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The (truly) masculine bottom

How rare of a species is this?

I am not talking about a muscle queen, or a "dude" in cargo shorts who is really a closet princess, but an actual masculine man who only likes to receive anally.

I think I've finally found one, and, damn, am I in heaven.

by Anonymousreply 44December 19, 2009 4:42 AM

Less than you think. In a weird way, I think bottoming is one of the most pure forms of masculinity there is.

by Anonymousreply 1July 15, 2009 2:23 AM

I have a friend who's very masculine. He's a contractor and very butch. He's very handy (obviously) and fixes things for me...he make me feel all girly when he brings his tools over and helps me in my house.

He's also an exclusive bottom and not shy about sharing this.

by Anonymousreply 2July 15, 2009 2:29 AM

My husband is about as masculine as men get... he's always been in great shape, but three months of landscaping crew work have made him an Adonis... he literally stops traffic with his looks... men and women seem not to be able to avoid staring at him... he can write a legal brief, fix a car, plant a tree and, now, build a stone wall... technically hes "versatile" in bed... but that's more that he enjoys pleasing me than anything else... anyhow, I know better... given his choice, he opts to bottom.

by Anonymousreply 3July 15, 2009 2:42 AM

Masculine bottom porn suggestions most welcome.

by Anonymousreply 4July 15, 2009 2:53 AM

There's plenty of twink crap too, R4, but Gaynet.TV has tons of masculine bottom porn.

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by Anonymousreply 5July 15, 2009 3:01 AM

Are there any celebrities that fit the description of "truly masculine bottom"?

by Anonymousreply 6July 15, 2009 4:31 AM

Not since Billy Mays passed, R6. May he rest in peace.

by Anonymousreply 7July 15, 2009 4:35 AM

As much as I love a beefy, studly guy who likes a dick in his ass (Marco Blaze is my latest mega-crush), I would be soooo bored with a partner who was only into one-way f*cking. I prefer a bit more open-mindedness, spontenaiety and surprise in my sex-play.

by Anonymousreply 8July 15, 2009 4:42 AM

Truly masculine bottoms definitely do exist. I dated one for a few months, and it was his stereotypical masculinity - obsession with sports, messy nonchalance, extreme stoicism - which led to our friendly break-up.

by Anonymousreply 9July 15, 2009 4:49 AM

Here you go : exactly what you're talking about.

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by Anonymousreply 10July 15, 2009 4:52 AM

I have a FB who plays hockey everyday, watches sports religiously and loves to get fucked deep and hard while he wears a jock. Most beautiful ass I've ever seen and knows how to bottom like a champ.

by Anonymousreply 11July 15, 2009 6:02 AM

Tell us more about Levi, R11.

by Anonymousreply 12July 15, 2009 6:40 AM

This needs to be flushed out more. Bump.

by Anonymousreply 13July 15, 2009 2:45 PM

Okay, that was fucking funny, r10.

by Anonymousreply 14September 4, 2009 9:13 AM

R5, that link doesn't work.

by Anonymousreply 15September 4, 2009 11:40 AM

Society has made people believe that gay men are girly little twinks. The truly masculine bottom is not a rare species, OP.

by Anonymousreply 16September 4, 2009 11:52 AM

A little birdie told me Chris Meloni is a bottom.

by Anonymousreply 17September 4, 2009 3:42 PM

Would Matt Damon make a truly masculine bottom?

by Anonymousreply 18September 5, 2009 2:20 AM

I love masculine bottoms,but hate nelly tops.

by Anonymousreply 19September 5, 2009 2:25 AM

no, I know a cop who would yell like a stuck pig and cuss like a sailor when he'd take it in the can but he always did, I don't think sex was sex to him without ramming something up his hard muscular ass. and he was ALL man.

by Anonymousreply 20September 5, 2009 2:26 AM

That's what I want to be when I grow up.

by Anonymousreply 21September 5, 2009 2:39 AM

"I love masculine bottoms,but hate nelly tops."

Most definitely, R19.

I'm a bottom and I can't even bear the thought of having someone nellier than I am, fuck me. It's like having a girl fuck me, and I'm definitely not turned on by that.

Part of the fantasy of being a bottom is having a rugged, masculine man take you like he would a woman, and bang you hard while you submit to him.

I never got the attraction of these closeted straight men, who frequent trannies and then like to get fucked by the tranny. I don't know if it's a fetish, or that's what "gay sex" is to them, or what, but it's confusing, and dare I say... ew.

Sorry, but speaking as a lifelong bottom, I like to have my tops more on the masculine side, and, well, me on the bottom.

by Anonymousreply 22September 5, 2009 2:45 AM

[quote]Part of the fantasy of being a bottom is having a rugged, masculine man take you like he would a woman, and bang you hard while you submit to him.

yup, that's it right on the head

by Anonymousreply 23September 5, 2009 2:49 AM

We already know that, R17. That's old news.

by Anonymousreply 24September 5, 2009 2:52 AM

I Love the attention that I get being a butch bottom bitch.

by Anonymousreply 25September 5, 2009 6:33 AM

most butch guys I know like it in the can, just sayin'

by Anonymousreply 26September 5, 2009 4:02 PM

[R26], I noticed that in some capacity.

They try to be so macho, but when you get them alone, the legs go up faster than Kate Hudson's.

by Anonymousreply 27September 5, 2009 4:09 PM

Most semi-straight (Curious?) dudes that I have had the pleasure of bedding, have been bottoms. Seems like the old girlfriend or wife cant satisfy a man in his "G" spot (aka, Prostate).

by Anonymousreply 28September 5, 2009 4:19 PM

R3, you made my head explode with gayness, you scary fruitfly. Why not just get rid of your pesky penis and get it over with? YOU. ARE. A. WOMAN.

by Anonymousreply 29September 5, 2009 4:21 PM

This guy's kinda macho (NSFW).

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by Anonymousreply 30September 6, 2009 1:36 AM

You must be kidding R30, that ugly queeny pubic shaved mess?

Nothing masculine about him.

by Anonymousreply 31September 6, 2009 3:02 PM

lol r27

by Anonymousreply 32September 7, 2009 4:33 AM

Sorry, but this thread speaks volumes -- none positive -- about stereotypes and internalized feelings regarding presumed gender roles. The OP and others appear to have internalized self-loathing issues that lead them to repel sex partners who might betray some obviously gay traits but lionize the ones who don't, as if they're some sort of "special find." The bottom-gays who were rejected can't accept that they are by no means "destined" to be nelly bottoms, and that it is their enhanced-nelly behavior and mannerisms that have put them in this spot to begin with.

Basically, the frigid guys with issues about "gay-acting" men need to loosen up and fuck at least one of them, and bottom-gays need to experiment with not being bottoms. Such limits to orientation are tiresome and terribly antiquated here in 2009.

by Anonymousreply 33September 7, 2009 8:11 AM

But R33, I love being a nelly bottom with pretty blond ringlets. Plenty of time to experiment down the road.

by Anonymousreply 34September 7, 2009 8:16 AM

So who are the truly masculine celebrity bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 35September 10, 2009 1:11 AM

For chrissakes, r33 shut the fuck up already. Honestly, just shut the fuck up.

By the way, this makes no sense:

"The OP and others appear to have internalized self-loathing issues that lead them to repel sex partners who might betray some obviously gay traits".

I think the point is that the OP and others LIKE men who betray obviously gay traits, not repel them, when choosing a bottom.

Also, there is nothing more masculine than taking it in the ass, so maybe you need to reexamine your own gender issues.

Finally, don't tell me what I should or should not do. It wounds. And, I like what I like, antiquated or not.

by Anonymousreply 36September 10, 2009 3:05 AM

Masculine bottoms are hot. Effeminate tops are whack though.

by Anonymousreply 37September 21, 2009 1:49 AM

I've honestly found that most guys are inherently masochistic and prefer bottoming. The rare species are the tops.

Just look at heterosexual couples - most guys love to be bossed, mommied and chained.

I advertised on a site for someone to dominate me (sexually) and got no responses. I advertised for someone to be my slave and I got 25 replies in one day. A-fucking-mazing.

by Anonymousreply 38September 21, 2009 1:54 AM

[quote]So who are the truly masculine celebrity bottoms?


by Anonymousreply 39October 25, 2009 5:11 AM

pretty common in my world.

by Anonymousreply 40October 25, 2009 5:16 AM

Is Mark Walhberg a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 41October 25, 2009 1:31 PM


by Anonymousreply 42December 18, 2009 12:04 PM

Name some with huge round butts.

by Anonymousreply 43December 19, 2009 4:37 AM

[quote]pretty common in my world.

Your pretty world of delusion and pink, sparkly unicorns?

by Anonymousreply 44December 19, 2009 4:42 AM
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