What makes a white gay date a POC ?

Personality, chemistry, great sex. All the other reasons a person dates another person.

Good God, you're a racist asshole, OP.

I always thought when someone starts dating outside their race they are trying to make their ex mad.

"Dating outside their race?"

What the shit is wrong with you guys? A person is a person. Why is it a big deal at all if someone looks different?

Op is like that those str8 incels that are angry seeing their precious white women date minority men and not them, 2hat do they call it? Race traitors? Pathetic.

Gawd, give this race obsession a rest!

OP, you should know this: You are ghastly.

The race baiting troll is back!

Interracial dating is a sign of a dying, decadent culture. But it's much worse when heterosexuals do it because when they breed, they're creating the next generation, and if it's largely comprised of mystery meat mud-people, they're ensuring the future will be ugly and boring.

Good gravy, you people are sick fucks.

I hope most of you are old and near death. And also alone, cut off from all the friends and relatives who got sick of your racist shit and cut you out of their lives.

The future is a lot brighter because you won't be there.

I'm very pale and was always made fun of for it by other white people. I think that's why it's engrained in my head that brown/tan people are more desirable, hence my love for Latino and East Indian men.

Most of us just don’t give a shit about the color of their skin. Hot is hot.

When Whites reject non-whites = Racist When Asians reject non-whites = Personal preference When Blacks reject non-whites = Personal preference

R8 is inbred.

When I crave BBC.

R8 believes he'll become a God when he dies and rule his own planet.

I had a Filipino cop ask me out yesterday, on my way home from work.

He was attractive, and it was obvious he works out regularly, as he was in really good shape.

Had he not been a cop, and if I were ready to start dating again, I may have said yes. He presented as a very sweet guy.

I’ve always dated outside my race, but my most serious and longest relationship was with someone who was culturally the same as myself.

It truly doesn’t matter too much what race someone is. What matters is that you click with them and you both make each other happier by being in each other’s lives.

Although it's not as common as with straights, white gays can be incels, and dating a POC is an option for them because whites are revered by their lessers.

R16 Unless you happen to "click" with someone who does a job you don't like, amirite? In that case, a hot and sweet guy is disposable.

"Had he not been a cop." Oh, please!

[quote] whites are revered by their lessers.

Troll much?

Fuck off, R18.

I have solid reasons for not dating beat cops.

They act like they’re in a street gang, and almost always end up treating their girlfriends and wives like shit.

If there were THOUSANDS of stories out there indicating differently, I’d have zero issues with dating a cop. But unfortunately, that’s not the case.

Also, I can date or not date whomever ever the fuck I want to date or don’t want to date.

What business is it of yours? None.

*If there weren’t

1) The obvious... 2) Some sort of fucked up lashing out at a parent/grandparent 3) The same reasons you date anybody.

I realize this is not gonna be popular in these 'anyone who disagrees is a racist nazi' times. It's just my observation as someone who has had a lot of acquaintances thru the years with those tastes in dates.

Nonsense.

People, straight or gay, date outside of their race because they’re physically attracted to the person they’re dating.

Physical attraction is the number one reason people date anyone at all. Yes, this may change as we age, but when we’re young, hormones rule.

Hot is hot, regardless of race.

Can only answer for myself, I rarely date within my own race. I was from a small town in the middle of nowhere, the boys were horrible and mostly ugly and I guess that impression of white boys was imprinted on me. I moved to a big city and on my first night out I spotted the hottest guy I'd ever seen, he was tall, cute and black, I made straight for him. I've tried dating other white guys but I just never find that connection.

For R18…

R24 ibe fearf similar reasons before about white gays coming from an insular background, but I never made the connection to the hometown boys being fugly and a cause for adolescent trauma. Makes perfect sense to reject a group that you associate with pain.

I’m the other hand, hot is hot, regardless of skin color do the hormones argument from others is true.

Plus additional social acceptance, compared to straight social groups. Not that there aren’t still gays that regulate their black friend to photographer status or picture 5 of 5 in an Insta post.

Blacks, particularly mixed ones can be pretty and attractive, but the problem is that dating them is like dating a woman. So many of them have this victim complex like my mum. In spite of the hypermasculine act they are easily offended and hypersensitive demoisells. White guys are generally more laid back and emotionally tougher.

I date people I am attracted to, and that has included guys of a different ethnicity. It’s not a big deal.

R20 Ugh did you miss the memo? It's asking white gay men. Not str8 women. Read.

I remember a friend back in the early 00s saying they'd never date a black man. And I asked why, and he said "you know". We didn't stay friends long.

It’s amazing how people who see everything through race can’t understand that most of us don’t.

If the POC looked like this

Progressive white gays would as a novelty.

Can we just call them COLORED people instead?

I know, what’s the difference. People of the future will be scratching their heads.

Whites dating outside their race is like rich people house hunting in the barrio.

A lack of inherent racism.

Depends R37.

Are Pale South Americans considered POC? Asking for a friend of a friend...

R39 Depends on their ethnicity. Are they indigenous, Hispanic (White Spanish Euro mixed with North African Berber), or a mestizo (mix of Hispanic and indigenous)?

Good grief. ^

Oy vey!