed, no?

by Anonymousreply 8911/11/2015

Total bottom here and not the butchest one. As I grow older I find that I LOVE being dominated by fem guys

by Anonymousreply 9001/25/2016

Topher DiMaggio

by Anonymousreply 9101/25/2016

OP Nelly Queens? Girl, you are showing your age.

by Anonymousreply 9201/26/2016

I'm 5'7 and built like a mini young Scharzenegger. Most guys assume I'm a top but nope. Bottom.

One of the best tops I've ever had was a 6'2" black queen with a 9" dick who really knew how to work his huge cock. Totally dominated me and left me wanting more.

by Anonymousreply 9305/07/2016

R93 pix or it didn't happen!

by Anonymousreply 9405/07/2016

Lmao how the hell would I take pics, [R94]?

by Anonymousreply 9505/07/2016

How old are you R93?

by Anonymousreply 9605/07/2016

[quote] Liberace was a voracious power bottom.

I've heard he even gave the World Trade Center a run for its money.

by Anonymousreply 9705/07/2016

Ross Matthews "Ross The Intern" is a brutal sadistic top.

by Anonymousreply 9805/07/2016

I used to hook up with a very effeminate guy who worked at Neiman's.He had a hot,furry little body and would fuck me within an inch of my life. Good times.

by Anonymousreply 9905/07/2016

OMG, R30, I'd forgotten about the hotness of Kris Allen.

by Anonymousreply 10005/07/2016

I am a proud sissy top, and my husband is a butch bottom.

by Anonymousreply 10105/07/2016
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