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Marco Dapper is a waiter at Toast in LA...

is that what happens to your career when you are in a gay film? He's really good looking but walks around the restuarant like a big old snob, never cracking a smile. He's gay right?

by Anonymousreply 9203/19/2013

I hate the crowd there. Much ado about very mediocre food.

by Anonymousreply 106/13/2010

No. That is what happens when you cannot act and are not appealing enough to Hollywood power brokers to blow for bit parts in movies.

by Anonymousreply 206/13/2010

If you are really good looking (and he is) aren't you expected to walk around like a big old snob?

I think it's written into their contracts. Something about - it makes us want them all the more. It kinda works.

by Anonymousreply 306/13/2010

How bad can his acting be?

by Anonymousreply 406/13/2010

He's hotness personified.

by Anonymousreply 506/13/2010

Hate the pursed lips thing, but love everything else:

by Anonymousreply 606/13/2010

at least he's working -- making an honest living while (presumably) looking for his next role. I respect him for that!

by Anonymousreply 706/13/2010

Total Hotness:

by Anonymousreply 806/13/2010

Love him even more "au naturale":

by Anonymousreply 906/13/2010

Did you tell him how much you love his pendulous balls?

by Anonymousreply 1006/13/2010

Who the fuck is he?

by Anonymousreply 1106/13/2010

Actor and model.

Google is your friend here.

I thought he was great in "Eating Out 2", to be honest.

by Anonymousreply 1206/13/2010

Well if you want to see his snobiness in person go to toast in LA on Saturday mornings. Seriously he must be a really bad actor if he is this good looking and has to wait tables.

by Anonymousreply 1306/13/2010

R12 = Marco Dapper's mother

by Anonymousreply 1406/13/2010

An aspiring actor who waits tables between acting gigs!

Wow. That never happens in LA.

by Anonymousreply 1506/14/2010

Marco isn't gay, has gone to great lengths to make it known.

by Anonymousreply 1606/14/2010

[quote]I thought he was [bold]great[/bold] in "Eating Out 2"

Really? Isn't "great" a bit much. He was fine, maybe, but great?

by Anonymousreply 1706/14/2010

Hot guy. Wonder if he escorts on the downlow?

by Anonymousreply 1806/14/2010

He wouldn't be at Toast if he escorted. The man is not a whore.

by Anonymousreply 1906/14/2010

Thanks for posting R10. Those are some hot pendulous balls.

by Anonymousreply 2006/14/2010

Op- so what? My, what a snob you are. I'm SURE you'd throw him out of bed over it!

by Anonymousreply 2106/14/2010

No one outside of a very limited demographic has ever heard of Marco Dapper. Of course he's going to be a waiter.

by Anonymousreply 2206/14/2010

Doesn't another Eating Out / Desperate Housewives favorite of yesteryear (Ryan Carnes) work as waiter nowdays?

by Anonymousreply 2306/14/2010

I have watched and jacked off to the scene where he gets his nipples licked too many times to count.

Need to eat at toast soon!

by Anonymousreply 2406/14/2010

Not even enough talent for the soaps.

by Anonymousreply 2506/14/2010


by Anonymousreply 2606/14/2010

I read at dreamcaps that male model Kerry Degman works at a Starbucks in L.A. These guys aren't truly famous or stars or anything like that, and they have real lives. It's sort of cool to know there are still 20 somethings out there who are young, broke, struggling, and just hanging out being normal.

by Anonymousreply 2706/14/2010

I read that John Bregar (Dylan - Marco's on and off boyfriend from Degrassi: The Next Generation) works at Toronto's Hard Rock Cafe.

by Anonymousreply 2806/14/2010

Even though someone might be considered a superstar in the gay universe for posing for photographs nearly naked it doesn't mean the rest of the world acknowledges their "awesomeness." And most male models make hardly any money from their work, esp. if they're just posing for a photgrapher just to get some portfolio shots out there. The vast majority of shoots Marco has been on have paid nothing.

by Anonymousreply 2906/14/2010

Kerry Degman works at Starbucks? That's very surprising. I could see Dapper waiting tables but don't male models of Degman's status make more than actors?

by Anonymousreply 3006/14/2010

Supposedly, Degman is trying to break into acting, hence the barista thing.

by Anonymousreply 3106/14/2010

Toast is overrated--if you want a good LA breakfast, go to Square One or Nickel Diner.

by Anonymousreply 3206/14/2010

There is dignity in labor.

At least, they're making a decent living.

They could have easily taken the easy route of whoring themselves out as hustlers.

by Anonymousreply 3306/14/2010

Dapper isn't gay, when asked about the scenes in Eating out, he said: "I'm not gay and I don't have tendencies."

by Anonymousreply 3406/14/2010

R34- Sure he's not. Wink. The one profession that never attracts gay men is acting. Also, florists.

by Anonymousreply 3506/14/2010

in other breaking news, Sheila Levine is Dead and Living in New York.

by Anonymousreply 3606/14/2010

Well his good friend waiter at toast is as gay as a goose.

by Anonymousreply 3706/14/2010

It's hilarious that he thinks he's straight (or can pass for straight).

by Anonymousreply 3806/14/2010

Good looking doesn't pay the rent. Waiting tables does. It's an honest living.

by Anonymousreply 3906/14/2010

Guess that means his acting career is (say it with me, everyone) ...... toast.

by Anonymousreply 4006/15/2010

That's a very snotty and self-indulgent response he gave, R34. He may not have 'tendencies', but at least most of us have something that he doesn't: a well-paying job.

by Anonymousreply 4106/15/2010

[quote]Doesn't another Eating Out / Desperate Housewives favorite of yesteryear (Ryan Carnes) work as waiter nowdays?

Carnes has a pilot for a series based on The Phantom that's airing on SyFy this weekend, and may get picked up if the ratings are worth it.

Unfortunately, he is foregoing spandex.

by Anonymousreply 4206/15/2010

OP here, I'm not saying it isn't a noble thing that he is waiting tables making an honest living. I'm just pointing out his acting abilities. Sheesh. Wondering why someone SO good looking and with a resume can't get another acting gig. Must be a BAD actor.

by Anonymousreply 4306/15/2010

Acting jobs are very very few and far between. It is a rare and lucky person who is able to support themself solely as an actor.

Marco Dapper did a few movies and all of them low budget.

by Anonymousreply 4406/15/2010

OP, there are tons of good-looking men and women in LA and NYC trying to make it into show business. He's lucky he has made a couple of low budget movies. Others, who are more talented and better looking, have not had the same opportunity.

There is a lot of luck involved in the business. Most actors and actresses are just average to above average in looks and have mediocre talents. What can I say? Life is not fair.

by Anonymousreply 4506/15/2010

Yes, he's gay. I don't think his inability to get work has much to do with the one gay movie he did. Many successful actors have played gay in their early roles.

He accepted another gay role in a gay movie, and then I believe he backed out, but I don't think that movie was ever completed.

Timing and luck have so much to do with success in HW. Even George Cloony admits to that. Although he did say he worked his ass off, he said it's all about timing...being in the right place at the right time.

by Anonymousreply 4606/15/2010

He's better looking than Tom Cruise.

That is all.

by Anonymousreply 4706/15/2010

Marco is where I was 10-years ago. He's completely comfortable in his gay skin but will shuck it to make a buck and climb the ladder. He has a boyfriend, loves Ayn Rand, is a fiscal conservative without knowing jack shit about anything, and is now in the process of learning that it take a lot more than personal attitude and a bootstraps mentality to make it big in this world.

Either he will score one of these days or he will come to the realization that life just isn't that black and white. His bf is pretty much a carbon copy.

by Anonymousreply 4806/15/2010

In other words, he's the stereotypical gay Weho wannabe who just happens to be hot as fuck.

by Anonymousreply 4906/15/2010

48 is his boyfriend another waiter at Toast?

by Anonymousreply 5006/15/2010

....and then you wake up r48.

Dapper was a self-confesed homophobe, and claimed the making of eating out was the first time he was exposed to gay people,

[quote]Eating Out 2 is Marco's big break in that he has a huge part in it (in more ways than one) that allows him to show off his easy charm on screen. It also represents his personal big break because making the film exposed him to so many gay people that he seems to have shrugged off his built-in preconceptions about what "gay" is all about. He's hopeful that audiences—and the industry—will be similarly open-minded about his acting ability.

[quote]"I guess you could call me a homophobe back then," Marco remembers of the time not so long ago when he arrived in L.A. "I was the kinda guy who if a gay guy came and talked to me I'd be like, 'What is he doing? Is he hitting on me?' It was fear of the unknown. This movie was like a whole 180. I just realized, 'Not all of them are hitting on me.'"

by Anonymousreply 5106/15/2010

So much dish in this thread.

Love it.

by Anonymousreply 5206/15/2010

How did Ryan Carnes end up in an episode of Doctor Who? Was RTD a fan of Eating Out?!

by Anonymousreply 5306/15/2010

Don't know how he ended up in the actual two part adventure, but was psyched when he showed up (even though most of his face is covered in make up and prosthetics).

by Anonymousreply 5406/15/2010

r48, Brando Eaton is dat chu?

by Anonymousreply 5506/15/2010

Is Ryan Carnes out?

I always thought Dapper was hot...I'm over it. I'm not getting myself worked up over some loser who admits he's homophobic. I hope he enjoys his obscurity.

by Anonymousreply 5606/15/2010

He's just another hot guy in a city full of them. I'm sure he's pleasant to look at in person, but if he hadn't shown his dick in the movie, nobody other than his sex partners would give him more than a moment's notice.

by Anonymousreply 5706/16/2010

Homophobe? Yeah right. All homophobes willingly take, not only a gay role, but a gay movie.

Pussyphobe is more like it. The guy worships Rand's ass. He's not exactly the most sensitive nor the smartest yeah, he admits to homophobia to cover for his blatent homosexuality.

by Anonymousreply 5806/16/2010

He got over his homophobia real quick, didn't he? Tongue and all.

by Anonymousreply 5906/16/2010

With the dominance of reality TV and the gutting of daytime drama, acting jobs are more rare than ever.

Plus, the industry is not nearly as centered in LA (or NY) as it once was.

The days of the stereotypical actor/waiter/model are drawing to a close, indeed...

by Anonymousreply 6006/16/2010

RTD might well have seen Carnes in Eating Out, but it was also the time he had a gay role in Desperate Housewives and maybe that's where he noticed him. Russell seems to have liked casting guys who had played gay roles on tv. He did the same thing with the actor who played Coronation Street's first gay character.

by Anonymousreply 6106/16/2010

"Plus, the industry is not nearly as centered in LA (or NY) as it once was"

Really, how do you mean r60. I would think that all the major media companies are based in and work ut of LA or NY.

by Anonymousreply 6206/16/2010

Is Ryan Kim Carnes's son? I'm hoping.

by Anonymousreply 6306/16/2010

He's looks so much smaller in person. Def. not runway model size.

by Anonymousreply 6406/16/2010

I don't like that stupid tattoo on his right arm.

by Anonymousreply 6506/16/2010

R57, that wasn't his dick. That was a prosthetic.

Sorry to burst your bubble.

by Anonymousreply 6606/16/2010

John Bregar (formerly of DEGRASSI), who someone mentioned previously, is one of those actors who always makes a point of saying he's straight. Check out any info on him.

by Anonymousreply 6706/16/2010

It's SO funny. Because in many parts of this country people just think that actors are "sissies"- whether they're gay or straight. It always cracks me up to see these actors try to play butch. Who are they trying to impress? (I know- themselves).

by Anonymousreply 6806/17/2010

R62, R60's right. Hollywood ain't what it used to be.

by Anonymousreply 6906/17/2010

I agree R68. Actors don't get the fact that most people already think they're a bunch of fags and nothing they can do will change that.

by Anonymousreply 7006/24/2010

R66, is this really a prosthetic?

by Anonymousreply 7106/24/2010

[quote]John Bregar (formerly of DEGRASSI), who someone mentioned previously, is one of those actors who always makes a point of saying he's straight. Check out any info on him.

And yet he's playing gay in a retelling of Romeo & Juliet whereas Verona is transported to Verona University, and he and current Degrassi Gay Shannon Kook-Chun are playing the star-crossed frat boys.

by Anonymousreply 7206/24/2010

It's deflection. He's gay, playing gay roles. So he's constantly announcing that he's not gay. That really works, BTW- just look at Tom Cruise. The more you announce your straightness, the less everyone believes it.

61- of course that's not a prosthetic. It's just sad.

by Anonymousreply 7306/24/2010

he's handsome though.

by Anonymousreply 7406/24/2010

According to the commentary on the EATING OUT 2 dvd it is not a prosthetic.

They do say he was completely shaved though so his "pubes" were fashioned for him by the make-up people. The director thought it looked odd without any pubes so they glued some on.

by Anonymousreply 7506/24/2010

R75, thanks.

Leave it to DL to do all the research when it comes to peens! :)

by Anonymousreply 7606/24/2010

[quote] "They do say he was completely shaved though so his "pubes" were fashioned for him by the make-up people. The director thought it looked odd without any pubes so they glued some on."

I wonder who the lucky make up queen was who was appointed THAT particular task.

by Anonymousreply 7706/24/2010

Yeah, I remember that too R76. I remember some remark about the GUY who did the gluing enjoyed himself.

by Anonymousreply 7806/24/2010

Oh yes...straight,straight,straight. The picture at link is not an example of gayface at all.

by Anonymousreply 7906/24/2010

very very hot balls

by Anonymousreply 8006/24/2010

That's not Marco Dapper in your picture r79.

by Anonymousreply 8106/24/2010

No kidding honey- it's John Bregar. Also discussed in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 8206/24/2010

It's not John Bregar either. He took the picture. I assume the picture was linked to show gayface (which I don't really see in it though).

by Anonymousreply 8306/24/2010

Oh hon- that's NOT gayface? Are you Helen Keller?

by Anonymousreply 8406/24/2010

ummmm hon- helllooo...I just went to his site...that's HIM dear. It's from a recent photo shoot. Here's another pic from the shoot.

by Anonymousreply 8506/24/2010

The pics are of Corey Sevier, another Canadian actor. He has an AMAZING body.

by Anonymousreply 8606/24/2010

Harrison Ford was working as a carpenter when he was running lines w/ auditioning actors as Han Solo.

by Anonymousreply 8706/24/2010

r84, I dont think thats gayface either.

by Anonymousreply 8806/24/2010

Remind me what is bad about gayface?

by Anonymousreply 8906/25/2010

Here's John Bregar you moron.

by Anonymousreply 9006/25/2010

Someone commented that the commentary on the DVD says the penis was real. If that is true then they are lying because they want people to believe that. It is obvious from the still shots, the animated gifs and from the scene in the movie itself that is fake. It totally looks like a prosthetic over it. Notice how it doenst move like a penis or balls when he takes the robe off. The head stays with the balls totally and the balls both hang together with no movement not even to the skin. You can tell the coloring is off as well.

by Anonymousreply 9103/19/2013

He is one very handsome guy. Even though he may not be wealthy it would be quite nice to look like that.

by Anonymousreply 9203/19/2013
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