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Why do so many transgender women end up in prostitution?

It is because many of them come from a low socioeconomic background? Because many of them were abused as children? There must be some reason.

by Anonymousreply 32December 8, 2022 12:25 AM

When you love your work it’s not work.

by Anonymousreply 1December 7, 2022 5:34 PM

Janet Mock said being a prostitute was fun and empowering, seemingly ignoring most of the trannys killed are prostitutes, or involved in the drug trade, or both.

by Anonymousreply 2December 7, 2022 5:36 PM

Because surgery is expensive and very few "straight" guys want a relationship with a transwoman.

by Anonymousreply 3December 7, 2022 5:40 PM

A man's sex drive with a need to make a lot of money for upkeep of that body, plus the thrill from the validation through sex/dangerous sex.

by Anonymousreply 4December 7, 2022 5:42 PM

Because they have a great love of humanity and sense of adventure.

by Anonymousreply 5December 7, 2022 5:45 PM

^Is this HRC or GLAAD?

by Anonymousreply 6December 7, 2022 5:46 PM

r5, we're talking about trans whores, not Jacques Cousteau.

by Anonymousreply 7December 7, 2022 5:48 PM

Leaving aside good number of trans lack social and other skills to hold down any sort of job, you have what always has been, rampant discrimination.

Even passable trans (and know a few) who managed to find jobs lived in fear of being clocked. Sooner or later most if not all are then fun starts. More often than not they are fired for some reason or another.

Here in NYS you can be fired within first few weeks of employment for basically no reason at all. Many trans who are hired because they passed, show up one day and are told it's over.

Then you have problem that many trans don't have proper paperwork (documents that list their gender as "F" and whatever femme name they are using..). Certain things are required by federal law such as proof of being a US citizen or legal alien with a green card.

Above was one reason behind states and later federal government (starting under Obama) for getting rid of gender pronouns on federal papers, and or allowing people to have whatever they fucking feel like, not what's between their legs. Previously a trans could only get a temporary passport with "F" if she was travelling out of country to get surgery or whatever. Passports now have whatever gender applicant is "comfortable" using or in a recent case non-binary designation.

This being said there are trans who managed back and day and today to get themselves through school, college and find jobs. Some start their own businesses/are self employed (hairdresser, interior design/decorator, etc...).

by Anonymousreply 8December 7, 2022 6:00 PM

Oh and other reason is what another poster stated; so many men who are into trans only want sex. So why not get paid I suppose working theory goes...

Difference between a slut and a whore is that former is stupid, she gives it away while the latter gets her money.

I mean when you've got some guy calling you up at 2AM because he's "in your neighborhood" and "wants to come over", it ain't to watch the late, late show on television.

After he's had his fun he's gone and you don't hear from him again until that itch needs scratching. Might was well get something for your troubles...

by Anonymousreply 9December 7, 2022 6:04 PM

There are trans women working full-time, on a normal salary, at a local "lgbtq" non-profit who still prostitute on the side.

They talk openly about it in their podcast interviews.

It's for some weird kind of validation.

by Anonymousreply 10December 7, 2022 6:04 PM

Once again for the visually impaired: trans is a paraphilia and that type of mental health issue usually comes in multiples.

by Anonymousreply 11December 7, 2022 6:08 PM

R10

Just as there are plenty of gay boys and men who have steady jobs but still "escort" on the side.

Having a day job while also living a life of crime as it were is fairly common. Steady paycheck coming in takes some of the edge off having to "work". OTOH those who whore exclusively for a living may have to work hard for their money, this especially when times are lean and clients are few.

Steady pay coming in lessens exposure to being arrested, not that anyone bothers in NYC popping prossies anymore...

by Anonymousreply 12December 7, 2022 6:15 PM

Hooking is not the same as a second job at the night shift of a bakery.

And having a day job while also living a life of crime was and is not fairly common. Did you grow up on Staten Island by any chance?

by Anonymousreply 13December 7, 2022 6:18 PM

Bullshit about the only way for trannies to earn a living is prostitution.

Any non-profit worth its salt is always looking for a "diversified" staff and will bend over backwards to show it's got diverse cred by hiring anybody with a pulse.

Look at GLAAD and HRC.

by Anonymousreply 14December 7, 2022 6:22 PM

" Did you grow up on Staten Island by any chance?"

No, and what's that got to do with anything?

"And having a day job while also living a life of crime was and is not fairly common."

Maybe not to *you* but it certainly is common enough.

Far easier to round out monthly income by turning dates (or anything else such as selling drugs), than making it your life's work.

Arrival and growth of technology means people don't have to lurk about on corners or in bars.

by Anonymousreply 15December 7, 2022 6:26 PM

because they're whores, darlin'

by Anonymousreply 16December 7, 2022 6:28 PM

The money?

by Anonymousreply 17December 7, 2022 6:30 PM

"Bullshit about the only way for trannies to earn a living is prostitution."

Not true at all.

There are plenty of trans in retail; B'way in Bloomingdales once had a pretty good number. Haven't been that way in ages so cannot say how things are today.

by Anonymousreply 18December 7, 2022 6:30 PM

Wow, OP, you started a thread to answer your own question.

And troll.

Groundbreaking.

by Anonymousreply 19December 7, 2022 6:30 PM

There have been trans flight crew, and more are coming.

Offsite Link
by Anonymousreply 20December 7, 2022 6:32 PM

From Thailand...

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by Anonymousreply 21December 7, 2022 6:33 PM

Because no one else will hire them.

Because many of them run away from home as teens, and lack the documents and job skills to get a permanent job.

Because many lack stable housing, transportation, and professional attire.

Because many have untreated mental conditions - exacerbated by bigoted doctors, limited access to insurance, and limited funds for meds - and find it hard to manage an 8-5 job.

by Anonymousreply 22December 7, 2022 6:34 PM

Don't forget that trans hacker Paige Thompson, who was employed by Microsoft.

by Anonymousreply 23December 7, 2022 6:38 PM

[quote]It's for some weird kind of validation.

"I'm a pretty girl, Mama! Men want to have sex with me!"

by Anonymousreply 24December 7, 2022 6:43 PM

They need to stop normalizing sex work, or that it’s an acceptable form of employment. Everyone I know that’s in “The Life” has irreparable emotional issues and/or addiction problems.

There are more of the type of guys that seek transactional sex that are violent and controlling than “normal”. There will never be a “perfect” scenario where sex work is equitable or long term.

One cannot emotionally “heal”, prosper, have

by Anonymousreply 25December 7, 2022 7:02 PM

R25 While I do think that sex work should be decriminalized, I agree with you that most normal people wouldn’t pay for sex.

by Anonymousreply 26December 7, 2022 7:03 PM

My two cents, FWIW. Taking dangerous hormones, having surgery, and cutting up your body is extremely drastic. And (not trying to be mean or transphobic here) I think a person would have to be pretty mentally disturbed to even want to do that. Considering that most trans people don’t have bottom surgery, they essentially become a man/woman hybrid. As a hybrid, you don’t really attract normal men, or you have to lie about yourself to try and get a normal man. And I don’t think that most people who want to do these things to themselves would usually be sane enough to have a real career. When you do see trans people working, it’s usually in the service industry. I’ve never seen a single trans person in college, grad school, or in a highly-paying professional career.

by Anonymousreply 27December 7, 2022 8:24 PM

In the late '60s/early '70s, doctors and therapists who worked with trans people advised them to cut off everyone from their past (including their families) and start over in a new city where nobody knew them, à la the Witness Protection Program. Most doctors also wouldn't approve trans patients for transition and surgery if they weren't passable.

by Anonymousreply 28December 7, 2022 8:41 PM

They are mentally ill men who can make money selling sex.

by Anonymousreply 29December 7, 2022 9:47 PM

My brand new vagina isn’t going to pay for itself!

by Anonymousreply 30December 7, 2022 10:01 PM

They’re lazy degenerates.

by Anonymousreply 31December 7, 2022 10:54 PM

Autogynephilia.

The thought of themselves as a woman arouses them. They are men with a fetish and those types often are hyper sexual. I knew a guy who became a woman and he now does porn which, I suppose is better than being a prostitute. Except before he became a woman he got a girl pregnant and has a son who he isn't allowed to see anymore since he's in porn.

He doesn't care.

by Anonymousreply 32December 8, 2022 12:25 AM
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