I know DL is not the place to turn to for solid moral advice, but I am interested in hearing other perspectives on this.
I live with my partner in a one bedroom apartment in one of New York's outer boroughs. One of the things I love most about my neighborhood is its proximity to Manhattan and an airport, despite how removed from the city I feel when I go home at the end of the day.
I travel by plane 2-3 times a year, making a point to fly in and out of the local airport because it never takes me any longer than 20 minutes from door to door in the worst traffic. I call an Uber from home to get me to the airport, but coming back I've found its easier to take a taxi from the line of cabs that are already there rather than calling an Uber, waiting around, and directing the driver through the confusing labyrinth of terminals and traffic.
Last week, I flew home after several days in Houston for work. I waited on line at the airport for a cab, and when it was my turn I told the the driver my address. He immediately started arguing with his superior: he didn't want to drive me because I lived too close to the airport and it wasn't worth his while to lose his place in line.
The argument didn't last long. His superior shut him down. The driver threw my suitcase in the trunk and we drove to my apartment with him sighing and shaking his head for the entire ride. (Sidenote: I can't remember the last time I didn't have to use my phone to give my taxi driver directions. They get upset if they even have to ask.)
I was home in less than ten minutes. The ride cost more than $30.00. I gave the guy a $20.00 tip for which he seemed very grateful. He gently took my suitcase out of the trunk, as a thank you.
A version of this interaction took place with little variation the past several times I've taken a taxi home from the airport.
I guess I'm looking for, if not validation, then perspective here. Am I taking advantage of a service that is not meant for me? Is it immoral to continue taking taxis when I can expect the driver to be distressed that I'm keeping him from making money that he obviously needs? Is the onus on him for making me uncomfortable, or on me for allowing myself to feel guilty and wanting a better overall experience? Help me, DL!!