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Celebrity top and bottoms

Which celebrities are tops, and which ones are bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 22307/21/2013

How can you tell?

by Anonymousreply 106/22/2010

Tops raise their right leg when kissing.

by Anonymousreply 206/22/2010

Barrowman = bottom

by Anonymousreply 306/22/2010

DL fav, NPH is vers.

by Anonymousreply 406/22/2010

Andy Cohen ===> BOSSY BOTTOM Taylor Lautner ===> Bottom Colton Haynes ===> Big old sloppy whore BOTTOM Bruce Willis ===> Top Tom Cruise ===> Whimpering, simpering pathetic mess of a bottom John Travolta ===> Vers Top Hugh Jackman ===> Foul Mouthed Top Will Smith ===> Top Eddie Murphy ===> Bottoms for Trannies Jake Gyllenhaal ===> Top Austin Nichols ===> Bottom Hayden Christensen ===> Bottom Zac Efron ===> Pass around bottom for black guys

by Anonymousreply 506/22/2010

I thought this thread was going to comment on celebrities who can't match their shirts with their pants.

by Anonymousreply 606/22/2010

I think r8 is right on about 90% of those

by Anonymousreply 706/22/2010

Let me make r5’s list more realistic and accurate

Andy Cohen ===> BOSSY BOTTOM

Taylor Lautner ===> NOT GAY

Colton Haynes ===> NOT GAY

Bruce Willis ===> Top

Tom Cruise ===> Whimpering, simpering pathetic mess of a bottom

John Travolta ===> Vers Top

Hugh Jackman ===> NOT GAY

Will Smith ===> Top

Eddie Murphy ===> Bottoms for Trannies

Jake Gyllenhaal ===> NOT GAY

Austin Nichols ===> don't know

Hayden Christensen ===> NOT GAY

Zac Efron ===> NOT GAY

by Anonymousreply 806/23/2010

R8 eats old peoples' excrement.

by Anonymousreply 906/23/2010

R3 is right, as Barrowman has joked about it in an interview. He was on Johnathan Ross and there was this weird exercise machine that looks like mechanical bull and he joked that he had one but "mine has attachments" Hence, he is a bottom. The rest of y'all are just guessing!

by Anonymousreply 1006/23/2010

Matthew Bomer = bottom.

by Anonymousreply 1106/23/2010

Neil Patrick Harris - vers. top

by Anonymousreply 1206/23/2010

My pussy stinks!

by Anonymousreply 1306/23/2010

After watching BM, i think Jake is bottom.

by Anonymousreply 1406/23/2010


by Anonymousreply 1506/23/2010

Jake was playing a role in BBM. Got it????

by Anonymousreply 1606/23/2010

Zachary Quinto-Vers.

by Anonymousreply 1706/23/2010

Will Smith is a bottom. I heard from a very good source that he and Tammy use a very large black double-dong until they butt kiss.

by Anonymousreply 1806/23/2010

Only gays like R9 will used such words, its okay to disagree on DL you sad person

by Anonymousreply 1906/23/2010

I use my Twilight barbies as dildos.

by Anonymousreply 2006/23/2010

Jake Gyllenhaal = power bottom

by Anonymousreply 2106/23/2010

R16, Jake Gyllenhaal was bearding with Reese Witherspoon. Got it????

by Anonymousreply 2206/23/2010

R12 so David Burtka is a vers bottom?

by Anonymousreply 2306/23/2010

As stated on another thread, Chris Meloni is a bottom.

by Anonymousreply 2406/23/2010

Ricky Martin = top or versatile? "I have said this before on here and I'll say it again...I know someone personally who used to date/live with Ricky in CA. It was years 15 or so. Ricky met this person thru a mutual friend and they became inseperable...dated for a long time on the dl. My acquaintance is a total bottom, so I am guessing that means Ricky is Tops...or was. Also,this person has photos of the two of them together, but has always refused to sell them or publish them. Says he cared too much for Ricky to do that to him...I think he got paid off, but that's another story."

by Anonymousreply 2506/23/2010

I think it pretty much goes without saying that Taylor Hanson is the biggest bottom around these parts. Both literally and metaphorically speaking.

by Anonymousreply 2606/23/2010

I guess I must live in a totally alternate universe, because I've known very few guys in my life who are clearly defined tops or bottoms. Most of the guys I've known are versatile, with oral sex leading in the preference department. (I think even an Advocate sex survey a few years back confirmed that a large percentage of respondents stated that they preferred oral over anything else.)

So why it's necessary to automatically assume that a guy is either/or is beyond me.

by Anonymousreply 2706/23/2010


I think it's because a lot of DLers are older, and in generations past, top = "real man", bottom = "sister"

by Anonymousreply 2806/23/2010

top= bottom

vers= bottom

bottom= bottom

by Anonymousreply 2906/23/2010

R20 i dont do what you said, but the truth is, you are a queen who sleeps with men which is not normal

by Anonymousreply 3006/23/2010

R8 has no gaydar. Even my grandma can tell that Taylor Lautner is gay.

by Anonymousreply 3106/23/2010

He is, r23.

by Anonymousreply 3206/23/2010

R21, what is a power bottom?

by Anonymousreply 3306/23/2010

Well, R33, bottoms can take an active or passive role. Sort of like a female who just lies there and gets it, versus one who gets on top and rides it like she's on a bucking bronco. So a power bottom is a very active bottom who works that dick like there's no tomorrow. There's also a bossy bottom who tells the top what to do and how to do it. Very verbal.

by Anonymousreply 3406/24/2010

Meloni a bottom? I don't see it. Especially if he's still with Lee Tergesen.

by Anonymousreply 3506/24/2010

Why not, R35? Personally, I can see him being a power bottom. He shows off his way too much. I can't remember on what thread it was but there was a poster who said that he is and that his wife knew.

by Anonymousreply 3606/24/2010

^shows off his ass

by Anonymousreply 3706/24/2010


by Anonymousreply 3806/24/2010

I cant get a read on Ricky either. He probably doesnt bottom that much.

by Anonymousreply 3906/24/2010

Dick Van Dyke, Top Jerry Van Dyke, Bottom

by Anonymousreply 4006/24/2010

Can't believe nobody's mentioned the queen of all bottoms yet--Anderson Cooper. Pretty fucking obvious by looking at his dating history. Not to mention, looking at HIM.

by Anonymousreply 4106/24/2010

I suck pus out of ass pimples.

by Anonymousreply 4206/24/2010

R41, there are a few rumors out there that Anderson's a top or at least a versatile bottom.

by Anonymousreply 4306/24/2010

How dare there be a thread on tops/bottoms and mention of power bottoms and no mention of me!!!!

by Anonymousreply 4406/24/2010

wasn't there a rumor many years ago that Jason Priestly was a pass around bottom party boy before he became famous?

I would love to get in on that!

Even now!

by Anonymousreply 4506/24/2010


Hm. I'd always assumed "power bottom" meant x liked to be fisted, double penetrated etc.

by Anonymousreply 4606/24/2010

Mmmm Original 90210 meat!

by Anonymousreply 4706/24/2010

No honey Jason Priestly was a top in his trade days.

by Anonymousreply 4806/24/2010

really? A Top?

How's about a story?

by Anonymousreply 4906/24/2010

Nathan Lane is a powerbottom

by Anonymousreply 5006/24/2010

R10 - I think you may be the only person on here saying something true... not speculation.

I saw that episode of Jonathan Ross (I love Wossy AND Barrowman) and when he said the "mine has attachements" line I immeditatly thought he must be a bottom! (Which works for me because I'm a top! LOL)

by Anonymousreply 5106/24/2010

According to some bio I read, Liberace was a TOP (believe it or not) and supposedly really wild in bed

by Anonymousreply 5206/24/2010


Thanks, you've just given me a mental picture of Nathan Lane "riding cowboy-style".

by Anonymousreply 5306/24/2010

R52, I wonder if he had tacky diamond encrusted sex toys?

by Anonymousreply 5406/24/2010

How come there are no threads about Robert Buckley? I've been vaguely aware of him but I only saw him in motion for the first time in this interview. Pings!

by Anonymousreply 5506/24/2010

Wrong thread, r55

by Anonymousreply 5606/24/2010

who else?

by Anonymousreply 5709/04/2010

Zac Efron is the Johnny Weir of actors. Need I say more.

Welsey Snipe = Bottom

David Geffen = Top

Elijah Wood = Bottom

Dominic Monaghan = Bottom

Prince = Versatile-Weirdly so.

Hayden Christensen = Bottom (obviously)

Kenney Chesney = Bottom

by Anonymousreply 5809/04/2010

What about Ron Corning?

by Anonymousreply 5909/04/2010

Tom Hardy is a bottom.%0D %0D %0D "I thought I'd have a little bit of a party, and I'd end up high and frightened, in places that scared me. In a blackout I could end up anywhere. I might wake up somewhere the other side of London, or in another country. Or in bed with someone I didn't know, not knowing how I got there. Bleeding. This was on a daily basis."

by Anonymousreply 6009/04/2010

Zac Efron-bottom

by Anonymousreply 6109/04/2010

I wonder if he asked the bottom to balance a candelabra on his back, r54.

by Anonymousreply 6209/04/2010

Andy Warhol - bottom Truman Capote - bottom William S. Burroughs - top Gore Vidal - top Allen Ginsberg - vers bottom Luchino Visconti - top R.W. Fassbinder - vers Christoper Isherwood - vers Jean Genet - bottom in young age, top in older age Andre Gide - gOy

by Anonymousreply 6309/04/2010

Do you know about Zeffirelli, R63? I'm guessing bottom.

by Anonymousreply 6409/04/2010

I have Ricky Martin is a power bottom, which is fortunate considering he has such a tiny peenykins.

by Anonymousreply 6509/04/2010

Rufus wainwright said he was a bottom on Chelsea Lately. No surprise there. If Chesney is a bottom, who's banging him?

by Anonymousreply 6609/04/2010

Straight chick here with a silly question - what is a power bottom?

by Anonymousreply 6709/04/2010

So a power bottom is a very active bottom who works that dick like there's no tomorrow.%0D %0D Thanks for explaining, r34. So Randy Harrison from Queer as Folk fame is a power bottom according to the description you gave. I have first hand knowledge. ;-)

by Anonymousreply 6809/04/2010

Doesn't Jason Priestly have the largest dick in show business? Not that that means anything for this discussion . . .

by Anonymousreply 6909/04/2010

I'm probably wrong but I'd be willing to bet George Stephanopoulos is a big ol' bottom, maybe even a pussy bottom. Either way I'd like to hit it.

by Anonymousreply 7009/04/2010

Elijah Wood and Dom Monaghan can't both be bottoms - nothing would ever get done.

by Anonymousreply 7109/04/2010


by Anonymousreply 7209/04/2010

"Jake was playing a role in BBM. Got it????"%0D %0D Hey buddy have you actually SEEN any of Jake's other performaces? He cannot act his way out of a paper bag. BBM was Jake being Jake.

by Anonymousreply 7309/04/2010


by Anonymousreply 7409/05/2010

R59, I'd bet Corning is a bottom.

by Anonymousreply 7509/05/2010

George Michael, anyone know what he's into?%0D %0D His grindr profile is "Back For Wood", btw. Surely someone on this site has surely had him?

by Anonymousreply 7609/05/2010

R8 has posters of Jake and Hugh Jackman on her bedroom wall and R73 is bang on the money.

by Anonymousreply 7709/05/2010

Wentworth Miller is a bottom and a bossy one: you should hear his low whispering voice demanding his partner to pound harder and harder.

by Anonymousreply 7809/05/2010

Went doesn't sound like a bottom here, heck he doesn't even sound gay. If he is gay, he is a top; the strong, moody, silent type.

by Anonymousreply 7909/05/2010

[R28] = idiot.

Top / bottom is not something "older gays" dominate. Take a look at any hookup site. The number of 18-24 year old "bottoms" is hilarious.

Most of us become versatile over time.

And if you're going by DL -- full of not only women, people who have had no sex, and people refuse anal sex -- you have no basis for this stupidity. Especially since "younger gays" seem to be starting more and more posts around here.

So now I'll add a couple I know:

David Sutcliffe %C3%A2%C2%80%C2%93%C3%82%C2%A0versatile

Anderson Cooper - tends to be more of a bottom, but also versatile

by Anonymousreply 8009/05/2010

"Anderson Cooper - tends to be more of a bottom, but also versatile"

You mean versatile as in bisexual?

by Anonymousreply 8109/05/2010

81, needs to go back to ivillage where she belongs%0D %0D Here I'll help you. Bye!

by Anonymousreply 8209/05/2010

In line with r25, I think Ricky is versatile.%0D %0D Will Smith is a big ole bottom hunny!

by Anonymousreply 8309/05/2010

R79, there are plenty of butch bottoms

by Anonymousreply 8409/05/2010

Jake G is a bottom

by Anonymousreply 8509/05/2010

After years of hearing AC was a bottom, I've been seeing comments here and on Gawker and some other sites that say he's a top, like someone already says, that must mean versatile.

by Anonymousreply 8609/05/2010

let's hear more about David Sutcliffe

by Anonymousreply 8709/05/2010

Keanu is a passively aggresive bossy bottom.

by Anonymousreply 8809/05/2010

Chace Crawford bottom.

by Anonymousreply 8909/05/2010

David Sutcliff is gay?

by Anonymousreply 9009/06/2010

[quote]John Travolta ===> Vers Top

Get real.

by Anonymousreply 9109/06/2010

David Sutcliffe is bisexual.

His wife outed him.

by Anonymousreply 9209/06/2010

What did his wife say?!

by Anonymousreply 9309/06/2010

"Prince = Versatile-Weirdly so."

Why do you think that?

by Anonymousreply 9409/06/2010

R93 we've been over this several times.

His wife says "He's not straight, not gay." She posted that on imdb and her ID has been authenticated.

She apparently found out about his sex addiction (guys and girls) over a month into her marriage. They stayed married long enough for him to get his green card. She told about his fucking guys all over Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 9509/06/2010

How do you authenticate someone's ID on imdb?!

by Anonymousreply 9609/06/2010

First of all, she has posted all over imdb in response to fans of HERS as she is an actress and playboy with details specific to her life (how she got scarred, her body, her work).

Second, people who know her have backed up that it is her.

Finally, the stuff she posted on imdb (about his sleeping around with women and the outing of his sexuality) is consistent with what she said at her "divorce party" that was covered by Army Archerd. Some of us were there. It was a brazen move -- she held the party to celebrate her upcoming divorce months after she got married. She was pissed and if David had been well known then, it would have gotten more play.

by Anonymousreply 9709/06/2010

What about Van Hansis? I'm guessing bottom.

by Anonymousreply 9809/06/2010

Oprah - Top or Bottom?

by Anonymousreply 9909/06/2010

Top AND Bottom r99. At the same time.

by Anonymousreply 10009/06/2010

Johnny Weir is probably a bottom (though I'm guessing).

by Anonymousreply 10109/06/2010

Adam Lambert admitted that he's a top

by Anonymousreply 10209/08/2010

So, what do you think Anthony Recker, Brad Pitt and Matt Damon would be?

by Anonymousreply 10309/09/2010

Keanu is vers but I believe he used to prefer bottom.

by Anonymousreply 10409/09/2010

Just walked past the marquee for The Pee-wee Herman show on Broadway - Paul Reubens. Anyone know which he prefers? Also, what about that Queenie Genie of his?

by Anonymousreply 10509/10/2010

John Barrowman is a bottom, in that he has a greedy hole and enjoys getting fucked and hard. But he also has a big fat dick and loves getting it sucked by, and fucking (younger) men. I guess that makes him versatile?%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 10609/11/2010

Why does everyone think Barrowman is this huge whore? I think he's just a big flirt who talks a lot but is faithful to his bf Scott.

by Anonymousreply 10709/11/2010

The only thing Adam Lambert ever topped were a pair of D&G socks.

by Anonymousreply 10809/11/2010

r105, I'm guessing Reubens is a top and the guy who plays Jambi is probably a bottom. Just guessing.

by Anonymousreply 10911/20/2010

r108, have you ever seen any of Lambert's boyfriends? He's clearly a top.

by Anonymousreply 11011/20/2010

"Doesn't Jason Priestly have the largest dick in show business?"

I don't think so.

by Anonymousreply 11111/20/2010

I think I heard Paul Reubens is a power top.

by Anonymousreply 11211/20/2010

Recker and Pitt would be tops, but I would hope against hope Damon was versatile and we could trade off.

by Anonymousreply 11311/20/2010

Is Rufus Wainwright a top or a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 11411/20/2010

Why do you think that, R113?

by Anonymousreply 11511/21/2010

What about Taylor Lautner?

His looks and body tells me he's a top but his voice and mannerism tells me he's queeny bottom..

I'm also confused on Scott Caan

by Anonymousreply 11611/21/2010

The rumor is that Timberlake is a screaming bottom.%0D %0D Even though I've never seen any trustworthy confirmation of this, I choose to believe it because it makes my life better.

by Anonymousreply 11711/21/2010

George Clooney-top

Jake Gyllenhaal-top

Adam Lambert-top

by Anonymousreply 11812/08/2010

R2 only in Second Life ...

by Anonymousreply 11912/08/2010

Kevin Spacey - top.

by Anonymousreply 12012/08/2010

Madonna - top

by Anonymousreply 12112/08/2010

Is that Wendy Williams in the video clip at R55 a drag queen? I'm not familiar with her, though I've heard her name.

by Anonymousreply 12212/08/2010

Luke MacFarlane is a happy, bouncy top according to rumors. Wentworth Miller was the pillowprincess of his dreams. %0D %0D It is so sad they broke up.

by Anonymousreply 12312/09/2010

I dream of Michelle Forbes with a strap-on!!!!

by Anonymousreply 12412/09/2010

Most lesbians don't use straps-ons, you cunt!

by Anonymousreply 12512/09/2010

R84 the term 'butch' is only used by fems.

by Anonymousreply 12612/11/2010

Wendy Williams is not a drag queen.

by Anonymousreply 12712/11/2010

There are more bottoms than tops.

by Anonymousreply 12812/14/2010

"There are more bottoms than tops."%0D %0D %0D %0D Most people are versatile%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 12912/14/2010

I like to think of Taylor Lautner as being a bottom. Also Jake Gyllenhaal, since he so eloquently played one in "Brokeback Mountain".

by Anonymousreply 13012/14/2010

And can someone define "power bottom", please?

by Anonymousreply 13112/14/2010

What about Jonathan Groff?

by Anonymousreply 13212/14/2010

R132 He reminds me of Dan from Sean Cody. Since Dan was a bottom, Jonathan is one, too. =-)

by Anonymousreply 13312/14/2010

Why are there so many posts here asking what a power bottom is? Esp since it's answered a couple times too.%0D %0D And re "power bottoms," the same guy can be all over you and demanding one night and then lie back like a princess the next. The rest of you would know that if you'd ever fucked anyone more than once.

by Anonymousreply 13412/15/2010

[quote]but the truth is, you are a queen who sleeps with men which is not normal%0D %0D %0D F&F!!

by Anonymousreply 13512/15/2010

I persist there are more bottoms at heart.%0D Don't ask me why, it's a fact.

by Anonymousreply 13612/15/2010

Interesting reading. Just fyi (1) a surprising percentage of actors are gay and nearly all gay actors are bottoms; (2) generally, true bottoms outnumber true tops about 8-1; (3) "versatile" is a word used almost exlusively by bottoms - means they can top, almost never do; (4) masculine-feminine is No Clue Whatsoever; (5) anal was much less common in Liberace's time; (6) very large numbers of straight men are taking the plunge, enjoying it and discovering they don't turn queer after all - thus skewing the standard numbers and conclusions all to hell.

by Anonymousreply 13712/19/2010

As per another thread... Paul Reubens is versatile.

by Anonymousreply 13801/12/2011

But if, baby, I'm the bottom

you're the top!

by Anonymousreply 13901/12/2011

"very large numbers of straight men are taking the plunge, enjoying it and discovering they don't turn queer after all - thus skewing the standard numbers and conclusions all to hell."%0D %0D %0D %0D %0D Very large numbers? Um, no. %0D

by Anonymousreply 14001/12/2011

I wouldn't be surprised if that was true. Not every straight guy is going to tell his business, especially where experimenting with the same sex is concerned.

by Anonymousreply 14101/13/2011

I found this forum because of this thread. It's hilarious to read through. Is this all speculation or do any of you have facts? A friendly acquaintance of mine is a self-described high class rent boy. He's never told me who he's slept with for self-protection reasons, but he has told me that MOST (he specifically said 85 or 90%) men in Hollywood are at the very least gay for pay. When there is smoke, there is usually fire.

by Anonymousreply 14201/22/2011

Bradley Cooper is a bottom.

by Anonymousreply 14301/23/2011

Oprah is a very very bossy bottom.

by Anonymousreply 14401/23/2011


by Anonymousreply 14508/15/2011

Bradley Cooper- Power Bottom

by Anonymousreply 14611/03/2011

I hope you revived this thread because you found out for sure, R146.

by Anonymousreply 14711/04/2011

David Muir oral only

by Anonymousreply 14806/10/2012

Tyler Posey - vers top that rarely bottoms

Tyler Hoechlin - top that won't eat ass

Colton Haynes - bottom that will do anything to pelease

Dylan Bruno - top that won't do anything but fuck

Mike Rowe - just wanna get a blow job..won't fuck or suck.

by Anonymousreply 14906/10/2012

Luke Macfralane is a top, maybe more out actors are tops, while the closeted boys are bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 15006/11/2012

What about Elias Koteas - aggressive top? Bossy sloppy pass-around party bottom? Vers?

by Anonymousreply 15106/11/2012

Luke Macfarlane is a power top

by Anonymousreply 15206/11/2012

I want to get power ploughed by Luke Macfarlane.

by Anonymousreply 15306/11/2012

Zac Efron a bottom who needs to cuddle afterwards.

by Anonymousreply 15406/11/2012

hey 149....Who ARE these people?

by Anonymousreply 15506/11/2012

Threads like this are magnets for people trying to suggest non-famous actor wannabes are celebrities. This quasi promotional technique, happens a lot on the Internet.

by Anonymousreply 15606/11/2012


Tyler Posey - the lead wolf in "Teen Wolf"

Tyler Hoechlin - a guy in "Seventh Heaven" and "Teen Wolf."

Colton Haynes - a former model and actor from "Teen Wolf."

Dylan Bruno - an actor from "Numb3rs."

Mike Rowe - the host of "Dirty Job."

by Anonymousreply 15706/11/2012

All tops: Rosie, Ellen, Oprah, Melissa etheridge, michele obama

by Anonymousreply 15806/11/2012

What do you think DANNY PINO is?????

by Anonymousreply 15906/11/2012

Hate-retha is a bossy, hungry bottom.

by Anonymousreply 16006/11/2012

Donald Duck: Top, into s/m

Mickey Mouse: Screaming bottom. Minnie has been bearding for him all these years. Sloppiest hole in Hollywood after the 7 dwarfs are done with it.

Prince Charming: Impotent (this is why Cinderella sings "someday my prince will come")and gets off on enemas. Word has it that he got in the business offering himself up to Porky Pig, but this has not been confirmed.

Bugs Bunny: Total top, believe it or not. Flames like Haley's Comet, but can bugger with the best. Alleged to have been Yogi Bear's lover, and also to have introduced Yogi to his twink heartthrob Booboo. Do not believe that Yogi is straight. Like Bryan Singer, likes them young, dumb, and full of cum.

Anyone know the scoop on Fred Flintstone. Pings to me.

by Anonymousreply 16106/11/2012

Who are those elderly, long dead people R63?

Nobody cares about them any more.

by Anonymousreply 16206/11/2012

Jake and Lil Leo tops? Are you kidding?

by Anonymousreply 16306/11/2012

Zachary Quinto vers top

by Anonymousreply 16406/11/2012

Mike Rowe, the Ford, Craftsman, etc. commercial guy is gay? I love him, so hot and down to earth.

But, really I'm wondering honestly how many gay men have anal sex? Consider the size of an asshole. It's extremely tight for a good reason. Then consider, even an average-size cock: it just doesn't fit. Isn't it possible that it's not supposed to fit?

I am gay myself, I love sex, I love men-every part of a man's body; the scratchy stubble of their face, muscular legs like twisted trees, hair-chest hair, underarm hair, pubic hair. I love cocks; how they're all different, some with darker shafts and pink heads, some that get hard in my mouth, the ones that are so big you just gaze for a moment in adoration, the guys with regular shaped or slightly below average size that beg you to reach into their briefs and make them come alive before tugging their underwear down to their knees. My favorite are the beer-can thick cocks, no matter how long.

I had a hot time in my 20's, I've been in a relationship with a man for 12 years and his is the biggest I've ever seen (besides porn). I love the thought of "giving myself to him", but not at the expense of stretching out my sphincter, or probable damage and certain pain to me. I'm average sized and, really, if a guy had an asshole the size of my average sized cock, I don't see how he would have any bowel control at all.

I just don't feel anal sex is necessary or a good idea. Sex is about intimacy, nakedness, touching, kissing, blow jobs and hand jobs. I love men's asses' the muscular kind with indentations (like I saw as a teen in 80's comedies), asses with natural hair, ones that are soft, then clench up into tight musculature when I lick their balls, perineum, ass crack and up their spine. Sex is watching and holding each other at that the most intimate point a man can reach: ejaculation, climaxing, an explosion shared.

So, why do we (meaning my fellow gay men) assume we have to either push our penises into a hole that's too small, or having our own asses stretched out by a guy's dick thrusting where an hour or two ago we were shitting out of? Somehow I feel intuitively that my partner and I and our definition of sex, particularly as an expression of love between two men, is more common than everyone has been led to believe.

What are your thoughts on this Gay DataLoungers?

by Anonymousreply 16506/11/2012

[quote]What do you think DANNY PINO is?????

Danny Pino is a sloppy pass-around party bottom with a sloppy dilated hole.

by Anonymousreply 16606/12/2012

This is what Danny Pino's hole looks like when it's all sloppy and spread

by Anonymousreply 16706/12/2012

You're a g0y, R165, not a gay. Got it.


by Anonymousreply 16806/12/2012

R165 has been with a partner for 12 years and can't commit himself to anal sex?

Jesus Christ. What a terrible dilemna for you.

by Anonymousreply 16906/12/2012

[R165] Good for you.

I've been with guys who know how to play with my cock and my anus so well that I didn't need the penetration to have an orgasm.

But if the man doesn't know how to do that, he'd better know how to thrust his cock into my ass.

by Anonymousreply 17006/12/2012

R165 isn't the only man to be in a long relationship and remain somewhat uninformed about anal. #1 - It fits, really. #2 - There is waaaay more to it than just sticking a dick up a butt. Way more. #3 - The butthole is amazingly resilient and snaps right back into shape, at least up to about age forty, which is about when nobody wants to fuck you anymore anyway. Seriously, try it with someone you trust. Go slow, real slow, at first then check back with us in about six months when you take a break.

by Anonymousreply 17106/13/2012

Why do so many gay people restrict themselves to only one position or the other? I think it would be amazing to both fuck and be fucked.

I'm coming back as a versatile gay man in the next life.

by Anonymousreply 17206/13/2012

Jealous straight girl at R172, do you think Danny Pino has a sloppy dilated hole? Do you think his Cuban hole is raw from the overuse of dildos, beads, extenders and other stretching devices? Here's a pic of him to help you decide. TIA.

by Anonymousreply 17306/13/2012

Is Matt Bomer vers or a power bottom?

by Anonymousreply 17406/13/2012

R172 "so many gay people" do NOT restrict themselves to "one role."

And what business is it of yours?

Straight women who don't know what they're talking about and have too much interest in this subject need serious therapy.

by Anonymousreply 17506/13/2012

DANNY PINO hole info pls.

by Anonymousreply 17606/13/2012

DANNY PINO sloppy hole info pls.

by Anonymousreply 17706/13/2012

Nothing wrong with needing therapy!

Straight girl at r172, it's not really about "restricting" yourself. It's just a shorthand term for the position you generally like better.

by Anonymousreply 17806/13/2012

Danny Pino's eyes widen in anticipation as he spots a double-ender of unprecedented length and GIRTH.

by Anonymousreply 17906/13/2012

Is Tom Ford a top or bottom? Please advise.

by Anonymousreply 18007/01/2012

I have it on good authaurity that Danny Pino's hole is raw, sloppy and stretched out from spending too much time with hole-expanding device's in his trailer between takes on Law & Order. One day he was late for a take so Ice-T knocked on Pino's trailer and found him accomadating this device without so much as a blink.

by Anonymousreply 18107/01/2012

R181, is this an accurate visual analog of Danny Pino's dilated hole?

What did Ice-T do when he found Danny Pino in such a compromising position? Did he tell Munch or Cragen what the new boy gets up to alone in his trailer between helping out Special Victims?

by Anonymousreply 18207/02/2012

Also is it true that when Stabler found out he was being replaced, he angrily hissed "I'm gonna teach that new boy a lesson" and violently colonized Danny Pino's raw hole?

by Anonymousreply 18307/02/2012

If any of the rumors about Pino are true, he must be a popular fella.

by Anonymousreply 18409/22/2012

Ernie - naughty bottom.

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by Anonymousreply 18612/16/2012

Robert Pattinson rubbish bottom, but sucks well.

by Anonymousreply 18706/29/2013

[bold]Matt Bomer --- Bottom Channing Tatum -- Top Tom Hardy -- Top Jake Gyllenhaal -- Bottom Austin Nichols -- Top Oprah -- Top Adam Levine -- Bottom Lee Pace -- Bottom Cillian Murphy -- Bottom Joseph Gordon-Levitt -- Bottom [/bold]

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by Anonymousreply 18907/01/2013

Jake Gyllenhaal == Whiny bottom

by Anonymousreply 19007/01/2013

How about Leo Dicaprio's (man) pussy posse?

Leo, Toby Maguire, That magician guy, Lukas Haas, Scott Bloom, Jay Ferguson, etc?

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by Anonymousreply 19207/02/2013

You guys are posting names as if you know it personally.

by Anonymousreply 19307/02/2013

Goop --> TOP

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by Anonymousreply 19507/10/2013

So, have we settled on what Colton Haynes is? Why is everyone calling him a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 19607/11/2013

Kevin Spacey seems too unstable to be a top. I figured he was a caftan & virginia slims type. Then again I heard about him getting with someone I know is a bottom, so I guess that makes sense.

by Anonymousreply 19707/11/2013

What about Tom Ford?

Mike Myers??

by Anonymousreply 19807/11/2013

zach quinto = top jake gyllenhaal = top

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by Anonymousreply 20007/11/2013

R165 = Queen of the Marys!!!

by Anonymousreply 20107/11/2013

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by Anonymousreply 20207/11/2013

Anyone know anything about Denis O'Hare ?

by Anonymousreply 20307/11/2013

Elias Koteas = virile power-top!

by Anonymousreply 20407/11/2013

I feel like r203 got a few wrong. Robert Pattinson and Jake Gyllenhaal are such bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 20507/11/2013

Hugh Jackman is either a bottom or versatile.

by Anonymousreply 20607/11/2013

Bieber-bottom LOL but it's obvious.

by Anonymousreply 20707/11/2013

R186 not only are you a racist cunt who hates black men, you're also mistaken as there are still bottoms like you described they are into fisting and while they may crave cum, bare dicks, and bare arms in their ass and some of them are into doing it raw/BB there's such a thing as having safer sex.

by Anonymousreply 20807/11/2013

R186 bath houses are still around. They are not as widespread as you found them in the 70s or 80s but you're still able to find them in most major United States cities sometimes billed as a "spa" even though it's clear to everyone it's a men's bath house, and in cities in Europe where they're called men's saunas.

Yes bareback sex and drug use-usually stimulants like coke or meth do go on at those places even the ones that claim they don't allow such things but those are somebody's personal choice to do but you'd have to have a death wish today to have bareback sex with strangers and use drugs like meth or coke.

by Anonymousreply 20907/11/2013

Madonna - top

She was once pictured buying a strap-on with her then-husband.

by Anonymousreply 21007/11/2013

What about the often rumored to be gay/bi classic hunks: Selleck, B. Reynolds, Lee Majors? There has been talk about Clint Eastwood as well, and also C. Norris. Is this just rumor/lies/chatter OR is there any truth to it? Any info or stories on any of them?

What's up with some of the raging homophobes such as Mel Gibson? Is he a closet case or what? Russell Crowe is rumored to be nasty to gay men. Is he? If so, is he, too, some closet case or just doesn't like gays?

Any stories or info on Bruce Willis?

by Anonymousreply 21107/11/2013

I've always wondered who the bottom was in Will Smith's and Duane Martin's long-term relationship.

by Anonymousreply 21207/11/2013

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by Anonymousreply 21407/12/2013

Zachary Quinto answered that question a while ago on instagram when he posted a picture of a sign that says "please push in slowly" and he captioned I will do my best.

by Anonymousreply 21507/12/2013

Agree that ZQ is a top, definitely. Sometimes it takes one to know one.

[quote]Justin Timberlake when he experiments, top.

Hahahahaha!! Hi, Sonia!

by Anonymousreply 21607/12/2013

r214 how would you know about all them? My guess: all guesses on your part.

by Anonymousreply 21707/13/2013

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by Anonymousreply 21807/13/2013

How does anyone know any of this ? Are you guessing, esp. the lists. When making a statement please indicate if it's guess work or first or at least second hand knowledge. Or Maybe said in an interview

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by Anonymousreply 22007/13/2013

r203 Are we posting everyone now?

by Anonymousreply 22107/20/2013

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