What’s the secret to making a top fall in love with you and want you and only you?

Cut his dick off.

The secret's in the sauce.

Kegels

Have a fabulous ass OP.

So you’re resorting to manipulation, OP?

Lower your expectations.

Have common interests and don't be an asshole?

Offer him something he can't get from other bottoms and gaslight him into believing he can't live without that something.

12 hours sleep a night, a complete vegetable diet, and lots and LOTS of makeup.

Hide his purse in the vegetable drawer.

Buy him a car.

Wink your asshole at him and whisper, “hello lover!”

A magical hole, of course.

Learn to grip your hole and keep him locked in there as long as possible! He will love you for it.

A La-z-boy, a set of Craftsman tools, and a pair of Hushpuppy slippers

Get rich because assets last but ass doesn't.

OP reeks of German Gay Guy.

$20 a pop.

GGG is still a virgin. He knows nothong about tops.

Love potion #9.

Steam cleaning and a smile.

Caftan. Pearls. Earrings.

Is this a he likes me, but also likes others thing or is this a he likes me but wants to fuck others thing?

Sex and feelings for many gays are not the same thing. You can be in a serious, loving relationship while still fucking other guys. It's not a potential threat to the relationship unless he doesn't actually have feelings for you.

Whatever the case, don't be manipulative. For his sake, but also yours.

There is a secret, but you’re not to be trusted with it, OP

Don't act like a bottom.

Lots and lots of blowjobs.

Your best solution is to stop thinking of people as "tops" and "bottoms" but rather as actual human beings. Find someone you like on a romantic level and enjoy spending time with. 99.99999% (repeating, of course) of a relationship happens outside of the bedroom, so worry about that first and the rest will follow. If that doesn't sound exciting, stick to grindr and bathhouses because a relationship will never make you happy, regardless of their "top" or "bottom" label and ability to stay monogamous.

Your gurl, Pauline, can relate.

If you really want to earn ya man, you need to learn ya man!

Pick a flower and pull the petals off one by one while alternating the phrases, he loves, he loves me not. If the last petal pulled falls under the he loves me phrase, you have him!

Y'all nastee.

Be young, be attractive. Everything else is gravy.