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Female condoms for gay sex -- I need your tips and advice, dear DL friends.

How do we feel about this, dear DL? Yes I have met an extremely well endowed man who wants me to bottom for him. We have tried, unsuccessfully - with the bag on, he says, he might as well be in the next room. And even with Magnums, he's so thick, the rubber ring at the bottom digs into his skin. To his great credit, he is NOT pressuring me to bareback. We both agree some sort of protection is necessary, and we both want him to top (I've topped him already)...but he can't "get there" with a traditional condom. Advice?

by Anonymousreply 2911/12/2012

I don't understand much about condoms or gay sex, but is it the first time he has sex? %0D

by Anonymousreply 109/17/2010

Hefty Cinch Sack.

by Anonymousreply 209/17/2010

No. He lives a straight lifestyle (wife, kids) and of course doesn't use condoms with the wife. He's used to the significantly increased sensation of skin-to-skin sex, but of course we can't do that, so I'm trying to find an alternative for him to the wood-killing condom.

by Anonymousreply 309/17/2010

Just take his huge cock raw and milk that manly leche out of him like a good ol boy.

by Anonymousreply 409/17/2010

Oh well then, OP/R3, by all means go ahead and bareback, so you can pass some little gift back to his wife in your shared relationship. That or... You know, since there's no sex with a cock too big for a condom, no wife and kids, you can go raw in your head. Very safe sex. 0/10.

by Anonymousreply 509/17/2010

There really is no alternative. Condoms kill almost all sensation.

I have tried brand after brand after brand after brand, ultra thin, ribbed etc.

They are all sensation blockers.

by Anonymousreply 609/17/2010

[quote] and of course doesn't use condoms with the wife%0D %0D Why "of course not"? Does he have 17 children? Straight people use condoms, too. All the time. Or do you think the condom/HIV ad campagns geared towards straight people is just there so that the gays don't feel lonely?

by Anonymousreply 709/17/2010

Op at r3 made me lauuuuuuugh.%0D %0D Here's how it'll go down with your "married straight man." Eventually you'll relent and say "Oh why not? You must be safe" and he'll be all "No, I couldn't. Absolutely not" then after some fucking around he'll go "damnit, you drive me nuts, okay let's go for it. But only because you insist."%0D %0D Then he dumps a load of disease in you. The ones he picked up from all the other gay guys he fucked sans condom. Sucker.

by Anonymousreply 809/17/2010

Like I said, R5 - we're not going to bareback. And I'm not sure how "going raw in my head" is going heighten the sensation HE feels when wearing a condom. And it's precisely because I DON'T bareback that I don't have some "little gift" to give to him or anyone else. Can you even read?

Everyone else: I'm specifically asking for DL tips and advice about using female condoms for gay sex, because I've read a little about it but never have done it. Please help. I'd very much appreciate it.

I want to give my fuckbuddy a safe, good, time.

by Anonymousreply 909/17/2010

OP, just make the female condom work. I've actually been curious about using them myself. And have you tried Magnum XL?

by Anonymousreply 1009/17/2010

OP, you dope, can YOU read?

I'm suggesting the fuckbuddy is imaginary, the cock too big for magnum to choke it is imaginary, that's why I told you to have the imaginary sex in your head.

If you're not a shitstirring homophobe or frau pretending to be what you think gay men are -- sleeping with closeted gay men on the down low -- you're just a sad moron to make this shit up.

And if you are really doing it with someone else's wife, you're a creep.

Let's just hope you're a sick fake rather than a sick fuck you're living out your stupid little fantasies on DL.

by Anonymousreply 1109/17/2010

OP - female condom for anal is ridiculous. You lack the necessary contours to keep it in.

You either need to find a condom that is a better fit, or have him try Viagra / Levitra / Cialis. Those will generally help with condom issues. Any GP can give him a thing that he can turn in at a pharmacy for a free 30-count Cialis sample; cut them in half and you have 60 doses.

I am linking a European site that sells custom-fit condoms. Print out the kit, size him up, and order him up a variety. You have to pay shipping from Europe but it isn't too bad. Also make sure you stick with Latex, polyurethane condoms are not great for guys who are thick.

OP is probably trolling but someone else reading this thread might find this info helpful.

by Anonymousreply 1209/17/2010

Also, avoid major label "large" condoms. They are all tapered to the same width at the base as the regular sized ones, so are completely useless for girthy guys.

It is hard having a big dick and being a condom user if your dick isn't somehow bowling pin shaped.

by Anonymousreply 1309/17/2010

If he thinks that a 5 inch rubber ring hanging out of your hole is hot, then go for it. NOW that's a wood killer!

by Anonymousreply 1409/17/2010

OP you have too many issues:

1) He's married with kids

2) His dick is too big for you

3) You've never used female condoms

You must separate these issues into different threads for us to give advice. Oh, and this is useless w/o pics of his dick.

THREAD CLOSED

by Anonymousreply 1509/17/2010

No, not trolling. A regular poster here.

Thanks R10--Magnum XLs are what we used, they help a little, but he was still unable to maintain an erection during fucking (oral, jacking, etc. no problem).

Also, thanks R12 for the link.

by Anonymousreply 1609/17/2010

R15 spotted all the correct markers but one...

Gay men use female condoms -- because you know that's what we really are. Check.

We sleep with married men with kids. Check.

Imaginary cock allegedly so big Magnum condoms hurt. Check.

Trolling, trolling, trolling...

by Anonymousreply 1709/17/2010

I simply adore r8.

by Anonymousreply 1809/17/2010

OP being a "regular poster" who pays to start threads doesn't mean you're not a troll. Your kind is all over the place, even paying to start threads about how to start threads that get responses.

If your post is real, you're sick for what you're doing.

You'd rather be that than a troll?

Sick.

by Anonymousreply 1909/17/2010

Married people usually use the pill, r7.

by Anonymousreply 2009/17/2010

and: use some lube on his cock before you put on the condom, and them more over the condom.... it will feel better to him while "pumping" your tight white anal opening.

by Anonymousreply 2109/17/2010

They MUST sell condoms large enough somewhere online!

by Anonymousreply 2209/17/2010

try the lambskin condoms. They will be "big enough" and provide good sensation.

by Anonymousreply 2309/17/2010

Jesus H., don't use lambskin. They'll keep your ass from getting pregnant, but they aren't going to protect you from HIV or anything else.

by Anonymousreply 2409/17/2010

Bullshit...

by Anonymousreply 2509/17/2010

How are you supposed to shit with a female condom in your ass?

by Anonymousreply 2609/17/2010

interesting!

by Anonymousreply 2711/11/2012

"To his great credit, he is NOT pressuring me to bareback."

That's what you should expect from him It should not be cause to marvel at his being such a stand up guy.

by Anonymousreply 2811/12/2012

OP, why don't you just ask his wife? I'm sure she'd love to tell you how to slip a condYm into your gash and take her husband's cockadoodledoo.

BTW, I use magnum XL's but they tend to break cause I'm pretty thick. They do have some condoms that are extra wide...and some that are shaped a little differently (thicker at the head or the base for instance).

by Anonymousreply 2911/12/2012
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