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Is the codification of the whole "bear" subculture thing a recent development? Went to a bear party last night. It's scary how they all look exactly the same, it's like goth kids. They seem pretty snooty sometimes too.

by Anonymousreply 15709/11/2013

Oh, they do not all look alike. If you really went to a bear club you'd've seen cubs, chasers, chubs, BHM, BBM, muscle bears, otters, manatees, and dawgs.

by Anonymousreply 108/01/2010

recent? No. where the shit have you been? Subcultures and cliques have been doing this for...well, i'd venture since the invention of human culture. It was never about being some kind of individual, its about being part of that subculture.

by Anonymousreply 208/01/2010

I never understood why racial subcategories of bears never took on the appropriately-matched real-life bear signifier: polar bear (white men), black bear (black men), brown bear (Latino men).

Too easy?

by Anonymousreply 308/01/2010

r2, i meant this specific subculture, you drooling moron

by Anonymousreply 408/01/2010

I thought that Latino "bears" were called "tigers".

i don't get into the zoology but I like hairy guys.

by Anonymousreply 508/01/2010

When did "bear" become a catch-all for fat, out of shape, old fags? %0D %0D At one point, "bears" at least had facial hair, wore Levis and flannel shirts...kinda like a butch lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 608/01/2010

The original gay bear couple:

by Anonymousreply 708/01/2010

r6, it happened when the men of the Girth & Mirth movement got sick of attitudes like yours, so they folded their more-political group under the more neutral "bears" banner.

by Anonymousreply 808/01/2010

WTF is a manatee? A hairless obese queen with a scarification fetish?

by Anonymousreply 908/01/2010

Polar bears are bear daddies with white hair. Ginger bears are redheads.

by Anonymousreply 1008/01/2010

Its called "fat" in the straight world.

by Anonymousreply 1108/01/2010


by Anonymousreply 1208/01/2010

Seriously, when did the whole "bear" thing start? I think I remember them from the seventies, but were they around before that?

by Anonymousreply 1308/01/2010

R11 that is normal in straight world. In gay world.....well, call it a label of desperate decoration.

by Anonymousreply 1408/01/2010

All of my 3 exes have been bearish but not part of the bear culture. Just shlubby egghead types with beards and bellies. They found the real bear culture to be a bunch of cliquish dummies.%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 1508/01/2010

Mid-'80s. Though Les Wright, PhD would argue it wasn't long after the expulsion from the Garden.

by Anonymousreply 1608/01/2010

Bears are indeed very snooty to non-bears. It's a self-defense thing. %0D %0D I've told this tale before, but .... I was at a bar one night and make the mistake of smiling at a bear. The fat freak sneered and turned his back to me.%0D %0D I was feeling good that night and was just being friendly. All I did was smile. I wasn't hitting on him or even trying to talk to him.%0D %0D There's nothing about me that would turn someone off. I'm clean, presentable, friendly, reasonably attractive. But this guy decided to be a cunt and go all mean girl.

by Anonymousreply 1708/01/2010

R17 - I agree. Being a "bear" is a total defense mechanism for fat people.

True actual bears from other countries must be appalled when they come here and see these unshaven lard asses with attitudes.

And I find all of these animal terms fucking ridiculous - otter, bear, cub. It just seems so Garanimalish.

by Anonymousreply 1808/01/2010

"True actual bears from other countries must be appalled when they come here and see these unshaven lard asses with attitudes."

OMG I fucking love this. "True actual bears from other countries..."?

What the fuck?

by Anonymousreply 1908/01/2010

This is how they like to party -

by Anonymousreply 2008/01/2010

Being overweight is the #1 Cardinal Sin of Gay World.

The Bear movement is more of Gay version of the Fat Acceptance trend.

by Anonymousreply 2108/01/2010

For all the bulk and hair, I find them rather sexless. Somehow fat sucks up your manhood- literally.

by Anonymousreply 2208/01/2010

What's a manatee? What's an otter? Please tell!

by Anonymousreply 2308/01/2010

I disagree, I find the fatless the sexless ones - mean, lean and anal-retentive.

by Anonymousreply 2408/01/2010

otter = thin, furry

manatee = corpulent, hairless.

by Anonymousreply 2508/01/2010

[quote]manatee = corpulent, hairless.

Oh, that sounds so nasty - and not in a good way.

by Anonymousreply 2608/01/2010

Manatee is a cruel name coined by Andrew Holleran in one of his self-loathing books. He used the word to describe himself and other men like him and whined and whined about how nobody finds him attractive.

by Anonymousreply 2708/01/2010

" It's scary how they all look exactly the same"

And no gay men in Chelsea or WeHo look like each other.

by Anonymousreply 2808/01/2010

As a PROUD member of the bear community, I resent this culturally biased thread. If these insults were hurled at any other group it would be flat out racism.

Your own internal homophobia is disgusting, OP.

by Anonymousreply 2908/01/2010

30 posts and no mention of a latino husbear? I'm shocked, ladies.

by Anonymousreply 3008/01/2010

Good Lord. MHB is a bear? I just don't even want to think about that.

by Anonymousreply 3108/01/2010

Weighed 248 this AM. All those consecutive days at the gym and rib eye dinners pay off, R31.

by Anonymousreply 3208/01/2010

UGH, I might need to shirk myself off bears then if she is

by Anonymousreply 3308/01/2010

omg kill it with fire.

by Anonymousreply 3408/01/2010

MHB = PROOF that bears are nasty QUEENS

by Anonymousreply 3508/01/2010

[quote]And I find all of these animal terms fucking ridiculous - otter, bear, cub. It just seems so Garanimalish.

That made me laugh.

Years ago, when I worked as a bartender, I got good and tired of the bears. The clones and the twinks may have been high maintenance, but they tipped and generally recognized they were in a business transaction.

The bears used the place for their monthly meetings, held beer busts, were the worst tippers and expected the most.

Men who bought drinks and never tipped actually approach and try to sell me raffle tickets for a stuffed bear or whatever. Fine, don't tip, but please don't expect me to support your organization.

The sad thing was there were always a couple of bears who knew how badly the other bears behaved and made a point of being extra friendly (not just "woofing"), overtipping, and just overcompensating by being extra nice guys.

Overall, though, for an "accepting" community I found them cliquish and not interested in meeting or socializing with anyone who wasn't just like them...which was sad, because I though the whole point of the bear thing was to recognize that gay men were diverse.

by Anonymousreply 3608/01/2010

No, no, no!%0D %0D otter = thin, hairless to lighly-furred%0D %0D wolf = thin, hairy

by Anonymousreply 3708/01/2010

I had no idea I was a wolf.

by Anonymousreply 3808/01/2010

you bitches don't start up that ridiculous intercene otter v. wolf warfare.

It has marred way too many Sundays at The Eagle, and I won't allow it here on DL.

by Anonymousreply 3908/01/2010

r30, it's Blatino husbear

by Anonymousreply 4008/01/2010

[quote]It has marred way too many Sundays at The Eagle, and I won't allow it here on DL.

Oh great--DL has its own Dowager Empress.

by Anonymousreply 4108/02/2010

That guy at 0.55 in r20's link looked way outta place, strange he was even let in.

by Anonymousreply 4208/02/2010

r17, you're judging the entire community based on one rude person's psychology. Have you ever found a community/group where every single person is mentally sound and well-mannered?

by Anonymousreply 4308/02/2010

All guys have hair on their body. In America BEAR means fat.

by Anonymousreply 4408/02/2010

[quote] polar bear (white men)%0D %0D Polar bears are grey or white haired bears, R3. Older bears. Daddy bears. It does not signify a white bear. Most of bear culture is pretty white to begin with.%0D %0D Black bear does refer to a bear of African descent, and Brown bear refers to Latinos. I've heard of Asian bears being referred to as Panda bears, but I've never actually seen an Asian bear.%0D %0D I learned all this in Ptown during bear week several years ago.%0D %0D Also, I don't think all bears look alike. There is a stereotypical "look" to guys who identify strongly with the bear identity and are active in the bear scene, but bears as a physical type (naturally hairy and usually with more than 8% body fat) really run the gamut. Bear culture, though, tends to be a bit cliquish and monolithic.

by Anonymousreply 4508/02/2010

[italic]All guys have hair on their body.[/italic]%0D %0D Thanks for the hot tip, Charles Darwin. %0D %0D "Bear" refers to men who have visible, usually copious amounts of body hair on their legs, arms and torso. It most often refers to men who are physically larger than the average, especially the gay male average. It may apply to men who are stocky, muscular, "beefy", "fit-fat" or just overweight, to varying degrees.

by Anonymousreply 4608/02/2010

Fat guys with no hair refer to themselves as bears too because "bear" deems it acceptable to be fat, just like fat guys will call themselves "football player build" in a hookup ad.

by Anonymousreply 4708/02/2010

The whole plethora of names for different classes of bear is part of the ridiculousness of the whole scene to me. It's like lesbians with all their stupid labels. It's hilarious seeing lesbians lately discovering "femme"-ness, etc.

by Anonymousreply 4808/02/2010

We have our own flag too. It's a rainbow of hair color tones with a bear paw on it. The Bi flag is tri-coloured and goes from pink to white.

by Anonymousreply 4908/02/2010

[quote]It has marred way too many Sundays at The Eagle, and I won't allow it here on DL.

Eagle? Honey, they don't allow vaginas in the Eagle. Or in your case, vagine's.

by Anonymousreply 5008/02/2010

"I've never actually seen an Asian bear."%0D %0D I think they're endangered.%0D

by Anonymousreply 5108/02/2010

My earliest recollections of "bear" (early 1980s) the reference was more often to a hairy man than to the R20 image (and thicker.) %0D %0D [quote]For all the bulk and hair, I find them rather sexless.%0D %0D There's something to that, but I think it applies equally if not more to the Leather set -- who invest so much in uniforms and subcultural mores and arcana that the sex/sexy part falls to the wayside.

by Anonymousreply 5208/02/2010

"bears as a physical type (naturally hairy and usually with more than 8% body fat)"%0D %0D 8% body fat is very low. That'd be a pretty slim person.

by Anonymousreply 5308/02/2010

R 36 nailed it Exactly

by Anonymousreply 5408/02/2010

Bitch, please. Leather is just drag with sweat and chains.

by Anonymousreply 5508/02/2010

My dream bear.

by Anonymousreply 5608/02/2010

"fit-fat"? You have got to be kidding! Is this McDonalds new marketing campaign term for Obese?

It is truly amazing how people find new ways to delude themselves.

by Anonymousreply 5708/02/2010

I prefer old bears too, r56, but I avoid them because I'm afraid they'd die on me. I know anyone can die, but how do you deal with the anxiety of your lover potentially losing their faculties or dying in their sleep?

by Anonymousreply 5808/02/2010

R57 is new here.%0D %0D "Fit-fat" is an old DLism describing muscular men with body fat.

by Anonymousreply 5908/02/2010

Bears = fat, hairy Heathers

by Anonymousreply 6008/02/2010

someone should do another fit-fat photo thread

by Anonymousreply 6108/02/2010

We call them "pandas," R 51.

by Anonymousreply 6208/02/2010

Yes, there are still many bears who are exclusively attracted to one type or another, like muscle-bears only going for other muscle-bears. Almost all men, gay or straight, are like this anyway. But overall, bears are friendlier than non-bears. You could definitely notice the difference during Bear Week in P-town. The place was significantly friendlier and less bitchy.

by Anonymousreply 6308/02/2010

Yeah, R56--the crix-belly is especially attractive.

by Anonymousreply 6408/02/2010

I love that R56 is 'happily partnered for 17 years', yet posts all kinds of naked pics of himself online. Nothing like an old whore who thinks it's 1974 all over again.

by Anonymousreply 6508/02/2010

R59 The term muscular with body fat is an oxymoron. (technically Olympic athletes have body fat too) Fit Fat is a head game, it is a dangerous head game, like a drug user saying he is not an addict, because he doesn't do it every 3rd Tuesday that has no even numbers in the date. Play the head game if you don't have the self control to actually lose the weight, but your health knows better and you know better too.

by Anonymousreply 6608/02/2010

r66, how would *you* describe/explain a muscular guy who has slightly gone to seed? Where you can see all the spectacular muscles and the little layer of good livin' on top of them?

by Anonymousreply 6708/02/2010

I love the way powerlifters look, but I'd never be in a relationship with one because they all seem to die young from enlarged hearts.

by Anonymousreply 6808/02/2010

[quote]Fit Fat is a head game, it is a dangerous head game%0D %0D %0D %0D Not at all. R67 described it perfectly. These are not men who are obese or unhealthy. Many are ex athletes. They have a lot of muscle but they don't have the unhealthy 4% body fat that body builders strive for so you can't see the muscle definition as well. They have a healthy amount of fat on their bodies. In fact muscle bears are much healthier than the average roided out gym rat.

by Anonymousreply 6908/02/2010

if by all looking alike, you mean that they are all hairy men with facial hair, then perhaps you might consider that smooth men without facial hair bear a complementary similarity.

by Anonymousreply 7008/02/2010

"Bear culture, though, tends to be a bit cliquish and monolithic."

Much like other gay subcultures.

by Anonymousreply 7108/02/2010

I can't bear this thread a second longer. Ha,ha!

by Anonymousreply 7208/02/2010

R51 wins W&W.

by Anonymousreply 7308/02/2010

Is R66 comparing a guy who is in decent shape but carries 10-20 extra pounds (which is roughly what "fit-fat" refers to) a drug addict?


by Anonymousreply 7408/02/2010

My mother has been kinda flabby since her 30s, and is now 84 and in pretty good health. I have never witnessed her performing anything that remotely resembles formal exercise ever in her life. Naturally, she has never set foot in a gym. %0D %0D Gay gym-queens and fitness Nazis are delusional if they think that being a bit overweight is some kind of death sentence.

by Anonymousreply 7508/02/2010

No, he doesn't, R73. What is up with all these horrible W&W posts lately?%0D %0D There is no way that R56's guy is 47, as he claims. I'd say he's not a day younger than 55.

by Anonymousreply 7608/02/2010

This looks cuddly -

by Anonymousreply 7708/02/2010

The vast majority of men who call themselves "bears" are not a bit overweight, they are morbidly obese. A bit overweight is 5lbs.

by Anonymousreply 7808/02/2010

Medically, the term clinically obese refers to anyone who is 30 lbs over their "height/weight" range limit.

I would take a guess and say that over 60% of the bear community fit this description.

by Anonymousreply 7908/02/2010

I have a friend that went bear. Now he won't hang out with us anymore. If it's not a bear thing, he won't go.

by Anonymousreply 8008/03/2010

Everything is a clique. Even the "outsiders" are a clique. I have lived in several different cities and have traveled all over the world and I have yet to meet someone who was completely original and unique. It's ALL been done before.

by Anonymousreply 8108/03/2010

Bears on the loose!

by Anonymousreply 8208/04/2010

"Medically, the term clinically obese refers to anyone who is 30 lbs over their "height/weight" range limit.

I would take a guess and say that over 60% of the bear community fit this description."

99% is techincally over 60%

by Anonymousreply 8308/04/2010

R81, your logic is flawed. Or you don't know the definition of clique.%0D %0D Just because its all been done before and it is difficult/unlikely/impossible to be completely original or unique -- that doesn't mean that every person is a member of a clique.%0D %0D "Outsiders" or "loners" are by definition not "joiners" and therefore not members of cliques. Even most "normal" people may have a circle of friends and follow certain conventions without being members of cliques.%0D %0D Bears, on the other hand, seem more likely to be members of cliques (in my very limited experience).

by Anonymousreply 8408/04/2010

John Waters shows you what bears are about:

by Anonymousreply 8508/04/2010

The bottom line is these are the men who were naturally good-looking and in-shape when they were younger and being ***GAY*** made them the very definition of trendy. %0D %0D Now they are fat fucks in their forties and fifties so rather than being realistic about life, they are creating "trendy" names for themselves.%0D %0D The recent issue of Out Magazine features a photo of 4 gay bears, at least 2 of them fit the above description perfectly.

by Anonymousreply 8608/04/2010

"And I am not naing htem."

Well, OK, darlin'!

by Anonymousreply 8708/04/2010

SO, what's the difference between a bear and a hairy mary? Is there one?

by Anonymousreply 8808/04/2010

I once had a bear (25, looked 45) telling me about some all-bear camping vacation he took with several dozen Ursine-Americans.

There was a hot tub at the lodge, and every night they'd squeeze as many of themselves into it as possible, a phenomenon he called "Bear Soup."

by Anonymousreply 8908/04/2010

fuck, if you go back to the 70s, before the craze of smooth feminized male beauty crept in, a lot of what men and women found desirable in men was more akin to the contemporary bear than the contemporary twink.

Obesity is not healthy, but not all bears are obese, some are in excellent shape. If you disagree with that than that disagreement is merely semantic, and, if, as is your wont, they are not called bears, handsome hairy masculine guys still rock.

This, of course, is not to encourage any kind of clique or to say that men who are smooth and or feminine and or in the blush of youth can't be desirable.

by Anonymousreply 9008/04/2010

Please, Ernest Borgnine is the textbook definition of a bear and he's pushing 100.

by Anonymousreply 9108/04/2010

And the memory of his cock still makes me shudder, R91!

by Anonymousreply 9208/04/2010

I like to hang out with Bears mostly because they're friendlier, not because I'm exclusively attracted to hairy men. Plus they don't judge me harshly or give me the evil eye because I'm fat, like ALL other gay men do. And I'm not exaggerating in the slightest by saying ALL. Young, fit, white, gay men are the shallowest humans on the planet. In the eyes of most bears I'm not even that fat, just about average. %0D %0D That makes me feel good. So that's enough for me to stick with the bears.

by Anonymousreply 9308/04/2010

IMHO bears/beefy/fit-guys are the most beautiful men in the world.

by Anonymousreply 9408/04/2010

[quote]I have lived in several different cities and have traveled all over the world and I have yet to meet someone who was completely original and unique.

I have this intuitive feeling R81 that anyone original and unique would give you a wide berth.

by Anonymousreply 9508/05/2010

Bear pile!

by Anonymousreply 9608/06/2010


by Anonymousreply 9708/08/2010

LOL 81, that's true to a point!%0D %0D I love hot stocky bears myselof. IMO they can be the hottest most naturally masculine gay men (but I don't fetishize them, and can date a more slender guy) Just like in ANY subculture, there are fetishists and people who try WAY to hard to be macho or "bear-like". When I think "lumberjack" or REAL football or rugby players, many of them fall into the category of "bear". That's just their natural body type. %0D %0D What's funny is that stereotypial queens are usually smallish and insecure about that and bears are largish and insecure about that. All of it is a re-projection of the fact that society does not want gay men (or any minorites for that matter) to be truly comfotable in their own skin. Thus you have these endless LAM arguments about what it "means" to be a bear or a whatever. WHO THE FUCK CARES. Truly comfortable people fuck whomever turns them on and don't look around for approval or feel the need to go on and on about what they DON'T like. Queer men need to stop categorizing themselves by the purely visual and maybe we'd get somewhere.%0D %0D One interesting thing though- bears tnd to be more likely to partner up and are less bickering and prone to breaking up over bullshit than MOST club queens. Not sure if that's nec the best thing, but it's definite thing I noticed andwas actually shocked by since the stereotype of bears is that they are polyamorous piggish sluts. perhaps becasuse some bears are too lazy to break-up? lol duhknow. Then again, bears tend to be more politically conservative and disdainful of naturally feminine men. It's all so stupid and petty.

by Anonymousreply 9808/08/2010

Bear type here, and sadly the whole bear scene is very tiring. Lots of guys look similar, true, just like any other subculture. I guess my gripe is that about 5 years ago, "bear" became a catch-all for any fat guy - from butch truly masculine guys to the nelliest of queens. Just like queens with little tweety-bird and a superman logo tattoos refers to himself as "tatted up", it is a misrepresentation of the origin of the phrase. %0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 9908/08/2010

Hey! I go for big hairy guys! You can fuck your own pussy as far as I care

by Anonymousreply 10008/08/2010

This what a bear [italic]should[/italic] look like:

by Anonymousreply 10108/09/2010

[quote]I have a friend that went bear. Now he won't hang out with us anymore. If it's not a bear thing, he won't go.%0D %0D It can be rather like the cult of AA, a not-so-secret society where everyone is either inside or outside a circle. Differing body types or tastes in body types have much less to do with it than whether someone wants to enlist in the program and follow The True Path.

by Anonymousreply 10208/09/2010

Like the critters in George Orwell's Animal Farm, all bears are equal but some bears are more equal than others. It used to be that all bears were equally accepted, then muscle bears came along and all of a sudden they became Alpha Bears. Now local bars advertise "bear night" with photos of twinks who let their chest hairs grow, UGH!

by Anonymousreply 10308/09/2010

MHB we've seen your sorry skinny ass and your snaggy face, don't forget, we have SEEN it. So your pretending to be something you're not (again) and taking a stance in that pose in order to be provocative, is not only not, it's pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 10408/09/2010

Bears, wolves, manatees and otter... oh, my!

by Anonymousreply 10508/09/2010

Asian and African men don't tend to be particularly hairy-bodied, but they certainly can be bearish. The current Dalai Lama is definitely a panda. Dr. David Suzuki and the later Toshiro Mifune also strike me that way.

by Anonymousreply 10608/09/2010

R103, gay bars won't get any customers if they advertise a bunch of flat, sloppy men in the local bar rags. You show a hot muscle boy with a little hair on his chest and the chubbys will show up anyway.

by Anonymousreply 10708/10/2010

"then muscle bears came along and all of a sudden they became Alpha Bears"

As it should be.

by Anonymousreply 10808/10/2010

Over the past 15 years, morbidly obese gay men discovered they didn't have to live sexless lives: they just had to grow beards and waddle their unkempt XXXXL asses into the bear scene.

Given this, it is natural that men who were fit/hairy would need to do some self-selection.

by Anonymousreply 10908/10/2010

The clones who survived the 70s and 80s are all bears now, still all looking the same - I'm one myself !

by Anonymousreply 11008/10/2010

The clones who survived the 70s all died of old age by now. That was 40 years ago.

R109 has a point. Bear is really a soft term for fat.

by Anonymousreply 11108/10/2010

"It used to be that all bears were equally accepted..."

No. It never used to be that way.

by Anonymousreply 11208/12/2010

I don't understand the whole animal name thing. It's so clinical. They're objectifying themselves deliberately, and it's terrifying.

by Anonymousreply 11302/04/2012

Ha! MHB is a bear! Right. She looks more like one of those Chinese hairless cats.

by Anonymousreply 11402/04/2012

What the hell is David Suzuki doing on a DL bear thread?

by Anonymousreply 11502/04/2012

I'd been attending "bear" events and fucking fat hairy men since the early 90s when I first came out.

I still like the look, but I've grown beyond tired of the bear scene over the past few years. Probably because I stopped enjoying bars and sex with strangers.

The Bear subculture is just like any other gay sub group, insular, cliquish and often very impressed with itself.

by Anonymousreply 11602/04/2012

[quote]I'd been attending "bear" events and fucking fat hairy men since the early 90s when I first came out.

I guess all those people are elderbears at this point?

by Anonymousreply 11702/04/2012

R117 The ones that are still alive.

by Anonymousreply 11802/04/2012

Bears usually hate women!

by Anonymousreply 11902/04/2012

Andrew Sullivan wrote that because bears are indistinguishable in mannerism and appearance from straight men, that makes them a threat to the hetero-orthodoxy.

by Anonymousreply 12002/04/2012

John Goodman is a bear.

by Anonymousreply 12102/04/2012

Ok....I define myself as a bear. I'm not obese, but I AM "sturdy" "beefy" or whatever euphemism you wish to use. I have natural musculature because---hold on to your pearls, Nelly---I do physical labor to earn a living ( and make damn good money, so there neener neener neener!) Now, living what most of you sneeringly refer to as "flyover country", I haven't been exposed to a lot of club queens, gym fags, or what have you. Most of the gay men in my neck of the woods--and I mean woods in the literal sense--are what most of you would refer to as bears. Does geographical isolation from so—called gay "meccas" have something to do with such branding? Seriously---is it a “culture” thing? I don’t own a caftan or a Peggy Lee CD so I’m just wondering.

by Anonymousreply 12202/04/2012

"Most of the gay men in my neck of the woods... are what most of you would refer to as bears"

Married guys in Flyover, IA- on the downlow? They always hate "sissies".

by Anonymousreply 12302/04/2012

To me, this is perfection, but would these guys be considered bears?

by Anonymousreply 12406/28/2013

Plenty of bears in the city, too, r122. But they tend to be of the muscleMary variety. Love my natural bears.

by Anonymousreply 12506/28/2013

what is a muscle mary?

by Anonymousreply 12606/28/2013

A muscle bear who opens his mouth and 20 yards of pink chiffon, a string of pearls and vintage silk change purse fall out.

by Anonymousreply 12706/28/2013

Not just girlie, but very put on. Spends hours at the gym every day. I refer a beefy build that comes from working outside.

by Anonymousreply 12806/28/2013


by Anonymousreply 12906/28/2013

(R3) panda bear is used for Asian bears

by Anonymousreply 13006/28/2013

Once they drop the macho act, they become Edna Turnblad

by Anonymousreply 13106/28/2013

Does anyone know where I can find a full-frontal nude of this guy?

(same guy in the pic R124 above and, again, I don't know if he would be considered a bear or not).

by Anonymousreply 13206/28/2013

I hooked up with a hot ginger bear. Usually not my type but he was very eager to please.

by Anonymousreply 13306/28/2013

and ginger bears are the horniest

by Anonymousreply 13407/09/2013

this hottie from "where the dumb bears are" I recall when he lived in Philly.

by Anonymousreply 13507/09/2013

Bears are nasty (physically and behaviorally) little bitches.

by Anonymousreply 13607/09/2013

I was really obese for a while and have lost 80 pounds. My therapist was trying to convince me when I was fat that there were always bears. I wasn't attracted to that type though. Just because you're fat enough doesn't mean you're interested in bear culture or that type.

by Anonymousreply 13707/09/2013

I hate when fat guys turn me down.

by Anonymousreply 13807/09/2013

I hate when fat guys slap my face

by Anonymousreply 13907/09/2013

I need some hairy bear hole to munch on.

by Anonymousreply 14007/10/2013

I need some hairy bear to fuck me

by Anonymousreply 14107/10/2013

I needs to do sum huntin.

by Anonymousreply 14207/12/2013

For as much as their subculture is supposed to be about "average Joe drinking a sixpack," bears are some of the cattiest, biggest-chip-on-their-shoulder queens I come across.

by Anonymousreply 14307/12/2013

What to do when you come face to face with a massive 300 pound bear....

by Anonymousreply 14407/12/2013

bears want to be beautiful

by Anonymousreply 14507/12/2013

"Bears" are one of the most disgusting gay sub-"cultures".

by Anonymousreply 14607/12/2013


[quote]Married guys in Flyover, IA- on the downlow? They always hate "sissies".

Flyover, IA - you mean where same-sex marriage has been legal since 2009?

by Anonymousreply 14707/13/2013

guys with bellies

by Anonymousreply 14807/13/2013

They're not fat just " stocky ex-football or rugby players".

by Anonymousreply 14907/13/2013

big beards

by Anonymousreply 15007/13/2013

Fat and over exposed

by Anonymousreply 15108/05/2013

Fat, hairy Heathers.

by Anonymousreply 15208/05/2013


by Anonymousreply 15309/07/2013

They scare Stephen Colbert.

by Anonymousreply 15409/07/2013

Dear Lord in Heaven!!

by Anonymousreply 15509/07/2013

When is bear week in p town? Im craving some hairy hole.

by Anonymousreply 15609/11/2013

More than 8%'body fat makes you a bear? WTF?

by Anonymousreply 15709/11/2013
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