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Woes of Having a Huge Cock -- WTF is there to complain about?

Interesting thing happened last night. Been seeing this guy for a while; very nice guy, not bad on the eyes -- and he's got a big dick. I'd say 9 when at full mast. That's been fun for me. Not a size queen at all here, but I'll admit that I like it. Anyway, in the heat of sex last night I said something about "let me feel that huge dick" or something like that. I didn't notice any difference in him then, but afterwards he brought up what I said and kind of acted weird about it. Through further conversation he told me that it's always been a blessing AND a curse to be hung, that guys always seem to focus in on his cock during sex and not on HIM. I asked him if he ever felt that way about me, and he said he hadn't until I said that tonight. I think he's a little hypersensitive about it. I also think of all the problems for a gay guy to have, this isn't one to fret about. LOL Do any of you overly-hung guys out there get what he's talking about?

by OPreply 14305/21/2014

I would almost say this was an EST, because it sounds like something a petulant guy with a big dick would say, but I would just tell him to calm down for one reason only.........his large penis, once you have had your "fill" dump him.

by OPreply 305/20/2010

I hate spending the end of a date holding my date's hand in the ER because he insisted he could take it. I'm always concerned about an assault charge or getting sued, to the point I am thinking of making my partners sign a waiver. I can't be the only guy with this problem.

by OPreply 405/20/2010

I have a pretty big one. The only problem is that some guys can't take it. So it limits you in a way.

by OPreply 705/20/2010

r4 & r7, I hear ya!

Depending on his age, he may have had a few boyfriends who ended up telling them, "I was only with you because you have a big dick." My counter would be "well, we both have to agree that you ARE the bigger dick."

by OPreply 805/20/2010

It's all about the dick.

by OPreply 905/20/2010

Very average size here, but I do understand the hung guy's hang-up. However, grow up! Deal with your "shortcoming," which in this case is located in his brain. Everyone has some "flaw" about themsleves. And it could be a lot worse than having a big dick.

by OPreply 1005/20/2010

Let me guess that no one who has posted in this thread is a psychotherapist.

by OPreply 1105/20/2010

Mine is 8.5 inches and, like r7, the biggest frustration is that some guys just can't take it. Another frustration is the assumption that because you have a big dick, you should be incredibly confident. Not true. I've struggled with low self-esteem all my life and having a big dick didn't make it any better. Getting a college degree and working at a job I love, that has given me more confidence than knowing I've got a dick that other men salivate over.

by OPreply 1405/20/2010

I once had a guy dump me after a couple of months. He was very cruel. "I only used you for what you have between your legs."

And I really liked him. I boo hooed for months after that.

by OPreply 1505/20/2010

he sounds like a bottom.

by OPreply 1605/20/2010

[quote]I've actually ripped the material Haha. The incredible hulk dick.

by OPreply 1705/20/2010

It sucks having to cart it around in a wheelbarrow everywhere I go.

by OPreply 1805/20/2010

Woes of having a huge cock are the same as being smart, hot, funny, or __________.

He may think that if he didn't have a huge cock you wouldn't like him as much,just the same way smart people think others only like them for their intellect, or hot people think others only like them for their looks, or funny people think others only like them for their jokes. People are insecure over everything.

by OPreply 1905/20/2010

That's so funny and so original, r5. How on earth did you ever come up with that? Have you considered getting a job writing for a sitcom? You really should put your extraordinary talent to good use.

by OPreply 2005/20/2010

An old roommate of mine who is straight and had a normal size cock picked up a girl one time, brought her home, and fucked her. She told him he had the biggest cock she had ever seen, screamed, "My God, it's so big it hurts, but don't stop, I love it!" and then stole $400 out of his wallet and vanished in the night.

He considered it the best $400 he ever spent just to hear that. I bet I heard him tell the story a dozen times.

by OPreply 2105/20/2010

R20, dear, R5's offense is less silly than your own, since your banal sarcasm is overstated for such a dull topic.

If you are the type of poster who presumes to judge the value of others' posts, first apply that finely tuned sense of judgment to your own impulses.

Just trying to be helpful here. I hate to see people make fools of themselves, with troll-dar revealing exactly how many times you've bared your pimply ass on the DL with such posts.

by OPreply 2205/20/2010

[quote]smart people think others only like them for their intellect

No one is ever worried that someone only likes them for their mind. That's a reach.

by OPreply 2305/20/2010

Seriously, the only downside is if you're dating someone you really like, or sleeping with someone you find hot and they simply can't deal with it. They can't take it up the ass, they can't give you a decent blowjob.

Of course, you can always find someone who can, but it is disappointing if you like the person who can't deal.

by OPreply 2405/20/2010

I stayed in a relationship way too long because of his dick. Stupidest mistake I ever made.

Most guys with big dicks have trouble staying hard - and yes, it can be too much of a good thing sometimes.

Looks pretty though.

by OPreply 2505/20/2010

I happen to hate the large ones. I would dump a guy for having one.

by OPreply 2605/20/2010

That WOULD suck R24, but people are sexually incompatible in a lot of ways.

by OPreply 2705/20/2010

I'm with ya R26. I like sex, not pain!

by OPreply 2805/20/2010

Fwiw...

Met this guy years ago on campus in the local tea room. HUGE. Latino, maybe 5'9, and 10 inches (I measured him one night...I know, I know). Anyway, we were fuck buddies for a couple of years. In DL terms, the guy was a "voracious bottom" who loved anal. Weird thing--during oral, I could barely get him in my mouth, and he had trouble staying hard. When he got up the ass, he would be as hard as a rock.

Go figure.

by OPreply 2905/20/2010

I wonder how many of you dudes really know what its like, because it sounds like a bunch of jokes being cracked and a real funny thing but its not. If you guys were really in possession of the goods you would give some honest answers. The truth is its not all fun and games. This is the truth. Perfect strangers will notice your size quite easily and instead of them being impressed you will receive laughs and people will say quite plane and blunt "Look at this dude who is stuffing his crotch!!". You cant wear briefs comfortably because they compact your crotch area and make it look even more fake. They also cause it to stick out even more, drawing more stares, which inspires perfect strangers to add the taunt "Look at this dude who has a hard on in public!!!". People will walk, drive, ski, swim around you and for some reason they all will slow down and gawk at that specific area. You cant wear boxers comfortably because they lack the support and the penis then goes along your thigh, and being that most boxers are thinner than brief material the head of your penis can be clearly seen. Adults can handle viewing the head of your penis somewhat, but think about going to your grocery store, or another area where people bring their kids. I feel sorry for the parents who sometimes give you a nasty look as though you are a flasher. To be respectful you have to try and cover up that area by either walking with a shopping cart or strategically placing the basket in front of your crotch. Co-workers may give you a little more respect while in front of you, but behind your back its more likely they will band together and try to discredit your reputation because they need to bring you down to a level where they have the ability to compete. They will tell others not to be impressed at your obviously fake augmentation. The competitive nature of men also will have a bearing on the amount friends you have accumulated because who wants to bring a hung man around their girlfriends. The friends you do acquire will always stand really close to their girlfriends when your around, and you will notice that while he seems to speak normally with you, he also will be staring into his girlfriends face in an effort to see if she is looking down at your penis and trying to make sure she isnt showing to much enthusiasm in responding to your comments. If she is showing too much enthusiasm its likely you will never see her again. It also will be likely you will be demoted to an aquatint. So be real with people. Tell the truth. If you have'nt experienced any of these things its likely just wishful thinking.

by OPreply 3001/03/2013

I wonder how many of you dudes really know what its like, because it sounds like a bunch of jokes being cracked and a real funny thing but its not. If you guys were really in possession of the goods you would give some honest answers. The truth is its not all fun and games. This is the truth. Perfect strangers will notice your size quite easily and instead of them being impressed you will receive laughs and people will say quite plane and blunt "Look at this dude who is stuffing his crotch!!". You cant wear briefs comfortably because they compact your crotch area and make it look even more fake. They also cause it to stick out even more, drawing more stares, which inspires perfect strangers to add the taunt "Look at this dude who has a hard on in public!!!". People will walk, drive, ski, swim around you and for some reason they all will slow down and gawk at that specific area. You cant wear boxers comfortably because they lack the support and the penis then goes along your thigh, and being that most boxers are thinner than brief material the head of your penis can be clearly seen. Adults can handle viewing the head of your penis somewhat, but think about going to your grocery store, or another area where people bring their kids. I feel sorry for the parents who sometimes give you a nasty look as though you are a flasher. To be respectful you have to try and cover up that area by either walking with a shopping cart or strategically placing the basket in front of your crotch. Co-workers may give you a little more respect while in front of you, but behind your back its more likely they will band together and try to discredit your reputation because they need to bring you down to a level where they have the ability to compete. They will tell others not to be impressed at your obviously fake augmentation. The competitive nature of men also will have a bearing on the amount friends you have accumulated because who wants to bring a hung man around their girlfriends. The friends you do acquire will always stand really close to their girlfriends when your around, and you will notice that while he seems to speak normally with you, he also will be staring into his girlfriends face in an effort to see if she is looking down at your penis and trying to make sure she isnt showing to much enthusiasm in responding to your comments. If she is showing too much enthusiasm its likely you will never see her again. It also will be likely you will be demoted to an aquatint. So be real with people. Tell the truth. If you have'nt experienced any of these things its likely just wishful thinking.

by OPreply 3101/03/2013

R29, maybe he just didn't like oral? I'm a bottom who really doesn't like to receive oral. It does nothing for me. But like your guy, when a cock is in my ass, I'm hard as a rock.

by OPreply 3201/03/2013

Big penis haver here & I get the guy's complaint--sometimes it seems like men are ONLY interested in your hung dick, and that gets kinda old. But at the same time I would never, ever trade it in for a smaller one. Having BD has allowed me to lay guys who are WAY out of my league and would never pay attention to me otherwise if it wasn't for my dick. Whatever works!

by OPreply 3301/03/2013

R30 I like it when people notice my cock and if it makes them uncomfortable then that's down to their body-issues, not the fact I have a dick. Noone sucks cock like a size queen and if enjoying that sometimes means being regarded as a piece of tube-steak, that's a price I'm happy to pay. If the worst problem you face in life is the fact some guys seem more interested in your cock than your personality, you should count yourself fortunate.

by OPreply 3401/03/2013

[quote]Do any of you overly-hung guys out there get what he's talking about?

Totally. (^_~)

by OPreply 3501/03/2013

For you poor hung dudes.

by OPreply 3601/03/2013

I can understand the guy sort of. I've dated two black men in my life (am white in a mostly white area) and one of them had a large dick and had quite a complex about it. The complex was part like OP's date ("you are only into me because of my big dick") and partly the race thing ("you are just another white bottom who wants big black dick, like I'm just a sex toy with a pulse"). But then when I focused less on his dick he would tease me with it, making fun of me for "pretending you don't want this big black dick" and offering it like some grand prize I was supposed to worship because of its size. In other words, he wanted me to dance a certain can't-win dance of dysfunction with him, and then to blame me for it.

In truth I would have preferred him to have a regular size dick! In my view the huge ones are kind of fun to handle with hands, but too much work for oral and too much pain/discomfort for anal. And I am mostly a top. But he could not let go of his complex about the whole thing. I dumped him. I hope today he has a better perspective on that stuff. This was 14 years ago.

I brought it up in a workshop type forum thing about/for gay men and racism, and several men of color in our group said they could understand why my date had issues. Not to excuse the way he acted in relationship, but they could understand its points of origin.

by OPreply 3701/03/2013

Give me his number! I'l have a goooood loooong haaaard chat with him.

by OPreply 3801/03/2013

Hung peoples' problems.

by OPreply 3901/03/2013

I have a big cock problem. My penis is certainly bigger than average, but so are my balls. To top it off, my penis is also thick and the head proportionately sized in a way that makes the whole package appear to be an enlarged version of an average-sized member. I guess my problem is that my big cock is discreetly packaged.

by OPreply 4001/03/2013

I dumped a guy after one date because his dick was too big. I mean, it was a thick six or more inches soft.

Nice guy, too, who seemed way into me.

I still think about him often. I'm on the small side of average and the disparity was just too much to deal with, but that's more my issue than his.

I'm sure he didn't have much trouble finding someone who appreciated it.

There's this hipster-looking dude who works at the local liquor I frequent. He's short, in his 20s, and normally I wouldn't pay him the slightest attention, but he's got this big weiner showing off in his jeans that I can't help but stare at.

Life can be so perverse.

by OPreply 4101/03/2013

I am 8.5 and pretty large soft. Dated a guy who told me before we got to it that he was really really big. We get pants off and his soft dick is meh and he said "are you kidding me most guys are not this big hard//" So I figured he was full of shit...I started blowing him and holy shit, he got hard and I could not get my mouth around it, 11.5 long 9 inches around (a very serious 9 I could not get my hand around it). He precumed like a fountain..I figured nature was giving him the lube for that fucker.

by OPreply 4201/03/2013

My first boyfriend had a big one, and he often said his dick was "the only thing I have going for me"...which wasn't true, but he had to get some self esteem for himself.

by OPreply 4301/03/2013

I like the look of a big dick and one in my mouth, but no way I can handle one in me. I always give it try but it never works out- too painful. Too big a dick = deal breaker.

by OPreply 4401/04/2013

It's such a blessing - There's no real downside. Once in a while I run into a guy who is too fixated in my cock - he doesn't want to connect -, he just wants a big cock. I don't cry over it, I just turn him down, tell him to go buy a dildo.

by OPreply 4501/04/2013

My problems-

I wear out zippers on at least 3 pairs of pants per year.

Like R12, I have blown out the pouch seams on countless pairs of underwear.

Most times oral ends up being them just licking it instead of sucking it because their jaw gets sore.

by OPreply 4601/04/2013

I knew a guy with a huge cock. Then he died.

Seriously.

by OPreply 4801/04/2013

Guys with big dicks are usually total whores anyway.

by OPreply 4901/04/2013

I believe it is a blessing......and a curse. I always wonder if people only like me for 'it'. I actually have a double curse . I'm hung, and rich. So I never know if they like me , 'it', or it.....the $$$. Poor me.

by OPreply 5001/04/2013

As a bottom, of all the big-dicked tops I've been with, I'd say about 75% were insecure that you're only with them for their size. It's funny because I had no idea how big most of them were until we were naked, so I'd already made the decision to sleep with them before I knew their size. Some who were insecure even sold the fact that they were hung, so that made no sense and I called them on it.

As for how they've been in bed, I'd say it's about 50/50 good and bad. Some were lazy and thought just because they're big I should get off. Some didn't know how to wield that big of a weapon and didn't use enough lube, tried to get in too fast, etc. I was with a guy recently who was huge girth-wise, about 8.5 long. He definitely knew what to do. He was very patient. It took many tries and different positions, but we finally got it in and then it was great. He understood he could hurt the bottom and was very gentle.

by OPreply 5101/04/2013

Yes. Some hung tops are incredibly lazy in bed. But not all.

I find a really huge dick more exhausting to take orally than anally, but I think that comes with practice. And dedication. And skill.

by OPreply 5201/04/2013

As I get older, I find that I actually like average dicks a lot more. I think big dicks are really hot in porn. But I love giving head, and it's always more work than fun when I'm blowing a guy with a monster dong.

by OPreply 5301/04/2013

yumers!

by OPreply 5401/04/2013

Too big and it has limited application.

I remember seeing one so thick I thought what the fuck am I supposed to do with THAT?

by OPreply 5501/04/2013

I see where he's coming from.

Big dick does sound like a stupid thing to cry about...but I get it. I've had guys into me for a certain aspect of my appearance (red hair) that sometimes isn't about me at all, and just becomes about their fantasy.

I just think when a dude is so into an aspect of you that he no longer sees you as YOU, but as your big dick, or hair color, or body hair level, or body size, or whatever the fuck is turning his crank....it can seriously be a bummer. You feel like you're a performing monkey. Or an escort.

by OPreply 5601/05/2013

In descending order, I prefer 1) awonderful disposition, 2) great face 3) head of beautiful hair, 4) smoking body, 5) cock is the last on my list...buttttt a big one is a prize if all the other points are met.

by OPreply 5701/05/2013

I get it by analogy, but I wonder too.

When I was young, I was the stereotypical Mediterranean boy: Slim, dark curly hair, big eyes, olive skin. Something out of von Gloeden. Lots of guys projected their own shit onto me.

Now that I'm older, other guys project their daddy stuff onto me.

If it's not a big dick, it's something else.

I don't think there is a way around this other than patience. A guy might be attracted to you for an attribute--you have to wait and see if he can eventually see *you*.

by OPreply 5801/05/2013

[quote]I wear out zippers on at least 3 pairs of pants per year.

Speaking from experience, this is complete nonsense, unless you're constantly opening and closing your fly for access, or you're buying incredibly cheap pants.

My only problem with it has been running over myself with my desk chair.

by OPreply 5901/05/2013

R30, stop accommodating everybody else. If people are intimidated by you, find some people who aren't. Spending a lifetime trying to accommodate others, hiding or modifying yourself and your behaviour is pointless.

Your accommodation is what is allowing you to be defined by your dick.

by OPreply 6001/05/2013

Yeah R46 and R12, who seem to be under the impression that clothes fit everybody else just fine. They don't. I have big muscular thighs that are always wearing out the inner seam of my pants, jeans, whatever. If I buy bigger sizes, they hang off my waist.

So, you know, boo hoo. Be more like Jon Hamm about it.

by OPreply 6101/05/2013

Everything about me is average so I don't know but have been wondering about the "curse" thing too. Some years ago I read a survey that said that guys with really really tiny penises are by far more happier and satisfied with their lives than guys with huge dicks who have a tendency to depression.

by OPreply 6201/05/2013

[quote] Something out of von Gloeden.

I had to Google that. Fascinating. Thanks r58!

by OPreply 6301/05/2013

Interesting. I also am very well endowed but have always loved that both men and women have loved it. It does limit me, however I've never thought of it as a negative. OP your guy is a sensitive one - all I'd say is you have to assure him that although you love his big dick, it's just another part of him you love and enjoy, not the only thing.

by OPreply 6401/05/2013

Now that I've read r12 I've seen everything...

Someone complaining about having a 31-inch waist and a huge dick. I guess the grass IS always greener.

by OPreply 6501/05/2013

[quote] Be more like Jon Hamm about it.

I do love his freeballing ways!

by OPreply 6601/05/2013

Many during the renaissance complained of being passed over for nude modeling jobs. On the other hand, during the inquisition, there was full employment for the hung, if you know what I mean.

by OPreply 6701/05/2013

yup

by OPreply 6801/05/2013

yum-oooooooooooooooooooooooooo

by OPreply 6901/05/2013

My black bf is like this. I get it now. Although he appreciates the blessing, he also realizes that many people only want the freak show ride.

by OPreply 7001/05/2013

In my 20's I was still a complete ass virgin. And I met a (black) guy with a huge cock. There was just no way that thing was going in there....without a whole lot of unromantic ramp up ...Anywasy he todl me that often guys - virgin or not - wont fuck him cause its too big.

by OPreply 7101/05/2013

the prepping can be very romantic and hot..you got to lick it before you stick it..best lay I ever had had an arm sized cock. It was the most sensual thing ever..

by OPreply 7201/05/2013

OK, I'll just add a bit more to the thread... I'm hung, fairly thick too and when hard, the cock is like a damn pipe... it's got no bend to it at all.

Over the years I've had guys say, "It's too big", "my mouth can't handle this", "it's so hard", etc...

A big cock's great at times, but it's had it's drawbacks over the years... guys who say they can handle big dick and then say, "man, I can't take that cock", so no fucking for me.

C'est la vie... fucking's no longer a priority when fooling around and if a guy's a bit intimidated, I just tell him to work as best as he can.

by OPreply 7301/05/2013

I have a great one; it's beautiful.

Symmetrical. BIG Mushroom head. Nice thick shaft.

I'd say it's maybe just at 8". (Like 8 real inches.)

One guy called it a Billy Club. Another said, after I'm seeing it, "I think I'm in love."

I have no complaints.

Save one.

I just wish guys loved me as much as they loved my dick.

by OPreply 7401/05/2013

Decent size cock that is beautiful is what I need.

by OPreply 7501/05/2013

TTIUWP

by OPreply 7601/05/2013

Von Gloeden and huge cock

by OPreply 7701/05/2013

When you google Von Gloeden one of the first sites that comes up is the nambla site praising his work.

by OPreply 7801/05/2013

OK that's another word that the DL auto changes I guess. What is TLPG???

by OPreply 7901/05/2013

Here Ciaran

by OPreply 8001/05/2013

[quote]Through further conversation he told me that it's always been a blessing AND a curse to be hung, that guys always seem to focus in on his cock during sex and not on HIM.

Ours is a high and lonely destiny!

by OPreply 8101/05/2013

LOL

by OPreply 8201/06/2013

Ciaran, maybe it's L P S G (Large Penis Support Group) site?

That site seems to be a collection of big dicks....both literally and metaphorically.

by OPreply 8301/06/2013

The thing is, I guy with a huge dick and a below average face is never going to get in my pants but a gorgeous guy with a below average dick has a chance!

by OPreply 8401/06/2013

Yeah, really R83. the L P S G site is full of dicks. Avoid.

by OPreply 8501/07/2013

[quote]Anyway, in the heat of sex last night I said something about "let me feel that huge dick" or something like that. I didn't notice any difference in him then, but afterwards he brought up what I said and kind of acted weird about it. Through further conversation he told me that it's always been a blessing AND a curse to be hung, that guys always seem to focus in on his cock during sex and not on HIM. I asked him if he ever felt that way about me, and he said he hadn't until I said that tonight.

Just as it is --or was, pre-foodie culture-- impolite for a dinner guest to discuss the food beyond a passing mention, the same notion has at least some application in sex dialogue. Hearing too much about your big dick (or your big apartment, or big bank account) in the midst of fucking can go beyond stating the obvious to an obsession on very specific parts.

Not to say it's a subject that must at all costs be avoided, but there's context involved. There's a line between flattery and fixation. At the wrong end are the vulgarians who when introducing their boyfriends go too far, talking about the BF's "big black dick", how they "love hairy Italians", how they "married well" financially.

by OPreply 8601/07/2013

Seriously, a big one is hard to get in and if it gives pain instead of pleasure, that's a problem.

by OPreply 8701/07/2013

Yup

by OPreply 8801/07/2013

Some men with large cocks are sensitive to being objectified. I didn't even objectify my large cocked lover and he wagged it at me one evening in tears crying "is this all I am to you?" It broke my heart.

by OPreply 8901/07/2013

I hate it when my cock head touches the toilet water when I sit down. Ugh.

by OPreply 9001/07/2013

Fucking airlines makes me buy mine it's own seat.

by OPreply 9101/07/2013

I'm a pretty small guy (small framed body) and big dick dudes kinda bug me sometimes, because they'll express attraction/interest but then, at some point, say, "Oh, I'm too big for you, blah blah blah so we can't have sex..."

It frustrates me. If they lost interest I wish they'd just say so, and if they're worried about it, there's a better way to handle it (so to speak) like "hey, this may take a while to get comfortable with."

by OPreply 9201/07/2013

bump

by OPreply 9301/13/2013

Does Jonah Falcon really have the largest penis in the world(that we know of)and what does he have to say on the matter?

by OPreply 9401/13/2013

R92 I hear you. I am very short and small framed and I love the contrast between me and a much taller guy. But I've heard that so many times from a guy.

And it's not me misreading the situation, or wanting a guy who isn't into smaller guys like me. They come on strong, and then it's like, "But you won't be able to handle me."

R94 Jonah Falcon is up there in size, but he's the oddest of oddballs. He is schizo on the subject on his dick - which he famewhores himself on, but then says "oh, I am so sad people just use me for my dick."

He seems to be sadly quite introverted and not very confident, and a guy with a four inch dick and confidence beats a guy with 13 inches and no confidence in my book.

by OPreply 9501/13/2013

R89, did you say, "It is...a big part...of who you are."

by OPreply 9601/13/2013

I cannot believe that this guy's response to spontaneous sex talk. What are you supposed to say, "put your penis in to my rectum please so that I may gasp as it stretches me."

One guy posting on this site refers to his eight inch cock and says he has his father to thank for his endowment. My cock is a bit bigger than average but it is good to think that I can blame my father for not being bigger.

by OPreply 9701/18/2013

I have a big dick has always gotten me attention I would otherwise not have gotten because I am average looking. Always someone interested in my big dick. I appreciate the love but it reduces me to a dick and what my dick can do for YOU. Truth is I don't care much for having my dick sucked, never have. One reason might be so few people can suck it. They use their hands wringing and gnawing on it or just sucking a couple of inches. I can instantly go soft under inexpert mouths. Very rare that a guy can suck me off good but when they can I go nutty and they get a big reward because I cum buckets and can't help but being noisy. If you don't want to swallow the nut, go away. Met up with an adorable black kid 18 years old a few years ago. I knew him from a gospel music column he wrote for the local newspaper and had been aware of him since he was a kid because he worked in his parents high profile business in my small neighborhood. Was his first time to ever suck dick and I believe it was true. From the first slurp was the best blow job I ever had. I did see him now and again for a few years and he brought over other young guys for threesomes a few times because he still lived at home.He got married and moved away although we hooked a few times after marriage. 69 is hot always even if you can't suck, just keep your mouth there doing something. I will fuck you if I like your ass but once again if you can't take it I lose the hard on. No fun trying to stuff your dick up someone's tight ass. Tis a rare occasion anyone is going to fuck me but it can happen

by OPreply 9801/18/2013

I WANT U R98.

by OPreply 9901/18/2013

I'm hung and, in general, I've really enjoyed giving pleasure to my partners who get into my being big.

But I can also understand how your guy feels. At times I also have felt worried about being wanted only for that. Not to the point where I would take issue with a guy saying what you did, OP, but I know how it is to feel that way.

All you need to do is to reassure him that that is not at all the only reason you are interested and that you desire him for his other qualities, physical and otherwise. It's as simple as that.

The fact that you are not a size queen may be a plus in your reassuring him.

But it also may be that your not being one makes it hard for you to understand how size queens sometimes treat big dicked guys who need to feel desired for more than just that.

This guy has probably known a lot of size queens before.

Not that there's anything wrong with being a size queen but when a size queen is dating a guy he should make the effort to make the guy feel that he is more than just a dildo in bed.

by OPreply 10001/18/2013

I've known my best friend our whole life. Our moms took a pic of us taking a bath together when we were 3. Puberty kicked in for us about the same time. Suddenly, his dick was huge. Mine grew too, but his was longer and thicker. We fooled around a few times, and I broke his butt cherry.

Like others have said, he never got ultra hard unless he was being pounded. He came so many times without touching himself, I figured his prostate must be the same size as his dick.

by OPreply 10101/18/2013

Bump

by OPreply 10202/05/2013

"when we were 3. Puberty kicked in for us about the same time."

You both hit puberty at 3? That must be some sort of record.

by OPreply 10302/05/2013

I dated a horse hung guy for a while and he was without a doubt the most whine-y guy I've known.

He wouldn't go out with guys who were into big dicks, who would have been more tolerant of his moods. One reason was that he was a bottom, and submissive, too.

You could never make him happy, either. He claimed he wanted to be roughly dominated, but had no tolerance for pain. He'd pout for days if he felt I'd fucked him too hard, spanked him too hard, or whatever. Bear in mind, I'm only average in size and never spanked him any harder than you would a kid, and only with my open palm. But non-painful punishments, like corner time, were "too boring."

And talk about elaborate scenarios! He had an endless list of fantasies, no doubt derived from porn: principal/student, cop/prisoner, fraternity brothers and, yes, father/son. It's more exhausting than you'd think acting out these detailed scenes.

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by OPreply 10402/05/2013

I had a friend who was a porn actor and escort. Huge dick. But all he wanted was someone to fuck him, which I was happy to do. I didn't talk about his dick except to tell him how much I liked sucking on it. The reason I liked him wasn't because his cock was so big. I liked him because he was who he was. Oh, and because he was really, really goodlooking.

by OPreply 10502/05/2013

(Hit save before I was finished.)

Anyway, this guy was gorgeous, had a beautiful body, in addition to being grotesquely proportioned. But he was never happy. It was baffling.

To make matters worse, he sucked cock like a pro. In fact, he was so talented, I much preferred getting blown to fucking him. But getting fucked was what he wanted and, as others have noted, it was when he was hardest and came easiest. He was too big to comfortably suck off so that always ended up with him jacking off, half hard, into my mouth.

I've never envied guys with enormous cocks since.

by OPreply 10602/05/2013

I love a big cock, but it's not all there is.

by OPreply 10702/05/2013

My bf has a big cock, but certainly not the reason I love him. The big fat trust fund on the other hand....

by OPreply 10802/05/2013

Why are large chorisos usually attached to nasty unpleasant individuals?

by OPreply 10902/05/2013

If you read some of the cock obsessed post on DL, you might understand why a guy with a big dick may not like to be view as only a body part. Maybe he doesn't like being treated as a dildo, maybe he has run into too many guys who wouldn't care if he was a serial killer as long as he has a big dick!!!

by OPreply 11002/05/2013

Hardness is more important than size. Hate the spongy ones.

by OPreply 11102/05/2013

why are some cocks spongey...even on guys under 30. WTF?

by OPreply 11202/05/2013

[quote]You could never make him happy, either. He claimed he wanted to be roughly dominated, but had no tolerance for pain. He'd pout for days if he felt I'd fucked him too hard, spanked him too hard, or whatever.

Sounds like a typical passive/aggressive bossy bottom. They are all about the fantasy and reality can never live up to it. They have daddy issues - everything is always "daddy's" fault.

by OPreply 11302/05/2013

The lack of friction provided by most bottoms on Datalounge.

by OPreply 11402/05/2013

Let me suck him off. I will gladly swallow his sperm.

by OPreply 11503/08/2013

Hung guys are studs. You have to make an appointment. Not monogamous relationship material- someone's always going to be luring him astray.

You can never own one; they belong to everybody.

by OPreply 11603/08/2013

R116, there is truth in what you are saying........until they age past 35 or thereabouts. Then you can have them since they are essentially useless as companions.

by OPreply 11703/08/2013

I have a smart, witty, handsome, tall, lean pal who has a ten inch peter (and a long glorious torso.) He's wealthy and gets attention from both men and women (he's a closet bi.) He always complains about people staring at his peter, but, usually goes commando because he actually loves people staring and desiring him. Yet still, he complains constantly that he feels people (both male and female), only want him for being hung. It can be exhausting being around him. I'm getting close to telling him to get over it and move on (or else I will.)

by OPreply 11803/08/2013

Could someone start a picture thread for "Hung Guys Of Datalounge". I want to see their hung tools.

by OPreply 11903/08/2013

I have no complaints about my 11 inches. I love it when co-workers and folks at the gym stare at it. I've always had so called straight guys stare and/or reach out to touch it in the showers. Its six inches soft, so I can pretty much hide it with underwear when I must be discreet.

by OPreply 12003/11/2013

Spongy Head...Hard Shaft!

by OPreply 12103/12/2013

I should have such problems.

by OPreply 12203/12/2013

Can't speak for fellow BD'rs, but I think it's a double edged sword, so to speak. I have been known to go out socially, and free- ball it. Not as obvious as Jon Hamm, but I play a little trick . If I'm wearing a blazer, I'll have my shirt tails out, so you don't notice anything, & then, say, sitting at a bar, I'll push a tail away, to expsose MY tail, hanging down my leg, in my pants. It always should be subtle. Then I get the reaction. Or, just wear jeans, with with a t- shirt, and make sure I stretch, or scratch myself, very briefly,reaching around my shoulder, and the shirt rises up, for 10 seconds, or less , to to give a glance. Eyes widen, I get a reaction. I don't know what the fuck it matters, but I always get an ego boost, and leave wherever I am feeling good - whether it's by myself, or with someone who caught sight of my blessing, and wants to worship at the alter.

by OPreply 12303/12/2013

why is your big

by OPreply 12403/12/2013

R 123: How big is your peter? Are you cut? Please post a picture of it for us. You sound really sexy. Thanks :)

by OPreply 12503/13/2013

#123 here - never measured . Cut. Thick, with big head, & fortunately, big balls. I never like seeing a big one, with tiny balls. Think that's why guys have always liked my stuff - BD , with BB. May post it. Feel weird - have never posted it on any social site - only when I text it to someone, and never with head shot.

by OPreply 12603/13/2013

Hi R 123:, Please, please post a picture of your glorious peter. Also, please measure it and post your actual size. Thanks, Sexy :)

by OPreply 12703/13/2013

Don't you guys already have enough dicks to look at, with everything out there ? Don't you get dick weary ? Dick overload ? Yeah, I may post it, but calm down

by OPreply 12803/14/2013

This is Datalounge. We will not be happy until we have seen every dick there is! Holes too!!

by OPreply 12903/14/2013

I love this thread. More please! And R 123, I agree, you sound like a sexy guy :) I'll be calm, I promise.

by OPreply 13003/16/2013

I've got a huge dick; it's not that it's just big, it's beautiful; perfectly symmetrical; not so big you couldn't take it, but the beauty is it's topped off by a nice mushroom head.

I've seen lots of big dicks, but tiny heads.

I can't find a boyfriend though. Too much drama going on.

Hook ups over the years, yes. One guy said: You need to share that with the world.

by OPreply 13104/07/2013

That might be in the same category of telling a girl you can't wait to bury your face in her huge tits.

It's really objectifying someone. Can be hot but sometimes not.

by OPreply 13204/07/2013

The guy I knew who was hung like R131 claims to be eventually was tried as a murderer. I'm not as into him as I once was, and other big, big, big dicks aren't as interesting, either.

by OPreply 13304/07/2013

You bottoms need to get your holes up in the air and STFU.

by OPreply 13404/07/2013

Then show us a picture, R134. With your face attached, not one of those dick-only pics.

by OPreply 13504/07/2013

Send me a pic of your ass R135. I'd probably slap his ass while I was screwing him.

by OPreply 13604/07/2013

A fun thread - worth bumping into 2014.

by OPreply 13805/21/2014

It's a god damned curse having to wear underwear under shorts all the time (or to wear those horrible shorts that end below the knee).

by OPreply 13905/21/2014

You don't have to, I don't understand why some men are sooo self-concious they might have a bulge.

Oh well, you have a dick. It's like a women being terrified someone might be able to tell she has big boobs.

by OPreply 14005/21/2014

OP: if you've been seeing him for a while, and you murmur about his nice big dick ONE TIME during sex... he's being a fucking hypersensitive pin-cushion about it if he gets upset.

I do think some black gay men get this from some white guys though... the focus on "that big black cock" rather than the attractiveness/sexiness of the whole person. I have heard this complaint too often to dismiss it as hypersensitivity. Nobody wants to feel like nothing but a sex toy apparatus that just happens to be attached to human.

by OPreply 14105/21/2014

(and now I realize the OP posted way back in 2010, as opposed to this week)

by OPreply 14205/21/2014

I never know if people like me for my big cock, my money or myself.

by OPreply 14305/21/2014
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