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Does your boyfriend ever say mean, filthy, disgusting, and hurtful things to you as he''s cumming?

This morning he said, "Take my load you dirty f-word whore cum dump." Is this the way he really feels? Afterwards, I felt like total dirt.

by Anonymousreply 17010/29/2014

I wish mine would.

by Anonymousreply 206/03/2010

"Surrender Dorothy."

by Anonymousreply 406/03/2010

If he only talks like that during sex I wouldn't worry. If he calls you names when you aren't having sex, you might have a reason to be concerned.

by Anonymousreply 506/03/2010

My boyfriend asked me why I don't say mean, filthy, disgusting and hurtful things when [bold]I'm[/bold] cumming. I said, "You're never around--so why bother?"

by Anonymousreply 706/03/2010

...no.

by Anonymousreply 806/03/2010

the dirtier he talks, the more of a whore I feel, the better the sex.

by Anonymousreply 906/03/2010

he called you a "dirty f-word"? is he a mormon?

by Anonymousreply 1006/03/2010

Not often enough, no.

by Anonymousreply 1106/03/2010

Oh, Charlotte, sweetie.

by Anonymousreply 1206/03/2010

Send him my way, OP, I love when guys say things like that to me when we're having sex.

by Anonymousreply 1306/03/2010

[quote]"Take my load you dirty f-word whore cum dump." Sorry, but that's just not something you say to you boyfriend even in the nastiest of sex sessions. That's something you say to someone with whom you have no emotional attachment. Sure, he might say, "Take my load," but no the rest of that sentence. OP...has he called you this--or some variation on that theme--before? Or was this the first time he said something so degrading? You are right to feel like dirt about his statement.

by Anonymousreply 1406/03/2010

R14, he has said similar things before. He's called me "jizz rag". He's told me the only thing that I'm good for is taking his cock and his cum.

by Anonymousreply 1506/03/2010

my married fb call me a cum whore when he breeds my ass every thursday. I keep it inside until friday just thinking about him.

by Anonymousreply 1606/03/2010

would you prefer the following: "ohhhh my dear, please allow me to share my sacred essence with you!"

by Anonymousreply 1706/03/2010

R15. He sounds abusive rather than treating you as an equal.

The only way I would somewhat overlook language like that is if you and he were role-playing and you both had an understanding that his statements were said with no hurt feelings intended and there was a little underlying fun of which both of you are aware. In other words, "you're both in on the joke."

However, from your original statement about you feeling like dirt, it doesn't sound like you have any such understanding with him. It just sounds like he gets off on abusive language meant to hurt and degrade.

I'm just guessing that he may also be abusive in other ways in addition to sex. This guy is not boyfriend material. Get your self-esteem in order and get out before he continues tearing you down.

by Anonymousreply 1806/03/2010

You bitches are nuts. You don't say something like that to someone you love. You say that when you feel CONTEMPT, not passion. OP, you and the BF need a little therapy and or descent communication or you need to dump his ass. Dirty talk is hot. Degrading hate speech is not.

by Anonymousreply 1906/03/2010

I think it must have been glorius to have him say that to you. I would have been all aglow after that declaration of love. Yum!

by Anonymousreply 2106/03/2010

[quote]Dirty talk is hot. Degrading hate speech is not.

OP: These are words to live by and know the difference. Your boyfriend--or this asshole with whom you live--is degrading you.

by Anonymousreply 2206/03/2010

It would be inappropriate if you were at the grocery store or perhaps a house of worship, but in bed such discussions can be stimulating and fun for all involved!

by Anonymousreply 2306/03/2010

OP, why did you type "f-word" instead of "fucking".

You're probably a pearl-cluching stuck-up cum dump and your thoughtful boyfriend is doing his best to loosen you up.

by Anonymousreply 2406/03/2010

A lot of us regard this sort of thing as role-playing during sex, and, as such, fun. I enjoy it myself, although maybe not as a regular routine. I like to be surprised.

by Anonymousreply 2506/03/2010

OP's BF sounds hawt.

by Anonymousreply 2606/03/2010

[quote]You bitches are nuts. You don't say something like that to someone you love. You say that when you feel CONTEMPT, not passion.

MINCE, PRISSPOTS, MINCE!!!!

by Anonymousreply 2706/03/2010

Until people realize that degrading hate speech can be hot, this discussion will get nowhere. Context is everything.

by Anonymousreply 2806/03/2010

hate rape!

by Anonymousreply 2906/03/2010

hate rape! The New Black!

by Anonymousreply 3006/04/2010

This thread was funnier when it was a SATC episode. Over ten years ago.

by Anonymousreply 3106/04/2010

Hey OP? Try not being a dirty f-word cum dump.

by Anonymousreply 3206/04/2010

Girl, You Better Work!

by Anonymousreply 3306/04/2010

All of you shrieking about hate speech must be the most boring queens to go to bed with. What the fuck do you do, just lay there?

by Anonymousreply 3406/04/2010

Stop being a pissy bitch and be a man about it.

by Anonymousreply 3506/04/2010

It's possible to talk dirty without demeaning your partner. If this is a hard concept for you, it's a good test for where your self-worth and respect for others stand.

by Anonymousreply 3606/04/2010

Oh get over yourself r.36. Some of us think it's hot and are turned on and also are filled with tons of self-worth. We're not fragile little emotional cripples like yourself.

by Anonymousreply 3706/04/2010

OP, you shouldn't feel like dirt, your partner should. He is projecting. He obviously feels self-loathing for being gay, for having these sex drives, etc. and when he calls you a "cum dump," it is very self-referential. He thinks of himself as a figurative "cum dump," if not literally one. He has other issues that need to be explored. He cannot possibly believe that what he says is a turn on...unless both of you are into humiliation.

by Anonymousreply 3806/04/2010

I am not into humiliation. He only does it when he's about cum. This morning he called me a "A dirty bottom cunt boy." He also said that he was going to take me down to the river and sell my hole for $25 a fuck and he was going to take pictures and send them to my parents back home, because that is what I deserved. I think he really thinks I'm a dirty whore.

by Anonymousreply 3906/04/2010

R39

I'd laugh out loud if someone said that to me during sex. That is some funny shit.

by Anonymousreply 4006/04/2010

R39, read R38 very carefully. Your boyfriend has a very low opinion of himself.

by Anonymousreply 4106/04/2010

Next time you're having sex and he says that again, yell "Yeah daddy, shove it in with the other three loads I took last night!"

See what he says

by Anonymousreply 4206/04/2010

[quote]He also said that he was going to take me down to the river and sell my hole for $25 a fuck and he was going to take pictures and send them to my parents back home, because that is what I deserved. If only Mark Twain had written gay porn fiction!

by Anonymousreply 4306/04/2010

Well, at least we know who CrazyMint's been screwing lately.

by Anonymousreply 4506/04/2010

OP is a lesbian slash-fiction writer.

by Anonymousreply 4606/04/2010

Yeah, R45, I wish he's post here again.

by Anonymousreply 4706/04/2010

Sell his hole for $25 dollars a fuck?! The boyfriend sounds extremely hot? I wonder if he ever sells his talents for phone sex?

by Anonymousreply 4806/04/2010

or writes for comedy - it cracks me up!

by Anonymousreply 4906/04/2010

Next time he says something like that, punch him as hard as you can in the mouth. He'll either have the most intense orgasm of his life, or he'll kill you.

by Anonymousreply 5006/04/2010

I can't do that R50. He is bigger and stronger than me. I'm 5'6 and 125 pounds. He's 6'2 and 210 pounds. There is no way I could ever beat him up and I wouldn't want to. I really do love him and I think he loves me, but I'm not really sure. All we do is have sex, because he works long hours and I'm still in school. He has a high stress job.

by Anonymousreply 5106/04/2010

you sound very needy but if you aren't a troll, if he's stressed, the sex is probably the best release possible. if you don't have time ever to communicate then MAKE the time. otherwise you'll regret it.

by Anonymousreply 5206/04/2010

Does he leave 200 on the dresser, afterwards?

by Anonymousreply 5306/04/2010

"OP is a lesbian slash-fiction writer."

Or straight. Bad writer, either way, and if this were for real (which it's not), it'd be yet another pathetic loser mistaking DL for her boring, unread/unreadable blog.

by Anonymousreply 5406/04/2010

I'd say "spank me harder, Mother fucker!"

by Anonymousreply 5506/04/2010

Mother always told me to never allow a man to call me a jizz rag nor a cum whore while being fucked.

by Anonymousreply 5606/04/2010

[quote] If he only talks like that during sex I wouldn't worry. If he calls you names when you aren't having sex, you might have a reason to be concerned.

R5 said it best.

R46, why would lesbians write slash fiction?

by Anonymousreply 5706/04/2010

Brace yourself Effie!

by Anonymousreply 5806/04/2010

"He only does it when he's about cum. This morning he called me a "A dirty bottom cunt boy." He also said that he was going to take me down to the river and sell my hole for $25 a fuck and he was going to take pictures and send them to my parents back home, because that is what I deserved." He said ALL THAT as he was cumming? Wow - his orgasms last longer than half my relationships.

by Anonymousreply 5906/04/2010

W&W!

by Anonymousreply 6006/04/2010

What do you EXPECT him to say when he's cumming? Prose from a Hallmark card?

by Anonymousreply 6106/04/2010

"He also said that he was going to take me down to the river ..."

Down to the "river"?? Where do you live? And in what century??

by Anonymousreply 6206/05/2010

I bought this until R39.

by Anonymousreply 6306/05/2010

I like raunchy talk during sex. But that's me. If you don't like it OP you need to tell your BF.

If he get's off on the fact that you don't like it. Then dump him and run.

by Anonymousreply 6406/05/2010

Your my little Hoo-ah!

I'm gonna pimp you out on the street bitch!

You are gonna sell that ass bitch!

My little Hoo-ah!

I love how OP is a little itty bitty twinky-poo and his boyfriend is a big strapping man with a high stress job.

Send him to my place! It takes a real man to satisfy MY NEEDS!

by Anonymousreply 6506/05/2010

When my straight married fuck bud tongue kisses me while he he fingers my no no, he calls me his "sweet bitch".

(and I always cum buckets)

by Anonymousreply 6606/06/2010

I would too! You're one lucky bitch!

by Anonymousreply 6706/06/2010

Wow, I had a huge fight with my boyfriend when he just said, "take my cum, bitch" I told him to go fuck himself for a while after that and he's never said it again. If he ever said what your loser said I would never fuck him again.

by Anonymousreply 6806/08/2010

My boyfriend just fucked me and said he would like to stick a machete up my rump and pluck my eyes out with a pair of tongs! Then he came.

by Anonymousreply 6906/08/2010

My Bf usually says something like "Oh yeah baby,,,btw did you pick up cheese dip you know I got The Cunninghams coming over tonight oh and yeah, the cable company called and you forgot to pay the bill again and also will you please do something about the cat hair all over the sofa, Get one of those roller brushes or something..."

by Anonymousreply 7006/08/2010

[quote] He is bigger and stronger than me. I'm 5'6 and 125 pounds [/quote]

I will fuck you sweetie.

by Anonymousreply 7106/08/2010

LOL R61! W&W!!

by Anonymousreply 7306/09/2010

Taking this a step further, does constant screaming or loud moaning bother anyone? It turns me on for a bit but if it's too loud or constant I feel like it's being faked. I like a soft moan while fucking and then of course, much louder upon cumming.

by Anonymousreply 7406/09/2010

Ya....one time as he was fucking me he slapped my ass and yelled "Who is Daddy's Dirty little girl?" I said "Not I" as I punched him in the mouth...........He never did that again

by Anonymousreply 7506/10/2010

I love nasty dirty talk you fucking sorry ass pussies.

by Anonymousreply 7606/10/2010

me too, what a bunch of delicate little school girls.

by Anonymousreply 7706/10/2010

OK, a guy I really like was on his way to meet me for the first time after two years of talking online, so he says 'I hope you don't vomit, I want to eat your vomit' - he does have low self-esteem at times and is a very open and passionate soul, but this, was too weird f for me, it was a shock, I wasn;t ready to hear that, I called him out on it and he ran, now I feel mean.

by Anonymousreply 7806/19/2011

[quote]This morning he said, "Take my load you dirty f-word whore cum dump."%0D %0D The boyfriend sounds like a keeper; the OP, not so much.

by Anonymousreply 7906/19/2011

He hit me..

by Anonymousreply 8006/19/2011

Wow..maybe it's the heat of the weekend, and this is a DL fever dream, but I'm seeing Liam Neeson giving the "I'll take you down to the river" speech to a battered Bradley Cooper in a gay remake of "The Burning Bed"..

by Anonymousreply 8106/19/2011

"How'd the hell did you get in? Did you chew through the burglar bars with those horse teeth you use to nick my dick?"

by Anonymousreply 8206/19/2011

1/10

by Anonymousreply 8306/19/2011

My old boyfriend used to say "Fuck me with that big nigga dick" as he was cumming and then would have me choke him.

by Anonymousreply 8406/19/2011

last page BUMP

by Anonymousreply 8506/22/2011

Dirty cum bump

by Anonymousreply 8606/22/2011

You're a doormat, darlin'

by Anonymousreply 8706/22/2011

1) My boyfriend does not.%0D %0D 2) Sexual roleplay as practiced may include filthy, disgusting and even hurtful language. That doesn't mean that it reflects how your partner feels about you. It merely means it's something that either turns your partner on, something he is trying to see if it turns him on, or something he is trying to see if it turns you on. %0D %0D 3) The fact that he feels comfortable enough to go there actually reveals a degree of intimacy you should be happy about.%0D %0D 4) If you don't like it, simply let him know in a loving and affectionate way.

by Anonymousreply 8806/22/2011

I'm guessing a LTR for R84 is about 3 hours.%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 8906/22/2011

This thread is hilarious.

What he says during sex is only bad if it makes you feel bad and if he actually treats you like a filthy whore when he isn't fucking you. How is he treating you outside the bedroom?

If a person is good to you and just likes to talk dirty in the heat of the moment- and you are into it, all is well.

You apparently aren't into it. So stop talking to us about it and tell your boyfriend.

by Anonymousreply 9006/22/2011

Is this yet another whiny bottom thread?

The only thing they're good for is a cum dump.

by Anonymousreply 9106/22/2011

stand up for yourself. say "make that MR. whore fucking dirty cum dump".

by Anonymousreply 9206/22/2011

but you are a cum dump OP.

by Anonymousreply 9306/22/2011

"Take my sacred essence you dirty f-word whore sacred essence-dump."

by Anonymousreply 9406/22/2011

Many people find this to be exciting, but in my experience, the person who says these things during sex is usually a very dominant person in real life. This does not mean that everybody who gets off on it is dominant, but the guys that I have encountered were.

by Anonymousreply 9506/22/2011

I once had a boyfriend who called me pig and said something very similar when he came, OP.%0D %0D I didn't like it. Not because I couldn't chock it up to sexplay. Not because I found it insulting in its obviously erotic context.%0D %0D But merely because I didn't find it a turn on. Hot talk is great, and it can push the envelope in a berating way, but I just don't find "pig" to be a sexy use of sexual domination.%0D %0D I think, for other reasons, it was clear to both of us that we had reached the end of our rainbow so we broke up shortly thereafter and it never really became an issue.

by Anonymousreply 9606/22/2011

[quote]Ooh... the effeminates found this thread.

As if non-effeminates ever say "Ooh..."

by Anonymousreply 9706/22/2011

I let my man have free reign in the bedroom.. He can say or do whatever he wants. I know men have some twisted fantasies and its better to just discuss with him that bedroom talk is just talk.. No hard feelings after.. It actually makes the sex amazing because the mans confidence is boosted.. And guys love it if u can take it like a whore but love him n take care of him like a wife.

by Anonymousreply 9807/01/2013

My first boyfriend used to grunt; "Split those ham's" as he fucked me.

by Anonymousreply 9907/01/2013

OP, if I send you my email address and a first class plane ticket, can you send him to me for a vacation in the French Quarter? Hmmm?

by Anonymousreply 10007/01/2013

i love good dirty talk as much as the next guy, well, besides half the MARY's here. but I was having sex with this 21 year old Brazilian guy, super cute, and super dirty, and he kept saying, 'fuck my doody-hole, daddy, give me your babies.' I felt that was too sick even for me, so to shut him up, I spit into his mouth and came on his face.

But I disagree that people that are dominant in the bedroom are like that elsewhere. In real life, I'm a prancersizing cube frau who is meek as a mouse. Wish I was more like I am in the bedroom in real life.

by Anonymousreply 10107/01/2013

R103? Get cancer and die slowly. Please.

by Anonymousreply 10307/01/2013

OP, that would be fine with me as long as he was hot enough. If you're only marginally attractive to him, I can see how it'd get irritating. Plus I think it helps to be bdsm-attuned to get into that. I am, sounds like you aren't. Don't let him get you down, dump him if necessary.

by Anonymousreply 10407/01/2013

Sounds like you're living the life r99, that all us submissive bottoms want. Be grateful for it, it's only been fantasy for me.

by Anonymousreply 10507/01/2013

OP, when he says that to you scream back "fuck me harder! you fuck like a girl!" then slap him.

by Anonymousreply 10607/01/2013

r99 & r66: just how many straight women are posting here/

by Anonymousreply 10707/01/2013

I decided r99 was a gay guy because he ends it by saying "take care of him *like* a wife." But maybe I misread it. R99 better not be a woman, especially without making that perfectly clear. Gay or straight, the opinions of women aren't really appropriate or welcome in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 10807/01/2013

0:35

by Anonymousreply 10907/01/2013

R109 Speak for yourself. I don't give a flying fuck for the gender of the person commenting. If I think it's funny or interesting or just tedious then that's what I think and the person behind the comment is unimportant as far as that goes.

Anyone and everyone can comment and your misogynistic fuckwittery is unwelcome to me - a man, in case you want to feel like a Mary Superior and tell me I'm not welcome.

by Anonymousreply 11007/01/2013

fuck, just reading that made me hard.

by Anonymousreply 11107/01/2013

OP send him my way.

by Anonymousreply 11207/01/2013

I need r99 in my life!

by Anonymousreply 11307/01/2013

do lesbians like dirty talk during sex? and does it usually involve crocs, transmissions and janet reno?

by Anonymousreply 11407/01/2013

Sin never dies, whores.

by Anonymousreply 11507/01/2013

[post by racist shit-stain #3 removed.]

by Anonymousreply 11607/01/2013

He just wanted to spice things up if he was really degrading u he d be beating you an saying these words to other women he was just painting an exotic picture in his head to make his orgasim feel less routine. My guess is this guy has self esteem issues...he just needs his ego stroked every once in awhile so instead of taking his " degrading " sex talk so personally just lean your head back an say "yes fuck me like a dirty whore with that fat cock im your cum dumbster fill me up mr. Whatever his last name is lol " ....and yes to answer your question i am married an my man definetly knows how lucky he is :p good luck and if u still feel degraded run him in the ground that way your the one in control he can only hurt u emotiomally if u let him. Show him ur not intimidated by his new fetish an switch it over on him an make him ur bitch if he starts taking advantage to cause pain...toughen up chick fuck that meat stick slap him in the face an call him a douch bag cum before him jump off his dick an make him jerk off if hes hurting ur feelings...u have the pussy...u have the power dont ever forget that ;)

by Anonymousreply 11712/05/2013

Mine tells me I smell bad. It is so hurtful, but I know he thinks it's a turn-on because it's just not true.

by Anonymousreply 11812/05/2013

Sex is dirty and degrading - only if it's done right

by Anonymousreply 11912/05/2013

TROLL POST

by Anonymousreply 12012/05/2013

My bf is into degradation during sex. I was a total Mr Vanilla 'til I met him. Now I can make your BF sound like Martha Stewart, OP. It doesn't do much for me (I just love to fuck, not so fussed about the roleplay) but he loves it and it doesn't spill over into our day-to-day life. If you don't love it, tell him.

by Anonymousreply 12212/05/2013

My boyfriend always talks about filthy, disgusting things, but that's because he works at the Department of Sanitation

by Anonymousreply 12312/05/2013

A female friend of mine was walking along telling me that her new boyfriend likes to talk dirty, I said like what?

She told me the stuff he said (god so fucking hot) and I kind of blacked out a little. I fell off the curb and wound up on one knee before the dizzy went away. She laughed. I seriously envied her for quite some time.

by Anonymousreply 12412/05/2013

R124, are you a boy or a girl?

by Anonymousreply 12512/05/2013

R124, male. Guys can hyperventilate too ya know. And besides the stuff she said was so hot...so hot. I don't remember the specifics now, but I wish I did.

by Anonymousreply 12612/05/2013

TY r124. I guess you know what bf looks like so that can add to knowing the "pillow talk"

by Anonymousreply 12712/05/2013

Take my Mormon load, you little diving bitch!

by Anonymousreply 12812/05/2013

Dirty talk can be great but guys who like to choke or hit during sex freak me out.

by Anonymousreply 12912/06/2013

I like to be choked an if i was hit when having sex id just hit back my man an i are crazy like really really crazy i fucking love it do anything he wants i feel if u dont meet ur mans needs he ll probably cheat

by Anonymousreply 13012/06/2013

A married guy I used to fuck liked for me to talk mean and trashy to him. One day while he was showering beforehand, I programmed his home phone number into my landline along with *67 to block my number. As I was fucking him in the missionary position I reached over and hit the speaker phone button and dialed his home number and hit the mute button and his wife answered and said hello three or four times. He heard his wife's voice but didn't know I had hit the mute. I told him "tell your wife you're a dick sucking faggot and like to get fucked in the ass". He came right then and then he reached over and jerk the phone cord out of the wall. I didn't get to come in his ass before he got off but it was worth it to see the look of panic on his face when he heard his wife's voice and then heard what I said to him, not knowing she couldn't hear us.

by Anonymousreply 13112/06/2013

I have a straight female friend who lives for having her partner speak dirty (whore, jizz, cum, etc.) and relishes lying in cum post-fuck.

by Anonymousreply 13212/06/2013

I think he's trying to make the sex more exciting. I've been talked to like that during sex a few times. It's kind of hot.

by Anonymousreply 13412/06/2013

The earlier posts in this thread are hilarious. Best giggle I've had reading a thread in ages.

by Anonymousreply 13512/06/2013

OP, I'd like to hook up with your boyfriend. Just reading that turned me on. This is the hottest thread I've read here ever.

by Anonymousreply 13612/06/2013

A little dirty talk goes a long way,but if he only does it when hes cumming Id get over it and not take it personally.Just be glad youve got a big stud to fuck you,in 20 years your gonna WISH he was there spewing obscenities in your ear!

by Anonymousreply 13712/06/2013

I have a straight married fuck buddy who spits in my face and calls me "piece of shit faggot" while he fucks me.

Totally hot.

by Anonymousreply 13812/06/2013

Interesting how many people here are turned on by such behavior. .. Yet, they would probably be the first to call someone who has great relationships with other guys, but doesn't pay lip service to the gay agenda, "self-loathers." .. You people are funny. Sick, but funny.

by Anonymousreply 13912/06/2013

Clarifying: great SEXUAL relationships with other guys.

by Anonymousreply 14012/06/2013

Why does gay sex always seem to end up being tinged with degradation,humiliation or mild violence?

by Anonymousreply 14112/08/2013

My bf would say "You're a talentless good for nothing piece of shit and you will never amount to anything" while he's cumming. It's pretty hot.

by Anonymousreply 14212/08/2013

How many of you out there got

big ol' hateful anteaters, let hear you scream!!

That's what I'm looking for this evening.

I put one leg on the microwave

and the other one just across the blender.

WHOO SHIT!!

by Anonymousreply 14312/08/2013

R143, you sound like a hillbilly

by Anonymousreply 14412/08/2013

R138I have to tell you, a straight-identified married man who fucks you on the side but spits in your face and calls you utterly demeaning names as he does it is no kind of buddy.

You're feeding his hate, if he doesn't stick a knife in you one day, it'll be someone else that gets hurt. He needs a shrink.

by Anonymousreply 14512/08/2013

R143 - Are you with the Bolshoi? My mind is reeling.

by Anonymousreply 14612/08/2013

[quote]Why does gay sex always seem to end up being tinged with degradation,humiliation or mild violence?

Hon, it's because by definition male gay sex is between two men. It's a competitive sport I can resonate with.

by Anonymousreply 14712/08/2013

So sex can't be romantic,loving or purely about giving and receiving pleasure because two men are involved?

by Anonymousreply 14812/08/2013

This is the wittiest thread I have seen here in years. This is why I stop in at DL.

by Anonymousreply 15012/08/2013

R148 - No, no! R141 said "TINGED with degradation, humiliation or mild violence."

Look around you. Men, gay and straight, can love each other, and share pleasure (obviously in platonic or sexual ways depending who they are), while being competitive, domineering, playfully insulting and humiliating. It's testosterone at work.

If the man you're in a relationship with hates your (or his own) guts, I think in most cases you should be able to tell.

by Anonymousreply 15112/08/2013

This thread is making me not feel so bad about being single.

by Anonymousreply 15212/08/2013

I wish he would.

by Anonymousreply 15312/09/2013

[R141] Because it's hotter that wsy.

by Anonymousreply 15412/29/2013

Let him have his fantasy- you have yours. But I feel that gay men have a hate for each other because of their self hate and they see themselves in each other. When they take their hate out in bed and want to punish and humiliate their partner, it is empowering and gives them a sense of self worth.

by Anonymousreply 15512/29/2013

op= misshelenbedd's lover.

by Anonymousreply 15612/29/2013

Is this another Penthouse Letters wannabe thread?

by Anonymousreply 15712/29/2013

You guys have weird sex lives. My BF says filthy, disgusting, passionate, and loving things when he cums. No mean or hurtful things.

by Anonymousreply 15812/29/2013

If someone called me anything hateful or degrading in or out of bed they would be gone.

by Anonymousreply 15912/30/2013

I wish he'd say mean, filthy, disgusting, and hurtful things to me when I'm cumming. That can be SO HOT!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 16001/07/2014

Yes

by Anonymousreply 16101/07/2014

filthy and disgusting is great during sex, OP, YOU CRAZY

by Anonymousreply 16201/07/2014

my question is why calling your sex partner a whore is a turn out, is it only whores who enjoy sex or give their bums so freely, what is the catch?

by Anonymousreply 16301/28/2014

Yes, thankfully I'm not in the room to hear them, so it doesn't bother me anymore.

by Anonymousreply 16401/28/2014

I would imagine only people with psychological problems do this...both parties involved: those that do it, and those that like it.

by Anonymousreply 16501/28/2014

My lesbian lover used to scream, "But you ARE in a wheelchair, Blanch. You ARE!" Always made me cum buckets.

by Anonymousreply 16601/29/2014

YES MY BOYFRIEND CALLS ME A FAGGOT WHEN HE IS CUMING,THEN MAKES ME STAY ON IT THEN MAKES ME DRINK HIS PISS,BUT HE SO HOT

by Anonymousreply 16710/29/2014

This thread is making my anus moist...

by Anonymousreply 16810/29/2014

Mine too, I'm terribly jealous.

by Anonymousreply 16910/29/2014
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