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Do you think that straight guys are okay with getting blown by a guy but freaked about the possibility of getting fucked?

I have two straight friends who've confessed to getting oral sex from men but say they were freaked out about the idea of reciprocating or, worse, taking it up the ass. On the other hand, I have another "straight" friend who only wants to get fucked - absolutely nothing else - when he hooks up with a guy. He just loves to have his ass opened up and his girlfriend isn't into it using toys, etc.. Anyone else know similar guys?

by Anonymousreply 56406/27/2015

I'm gay. If a situation arose where a girl just went down on me, a situation I cannot imagine and would avoid, my dick would get hard and I'd have an orgasm. Doesn't make me heterosexual.

by Anonymousreply 1204/22/2010

R14, I do not have sex with women and I do not want to have sex with women. I don't mind at all being identified as gay. I neither have sex with both sexes, nor with women exclusively. So call me gay- or not if you find it offensive. I am also caucasian. Is that offensive? And of course I am male, not female as well.

by Anonymousreply 1704/22/2010

Oddly, it just seems top be the sex neg flyover effeminates who can't seem to grasp this concept.

THERE'S the real story. I think it's a symptom of experiential deprivation.

by Anonymousreply 1804/22/2010

r 17, it's just exhausting to listen to you silly-billys go on and on and ON and on and on about "Is he straight if you suck his dick?", blah, blah, blah. Guys who say they are straight are straight, as far as I'm concerned. If they're that desperate not to be gay, to hell with them. Let them be straight. And I mean how tragic is it when guys say they're bisexual? Who wants to deal with that? A guy says he's bisexual, what he means is, "Run away from me as fast as possible." I say, whatever: The straight guy is committed to his heterosexuality, he's never gonna let go of it, he wants all the rewards that heterosexuality bestows, he feels like he's straight, etc., etc., so his dick's in your mouth, so what? The problem is, you queers have so narrowly defined what constitutes being "gay" that most men don't want anything to do with "being homosexual." Homosexuality to them looks like nothing but limitations, and they don't want to be limited. And they don't like Cher. Do you blame them?

by Anonymousreply 2104/22/2010

Straight guys will allow another man to suck their cock for [italic]release.[italic] No one gives a blow job better to a man than another man. The End.

by Anonymousreply 2204/22/2010

The gloryhole is proof that some men don't care who sucks them off as long as somebody sucks them off.

by Anonymousreply 2304/22/2010

Now's not the time to over-think; try it once, he'll buy you a drink!

by Anonymousreply 2504/22/2010

Here, let me close that. [/italic]


by Anonymousreply 2704/22/2010

[quote]A straight guy will not except another guy going down on him. He has to be bisexual or gay to except that.

MARY!! Copy police to R26, STAT!

by Anonymousreply 2804/22/2010

R26, what state do you live in?

by Anonymousreply 2904/22/2010

[quote]The gloryhole is proof that some men don't care who sucks them off as long as somebody sucks them off.

[/italic]You've got that right but the sex neg creeps think that all sex should involve love and marriage. Most are products of Christian upbringing and can't comprehend reality.

by Anonymousreply 3004/22/2010

[quote]BTW, don't feel bad Feel bad? Hell, knowing you're being used as nothing but a hole for momentary pleasure is half the fun.

by Anonymousreply 3104/22/2010

[quote]You must really be a frigid Brigid who thinks wifely sex is a "duty" and the only reason to have sex is to breed.

No, I'm not, but thanks. By the way, what crawled up your ass and died?

by Anonymousreply 3304/22/2010

I know a straight guy who would go totally soft if anyone touched his ass while giving him a blow job.

by Anonymousreply 3404/26/2010

"Straight" men who are open to the bi (married, living with women, self-declared heteros) in my experience almost always dream about getting fucked - it's their biggest scare and biggest taboo turn-on.

Men always are about the fuck. The blow is for the lazies and the ones who still are on the fence.

by Anonymousreply 3504/26/2010

Closeted married guys who seek out male on male sex are bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 3705/20/2010

Is this the same guy who starts these threads over and over- you know the one who has a fetish about having sex with straight men?

by Anonymousreply 3805/20/2010

Some men like golf. Some like baseball. Some like to get blow jobs from an expert.

by Anonymousreply 4005/25/2010

"Oddly, it just seems to be the sex neg flyover effeminates who can't seem to grasp this concept."

r18, get your head out of your ass. What's with the flyover shit? Oh, EVERYONE in New York is completely sex-positive! Riiiiight....

by Anonymousreply 4105/25/2010

Over the years I've talked with a few presumably straight (and married) guys about their feelings about gay sex. Every single one of them said they could "possibly" see getting involved with oral sex, even possibly reciprocating, but they wanted NOTHING to do with anal sex. Just the idea of it really grossed them out, whereas the idea of oral sex did not.

by Anonymousreply 4205/25/2010

"There are numerous instances in Scripture where men suffered psychosomatic afflictions after fornicating with another man." Well here is one of the more astounding posts to make it to DL in a while. "Makes you think, doesn't it?" Yes R43, but not the way you think.

by Anonymousreply 4405/25/2010

[quote]Makes you think, doesn't it?

Hell, yes, it makes me think. It makes me think what a delight it would be to have lightning strike every hate-mongering, bible-thumping, fundie frau who wanders into DL.

by Anonymousreply 4605/25/2010

I now firmly believe that over the past decade or so, with porn so much more readily available in the internet (and much of it free!), that more and more straight guys have been exposed to male/male sex via porn and many of them are much more intrigued by it than before. A straight guy I work with has watched gay male (and female) porn with his wife. He has also seen some of the Swallow videos from Treasure Island. In some ways, I think young straight guys are more willing to do things now than they were before. As a for instance: I honestly think many of the guys on "ChaosMen" really are straight--or primarily straight. Not to be stereotypical or anything, but in many of the interviews, many of these guys just simply do not come across as anything but straight. They don't overdo the macho thing, but they just seem very, very straight.

by Anonymousreply 4805/25/2010

I've shown my straight brother a few of the ChaosMen clips. I just wanted to see what he'd say. He said, "Shit, I've seen that kind of stuff before lots of times." I was pretty shocked, but he laughed it off.

by Anonymousreply 4905/25/2010

{quote]I now firmly believe that over the past decade or so, with porn so much more readily available in the internet (and much of it free!), that more and more straight guys have been exposed to male/male sex via porn and many of them are much more intrigued by it than before

You mean you hope so. All these endless 'straight guy' threads are just written by guys who fancy straight men and they all stink of sad desperation.

Here comes the truth:-A real straight man would rather eat shit than go anywhere near another man sexually. Maybe you should print that out and stick it on your fridge.

The good news is...there are attractive bi guys and gay guys to have sex with who are just like straight guys. Seek 'em out.

by Anonymousreply 5005/25/2010

My mussy is moist from the fecal matter I'm not able to wipe

by Anonymousreply 5205/25/2010

Str8 guys who want their wives and gfs to strap one on and fuck them in the ass... what do we make of them? Closet gay? Are only gay men allowed to derive pleasure from their anus?

by Anonymousreply 5305/25/2010

[quote]Here comes the truth:-A real straight man would rather eat shit than go anywhere near another man sexually.

Come out of the cellar and see the real world for a change. The view of gays has changed dramatically but you're so wrapped up in keeping a big chasm between gays and straights that you haven't got a clue. Just because straight people are repulsed by you doesn't mean that they feel the same about other gays. Your silly "truth" is a 20th century fable.

by Anonymousreply 5405/25/2010

And you keep living in your little dream world, R54, where straight guys dig the homosex. Real straight guys would pay $2.00 to a crack whore for a BJ before they'd let another man near their dicks.

by Anonymousreply 5505/25/2010

R54 dear just because men are more gay friendly doesn't mean they want to fuck you, delusional queen.

by Anonymousreply 5605/25/2010

R51, I always find it peculiar that if the body (or at least the male body) truly was not designed for anal sex, then why are men created with the pleasure-deriving prostate gland that is accessible through penetration of the rectum? If nature never intended for men to have anal sex, it wouldn't have created the male G-spot.

by Anonymousreply 5705/25/2010

I agree R57. The prostate is so pleasurable, it couldn't be mere happenstance. There must be a evolutionary reason.

by Anonymousreply 5805/25/2010

This thread is hitting all the right notes w/ me.

by Anonymousreply 6205/25/2010

R64 go back to the figure skating threads you were fingering yourself over. Odd that you have such and aversion to the anus since you love to eat old people's excrement.

by Anonymousreply 6505/25/2010

R60/R64, you must be one frigid bitch. Naturally, you are also against oral sex, because by your faulty logic, the mouth is also "not designed for sex."

Then again, it's easy to see why you're confused as to which orifices provide sexual pleasure: your mouth stinks of piss and pussyjuice, your vagina probably has teeth, and you speak out your ass.

by Anonymousreply 6605/25/2010

[quote]Just because straight people are repulsed by you doesn't mean that they feel the same about other gays. Your silly "truth" is a 20th century fable

Yeh, right. The minute 1999 became 2000, all the straight guys turned bi or bi-curious. You do not live in the real world, dear. But, hey, enjoy your fantasy.

by Anonymousreply 6705/25/2010

Ah, now THIS is more like it. I guess DL isn't going away anytime soon. All the old nasty trolls are back in force. I'm strangely comforted by this.

by Anonymousreply 6805/25/2010

While R60 is posting here, her b/f is probably getting a blow job from a guy who knows how to do it right.

by Anonymousreply 6905/25/2010

R60, Please stop. You're giving us women a very bad name here. As I said before, you have to wonder why men were created with prostates accessible only through anal penetration. Following your logic, women shouldn't have clitorises either, because they serve no purpose in biological reproduction. The prostate and the clitoris are not reproductive devices, but can still be utilized sexually. Face it, sex and procreation are NOT the same thing.

And yes, people have been having sex, both heterosexual and homosexual, for pleasure since the dawn of time.

by Anonymousreply 7005/25/2010

[quote]What we are really talking about here, are not truly straight guys, but guys who call themselves straight. It is one big, self delusional, self hate driven head game, as are the gay guys who play along.%0D %0D MARY!!!%0D %0D What's it like to be 10 years old?

by Anonymousreply 7212/14/2010

Over the years (I'm nearing 60), I've met several "straight" men who like to get fucked in the ass. They generally set clear boundaries (no kissing, etc). They just liked having their prostates stimulated while they jacked off. Overall, very boring sex.

by Anonymousreply 7312/14/2010

[quote]By the way, what crawled up your ass and died?

A straight guy.

by Anonymousreply 7412/14/2010

R75, you in danger, girl.

by Anonymousreply 7612/14/2010

Are gays who would consider getting blown by a woman still gay?

by Anonymousreply 7712/14/2010

a mouth is like any other mouth. iIt's when they place their hand on your legs you know it it's a female hand or a male hand. You just know, but a warm sloppy mouth to cum in is still a mouth.

by Anonymousreply 7805/15/2011

[quote]the basic function of man-man porno is to make clear to everyone involved that gay sex is when a straight guy humiliates a faggot

Where do I find this porn? Link, please (preferably Rapidshare).

by Anonymousreply 7905/15/2011

Another DL thread that reads like a Maury Povich call-in poll.

by Anonymousreply 8104/21/2012

Before I let a another man blow me I had always identified myself as a straight man. Now I consider myself a bi guy. I take issue with the person who thinks most women suck dick. HAH! Who were you raised by, Hookers? Its up to about 50/50 now I'd say on women going down on you. The thing I found best about men is they wanted to please me any way possible. Women mite have sex with you if they felt like it. Guys were ready, willing and able any second of the day. That is the real reason guys get sucked into going to men. No arguments, no not tonight, no negotiating. You get what you want whenever you want it. I cannot bring myself to kiss someone who has been licking my ass though. I think guys are made to get off with stimulation. Being a guy or a heavy book would be enough on some men. So if you fuck a pillow what kind of sexual are you? What if its a blow up doll? What if it was a slab of meat or the vacumn hose? What kind of sexuals are those. I'd say 100% of men who are alive could get hard with a pair of expert lips on their cock. However, if you had a choice and you choose a guy given all things equal then I suspect at a minimum your bi. Just getting a free bj when you need it hardly makes someone gay. Your taking advantage of a situation. Maybe you have had bad bjs from women and a guy is what works for you. Still doesn't make you gay in your head. The person who said it is all upstairs is what classifies your sexuality is so right on. If your fucking a thousand women, but fantasizing about men during the act doesn't make you Str8. Fathering a dozen children means no more than being married does. Thier just a cover. Masuline men are only one definition of male, but being masculine doesn't make you str8 either. Plenty of wimpy str8 guys and plenty of butch muscle hairy guys are gay. It is what you think in your mind and feel about yourself. If more people felt free to express thier true feelings you would see about a 90% bisexual society I gurantee it. A few may never cross, but all of us pretty much are bi to one degree or another, whether it is being able to get fucked or maybe just hug and kiss or maybe only jack or be the one to suck but not rim or whatever your into. Plenty of married guys like to be fucked. That why they sell kits for women to wear a fake cock and shove the dildo up their husbands ass. The guy may be horrified to let a man do it, but turned on with his wifes fingers in his ass or whatever cause he identifies with women during sex. Everyone, you know what you are inside. Whether you want to reveal it or not you are just fine the way you are. Call yourself whatever you like or are comfy with, but just don't put others dwn who identify in another way than you. Let them be what they think they are right or wrong. It is how they deal with knowing who and what they desire. Ok. It really doesn't matter. Just be who you are.

by Anonymousreply 8205/01/2012

There are as many answers to that question as there are men in the world.

I am a straight man. I don't think of myself as straight-identified, just straight, because for me it's not a matter of various possibilities.

I don't identify as straight, that is consider myself as straight compared to possible alternatives, anymore than I consider myself, or identify myself, as being 5'8" tall. I just am straight and that is my height.

I have never had any inclination to have any sexual connection with a man.

The idea of homosexual acts, oral, anal, active, passive, or whatever, doesn't repulse me. It's just of no interest.

Homophobia, now that repulses me, but that feeling comes from a more conscious place, a decision I made that everyone has an obligation to treat everyone with decency and respect, especially people who have a harder path in life.

Somehow I missed the aversion some men feel towards homosexuality. I missed the racism thing also. Good parents had a lot to do with it.

People get hung up on labels. A lot of this is situational. Would things have worked out differently for me if I had been in an all-male situation at 18, say prison, when my hormones were raging? Perhaps.

I don't think homosexual activity in that context would have changed my sexuality once I was around women again. Women do it for me and men don't.

by Anonymousreply 8305/01/2012

That's why you're here at Datalounge of course.

In answer to OP's question, the morbid fear of anal sex was a 70s thing before men realized millions of people were doing it so it wasn't as gross or as painful and difficult as they thought.

I don't think you'll find the same attitude among people under 40 that privileges oral sex at the expense of anal sex anymore.

by Anonymousreply 8405/03/2012

I love the gay dude pretending to be straight at R83.

by Anonymousreply 8505/03/2012

"Over the years I have met MANY straight guys who just wanted to get sucked off. They didn't care who did it.

I have also met three or four straight guys who just wanted to get fucked. One of them I met when I was in the Army (yes, many years ago). He was quite direct with what he would and would not do: no kissing, no cocksucking, only fucking him up the ass while he masturbated. As soon as he came, it was over. Yeah, it wasn't a lot of fun."

You didn't meet "MANY straight guys", dear. You met MANY homos or bis. Do you really think any "straight guy" would want to have your dingle up his ass? Don't kid yourself, hon. Don't go around thinking "damn I must be smokin' hot...STRAIGHT guys want me to suck and fuck 'em!" You sex buddies are gay or bi.

by Anonymousreply 8705/03/2012

LOL. I know someone else is bound to have already said it... but NONE of the guys in your scenario are straight OP. : )

by Anonymousreply 8805/03/2012

Wait, this just gets better.... so R4... you're saying otherwise straight dudes will go to men to get a GOOD blowjob - so as to avoid the shit ones that women universally give? Riiiiiiiight! LMAO.

Inexplicably, there are still men who fuck only women... but right on for being one of the few who have figured it out. Way to recenter heterosexuality.

by Anonymousreply 8905/03/2012

A lot of gay men need the "straight" scenario to even be attracted to these closet-cases.

Both are homophobes. They deserve each other.

But, one can hope for an STD.

by Anonymousreply 9005/03/2012


You're right. My wife of 25 years is also my beard, but she doesn't realize it because I hide my gayness so well.

We have only the child, conceived the old-fashioned way, and that was also part of my plan to hide my gayness. If we had had several children, then I would have revealed my actual gayness because I would have been over-compensating.

Same thing if I had cheated many times on my wife. But I didn't because I wanted to be in the closet.

The best way for me to remain in the closet is to have a good sex life with one woman for many years and have just one child.

Then I can come here and claim to be straight and no one will notice that I am actually gay.

But I couldn't get it past you, no siree.

by Anonymousreply 9105/03/2012

What's with the universal "no woman has ever given a great bj" BS?

by Anonymousreply 9205/03/2012

It's a mix, in my experience. Some straight guys have a repulsion toward homosex, and would refuss no matter what. Others are neutral/flex (though in their brains they are only strongly turned on by women) - these kind of straight guys could be more willing to let their innate horniness get co-opted by a gay fellatio enthusiast; they recognize what is called a "win/win" scenario in Business 101 classes.

by Anonymousreply 9305/03/2012


by Anonymousreply 9405/03/2012

R93, the straight guys with the repulsion towards "homosex" are "straight" guys. They probably have more "homosex" than you.

Straight men who are "neutral/flex" who have "homosex" are gay or bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 9505/03/2012

[quote]Some straight guys have a repulsion toward homosex, and would refuss no matter what. Others are neutral/flex

If they are flexible towards being sexual with men you can call them many things-heteroflexible, kinsey 2, bisexual. But they are not straight.

Why is this a source of confusion? 100% straight guys have no desire to be sexual with another male.

Doesn't make them "homophobic" anymore than some gay guys who have absolutely no desire to ever be sexual with a woman.

I don't see how this is a source of controversy other than a lot of people who are actually flexible in their sexuality don't identify themselves as such.

by Anonymousreply 9605/03/2012

Never a mention of love here. Never. Always about casual sex, or cheating sex, or drunken sex. I know that love exists but you won't read about it here.

by Anonymousreply 9705/03/2012

Agreed, R97. Agreed.

by Anonymousreply 9805/03/2012

My stars, R97, what a wounded little pincushion you are.

Language/semantics: There's variance in how we are defining "straight." And in how we are willing, or not willing, to let other men label themselves how they want.

by Anonymousreply 9905/03/2012


Thank you. A true voice of reason.


It certainly is a mix, although this is not a subject that lends it to informal surveys. Straight men don't spend a lot of time kicking the subject around, at least not in my experience.

We don't sit around watching football with other straights saying, "Would you do thus and so with another guy? No? Well how about this?"

That would convey an incorrect impression, so it is a bit hard to tell.

My hunch is a little different than yours. I think, and there is some recent research in the area, that men who are homophobic are more apt to be the ones who would give it a go if they could.

Men who are more neutral/indifferent concerning male homosexuality are indifferent because they like women, and they are comfortable with that. That perspective doesn't work well with the ugly passion that seems to lie behind homophobia.

by Anonymousreply 10005/03/2012

I don't get your point R97 anyone can fall "in love" with someone of their preferred or non-preferred gender but it will be a platonic love, not a desire for a sexual relationship.

I have some very close and long-standing straight friends who will say "i love you" but that doesn't mean they want to sleep with me. You love them like you would a family member, in a nonsexual way.

It has nothing to do with this discussion.

by Anonymousreply 10105/03/2012

R101 has never been [italic] in love [/italic] .

by Anonymousreply 10205/03/2012

R101, no hard feelings here, but I'm a woman who thinks it best to have sex after you love someone. It's probably a very old-fashioned attitude that many younger women do not share, and I know I would get laughed at by many other women. I also realize that it just plain hard to find people who are sexually attractive to you. But when you love them, then they become attractive, and that pot belly, double chin, and less than pretty face becomes exciting.

Pornography has put emphasis on sexual attraction and not on character. But the body breaks down in time and personality becomes enhanced with age. I have been approached by very good-looking people whom I had no attraction to because of their personalities. I just didn't see what the big deal was.

Besides, with so many diseases out there is casual sex worth the risk?

by Anonymousreply 10305/03/2012

"personality becomes enhanced with age"

HA HA HA HA HA HA Get off my lawn!

by Anonymousreply 10405/03/2012

Some gay men are prostitutes when it comes to "straight" men, so why would they want love? They drop to their knees in seconds if asked. They lack all kinds of self-respect.

by Anonymousreply 10505/03/2012

I am straight but I would fuck a man up the ass in a heartbeat

by Anonymousreply 10605/04/2012

a true gay man is the straightest man there is

by Anonymousreply 10705/04/2012

In general, straight guys do not want to be blown by a man. They would then be gay or bisexual. I have a few very good straight male friends of some duration. We are very open and frank with eachother, they are not homophobic and they do not desire a blow job from a guy, not close to it.

by Anonymousreply 10805/04/2012

in situations where an all male population has no access to women, most turn to homosexuality.

These men don't stop being attracted to women, they expand their psychological hangups because their sexuality is too strong to be denied altogether.

Sexual attraction can be projected onto any person or object under the right circumstances.

Ever heard of people who get aroused by certain smells or the touch of household objects.

Situational or fetish same sex attraction is very common and doesn't concern anyone whom it doesn't harm

by Anonymousreply 10905/04/2012


Yes, Charlie. Once again you step in with a common sense opinion.

That's pretty much the way straight guys look at it: "Sex with a man? That's not what I am interested in."

by Anonymousreply 11005/04/2012

I am straight. I can use my hand or get a soft warm mouth to release my sexual tension. Which is more pleasurable?? Obviously a warm mouth! If it's a female mouth or a male mouth - it's a mouth. Stop labelling people geez!!!! Are most male prisoners who do this gay?? No, it's just the situation you find yourself in!! OBTW I do have a very high sex drive, body build etc so I have no problems getting blow jobs. It is really ego boosting being an alpha male having another dude get down on his knees to service your cock :-)

by Anonymousreply 11105/04/2012

I'd say yes in general, OP. They might not go around looking for a guy to do it, but they'd probably be more open to it than the idea of reciprocating or doing anything anal. I've known a few straight guys like that.

by Anonymousreply 11205/04/2012

R82 -

You rock buddy!

Agree with pretty much everything you say :)

Gay here - top when it comes to fucking - but a complete oral pig - and told I'm really, really good at it - so have had plenty of married/bi/closeted fuck buddies - lots of them long-term.

Known gay and bi/straight guys who wanna get fucked but not otherwise touched - and certainly not kissed! - and gay & bi/straight who just wanna get blown without any other touching or affection - and yet there are other gay & bi/straight guys who are comfortable with it all & happily reciprocate affection. Especially the ones who come back for more and get used to it & get more experienced and less freaked out.

So yeah - takes all kinds! Lots of variation out there on this big old world of ours :)

Gotta wonder too if - especailly with the stigma of being gay slightly less...

hold on: is it? maybe that's not the word I'm looking for - cos there are still plenty of places where there's a LOT of stigma and problems with gay people! - maybe what i mean is, being gay is not unusal or hidden the way it once was.

There are plenty of gay people in popular shows on tv and in movies - lots of attractive, positive gay imagery - and a deluge of hot-bodied, super-hero like athletic men engaging in gay that anyone can easily see for free on the net - maybe all this has to have demystified everything to a large extent? ANd not just demystified - but made it more attractive as well - ?

People who might have once been curious or up for a bit of fun but with no outlet, can now not only see images with just a few keystrokes, but also find discreet partners via hookup sites or grindr.

And there are anti-discrimination laws and so forth, and most white collar workplaces - and a lot of blue ones to - are more tolerant. And the trend (hoefully!) is for this to become more so as time goes by.

And maybe some of the aggresively 'straight' men over the years were just freaked out about their forbidden urges and were kind of driven into the closet, and they became the "real" straight guys - the pillars of masculinity who protested that they would vomit at the mere thought of touching another cock...etc -

butthe younger versions of them today don't have to behave like that anymore?

Dunno - just a thought...

by Anonymousreply 11305/04/2012

Sexuality is set, but sex is not. Men are far more capable of disconnecting the cumshot from who induced it. But it does not mean sexual attraction or love. It means orgasm, period.

Dump a load, it was good, it was fun, but I don't love you. Why is this so difficult to understand?

by Anonymousreply 11505/04/2012

R115, because most gay men are almost pathologically repulsed by a woman and wouldn't get off on it.

by Anonymousreply 11605/04/2012

R115's comment does 'speak to' the occasional misogyny we see here. The psychological component. Gay men SHOULD be able to get blow jobs from women, but if they knew it was a (reasonably hot) woman on the other side of a glory hole, I wonder how many gay men would go all the way with it? Not that women are parked anywhere near glory holes, as many are whores and the rest have castration fantasies. jk

by Anonymousreply 11705/04/2012

"Every single one of them said they could "possibly" see getting involved with oral sex, even possibly reciprocating, but they wanted NOTHING to do with anal sex. Just the idea of it really grossed them out, whereas the idea of oral sex did not"

Bull. Tons of straight guys love anal sex...but with women, not men.

"Not to be stereotypical or anything, but in many of the interviews, many of these guys just simply do not come across as anything but straight."

Just because a guy doesn't talk with a lisp or have "gayvoice" doesn't mean he is straight.

":-A real straight man would rather eat shit than go anywhere near another man sexually"

Um, go to any prison and you will find plenty of straight men engaging in gay sex.

by Anonymousreply 11805/04/2012

Yes and no. Many gay men have no interest in glory holes. Gay men also often state that women give a guy oral differently to a man. I've met quite a few gay women who have said the same about the difference between getting oral off a man or a woman.

by Anonymousreply 11905/04/2012

"If you are gay you are attracted to the same person because your sexual developement is infantile"

Look, it's a psychology textbook from 100 years ago!

by Anonymousreply 12005/04/2012



by Anonymousreply 12105/04/2012

R119 - good point (115 here). Is there a female equivalent for this at all? A big diesel mama and a chrome dildo fucking a straight woman? One experience a hetero woman would shy from, while treasuring the memory of the oral? Dunno. There is much variety out there - some men would do it (if not religious) but only if it was a secret . Media uses sexual repression to control us - therefore, we'll never really know. People have to lie. But most actual (not bi) straight dudes would laugh at the idea. And it's those same guys who suck in bed, so who cares?

by Anonymousreply 12205/04/2012

Eh..I don't think sexuality has as much to do with sex as it does who you fall in love with.

And there are lots of people who get off on the prohibited/shameful. So, I'm sure there are more than a few straight men who would get off having a guy suck them off; however, most probably don't go there.

OTOH, if a man wants to get fucked...sorry, he's gay, or at the very least, very bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 12505/27/2012

[quote]I think a lot of heterosexual men are freaked out about getting it up the ass.

If they're not freaked out by it, I would say there is a pretty good chance they're gay, gay, gay. Hell, I even know gay men who are freaked out by it.

by Anonymousreply 12605/27/2012

I'm gay and I've blown straight guys. Just because you get a bj from another guy, it doesn't make you gay. I've received a couple bj's from women. It doesn't make me straight or bi. It just means I took care of sex, which is a normal biological function. People put too much emphasis on labels.

by Anonymousreply 12706/07/2012

I love how everyone that has an opinion that isn't in vogue with what the media and an incredibly small minority of sexually abused man-boys gets labelled "bigot". I'm sure it makes the scores of you that casually throw it around feel better about the inner struggle we all know you face about your sexuality.

It's a sad joke but so true when people say "We will not tolerate intolerance!" Yet you molestees talk about the need for tolerance.

Listen, the simple fact is that American society puts so much emphasis on sex as an end unto itself that you morons think its your obligation, both intellectually and biologically to be as gay, bi-sexual or "straight-identifying with an urge for the gay" as possible.

I'm sorry you were molested as a child or the strong father figure in your life was anally strong and not strong of character. I think we all are sorry for this because since 1995 we've been inundated with your sexually simpleton ways. Frankly we're all a little tired of the "there's no straight" argument. Get over yourselves and try a butterfly effect where you undo the night Uncle Ernie played jack-of-all-trades with your stick shift by reading a journal you kept of the event.

I invite all of you to now mock my over use of hyphens by making an obscure and snarky reference to Doris Day.

by Anonymousreply 12806/12/2012

"If a man and a woman have a one night stand, the woman will usually want more (unless the guy is a complete jerk), even if they say they don't. The man will just get on with his day. It's inherent in the woman's nature."

You're pretty clueless, aren't you? I guess that's why so many straight men stalk women who aren't interested in them.

by Anonymousreply 12906/12/2012

I kind of agree with r124 on that. Women are wired to nest and men are wired to spread the seed.

Not in all cases, or course, but generally.

by Anonymousreply 13006/12/2012

Why do you ask a gay web site, OP? Go ask a straight web site and get laughed off of the site. You'll get honesty there, however. That's about it.

by Anonymousreply 13106/12/2012

I just wanted to say that none of you understand straight men. I am straight. I love women and could never find myself physically attracted to a man. That said, I find the idea of being plowed in the ass by another man very exciting. I thouroughly enjoy the stimulation I recieve from placing objects in my anus. I just love anal sex, and after years of sex with women and viewing porn, I want to see what it is like to be on the recieving end. I am not attracted to men, just the penetration of a cock. I guess you might criticize me saying that I would just use a man a living dildo, but I just want to feel, at least once, what it is like to be fucked by an actual man.

by Anonymousreply 13207/05/2012

I know gay men or bi men like that, but no straight men. At all.

They can get any number of sluts in their late teens or early twenties to do anything for a gift card to Macy's.

by Anonymousreply 13307/05/2012

R132, fantasy is so much different from reality.

by Anonymousreply 13507/05/2012

R132 = gaybait at its best!

by Anonymousreply 13607/06/2012

LOL "He loves to have his ass opened." Okay maybe if you are sexting but do people really talk like that on internet forums? American men are comical to me. You should tell his girlfriend she should date a Russian man before she gets HIV.

by Anonymousreply 13707/09/2012

Why do black guy refuse to suck dick or kiss, but they'll eat your ass for hours?

by Anonymousreply 13807/09/2012

[quote]It's hard for me to imagine any guy who is truly straight allowing another man to fuck him.

It's just another contact sport that makes a guy feel good.

by Anonymousreply 14007/09/2012

It's a fantasy thread, R139.

by Anonymousreply 14107/09/2012

[quote]If you look at it that way, then straight men in prison, who will always focus in on women as partners, will engage in homosexual acts without changing their orientation. As soon as they are around women again, they go back to women.

If you think this, you are truly naive. I can guarantee the number of downlow men who have gone to prison outweighs the number who have not.

by Anonymousreply 14207/09/2012

[quote]It's just another contact sport that makes a guy feel good.

By women only. Not men.

by Anonymousreply 14307/09/2012

It does bend the definition of straight, to say the least.

I mean, if I say "I'm vegetarian but sometimes I just like a big thick beefsteak on the grill, ya know?" then I am not vegetarian. I am omnivorous.

by Anonymousreply 14407/09/2012

To the self-loathing, R144, bisexual isn't as hot as "straight", though. And, it's certainly hotter than gay. They need "straight" in order to be attracted to the man to begin with. If the same guy told them he was gay, they would probably lose interest.

by Anonymousreply 14507/09/2012

Getting blown (even by a guy) feels and looks like worship. It can be considered an ego boost.

Getting fucked by a guy feels like being that guy's bitch. Only questionable straight guys like to be somone else's bitch (even when the bitch is a real woman with a strap on). There's a difference though between being pussy whipped (where you comply to everything your female spouse asks you to do in order to get laid) and being someone's bitch in bed.

by Anonymousreply 14607/09/2012

R1 nails it.

by Anonymousreply 14707/09/2012

you make good points R146, but as a gay guy I still don't want to get blown by a woman.

by Anonymousreply 14807/09/2012

[quote]If you look at it that way, then straight men in prison, who will always focus in on women as partners, will engage in homosexual acts without changing their orientation.

Prison sex and rape is about domination and hierarchy. Like the movie stereotype where new inmates asks around who is the toughest guy at the joint in order to beat him up and show the show the others that he not someone they should mess (= rape) with.

by Anonymousreply 14907/09/2012

[quote]By women only. Not men.

The woman has to be willing. Some give up blowjobs as soon as the wedding recessional is played. Some wives give up sex after childbirth. Some wives give up sex at menopause.

That's when men are willing to play with men.

by Anonymousreply 15007/09/2012

[quote]The woman has to be willing.

A man can find plenty of women who will do the job.

[quote]That's when men are willing to play with men.

Straight men are never willing to "play" (which sounds creepy) with other men.

by Anonymousreply 15107/09/2012

I believe a man can be "straight" relationship-wise while being bi-sexual. Though if they enjoy getting sucked off from men more than women (sorry, I am a woman and it's a fact that I excel at bjs, so the excuse "men do it better" is just a cover for embarrassed homos).

If you show a preference at all, probably are gay. I do understand though that men have a g-spot in the anus and getting it from a real dick is probably better than a toy- I'd rather my husband do me than have to use a toy.

Though I imagine having a threesome with women for fun (and understanding each other emotionally- maybe for men a fantasy of being able to be more detached during...), I don't actually go for it. If I did I would consider myself bi-sexual, I was during an experimental phase but now I prefer men and only want men in real life. Sooooo I'm straight.

Gay = a preference as does straight (to the point of solely one or the other for an extended amount of time or certainty), bi is not taking a side or experimenting more than once...if not just once even. How I see it. I've taken human sexual psychology classes so some of my opinion is effected by science and statistics.

by Anonymousreply 15207/13/2012

My answer: the guy in question is bi-sexual or gay once he takes action, until then don't know for sure. A fantasy is just a fantasy until you do it. But this guy is definitely not straight once he does it/lets it happen.

All in all he can say he is whatever he wants, I just think he's lying to himself if he thinks he's straight but gets bjs from men! lol

by Anonymousreply 15307/13/2012

A great blow job, by a guy or a girl is awesome. Close your eyes & enjoy. I definitely love it when a guy gives me one because I can return the favor.

That being said, I've been sucked off by a few women, and I enjoyed it. Love those nails tickling my balls. That's something a guy can't do.

Just sayin....

by Anonymousreply 15507/13/2012

OP do you go by the name "ThunderKat" on another site?


by Anonymousreply 15607/13/2012

[quote]That being said, I've been sucked off by a few women, and I enjoyed it. Love those nails tickling my balls. That's something a guy can't do.

by Anonymousreply 15707/13/2012

If u enjoy getting fucked by a man, u gay

by Anonymousreply 15807/13/2012

Whoever started this thread is a sick fuck who probably got so turned on by being a pig that he jerked off right after he hit the enter key.

Thanks for airing your fetishistic fantasy on the unwitting, you pervert.

by Anonymousreply 15907/13/2012

[r20] You obviously don't know 'bout rough trade. You have to take into consideration how the person himself self-identifies. I have fucked a lot of guys who consider themselves straight. They like the "sensation" ~ but do not try to kiss them or get affectionate, because they will tell you immediately that makes them gay. Back in the day there was this cute hustler in Philly who would suck my dick for a very reasonable price. He was excellent. He abhorred being kissed. So, to answer OP's original question some "straight identified" guys like getting plowed but would freak out if you kissed them while doing it.

by Anonymousreply 16007/13/2012

[quote]That being said, I've been sucked off by a few women, and I enjoyed it.

Obviously, you're straight.

by Anonymousreply 16207/13/2012

Sheesh , methinks in the history of the world there is at least one 1000% straight guy who got blown by a fag and thoroughly enjoyed it lol

by Anonymousreply 16307/13/2012

A friend used to pick up Marines near Camp Pendleton. They could get blowjobs from their girlfriends but they could not get fucked by their girlfriends.

And as my friend said, "gay men like to get fucked, but straight men love to get fucked."

And in my experience, the married men who frequented Paris saunas for their "5-to-7s" almost all wanted to get fucked

by Anonymousreply 16407/13/2012

I have a straight trick who started as a top but gradually progressed to giving oral and develops a hard on doing so and then finally enjoys sitting on my dick while he jerks himself till he cums. He's got a satisfied wife and a kid at home and still think 100% straight when I asked him.

by Anonymousreply 16507/13/2012

where are these straight/gay men and why can't I find one?

I'd either like a twink I could fuck or a hunk who would do me?

why is it so hard to find either?

I just want my fair share. I just want what's coming to me.

by Anonymousreply 16607/13/2012

compleatly circumstantial. depends entirely on alot of facters was the guy seduced into it? YES that is possible! get a guy horny enough long enough cock blocked enough and possibly drunk enough and it is not that hard, also some guys are str8 with anal fixations and find they cant get or are scared to ask for a women to do this for them as well they might like the way the dick feels as oppossed to a dildo, this does not make them gay, in order to be gay you must be sexually attracted to the same sex, not the activity taking place, also there are places like jail for instance where heterosexual bariers are broke down. rape is another example of fixating on power and not orientation, also some men might beleive men give better head which sorry to say is compleatly true , biologicly we have larger mouths deeper throughts and are therefore more suited to the procceedure. as well we actually know what it feels like. this is probly the reason there are more str8 guys who cave to gays and not so many gays who cave to girls, and yes some of these guys really do like guys or are curiouse or actually bi and either dont realize it or cant except it, the over all point is that we as human beings are to varried sexually within ourselves as well as compleatly different from eachother, and then you must facter in scenario and whats going on to get the guy to do those acts, you cant just define one answer for all... after all sex whether its with a man OR a women is in fact... personal, and thus so to is the conclusion of our individual sexual spectrums.... but ladies dont even think about it, this spectrum is set to stud. lol

by Anonymousreply 16707/14/2012

It's pretty clear that the intentions of straight men are complex and unfathomable. Or feel good make come out. One or the other anyway.

by Anonymousreply 16807/14/2012

R167 On a COMPLETELY unrelated note, how do you say "delusional queen" in Canadian?

by Anonymousreply 16907/14/2012

OP do you post by the name of "ThunderKat" on another site?


by Anonymousreply 17007/14/2012

[quote]the intentions of straight men are complex and unfathomable.

Not always.

by Anonymousreply 17107/16/2012

"I hook up with a straight married fuck bud twice a week and wouldn't trade it for the world.'

Your "fuck bud" is a closet queen, you poor dumb thing.

by Anonymousreply 17207/16/2012


Yeah that's weird.

by Anonymousreply 17307/17/2012

R165, straight trick? You just outed yourself as one, a liar, and two, born in 1910.

by Anonymousreply 17407/17/2012

"Sheesh , methinks in the history of the world there is at least one 1000% straight guy who got blown by a fag and thoroughly enjoyed it lol"

No "1000% straight guy" would ever put his penis in a "fag's" mouth.

I'm sure there are men who have sex with other men that delude themselves into thinking: "I'm straight! I just like to get sucked off by a guy sometimes!" But they're kidding themselves. They're bi, at least. But most likely they're closeted homos.

The posts where a queen claims his "straight" sex partner just looooooves homosex are hilarious. I think most of them are sheer fantasy. But on the offchance that one of them might be true...I get the feeling that these queens like to think they're so hot that even a straight guy desires them. Of course, the "straight" guy is a queen just like they are, they're just too delusional to realize it.

by Anonymousreply 17507/17/2012

[quote]No "1000% straight guy" would ever put his penis in a "fag's" mouth.

No doubt written by some self-hating, fugly, elderly queen who hasn't had sex in 30 years.

by Anonymousreply 17607/17/2012

Well I've just found out via a photograph that my 65yrs old husband of 13yrs. has been seeing various men purely for receiving oral sex ....nothing else he swears! He says he had no desire to do anything to them at all and the idea of anal sex totally freaked him out. As he has told loads of lies I'm still not sure what to believe but I think he is possibly telling me the truth finally. I have also found his profile and it clearly states he has no wish to return the favour.

by Anonymousreply 17707/17/2012

[quote]get a guy horny enough long enough cock blocked enough and possibly drunk enough and it is not that hard

Such an amateur.

by Anonymousreply 17807/17/2012

Back in my slutty days there was an adult bookstore with gloryholes next door to a straight strip club. So I'm pretty sure I got the chance to suck a number of straight cocks.

by Anonymousreply 17907/17/2012

Most str8 guys i suck cum back for more. They usually havent been rimmed before and they love it. They enjoy sitting back and being serviced with no strings attached Its just sex.

by Anonymousreply 18007/18/2012

R180 - they go to you, they go to another guy, and another guy. They don't go to women. Why? Because they're gay.

by Anonymousreply 18107/18/2012

For r177, giving oral sex to her husband was probably a chore.

Now it's one less thing off her to-do list.

by Anonymousreply 18207/18/2012

Straight men would never conceive of going to another man for sex. Ever.

There are women who will blow, rim, have anal, etc. You can find these type of women on the Internet very easily.

by Anonymousreply 18307/18/2012

[quote]Most str8 guys i suck cum back for more. They usually havent been rimmed before and they love it. They enjoy sitting back and being serviced with no strings attached. Its just sex

I think if I was a closeted gay guy, I would have a lot of fun pretending to be 100% straight so I could be lazy and just sit back and get serviced with NSA. I wonder if you all would be as tolerant of an openly gay man who was this selfish.

by Anonymousreply 18407/18/2012

The guys she services realize that Straight Gal is only doing it to get something in return, but some people actually enjoy the act of blowing guys.

by Anonymousreply 18507/18/2012

Gay men are extremely competitive with women.

by Anonymousreply 18607/18/2012

R4, you said "identifies" as straight. If a woman does not know how to give head, a guy can show her what he wants. It's not rocket science.

If he is turning to guys for blowjobs, it's because he likes how a man feels on his dick.

by Anonymousreply 18707/18/2012

[quote]If he is turning to guys for blowjobs, it's because he likes how a man feels on his dick.

Exactly. We all know that a woman's mouth is nothing like a man's mouth. They have those fangs and forked tongues that make it very uncomfortable. That's why a man's mouth feels better on a dick. You're very perceptive r187. Your brilliance is astounding.

by Anonymousreply 18807/18/2012

"No doubt written by some self-hating, fugly, elderly queen who hasn't had sex in 30 years."

Oh piss off, you idiot. No doubt you're one of those asshole queens who has a "straight" fuck buddy that just loves to have your inchworm plow his hole. Or maybe that's just a persistent fantasy of yours. You're such a dickweed, I tend to think the latter describles your sad situation.

by Anonymousreply 18907/19/2012

NO ONE can a man a better blow job then another male. the greeks and Romans BOTH knew this. It's historical fact.

by Anonymousreply 19007/19/2012

NOBODY understands straight men except straight men, and they ain't telling. To each other or anyone else.

by Anonymousreply 19107/22/2012

I know they are okay with that because I used to let lots of other guys suck my dick. Then I began to wonder what it was like and one night I found myself sucking another guy off. As time went by I began to woner what it would be like to let another guy fuck me and then it happened and it was great. Once I got over that barrier I felt free, I could surrender to another man.

by Anonymousreply 19207/23/2012

You do realize that 'Straight gal" is a gay guy pretending to be a "gal" right, R185?

by Anonymousreply 19307/23/2012

[quote]NO ONE can a man a better blow job then another male. the greeks and Romans BOTH knew this. It's historical fact.

100% bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 19407/23/2012

R194 failed World History 101.

by Anonymousreply 19507/23/2012

R195, straight men don't want you. They would rather fuck the pussy some 60 year old fat, slob who reaks of urine in a sewing room than stick his cock in your mouth. Get over your delusional fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 19607/23/2012

Get this. A hole is a hole and straight men do not really care where it's coming from. What I can't imagine is most straight love getting rimmed and some are anally fixated that they like getting fucked by big dicks.

by Anonymousreply 19707/23/2012

A hole is not a hole.

by Anonymousreply 19807/23/2012

And a house is not a home

by Anonymousreply 19907/23/2012

>>A house is not a home, by Dionne


by Anonymousreply 20007/23/2012


by Anonymousreply 20107/23/2012

In reality same sex contact is a form of bonding straight gay bi are fake. Fear is what controls choice and certain beliefs.

by Anonymousreply 20207/25/2012

Let's face it, some guys are bad lovers and after awhile a woman says, you don't please me and I'm not going to blow you. So if they want to get their dick in someones mouth, they either pay or get a willing guy to do it. Soes it make them gay? I really don't know.

by Anonymousreply 20307/25/2012

"A hole is a hole and straight men do not really care where it's coming from."

Oh yes they do. For some promiscuous straight guys a hole is a hole as long as it's a WOMAN'S hole. Straight guys aren't interested in other men's holes.

My definition of someone who is "straight": someone who has sex exclusively with the opposite sex. Anyone who does NOT have sex exclusively with the opposite sex, someone who has occasional or regular gay sex, cannot be classified as "straight." Why is that so hard for you morons to understand? Or maybe these idiots who insist that there are straight men who love to get their cocks sucked by queens are just trolls trying to stir shit. Anyway, this a a very tedious topic. Straight men do not have sex with gay men and that is a fact.

by Anonymousreply 20407/25/2012

Morons like r204, who think they're the ultimate authority on straight vs. gay, probably haven't had sex with any man for the past 20 years and their future will be the same.

by Anonymousreply 20507/25/2012

I think the key here is that some men are "straight-identified" yet have sex with men.

I have to smile that dozens of threads here that begin with "I had sex with a straight guy..." alwsys devolve into the same exact arguments.

by Anonymousreply 20607/25/2012

R205, he's a realistic "moron" telling the truth. Straight men don't want your hairy, old butthole.

I don't think "straight-identitifed" is the correct term. It's more like, "straight-but-bullshitting".

by Anonymousreply 20707/25/2012

"Let's face it, some guys are bad lovers and after awhile a woman says, you don't please me and I'm not going to blow you. So if they want to get their dick in someones mouth, they either pay or get a willing guy to do it"

No, they pay or get a willing WOMAN to do it. Straight guys who want to do things their wives or girlfriends won't do get slutty girls or prostitutes to blow them. They don't seek out pathetic, willing queens or male hustlers unless of course they're closeted or bi-s who are willing to stick it in the mouths of anything, male or female.

by Anonymousreply 20807/25/2012

Not everyone is in a rigid construction.

Generations of straight guys got blown by their friends, by neighborhood fags or through glory holes easily available at mens rooms throughout the world.

by Anonymousreply 20907/25/2012

It's truly amazing how the brilliant anthropologist at r208 is aware of the inclination and thought process of every male on earth who has ever gotten a blowjob. We are fortunate that he is willing to share his knowledge with us.

by Anonymousreply 21007/25/2012

This is why straight guys fear gays

by Anonymousreply 21107/25/2012

"Generations of straight guys got blown by their friends, by neighborhood fags or through glory holes easily available at mens rooms throughout the world."

Yeah, "straight guys" use glory holes! And get blown by "friends" and "neighborhood fags!"

Straight guys who crave having their dicks sucked by you know how retarded that sounds?

by Anonymousreply 21207/25/2012

[quote]Straight guys who crave having their dicks sucked by you know how retarded that sounds?

He didn't say they "crave" blowjobs by men, r212. Do you know how retarded you sound with your ignorant fairytale? Why enter the discussion if you're going to post lies? Are you a fundie frau?

by Anonymousreply 21307/25/2012

r186, that and the ones who go after straight men are getting even with women!

by Anonymousreply 21407/25/2012

Queens like R210 and R213 like to fancy themselves as possessing some special talent/ability that makes straight guys want to have sex with them.

Poor saps.

by Anonymousreply 21507/25/2012

Do straight guys exist?

by Anonymousreply 21707/26/2012

"He didn't say they "crave" blowjobs by men, [R212]. Do you know how retarded you sound with your ignorant fairytale? Why enter the discussion if you're going to post lies? Are you a fundie frau?"

What "fairytale?" What "lies?" It's pretty preposterous to think that any "staight" man would stick his dick through a gloryhole or get sexual release though male "friends" and "neighborhood fags."

You sound like a nutty queen who thinks there are straight men who love homosexual sex.

by Anonymousreply 21807/26/2012

Straight men seek out women for blow jobs and anal. Not men.

by Anonymousreply 21907/26/2012

I know straight-identifying guys who like getting fucked and like getting oral, some who like fucking up the ass but can't find a girl to do it, so they just fuck a guy, and then of course you have the bi-curious straight-identifying guys who want to try it all. There are straight identifying guys who know men give superior head, and they can basically use a guy as a cum slot, NSA blow job, and they go back to their every day lives. Some straight identifying guys don't mind body contact or kissing, a lot of others hate doing it.

There is a difference between identifying as straight and actually being straight. A person can identify as something when it's clear that's not what they are. 100% straight men will not have sex with another guy, but most people are not 100% straight or gay. With that being said, the way I see sexuality is, who could you spend your life with, which gender, and why? And if it's only women you can see yourself spending your life with forever as a man, if it's only women you have such a connection with, then you are straight. Being sexually open to having sex with a man doesn't change that.

by Anonymousreply 22007/26/2012

These are gay men who call themselves straight, R220. Can we drop the "straight-identitifying" bullshit please? Because that's what it is. Bullshit. You can tell this phrase was created by gay men anyways. No straight man claims he's "straight-identitfying".

by Anonymousreply 22107/26/2012

Weren't there Jews who resembled Germans in WWII and claimed to be "German" to avoid death? Would they be considered "German-Identitifying"?

by Anonymousreply 22207/26/2012

r215, there was no claim of any sex with straight men, just discussing the fact that men will allow a bj from a male when it's not available from a female. That's NOT saying they are seeking a bj from a man. That's NOT saying they prefer a bj from a man over a woman.

You sound like an angry frau r215. You would be a perfect partner for r218 who tries to twist a discussion with false claims that we are are saying straight men prefer sex with men. You're both liars.

by Anonymousreply 22307/26/2012

Gay guys have one advantage other minorities. They can hide who they are. If people could hide their skin colour, few would come out as coloured too.

by Anonymousreply 22407/26/2012

[quote]No straight man claims he's "straight-identitfying".

Nobody in this thread said that any man has ever said, "I'm straight identifyling."

What kind of moron would try to twist what has been said about straight identifying men into a claim that they actually proclaim it? Probably, a fugly and damaged bullshit artist who can't attract anyone for any kind of sex would make that claim.

by Anonymousreply 22507/26/2012

No matter how many people claim it exists there is no 'one and only' solution or explanation for the behavior of the entire human race or parts of it.

We are all individuals and we are all individually driven by different motivations, agendas, desires, wishes, dreams, etc.

One's personal experience is another one's urban myth (especially when there's no factual link backing it up).

by Anonymousreply 22607/26/2012

R224, there are many Jewish people who hide too. Many. I know a few. It's really, really pathetic. They even go far as to change their last names to avoid persecution. Gay men who claim to be "straight" are the same.

R225, you're somewhat creepy.

by Anonymousreply 22707/26/2012

R226, it's easy to define: self-loathing. That's it.

by Anonymousreply 22807/26/2012

[R221] A person can be sexually bisexual and emotionally/romantically straight/gay. Sexuality is not black and white at all, unlike what most people seem to believe. Straight identifying means they IDENTIFY as straight but their ACTIONS tell a different story, and that's it. And I agree, that these men are not truly "straight" in terms of what is considered having a true straight orientation. But does that make them gay? Not necessarily.

by Anonymousreply 22907/26/2012

[quote]you're somewhat creepy.

That's a bizarre claim from the angry frau who posted bullshit at r131, r141, r142, r143, r145, r151, r174, r181, r183, r193, r194, r196, r198, r207, r219, r221, r222, r227, and r228

by Anonymousreply 23007/26/2012

R230, I have this thread saved and post to it from time-to-time. I m sure you can find many who do the same. But, I like your idea of seeing my previous posts. Datalounge should start that.

by Anonymousreply 23107/26/2012

I'm just sayig that a really straight guy would rather stick his dick in a goat than let another man touch it.

by Anonymousreply 23207/26/2012

I've only made it with about 3 guys who thought they were straight. All three wanted to get fucked, claiming they wanted to know what their wives were enjoying. The guys were most reticent about cock sucking because if they sucked cock and liked it, they would be gay.

Most straight guys are much like gay guys about sex. Straight guys can't get it up for another man, just as most gay men couldn't get it up for woman.

by Anonymousreply 23307/26/2012

R232 you made me lol in real life. and i agree. the question is not if a guy would be physically able to get a boner - the human body works in specific ways and i think that someone who has been around he block could theoretically give another person (f/m) an orgasm.

the question is why a "straight" person would seek a same sex situation. right, he doesn't.

by Anonymousreply 23407/26/2012

[quote]the question is why a "straight" person would seek a same sex situation.

That's really not the question. It's about them settling for a same sex situation when opposite sex situation is not available. Craigs List doesn't work for a straight guy in smalltown Podunk who doesn't want to drive a hundred miles each way for an opposite sex hookup.

by Anonymousreply 23507/26/2012

Oh please, R235, would a gay guy go for some snatch when no dick is available?

The "I bagged a straight guy" thing is awful. What you really did was you got a closet-case, or possibly a bisexual, to let you suck his dick. He might claim he's straight, but then Elton John used to do the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 23607/26/2012

"there was no claim of any sex with straight men, just discussing the fact that men will allow a bj from a male when it's not available from a female. That's NOT saying they are seeking a bj from a man. That's NOT saying they prefer a bj from a man over a woman."

No "straight" man would ever "allow" a blowjob from a male when it's not available from a female. Only a bi guy (or closet queen who call himself "straight") would do that. Now shut the fuck up why don't you? You're just embarrassing yourself.

by Anonymousreply 23707/26/2012

then i misread ops question. i thought he wanted to know if straight guys enjoy gay bjs.

by Anonymousreply 23807/26/2012

[uote]Now shut the fuck up why don't you? You're just embarrassing yourself.

The scorned frau mentality is permeating this thread. Maybe if they weren't so frigid, hubby wouldn't be going to the ABS to get his rocks off in an unknown mouth at a gloryhole.

by Anonymousreply 23907/26/2012

"The scorned frau mentality is permeating this thread. Maybe if they weren't so frigid, hubby wouldn't be going to the ABS to get his rocks off in an unknown mouth at a gloryhole."

I imagine you're quite an expert on gloryholes, you pathetic, retarded dickweed.

And just what the hell do "fraus" have to do with a discussion about the absurdity of so-called "straight" men who will let another guy suck them off if no woman is available, "straight" men who accept a friendly blowjob from another guy if it's offered? Yeah, "straight" guys do that all the time.

by Anonymousreply 24007/26/2012

For intellectual lightweights like R223 and R239, anybody who doesn't agree with their lame ass explanations is a "scorned frau."

Never run for public office. You'd snap under the slightest pressure and resort to mud slinging and childish name calling.

by Anonymousreply 24107/26/2012

I've read that 95% of all men have a blow job from another man at least once in their life time. "Straight" guys who look for and want a blow job from another man are not straight. I agree with that. And any man who lets another man do him in the ass is a homosexual. Period! If the stat is true, if 95% of all men have had their dick sucked by a homosexual I can only imagine 90% of those happened when the person was a young boy. Even as young as 12. We all know they like em' young. That's my guess anyway because I don't get it.

by Anonymousreply 24207/27/2012

Hey what's up I'm a straight guy I'm 24 yrs old I have

Girlfriend of 4 years she doesn't like the. Toy thing

But once and a while I like to get my ass stretched

By another man it feels awesome .

I wanted to see if I can maybe fool around with my

Other straight friend I know for 5 yrs but I'm not sure I

Don't want to scare him off he acts very friendly he grabs my ass some times I always catch him staring at me or my ass he sends Me text messages refering to Sexual stuff such as getting Oral facials etc and he hasn't had a girlfriend for years

Should I make the first move ANY ADVICE

by Anonymousreply 24308/01/2012

I've read this thread with great fascination. I always am amused when a group of gay men discuss straight men.

Here are my thoughts.

In the absence of women, would a straight guy let another guy blow him? The only answer could be, it depends on the guy and it depends on the circumstances. Are they on an island where they will never see another woman for years? Are they in prison? Is there money involved? Human sexuality is complicated. Gay, straight, bi are just labels to help humans in their never-ending quest to categorize everything. I believe that most straight guys aren't going to let another guy blow them, as long as there are women around or they could jack off and no one is getting paid.

by Anonymousreply 24408/01/2012

I'm intrigued by r243.

Next time he makes a suggestive remark, say "Go for it" for "Let's go for it"

It's best if you're both a little high or drunk first.

by Anonymousreply 24508/01/2012

Hey annymous,

I've blown so many straight guys!! They all wish their wives/ girlfriends could do it that good. Doesnt mean they're gay; they just have this fantasy about how they would like it to be with their wives/girlfiriend.

Not too big to get your "head" around.

Relax, you're still straight bud!

by Anonymousreply 24608/03/2012

[quote]They all wish their wives/ girlfriends could do it that good

That's the key to this thread.

by Anonymousreply 24708/04/2012

I think about getting taken anally...alot!

by Anonymousreply 24808/05/2012

R243 = gay guy pretending to be straight.

R246 - you were blowing closeted gay / bisexual men. You're not the guy who blows them. They have probably been with hundreds of guys.

by Anonymousreply 24908/06/2012

Be aware r246, that r249 has been following you to interview the men you have been blowing. That's why he knows for certain that they are gay or bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 25008/06/2012

R250, yes, in my special ed class; we learned that men who get hard to other men are gay or bisexual. Not straight. Then we learned 2+2.

by Anonymousreply 25108/06/2012

NO thats wat girls r for

by Anonymousreply 25208/08/2012

So does that mean that gay guys are okay with being blown or dildoed by know, when they cant find a willing guy?

This straight guy fantasy you guys have is fascinating. I hope if anyone here attempts to live it out, he is smart about it. This kind of thing has gotten many-a-gay beaten up.

by Anonymousreply 25308/08/2012

if a guy likes a women and the way she looks,smile, talk or any thing bout her turns him on just how she walk thn he likes women bout if he like all this thng or just one of these thing bout a man then he gay if u like having any sexually relations with the same sex then u gay man or women!!!

by Anonymousreply 25408/10/2012

Black guys don't get fucked, they just eat the ass

by Anonymousreply 25508/10/2012

People like r254 and her ilk can't comprehend that a blowjob doesn't have to involve love or even "like." It's the blowjob that counts, not the gender of the person with the mouth. It takes a modicum of intelligence to understand this fact; not the love and marriage garbage pushed at us by organized religion.

Prudes like r254 probably haven't had sex with another person in years.

by Anonymousreply 25608/10/2012

If you can get a straight guy drunk, blow him and eat his ass, he'll be yours forever.

by Anonymousreply 25808/10/2012

Straight guys enjoy getting a blow job from another guy. In fact, only a guy knows how to give great blow jobs. I have a long list of guys who contact me regularly for a blow job. They enjoy it, really enjoy it, especially because I swallow what they shoot down my throat. Without exception all my male contacts are young, between ages 19 and 24, and all eager to be satisfied. One of my young contacts left his girlfriend sitting in his car while he came over to my place for a blow job. He told me that she didn't know the first thing about giving blow jobs and asked me, if you can imagine, if I would show her how to do deep throat.

by Anonymousreply 25908/15/2012

Well I cant really get into the gay or straight debate but I am straight and married to a women. I dont want to be blown by a guy and i dont want to fuck a guy but I have talked with my wife and I definately want to get fucked by a guy and want to deepthroat his dick until it hurts. I dont want a relationship with a guy and dont desire to kiss. So will spmeone please tell me where this leaves my sexuality? I wanna think of it as Im open to different things!!!!

by Anonymousreply 26008/15/2012

Straight guys are more than okay getting blow jobs from another guy. I know a lot of straight young guys who stop to give me a ride at night while I'm waiting for a bus and enjoy pulling over for a blow job as a reward for a lift. The conversation usually begins with asking me if I'm looking for excitement. I ask what they have in mind and they usually say something like: you know what I'm getting at to which I say: yes, when was the last time? Responses usually vary but more often than not, they say that they haven't had it in a few days. I find this very exciting and enjoyable. The fact that they always come back for more tells me that they're okay with getting blow jobs from a guy.

by Anonymousreply 26108/15/2012

Straight, gay, bi, etc.? I don't know!!! Call me what you want. I'm 62-years-old, have been married three times, have had children and lived what most people would describe as a heterosexual male life. I never had a thought towards other men until two years ago. But now, even though I'm not especially attracted to other men, I'm getting blowjobs, sucking off other guys, wearing panties, bras and lingerie. I want to find out what it's like to kiss another man, and I definitely DO want to be fucked in the ass. I hope these things, plus a lot more fantasies I've had lately will turn out to be new and exciting aspects of my life that seems to have no boundaries when it comes to my sexual satisfaction. I can see nothing wrong or perverted in things I enjoy with others -- male or female. I don't define myself or my behavior by any labels whatsoever, but am not afraid of them either. But since I'll probably never want to be with a woman again (for a variety of personal reasons) you certainly can't call me Bi. So guys and gals, what would YOU call me, if anything?

by Anonymousreply 26208/20/2012

A lot of gay guys are okay with getting blown by a guy but freak out about the possibility of getting fucked. You hear them express this on DL often.

So if gay men can feel this way, why not straight men.

But you knew that.

by Anonymousreply 26308/20/2012

r262, i'd call you a long closeted, repressed homo. Because you claim you never want to be with a woman again, 'for a variety of reasons'.

I find it hard to believe that you never thought about being with a man until 2 years ago. You just seem to want hetero cred for your marriages.

People don't just change their stripes that late in life. Some do come out of the closet though. I know a woman who came out in her 60s.

So i'd say you're a gay guy who's long repressed it, and are still convincing yourself you're not gay because you were married. Not that i'm judging, but that seems to be your situation.

by Anonymousreply 26408/20/2012

Well OP..BI guys don't. Straight guys do!

by Anonymousreply 26508/20/2012

[quote]So guys and gals, what would YOU call me, if anything?

I'd call you "out of luck" at 62 years old trying to get any m/m action, R262.

by Anonymousreply 26608/20/2012

Tweek em

by Anonymousreply 26708/20/2012

"Straight guys are more than okay getting blow jobs from another guy. I know a lot of straight young guys who stop to give me a ride at night while I'm waiting for a bus and enjoy pulling over for a blow job as a reward for a lift. The conversation usually begins with asking me if I'm looking for excitement"

You expect anybody to believe that you routinely get picked up by "straight guys" who want you to suck their cocks? And they ask you if you're "looking for excitement?" Get it a rest, dear. Your tale is not even remotely believeable. Only closeted (or not closeted) homos go trolling in cars in search of some idiot willing to suck a stranger's dick.

by Anonymousreply 26808/20/2012

Yeah.. It's because they don't like you.. They just wanna use you.. As others have said "They just like their cock to get sucked.." I'm gay and I have blown off some straight guys.. It was only because "I" was desperate and I begged them to let me suck them.. But now, I don't do that anymore.. My advice for us, gays is that we should find partners of our type.. Just don't go after those motha fukin gay bashing inhumane straight dudes who use you as a toy.. They don't know how you feel, they actually can't know because they're straight.. Only a gay knows how a gay feels.. We also have a personality and we also have a right to be not to be discriminated.. But Straight people think we're a some kind of psychos.. A straight guy will NEVER accept you as a best friend of his.. He'll keep his distance..Actually he'll be scared.. Because then the world will think he's gay too.. Mostly straights repel gays because of society..

by Anonymousreply 26908/22/2012

When a straight guy is horny they will do anything and anyone. Straight guys can have sex with someone without being attracted to them. You will often hear a straight guys say something I banged an ugly girl last night, I didn't what she looked like I just had to have sex. It's the same with getting blown by a gay guy. It may be far easier to find a gay guy to blow you rather than a girl.

by Anonymousreply 27008/22/2012

Being a trucker I give 3-4 blow jobs a night at the truck stops, I call that my meal ticket

by Anonymousreply 27208/22/2012

Look, being sexually attracted to someone, and engaging in sexual contact with them, are two different thing.

Getting sucked off feels good no matter who is doing it.

And, sometimes a situation can be erotic. Some straight guys might enjoy being found attractive by a gay guy cause it's one-sided and boosts their ego. Or, they could enjoy that its forbidden and different, without ever being physiologically attracted to any man.

But many straight guys I know like getting into ass play cause it feels good but their girlfriends won't do it. They have no desire to touch a man's ass, but love the feeling so they're willing to receive it.

by Anonymousreply 27308/22/2012

@ R273 I would have thought if anything other than a blow job they would prefer to top rather than bottom

by Anonymousreply 27408/22/2012

I have both heard and read that many straight men ask their girlfriends/wives to strap on a tool and fuck them in the ass and many women oblige them, I think it's called pegging.

by Anonymousreply 27508/25/2012

I can top R275: I have several female friends who've dated guys into ass play. I even took one of them dildo-shopping for the first time because she had no idea what to look for (and it hadn't even occurred to her that she also needed to buy lube, since she "just assumed" a guy's ass somehow lubed itself like a female pussy does). No, I don't think it's indicative of them being closet cases; I think it's indicative of them being open-minded and knowing exactly what kind of mind-blowing orgasms they can have if their prostates are stimulated during sex.

by Anonymousreply 27608/25/2012

Sex is sex get over it lol

by Anonymousreply 27709/19/2012

I love taking a dildo in my ass and let my girlfrienf put a strapon on to satisfy my ass. Sometimes I fantasize bout dp my girl and also leting warm meat Fuck my ass does this make me a queer

by Anonymousreply 27809/22/2012

Yes, I do. When my wife and I got a divorce I discovered an adult book store and I was watching a XXX movie and masturbating. I hadn't noticed the hole in the wall until three fingers came through and motioned to me. I thought WTF but stuck my dick through anyway. The guy on the other side of the wall took my dick in his mouth and gave me the best blowjob I'd ever had. Since that time I've let a number of dudes suck my cock and all of them have been better than females. About three weeks later I was curious and I sucked another guy's dick. I've never stopped but I don't do anal with other men, yet.

by Anonymousreply 27910/01/2012

Straight guys want nothing to do with nasty homos. Ewwwwwww!

by Anonymousreply 28010/05/2012

yes for sure

by Anonymousreply 28110/06/2012

Straight men would rather commit crime than allow another man near his genitals sexually.

by Anonymousreply 28210/06/2012

I love the gay guy, "Charlie Harris" from Dallas. I love when the gay guys on this site pretend to be "str8 chick" too.

by Anonymousreply 28310/06/2012

If a guy can't get a bj from his wife, he'll head to the nearest ABS for a NSA bj.

by Anonymousreply 28410/08/2012

I love getting my ass opened, my favourite game is seeing how big a fruit i can get up my srry lil' a$$!! Let me have your cock, i am straight btw! I came on here to find out how to stop the bleeding and prolapses when i pull out that son of a bitch from my anus!

Love Dom bear


by Anonymousreply 28510/12/2012

ive ran into a lot of str8 guys after work out at gym that love a blow job in steam room of shower

by Anonymousreply 28610/23/2012

Two of my fbs are straight, married guys. They look to me to provide them with what their wives won't--assplay. It could be a dick, a dildo or a cucumber for that matter. As long as their ass is eing penetrated. They were embarrassed to ask their wives to accommodate this need, and shy about trying to find women online willing to strap one on. So they get dick or a facsimile in their ass, and they feel less guilt because they don't consider making it with another guy cheating.

by Anonymousreply 28710/23/2012

To those of you who say that any man who gets a BJ from another guy must be gay or bi-- that's horse crap. You're just coming from your own space --where you're so skived by the idea that you would never do it. That's not true for about 2/3 of men.

Straight guys have varying responses to sex with another guy. Research shows that about 1/3 of straight guys would never have sex with another guy no matter the circumstance. In fact, prison studies bear this out: 1/3 of men have a very visceral skivved reaction to the thought of homosexual sex. The other 2/3 of men have varying degrees of willingness --depending on the circumstances--of having sex with another man. Prison studies show that about 2/3 of men will engage in some sort of sexual release with another man. Look, men can achieve a needed orgasm in many different ways: using one's hand to jo; rubbing against a surface to orgasm; using a fleshlight; ... there are many ways to get off... letting a guy suck your dick is one of them... it is just a way of getting off, like jerking off or other methods. For about 2/3 of straight men, letting another guy suck your dick is not a "sexual turn on"... it is just a method of getting your rocks off. And for some straight guys, other more involved sexual activity with another guy is maybe closer to bi-sexuality... or maybe just another way of getting off. For those guys who insist that ANY sexual contact with another man is GAY, you're wrong. You guys just have such a strong skivv reaction to the notion of getting off using another guy, that you just cannot imagine overcoming your strong skivv factor to get your rocks off. That strong a skiv factor is only in found in a minority of guys.

by Anonymousreply 28810/23/2012

The need to label a guy "straight" who has gay sex by some gay men shows their aversion to homosexual men, themselves, and homosexuality in general.

by Anonymousreply 28910/23/2012

The people who are unable to deal with the idea of straight men seeking a b.j. are probably elder-queens who haven't been touched by anyone in a decade.

by Anonymousreply 29010/23/2012

lol i'm gay and i had a girl blow me, but that doesn't make me straight. idk why straight guys always freak out about doing stuff with the same sex all the time.

by Anonymousreply 29110/24/2012

[quote]idk why straight guys always freak out about doing stuff with the same sex all the time.

They don't "always freak out." Married to a woman who loses her interest in sex will send a straight guy to any place he can get a b.j.

by Anonymousreply 29210/24/2012

OP, if you ever read DL sex threads you will realize that a lot of gay men are freaked out by sex, not the least of which the act of getting fucked. So by simply doing the math and using common sense it should be easy to extrapolate that straight men are at least as freaked out by getting fucked as many gay men are.

by Anonymousreply 29310/24/2012

look at it this way male animals have sex with each other and we are the same guys like to unload and and you would find 95% of men would let anothyer guy suck them off in private.some guys love to suck I do and do at every optunity Iam married and my wife knows and is turned onb by it. So let yourself go with your feelings and enjoy the experience animals do it they dont carry on its done and they move on.we humans complate our lives idiots.

by Anonymousreply 29410/27/2012

R294 - it's about dominance among two male animals. Not about love, or anything close to human emotion. Straight males do not seek out other males for sex - ever. If they want anal, they seek out female anus. If they want oral, they seek out a female mouth. If they seek out men, they are homsoexual or bisexual. Sorry to ruin your party.

by Anonymousreply 29510/27/2012

Is greyvin real???:)

by Anonymousreply 29610/27/2012

[quote]Straight males do not seek out other males for sex - ever

All the Fundie Fraus will agree with you because they want to believe this.

by Anonymousreply 29710/27/2012

Straight men seek out men for sex about as often as out gay men seek out women for sex.

by Anonymousreply 29810/27/2012

omg like wtf

by Anonymousreply 29911/03/2012


by Anonymousreply 30011/03/2012

R297, but all the basement dwelling, creepy 40-year-old gay men who jerkoff to all day and who lurch around locker rooms for hours and hours pretending to talk "business" on their cell phones while quickly taking peeks at guys getting undressed would agree with you.

I would take the "fundie fraus". They seem brighter.

by Anonymousreply 30111/03/2012

Well if they are straight, what is the one thing you can give them, that their wives or girlfriends can't? A dick in their ass !! That's what they're looking for. Most so called straight guys are bottoms, especially the married ones.

by Anonymousreply 30211/03/2012

R302, do you ever stop to think that maybe these are bisexual or gay men married to women? Or, would that make you go limp...

by Anonymousreply 30311/03/2012

Been with my partner for 10 years in a closed relationship. So going limp isn't an issue for me R303

by Anonymousreply 30411/04/2012

Every man whether straight or gay likes a BJ no matter from who!!!

by Anonymousreply 30511/04/2012

Got a straight male friend who gets fucked by his wife with a dildo...and he loves it!!!

by Anonymousreply 30611/04/2012

No R303, Sorry doesn't apply to me, I'm with my partner 10 years & we don't play. So going limp by thinking these men are bi or straight, simply doesn't apply here, for me.

by Anonymousreply 30711/04/2012

RE 22 - You're right about this. A straight guy will accept a blowjob from another guy so long as his identity is kept secret. I have given blowjobs to many guys who thoroughly enjoyed the experience but didn't want anyone to know that they had had that experience with another guy. I have straight guys return for additional service who repeatedly tell me how happy they've been finding someone like me who enjoys what I do and don't mind giving them this service over and over again.

by Anonymousreply 30811/10/2012

"No. Straight guys find getting sucked off by another man repulsive."

This is funny but so not true. Sure, 1% of straight guys might be like that but not the other 99% and I know this for a fact.

I'm gay and I know two things; males don't have a gag reflex like women which means men can give a better BJ while knowing exactly what it feels like to do it best and straight guys catch on pretty fast to this fact not always understanding the reason.

I do not go for ugly looking guys but attractive 21-28 year old men are perfect if straight and on weekend night. If you find a straight guy in a regular bookstore glancing over at the playboy or actually looking at pics, he is ready to go so if hot and you are too, you can have his manhood in your mouth and he will love it. My rule of thumb is NEVER expect anything in return sexually ever. Most straight guys like oral only when horned out and will not even tell a best friend they get it or a wife of course.

I have one hot stud 24 in College and married to a wonderful woman but he knows where the good sex is and it is oral so we hook up twice a week for a few hours where he just relaxes with his pants off and legs spread out while I get him off two or three times. He even brought me flowers once and has plan to take me on business trip to Aspen with him in December to stay at hotel with him for free and ski too. He will get whatever he wants sexually, no STD and no harm to wife so we are both happy. I am in love with him so warning to gays, you could fall in love with the man but if he is straight, he needs to be in relationship with female only so be strong and just take what effection you can.

I love straight guys so much and for a good one, willing to do anything to please but would feel like bad boy if I did for another guy when servicing this one guy. Twice a week is enough for me and little vacation with him here and there makes me happy just to be with him more than sex. A lot more than sex.

by Anonymousreply 30911/11/2012

I agree with person who said will accept so long as identity kept quiet.

That is the main thing, never even give out first name to a best friend. Never get mixed up in his personal life unless he wants you in something. If he is married, respect that and think of his wife. He wants sex from her too but she cannot satisfy him all the way so stay clean and do not pass along a STD because not just him but wife too or GF.

Keep his name private and if for some reason, he just ups and leaves without calling, do not bother him or try to contact him. That is his way of saying it is over so let it go.

To me, straight guys are like Gods in a way but I tend to stick with just one like I have now. He gets anything he wants but he really wants just BJ and he likes to feel my butt with his hands. I have a bubble butt and am very boyish in looks and a good body. He wants me to take pants off when doing him so I do and he holds my butt just buns of course and sqeezes them a lot. I think he wants to do the other thing and I never did that before but if he wants to do that to me then he can. He has a pretty big penis so I know it will hurt at first but he can do what he wants with me and I think he knows that.

I thought it so sweet when he brought flowers to me and I know for Christmas he will buy something nice. He has a lot of money but I have to figure out something can get him that wife doesn't question. I have seen her before and she's very nice. She has no idea he gets BJ from me and never will. He is not getting it from other guys or women. Just me knowing I'd never get mixed up in his marriage at all. He has it made with me.

by Anonymousreply 31011/11/2012

BTW bi-guys are different than straight guys. I know the difference but in human sexuality, there is no 100% heterosexual or homosexual in truth with men or other male animals. Straight is a 9 out of 10, gay is 2 out of 10 and bi is a 5 out of 10.

The 1% of guys who would not let cute guy do BJ on them are often overweight and or not very good looking. Looks play a big factor in this.

by Anonymousreply 31111/11/2012

"He is not getting it from other guys or women."

Oh, dear, you are so naive. He's lying to his wife, OF COURSE, he's lying to you.

by Anonymousreply 31211/11/2012

Straight men, in the right circumstances, will be eager to get a blowjob from a gay man and will be okay about getting fucked so long as the interaction is kept secret. I have had lots of experience with straight guys who love to get a blowjob from a gay guy and who enjoy getting a cock shoved into their butts. Lots of fun....

by Anonymousreply 31311/15/2012

Jesus for the 100th time if a guy has sexual relations with a man he's not 100% straight! He's gay or indenial or most likely bisexual, human sexuality is more complex than we think, but he's not 100% straight. The delusions on the DL. And secondly he could get a really good BJ from a decent looking female hooker for only 20 bucks, so why would a straight guy do anything with a dude, especially with the HUGE social stigma of male to male sexual relations. Not to mention the somewhat false stereotype that gay men are all diseased, it just ain't happening. Hell a straight guy would let a 400lb woman give them a BJ before letting a gay Guy come anywhere near them. It's stories like this that make me embarrassed to be a proud gay man, and ask yourselves this gays if you were horney enough which you let a chic give you a BJ? Of course not, you would probably pay a good looking MALE prostitute before letting a woman anywhere near your junk.

by Anonymousreply 31411/15/2012

r309 will be bashed very soon

by Anonymousreply 31511/16/2012

gay men HATE gay men!!! so gay men pretend to be straight

by Anonymousreply 31611/16/2012

R317 sad but true

by Anonymousreply 31711/16/2012

RE 309/310 - Mark, I agree with you about straight guys. Given the right circumstances, they will enjoy getting a blowjob from another guy. I have a similar situation happening with 2 straight guys, ages 23 and 26, who go out regularly with girls but come to me for blowjobs. They're attractive guys and enjoy what I do for them. I sometimes see them 3 or 4 times a week because they can't get enough of what I do for them. They usually stay for at least 3 or 4 hours then leave and I won't see them for another few days. I have no expectations of them but am happy doing for them what they want. They're great guys and love getting blowjobs. I have known them for 2 years. So, you're right, straight guys enjoy getting blowjobs so long as there are no strings attached and their identity is kept secret.

by Anonymousreply 31811/19/2012

I am a straight man and have received a blow job from a gay man. I was shocked that I let it happen. I was standing and he was on his knees in front of me and I came so hard that my legs were shaking. I admit that I really enjoyed it because he sucked much longer than any girl I have been with and he also fondled my balls at the same time that he was sucking. However, I did not, touch him in anyway and nor did I want to. I did not look down at him whilst it was happening and in my mind I visualised that a hot, sexy woman was down there and put it completely out of my head that there was a man down there.

by Anonymousreply 31911/19/2012

that's hot, r319. what made you do it?

by Anonymousreply 32011/19/2012

I am a straight male and I am repulsed by both those possibilities.

I would genuinely find it traumatic and the mental image fills me with terror.

by Anonymousreply 32111/19/2012

then there's something wrong with you. I am gay but I have been with women sexually twice and was certainly not repulsed by them. If you are unable to appreciate beauty and sexuality of someone who is both beautiful and sexual, no matter their gender, then you have mental problems.

by Anonymousreply 32211/19/2012


Your sexuality and mine are different. Simply because your experiences and subsequent opinions have gone a different way, does not give you authority to claim that I have mental problems.

Remember 50 years ago, when the DSM was claiming homosexuality was a mental disorder? Are you now suggesting that not being homosexual to some degree is a mental disorder?

by Anonymousreply 32311/19/2012

Yes, and he is right. It's just sex, dumbass.

by Anonymousreply 32411/19/2012

3 or 4 hours at a time? You are a true endurance champion, Lance.

by Anonymousreply 32511/19/2012


Go have sex with a small child, or a barn-yard animal, or a lamp-post, and tell what's 'just sex'.

Just because you consider differently-gendered human orifices equal, does not mean another person does, or even should.

by Anonymousreply 32611/19/2012

R321 Thank you! And most straight men I know feel the same way. I'm an attractive, masculine, proud gay man(we do exist). A lot of gay men like masculine men, well why not find that in an ACTUAL gay or bi man or better yet BECOME that dream man yourself instead of creeping straight guys out and then crying homophobia like little girls when you're rebuked. Most men like pussy, hell they would kill for it. GET OVER IT.

by Anonymousreply 32711/19/2012

r327, get the fuck over yourself. guys like you creep me out with your inflated egos. you think everyone wants to BE you? what. the. fuck.

and yes, r326, by all means conflate normal human sexuality with pedophilia and bestiality you fucking freak. I don't even know what point your trying to make with that ridiculous post.

by Anonymousreply 32811/19/2012

R322 Most straight guys can't even give you an answer on whether a guy is good looking or not. Our whole culture is based around objectifying FEMALE beauty so it's looked at as normal for both men and women to appreciate it. You must of nevet had a lot of straight guys friends, their whole existence revolves around them getting as much pussy as they possibly can, hell if they were hard up enough they would let a fat and ugly chick blow them, it's still pussy, before they would EVEN think about doing something with a hairy, smelly dude.

by Anonymousreply 32911/19/2012

R322 than at least 90% of the male population must have mental problems.

by Anonymousreply 33011/19/2012

R329 is absolutely right

by Anonymousreply 33111/19/2012

I once asked a plain-looking girl I knew how she got so many hot guys. She just held up her index finger and waggled it around with a half-smile on her face.

by Anonymousreply 33211/19/2012

agree with posters who say straight guys don't let guys blow them or fuck them in the ass...unless...

they're in p

by Anonymousreply 33311/19/2012

R321, you are in the minority; not the majority. Most boys "experiment" with each other at some point, with no feelings of disgust or shame. It is only society's message of "two males + sex = bad" that forces guys to feign disgust and repulsion at the idea.

Poor straight guys who've never experimented. They'll never know what a REAL blowjob is supposed to feel like.

by Anonymousreply 33411/19/2012

R327/29/30 = straight loser baiting as a "gay man."

I know plenty of masculine gay men, and none of them would ever grovel for straight male acceptance the way he/she does. A true masculine gay man = superior to any straight man and does not hang around losers with their weird pussy issues.

by Anonymousreply 33511/19/2012

R334 most boys do not. I liberal estimate on the number of gay/bi men is roughly 10% of the population. Granted there are probably a lot of guys who've gay relations but don't identify as gay/bi because of the stigma you were talking about(which is very real) but even with that added to the equation it's probably 33% (1 out of every 3) at the most and that's a VERY liberal estimation. I have to questions why do gay guys go after and falsely idolize straight men? If you like masculinity find it in other gay/bi guys. Or you become the man that you always wanted, create for yourself. And why do you think there is still such a stigma against male/male releations? Because flamboyant gay guys ruin it for the rest of us nobody is going to take a man who does everything he can to act like a woman seriously, let alone show them respect.

by Anonymousreply 33611/19/2012

R335 sorry me and my boyfriend are both proud and masculine gay men. We have a diverse set of friends, but our 2 best friends are straight guys. You hit the nail on the head when you said gay men are superior to straights, I agree with that 100%. But if you really believe that then why do a lot of gay men purposely go after straight men that they know they'll never have, it's like mental illness or something. And there is nothing proud about going after straight guys, basically you're saying that something is wrong with real gay guys which in turn means you think something is wrong with yourself and you worship straight men and want their approval. Just like these idiot gays who run around saying their "straight acting" the whole term implies heterosexual superiority and makes no sense, how straight acting are you with a dick in your mouth? It also implies that all straight men are masculine which is hardly the case, I'm gay (and out and proud and so is my boyfriend l) and we're WAY more masculine than most straight guts we know.

by Anonymousreply 33711/19/2012

[quote]If you are unable to appreciate beauty and sexuality of someone who is both beautiful and sexual, no matter their gender, then you have mental problems.

You've got that backwards, Mary. You sound utterly insane.

by Anonymousreply 33811/19/2012

Whether straight men are superior to gay men or vice versa has to be the most idiotic part of this entire thread.

by Anonymousreply 33911/19/2012

Straight men begin to stray to gays when their wife loses interest in sex.

by Anonymousreply 34011/26/2012

You all are such aggressive self-loathing homophobes it's not even funny.

by Anonymousreply 34111/26/2012

R321 = mysangist fish troll.

by Anonymousreply 34211/27/2012

[quote]Straight men begin to stray to gays when their wife loses interest in sex.

I hope you can ungrip your dick long enough to allow some blood to return to your brain, because that is just nonsensical. When straight men stray from their wives, it's to OTHER WOMEN. Except in your jerk-off fantasies they come to you, of course.

by Anonymousreply 34311/27/2012

R340 are you delusional? Straight guys love pussy and will do anything for it, the thought of doing something with another guy is so weird and foreign to them. Somebody has been watching too much gay porn.

by Anonymousreply 34411/27/2012

The worship of straight men is vomitous. Originally I found it somewhat amusing, but at this point it's just nauseating.

by Anonymousreply 34511/27/2012

I don't like things up my behind. You boys are just too much.

by Anonymousreply 34611/27/2012

Yes, OP. I know some guys like that.

by Anonymousreply 34711/29/2012

Anybody remember the thread by the guy with the married fuckbuddy who was a farmer (or some redneck-type thing) and who was really sweet and not homophobic despite his social circle? I want to know what happened to them.

by Anonymousreply 34811/29/2012

I'd like to hear that again r348

by Anonymousreply 34912/01/2012

I found the thread r349!! He is r8 in the link. I mis-remembered, the DLer hadn't fucked him yet, but I still want to know WEHT them a year and a half later.

by Anonymousreply 35012/02/2012

well womens suck the dick pretty ban i'm straight but i had the better blow job from a gay...

by Anonymousreply 35112/09/2012

You all need a pro (male escort) to school you on the mind of men. They know the truth about men as they have experienced all types of men in an intimate setting.

They know way more than reseachers or Internet addicts that watch too much porn do. But they also know how to keep a seceret.

Any escorts here want to chime in?

by Anonymousreply 35212/09/2012

any man that will stick his own cock in his hand and fuck it, called j/o who is turned on by his own hand is not well. It's just a means to an end, to unload especially when a man is younger and gets an erection for no reason at all. Can anyone tell me, if a guy sticks his cock in a hole(xxx video arcade booth hole) and a cocksucker sucks him dry that man is turned on by the hole or the fleshlight behind the hole? Heck no, its a means to an end. A man that is turned on by women is not turned on by a man, his dick though likes the fleshlight and no man is turned on by a fleshlight, he fantasizes his gal on his cock. His dick likes the mouth behind the hole and when he unloads, zips up it'll be the same as fucking a fleshlight except he don't have to clean it this time. just zip up and be glad you didn't have to use your hands this time. all the other crap is bs. if a woman was behind the hole with her mouth open that would turn him on more. It's a lie, there is a wall separating you both and just enough room in the hole to push your big cock through if the woman left and a guy squatted in her place, any man would still shoot the cum in that mouth without remorse.period. Or he can walk around with a hard on, half the time a woman won't or can't suck cock unless a man has a little wee pecker and then its not absolutely sure if she will. And most woman, use that pussy as leverage, so its either the hand and by gosh you wouldn't want a woman thinking youre turned on by a hand as much as youd be using it or the fleshlight. Who gives a shit if its a faggots mouth or unloading in a flashlight with some lining. Its just another way of jacking off until the pussy becomes available. I never had a straight guy be apprehensive when he was about to unload down my throat. But right after , they always zip up and run like scalded dogs. Yeah until their nuts start hurting again, then they want the fleshlight, me to take their cock anyway they want to use it and swallow every drop without complain and certainly no mess like a paper towel or a cum rag!

by Anonymousreply 35301/09/2013

Don't think most men don't want another woman to suck their cocks. They do, especially if they are straight. But we all know what happens next, ever watch Jerry Springer, it's not too long before a man is getting phone calls to his home. How, she starts investigating him and most of the time he starts of lying anyhow. He loses everything, wife, family, and maybe property ,too. for what, because his cock got hard and his wife don't like sucking, or she just don't give him enough sex to satisfy his sex drive. Or she's pregnant and for a few weeks can't have any sex. Whatever, it's a nightmare. If he is not on a tight budget he could pay a prostitute for sex. But it has to be planned, can't always be hit and run and the wife or gal better not find out. Better no one spill the beans. So it's to the hand, that disgusting hand a pervert uses to get off, or the fleshlight, he better hide. Wouldn't want the wife to think her pussy wasn't enough and start that. or its the no strings hole at the video arcade, a replacement for his hand, unzip put on a video of some gal sucking, stick it in and by george, lips wrap around it and suck it USUALLY bone dry before your videos gone off. Pull it off, wipe it dry. zip up and run out of there like a bat out of hell. But a bat without two nuts full of cum that have been hurting like hell.

by Anonymousreply 35401/09/2013

Any available hole with suffice for straight guys. I remember reading a study that showed that straight guys aged 21-35 are the primary early morning customers at adult video stores. It was theorized that straight guys who don't get any pussy when the bar or club closes head over to the video booths where they're at least assured of a hot blow job by a warm mouth. The study showed that it didn't matter if the mouth was a man's or a woman's, though most often it was a man's.

by Anonymousreply 35501/09/2013

For younger guys there's a shift away from getting "freaked about the possibility of getting fucked." Anal play is something they are open too, though many would prefer their girlfriend to use a strap-on rather than have a male do the deed.

by Anonymousreply 35601/11/2013


My best friend is hot and straight as an arrow, he also cheats on his girlfriend every chance he gets. Basically his girl supports him while he is in automotive school.

A conversation came up one time, in which he told me he had a 3 way with 2 girls before, I asked him if he would ever have a 3 way with another guy and a girl and he said hell no.

I'm his best friend, so obviously he has no problem with gay men, I met him at the gym on the basketball court and he had no idea I was gay until I told him. He loves pussy much that he could never find a guy attractive or get hard with a man.

I'm also good looking (so I'm told), young and masculine like he is.

In fact our personalities are so much alike that it's scary. We both have the same sense of humor and goof around on each other, especially by farting on each other and other immature things.

He treats me as his male equal and never judges me for being gay.

Would I ever hook up with him if given the chance? Hell yeah!

Would it ever happen? Hell no!

by Anonymousreply 35801/11/2013

A lot of gay guys got blown by women at some point in their lives. Some still do. Its called closeted (some even go as far as getting married). If sexuality was as simple as who you have sex with, then a lot of gay guys would be called straight. They like the sex just not the gender they are having sex with. Pleasure is pleasure no matter who gives it, so if we gay guys can have sex with woman then straight guys can have sex with men. It doesn't make you gay it just mean you are into gay sex. You don't mind having gay sex but you can never fall in love with a guy. Likewise just because a gay guy is married and have children doesn't mean he is straight...he is still gay and he still likes (and check out) guys.

by Anonymousreply 35901/27/2013

Why ask this question on a gay board? Go to a fantasy football forum and ask... you're not getting truthful answers here. You'll get them there. You're getting fantasy here.

by Anonymousreply 36001/27/2013

Straight men just want a quick blow job so they can zip up, go home, and sit in front of the TV with the wife who gave up sex after the last kid popped out. They don't feel it's cheating since they're not involved with a female. It's all NSA and an easy way to get off while knowing that someone still finds them attractive.

by Anonymousreply 36101/27/2013

Self-loathing is sad.

by Anonymousreply 36201/27/2013

R361, so how often do you fuck women?

by Anonymousreply 36301/27/2013

All the time, R363. I post ads on Craigslist when my boyfriend is out of town. Bi-curious gay guy looking for pussy. I have a thing too for meaty clits, meat-curtains if you will. I'm so curious, I prefer chicks on their periods. Don't you read about bi-curious gay men looking for bloody pussy to fuck? I'm still gay though. Faaaar from straight.

by Anonymousreply 36401/27/2013

The myth that straight women don't want sex has been proven wrong by anyone curious enough to simply look. Women want sex just like men, they just don't present this desire in exactly the same way. Just because a woman doesn't want to have sex with YOU anymore doesn't mean she doesn't want it at all. Women cheat on men just as much as men but they are better at hiding it.

by Anonymousreply 36501/27/2013

[quote]Women want sex just like men,

It's not that simple. Women who want sex, want it paired with one of two things - romance or money.

A straight man can get a blowjob from a gay man in just a few minutes with no money to exchange and no need for romance. There's no need for foreplay or afterglow. No need for tender words, just a grunt when the cum shoots out. It's like a quick sporting event.

by Anonymousreply 36601/27/2013

R366, I think you need psychological help.

by Anonymousreply 36701/27/2013

Straight men are straight because they sleep with women.

They don't sleep with men.

If you're having sex with a married and or otherwise straight identified man, we're talking about a man who is bisexual.

Why DL'ers continue to insist straight men want to have sex with other men is beyond me.

by Anonymousreply 36801/27/2013

We're not talking about men SLEEPING with men.

We're not talking about men who WANT to have sex with men.

We're talking about a straight guy who sticks his cock through a glory hole so that a mouth sucks his cock until he cums.

It does not mean the straight guy has a desire for the unseen person on the other side of the glory hole.

It does not mean the straight guy has any feelings for the unseen person on the other side of the glory hole.

These are men who could never make love to another man.

Fraus and men raised to believe "love and marriage go together" are unable to comprehend that straight men can get a blow job with no feelings involved.

by Anonymousreply 36901/27/2013

OP, the answer to your question would be: Straight guys do not want blow jobs from men.

by Anonymousreply 37001/27/2013

Why the hell was this tired old thread bumped up?

By the way, I don't think there's a straight man alive who would ever stick his dick in a glory hole so a guy unseen on the other side can suck it. A straight guy that desperate would probably just hire a cheap prostitute.

by Anonymousreply 37101/27/2013

Any gay man here stick his cock in a glory hole so some 40-something peri-menopausal woman can suck his cock for sport?

by Anonymousreply 37201/27/2013

R371, not unless it's surprise oral. I was friends with a really hot straight guy in college (I was a freshman, he was a junior). We had a party in his suite with a group of friends, and then he and I somehow wound up in his bedroom doing 1-on-1 shots of tequila. Needless to say, we passed out (on his bed). In the morning, his crotch was about two inches away from my face. I started to blow him (he was still asleep). Eventually, he woke up, but he didn't push me away. Finally, he said, "I'm gonna cum!" and tried to pull my mouth away. I just grabbed his ass and rammed his cock down my throat. He nearly passed out from the orgasm. Even though he had a girlfriend, he admitted that it was the best BJ he had ever had. True story.

by Anonymousreply 37301/27/2013

[quote]True story.

You can really tell who the porn addicts are on this web site.

by Anonymousreply 37401/27/2013

Fuck you, R374. Don't believe it if you choose. But this really happened. And I'm sure mine isn't the only example.

And the reply was intended for R370, not R371.

by Anonymousreply 37501/27/2013

Sure it really happened. It's the plot of every other gay porno.

by Anonymousreply 37601/27/2013

No wonder straight guys can get away with so much...with a world full of people like r368.

R369 has it right. I have no idea why this is a 'no fly zone' for some people's brains. It seems simple and obvious to me.

Frauen, I tell ya!

by Anonymousreply 37701/27/2013

R376, obviously you have no clue of of half the shit that goes on in college, do you? The things I experienced first-hand, not to mention, the stories my friends told me, are a drop in the bucket of the myriads of sexual escapes that millions of students experience each year. I've definitely had sex with straight guys before. Whether these few guys went on to try gay sex again after having it with me, I couldn't tell you. But I do believe that if they continue to seek it out, they have to be bisexual to some degree.

by Anonymousreply 37801/27/2013

R378, who are you trying to convince? Me or you?

by Anonymousreply 37901/27/2013

I'm not trying to convince anyone, you retard. I merely posted a personal experience. You've cynically chosen not to believe it, but it doesn't change the facts. So now I move on, and you move on. Period.

by Anonymousreply 38001/27/2013

"R369 has it right. I have no idea why this is a 'no fly zone' for some people's brains. It seems simple and obvious to me."

R369 thinks straight men stick their dicks in glory holes. If you believe the same, you're as much of a wackadoo as he is.

by Anonymousreply 38101/27/2013

A lot of frau mentality in this thread. They want to think their husband would never be willing to get off in another man's mouth or ass.

by Anonymousreply 38201/28/2013

Last night I sucked off a straight guy while his ten year old son was asleep in the next room. I just had to tell someone.

by Anonymousreply 38301/28/2013

It's weird that you find that hot, R383. The kid probably knows that his dad is gay - kids pick up on a lot - and it can't be easy at that age since he can't tell anyone.

by Anonymousreply 38401/28/2013

Gay men have kids too...why is this lost on some gay men?

by Anonymousreply 38501/28/2013

I bet the "kid' was a 10 year old pug

by Anonymousreply 38601/28/2013

[quote]The kid probably knows that his dad is gay - kids pick up on a lot

IOW, you obviously think gay men should not have children. Is that your frau induced input for the day?

by Anonymousreply 38701/28/2013

Believe it or not, there's a difference between an openly gay man in a relationship with another man choosing to have and raising a child and a closeted gay man with a wife fucking tricks he invites over every time the wife is gone. One of these scenarios is healthy for the child, the other isn't. My guess is that R385 and R387 are the typical closeted self-loathing gays.

by Anonymousreply 38801/28/2013

Why is this lame assed, 3 year old thread still around?

It's older (and moldier) than the deranged queens around here who think straight guys really dig the homosex.

by Anonymousreply 38901/28/2013

um... yeah... "Does it need to be said yet again? I suppose it does;" yes it is kind of a tired subject, unless you are not getting any sex lately.... but you have to leave the house once in a while, if you want it to happen. and you said - "so many retards come to Datalounge... DUDE.. well.. you are Here !

by Anonymousreply 39001/28/2013

[quote]My guess is that R385 and R387 are the typical closeted self-loathing gays.

Typical defense of losers. Go for the "closeted self-loathing gays" accusation. The meme for all losers. Why not add "Hitler" to it for a grand slam-dunk at appearing pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 39101/28/2013

R388, why the attack on me? I'm on your side. The guy getting blown is closeted gay or bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 39201/28/2013

I'm lost how R385 and R387 insinuate self-loath.

by Anonymousreply 39301/28/2013

All you naysayers should take a stroll along the upper west side on a weekend afternoon. Lots, and I mean LOTS, of good looking married men will hold your stare when you cruise them. Translation: GAY OR BI. They have their cozy little families, but they either crave or are just curious what M2M sex would be like. A lot of these guys are up for a good M2M blow job. A few will try anal sex, mostly as a bottom. The one requirement is that you must be masculine. There's a comfort level, a trust, that comes with masculine guys that makes it easier to succumb to their gay desires.

by Anonymousreply 39401/28/2013

I find that a considerable % of straight guys are open to receiving a blow job; a very small % of them are open to getting fucked; and an even smaller % are open to a prolonged makeout session with another guy.

The latter is the most in-your-face (literally) intimacy; there's no hiding. It is a main reason why some sex workers don't kiss. Like, for $$ you can have them from the neck down but that's it.

by Anonymousreply 39501/28/2013

And totally agree with R394. I'm not quite hot enough to have first hand experience but my best looking friend, the one who gets asked "OMG are you a model?" - he says a very high % of good looking married men will cruise him back hard, or even initiate the eye contact. With a very clear expression of interest.

by Anonymousreply 39601/28/2013

Sometimes they stare at me first, and sometimes I initiate the stare. More times than you think, they'll stare back and hold that stare. I'm masculine in appearance with an obvious worked out body, so I suppose that holds some attraction/fascination for them. I've met a few in the Westside Market and Home Goods while their wives are in another aisle. I've gotten several numbers that have led to hookups. Like I said, the majority--especially the newbies--just want to do oral, but some guys will try anal. As as r395 said, they're not really into kissing because that's way too intimate. They don't want to make love to another man. They just want to get off with another guy, which is fine by me.

by Anonymousreply 39701/28/2013

People enjoy checking out attractive people R396. I've caught myself leering at very attractive women.

They are plenty of men in relationships with women who are of course closeted gay/bi. Why do we find the need to obsess over those fuckers?

Dishonest cowards aren't attractive me at all personally.

by Anonymousreply 39801/28/2013

I want to see pics of the gay men who turn the heads of straight men aka closeted gay men. You must look like Marcus Shenkenberg or whatever his name is. You must all be stunningly gorgeous. Post your pics. I'm curious.

by Anonymousreply 39901/28/2013

R397 that may be true, but they are not straight. They are at least bi if not full blown gay and in the closet.

Real straight men are REPULSED by male/male sex acts, even having another dude blow them freaks them out.

by Anonymousreply 40001/28/2013

There's one drop-dead gorgeous guy in my gym who complained to management a few months ago about guys having sex in the sauna/steam area. I walked in as he was telling the manager, and he used the words "repulsive" and "disgusting." I've seen him with the wife in the market, as they live in my neighborhood, and I constantly see him checking other guys. Like I said he is drop-dead gorgeous and probably gets a lot of stares...but I see him holding them for a while. I bet he's a total self-loathing closet case.

by Anonymousreply 40101/28/2013

I never said these guys were straight. They're either gay or bi-curious. A straight guy would only allow a gay guy to blow him through a glory hole because he can't see the face and can imagine it's Linda Evans on the other side of the hole.

by Anonymousreply 40201/28/2013

R402 Linda Evans?

How old are you?

by Anonymousreply 40301/28/2013

It was just a joke. I'm 26. My uncle is gay and he would tell me that closeted guys back in the '80s, in an effort to pass as straight, would say they found Linda Evans hot, not realizing that straight men did not want to fuck Linda Evans.

by Anonymousreply 40401/28/2013

Who's Linda Evans?

by Anonymousreply 40501/28/2013

I've heard of Linda Evans but I'm not sure who she is? I think she's from Charlie's Angels.

by Anonymousreply 40701/28/2013

There is no such thing as Gay Straight or bisexual. A Person is a Person, male or female, People have feelings and emotions. A male can be attracted to a males personality but not "gay" same for a woman. It's just socially acceptable to be "Straight" the world we live in is screwed up. People just need to open their minds a little bit.

by Anonymousreply 40803/02/2013

Guys who don't identify as gay, want to get a very quick blowjob because they need to rush back to their wife before she discovers he's not really at Home Depot.

by Anonymousreply 40903/02/2013

Most guys just need a really sound spanking, that usually does the trick.

by Anonymousreply 41003/02/2013

R401, what city are you in?

by Anonymousreply 41103/02/2013

What a binary world we live in! gay/straight, black/white..human beings need certainty, and it screws with our minds when people can have gay sex and still identify as straight.

While there is still so much bi-phobia out there, it's much easier to say that you're straight than trying to explain that you like boys and girls or boys who are girls or girls who are boys.

Heard someone describe themselves as a 'subgroup of genderqueer' recently and I was like WTF does that even mean? Just say you're straight and we can move on!

by Anonymousreply 41203/03/2013

Gay bi whatever - we're all part of the same rainbow!

by Anonymousreply 41303/22/2013

This is totally normal. I havestraight friends who hjave confessed to me that they like getting blown by a guy but they still aren't gay. They just like the act and look at it as just a mouth and a way to get off. Men are just horny. Bottom line. I wish more straight guys were like that.

by Anonymousreply 41405/24/2013

oh boy

by Anonymousreply 41507/01/2013

There are plenty of them R414. Enough to go around again and again. But don't tell the frau they've got at home.

by Anonymousreply 41607/01/2013

oh dude

by Anonymousreply 41707/02/2013

No, generally not. But it never disgusted me to fuck my own hands with my cock (masturbate). I sure never was turned on by my hands, man's hands. Look, some women won't suck, won't swallow, can't deepthroat a larger cock. Many will not swallow and forget about trying the porn fuck their face thing; it NEVER happen. So guys go in xxx, normally see the cocksucker before he gets in his stall. All he sees is a fleshmouth, period. Something moist deep and hot he can shove his cock into Blow his load in it

Pull out and run. And let me tell you there are plenty men who do it. It beats fucking your own hand and most of those cocksuckers can suck the chrome off of a car! I've had a couple sorry cocksuckers nut that's all right. Just pull that loggerhead out amd wait for the next cocksucker to wrap his lips around the gloryhole If its real good I let them get in with me. Let them get on their knees hold their head still and fuck the shit out of their throats. I like to hear em gag and choke on my big cock and hefty load I always shoot in their throats. When I'm done I put my cock up, zip up and I'm out of there. Until my nuts start aching again. Guys don't turn me on but I have to admit The power to make them choke gag amd even throw up does turn me on Without worrying about it..

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by Anonymousreply 42007/25/2013

[quote]All he sees is a fleshmouth, period. Something moist deep and hot he can shove his cock into Blow his load in it

It's all so very easy to comprehend, yet this will be followed by ten versions of "they're not really straight." They ARE straight. They just want the good feelings the frigid wife can't provide.

by Anonymousreply 42107/25/2013

Yes, R421, but they probably let their dogs lick their balls too.

by Anonymousreply 42207/25/2013

no OP

by Anonymousreply 42307/30/2013

Is that your area of expertise R422?

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by Anonymousreply 42508/15/2013

r421, you sound like a total amoral creep, dude

by Anonymousreply 42609/07/2013

WTF is genderqueer?

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by Anonymousreply 42910/17/2013

just my opinion and maybe cause of my upbringing, but to me a straight guy(but certainly not all straight guys)would let a guy blow him cause he doesn't get it at home and really misses it. a bi guy would be acceptable to both anal and oral as well as a gay guy. i consider my self gay but would never do anal for fear of aids. now ANY HOT GUYS WANT TO USE MY MOUTH? AND YES I SWALLOW.

by Anonymousreply 43002/09/2014

More and more straight guys are looking for a b.j. from an experienced guy but don't let your finger wander behind their balls or they can panic.

by Anonymousreply 43102/09/2014

[quote]Do you think that straight guys are okay with getting blown by a guy

No, because then they wouldn't be straight. They'd be bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 43202/09/2014

@r432 i understand your thinking, but i still think some straight guys would because they no longer get it at home. Some guys enjoy a blowjob more than others and therefore miss them more than other guys might. I think it is these guys that might be more willing. But it is just my opinion.

by Anonymousreply 43302/10/2014

NO. R3 was right...from the beginning. All the rest is this weird wishful thinking. Dunno why it's so important for some here, but R3 speaks the truth that is often expressed here but more often ignored.

by Anonymousreply 43402/10/2014

@r434 there may be a lot of women who blow but after marriage the wife doesn;t really like to or feel she has to anymore. I suppose thought the straight guy could find another women who is single or younger, but i think they feel that is more like cheating than a guy doing it because with the guy it doesn't mean anything except a way to get off. he doesn't have an attraction for men it's just easier and less hassle from a guy afterwards.

by Anonymousreply 43502/10/2014

i think some guys that are more homophobic are afraid of it going beyond a BJ, but i think some straight guys just are not interested at all in a guy helping out so to speak.

by Anonymousreply 43602/10/2014

Interesting thread to which I feel compelled to chime in. I am married and have two small children. After having the kids, my wife does not feel comfortable with me going down on her anymore and so our sex life is not nearly what it once was.

I have had several sexual experiences with men over a span of nearly 30 years (I am 47 now). I enjoy sucking cock but I absolutely LOVE getting fucked in the ass (and I cum just from being fucked). Having said that, I do not kiss when playing with another guy. Rather, I just like to suck cock and then get fucked. The knowledge that another man is using my ass for his pleasure gets me really turned on. I never see a guy on the street and think that I would like to suck him off or bend over for him. However, I am very attracted to women I see and I think about going down on them and licking their pussy and ass and fucking them, making out with them, etc.

So what does that make me? Thanks!

by Anonymousreply 43702/10/2014

R3 is totally wrong.

When you're getting a shoulder massage from a therapist, the gender of the person giving the massage doesn't matter. The ONLY thing that matters is the feeling of his/her hands upon your shoulder. The connection to that person does not include any feelings for the person. You may not even like him/her but that doesn't matter. You're there ONLY for the feeling they give your shoulder.

When you get a flu shot, the gender of the person giving the shot does not alter the feeling of that needle going into your arm. You have absolutely no connection to that person who is causing a feeling in a part of your body.

When getting a blowjob, the mouth on your cock is the feeling you're enjoying. That mouth can be part of a male or female; it makes no difference to the feelings generated by the massage your cock is getting from that mouth.

R3 displays a fundie frau mentality. He/she may be an agnostic male, but the baloney that all sex acts must include love and special feelings between the people involved has colored R3's viewpoint.

R3's claim that "there's barely a woman out there who doesn't blow" is another example of the view from the mentality of a fundie frau since it only covers the times prior to the wedding.

by Anonymousreply 43802/10/2014

Gay men give the best head. Nuff said.

by Anonymousreply 43902/10/2014

Do I think STRAIGHT guys are okay with being BLOWN by a GUY.

Ok OP do yourself a big favour and take the following information on board.

Straight men are not interested in doing anything sexual with a man. They don't fantasise or dream of gay sex. They aren't curious. They don't want a man when they are drunk or high. They aren't with women because it's easier or because it would make mom and dad angry if they were gay.

They are just men who are sexually aroused by women.

Projecting your gayness onto some man who's sitting there fantasising quietly about pussy and tits is a fool's game.

by Anonymousreply 44002/10/2014


Straight men would feel repulsed that the mouth doing the blow job was attached to another man. Sex is about psychology as much as it is physical sensation. A straight man would never willingly allow a man near his cock. Never.

by Anonymousreply 44102/10/2014

They would like both activities as much as you would like having a woman insert your manhood into her vagina.

by Anonymousreply 44202/10/2014

An imagination can be very powerful.

The frigid frau can be sitting at home imagining that her hubby doesn't care that she no longer gives blowjobs. She imagines that he's at Home Depot but he's out getting a blowjob from a gay man.

The straight guy imagines that he's in bed fucking the most beautiful woman in the world while he sticks his cock through a gloryhole and gets a blowjob from someone who really appreciates his cock.

Meanwhile the frigid frau posts on DL that a man getting a blowjob isn't straight and will claim her straight husband would never let a man touch his cock.

by Anonymousreply 44302/10/2014

The husband might allow it but then he wouldn't be a Kinsey 0 would he? Isn't the OP talking about a Kinsey 0?

Logically speaking if the sex starved Kinsey 0 husband Is looking for action, he is going to look for a woman - a prostitute if nothing else is on offer.

Try using a big if logic, R443.

by Anonymousreply 44402/10/2014

That should have been: bit of logic.

by Anonymousreply 44502/10/2014

[quote]Logically speaking if the sex starved Kinsey 0 husband Is looking for action, he is going to look for a woman - a prostitute if nothing else is on offer.

He's willing to spend several hundred dollars a week on prostitutes when he can get a free bj in the park? Lots of luck with your so-called logic!!! Don't you need to be getting ready for tonight's potluck at the church hall?

by Anonymousreply 44602/10/2014

Who is so fucking stupid that they can't grasp that enjoyment of a sexual experience for a normal person - gay or straight- required more than physical contact with an orifice, tongue, cock or hand? That the gender and biological sex of the owner actually influences whether the experience is wanted and enjoyed or not?

Who pays to see a female hooker when gay men are waiting in a park desperate to blow any cock that wonders past? A straight man. It is logical for Mr Straight..because he's not turned on by Mr Gay, whose superior earth rocking bj's are of no interest to Mr Straight AT ALL.

by Anonymousreply 44702/10/2014


Oh dear.

Just to save the typo queens the bother.

by Anonymousreply 44802/10/2014

Does this mean that straight identity is much stronger and more resolute than gay identity? So many of the "gays" here have self-reported that they enthusiastically fucked (or fuck) women. Why wouldn't they have the same aversion in the opposite direction?

by Anonymousreply 44902/10/2014

Since the advent of the glory hole, many straight men have enjoyed the oral ministrations of promiscuous homosexualists. The anonymity of the not-so-holiest of Holes allows them to enjoy the sensations and not have to look at some slobbering queen's face & gobbling maw giving them succor. They can imagine it's a hot chick on the other side. Yes, straight men routinely use & abuse gay men like this but perhaps this is their preferred lot in life. Sweet dreams are made of these. Some of them want to get used by you.

by Anonymousreply 45002/10/2014

I have straight freinds who find lots of women to cheat with and get blow jobs from. Sluts are no longer in short supply not to mention escorts as well.

As someone said, how would a gay man feel getting blown by a woman, even at a glory hole? Unless the guy is bi a woman's lips would not be welcome down there.

by Anonymousreply 45102/10/2014

I like women. But as a gay guy, nothing would make me lose my erection quicker than the feel of a woman's mouth on my junk.

by Anonymousreply 45202/10/2014

[quote]Straight men would feel repulsed that the mouth doing the blow job was attached to another man.

Why? A mouth is a mouth. I've received oral from a couple women even though I am gay and I was never repulsed. It was fine enough experiences (even though women are terrible at giving head, IME). I'd imagine it would be the same for a straight guy as long as it's just receptive oral.

by Anonymousreply 45302/10/2014

I love the taste of straight cock and their cum is deliciously salty and sticky like gluten. Nope they don't want their asses fucked with, but do enjoy getting rimmed and they cum lots when getting rimmed.

I like straight cocks the best. They talk so dirty.

by Anonymousreply 45402/10/2014

Many straight and gay people refuse to acknowledge there is more to sexuality than straight OR gay; nobody can be somewhere in between, as this messes with the straight or gay person's inability to think past the realm of their own experience. They should remember to speak for themselves only.

by Anonymousreply 45502/10/2014

Yes, girl in the middle. You bis are so much smarter than everyone and so misunderstood. *rolls eyes* Why do bis always have their heads up their own arses?

by Anonymousreply 45602/10/2014

If you think men are just sexual animals you will be disappointed. When I was young I would tell people I'd have sex with them, but didn't like them well enough to be friends, no strings attached. That little insult turned them off 100% of the time. Men are the cowardly craven sex of the species always measuring his social status against everyone else and fine-tuned like a rat who can smell food two miles away, they need their egos and their rank in society stroked constantly and without reservation or else their penis can't get hard.

by Anonymousreply 45702/10/2014

It's still MUCH MUCH easier for a straight guy to get easy sex from a slutty gay guy than it is to find a female slut that will be willing to orally service them, especially if he's ugly. All he has to do is find a public park at night or public restroom with a glory hole, and BAM - instant blow jobs with absolutely no strings attached and with minimum social skills since they know gay men compulsively cruise these areas just looking for a penis to suck - ANY penis. Of course, a straight guy can always buy his sex from a female hooker or escort, but why buy when he gets to give his milk for free at the local glory hole or park at midnight?

by Anonymousreply 45802/10/2014

The imagination can indeed be very powerful, as r443's fantasies prove.

by Anonymousreply 45902/10/2014


He'll pay for a woman because he wants a woman because he's straight.

The idea that a hetero guy without a woman to sexually satisfy him would run down the park to get head from a gay rather than jerking off to straight porn is hilarious and nothing more than a well worn gay fantasy.

The "straights" to sneak off for gay sex are bis and closetted gays. But hey, tell yourself he's "straight" if that floats your boat.

by Anonymousreply 46002/10/2014

If one hole's as good as another regardless of its owner's sex, which is what's being claimed as the "straight" man's attitude, then why aren't the gay men making this claim fucking women who are far more open to older, out of shape men than gay men are?

Or are many "gay" men here just not talking about the sex they have with women?

by Anonymousreply 46102/10/2014

[quote]Who is so fucking stupid that they can't grasp that enjoyment of a sexual experience for a normal person - gay or straight- required more than physical contact with an orifice, tongue, cock or hand?

As a result of the above quote from Harriet Housewife R447, the owner of the fleshlight company shut down his business today. Since men require more than physical contact, he figures no man will ever buy a fleshlight. There's just no way a fleshlight can provide enough romantic satisfaction for a man to have an orgasm.

by Anonymousreply 46602/11/2014

Happy Valentine's Day!

by Anonymousreply 46702/14/2014

"Straight women are such slutbags today straight guys can get sex quite readily"

Ha. Sometimes I wonder if all the strides in gay rights (which has to be sanctioned by the mostly-straight men in power) is just to keep women in line?: "You better throw it down in the bedroom or I'll get it elsewhere, you feel me?".

by Anonymousreply 46802/14/2014

I love my ass getting fucked. But I love pussy too. I don't think I'm gay just it feels so good in my ass.

by Anonymousreply 46907/13/2014

[quote]The idea that a hetero guy without a woman to sexually satisfy him would run down the park to get head from a gay rather than jerking off to straight porn is hilarious and nothing more than a well worn gay fantasy.

What you don't get is that he's NOT going to the park to get head from a gay. He's going to the park to put his dick in a hole in the wall. Big difference but those with a housewife mentality can't comprehend.

by Anonymousreply 47007/13/2014

Don't stop now R471. Continue your demented fundie-frau speak with a "Together forever. Til death do us part" scenario. Meanwhile, when your husband tells you he's going to Home Depot, there will be a hot mouth waiting in the park for his weekly deposit because you can't give him any satisfaction.

by Anonymousreply 47207/13/2014

[quote]Who is so fucking stupid that they can't grasp that enjoyment of a sexual experience for a normal person - gay or straight- required more than physical contact with an orifice, tongue, cock or hand?

Are you saying that a "normal" person has to have some kind of feelings or personal attachment with someone to enjoy sex? I would tend to agree with R462 about men being wired differently. You always hear about how men are "pigs" and how "they only want one thing". If this is true, wouldn't it be obvious that they can get enjoyment out of a sexual experience from just physical contact alone? And what about people (men AND women) who have "Friends With Benefits" arrangements? Obviously, they can enjoy sex without emotional attachments.

[quote]Then pray tell do [R462] why older gay men sit around searching frantically and often fruitlessly online for a man to fuck them when they could in theory date a divorced frau of their age who'd fuck him.

While they may not necessarily go around looking for a "frau" to have sex with, I don't doubt that there are some gay men who, in desperation after trying unsuccessfully to hook up with a guy, might actually have sex with a woman if they knew one that would be willing to do it. Not everyone is willing to go the gloryhole route - some people prefer to have sex with someone they know at least somewhat, even if there is no emotional attachment.

by Anonymousreply 47307/13/2014

[quote]Who is so fucking stupid that they can't grasp that enjoyment of a sexual experience for a normal person - gay or straight- required more than physical contact with an orifice, tongue, cock or hand?

Only a really stupid frau would think there has to be an emotional attachment for a man to have quickie sex with a hot mouth.

[bold]NSA[/bold] is beyond the comprehension of clueless women.

by Anonymousreply 47407/13/2014

[quote]NSA is beyond the comprehension of clueless women.

Yes, yes, so true.

by Anonymousreply 47507/13/2014

When you see the amount of men who rush into a tea room in a park for a quickie b/j and then rush back out in 3 minutes, you know they're not there to get fucked.

by Anonymousreply 47607/18/2014

it is usually the ugly straight guys that think they will be raped by us gays.

by Anonymousreply 47707/18/2014

The ones looking for a NSA blowjob with a guy aren't doing it cuz they love men. They just know they'll get a better bj than from most woman. It's the expert bj they want. It's not about the gender.

by Anonymousreply 47807/21/2014

In answer to OP's question, I'd say yes. As long as they don't have to reciprocate. I imagine anal would be completely out of the question, unless they got together with the guy on a regular basis and began feeling comfortable enough with them. Even then, I'm sure the straight guy would feel like he had to be "the top". (In most cases).

by Anonymousreply 48007/22/2014

Gay acts with straight guys.

From least gay to most gay.

1) Receiving a blow job.

2) Receiving a rim job

3) Fucking a guy in the ass.

4) Getting fucked in the ass

5) Kissing

6) Giving a blow job (GAY GAY GAY!)

by Anonymousreply 48107/22/2014

1. Yes

2. Yes

by Anonymousreply 48207/22/2014

You're too funny, R479. Did you actually think you needed to let everyone know you're a chick? It was easy to figure. The next time, if you feel the need to sign a name, just write "Clueless" and we'll know it's you.

by Anonymousreply 48307/23/2014

R479 overplayed his hand. A clueless woman wouldn't say that shit about just blowing air on a guy's dick. A clueless woman wouldn't talk about oral at all. The "woman's touch" nonsense was plausible, but only men judge sexual success in terms of buckets of cum.

by Anonymousreply 48407/23/2014

OP, do you think the sky is blue?

by Anonymousreply 48507/23/2014


by Anonymousreply 48607/24/2014

R481 That's interesting. I always thought #4 was the gayest thing a straight guy could do. Supposedly, allowing another man to penetrate you made a guy "unmasculine" and a "bitch". On the other hand, I guess #6 would explain why some gay for pay porn stars allow themselves to bottom, but STILL won't perform oral.

by Anonymousreply 48707/24/2014

R479 is correct in that no truly straight man is in any way attracted to other men. If he lets you blow him it's because he thinks of you like a human fleshlight. You are an object. He is not turned on by you. His eyes are closed so he can focus on the straight porn reel playing in his head while YOU oblige him by providing a physical sensation to amplify the experience.

by Anonymousreply 48807/24/2014

R488 is absolutely correct. That is what is going on when a straight man lets a gay man sevice him.

I don't have a problem being used in that manner. When it is a straight man of my choosing and I pick the time and place and circumstances, being used in that way can be HOT!!

But only occasionally. I wouldn't want a steady diet of that kind of sex, but it makes for an interesting sexual experience.

by Anonymousreply 48907/24/2014

The thing that clurless fraus like R479 are unable to comprehend is that horny straight men will go looking for a blowjob no matter what gender the mouth may be. They're NOT looking for a gay male. They're looking for a hot, experienced mouth. They're NOT looking for a sexy female. They're looking for a hot, experienced mouth.

Their best chance for a no strings attached (NSA)3 minute blowjob is a hole in a wall in a park mens room. Can you imagine any place they could approach a female and have it totally over with in 3 minutes - no dialog, no words of praise, no exchange of names? Fraus can't contemplate this, that's why they have no idea their husband, who they cut off from frequent sex ten years ago, isn't really looking for screws when he says he's going to Ace Hardware.

by Anonymousreply 49007/24/2014

You are wrong 490. You've obviously been dealing with a lot of bi and closeted guys and that's what you base your answer's on.

I see the delusion lives on however; it's quite sad at this point.

by Anonymousreply 49107/25/2014

Men whether we're gay or straight, just want a fuck. Women always want some complicated relationship to justify putting out.

I've known quite a few straight men who love a blow job, but they usually have to be drunk to admit it.

by Anonymousreply 49207/25/2014

[quote]I've known quite a few straight men who love a blow job, but they usually have to be drunk to admit it.

They probably love a blow job from tons and tons of guys.

by Anonymousreply 49307/25/2014

Homophobic gay porn has ruined poor R490.

by Anonymousreply 49407/25/2014

Actually straight guys are pretty picky about the women they let blow them. They need to be able to look down and see something they are attracted to.

All in all, they want to fuck a pussy more than anything. Shit, they would prefer a harem of women if that were possible. It's pussy, pussy, pussy all the time.

Really, gay men may crave cock, but straight men crave pussy hella more!

by Anonymousreply 49507/25/2014

The fraus are unable to comprehend how anyone can have sex unless there is a relationship. Men don't need that. Thus a hole in a wall with a mouth on the other side is all they need. They're not even considering the gender of the mouth, thus it's NOT a gay thing or a bi thing or a straight thing. It's a man getting his rocks off through a hole in the wall. It's free of gender. It's free of a relationship.

by Anonymousreply 49607/26/2014

Before I came out I THOUGHT I was gay I love women but dreamed of maculine men like myself. I would let any guy girl gay no straight blow me. I still had to have some kind of attraction to the person only had two girls that could ever blowme like a man could, they never seemed to be into it. I have come to realize I' m bhi & always considered be no was a cop out to not wanting to say your gay. After I came out & said I was gay I missed being with a hot women, like I mentioned earlier most girls don't suck cock like a man I don't no what it is & the only way I can explain it is when I eat pussy I make love to that pussy with my mouth & the same as giving head make love to that cock with it mouth. I get so so very turned on knowing what i'm doing to my partners that it feels so good I'm going to get them off. With men & women I love to take control manhandle be very verbal & have them tell me what they want or if what I'm doing to them turns them on but I can ussally tell by there reaction. When I'm with a I love to take off all there clothes as I'm stripping push them to there knees & tell them to suck my cock right before I trap there head & fuck the shit out of there mouth. Having my big balls slap off there chin & of coarse let them no what a good cock whore they r. After I shoot my first load & I thank god all the time ever since I shoot my first load I stay hard & then I love to show them that I'm a top & only a top, never even liked when someone tried to put fingers in my butt. So after 7 years of calling myself gay now I call myself go. I never believed in was such a thing till now. I live with a guy & a girl for the last ten years and fell like I have died & gone to heaven. I do have something to ask & it seems to me that a lot of gay couples cheat is that something that I was experienceing or is that common? This is my first relationship that I no for a fact we r loyal but as far as I look at it, it shouldn't matter what kind of relationship if in gay no straight the gender shouldn't matter its being in love call me old fashion I love being in love. Thanks

by Anonymousreply 49707/26/2014

Yes, OP.

by Anonymousreply 49807/28/2014

Your friends are gay. Being gay is genetic. Think of it this way. Nobody is raised to be gay. Life long mental conditioning is hard to break. Most gay men think they are straight. Genetics dont lie people do. Only fags obsess about proving how not gay they are.

by Anonymousreply 49907/29/2014

Straight guys aren't looking for gay guys to have sex. When they manage to get an hour away from a frigid frau, they look for a hot mouth to satisfy them in three or four minutes. They know where to go for that bj. Again, they are NOT looking for a gay man to have a gay relationship. They do NOT want a relationship of any sort with a gay man. They want a hot mouth that will get them off in a few minutes with NO talk, NO introduction, NO loving words, NO exchange of information, NO aftertalk, NO farewell. Why is that so difficult to comprehend?

by Anonymousreply 50107/29/2014

While strolling through the park one day,

In the merrie, merrie month of May,

I was taken by surprise,

By a pair of roving eyes,

In mere moments all my cum was stole away!

by Anonymousreply 50207/30/2014

Who was the celeb who got arrested in a t-room in California about a decade ago?

by Anonymousreply 50308/01/2014

You should really get a life. Perhaps gardening or a dog?

by Anonymousreply 50408/01/2014

A psychiatrist could spend years with, R501.

by Anonymousreply 50508/01/2014

I think most guys are most afraid of getting HIV from engaging in these activities. IT has a huge chilling effect on any male homosexual actions.

by Anonymousreply 50608/01/2014

There's that frau mentality at R505.

by Anonymousreply 50708/01/2014

R507, I am not sure what happened to you in your life to have such a low-view point of gay men. But, you're basically calling them (yourself) prostitutes with your porn addicted fantasy that a straight male would ever conceive having sex of any kind with another male. These men are gay or bisexual. This same odd and creepy thought pattern could be applied to gay males seeking straight women (specifically desperate women who are most likely extremely unattractive) for oral or penetrative sex. It's not going to happen nor has it ever happened here. I don't see gay men pining for sexual favors with straight women here.

by Anonymousreply 50808/01/2014

[quote]This same odd and creepy thought pattern could be applied to gay males seeking straight women (specifically desperate women who are most likely extremely unattractive) for oral or penetrative sex. It's not going to happen nor has it ever happened here. I don't see gay men pining for sexual favors with straight women here.

That's right. And NOBODY is saying that straight men are pining for sexual favors with gay men. There is no "pining for men" involved in a t-room hookup, Frau. But you're blinded by the desperate need to have romance involved with every sexual involvement. It's YOU implying the twisted claim that straight men are pining for sexual favors with gay men just because they want a quicking bj in a park stall. You can't deal with the fact that men can have sex without hello, goodbye, love you, my name is, what's your name, kiss me, hold my hand, buy me a drink, etc., etc. You display a typical frau mentality.

Meanwhile, straight men will continue to go where they can get off in a few minutes with no strings (nor money) attached, while you sit and watch your soaps and look forward to Elizabeth Hasselbitch's new radio show.

by Anonymousreply 50908/01/2014

R508 confuses her own lack of sexual experience with that of others; typical among the chronically frustrated.

by Anonymousreply 51008/01/2014

[quote]Meanwhile, straight men will continue to go where they can get off in a few minutes with no strings (nor money) attached.

R509, are you the guy who tried to fuck a rubber raft?

by Anonymousreply 51108/01/2014

From a little different perspective here...I am totally straight, but also a male stripper. I do gay for pay shows because gay men enjoy a male stripper and pay a lot more money than women do for us to entertain them.

Gay men appreciate the male body a hell of a lot more than women do in terms of a show. Girls are all about the costumes, and setting. Guys are more visual and want to see a hot muscular guy on stage completely naked. Yes, I strip and dance totally naked, get my cock hard and let guys play with my dick, lick it and suck on it. Am I straight? Of course! This is a job and I perform for money. Very simple. I usually make 300-500 dollars per show and it takes less than an hour. If I end the show with a money shot, the crowd goes wild and I also make more $$.

Gay? No! Gay friendly? Yes! Gay for Pay? Absolutely!

Let them suck on my dick? Yes! But I never will suck on another guy's dick or let anyone fuck me! I have performed for a few years now and have limits.

by Anonymousreply 51208/01/2014

Straight guys will fuck sheep and chickens when the options are limited.

A BJ through a hole in the wall is not such a big deal.

by Anonymousreply 51408/02/2014

Oh, the stories I could tell about straight men.

by Anonymousreply 51508/02/2014

R514, it's fascinating how some gay men here compare themselves to chickens and sheep as another viable option. There are some major mental cases on this site.

by Anonymousreply 51608/04/2014

Interesting story R512. Thanks for sharing.

by Anonymousreply 51708/05/2014

Straight men don't get it up for other dudes. Most men are very visual. Looking down and seeing another dude on their dick would be a boner shrinker.

They hunt and crave pussy fella's sorry. If they can't get it they will masturbate while thinking about it. Another man never enters their mind, les the loss of an erection.

The men you've been blowing are closted, Bi or gay.

Can we put this topic to rest now?

by Anonymousreply 51808/05/2014

Straight men frequently get sucked off by gay men while watching straight porn.

by Anonymousreply 51908/05/2014

I give up 519 have your little fantasy there. Meanwhile, there will be less competition for pussy because your "straight" fuck buddy has been enjoying having a male mouth and hand on his dick - instead of some silly girl. LOL!

by Anonymousreply 52008/05/2014

R520 It's not a fantasy for me; I don't even like sucking dick, especially when there's no reciprocation. I just know for a fact that there are PLENTY of straight men (often married) who don't mind getting sucked off and don't care who's on the other end.

by Anonymousreply 52108/06/2014

[quote]men are very visual. Looking down and seeing another dude on their dick would be a boner shrinker.

You can always tell when a stupid frau is posting. She thinks that when a guy has his body up against a partition, with his cock inserted in a gloryhole, that he's looking down and seeing "another dude."

Most of those in this thread claiming straight men don't get blowjobs from other men are stupid women who probably don't even know how to give a decent blowjob. And they're too dumb to know that a straight guy isn't craving a male, he's craving a hot mouth with no strings attached --- and that's something that very few women can provide.

by Anonymousreply 52208/06/2014

[quote]I just know for a fact that there are PLENTY of straight men (often married) who don't mind getting sucked off and don't care who's on the other end.


by Anonymousreply 52308/07/2014

Sweetie at 522 - you are not in competition for straight men with women, so please stop looking at porn. A straight guy would avoid a hole in a wall 'especially' because there may be another dude on the other end. And yes, most men are picky about who they let near their dicks, let alone thrust one in a hole unless it's one of their very own making.

I suspect the men you've been dealing with are bisexual or closeted - they may or may not be picky about a "hot mouth" because male or female doesn't matter; but for straight men it does matter - plain and simple.

Oh, and I'm not a frau (stupid trem) I'm your worst nightmare - a twenty something chick with a nice rack. And if I've had one straight man I've had one more than you...and guess what? he didn't want a blow job, he wanted pussy - something I'm sure you can't provide.

by Anonymousreply 52408/08/2014

This debate will never end. One question though for the guys, why do you even WANT to give a blow job to someone that would be repulsed if he had to look at you?

by Anonymousreply 52608/08/2014

That's the point 525 - you like getting blown by guy's. Straight men don't.

To answer OP - because they are closeted gay or Bi men who have not fully accepted their sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 52708/08/2014

there are no straight men theyre all gay!

by Anonymousreply 52808/08/2014

[quote]you like getting blown by guy's. Straight men don't.

Typical frau-speak. They can't separate a blow-job from gender and that's what keeps straight husbands going to gloryholes while the frau thinks they're at the hardware store looking for screws. [italic]My husband is straight. He wouldn't like "getting blown by guy's(sic)." [/italic]

by Anonymousreply 52908/08/2014

529 - please stop with the porn, it has severly warped your brain.

It's embarrassing...

by Anonymousreply 53008/08/2014

Most men are bi and it's only rules of society that have them pretend they're straight while heading off to the park.

by Anonymousreply 53108/11/2014

Gramps @ R529 must be posting from the 1950's. What's a "hardware store?"

by Anonymousreply 53208/11/2014

[quote]What's a "hardware store?"

Ace Hardware

by Anonymousreply 53308/11/2014

Straight men, bi men, gay men, will do whatever it takes to get a good bj. It's not about gender. It's about an experienced mouth.

by Anonymousreply 53408/14/2014

Kinsey 0s would never have a sexual experience with another man. But a 1 or a 2? Sure. Many 1s and 2s are curious. I also think they know gay guys are better and more willing to suck cock than their girlfriends/wives. They'd get more pleasure with a guy.

by Anonymousreply 53508/14/2014


by Anonymousreply 53608/14/2014

OP is right on target with MOST straight men. They're okay with getting blown by a guy. Women can't comprehend because they're wired to think that an orgasm can only be connected to love.

by Anonymousreply 53708/17/2014

I'm attracted to women, but not a relationship kind of guy. Always been a loner. But I'm human and get horny. Do I A) Wine and dine and have pointless conversation in hopes of a one night stand B) go online and try and find a woman who is just looking to give a bj and will actually be good at it or C) go online where there are tons of guys on their knees waiting, no small talk needed and good at what they do.

by Anonymousreply 53808/17/2014

Unfortunatley, r538, most of the board here foolishly thinks that B would be an option that could easily give you great results.

And the other fraus are still busy dreaming of the A option for their long delayed date night with their husbands.

by Anonymousreply 53908/17/2014

All of this segues into the gay for pay phenomena in porn. if you're not into your partner at least a little how do you get aroused and cum? Getting medicated can give you erection but achieving orgasm isn't a given.

by Anonymousreply 54008/17/2014

R540, close your eyes and fantasize

by Anonymousreply 54108/17/2014

[quote]Do you think that straight guys are okay with getting blown by a guy but freaked about the possibility of getting fucked?

If so, I certainly wouldn't think anything of it. Even after I'd figured out I was gay, I'm pretty sure I was super apprehensive about the idea of getting fucked. The logistics of anal sex are kind of scary to most of those who've never done it before, I would think.

by Anonymousreply 54208/17/2014


by Anonymousreply 54309/18/2014

The amount of ignorance here is un-believeable. Who's that idiot that thinks gay sex is "ichy?" As a middel age gay man...I've had many "straight" male sex partners who just want to relax and get an awesome blow job. My best friend is straight...he finds hooking up with a guy is alot easier and more fun than women. He just want's his dick sucked. Woman make sex sooo complicated. They want you to take them out to dinner....hear ad nauseum thier hopes and dreams...hoping to meet "prince charming," ...want a man to be father to her kids....And just because I'm gay, doesn't mean I don't value relationships...or can't be monogamous. Gay, Straight or Bi...we are men. Sex is important, sex is fun. If someone put a gun to my head and made me fuck a woman...I'd fuck a woman; but that doesn't make me straight or "confused." I'm gay...I have one very manly straight friend that likes me to fuck him as he jerks off. He says it's the most intense orgasm he's ever had. Religion is mostly to blame for all these hangups about sex. I remember my priest telling me when I was a teen "if you masturbate, you will go insane....go blind...grow hair on my palms..." Well, I'm one of the sanest people on the planet, my eyesight is 20-20, and look ma, no hair on my palms. It's just humans enjoying other humans. Yeah, I'm totally gay...and yes, there are totally straight people...but if you were intelligent to be aware of all the sex studies (Kinsey being the earliest)...there are so many bisexuals. Grow up people, it's not the 16th century anymore. It's you know where your cock is?

by Anonymousreply 54410/30/2014

The men just want to have sex in just the same way they enjoy a beer. It has nothing to do with feelings or attraction. Women can't comprehend that sex is sport for men.

by Anonymousreply 54511/01/2014

You make some great points R512 do you have any pics or videos we can see?

by Anonymousreply 54611/01/2014

No dude

by Anonymousreply 54711/03/2014

I've sucked off straight dudes before - there is a definite difference between the claim to be straight, and the actual straight. Actual straight guys have no problem getting off in a dude's mouth - because it's not "real" for them. Doesn't mean they don't like it, and it doesn't mean they'd fuck a dog - they're well aware that a human male is sucking on their cock and that is the thing getting them off, not just the feeling - it's power, it's transgression, and best of all, we're fucking good at it. But in no way do I think it makes them bi, or that they would enjoy doing anything themselves.

by Anonymousreply 54811/03/2014

I've fucked and been sucked off by many young guys who say they are straight. I find it odd, but who am I to complain if they are hot?

by Anonymousreply 54911/04/2014

being penetrated is one of the most horrifying, emasculating thing most men can imagine.

by Anonymousreply 55011/11/2014

Idiots, R550. And culturally, that's simply not historically true.

by Anonymousreply 55111/11/2014

WTF is with all these "straight" threads surfacing today from the vaults?

by Anonymousreply 55211/11/2014

They're just freaked at the possibility of anyone *knowing*

by Anonymousreply 55311/11/2014

R553 is right.

I blew a bunch of straight guys in college and after. They were usually drunk, always curious and just got into the moment.

What freaked them out most was anyone knowing and since I was still closeted there was a lot less to worry about: if I had been openly gay they would have been freaked. But two straight guys experimenting... that was a lot easier to handle.

Only one of them later came out. The rest got married and I sometimes wonder if they ever told anyone about it, if it's something they talk about with their shrinks for years, or if they just regard it as a happy memory of wilder days.

by Anonymousreply 55411/11/2014

Sexuality is a very fluid area of the human species. I believe you can have "physical" relations with someone of the same gender & not be gay or bi. It's when you are developing emotions for the same gender, the gay or bi orientation becomes a matter of thinking about.

by Anonymousreply 55511/28/2014


by Anonymousreply 55611/30/2014

wrong, r555

by Anonymousreply 55712/01/2014


by Anonymousreply 55801/27/2015

THERES nothing wrong with a guy getting a blow FROM faggot.when there bitch dont suck it?

by Anonymousreply 55901/28/2015

We used to call these guys closet queens.

by Anonymousreply 56001/28/2015

I don't care if you call yourself gay, stright, or gay. I am happy that some guys say they are straight, I enjoy plain old going down! Keep on being straight.

by Anonymousreply 56105/01/2015

[quote]but freaked about the possibility of getting fucked?

That may be, however, while they're getting a b.j., most enjoy a finger massage back there.

by Anonymousreply 56205/04/2015

There's nothing a straight guy likes more than getting fucked in the ass!

by Anonymousreply 56305/04/2015
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