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Versatile bottoms

What does this term really mean? I think it means "I really like to bottom, but I will top if I absolutely have to."

by Anonymousreply 5702/21/2013

It means they will bottom either face up or face down.

by Anonymousreply 204/25/2010

What is a versatile top mean or oral top?

by Anonymousreply 304/25/2010

I agree with you, OP.

by Anonymousreply 504/25/2010

A versatile bottom has nothing to do with masculinity. It means you prefer to be a bottom, but under the right circumstances, you will top.

by Anonymousreply 604/25/2010

"I really like to bottom, but I will top if I absolutely have to."

pretty much

by Anonymousreply 704/25/2010

People who use the terms "top" and "bottom" in that way are always effeminate.

by Anonymousreply 804/25/2010

Means they can sing or cook while they bottom

by Anonymousreply 904/25/2010

It means you don't want the stigma of being labeled a pure bottom on your adam4adam profile, but you want the tops out there to know the score so no one gets confused.

by Anonymousreply 1004/25/2010

Once a bottom always a bottom

by Anonymousreply 1104/25/2010

By that definition alone, approximately 90% of the gay community at large are vers bottoms and likely 99.9% of DLers as well.

by Anonymousreply 1204/25/2010

well, as an exclusive top, I wouldnt know about everyone else here. But I do know how bottoms can be manipulative.

Hence, "bossy bottom."

by Anonymousreply 1304/25/2010

I'm versatile, but depending on the guy, I tend to be more one or the other, bottom or top, and I can say overtime that I enjoy topping so much that this is why I say I'm vers/top, and I can imagine the reverse.

I think it means different things for different people.

Though I do I get the sense that mhb really needs to be bent over and plowed. This last disclosure explains a LOT.

by Anonymousreply 1404/25/2010

In the same way exclusive tops can be self righteous.

by Anonymousreply 1504/25/2010

Why should there be any stigma attached to being an exclusive bottom?

by Anonymousreply 1604/25/2010

Amen, R15!

Nothing worse than an exclusive top. Usually self loathing and fussy with smaller than average dicks.

Give me a versatile bottom any day. Especially one who's well hung and all of a sudden flips you and fucks the hell out of you.

by Anonymousreply 1704/25/2010

Truck Drivers, Construction Workers and Auto Mechanics are 100% tops (or Lesbian).

Interior Decorators, Hairdressers and Figure Skaters are 100% Bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 1804/25/2010

I second R16

by Anonymousreply 2004/25/2010

Yeah, r18?!

by Anonymousreply 2104/25/2010

Versatile tops are unmarketable. Once you are signify that you are open to bottoming, bottoms devalue you as not a real, authentic strict top. Strict tops are views as apex penetrators, they don't bottom, never will. They get the best bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 2204/25/2010

[quote]trict tops are views as apex penetrators, they don't bottom, never will. They get the best bottoms.

that was just made up.

by Anonymousreply 2304/25/2010

R19

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by Anonymousreply 2404/25/2010

It's meaning is self explanatory.

It means someone who bottoms (often times someone who primarily bottoms)who will top under certain circumstances.

Why he tops, how often he tops, or how enthusiastically he tops, is irrelevant.

by Anonymousreply 2504/25/2010

you made that up

by Anonymousreply 2604/25/2010

I am a versatile top. That means I roll over once a month and let my versatile bottom bf get his jollies so he will shut the fuck up.

by Anonymousreply 2804/26/2010

I think it's more of a "I prefer to bottom most of the time, but I like to mix it up occasionally" sort of deal.

And I would know, versatile bottoms are my favorite type of guy. Total tops and total bottoms are usually jackasses who are more concerned with what they want instead of being a good sexual partner.

by Anonymousreply 2908/15/2011

What are you Ciarian???

by Anonymousreply 3008/15/2011

Maybe some of us total tops just don't like things up our assholes. But we are glad some guys do.

by Anonymousreply 3208/15/2011

MHB just because you're on top of the cock you are not a top, sister.

by Anonymousreply 3308/15/2011

I miss the days of the "man go up inside the other man" replies.

by Anonymousreply 3408/16/2011

It means I like to be in the middle:

by Anonymousreply 3508/16/2011

Um, seeing as you answered your own question, OP, I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. As for mhb, i thought queens who hate women as much as it does were always bottoms. Who'd have guessed? Perhaps it'd have less of an aversion to the 'fish' if it got a cock in it now and then.

by Anonymousreply 3608/16/2011

I never thought there was much question about this. A versatile bottom prefers that mode (understandable,) but will top with the best of them when necessary (and often it is.)

by Anonymousreply 3708/16/2011

Funny the game playing that comes with self-marketing. I'm versatile (love fucking my partner, love getting fucked by my partner) but used to say "versatile top" because some guys thought "versatile" was code for "really just a bottom but ashamed of saying so".

by Anonymousreply 3808/16/2011

I'm with R32. I have tried to bottom. I've tried it with big guys, tried it with small guys, tried it with older guys, tried it with younger guys. But no matter what, it does nothing for me. On the other hand, I LOVE to fuck and from the feedback I have gotten, it seems I'm damn good at it. If I fuck all day long I would. And I have.

by Anonymousreply 3908/16/2011

"well, as an exclusive top" by: mhb.%0D %0D Now that's the funniest thing I've seen on DL since, well, the last time this screaming, mincing queen posted she's a total top.

by Anonymousreply 4008/16/2011

In my relationship I am the bottom. My BF is a total top. When we play with others I sometimes like to top. My BF never likes to bottom.

by Anonymousreply 4108/16/2011

It means there is a CRITICAL SHORTAGE of real tops in this world.

by Anonymousreply 4208/16/2011

[quote}Truck Drivers, Construction Workers and Auto Mechanics are 100% tops (or Lesbian).

Which one of these is mhb?

by Anonymousreply 4308/16/2011

R42 So true. And as far as I'm concerned, that's AWESOME!

by Anonymousreply 4408/16/2011

I'm sort of cuddly and passive, a real 'pleaser'. But something turns me on about a top giving up his butt to me. And most will these days.

by Anonymousreply 4508/16/2011

I say I am a Versatile Top, but get topped very, very rarely. I have been topped 5 times in the past 30 years, and the last time was 8 years ago.

I am very happy topping, and most men oblige. It takes a very special type to get my ankles up (the last one was a Greek sailor)

by Anonymousreply 4608/16/2011

Right on, R29.

For me versatile means flexible in my role especially if it means a greater connection. Besides, a guy who won't let me fuck him is kind of a turn off, especially the totally-anything types.

If you want to fuck someone in the butt, you better be able to take a cock up there yourself.

by Anonymousreply 4708/16/2011

[quote]Now that's the funniest thing I've seen on DL since, well, the last time this screaming, mincing queen posted she's a total top.

I've met a few such creatures, and yeah, it's odd. One of them I knew could quote almost any Golden Girls episode verbatim (and in precise character) -- and, sexually, he liked nothing more than fucking ass like a jackhammer.

by Anonymousreply 4808/16/2011

I shall part the rye to say yes, there are versatile bottoms. I prefer a bottom, but if the right guy came along, I'd go for it. Chances are if my dream person comes along, he'd be a bottom :-)

by Anonymousreply 4908/16/2011

[quote]I'm a total power bottom. I turn tops into my bitches. Haven't found one yet who could tame my hole.

Does it have teeth?

by Anonymousreply 5008/17/2011

[quote] I have tried to bottom. I've tried it with big guys, tried it with small guys, tried it with older guys, tried it with younger guys.

Have you tried it in a box?

..or with a fox??

by Anonymousreply 5108/17/2011

I do not like it fifty one I do not like dicks in my bum

by Anonymousreply 5208/17/2011

Do you have the AIDS?

by Anonymousreply 5308/17/2011

Brunettes are generally tops. %0D %0D Blonds are generally bottoms.%0D %0D Hot bald guys get to top anyone they please. %0D %0D Now, are we done here?

by Anonymousreply 5508/18/2011

I like to switch. It works for me. Getting nailed and flipping him over to finish the job. Hot.

by Anonymousreply 5610/29/2012

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by Anonymousreply 5702/21/2013
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