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Why won't straight men admit that they like ass play?

If they were totally honest with themselves, the majority of straight men would be getting pegged left and right.

And probably expand the dildo market by 95%.

What a bunch of chicken shits.

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by Anonymousreply 145November 28, 2021 4:01 PM

“And probably expand the dildo market by 95%.”

Most straight guys would claim that’s a pig in a Poke.

by Anonymousreply 1November 16, 2021 8:45 PM

I'd say that plenty do but they like vagina because they're straight, and vagina is easier than ass play. Don't have to douche, etc.

by Anonymousreply 2November 16, 2021 8:47 PM

Do gay men ever not think about straight men?

by Anonymousreply 3November 16, 2021 8:48 PM

OP has no idea of straightmen, yet he posts.

by Anonymousreply 4November 16, 2021 8:54 PM

OP, most of them have never tried it, and ass is taboo to them.

by Anonymousreply 5November 16, 2021 8:57 PM

[quote] vagina is easier than ass play. Don't have to douche, etc.

HA!

The funny thing about this, is that most don't realize that they actually HAVE TO douche before ass play.

So their first time is usually a messy experience.

by Anonymousreply 6November 16, 2021 9:09 PM

Don't a lot of them at least touch, press against, or rub their hole while jacking off?

by Anonymousreply 7November 16, 2021 9:10 PM

Hot!

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by Anonymousreply 8November 16, 2021 9:13 PM

Most men don't mind a woman toying with their ass, but they don't want toys in their ass.

by Anonymousreply 9November 16, 2021 9:15 PM

While OP mentions dildos, straight men are more likely to get a Tenga if they're going to do sex toys.

by Anonymousreply 10November 16, 2021 9:17 PM

What's that, R10?

by Anonymousreply 11November 16, 2021 9:20 PM

Bit old but:

[quote]The National Survey of Family Growth, conducted between 2006 and 2008 with people between the ages of 15 and 44, concluded that 44 percent of straight men and 36 percent of straight women have had anal sex at least once in their lives.

by Anonymousreply 12November 16, 2021 9:20 PM

Hot, R12!

I'm curious about the 44% of straight men. Did the anal sex involve another dick?

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by Anonymousreply 13November 16, 2021 9:22 PM

R13 That survey said 6%, and another survey I found (conducted by the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention in 2016) found that 2.3 per cent of men who had engaged in same-sex sexual activity identified as heterosexual. So it's probably in that kind of ballpark.

by Anonymousreply 14November 16, 2021 9:29 PM

Although I have to wonder how many are closet cases (perhaps that's why the older survey's numbers are higher; just speculating).

by Anonymousreply 15November 16, 2021 9:30 PM

I've noticed that most of the demonstrations for prostate massage devices on youtube are sexy gals selling such devices to the opposite sex, and the way most of them talk, I'm assuming the videos are geared to straight men.

Gay guys aren't going to be imagining Annabelle Knight playing with their holes.

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by Anonymousreply 16November 18, 2021 8:53 PM

It's rich listening to gay men think they know what makes straight guys tick. Honey, they're basically a different species from you, and you will never get them, figuratively and literally. Now go back to your cosmos and scrapbooking.

by Anonymousreply 17November 18, 2021 9:03 PM

I will always maintain that straight men and gay men are physiologically different. Straight men have very little desire to be anally penetrated. I believe straight babies are made gay by too much estrogen in the pre natal environment, thus making their anuses passive live a vagina.

by Anonymousreply 18November 18, 2021 9:10 PM

Because nobody wants to be a homo, not even most homos. Why would they admit to liking ass play? It’s a dirty, shameful secret.

by Anonymousreply 19November 18, 2021 9:13 PM

[quote] Straight men have very little desire to be anally penetrated.

That is SO dumb, and SO old fashioned.

Young guys have definitely discovered the wonders of ass play, and how good it feels.

The stigma before, was that if anything went near your ass, it made you gay.

It's not that way any more. Straight guys have discovered how good it feels to have your ass stimulated, and it's definitely becoming a thing now.

You don't know what you're talking about, R18.

by Anonymousreply 20November 18, 2021 9:16 PM

not everyone douches or “has to douche” before assplay.

by Anonymousreply 21November 18, 2021 9:23 PM

Some need to read up on the history of prostate massage over centuries, and not think that civilization begins and ends in puritanical U.S. of A.

by Anonymousreply 22November 18, 2021 9:36 PM

Because hetero men are cowards.

by Anonymousreply 23November 18, 2021 9:39 PM

What is the history of prostate massage?

by Anonymousreply 24November 18, 2021 9:42 PM

As a straight female I am disturbed by the constant obsession with straight men and their sex lives. Most average straight guy out there isn't into ass play. The ones that yap about it are much younger zoomed who do not completely identify as straight. The mostly 60 percent straight 40 percent gay crowd. Most straight men hate rectal examination for a reason.

by Anonymousreply 25November 18, 2021 9:47 PM

Agree with R25. I brought up anal sex once to a straight male friend in his 30s and he was completely disgusted. We were with his wife (they are longtime friends, we talk about everything, he's open-minded). But he had a visceral reaction and said absolutely not. I brought up the prostate and how it feels good, they should try it, etc. and he looked at me like I was crazy and told me that his ass is "exit only." The wife was agreeing with me, saying what's the big deal, and he said we were both nuts and asked to change the subject.

by Anonymousreply 26November 18, 2021 9:57 PM

Thankyou r25 and r26

by Anonymousreply 27November 18, 2021 9:59 PM

r20 and how many young 'straight' guys and straight guys in general do you talk to about anal penetration?

by Anonymousreply 28November 18, 2021 10:01 PM

My hag BFF told me she fingered a guy blowing him and got “chocolate finger” So the next time she tried with another guy she used her vibrator around his perenium and hole while blowing him and he came really hard while also shitting the bed.

She then puked

We Still howl over this incident.

by Anonymousreply 29November 18, 2021 10:02 PM

R24, it was a much less well-known study done by Edward Gibbon after he discovered his cousin being pegged in the gardening shed by one of the stable boys.

by Anonymousreply 30November 18, 2021 10:19 PM

R29 Lolol my god thats disgusting. All this lust for straight men and in reality they are so gross.

by Anonymousreply 31November 18, 2021 10:43 PM

Prostate massage is in the Tantric and Taoist traditions of India and China.

Also, in the last century, p-spot stimulation and miking was advocated to maintain prostate health. Doctors would perform the procedure, and there were other (strange) devices for men to do it at home. (See example below.)

btw - Someone must be interested in all that porn where guys are getting pegged by women.

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by Anonymousreply 32November 18, 2021 10:45 PM

They honestly should make a Queer Eye gay porn version that's all about gay guys teaching straight guys how to actually enjoy their bodies

by Anonymousreply 33November 18, 2021 10:50 PM

[quote]As a straight female I am disturbed by the constant obsession with straight men and their sex lives.

As a gay male, I’m disturbed at how many straight females like yourself come to a gay website where they know all sorts of sex topics will be discussed and then have the nerve to be “disturbed.” Sounds like you have an obsession yourself.

by Anonymousreply 34November 18, 2021 10:51 PM

I don’t know, why don’t you like certain things, OP? Some people just don’t. Ain’t nothing wrong with it, it is what it is.

by Anonymousreply 35November 18, 2021 10:53 PM

R34 because it is quiet pathetic how most of you obsess over straight men and their sex lives. It is botherline creepy. You guys wonder why straight people think you guys are freaks and weirdos. This is how homophobia or antigay sentiments also starts

by Anonymousreply 36November 18, 2021 11:29 PM

Haha R29. Awesome story. Hey, shit happens.

[quote] I brought up anal sex once to a straight male friend in his 30s and he was completely disgusted.

[quote] We were with his wife

[quote] (they are longtime friends, we talk about everything, he's open-minded). But he had a visceral reaction and said absolutely not.

No straight guy is going to tell his wife he likes his ass fingered.

Of course he's going to object! It's all for show.

He's trying to convince his wife, more than himself.

If he dared say, "Hey honey, can you finger my hole??" it's the wife who would automatically think.... "omg is he gay?"

I have a straight, married fuck buddy and he has been coming over to my place for over five years.

Why, you ask?

Because I play with his hole and eat his ass. And he can't get enough of it.

What the wife won't do, I WILL.

by Anonymousreply 37November 18, 2021 11:36 PM

Agree with R25. But gay men have been obsessed with straight men since the dawn of man.

by Anonymousreply 38November 18, 2021 11:37 PM

A 2008 study of 1,478 heterosexual men showed that:

8 percent reported a history of insertive anal intercourse. `

15 percent said they'd received analingus.

24 percent had received anal fingering.

That was 13 years ago. The study also noted that younger guys tended to be more adventurous, so we can guess these numbers have now gone up (guys who enjoyed it that long ago are still doing it and now joined by younger guys).

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by Anonymousreply 39November 18, 2021 11:48 PM

"Why, you ask?"

No, gurl, we didn't.

by Anonymousreply 40November 18, 2021 11:57 PM

R37 what an amazing fictional story full of delusion of grandeur. The only straight guys who are into anal play live in your head. R39 the guy that conducted the study looks like he might need ass play because no woman will fuck an ugly looking creep.

by Anonymousreply 41November 19, 2021 12:18 AM

Even boys love ass play until they’re embarrassed in adulthood. My childhood best friend (straight) used to back up to the string jet in my backyard swimming pool. He would let that water shoot right up his ass and we’d talk like I didn’t know what he was doing. I would always notice his chubbie weenie thru his trunks when he was doing this. I didn’t know them at age 10 why I liked him, but I do now!

by Anonymousreply 42November 19, 2021 12:24 AM

Men who let females do anything to their holes, are always closet bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 43November 19, 2021 12:37 AM

R43 is posting from 1950.

by Anonymousreply 44November 19, 2021 12:52 AM

R44 you are just fucking unaware how many end up bisexual that ask for their females to do this. I've known hundreds of guys who are closeted bisexuals who engage in anal play, and they all "identify" as "straight" and end up on Grindr. Majority are not straight who like anal play, even if there is a small amount of actual straight who enjoy it, it's largely closeted bisexuals asking their females to do it. And the females end up finding out way too long afterwards.

by Anonymousreply 45November 19, 2021 12:56 AM

Straight men are like Jim Belushi or Gary Delabate. That’s who gay men are truly attracted to.

by Anonymousreply 46November 19, 2021 1:08 AM

R18 gay men can have the same masculinity and healthy testosterone levels as much as straight men, you homophobic cunt.

by Anonymousreply 47November 19, 2021 1:09 AM

Straight men have bad anal hygiene.

by Anonymousreply 48November 19, 2021 1:10 AM

R41 The guy whose photo appears with the R39 link didn't conduct the study. He's just the Psychology Today reporter providing a summary recap from the actual study that was published in the "Journal of Sex Research."

by Anonymousreply 49November 19, 2021 1:11 AM

R48 They learn quickly.

by Anonymousreply 50November 19, 2021 1:12 AM

A gay man sexualizing a homeless man…and he has to be straight. Why straight? Why are gay men like this?

by Anonymousreply 51November 19, 2021 1:13 AM

R59 no they don't. They learn nothing, except for how to be more unhygienic and underdeveloped emotionally and mentally.

by Anonymousreply 52November 19, 2021 1:14 AM

Stop posting straight porn OP.

by Anonymousreply 53November 19, 2021 1:15 AM

Why do you care what straight men "admit" or not?

by Anonymousreply 54November 19, 2021 1:16 AM

You people are insane.

Oh, none of you seem to know anything about straight men.

Especially you straight women.

by Anonymousreply 55November 19, 2021 1:17 AM

[quote] You guys wonder why straight people think you guys are freaks and weirdos. This is how homophobia or antigay sentiments also starts

GTFO freeper.

by Anonymousreply 56November 19, 2021 1:18 AM

R55 exactly.

by Anonymousreply 57November 19, 2021 1:18 AM

After watching several aneros videos, I have to say that if I had a prostate, I'd be banging on that drum morning, noon, and night.

by Anonymousreply 58November 19, 2021 1:45 AM

Cosmo did an article on it.

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by Anonymousreply 59November 19, 2021 2:44 AM

R34 Agree. Sounds like a territorial frau.

by Anonymousreply 60November 19, 2021 3:25 AM

[R18] gay men can have the same masculinity and healthy testosterone levels as much as straight men, you homophobic cunt.

r47 you're a dumb cunt. I'm a gay man, I'm not homophobic and you have no idea about the theory of hormones in the pre natal environment casing homosexuality, i suggest you look it up. Of course gay men have the same testosterone levels as straight men, we found that out in the 50s, but I wasn't talking about that you dumb, dumb cunt. The theory, in short, is that male babies are exposed to too much estrogen in the womb and therefore become gay, and the opposite for lesbians- too much testosterone. YOU DUMB, DUMB CUNT

by Anonymousreply 61November 19, 2021 3:41 AM

R18 That doesn't sound very scientific. YOU must be a hoot at parties with your hypotheses.

R34 Cheers. I've often remarked here, and I shall do it again that if I were a straight bird being an interloper here, I'd check myself before posting shite.... ESPECIALLY critical anti-gay comments. We are not amused by you, R25, and we're not interested in your opinion, otherwise we'd be posting such queries to a straight womens' blog.

Can't you find somewhere else where you would be more welcomed and appreciated?

by Anonymousreply 62November 19, 2021 6:18 AM

r62 here cunt, do some reading

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by Anonymousreply 63November 19, 2021 8:13 AM

Not all straight men like ass play, just as not all gay mine like it.

by Anonymousreply 64November 19, 2021 10:16 AM

Gee Cosmo did a study on a very tiny fraction of "straight" men and now it represents the entire population of heterosexuals.

by Anonymousreply 65November 19, 2021 11:34 AM

Just what the world needs, even more bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 66November 19, 2021 1:30 PM

Lol r66.

by Anonymousreply 67November 19, 2021 1:31 PM

[quote]I believe straight babies are made gay by too much estrogen in the pre natal environment, thus making their anuses passive live a vagina.

Nobody really cares what you believe. You probably also believe COVID isn’t real.

by Anonymousreply 68November 19, 2021 1:42 PM

What about the double standard on how straight guys want to peg their girlfriends/wives and that’s cool but if a guy pegs another guy, they think it is sick?

by Anonymousreply 69November 19, 2021 2:00 PM

R63/R18 You're not only ridiculous, but daft as well. There's nothing in the link you provided that qualifies as a citation for, or evidence of hormones affecting the sphincter, causing it to be more lax or "passive"( as you typed) and more receptive toward receiving anal.

Furthermore, there's absolutely NOTHING whatsoever in the study regarding in utero hormone levels, and the likelihood of growing up to be an eager bottom, or specifically any particular sexual ACTIVITY. ACTIVITY is NOT the same as ORIENTATION. You're the homophobe by using an "if this, then that" faulty logic approach to the material, and by reinforcing a homophobic and stereotypical trope that all gay men must and do enjoy passive anal.

Hormones in gestation may be casually linked to orientation, and they usually correlate to digit length ratios, which on their own, can also be fairly accirate predictors of ORIENTATION in both lesbians and gay men, but does not specifically predict a desire to be penetrated anally. Hormone levels cannot accurately predict who prefers to suck cock either you little pinhead.

. You can call me a cunt all you like, yet it doesn't make any of the rubbish you typed true.

All you have done is demonstrate your serious scholastic deficits: critical thinking, and reading skills to be more specific. Scientific papers or journal abstracts seem to be above your level of reading proficiency.

You've extrapolated in a big way, and you drew a very hasty conclusion here, yet you somehow fancy yourself a scholar. You're sadly just another random poorly educated low IQ troll poster.

I'm bored of you.

by Anonymousreply 70November 19, 2021 8:06 PM

Devices like OhMiBod are making inroads in getting more straight guys to become curious about and exploring ass play. And women are encouraged to buy the models that are for couples and interactive sex play.

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by Anonymousreply 71November 19, 2021 9:00 PM

[quote] What about the double standard on how straight guys want to peg their girlfriends/wives and that’s cool but if a guy pegs another guy, they think it is sick?

Wow, are you truly this dumb?

Straight guys don't "peg" their wives. They fuck them.

Two guys don't "peg" each other. They FUCK each other.

Pegging is something completely different, numb nuts.

by Anonymousreply 72November 19, 2021 11:55 PM

I've noticed plenty of straight guys fucking themselves with dildos on cam sites. It's not that uncommon, really.

by Anonymousreply 73November 20, 2021 12:28 AM

[quote] Young guys have definitely discovered the wonders of ass play, and how good it feels. The stigma before, was that if anything went near your ass, it made you gay. It's not that way any more. Straight guys have discovered how good it feels to have your ass stimulated, and it's definitely becoming a thing now.

I mean this isn't that new. I was in high school between 1998-2002 and guys were getting girls to "toss their salads" and stick fingers up their butts.

by Anonymousreply 74November 20, 2021 12:35 AM

R61 you are basically usually a homophobic theory, that gay men were born gay because a female hormone (estrogen) made them gay, therefore making out that gay men are effeminate because of too much estrogen. I've heard that homophobic theory since I was in primary school, and kids use to ridicule me once they watched this documentary about how gay man supposedly have feminine hands or shorter fingers because of all the estrogen in the womb before they were born. Again, if that homophobic bullshit theory was actually true, every gay man walking this planet would have low testosterone levels and all act and look effeminate, yet there are many masculine gay men which normal to high testosterone levels and aren't effeminate. They are many gay men who have more masculine traits and masculine bodies, than straight men. There are many gay men who are also more hung than straight men.

by Anonymousreply 75November 20, 2021 7:47 AM

R75 What makes people gay though?

by Anonymousreply 76November 20, 2021 7:50 AM

R76 something that's biological obviously, but it's not estrogen related.

by Anonymousreply 77November 20, 2021 7:51 AM

R77 biological?

by Anonymousreply 78November 20, 2021 1:25 PM

when did douching for gays become expected before assplay? I swear to God it was not a major thing in the 70s.

and I never remember any horrific experiences both as a top or a bottom. Eldergays, please weigh in!

by Anonymousreply 79November 20, 2021 2:25 PM

R79 the nice thing about "outer" assplay is that you don't really have to douche.

As long as you shower and clean your ass well, you're good to go.

Because the anal area can be stimulated nicely by rubbing the exterior, without going inside.

Just use lube or spit, and it can be very pleasurable.

by Anonymousreply 80November 20, 2021 2:28 PM

Most str8 men don't even realize that ass play is even erotic. Women in general do not touch their husbands asses or their nipples so men never know the pleasures/

by Anonymousreply 81November 20, 2021 2:35 PM

Bonner Bolton is a straight guy who demonstrates it nicely...

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by Anonymousreply 82November 20, 2021 2:38 PM

To straight men, sex involves only penetrating someone who is physically weaker and vulnerable to being penetrated. If you've seen straight porn, you've probably seen men choking or mock-choking women during sex. It seems like a lot of straight men conflate their sexual role with at least some level of violence.

Psychologically, that breeds a fear of being overtaken and penetrated—to the extent that "cover your ass" is an everyday term in business. It's seen/conceived of by straight men as weak, womanly and as being 'conquered' to be penetrated by anything.

by Anonymousreply 83November 20, 2021 2:43 PM

The conversation is just gross about ass play. I now see why we straight people say nope.

by Anonymousreply 84November 20, 2021 3:01 PM

R66 yes please 👅

by Anonymousreply 85November 20, 2021 3:14 PM

Maybe they just don't enjoy it with you.

by Anonymousreply 86November 20, 2021 3:34 PM

R78 yes, biological. Sexual orientation is biological, like the colour of your eyes etc. We all are born with a sexual orientation. That's damn obvious. I don't know why you have to ask the question. Are you even gay?

by Anonymousreply 87November 20, 2021 6:59 PM

On straight hook-up sites, there's always at least one guy who's looking for a woman to peg him. I can't imagine a lot of women want to do that, though.

by Anonymousreply 88November 20, 2021 7:25 PM

R87 we are not born with a sexual orientation. Babies are born with no identifiable sexual attraction.

by Anonymousreply 89November 20, 2021 7:32 PM

R89 yes we are.

by Anonymousreply 90November 20, 2021 7:41 PM

R88, we're born with it. Even though we might not develop sexual attractions until the hormones start flowing during our teen years, many gay men and women will tell you that they realized they were different from the other kids at a very young age.

by Anonymousreply 91November 20, 2021 7:48 PM

Above, I meant to reference R89 instead of R88.

by Anonymousreply 92November 20, 2021 7:51 PM

[qouote] As a straight female I am disturbed by the constant obsession with straight men and their sex lives.

I'm disturbed by the presence of straight females on DataLounge.

by Anonymousreply 93November 20, 2021 8:37 PM

There's more to being gay than sex. That's one thing that drives me crazy about Pride celebrations: they're so focused on sex.

I agree that people don't experience sexual attraction until puberty, but a lot of us are very obviously gay from early ages. My family knew I was gay when I was a toddler, and having seen home videos, I can see why. We're just different through and through. It's not just what you do with your dick and butt and mouth.

by Anonymousreply 94November 20, 2021 8:40 PM

R94 How does someone tell a toddler is a homo, what were you doing?

by Anonymousreply 95November 20, 2021 8:48 PM

Toddling with flair!

by Anonymousreply 96November 20, 2021 8:51 PM

[R75] What makes people gay though?

we do

by Anonymousreply 97November 20, 2021 8:52 PM

R95 that is what I want to know. Was he saying "boys are sexy mommy" besides why would a toddler know what sexual attraction is at that age. I guess since he wasn't into batman cartoons, action figures and wearing color blue. His family assumed he was a baby gayling.

by Anonymousreply 98November 20, 2021 8:53 PM

Come on, R95 and R98. Think back to elementary school. There were some boys who were different from the rest of the boys. They didn't like the same clothes and toys as the other boys. Maybe their voice was a little higher, and they had some feminine mannerisms. In-tune parents recognize when their child is "different". Later, when the child grew up and experienced same-sex crushes, suddenly he realized why he had always felt different as a child.

by Anonymousreply 99November 20, 2021 9:00 PM

R95 is a fucking disingenuous, confused, homophobic, and evasive tranny. We already explained it. Sexual orientation is innate, biological, and fixed. As we grow up, even when we are really young, our innate attraction which is linked to our sexual orientation, starts showing outwardly. Like in the case with us gay boys,.we were getting erections for boys and being attracted to everything else about the male anatomy. Thinking non-stop about boys, their scent, etc. Playing at preschool and primary school with other boys sexually in the toilets. Being transfixed with male celebrities on TV and wanking to them. All of that was already determined at birth, and as we grow up we get to experience it outwardly. It's extremely simple and obvious. We've automatically always known we were gay like how straight people automatically know they are straight.

Those don't know what their sexual orientation is at a really young age, have other issues. Like denial and low intelligence/self awareness.

by Anonymousreply 100November 20, 2021 9:02 PM

R98 That's my whole point. It's not all about physical sex at all. Yes, I was drawn to gender-neutral or 'girly' things like Lite Brite, Easy Bake Oven, etc. As I got older, while my friends who were boys liked Thunder Cats and He-Man and G.I. Joe and WWF, I liked Archie Comics, She-Ra, Gem, Beverly Hills Teens, etc. In first grade, I went to school dressed as a witch for Halloween and was told by several kids and by the teacher that "boys can be wizards, not witches." My parents were fine with me being a witch and so they didn't question it.

I always saw myself as creative as opposed to violent. I liked She-Ra because whe was pretty and her thing was saving animals and the environment instead of "having power." I liked Archie because of the relationships and I related to Jughead more than anyone.

In sixth grade, suddenly all my peers started demanding to know if I was gay. I didn't know why they were asking because I had had no sexual feelings at all and so by default I just assumed I was straight.

Then in seventh grade, I was suddenly like OHHHH. Everyone knew before I did!

And yes, I saw home video from when I was about four years old sometime within the past five to eight years, and I was shockingly gay. I was wearing a vest and a red clip-on bow tie, spinning around with my arms out, and then I started doing some kind of improvised Modern dance type thing extremely flamboyantly. If you saw a kid that age moving like that, you'd know he was gay. And it has nothing to do with sex acts or genitalia, just being.

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by Anonymousreply 101November 20, 2021 9:06 PM

R101 interest in gender neutral colors or pop culture references even been artistic isn't a way to determine a child sexual orientation. There are little boys who like playing sports and dressing like your typical kid who did not show the stereotypical characteristics of a baby gayling. They still grew up to have sexual attraction to their own gender. The same can be said for little boys who like wearing pink and into certain gender neutral toys but grew up with genuine sexual attraction to women.

by Anonymousreply 102November 20, 2021 9:31 PM

If you look at some pron videos where straight guys are getting pegged, it seems like half the comments are from guys who'd like to find a girl to do that to them .. lol. Yes, femdom is a thing, Virginia. .. Also, it seems like over the last several years, there's a lot more more straight pron where oral includes women rimming (ass licking) men. One channel at Pornhub (called Girls Rimming) specializes in this and has over 300 videos.

by Anonymousreply 103November 20, 2021 9:57 PM

R103 Yes, indeed. Straight men have loosened up more than a bit about it, pardonn the pun. I know three straight mates who like it. I'm not a bottom, and have even endured one of them extolling the virtues.

One likes to be pegged, and his wife obliges. Another likes a finger, or a very small vibrator that is finger size. Sometimes his girlfriend uses it on him. He has absolutely no interest in going with anything larger.

The other mate told me he sticks a finger up there when he wanks. He said he has no interest to share this with a partner, and he's single presently. He may simply be more comfortable with it as a self pleasure thing. I should think it's probably easier for a fifty year-old straight bloke to admit this to a gay friend, than a new or prospective partner.

by Anonymousreply 104November 20, 2021 10:42 PM

[quote] To straight men, sex involves only penetrating someone who is physically weaker and vulnerable to being penetrated. If you've seen straight porn, you've probably seen men choking or mock-choking women during sex. It seems like a lot of straight men conflate their sexual role with at least some level of violence.

Porn is not a reliable source about what happens during real sex anymore than the Fast and Furious movies are Driver's Ed.

In my life I'd say 95% of my friends have been straight and we have discussed sex a lot. I have never heard anyone outside of a gender studies or human sexuality class say, "To straight men, sex involves only penetrating someone who is physically weaker and vulnerable to being penetrated." Believe it or not, they choose people just like other people do, they find someone they are attracted to. I've never heard nor seen one say, "I want a weak vulnerable girl to fuck." It is usually, "damn, her tits are huge, I want to fuck her," or "did you see those legs and that ass? I want to fuck her." They are not thinking about power or being vulnerable to being penetrated, they just want to fuck women, that they individually find attractive, just like gay men want to fuck men, and bisexuals want to fuck both.

Also, one of my friends obviously never followed that idea, the largest he has ever been is maybe 120lbs, with no muscle. Every gal I've ever seen him with has been in the 180-200lb range. I fully believe every girl he has ever dated could beat his ass up, if they wanted to.

by Anonymousreply 105November 20, 2021 11:21 PM

GQ has featured more than one article directed to straight guys on the growing trend.

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by Anonymousreply 106November 21, 2021 12:47 AM

Retarded and sexually repressed straight men are being praised for noticing literally thousands of years in the making about the full pleasure of our male anatomy, but no one holds them accountable for the heinous ridicule and murder they committed for gay men who have always enjoyed the same. The self loathing straight worshippers on here have full Stockholm Syndrome, and it's fucking pathetic.

Straight men and everyone else always copies and appropriates what gay men made popular, have always had awareness on, and with other things we created; and everyone pats straight men on the back and write articles about it.

by Anonymousreply 107November 21, 2021 12:57 AM

Well few of the posters straight male friends represent billions of straight men all over the world. Well almost all Straight men are into ass play because DL posters said so.

by Anonymousreply 108November 21, 2021 2:49 AM

1.2 million views and counting (since August 2020). Someone straight must be interested.

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by Anonymousreply 109November 21, 2021 3:58 AM

There's a subreddit for this: "Straight pegging"

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by Anonymousreply 110November 21, 2021 7:03 AM

[quote] but no one holds them accountable for the heinous ridicule and murder they committed for gay men who have always enjoyed the same.

Please take your victim mindset elsewhere.

by Anonymousreply 111November 22, 2021 2:10 PM

R111 it's the fucking truth, you homophobic cunt. Straight men killed gay men for enjoying anal sex and still are, while they enjoy anal sex anal play too. It's a fucking heinous and hypocritical thing. Please take care your Stockholm Syndrome cuntface off our gay website.

by Anonymousreply 112November 22, 2021 4:53 PM

"Pegging" is s term invented to let straight men off the hook for getting fucked up the ass. A strap-on dildo is fucking you up the as, not "pegging".

by Anonymousreply 113November 22, 2021 4:57 PM

Enjoy your persecuted mental ghetto, R112.

by Anonymousreply 114November 22, 2021 5:36 PM

My very-open minded womanizing straight neighbor came over and we had a few drinks and laughs where he admitted to enjoying being pegged by his female fuck buddies. This is the same guy who asked me, a total top, how I can "stand the smell of shit " when I fuck my own fuck buddies. The disconnect and mental gymnastics in the minds of straight men is ridiculous. Pegging is ass fucking.

by Anonymousreply 115November 22, 2021 5:53 PM

I'm often surprised at how few men are aware of their bodies, gay or straight.

You do not need to douche before anal sex, you just need to understand the rhythm and timing of your digestive system, and shower/clean the area regularly. Sometimes it's just not the right time to get fucked. But most times, it is indeed an ok time, if you are keeping mental notes about the timing of your eating and your bowel movements.

Many gay bottoms are obsessed with douching, and it messes up their natural processes, and many straight men are clueless about what's going on in their intestines so they often have an ass full of shit. Many people, in general, assume we gay men are swimming in shit in order to have sex, because it must be so disgusting.

If everyone were just paying attention to their bodies all this time, they would be having a lot more fun in the sack.

by Anonymousreply 116November 22, 2021 6:11 PM

[quote] This is the same guy who asked me, a total top, how I can "stand the smell of shit " when I fuck my own fuck buddies

It's a valid question.

by Anonymousreply 117November 22, 2021 6:12 PM

[quote]Most average straight guy out there isn't into ass play.

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 118November 22, 2021 6:24 PM

I'd also add that I don't think one needs to douche, if you're just into massaging the perineum and doing some some less than invasive finger play to the ass. .. A guy can be clean (i.e. bathed, showered) down there, and if more comfortable, the partner doing the ass play can even wear a glove (lubed). .. For many guys, that's extremely satisfying ass play in conjunction with getting blown.

by Anonymousreply 119November 22, 2021 8:30 PM

Because their mouths are full of them at the moment??

by Anonymousreply 120November 23, 2021 2:02 AM

No justice in the world if Jack Grealish isn’t getting pegged.

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by Anonymousreply 121November 24, 2021 12:32 AM

Remember Steve Howey from Reba and the US Shameless? His wife gave an interview about how she likes to peg him. I would have buttfucked him when he played Van on Reba if I'd have had the chance.

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by Anonymousreply 122November 24, 2021 2:18 AM

R122 you are so fucking clueless with no bidar, to not realise that Steve is a closeted bisexual. Statistically in porn/ the entertainment industry, academic research, and real life knowledge and awareness, bisexual men are the ones that are into all this strap-on sexual activity and cuckold sexual activity.

by Anonymousreply 123November 24, 2021 3:55 AM

R123 I am bisexual but I'm not into it. But, I'm also not a bottom, except in very limited circumstances, so I guess that could explain it. I just don't see the point of pegging if you are bisexual. If you want to be rammed in the ass get on the apps and find a guy with a real penis to do it.

by Anonymousreply 124November 24, 2021 4:08 AM

R2124 well everytime I'm on Grindr I see bisexual men seeking to be dominated by a female with a strap-on in an MMF scenario, just like most bisexual porn consists of. I never understood why a bisexual man would rather/prefer a female use a fake silicone/plastic cock over a guy with a real penis. Majority of bisexual men are closeted though, so most must think it's just easier to ask their females to penetrate them with a strap-on so that they can keep on identifying as "straight".

by Anonymousreply 125November 24, 2021 4:47 AM

R125 Maybe it's the area, but I never see that on the apps here. I never see men seeking women on Grindr because I never see any women on there for them to seek. I see lots of bi/closeted/married guys but they are looking for guys or, sadly, trans.

I have seen it in some bi porn but I'm not sure a majority. I've only ever been with one woman that was sexually dominating and I didn't care for it. I certainly wouldn't want her jackhammering me with a massive dildo. Also, how does it work? Like when does she stop? I mean with a penis there is an obvious stopping point. What is the stopping point of a dildo? Just when she gets tired?

by Anonymousreply 126November 24, 2021 4:57 AM

R126 well you are the only bisexual guy that actually makes sense and who isn't a fucking weird freak that chooses a female or tranny with a strap-on, over a guy with a real penis. Because majority of bisexual men are doing the strap-on sex with females, and with the botched trans freaks. It must be incredibly miserable having to encounter so many other bisexual men into strap-on sex with females and trans freaks.

Yeah maybe different areas have more of it than others, that's definitely possible. I see hundreds of profiles of bisexual guys on Grindr seeking females and trans for strap-on sex, and actual swinger bisexual couples looking for kink written on their profile. The girlfriends/wives tend to be extremely fat and ugly in the profile photos too.

by Anonymousreply 127November 24, 2021 5:16 AM

Never tried it but I have to admit that pegging does intrigue me as a female, but really only from a perspective of physical power rather than sexual gratification, which says a lot of awful things about how we are conditioned to view sexual roles. What would it be like to penetrate a man in such a position of physical vulnerability, I wonder?

by Anonymousreply 128November 25, 2021 12:56 AM

R128 just go on Grindr. All you females are on there now and there are tons of bisexual men looking for strap-on sex with females and trans.

by Anonymousreply 129November 25, 2021 12:59 AM

R122 Nice!

by Anonymousreply 130November 25, 2021 1:01 AM

R129 thank you, but no. My interest is theoretical and hypothetical, as I said, and not about actually seeking sexual pleasure.

More broadly, I think perhaps that this is where people in this accelerating cloud-based infornographic culture are going astray—becoming confused about what they want to do versus what they think they could want to do. Choice, possibility and endless models have our heads spinning disconnected from the rest of our bodies.

by Anonymousreply 131November 25, 2021 1:23 AM

R131 well I was just saying, because Grindr is no longer for us actual gay men. It's completely non-gay and unrecognizable now. You'd have more success on there because of the saturation of non-gay people looking for straight, bi, and trans sex with strap-on sex galore.

by Anonymousreply 132November 25, 2021 1:30 AM

[quote] If you want to be rammed in the ass get on the apps and find a guy with a real penis to do it.

I think that's the whole point.

They like their asses stimulated, but they don't want to mess around with another guy.

They are strictly into females.

That's what makes them straight, and not bi or closeted.

by Anonymousreply 133November 25, 2021 1:36 AM

R133 keep ignoring research and keep ignoring how much bisexual porn is about strap-on sex idiot. They are bisexual, NOT straight. And yes, they are extremely closeted, most of them.

by Anonymousreply 134November 25, 2021 1:42 AM

R133 and the "straight men" in straight porn who engage in strap-on sex, 80% of them are bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 135November 25, 2021 1:44 AM

R28 I'd ask the same question of the OP

by Anonymousreply 136November 25, 2021 2:05 AM

Ass play for straight guys includes this as well.

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by Anonymousreply 137November 25, 2021 2:22 AM

R137 yeah straight men do solo ass play with themselves, but straight men don't take a strap-on from a female, bi men do.

by Anonymousreply 138November 25, 2021 2:27 AM

Apparently I need to explain this to you all:

Anal stimulation feels good. Society is homophobic, and male anal stimulation is associated with homosexuality. As a result a lot of straight men refuse to engage in it, or refuse to admit that they enjoy it.

While I’m at it: a large percentage of men are bi.

If you all hadn’t noticed, society is becoming less homophobic and as a result more (especially young) straight men feel comfortable letting a woman play with their asshole. Also, less bi men are hiding or repressing their interest in gay sex.

You fucking morons.

by Anonymousreply 139November 25, 2021 3:36 AM

Younger guys like their high-tech gadgets, so there's a definite focus and interest just because of that angle .. lol .. Men's Health just covered this in June 2021

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by Anonymousreply 140November 25, 2021 9:01 PM

Doing her wifely duty (NSFW).

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by Anonymousreply 141November 27, 2021 6:48 PM

[quote] As a straight female

Take yourself and your fucking gash and get out of our space, you twat. I don’t know what the fuck goes through you cunts’ minds to think that not only do you belong here, but that you’re free to insult us on our own fucking board.

That disgusting vile gash between your legs does not open doors for you here.

by Anonymousreply 142November 27, 2021 7:25 PM

Don't talk about her precious pussy that way, R142!!

by Anonymousreply 143November 27, 2021 9:12 PM

We stan vaginas ❤️

by Anonymousreply 144November 27, 2021 11:44 PM

R142. We women are grossed out looking at your prolapse anus ho.

by Anonymousreply 145November 28, 2021 4:01 PM
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