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Do straight men like vaginas as much as gay men like penises?

Do they talk about different characteristics of vaginas with their friends, like gay men? Can straight men get off by just looking at a picture of a vagina?

by Anonymousreply 19202/14/2012

Sadly, I think a lot of straight men are as clueless about ladyparts as you boys are.

And at least you guys have a legitimate excuse. But, the ignorance that straight guys display when it comes to vaginas makes me glad I'm a dyke.

They sure like boobs though.

by Anonymousreply 105/21/2010

OP, no! Straight men are not intersted in vaginas like gay men are interested in penises.

by Anonymousreply 205/21/2010

Straight men like their own penises much better than vaginas.

by Anonymousreply 405/21/2010

A percentage of straight boys are bona fide vagina-philes. They are highly sought-after and much beloved. A true snatch aficionado has no peer in bed, male or female.

by Anonymousreply 505/21/2010

A more correct analogy would be straight men and breasts = gay men and penises. Vaginas are merely a means to an end for many, if not most, straight men.

by Anonymousreply 705/21/2010

Speaking from my own experiences as a female, I can tell you NO. I've never figured that out.

by Anonymousreply 905/21/2010

What #4 said. Straight men talk a lot about the quality of their own penis and disparage others, except for large penises which they admire in wonder. Straight men rarely talk about female genitalia other than as source of humor. Their view is that it is a hole with a ho attached.

by Anonymousreply 1005/21/2010

I prefer they like mangina.

by Anonymousreply 1105/21/2010

All men worship a penis- either ones belonging to others, or their own.

by Anonymousreply 1205/21/2010

r13, straight men may like vaginas, but they aren't interested in them the way OP describes. After all, vaginas are practically invisable compared to penises, and men are visually oriented. Hence the facination with breasts.

by Anonymousreply 1505/21/2010

You've totally missed the boat, R13.

by Anonymousreply 1605/21/2010

I'm a gay man, and I certainly don't get off by just looking at a picture of a penis.

by Anonymousreply 1705/21/2010

Nobody loves anything more than gay men love cock.

by Anonymousreply 1905/21/2010

Regarding Bill Clinton, Jennifer Flowers supposed told a close friend that "[he] ate pussy like a champ."

by Anonymousreply 2005/21/2010

Good grief R21.

by Anonymousreply 2205/21/2010

As a porcupine pines for its pork, that's how I pine for you! As a grasshopper hops on the grass, I'll hop right after you! As an eggplant plants its egg, I'll plant myself near you! Not a woodchuck would chuck wood as I would chuck my love at you!

As a porcupine pines for its pork, that's how I pine for you! As a woodpecker pecks at the wood, I'll always peck at you! As a Pekingese peeks at the knees I'll always peek at you! Oh the oilcans can their oil, but I can tie the can to you!

As a butterfly flies at the butter, I'll fly right after you! As the mousetrap traps the mouse, that's just how I'll trap you! As the lipstick sticks to the lips, I'll always stick to you! As the earring rings the ear I'm going to put a ring on you!

As a pen holder holds a pen, that's just how I'll hold you! As a soup spoon spoons with the soup, That's how I'll spoon with you! As a Sunkist kissed the sun I'll keep on kissing you! As a lemon squeezer squeezes lemons, that's how I'll squeeze you!

Every old rubber tire tires, but I'll not tire of you! As the fruit punch punches the fruit, that's just how I'll punch you! As the fish hook hooks the fish, believe me I'll hook you! As Mary Pickford picked the Ford, that's just how I picked you!

As a coal heaver heaves his coal I'll heave my love at you! As the ear ache aches for the ear, my poor heart aches for you! As a broomstick sticks to the broom, I'll always stick to you! As the bull's eye eyes a bull I'm going to keep an eye on you!

by Anonymousreply 2305/21/2010

When you think of it, the male obsession with the penis is pretty ridiculous. It's just several inches, a few inches more if you're lucky. You'd think it was a magic fucking wand the way men -- gay and straight -- go on about it.

by Anonymousreply 2405/21/2010

OP, you and your friends really sit around talking about the characteristics of the different penises you've seen? Why? Sounds like a real brain trust there...

by Anonymousreply 2505/21/2010

Straight men are odd. As one said to me once as he tried to explain what it was about a particular woman he had the hots for, "I'd eat a yard of her shit just to see the hole it came out of."

by Anonymousreply 2605/21/2010

Yeah, R21 lapping up a poop hole is a lot better.

by Anonymousreply 2705/21/2010

OP, you obviously have never posted a fake Craig's List ad pretending to be a woman. Idiot.

by Anonymousreply 2905/21/2010

If these posts are true, then straight men really ARE selfish in bed. Does it ever occur to straight men that women might enjoy sex more if men actually cared about getting them off?

by Anonymousreply 3005/21/2010

Straight women, understandably, can never accept the fact that if "The Stepford Wives" were possible, most straight men would go for it in an instance. The only people that straight men care about are their male buddies.

by Anonymousreply 3105/21/2010

I remember long ago, guys used to wear T- shirts which read *Free Mustache Rides* and school chums, coworkers, and acquaintances I hung with would brazenly let it be known to all around that any hot chick who happened to be in sight was someone who'd they would love to have sit on their face. If they had big tits, they wanted to titty fuck them too.

by Anonymousreply 3205/21/2010

R27 is my new best friend.

by Anonymousreply 3305/21/2010

Sorry guys, I am a prostitute, and clients are always begging to perform DATY. In fact, they pout if they don't get it. Go figure.

by Anonymousreply 3405/22/2010

R3 said it best. Doesn't apply to all straight men, but easily 60-70%. People who are good in bed listen to and watch their partner to see what's turning them on. Many straight men are kind of clueless and lazy, and don't pay too much attention. They like the pussy fine, they just don't want to know anything beyond that.

I worship cock like a gay man. I've only had sex with two men who felt the same way about pussy, and it made a spectacular difference.

by Anonymousreply 3505/22/2010

What R24 said.

by Anonymousreply 3605/22/2010

OP, they talk about how tight or how loose a particular pussy is. Of course, the tighter the better, to give them more pleasure.

They don't fetishize vaginas like you do penises. They talk way more about how good-looking the woman is, or how nice her tits are.

I've had men literally beg to eat my pussy. And I'm not particularly pretty. Some of them just love eating pussy and prefer that to fucking.

by Anonymousreply 3705/22/2010

Bullshit, r5. I am without peer in my ability to savor a vagina. Your personal experience is just that.

by Anonymousreply 3805/22/2010

When they invent fleshlights that also make dinner and clean the house, there are going to be a lot of lonely ladies.

by Anonymousreply 3905/22/2010

Guys like the ones r5 reference, adore eating pussy, but it is still all about them savoring the vagina. I've had to rap them on the back of their heads after 30 minutes or so, to tell them I stopped responding 15 minutes earlier and they failed to notice.

by Anonymousreply 4005/22/2010

Little is quite so amusing as hearing vagina phobic queens like R21 discuss cunnilingus.

And he probably brags to his friends about his revulsion, as if it signifies "class and bearing."

In his hot-pant-wearing world, it probably does.

Pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 4105/22/2010

I think straight guys like the way it feels and can have a lot of fun with the clit, but the vagina seems to terrify or at least mystify them. They often use very violent euphemisms to decribe it--slit, gash, cum dump, etc. I think there's truth the whole "vagina with teeth" metaphor.

by Anonymousreply 4205/22/2010

Straight guys like the way it feels and have fun with a clit?

Uh, no. For them to even feel the clit, they have to take the time to arouse us. Some of them press it like the starter on a boat or a motorcycle and think they've done their part.

Terrified of the vagina? Hardly.

Men use words like slit, gash, cum dump because they have no respect for women. Misogyny, pure and simple.

by Anonymousreply 4305/22/2010

My straight buddies are obsessed with vag.

by Anonymousreply 4405/22/2010

You are misunderstanding R44. It depends on what type of interest or obsession relating to vagina.

by Anonymousreply 4505/22/2010

I have never heard a straight man use "gash" or "slit", only gay men use that word. "Cum dumpster" is a disturbing term for a woman that has a lot of sex.

by Anonymousreply 4605/22/2010

Only someone who is a complete bottom could be so utterly fucking clueless as to suggest that straight men don't jerk-off to pictures of pussy or visually get into the sight of a beautiful pussy.

After all, I don't think Larry Flynt got rich selling his magazines to future gynecologists for clinical study. That's also why shaved pussies are so popular in porn - because men want to be able to see it in all it's pink, glistening glory - begging for entry.

So - Yes - straight men - most of whom are natural tops - do love pussy - just like gay men who are tops get off of on images of pink, hairy assholes.

by Anonymousreply 4705/22/2010

some straights like to be bottoms

by Anonymousreply 4905/23/2010

Of course they are obsessed with vaginas, are you kidding? Why do you think the internet is full of naked women spreading their legs.

by Anonymousreply 5005/23/2010

r50, the same reason the horror film genre is so successful.

by Anonymousreply 5105/23/2010

Hating women won't make straight men want you. They love women, they love pussy, they think we're gross, deal with it. And there are plenty of hot gay men to go around. We don't need the straight ones.

by Anonymousreply 5205/23/2010

Nothing like reading "expert" posts from a bunch of gayboys talking about vaginas.

Men in general are so fucking arrogant it's amazing women give them the time of day.

by Anonymousreply 5305/23/2010

Straight female here who has had sex with dozens of men.

Physiologically speaking, sexual arousal in both men and women, as most of you know, results from erotic thoughts and physical contact which then triggers the flow of blood to the genitals.

The simple fact is that the process of arousal and lubrication in women takes longer then it does for men to, say, achieve an erection. As we age, the process changes but that's a different topic.

Anyway, the best lovers I've ever had are men who truly love sex and get thier biggest ego boost from arousing and slowly bringing you to orgasm, (or several!). Accept it, DL mysogynists- some men are helpless about the female body and love every inch of it.

The rub, so to speak, is the enormous amount of ignorance by men of female genitals. For instance, the clitoris contains as many nerve endings as the head of a penis. Knowledge truly is power when it comes to being good at sex, as well as practice.

So, yes, straight men do like vaginas as much as gay men like penises.

AND, most straight men, even if they don't want to admit it, love anal play. Rimming, fingers, what have you.

by Anonymousreply 5405/23/2010

"Straight men are all pretty sexist, and they have no clue what's going on when it comes to female genitalia. They're much more interested in their own self gratification, and usually that doesn't take much. They think and talk incessantly about sex, but really are complete bumblers in bed.

I'm always amazed at how disparagingly straight guys talk about their wives. You'd think that they hate them. Then they'll fixate on some young woman, who'd rather die than touch any of them, and will talk about her as if they could easily get her.

They are the strangest bunch ever."

That's a VERY sexist statement, I'm sorry you had a bad experience with men.

by Anonymousreply 5506/27/2011

of course, straight men love vagina or they wouldn't be straight. What a silly question. As if gay men know what straight men like. And to call the vagina, a slash? Not only misogynist and hateful but I sense jealousy there.

R5 is right. There is a percentage of men who are vaginaphiles--women love and adore these men and if they get away, they're sorely missed. I think Brad Pitt is one.

by Anonymousreply 5606/27/2011

Jesus Christ, OP -- THIS WEBSITE is where you pose this question?

You're an idiot.

by Anonymousreply 5806/27/2011

lol r58 Nothing wrong with gay men being curious. Naturally, he will get replies from those who have no clue.

by Anonymousreply 5906/27/2011

R48, not 'never': check out Courbet's 'The Origin of the World.'

by Anonymousreply 6006/27/2011

Some do, some don't.

next!

by Anonymousreply 6206/27/2011

Among pussy men, the feel of it is probably more important than the look.

by Anonymousreply 6306/27/2011

60 posts and all we've heard from are gay men and straight women who can only guess at what straight men really like.

I know we don't have many straight guys here, but it would be great to hear from them. BI men too.

by Anonymousreply 6406/27/2011

I don't like penises that much. I think they're rather ugly, actually.

I only like them as a means to an end - giving or receiving pleasure - but not in and of themselves. I don't get anything from seeing a picture of a penis.

by Anonymousreply 6506/27/2011

I work with straight men all day and am often the only female around. After a while - if they know they aren't going to fuck you - they stop censoring themselves. From what I have heard from straight men, all they TALK about are boobs. Exception is that some men, mostly black guys, talk about butts. They must enjoy the pussy but they don't discuss it much.

by Anonymousreply 6606/27/2011

Hang on, honey! You don't fall in love with Mr. Pussy-you enjoy him and then set him free!

by Anonymousreply 6706/27/2011

I've noticed the thing about talking like they hate their wives too. What is that all about? They married them - nobody made them. If you could see the wedding picture, they would look happy in it. %0D %0D A lot of stuff about how stupid their wives are. I can't imagine women go from smart to stupid during the course of a marriage. The guys must go from "pussy goggles" to "non-pussy goggles" during the marriage. Maybe they are getting some somewhere else?

by Anonymousreply 6806/27/2011

[quote]A lot of stuff about how stupid their wives are.

To be fair, lots of women do this when they are with their girl friends. Husband bashing is a popular past-time.

by Anonymousreply 6906/27/2011

Please r1, you sound like a serious idiot.

by Anonymousreply 7006/27/2011

Of course guys hate to look at pussy, that's why they don't have any porn sites or jerkoff magazines.

by Anonymousreply 7106/27/2011

[quote]I know we don't have many straight guys here, but it would be great to hear from them. BI men too.

I'm R60, and I'm one of DL's token straight guys.

I like vaginas, but I'll admit I've never understood the Larry Flynt style photos of women with their legs spread. Those photos were very helpful when I was 14 and trying to figure out what was what, but to me most of those photos just make the woman seem either deranged or mildly retarded. I guess I appreciate a bit of mystery.

Then again, I despise fake breasts (love real ones though), so I'm probably not with the majority when it comes to what men find stimulating about females.

by Anonymousreply 7206/27/2011

"The only people that straight men care about are their male buddies."

Good god. Some DLers need to get over their mommy issues.

by Anonymousreply 7306/27/2011

Oh, excuse me, I'm R61, not R60. Sorry.

by Anonymousreply 7406/27/2011

What straight guys like can be summarized in six words:%0D %0D Get in, get off, get out. %0D %0D No other explanations needed or wanted.

by Anonymousreply 7506/27/2011

[quote]I've noticed the thing about talking like they hate their wives too. What is that all about? They married them - nobody made them. If you could see the wedding picture, they would look happy in it.

I noticed that, too. The place I work in is almost exclusively men and unless there is a woman around, straight men talk about women like some sub-species, good only for fucking. Basically every woman they meet is 'graded' as to her 'fuckability' - of course, once she leaves the room: customers, co-workers, everyone.

But it's never about vaginas - face, body, tits, the most visual characteristics.

Honestly, for me it feels awkward, since I know some of those women even outside of work (as do my co-workers) and I suppose for me they are just someone I'm not sexually interested in so it's weird when they are randomly sexualized for no purpose at all.

by Anonymousreply 7606/27/2011

I don't know about pussy, but I once heard a straight male coworker say of a woman he saw, "I'd eat a yard of her shit just to see the hole it came out of."

by Anonymousreply 7706/27/2011

Bat-winged?%0D %0D Have you even seen a "gash" R48?

by Anonymousreply 7806/28/2011

Hey, r61, R72, R74..... YUM!

by Anonymousreply 7906/28/2011

No, straight men do not like vaginas as much as gay men like penises. Definitely not.%0D %0D Most straight men have very little interest in the vagina as a thing to be worshiped like gay men worship penises.%0D %0D Also many gay men have a huge psychological draw to penises that does not exist for straight men and vagaina.%0D %0D Some gay men who worship penises just want to suck off another man's penis without getting sexual acts applied to their own body by the sex partner. %0D %0D Some are happy with just sucking someone else off - and not being a recepient of sexual acts themselves.%0D %0D Many straight men never apply their lips to a vagina. %0D %0D And they never look at a vagina - they just stick their penis into it.

by Anonymousreply 8006/28/2011

I have str8 male friends that like to chat with me about pussy eating; they seem obsessed with it. They mainly seem to like a woman more if they think her pussy "tastes nice". They can't articulate what "nice" is when I ask. They're curious what pussy tastes like for me. I tell 'em "100% women" ;o)%0D %0D x%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 8106/28/2011

R81, I doubt if your male friends are obsessed with it - I would bet 100 percent that they just like to pump you, as a lesbian, for information about pussy eating and what you think of it - and their obsession lies in that they are obsessed with why you prefer to eat pussy rather than have sexual intercourse with a man.%0D %0D Lesbians are a curiosity on their part and they like to get your reactions to why you enjoy sex with a woman and why you enjoy pussy eating.

by Anonymousreply 8206/28/2011

Oh @R82 - so do you think that's why they usually shuffle off like a tripod ?%0D %0D x%0D %0D *weg

by Anonymousreply 8306/28/2011

no r13 straight men like pussy, i.e. that part of woman they can fuck. They barely know that where they stick their penis is called a vagina, let alone look at it. They can be obessesed with a woman's body part but it will be breasts, butts or for some legs. They can even get turned on by big, full lips (like some gay men do), but never with vaginas.

by Anonymousreply 8406/28/2011

meant to type:%0D %0D worshiping the vagina the way a gay man can suck on a a penis with great happiness, does not really exist%0D %0D Before you say it - a rare, occasional man likes to lick pussy, but no where near the vast number of gay men who adore penis sucking

by Anonymousreply 8606/28/2011

... maybe for some men their only experience of pussy is 'disco fanny' i.e., slappers they've picked up in sweaty nightclubs and so their crotch is somewhat erm.... 'spicy' (??) and, hence the men's aversion to it?%0D %0D Personally, there's nothing that can top the feeling of a women's swollen clitoris against one's tongue - feeling her come in your mouth as she body pops uncontrollably.%0D %0D (sweeping statement alert !!!) It could be that lesbians have cleaner, nicer tasting pussy which, obviously, str8 men never get to taste.....%0D %0D x%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 8706/28/2011

That has not been my personal experience, but I may not be the right person to ask.

by Anonymousreply 8806/28/2011

I am a bisexual dude. I am not into penises, but I love dudes' muscles, abs, masculinity, and BUTTS. I could do without the penis thing.

by Anonymousreply 8906/28/2011

"Vagina is my third favorite hole."

--Drama, ENTOURAGE

by Anonymousreply 9006/28/2011

I can't believe how many of you actually believe straight men bragging -- it's all bullshit.%0D %0D The sexial problem is that straight men want the vagina to respond in (porn) ways that are impossible. The clit is the female equivalent of the penis, and that's where their attention should be if they want their wife/gf to climax.

by Anonymousreply 9106/28/2011

Gay man here, so I'm no expert. But I thought straight men liked eating pussy. Isn't eating pussy the thing that gets them all crazy? %0D %0D It's not that straight men want to look at vaginas the way gay men want to look at penises. But I thought straight men just want to go down there and munch away.%0D %0D But what do I know?

by Anonymousreply 9206/28/2011

They're called ftm's, R89.

by Anonymousreply 9306/28/2011

I'd take a dildo any day over a real cock. Real cocks smell funny and they look ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 9406/28/2011

[quote]Before you say it - a rare, occasional man likes to lick pussy, but no where near the vast number of gay men who adore penis sucking%0D %0D Liar.

by Anonymousreply 9506/28/2011

Well, if an authority like R96 says all that it must be true.

by Anonymousreply 9706/28/2011

"Gay man here, so I'm no expert. But I thought straight men liked eating pussy."

Uh, NOT black dudes.

by Anonymousreply 9806/28/2011

R96. Why would a straight man lick a vagaina if he doesn't really like it? I mean, if all he's going to do is sort of lick it a bit without really eating her out, the woman is going to know he doesn't like doing it. He's going to hate it, and she's going to know that he hates doing it. %0D %0D What's the point? And why bother? It's the biggest come down to reality and a big turn off if all of a sudden either partner is aware that the other one is doing something that he hates...like half-heartedly licking her pussy just a bit when he'd rather be gagging form doing it.

by Anonymousreply 9906/28/2011

Once again, I don't understand how people on a gay website are authorities on what straight men like in women.%0D %0D I do have to say that one thing I do agree with after reading so many threads here is that gay men really worship cocks. I was really surprised to learn how many men enjoy sucking a cock without a thought of reciprocity.

by Anonymousreply 10106/28/2011

R100 here. I am a straight woman.

by Anonymousreply 10206/28/2011

[quote]... maybe for some men their only experience of pussy is 'disco fanny' i.e., slappers they've picked up in sweaty nightclubs and so their crotch is somewhat erm.... 'spicy' (??) and, hence the men's aversion to it?

I believe that's the truth for probably half the men who won't eat pussy*; they've had a bad experience with a girl who tasted bad or was dirty, and they won't try it again.

I dated one guy who told me he wouldn't go down on me cuz "it tastes sour". I told him that I was perfectly clean and very delicious, and I expected him to properly worship my pussy! I even stuck my fingers inside myself, pulled them out and licked them, then offered them to him. When he refused to even consider tasting my juices, I promptly got dressed and left the stupid asshole!

My pussy is a TREAT that deserves to be savoured. If a guy won't do so, then why should I allow him access? The main reason I pick up a guy is for some oral action, cuz dildos and vibrators easily take care of the rest of my cravings!

*The other half are just selfish fucks who don't care if the woman gets off.

by Anonymousreply 10306/28/2011

Gay men worship dick. %0D %0D The body to whom the dick is attached, is simply a life support system for the dick.%0D %0D %0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 10406/28/2011

R102, please don't speak for all the females of the world because of your unhappy experiences.

Most of the men I've slept with loved vaginas.

by Anonymousreply 10506/28/2011

R105, I have not had any unhappy experiences.%0D %0D And I do not care whether a man licks my pussy or not. It is optional. I prefer the other sexual acts.%0D %0D Have you done in reading in your life, R105?%0D %0D If you've done any reading on this topic, you would know that what I say is true.

by Anonymousreply 10606/29/2011

Link please, R106.

by Anonymousreply 10706/29/2011

Don't yell at me you stupid twat. You claimed you read that men don't like licking pussy and I asked you to site your reference. You didn't so I'm not about to rely on your dubious opinion.%0D %0D What are you doing on this board anyway if you are a straight woman (if you really are). You get lost you dumb cunt.

by Anonymousreply 10906/29/2011

R109, I did not say that ALL men do not like licking pussy.%0D %0D You lack comprehension and lack cognitive skills.

by Anonymousreply 11006/29/2011

Funny how some gay men try to convince themselves how straight men don't care for the vag. Men have started wars because of it. Have murdered, committed adultery for it, cheated, embezzled and betrayed their best friends, brothers and fathers for it.

No, it wasn't for a pair of tits only.

by Anonymousreply 11106/29/2011

Don't quibble with me R100. You said repeatedly that "The vast majority" of men don't like it. But gave no proof other than your dull opinion. Reread your own dopey posts.%0D %0D Speaking of dull, you must be a blast in bed with your begrudging blowjobs.%0D

by Anonymousreply 11206/29/2011

R111, we are talking about sucking on and licking a vagina.%0D %0D We are not talking about putting a penis in a vagina.%0D %0D As R21 stated,'Surprisingly a lot of straight men are not into cunnilingus at all. I've had several straight men tell me they'd turn gay before they'd put their mouth on some broad's pussy.'%0D %0D R111, you must not have read the whole thread.%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 11306/29/2011

Let the straight men speak for themselves. See link.

by Anonymousreply 11406/29/2011

Bi chick here. The last straight guy I was with always talked about how he loved "pleasuring a woman." I sucked his dick ad he offered to reciprocate. By reciprocate he meant roughly finger banging me for a few minutes and ramming his finger against my clit. Then he wanted to fuck.

by Anonymousreply 11506/29/2011

Hope you have better taste in woman than you have in men, bi-chick.

by Anonymousreply 11606/29/2011

Some men enjoy giving oral to women, some men do not enjoy it.%0D %0D There are plenty of men who will NOT give oral to a woman.%0D %0D It's a personal act and choice, just like any sexual act. %0D

by Anonymousreply 11706/29/2011

Now you're backtracking R117.

this is what you said: [quote]Licking pussy certainly does not make straight men crazy with happiness and joy and lust and satisfaction.

You just generalized the whole straight male population. And you don't speak for all females. Your posts sound pretty bitter about men.

I've had several straight men tell me that they love licking pussy and it's the closest and most intimate act they can give to a woman.

Of course, there are others that do not like it.

by Anonymousreply 11806/29/2011

R118, gay men seem to seek out opportunities to suck on penises and are crazy about it way more than straight men are crazy about sucking on pussy.%0D %0D And many gay men love to solely suck on various penises and want nothing in return - no reciprocity - just allowing them to suck on a penis is all they want. Many gays on Datalounge have testified to this.%0D %0D You won't find any straight men who are seeking nothing more than an opportunity to suck on a pussy - with nothing in return - no sex act for them.%0D %0D The OP posed the original question - and the answer to the original question is No.

by Anonymousreply 11906/29/2011

well, i'm a straight guy and i can tell you that i love vagina. i could get off on a picture of a vagina sure. i'd see the picture and think about how good they feel. and how much i actually enjoy going down on a girl. i've develope quite a liking of it. i like using my tongue and enjoy knowing that i'm using my tongue to make my girlfriend feel good. i and if i could describe a freature that i like in a girl's vagina, i'd have to go with a small clit. for some reason when i see a girl with a small clit. it drives me crazy and makes me want her really bad.

i know that doesn't mean that every guy feels the same as me. but there is one guy out here in the world who like vagina and doesn't give a crap about the size of his own pecker. it's not the size of the boat that matters. it's the motion of the ocean. i take this term to heart. especially since i am not soo blessed in the size department.

by Anonymousreply 12006/29/2011

[R103] that guy who denied tasting you was a wimp. a clean pussy is great.;)

by Anonymousreply 12106/29/2011

"Straight men are all pretty sexist, and they have no clue what's going on when it comes to female genitalia."

Aren't the younger generation of straight guys much more focused on a woman's body and pleasure than previous generations? I thought most young guys today knew about the clitoris, about oral sex etc.

by Anonymousreply 12206/29/2011

Why do you all care what straight men like when it comes to women? Most of you HATE women but, seem so obsessed with there every moment of lately on this board. Stupid ass questions. The bottom line is if he isn't trying to hit on you he's just "NOT THAT INTO YOU". You can try to analyze the female anatomy from looks fading,saying straight men fall out of love with women etc,. But, the bottom line is that, is all very generalized and sterotypical and pretty pathetic that you would care. Be happy gay marriage was passed in NYC. Go out have fun and find love. Stop wondering if straight men want you. Bottom line a real straight man doesn't care what pussy look likes. They want to fuck it and cum. They will eat it too. %0D %0D Also a real straight man would put his dick in a vaccum cleaner suction before your bum. So please stop worrying about "what straight men do with straight women. Learn to love you and go find some constructive to do .

by Anonymousreply 12306/29/2011

oh and at R103.

that guy who denied tasting you. that guy was a wimp. a clean girl tastes great. especially if she cums.;)

by Anonymousreply 12406/29/2011

okay now who the hell stole my name. and why did you say pretty much the exact same thing as me?

by Anonymousreply 12506/29/2011

R121 and R125 are the same person. Just click on trolldar and they both become yellow.%0D %0D We get your point, R121, R125

by Anonymousreply 12606/29/2011

R121, R124, and R125 are the same person.

by Anonymousreply 12706/29/2011

Can women flip their va-jay-jays inside out?

by Anonymousreply 12806/29/2011

[quote]And many gay men love to solely suck on various penises and want nothing in return - no reciprocity - just allowing them to suck on a penis is all they want. Many gays on Datalounge have testified to this. You won't find any straight men who are seeking nothing more than an opportunity to suck on a pussy - with nothing in return - no sex act for them.

That's because 99% if straight men are TOPS. It has nothing to do with the fact that they are straight and the object of their desire is a woman. The gay men who worship cock to the point of not wanting to get off themselves are subs/bottoms. Gay men who are tops want to get off---just like straight men do.

by Anonymousreply 12906/29/2011

Thank you, R123. Of course you are right.

by Anonymousreply 13006/29/2011

r113 The title of the thread is [bold]Do straight men like vaginas as much as gay men like penises?[/bold]b which is general.

by Anonymousreply 13106/29/2011

Not all gay men are into penises other. Trade tops exists among gay and bisexual men. No Recipro.

by Anonymousreply 13206/29/2011

It kills me how the women always tear men apart for being bad at oral sex, but they take for granted that they're blue ribbon cock suckers because they read a couple articles in Cosmopolitan and they can make the guy eventually cum.

by Anonymousreply 13306/29/2011

Not true R133. We pretty much know we suck (ha!) at it. We know we're no match for the gays in the cock sucking arena. Just like straight guys know they can't hold a candle to lesbians when it comes to pussy eating skills.

by Anonymousreply 13406/29/2011

Why is this question being asked on here? Do you really think you can get a real answer from gay men/women and straight women?

by Anonymousreply 13606/29/2011

[quote]I am a straight woman.%0D %0D And what are you doing here?

by Anonymousreply 13706/29/2011

You were made by a man and a woman right?You got a daddy and a mommy? So what does that tell you? Nough said.

by Anonymousreply 13806/29/2011

R7 you are sadly misinformed about human sexuality. A penis is a sexual organ; a female breast is a method of transporting food to an infant...apples and oranges.

by Anonymousreply 13906/29/2011

R7 was not wrong R139. The original question was do straight men fetishize vagina's the same way gay men do penises. R7 was simply saying they do not, but they do fetishize breasts. He is correct....and yes, in western culture tits ARE sexual. Very much so.

by Anonymousreply 14006/30/2011

I'm a straight guy and prefer penises. It's just the men I can't deal with, unless they look like young women. It's more about the masculine and feminine archetype for me than any genitalia. I get repulsed by masculinity and instantly drawn by submissiviness and femininity. I just find erect penises very arousing. I would say I'm a bisexual but most men are just so fugly, when most women at least have boobs and usually very little body hair. Nothing wrong with vag, I'm just not turned on by them.

by Anonymousreply 14106/30/2011

I think men in general (straight, gay, bi) fetishize dicks in general, be they their own or those of others.

by Anonymousreply 14206/30/2011

What's the appeal for any straight guys to be on DL at all? just curious...%0D %0D So straight guys fetishize dicks, find women annoying, and have bromantic feelings for their guy buddies....%0D %0D ...proving the point that straight guys should be gay. %0D %0D All guys should probably be gay.%0D %0D Except gay guys.%0D %0D They should be straight.

by Anonymousreply 14306/30/2011

[quote][R7] you are sadly misinformed about human sexuality. A penis is a sexual organ; a female breast is a method of transporting food to an infant...apples and oranges.

So what does that make the mouth, the tongue, and the anus? Your definition is narrow enough to please Focus on the Family.

by Anonymousreply 14406/30/2011

They're called mtf's, R141.

by Anonymousreply 14506/30/2011

"Straight men are all pretty sexist, and they have no clue what's going on when it comes to female genitalia. They're much more interested in their own self gratification, and usually that doesn't take much. They think and talk incessantly about sex, but really are complete bumblers in bed."

Tell the truth. Are that many gay men really good in bed? Do you really feel they know how to treat your dicks?

I don't.

by Anonymousreply 14607/01/2011

[quote]I'm a straight guy and prefer penises. Nothing wrong with vag, I'm just not turned on by them.%0D %0D Son, I hate to break it to you, but you are gay.%0D

by Anonymousreply 14707/01/2011

R142 you are exactly right.

by Anonymousreply 14807/01/2011

Why do you all care what straight men like when it comes to women? Most of you HATE women but, seem so obsessed with there every moment of lately on this board. Stupid ass questions. The bottom line is if he isn't trying to hit on you he's just "NOT THAT INTO YOU". You can try to analyze the female anatomy from looks fading,saying straight men fall out of love with women etc,. But, the bottom line is that, is all very generalized and sterotypical and pretty pathetic that you would care. Be happy gay marriage was passed in NYC. Go out have fun and find love. Stop wondering if straight men want you. Bottom line a real straight man doesn't care what pussy look likes. They want to fuck it and cum. They will eat it too.

Also a real straight man would put his dick in a vaccum cleaner suction before your bum. So please stop worrying about "what straight men do with straight women. Learn to love you and go find some constructive to do .

by Anonymousreply 15001/26/2012

I think the comparison should be whether straight men like vaginas as much as gay tops like ass.

In terms of oral, there's no comparison.

by Anonymousreply 15101/26/2012

Some straight men are reluctant to suck cunt because they think it's a submissive act. Gay men being more submissive don't mind sucking cock.

by Anonymousreply 15201/26/2012

[quote]You won't find any straight men who are seeking nothing more than an opportunity to suck on a pussy - with nothing in return - no sex act for them.

Wrong. I have seen many, many ads on Craigslist over the years from men offering just that - cunnilingus with no reciprocation, because yes, they love it that much. And I've met guys in real life who feel similarly.

The truth is, this is an issue straight men as a group are continuing to evolve on as gender roles become less rigid and porn is more widely available than ever. Maybe back in the day most men didn't do it or even attempt to do it because it was considered "unmanly," but if the way I hear straight men talk about it nowadays is any indication, that is something that has begun to change drastically in recent years. Men are doing it more and more - and many are discovering that they love it.

by Anonymousreply 15301/26/2012

I think they're more just curious about the hetro perspective really.No need to get so angry R123.

by Anonymousreply 15401/26/2012

R48, most great artists did not 'depict the beauty of the penis at all'. In fact, they went out of their way to downplay its size and turgidity as can be seen in the many works of Michelangelo. Large throbbing penises were considered beyond vulgar and it was good artistic form to depict the penis as small and flaccid.

'never a sloppy hairy bat-winged gash' This is untrue as R60 mentioned. You can also check out works such as Katsushika Hokusai's The Dream of a Fisherman's Wife.

'I assume they knew what was aesthetically pleasing.' Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the demeaning language you use ('bat-winged gash') speaks volumes of a mind already clouded by prejudice.

by Anonymousreply 15501/27/2012

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I feel Michelangelo's David would have been better presented with a raging hard on.

by Anonymousreply 15601/27/2012

I think so. Vaginas were kind of designed for penises, weren't they?

by Anonymousreply 15701/27/2012

R157, mine wasn't.

by Anonymousreply 15801/28/2012

Basically straight dudes are into breasts or buttocks, although there's a trend of guys liking shaved vajay-jays.

If they are concerned at all about penises, it is their size when erect and how long they can last inside...LOL

One guy I knew always talked about how tight a woman's vagina was, but that was it.

A lot of straight guys are titillated more by a covered vagina, i.e. the white cotton panties bit under the skirt, rather than pink shots.

by Anonymousreply 15901/28/2012

[quote]I know we don't have many straight guys here, but it would be great to hear from them. BI men too.

Hahaha, yes, I would like to hear bi men wax poetic about the vagina. Ain't gonna happen. Most bi men are "bi" for societal reasons, not sexual attraction.

by Anonymousreply 16001/28/2012

[quote]Basically straight dudes are into breasts or buttocks, although there's a trend of guys liking shaved vajay-jays.

No they are not. Have you read that digusting thread that leaked out onto google where about straight guys eating pussy? You got real responses there. They love it. Straight guys go crazy for pussy. Wars have been started over pussy. And, just to add - straight guys do not want men, nor would they seek out men for anything.

by Anonymousreply 16201/28/2012

They seek out men for football.

by Anonymousreply 16301/28/2012

[quote]My experience as a straight woman is that many men are repulsed by the sight/smell/taste of a vagina (hence all the fish jokes)...

Thanks for the input, "ma'am".

by Anonymousreply 16401/28/2012

I am not into penises at all. I love buff muscles, ripped abs, square-jawed face, and a tight ass. I could do without a dude's penis though.

by Anonymousreply 16501/28/2012

Most straight guys are very insecure when a woman's clitoris is larger than their penis.

by Anonymousreply 16601/28/2012

Well, damn wouldn't any man be R166?

"Some straight men are reluctant to suck cunt because they think it's a submissive act. Gay men being more submissive don't mind sucking cock."

I love this because it touches on the dynamic between m/m versus m/f. There are issues of power and surrender always going on between a man and woman that is so different from the power play between a man with a man.

Take the issue of just how a man touches a woman versus how a man touches another man. If you are too rough with a woman, it can be seen as disrespectful, even abusive. A man who is a little rough with another man during sex is being a "top." It's not meant to be abusive, it's meant to be in control and hot.

by Anonymousreply 16701/28/2012

R167 I think that's going to depend on the perspective of the individual.

by Anonymousreply 16801/28/2012

r167 and other, you seem to contend that male-male erotic interaction is devoid of power and respect dynamic. It is not for many. Thus, the concern of many males who are attracted to other men that they will be perceived as submissive or effeminate if they engage in certain acts with men. While guys may be strict tops for many different reasons, one of the reasons is that they don't want to be perceived as effeminate or submissive. Likewise, some guys never suck dick for the same reason. Further, many urban guys are careful to cultivate an Alpha Male imagine when sexually interacting with males. Other males are attracted to guys that are virulently dominant with males, such as thugs.

by Anonymousreply 16901/28/2012

The culture? OK.

by Anonymousreply 17101/28/2012

I doubt it. Just as straight women don't love penises as much as gay men, either. Men in general probably love penis a lot more than vagina, but straight guys restrict most of their love to their own genitals, with the exception of porn stand-ins fucking women.

Also, as I mentioned above, most straight women don't care much about dick either. And many don't want men to really touch their vaginas. Some do, but others could take or leave it. I've known many women who just want breast play and a pounding. I think it might depend on how orgasmic they are. As far as eating it, meh. I like it to provide pleasure to a woman, but it doesn't give me pleasure. I mean, if she doesn't want it I'm not going to insist.

I imagine cock probably tastes better and is more enjoyable/easier (men being simpler and more aware of their own bodies and all).

I think it might be more appropriate to compare vagina to asshole. Since that's what we are fucking, and vag probably tastes like ass.

by Anonymousreply 17201/28/2012

[quote]Can straight men get off by just looking at a picture of a vagina?

Possibly the stupidest question ever asked on DL

by Anonymousreply 17301/28/2012

I'm Straight Guy in 172. I just realized there was an earlier 'Straight Guy." I'm another dude. Just wanted to clear that up.

by Anonymousreply 17401/28/2012

The desperation on this thread is hysterical. No, straight men do no find female bodies sexually exciting, they all secretly just want some cock.

by Anonymousreply 17501/28/2012

You might want to work a little more on your "Straight Dude" act R172.

by Anonymousreply 17601/28/2012

Straight guys HATE pictures of vagina.

Show them this and they'll run screaming from the room

by Anonymousreply 17701/28/2012

R167 fails to understand the joke. Micro-tiny dick man jealous of the gf's clitoris. Get it yet?

by Anonymousreply 17801/28/2012

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by Anonymousreply 17901/29/2012

I've watched a lot of straight homemade pron because I get off on supermasculine men, and I've noticed that the men rarely touch the women except to balance themselves with her buttocks when they're doing doggy. They will do things to a woman's body as a "favor", or to bet her wetter for entry. But in all the footage I've seen, only a handful had a guy going berserk over a woman's naughty parts. Very litle caressing, touching the face, stroking the hair, kissing, etc.

They also seem to be into mild-to-wild humiliation: spitting, anal, slamming their vag violently, smacking, hairpulling, gagging, insults, pulling the dick out and making her suck it (ew) and slapping her butt HARD with his hand over and over, leaving red marks- that's gotta hurt.

My conclusion is they like orgasms, and they don't care what hole they have to put it in to get one.

I'm not trying to be anti-woman or anything. It has just struck me as sad and weird.

by Anonymousreply 18001/29/2012

Most straight men are far too self-involved and busy worshipping their own genitals to give much thought to a woman's or what would pleasure her. It's all about the man's orgasm. And yes, it is disturbing how many seem to get off on humiliating/abusing women.

by Anonymousreply 18101/29/2012

[quote]I know a lot of guys who would rather get a blow job or fuck a woman in the ass than deal with the vagina, at least for the finish.

No you don't MHB/R170

by Anonymousreply 18201/29/2012

Str8 men like tits, like gay guys like dicks.

by Anonymousreply 18301/29/2012

[quote]I think it might be more appropriate to compare vagina to asshole. Since that's what we are fucking, and vag probably tastes like ass.

Yeah, you're a straight guy alright, R172. {{snort}}

by Anonymousreply 18401/29/2012

R180, you will learn nothing about real hetero sex by watching straight porn. That's all fantasy created for men who like that sort of thing and get off on it. Most real straight men wouldn't dare treat their wives and gf's like that. There is A LOT of affection and reciprocity in real life sex.

by Anonymousreply 18501/29/2012

not all gay dudes like penis. I do not.

by Anonymousreply 18601/31/2012

I don't like penis. I like ass, pecs, biceps, goodlooking face. But keep the penis out of sight, dude.

by Anonymousreply 18702/14/2012

I'd say yes, by all appearances.

by Anonymousreply 18802/14/2012

"Do straight men like vaginas as much as gay men like penises?"

Maybe not but they certainly like pussy as much as gay men like dick.

by Anonymousreply 18902/14/2012

A straight man wants all "holes" (ahem...) belonging to a woman. Not men. The moment the straight man seeks out a hole belonging to a man, he ceases to be straight.

Amateur straight porn has a lot of affection. Real porn is directed at misogynist men, both straight and gay.

by Anonymousreply 19002/14/2012

Nobody likes anything anymore than gay men love dick!

by Anonymousreply 19102/14/2012

lll

by Anonymousreply 19202/14/2012
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