What does this term really mean? I think it means "I really like to bottom, but I will top if I absolutely have to."
|by Anonymous||reply 57||02/20/2013|
It means "I'm a straight-acting 'dude' and no femme, but the minute we're in the bedroom I'll have my heels to the ceiling."
|by Anonymous||reply 1||04/25/2010|
It means they will bottom either face up or face down.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||04/25/2010|
What is a versatile top mean or oral top?
|by Anonymous||reply 3||04/25/2010|
It means a self-loathing bottom, who thinks nobody will be attracted to him unless he claims on paper to be masculine and not like a cock up his ass when in reality he is a total bottom and will be very vicious if you show up and decide you want to bottom and expect him to top. THERE. I SAID IT.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||04/25/2010|
I agree with you, OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||04/25/2010|
A versatile bottom has nothing to do with masculinity. It means you prefer to be a bottom, but under the right circumstances, you will top.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||04/25/2010|
"I really like to bottom, but I will top if I absolutely have to."
|by Anonymous||reply 7||04/25/2010|
People who use the terms "top" and "bottom" in that way are always effeminate.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||04/25/2010|
Means they can sing or cook while they bottom
|by Anonymous||reply 9||04/25/2010|
It means you don't want the stigma of being labeled a pure bottom on your adam4adam profile, but you want the tops out there to know the score so no one gets confused.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||04/25/2010|
Once a bottom always a bottom
|by Anonymous||reply 11||04/25/2010|
By that definition alone, approximately 90% of the gay community at large are vers bottoms and likely 99.9% of DLers as well.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||04/25/2010|
well, as an exclusive top, I wouldnt know about everyone else here. But I do know how bottoms can be manipulative.
Hence, "bossy bottom."
|by Anonymous||reply 13||04/25/2010|
I'm versatile, but depending on the guy, I tend to be more one or the other, bottom or top, and I can say overtime that I enjoy topping so much that this is why I say I'm vers/top, and I can imagine the reverse.
I think it means different things for different people.
Though I do I get the sense that mhb really needs to be bent over and plowed. This last disclosure explains a LOT.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||04/25/2010|
In the same way exclusive tops can be self righteous.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||04/25/2010|
Why should there be any stigma attached to being an exclusive bottom?
|by Anonymous||reply 16||04/25/2010|
Nothing worse than an exclusive top. Usually self loathing and fussy with smaller than average dicks.
Give me a versatile bottom any day. Especially one who's well hung and all of a sudden flips you and fucks the hell out of you.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||04/25/2010|
Truck Drivers, Construction Workers and Auto Mechanics are 100% tops (or Lesbian).
Interior Decorators, Hairdressers and Figure Skaters are 100% Bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||04/25/2010|
what about lawyers, o wise r18?
|by Anonymous||reply 19||04/25/2010|
I second R16
|by Anonymous||reply 20||04/25/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 21||04/25/2010|
Versatile tops are unmarketable. Once you are signify that you are open to bottoming, bottoms devalue you as not a real, authentic strict top. Strict tops are views as apex penetrators, they don't bottom, never will. They get the best bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||04/25/2010|
[quote]trict tops are views as apex penetrators, they don't bottom, never will. They get the best bottoms.
that was just made up.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||04/25/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 24||04/25/2010|
It's meaning is self explanatory.
It means someone who bottoms (often times someone who primarily bottoms)who will top under certain circumstances.
Why he tops, how often he tops, or how enthusiastically he tops, is irrelevant.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||04/25/2010|
you made that up
|by Anonymous||reply 26||04/25/2010|
I'm a total power bottom. I turn tops into my bitches. Haven't found one yet who could tame my hole.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||04/25/2010|
I am a versatile top. That means I roll over once a month and let my versatile bottom bf get his jollies so he will shut the fuck up.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||04/26/2010|
I think it's more of a "I prefer to bottom most of the time, but I like to mix it up occasionally" sort of deal.
And I would know, versatile bottoms are my favorite type of guy. Total tops and total bottoms are usually jackasses who are more concerned with what they want instead of being a good sexual partner.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||08/15/2011|
What are you Ciarian???
|by Anonymous||reply 30||08/15/2011|
Bossy bottoms tend to end up getting the AIDS.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||08/15/2011|
Maybe some of us total tops just don't like things up our assholes. But we are glad some guys do.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||08/15/2011|
MHB just because you're on top of the cock you are not a top, sister.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||08/15/2011|
I miss the days of the "man go up inside the other man" replies.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||08/15/2011|
It means I like to be in the middle:
|by Anonymous||reply 35||08/15/2011|
Um, seeing as you answered your own question, OP, I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. As for mhb, i thought queens who hate women as much as it does were always bottoms. Who'd have guessed? Perhaps it'd have less of an aversion to the 'fish' if it got a cock in it now and then.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||08/15/2011|
I never thought there was much question about this. A versatile bottom prefers that mode (understandable,) but will top with the best of them when necessary (and often it is.)
|by Anonymous||reply 37||08/16/2011|
Funny the game playing that comes with self-marketing. I'm versatile (love fucking my partner, love getting fucked by my partner) but used to say "versatile top" because some guys thought "versatile" was code for "really just a bottom but ashamed of saying so".
|by Anonymous||reply 38||08/16/2011|
I'm with R32. I have tried to bottom. I've tried it with big guys, tried it with small guys, tried it with older guys, tried it with younger guys. But no matter what, it does nothing for me. On the other hand, I LOVE to fuck and from the feedback I have gotten, it seems I'm damn good at it. If I fuck all day long I would. And I have.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||08/16/2011|
"well, as an exclusive top" by: mhb.%0D %0D Now that's the funniest thing I've seen on DL since, well, the last time this screaming, mincing queen posted she's a total top.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||08/16/2011|
In my relationship I am the bottom. My BF is a total top. When we play with others I sometimes like to top. My BF never likes to bottom.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||08/16/2011|
It means there is a CRITICAL SHORTAGE of real tops in this world.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||08/16/2011|
[quote}Truck Drivers, Construction Workers and Auto Mechanics are 100% tops (or Lesbian).
Which one of these is mhb?
|by Anonymous||reply 43||08/16/2011|
R42 So true. And as far as I'm concerned, that's AWESOME!
|by Anonymous||reply 44||08/16/2011|
I'm sort of cuddly and passive, a real 'pleaser'. But something turns me on about a top giving up his butt to me. And most will these days.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||08/16/2011|
I say I am a Versatile Top, but get topped very, very rarely. I have been topped 5 times in the past 30 years, and the last time was 8 years ago.
I am very happy topping, and most men oblige. It takes a very special type to get my ankles up (the last one was a Greek sailor)
|by Anonymous||reply 46||08/16/2011|
Right on, R29.
For me versatile means flexible in my role especially if it means a greater connection. Besides, a guy who won't let me fuck him is kind of a turn off, especially the totally-anything types.
If you want to fuck someone in the butt, you better be able to take a cock up there yourself.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||08/16/2011|
[quote]Now that's the funniest thing I've seen on DL since, well, the last time this screaming, mincing queen posted she's a total top.
I've met a few such creatures, and yeah, it's odd. One of them I knew could quote almost any Golden Girls episode verbatim (and in precise character) -- and, sexually, he liked nothing more than fucking ass like a jackhammer.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||08/16/2011|
I shall part the rye to say yes, there are versatile bottoms. I prefer a bottom, but if the right guy came along, I'd go for it. Chances are if my dream person comes along, he'd be a bottom :-)
|by Anonymous||reply 49||08/16/2011|
[quote]I'm a total power bottom. I turn tops into my bitches. Haven't found one yet who could tame my hole.
Does it have teeth?
|by Anonymous||reply 50||08/16/2011|
[quote] I have tried to bottom. I've tried it with big guys, tried it with small guys, tried it with older guys, tried it with younger guys.
Have you tried it in a box?
..or with a fox??
|by Anonymous||reply 51||08/16/2011|
I do not like it fifty one I do not like dicks in my bum
|by Anonymous||reply 52||08/16/2011|
Do you have the AIDS?
|by Anonymous||reply 53||08/17/2011|
"Versatile" = desperate for sex bottom.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||08/18/2011|
Brunettes are generally tops. %0D %0D Blonds are generally bottoms.%0D %0D Hot bald guys get to top anyone they please. %0D %0D Now, are we done here?
|by Anonymous||reply 55||08/18/2011|
I like to switch. It works for me. Getting nailed and flipping him over to finish the job. Hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||10/29/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 57||02/20/2013|