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Wentworth Miller gives me "I'm 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" pornstar vibes.

Some sources have said that he doesn't top or bottom. Like how!? And now he's "autistic"? IMO he just seems like an attention whore, darlin'.

by Anonymousreply 166March 14, 2023 9:08 PM

Is this how attention hoes seek attention? I only hear from him once in a blue moon.

by Anonymousreply 1July 29, 2021 5:58 PM

What sources are claiming he's not a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 2July 29, 2021 6:01 PM

Shocking news flash— one can be gay and not into anal.

by Anonymousreply 3July 29, 2021 6:07 PM

OP is the no one is gay everyone is really bi troll.

by Anonymousreply 4July 29, 2021 6:08 PM

R1 he's a lowkey attention hoe. The fact that he disappears into his introvert world for half a decade with no new projects on the horizon makes this even more likely. He has to drum interest in his CV somehow..

by Anonymousreply 5July 29, 2021 6:10 PM

Quite a few posters in the Wenty is Autistic thread say that he doesn't do anal R2

R3 the only "gay" men that never want to do anal are straightish guys fetishizing gay sex

by Anonymousreply 6July 29, 2021 6:12 PM

Eyeroll R4 that's not what I said in that thread. I was saying that bis outnumber gold star gays through sheer population numbers.

by Anonymousreply 7July 29, 2021 6:16 PM

OP since this has all happened entirely in your head, you may want to try posting this fanfiction on AO3.

by Anonymousreply 8July 29, 2021 6:18 PM

What self-respecting gay man doesn't do anal?

by Anonymousreply 9July 29, 2021 6:25 PM

R8 Whatever, Wenty

R9 is the only sane gay in this thread

by Anonymousreply 10July 29, 2021 6:26 PM

[quote] Wentworth Miller gives me "I'm 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" pornstar vibes. Some sources have said that he doesn't top or bottom. Like how!? And now he's "autistic"? IMO he just seems like an attention whore, darlin'.

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by Anonymousreply 11July 29, 2021 6:30 PM

He seems asexual.

by Anonymousreply 12July 29, 2021 6:36 PM

Seems to me the only people who would insist that in order to be gay you MUST like anal are the straights who are obsessed with “gay butt stuff.” No real gay man would demand that every gay have the same sexual tastes. That’s some frau bullshit right there.

There’s more to identifying as gay than anal sex. I’m 100% gay, never been with a woman, never ever will, but anal isn’t my thing. Neither giving nor receiving. What a dull sex partner these “gay = anal” people must be. More frau bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 13July 29, 2021 6:37 PM

He's a cocksucker!

by Anonymousreply 14July 29, 2021 6:40 PM

Same here, R13. My partner and I have been together nearly 20 years and have never done anal. Turns us both off. Unlike oral, which is a MAJOR turn-on.

To each his own. (And there are more oral-only guys out there than you think.)

by Anonymousreply 15July 29, 2021 6:42 PM

R13 R15 You must be unicorns because I just asked some of my whore friends if they've ever been with someone who didn't do anal and they all said no, never.

by Anonymousreply 16July 29, 2021 6:55 PM

Well, there are whores and there are regular people living their lives. Your sampling of whores in your realm of analville does not a scientific study make, statistically speaking.

But, whatever. Define yourself as you wish.

by Anonymousreply 17July 29, 2021 7:04 PM

Never believe Michael got butt-fucked by Scotty.

by Anonymousreply 18July 31, 2021 1:07 PM

I'm gay and I don't do anal. I have in the past, but frankly, it is too much hassle, and I don't really enjoy it that much - topping or bottoming.

by Anonymousreply 19July 31, 2021 1:11 PM

so Michael did a top

by Anonymousreply 20July 31, 2021 1:12 PM

A poster in this great forum once said that he is a insatiable bottom

by Anonymousreply 21July 31, 2021 1:23 PM

Inshashiable bottom or heshitant cockshucker, let'sh give the guy a break.

by Anonymousreply 22July 31, 2021 1:25 PM

NO. Michael is at the top every time

by Anonymousreply 23July 31, 2021 1:32 PM

He is a gay Black man with autism. Why would he lie about any of that? Most of you bitches would not have known any of that had he not told you.

Did he turn down your dick or ass? A lot of guys don't do anal on hookups. It's easier to get out of it by just saying "I don't do it."

Don't be silly, of course he does anal. Only his boyfriend knows which side of anal he prefers.

Why must people know everything about a celebrity? Y'all know enough. If I was famous I wouldn't tell you people shit!

by Anonymousreply 24July 31, 2021 1:32 PM

So what? He doesn’t do anal. Would you guys turn him down because of this and I also agree with R14

by Anonymousreply 25July 31, 2021 1:36 PM

If Wentworth could fuck women, he would have done so in the beginning of his career, when he was insisting to everyone he wasn't again.

by Anonymousreply 26July 31, 2021 1:36 PM

R26 yes. I fully take sides with you

by Anonymousreply 27July 31, 2021 1:52 PM

He was already famous when he came out as gay. He did not need to do that for attention.

In fact, while some actors have had success despite being openly gay in Hollywood, it's STILL not a selling point on a resume.

If homosexuality was a benefit most of Hollywood would not still be in the closet.

Gays are always whining about famous people not having the "courage" to be out and then when they do come out, somehow that is still not enough?

He doesn't wanna have anal sex with you. Leave this man alone and let him live his gay life. Enjoy his art.

by Anonymousreply 28July 31, 2021 1:58 PM

He seems asexual like a Ken doll. So not surprising he neither tops nor bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 29July 31, 2021 2:06 PM

Many gay men today don’t do anal. It’s a growing reality

by Anonymousreply 30July 31, 2021 2:29 PM

He seems like a control freak, and he went out with a sissy who was nearly 10 years younger. Nothing can stop me to assert he does top.

by Anonymousreply 31July 31, 2021 3:19 PM

R30

For what reason don't they do?

by Anonymousreply 32July 31, 2021 3:31 PM

And the OP apparently is Wenty's press agent.

by Anonymousreply 33July 31, 2021 4:32 PM

his face's bottom-ish

by Anonymousreply 34July 31, 2021 5:28 PM

R32, don’t act dumb dude

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by Anonymousreply 35July 31, 2021 5:46 PM

Glad to see growing non-anal movement

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by Anonymousreply 36July 31, 2021 5:50 PM

I happen to know for a fact that everyone's favorite model, Justin Clynes, also does not do anal. So there ya go.

by Anonymousreply 37July 31, 2021 6:18 PM

R6, straight guys don't fetishize gay sex.

Most straight guys would rather die than have people think they're gay, even the liberal ones. The idea that he's just pretending to be gay is fucking hysterical

by Anonymousreply 38July 31, 2021 6:22 PM

Precisely. Who are these loons claiming straight dude are pretending to be gay for clout

by Anonymousreply 39July 31, 2021 7:04 PM

I assume he means he doesn’t like anal sex. It’s all about cocksucking, both receptive and giving, for him.

by Anonymousreply 40July 31, 2021 7:12 PM

Anal sex works well for casting couch. They are in an insane industry.

by Anonymousreply 41August 1, 2021 1:56 AM

R21

Is that a "Craving bottom" poster? I can't quite understand what he means

by Anonymousreply 42August 1, 2021 6:48 AM

He’s straight and absolutely adores pussy

by Anonymousreply 43August 1, 2021 6:55 AM

R43 What?? You can't say something like that and leave it there with no context or evidence!!

by Anonymousreply 44August 1, 2021 2:28 PM

He loves men but does he have a type?

by Anonymousreply 45August 1, 2021 2:50 PM

This ass would devour every inches of wood

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by Anonymousreply 46August 1, 2021 3:04 PM

In spite of that ass, his partner can't stand anal sex.

by Anonymousreply 47August 1, 2021 3:21 PM

I refuse to do anal.

by Anonymousreply 48August 1, 2021 3:30 PM

That's totally fine!

by Anonymousreply 49August 1, 2021 3:42 PM

OP, I'm gay, but have only rarely topped or bottomed. Anal sex just isn't my thing, sorry.

I'm very oral and handsy though. And I've had a TON of gay sex. Probably only fucked a dozen times, and got fucked half a dozen.

by Anonymousreply 50August 1, 2021 3:55 PM

I like him in "The Human Stain".

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by Anonymousreply 51August 1, 2021 4:11 PM

It’s common. Are DLers so old and out of touch that they are frozen in a time when being gay was synonymous with anal sexual?

by Anonymousreply 52August 1, 2021 4:17 PM

"To fuck is fine, but a blowjob's divine."

by Anonymousreply 53August 1, 2021 4:19 PM

R51 He's so thin

by Anonymousreply 54August 1, 2021 4:24 PM

It's pretty funny when DL's celibates opine and make statements on gay male sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 55August 1, 2021 4:40 PM

^How do you know who's celibate and who isn't?

by Anonymousreply 56August 1, 2021 5:48 PM

Wentworth has posted about cruising for sex and posted a lot of naked guys on his Instagram. He definitely fucks.

by Anonymousreply 57August 2, 2021 1:49 AM

R57 proof?

by Anonymousreply 58August 2, 2021 2:55 AM

"What?? You can't say something like that and leave it there with no context or evidence!!"

It's called a joke

by Anonymousreply 59August 2, 2021 2:59 AM

R57 I suppose so, too. By the way, because of these posts, over 50K f unfollowed him rapidly.lol

by Anonymousreply 60August 2, 2021 3:23 AM

But is oral sex considered "fucking"?

by Anonymousreply 61August 2, 2021 3:31 AM

A quick question! If Wentworth Miller says that cutie💕I want to do anal sex even just for once, do you actually refuse or just try out?

by Anonymousreply 62August 2, 2021 7:00 AM

R51 prettier than her

by Anonymousreply 63August 2, 2021 7:20 AM

He is gay and my friend (a bottom by nature) topped him. Wentworth is a power bottom by nature, unfortunately.

by Anonymousreply 64August 2, 2021 7:23 AM

legit?

by Anonymousreply 65August 2, 2021 10:33 AM

Ok, OP even if your title is true, so what? He has a right to fuck whoever he wants. What's that got to do with the price of tea in China?

by Anonymousreply 66August 2, 2021 1:18 PM

R64 Your friend isn't real, he's a top.

by Anonymousreply 67August 2, 2021 6:27 PM

Anyone who is in the know knows that WM is a bottom. I hate to burst your bubbles, but believe what you will.

by Anonymousreply 68August 3, 2021 3:06 AM

So, do older men(bottoming by nature)start learning to do top?? I hear that a lot.

by Anonymousreply 69August 3, 2021 4:50 AM

People are star fuckers in LA. They will do what they need to.

by Anonymousreply 70August 3, 2021 5:23 AM

R68 Can you imagine he rides LM? never

by Anonymousreply 71August 3, 2021 6:38 AM

I got a newsflash for some of y'all. Regardless of what someone says, very few men engaging in M2M sex have never bottomed.

And for those of you obsessed with bi and married men, it's been my experience that they're the main ones looking to get fucked.

So that "Top" who makes your toes curl, chances are somebody leaked in his ass, and will do so again at some point.

The distinctions you're making about who's a "real man" based on who has taken cock up the ass are fantasy.

I've never understood the gay community's shunning of bottoms. Y'all need to stop that. It's not reality.

by Anonymousreply 72August 3, 2021 7:32 AM

I don't like anal sex, I'm more into kissing and touching.

by Anonymousreply 73August 3, 2021 8:13 AM

[quote] Some sources have said that he doesn't top or bottom. Like how!?

I'm so gay and I'm a cocksucker, period.

I've started threads about being bothered that everyone goes straight to "top or bottom?"

Too messy, too much prep work, too smelly. Not into it. You need to broaden your gay horizons and realize not everyone is into butt, and butt fucking is not what defines a person as gay.

by Anonymousreply 74August 3, 2021 8:19 AM

He might not have fucked before going to Hollywood

by Anonymousreply 75August 3, 2021 12:05 PM

R74

But that makes you an oral bottom.

by Anonymousreply 76August 3, 2021 12:08 PM

[quote]Wentworth Miller gives me "I'm 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" pornstar vibes.

Somehow I doubt he even gives you a passing thought OP, much less anything else.

by Anonymousreply 77August 3, 2021 12:08 PM

He has been very gay since he was 5 and has basically done anal fuck and bottom. Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 78August 3, 2021 9:51 PM

^He was a flaming homo the minute he emerged from the womb and locked his lips around the phallus of a hospital orderly when he was 10 seconds old.

by Anonymousreply 79August 3, 2021 9:59 PM

Yes. He is a prodigy and a genius as gay. Thanks.

by Anonymousreply 80August 3, 2021 10:16 PM

R79 you gross

by Anonymousreply 81August 4, 2021 12:34 AM

R79 I know Wentworth. He told me that her mother umbilical fluid is of rainbow color. When he came out of her mama womb, he sang "I'm coming out" by Diana Ross.

by Anonymousreply 82August 4, 2021 5:44 AM

He's a raging homo, licking his lips at every bulge in the room! He only thinks about women when he's "acting" or lunching with mommy.

by Anonymousreply 83August 4, 2021 6:38 AM

My recent fav quote is definitely 'positive reviews are blowjobs' by Wentworth.

by Anonymousreply 84August 8, 2021 11:59 PM

Nobody knows what WM thinks about anal, but everyone's treating some DL rumors (ie, likely lies) as gospel.

by Anonymousreply 85August 9, 2021 12:01 AM

Love Love him! I'll do anything for him whenever and wherever he likes!

by Anonymousreply 86August 9, 2021 12:25 AM

Sorry r84, but that's "Positive reviews become blowjobs"

by Anonymousreply 87August 9, 2021 4:15 AM

What's there for you by knowing whether he does anal, top or bottom? There's no chance you'll have sex with him though.

by Anonymousreply 88August 23, 2021 1:12 PM

I'm not into anal. But I've had pussy. Pussy is pretty amazing, I must say.

by Anonymousreply 89August 23, 2021 1:31 PM

I guess he has never got any pussy and this is not so common even for gay men

by Anonymousreply 90August 23, 2021 7:27 PM

R90 how do you know that?

by Anonymousreply 91August 23, 2021 7:28 PM

The personality test that I took the other day says that I'm an intuitive type

by Anonymousreply 92August 23, 2021 7:34 PM

Who's this? He really prefers good-looking young guys.

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by Anonymousreply 93September 2, 2021 5:44 AM

He needs his ass pound constantly. I guess just one BF cannot satisfy him.

by Anonymousreply 94September 2, 2021 5:54 AM

who??!

by Anonymousreply 95September 2, 2021 7:05 AM

[quote] He really prefers good-looking young guys.

I've never met a gay man who doesn't.

by Anonymousreply 96September 2, 2021 11:32 AM

[quote]But that makes you an oral bottom.

There is no such thing as "oral top" or "oral bottom". If there is then straight guys who go down on chicks are "bottoms"

by Anonymousreply 97September 2, 2021 12:01 PM

Oral tops only receive blowjobs, never give them

by Anonymousreply 98September 2, 2021 12:03 PM

R96

I hardly see cute gay couples.

by Anonymousreply 99September 2, 2021 12:04 PM

R99 Get an Instagram account and type "gay" or "LGBT" in your bio/profile. All Instagram will recommend to you is Instahos, Instaho couples and drag queens.

by Anonymousreply 100September 2, 2021 12:22 PM

Anal shmanel.

by Anonymousreply 101September 2, 2021 12:38 PM

so who R93??!

by Anonymousreply 102September 2, 2021 12:55 PM

That's such a classy statement. Wtf

by Anonymousreply 103September 2, 2021 4:22 PM

I'm a straight girl (and like him). Why are you gays obsessed with sex positions and bi suspicions of gay celebs? I've been wondering.

by Anonymousreply 104September 5, 2021 11:56 AM

R104 you will know darling, you were a gay man before you decided to identify yourself as a straight woman..

by Anonymousreply 105September 5, 2021 12:06 PM

??????

by Anonymousreply 106September 5, 2021 12:11 PM

Those things of them are important to you, aren't they?

by Anonymousreply 107September 5, 2021 12:14 PM

Exactly, R104. I'm a gay guy and I wonder the same.

Fifteen years ago, I was 'obsessed' (not really, but interested in) with Anderson Cooper'a glass closet because I found it strange and somewhat offensive, and later I became 'obsessed' with Aaron Schock—onetime sluttiest gay of DC, while closeted and trying to pass antigay legislation as a congressman—being exposed for his hypocrisy. Other than that, I don't care who is gay or bi or what they like to do in bed (or elsewhere).

Who cares?

Well, gay men do, evidently.

I feel like it's probably a remnant of the days when being gay was taboo, this thing about sniffing out people's secrets. (I hope so.)

There's also the fact that 95 percent of gay porn scenarios involve either two straight guys having sex or one gay guy coercing a straight guy into having sec through temptation, blackmail or some other threat. I find the prevalence of this in gay sex media disturbing—I want to see two guys who are into one another having sex, not coercion, but these scenes are rare—and I don't understand why gay men want to watch this more than anything. I would blame the porn production companies but message boards like this one show that gay guys remain obsessed with gay-vs-straight shit in a disturbing way. On these anonymous boards:

—Gay guys typically mock and judge and sometimes condemn effeminate gay men.

—Gay guys here are always trying to prove any attractive male celebrity is gay.

—Gay guys tend to attack attractive gay celebrities here (take your pick: Wentworth Miller, Cheyenne Jackson, Anderson Cooper, Don Lemon, et al.) while lusting after attractive straight celebrities and suggesting or wishing they are secretly gay.

—And yet, despite lusting after straight male celebs (and suggesting they are probably secretly gay), gay guys here who are obsessed with porn insist straight guys who do gay porn are actually gay, and hate especially the porn stars who say they are straight and also do hetero porn, seeming to view them as traitors of some sort.

It's really mixed up.

I feel like gay men internalize the hatred foisted upon us during adolescence and grow up to secretly detest gay-acting gay men and covet the straight men who abused us—always evident on these message boards.

It makes me sad because it makes me feel like the psychological damage done to gay men from an early age sets in deeply and will never wane. So many gay men are repulsed by stereotypically gay men. (Most of us are stereotypically gay, whether we think we could 'pass' or not.) I'm sure part of it is just that pesky you-want-what-you-can't-have thing but part of it is a lot more complicated than that: it's being afraid of who you are and wanting to manipulate someone who doesn't want you into wanting you.

by Anonymousreply 108September 5, 2021 12:14 PM

Seems like a light treatise....

'—Gay guys here are always trying to prove any attractive male celebrity is gay. —Gay guys tend to attack attractive gay celebrities here (take your pick: Wentworth Miller, Cheyenne Jackson, Anderson Cooper, Don Lemon, et al.) while lusting after attractive straight celebrities and suggesting or wishing they are secretly gay.'

These two tendencies have really confused me and made me incomprehensible. But somehow I understood, and there're still questions about sex positions.

by Anonymousreply 109September 5, 2021 12:55 PM

It’s annoying and pathetic

by Anonymousreply 110September 5, 2021 1:05 PM

Really op? Because he gives me, “I haven’t worked in decades so I sell my ass to pay the bills” vibes. He hasn’t had a steady income since his little Fox show which was NOT paying a no-name actor big bucks for its flash in the pan rise and fall.

by Anonymousreply 111September 5, 2021 1:55 PM

R111 He is 50 and balding. I don't think the option of "selling ass" is still on the table for him.

by Anonymousreply 112September 5, 2021 2:45 PM

On one of the Richard Armitage/Lee Pace threads, there was a poster who insisted they didn't do anal because their relationship was "more spiritual" than that. I don't think I've ever seen a post on Datalounge that read more obviously as a middle aged housewife.

by Anonymousreply 113September 5, 2021 4:30 PM

Wentworth has been receiving royalties on PB? Does he have stocks?

by Anonymousreply 114September 5, 2021 4:38 PM

Not bald yet!

by Anonymousreply 115September 7, 2021 1:09 AM

So do I understand technically Wenty is a 'side'?

by Anonymousreply 116September 7, 2021 1:18 AM

He gives me "I'm gay and like sucking and taking big dick" vibes. Some of the posters here are either ignorant straight women or self-hating gays who think every gay men must be a femmy queen. There's nothing wrong with being effeminate but not every gay person is.

by Anonymousreply 117September 7, 2021 1:27 AM

Anyone else have a chance to read his latest script off scribd?

by Anonymousreply 118September 7, 2021 2:20 AM

R117 His ex boyfriends have full of negative vibes, giving wise.

R118 I wouldn't read "Necksnappers". To be honest, even if this is a masterpiece, his writing style isn't so much my taste.

by Anonymousreply 119September 7, 2021 5:17 AM

I mean, I'm not one of those DLers, who think every hot Hollywood actor or every attention-seeking twink is gay. But Wentworth Miller is gay, he came out ages ago (by saying so, not by "hinting" or wearing a scarf) and obviously had some problems coming to terms with his sexuality. He's troubled in general, but that doesn't make him not gay lol.

R117 Yes.

by Anonymousreply 120September 7, 2021 5:32 AM

"Im 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" seems to be the default of most 'gays' these days. Gross.

by Anonymousreply 121September 7, 2021 7:59 AM

Tyron Leitso was the best

by Anonymousreply 122September 7, 2021 8:25 AM

I never knew he was born in the UK and is mixed race. What he does or doesn't like in sex is irrelevant, and about as irrelevant as those two facts.

by Anonymousreply 123September 7, 2021 11:12 AM

R122 🖕

by Anonymousreply 124September 7, 2021 4:31 PM

R98 That's called a guy who never gets a blowjob from the same guy twice! 😂

by Anonymousreply 125September 14, 2021 12:27 PM

R112 I saw him on Law and Order SVU recently. He's still cute, but he is nothing like he was. I almost didn't recognize him. He has aged considerably. He aint selling no ass. LOL

by Anonymousreply 126September 14, 2021 12:32 PM

Do older guys still identify as tops and bottoms? Elder gays?

by Anonymousreply 127September 14, 2021 12:36 PM

R121 No, it's not. As stigma around homosexuality lessens, fewer gay men are having heterosexual sex. Learn to differentiate normal gay men from the handful of washedup hookers you follow on OnlyFans.

by Anonymousreply 128September 14, 2021 11:49 PM

R126 Wentworth god more gray hairs and they have almost spoiled his youthful looks!

by Anonymousreply 129September 15, 2021 10:28 AM

R129 I'd say Wenty is still way above average in the looks department, especially for his age, but the "youthful" looks are gone! He's definitely entered the DZaddy stage. His eyes are beautiful and he is still fit, I just need him to grow some hair on his face.

by Anonymousreply 130September 15, 2021 11:05 AM

Nevertheless, he badly needs tops?

by Anonymousreply 131September 15, 2021 11:53 AM

Go ahead and "Mary!" me for this, but Miller had major struggles with coming out in the first place (likely due in part to stigma among black families), and he later said that he has depression and has had suicidal thoughts relating to his appearance and his body. He seems to have some kind of dysmorphia. I know people here doubt this, but the guy is incredibly handsome and he almost never posts pictures of himself to his Instagram account, which is bypassing a promotional opportunities I'm sure his agent would like him to take advantage of. I believe the guy is tormented by personal issues and I think it's pretty shitty to dissect his appearance on a forum like this. I don't understand why people are compelled to do it.

by Anonymousreply 132September 15, 2021 12:10 PM

Has coming out cost him work?

by Anonymousreply 133September 15, 2021 12:15 PM

What made he quit Instagram?

by Anonymousreply 134September 15, 2021 12:48 PM

R132 Nobody said anything bad about Miller. In fact, everyone said he looks good. Is it about him getting older. Honey he knows he's old. Calm down. He put his sexuality out there - and even if he didn't do you think his name would not come up on DL?

by Anonymousreply 135September 15, 2021 4:06 PM

he can’t beat Bomer

by Anonymousreply 136September 16, 2021 12:02 AM

I dated a guy, who I'm pretty sure was autistic. He was obsessed with gardening and fantasy books. Anyways, he insisted that he would never do anal because "it looks like it hurts." Like I would've respected it if he said "I like being dominant" or something else, but the wimpy/whiney answer was disappointing, especially cause im vers. We never fucked but he gave blowjobs like a CHAMP. So I think it might be the same with Went, he is scared of being uncomfortable and likes being in his box. He probably has a hard time getting hard for sex anyways because of performance anxiety.

by Anonymousreply 137September 16, 2021 12:29 AM

he's without a doubt a pain in the butt

by Anonymousreply 138September 16, 2021 1:05 AM

It's far from impossible to be gay and not into anal sex.

by Anonymousreply 139September 16, 2021 1:20 AM

R137

He has sex. I do remember, he has actually touched on that on FB. just so that you won't be misunderstood.

by Anonymousreply 140September 21, 2021 7:50 AM

A lot of people in the industry have many types of mental disorders. The arts attract people who feel they can't fit into conventional society. Wentworth is high-functioning and is successful but that doesn't stop the self-loathing and depression that comes from being autistic because the disconnect from others is very frustrating. Like you have empathy but you don't understand things at the moment and have a completely different process which makes socializing taxing. You say the wrong things or don't react properly and offend others. It's very traumatizing for a young child because it results in harsh criticism and bullying. That insecurity carries over into adulthood hence why many develop a monotone voice or won't speak at all. I get the vibe Tom Cruise is autistic too, he's always socially awkward and twitchy in interviews and he forces himself to smile and laugh, he can transform himself on screen though with Hollywood magic. In general, good looks can make autism much more bearable but the depression, frustraton, anxiety and self-loathing is still there.

by Anonymousreply 141November 1, 2021 11:31 PM

Not all gay men are into anal sex. They're still gay.

by Anonymousreply 142November 1, 2021 11:34 PM

true! But as for Wentworth, he does. I'm amazed that he keeps a lot of fans even though he has often taken time off work long term. It's really a shame!

by Anonymousreply 143November 2, 2021 5:53 AM

[quote] Not all gay men are into anal sex. They're still gay.

Apparently straight people associate gayness with anal sex. It disgusts straight men yet fascinates straight women. Young straight girls can be annoying with using phrases like "he's such a top" and "bottom energy". And of course, straight people can have multiple sexual acts and not be defined by the missionary position.

by Anonymousreply 144November 2, 2021 5:21 PM

Maybe Wentworth has got the 'rrhoids now that he's old and bottoming isn't an option for him any longer.

by Anonymousreply 145November 2, 2021 9:36 PM

Didn't his mother do an education-related job? I wonder why she didn't recognize her child had autism.

by Anonymousreply 146November 4, 2021 12:03 AM

I don't think autism was widely understood or diagnosed in the 70s and 80s when Wentworth was a kid. They just called kids "shy", "withdrawn", "late bloomers", and didn't seek them treatment. Just harsher discipline. Like avoiding eye contact, rocking back and forth or twitching would get you yelled at or slapped as a way to correct it. That of course lead to more problems. It's no wonder depression and anxiety is common in autistic people.

by Anonymousreply 147November 4, 2021 12:09 AM

R144, it's the opposite. Straight guys love anal porn. Women don't care

by Anonymousreply 148November 4, 2021 12:11 AM

R147 I see your point, but …that's at least her field of study?

by Anonymousreply 149November 4, 2021 12:37 AM

Diagnosis change over time. Many autistic people back then were underdiagnosed because autism was less understood. Even if his mother was an educator, it's not like teachers back then were trained to recognize it. It was still pretty new in the medical field. Wentworth is also clearly high functioning. It would be easy to write him off as shy and eccentric rather than having a disorder. The criteria for autism is more detailed now because of decades of research. Wentworth would have gotten an earlier diagnosis and better treatment if he was born in the '90s or 2000s.

by Anonymousreply 150November 4, 2021 12:48 AM

And to add to what I said. I think he was diagnosed with depression. His mom even though she was a teacher for special needs would still be a product of the training she received. A high functioning autistic man could just be written off as introverted and depressed. He's clearly very intelligent too. A lot of people born before the 90s were underdiagnosed.

by Anonymousreply 151November 4, 2021 12:53 AM

I don't think Wentworth is an attention whore. No one can lose himself if he suffers from a mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 152November 4, 2021 2:35 AM

He's just a quiet guy who likes to have lunch with his mother. I get a gay versatile vibe from him. I don't think he fucks women and/or pornstars.

by Anonymousreply 153November 4, 2021 1:27 PM

I have always seen him as a vers gay man.

by Anonymousreply 154November 5, 2021 2:36 PM

He's attractive (lacks only dirty vibes though😖), people are drawn to him. Even if he becomes an old geezer and old fogie, he must just get young/elderly gay guys a lot! Won't it make you so jelly, R145?

by Anonymousreply 155November 7, 2021 2:36 AM

Autism is a terrible disorder

by Anonymousreply 156November 7, 2021 2:38 AM

He's an introvert who dealt with depression and anxiety and said he's on the spectrum. It's believable he doesn't live a promiscuous lifestyle. But he's good looking enough that he's had tons of guys proposition him that I'm sure he's also very experienced.

by Anonymousreply 157November 7, 2021 2:12 PM

While I don't believe the title to be true, so what if it is?

Is there some law that says a gay man cannot fuck women or pornstars?

FYI there are men who identify as gay (not bisexual) who actually have children.

I say, so what?

by Anonymousreply 158November 7, 2021 2:26 PM

He's probably lost count of the number of guys he's had sex with.

by Anonymousreply 159November 7, 2021 8:13 PM

I'd love to meet him.

by Anonymousreply 160November 8, 2021 12:25 AM

He's very handsome. I am sure lots of me would gladly top or bottom for him.

by Anonymousreply 161November 8, 2021 7:34 AM

How does he spend his time these days?

by Anonymousreply 162January 19, 2022 3:18 PM

A meager acting talent who apparently has a first-class mind. He should have done something else.

by Anonymousreply 163March 14, 2023 7:19 PM

He probably just gives and receives head. Some gays are like that especially if they are OCD. I know it’s rare and weird but they do exist. He is so hot and nerdy. I would wife up his autistic ass.

by Anonymousreply 164March 14, 2023 7:28 PM

[quote] A high functioning autistic man could just be written off as introverted and depressed. He's clearly very intelligent too. A lot of people born before the 90s were underdiagnosed.

Yes, depression is often handwaved as a diagnosis not a symptom of a larger issue.

It happened to me. I was born in the early-mid 90s, and was written off young as just a weird avoidant moody loner kid, then diagnosed with 'depression of unspecified cause' and AvPd in highschool and College, then spent years in a miserable spiral until C0VID, when I decided to seek more answers and go to proper psychs instead of just shitty therapists & doctors.

Now I have an ASD diagnosis, and things are starting to make more sense. Of course, it's disheartening in a way, too, as ASD has no cure and there's little to be done about it remedially, but it does feel way less lonely and somewhat less hopeless when you know what's going on with you, because you can connect with others and take practical advice from them on how to cope.

by Anonymousreply 165March 14, 2023 8:23 PM

As usual I'm the weird one, I need anal and really don't like sucking a dick for very long, stick me or dick me! And I will hardly kiss unless I get drunk, even then there's a limit, neither do I want your snake tongue down my throat.

by Anonymousreply 166March 14, 2023 9:08 PM
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