Some sources have said that he doesn't top or bottom. Like how!? And now he's "autistic"? IMO he just seems like an attention whore, darlin'.
Wentworth Miller gives me "I'm 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" pornstar vibes.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | March 14, 2023 9:08 PM |
Is this how attention hoes seek attention? I only hear from him once in a blue moon.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | July 29, 2021 5:58 PM |
What sources are claiming he's not a bottom?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | July 29, 2021 6:01 PM |
Shocking news flash— one can be gay and not into anal.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | July 29, 2021 6:07 PM |
OP is the no one is gay everyone is really bi troll.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | July 29, 2021 6:08 PM |
R1 he's a lowkey attention hoe. The fact that he disappears into his introvert world for half a decade with no new projects on the horizon makes this even more likely. He has to drum interest in his CV somehow..
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 29, 2021 6:10 PM |
Quite a few posters in the Wenty is Autistic thread say that he doesn't do anal R2
R3 the only "gay" men that never want to do anal are straightish guys fetishizing gay sex
by Anonymous | reply 6 | July 29, 2021 6:12 PM |
Eyeroll R4 that's not what I said in that thread. I was saying that bis outnumber gold star gays through sheer population numbers.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 29, 2021 6:16 PM |
OP since this has all happened entirely in your head, you may want to try posting this fanfiction on AO3.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 29, 2021 6:18 PM |
What self-respecting gay man doesn't do anal?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | July 29, 2021 6:25 PM |
R8 Whatever, Wenty
R9 is the only sane gay in this thread
by Anonymous | reply 10 | July 29, 2021 6:26 PM |
[quote] Wentworth Miller gives me "I'm 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" pornstar vibes. Some sources have said that he doesn't top or bottom. Like how!? And now he's "autistic"? IMO he just seems like an attention whore, darlin'.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | July 29, 2021 6:30 PM |
He seems asexual.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | July 29, 2021 6:36 PM |
Seems to me the only people who would insist that in order to be gay you MUST like anal are the straights who are obsessed with “gay butt stuff.” No real gay man would demand that every gay have the same sexual tastes. That’s some frau bullshit right there.
There’s more to identifying as gay than anal sex. I’m 100% gay, never been with a woman, never ever will, but anal isn’t my thing. Neither giving nor receiving. What a dull sex partner these “gay = anal” people must be. More frau bullshit.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 29, 2021 6:37 PM |
He's a cocksucker!
by Anonymous | reply 14 | July 29, 2021 6:40 PM |
Same here, R13. My partner and I have been together nearly 20 years and have never done anal. Turns us both off. Unlike oral, which is a MAJOR turn-on.
To each his own. (And there are more oral-only guys out there than you think.)
by Anonymous | reply 15 | July 29, 2021 6:42 PM |
R13 R15 You must be unicorns because I just asked some of my whore friends if they've ever been with someone who didn't do anal and they all said no, never.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | July 29, 2021 6:55 PM |
Well, there are whores and there are regular people living their lives. Your sampling of whores in your realm of analville does not a scientific study make, statistically speaking.
But, whatever. Define yourself as you wish.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | July 29, 2021 7:04 PM |
Never believe Michael got butt-fucked by Scotty.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | July 31, 2021 1:07 PM |
I'm gay and I don't do anal. I have in the past, but frankly, it is too much hassle, and I don't really enjoy it that much - topping or bottoming.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | July 31, 2021 1:11 PM |
so Michael did a top
by Anonymous | reply 20 | July 31, 2021 1:12 PM |
A poster in this great forum once said that he is a insatiable bottom
by Anonymous | reply 21 | July 31, 2021 1:23 PM |
Inshashiable bottom or heshitant cockshucker, let'sh give the guy a break.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | July 31, 2021 1:25 PM |
NO. Michael is at the top every time
by Anonymous | reply 23 | July 31, 2021 1:32 PM |
He is a gay Black man with autism. Why would he lie about any of that? Most of you bitches would not have known any of that had he not told you.
Did he turn down your dick or ass? A lot of guys don't do anal on hookups. It's easier to get out of it by just saying "I don't do it."
Don't be silly, of course he does anal. Only his boyfriend knows which side of anal he prefers.
Why must people know everything about a celebrity? Y'all know enough. If I was famous I wouldn't tell you people shit!
by Anonymous | reply 24 | July 31, 2021 1:32 PM |
So what? He doesn’t do anal. Would you guys turn him down because of this and I also agree with R14
by Anonymous | reply 25 | July 31, 2021 1:36 PM |
If Wentworth could fuck women, he would have done so in the beginning of his career, when he was insisting to everyone he wasn't again.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | July 31, 2021 1:36 PM |
R26 yes. I fully take sides with you
by Anonymous | reply 27 | July 31, 2021 1:52 PM |
He was already famous when he came out as gay. He did not need to do that for attention.
In fact, while some actors have had success despite being openly gay in Hollywood, it's STILL not a selling point on a resume.
If homosexuality was a benefit most of Hollywood would not still be in the closet.
Gays are always whining about famous people not having the "courage" to be out and then when they do come out, somehow that is still not enough?
He doesn't wanna have anal sex with you. Leave this man alone and let him live his gay life. Enjoy his art.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | July 31, 2021 1:58 PM |
He seems asexual like a Ken doll. So not surprising he neither tops nor bottoms.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | July 31, 2021 2:06 PM |
Many gay men today don’t do anal. It’s a growing reality
by Anonymous | reply 30 | July 31, 2021 2:29 PM |
He seems like a control freak, and he went out with a sissy who was nearly 10 years younger. Nothing can stop me to assert he does top.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | July 31, 2021 3:19 PM |
R30
For what reason don't they do?
by Anonymous | reply 32 | July 31, 2021 3:31 PM |
And the OP apparently is Wenty's press agent.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | July 31, 2021 4:32 PM |
his face's bottom-ish
by Anonymous | reply 34 | July 31, 2021 5:28 PM |
I happen to know for a fact that everyone's favorite model, Justin Clynes, also does not do anal. So there ya go.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | July 31, 2021 6:18 PM |
R6, straight guys don't fetishize gay sex.
Most straight guys would rather die than have people think they're gay, even the liberal ones. The idea that he's just pretending to be gay is fucking hysterical
by Anonymous | reply 38 | July 31, 2021 6:22 PM |
Precisely. Who are these loons claiming straight dude are pretending to be gay for clout
by Anonymous | reply 39 | July 31, 2021 7:04 PM |
I assume he means he doesn’t like anal sex. It’s all about cocksucking, both receptive and giving, for him.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | July 31, 2021 7:12 PM |
Anal sex works well for casting couch. They are in an insane industry.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | August 1, 2021 1:56 AM |
R21
Is that a "Craving bottom" poster? I can't quite understand what he means
by Anonymous | reply 42 | August 1, 2021 6:48 AM |
He’s straight and absolutely adores pussy
by Anonymous | reply 43 | August 1, 2021 6:55 AM |
R43 What?? You can't say something like that and leave it there with no context or evidence!!
by Anonymous | reply 44 | August 1, 2021 2:28 PM |
He loves men but does he have a type?
by Anonymous | reply 45 | August 1, 2021 2:50 PM |
In spite of that ass, his partner can't stand anal sex.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | August 1, 2021 3:21 PM |
I refuse to do anal.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | August 1, 2021 3:30 PM |
That's totally fine!
by Anonymous | reply 49 | August 1, 2021 3:42 PM |
OP, I'm gay, but have only rarely topped or bottomed. Anal sex just isn't my thing, sorry.
I'm very oral and handsy though. And I've had a TON of gay sex. Probably only fucked a dozen times, and got fucked half a dozen.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | August 1, 2021 3:55 PM |
It’s common. Are DLers so old and out of touch that they are frozen in a time when being gay was synonymous with anal sexual?
by Anonymous | reply 52 | August 1, 2021 4:17 PM |
"To fuck is fine, but a blowjob's divine."
by Anonymous | reply 53 | August 1, 2021 4:19 PM |
R51 He's so thin
by Anonymous | reply 54 | August 1, 2021 4:24 PM |
It's pretty funny when DL's celibates opine and make statements on gay male sexuality.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | August 1, 2021 4:40 PM |
^How do you know who's celibate and who isn't?
by Anonymous | reply 56 | August 1, 2021 5:48 PM |
Wentworth has posted about cruising for sex and posted a lot of naked guys on his Instagram. He definitely fucks.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | August 2, 2021 1:49 AM |
R57 proof?
by Anonymous | reply 58 | August 2, 2021 2:55 AM |
"What?? You can't say something like that and leave it there with no context or evidence!!"
It's called a joke
by Anonymous | reply 59 | August 2, 2021 2:59 AM |
R57 I suppose so, too. By the way, because of these posts, over 50K f unfollowed him rapidly.lol
by Anonymous | reply 60 | August 2, 2021 3:23 AM |
But is oral sex considered "fucking"?
by Anonymous | reply 61 | August 2, 2021 3:31 AM |
A quick question! If Wentworth Miller says that cutie💕I want to do anal sex even just for once, do you actually refuse or just try out?
by Anonymous | reply 62 | August 2, 2021 7:00 AM |
R51 prettier than her
by Anonymous | reply 63 | August 2, 2021 7:20 AM |
He is gay and my friend (a bottom by nature) topped him. Wentworth is a power bottom by nature, unfortunately.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | August 2, 2021 7:23 AM |
legit?
by Anonymous | reply 65 | August 2, 2021 10:33 AM |
Ok, OP even if your title is true, so what? He has a right to fuck whoever he wants. What's that got to do with the price of tea in China?
by Anonymous | reply 66 | August 2, 2021 1:18 PM |
R64 Your friend isn't real, he's a top.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | August 2, 2021 6:27 PM |
Anyone who is in the know knows that WM is a bottom. I hate to burst your bubbles, but believe what you will.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | August 3, 2021 3:06 AM |
So, do older men(bottoming by nature)start learning to do top?? I hear that a lot.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | August 3, 2021 4:50 AM |
People are star fuckers in LA. They will do what they need to.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | August 3, 2021 5:23 AM |
R68 Can you imagine he rides LM? never
by Anonymous | reply 71 | August 3, 2021 6:38 AM |
I got a newsflash for some of y'all. Regardless of what someone says, very few men engaging in M2M sex have never bottomed.
And for those of you obsessed with bi and married men, it's been my experience that they're the main ones looking to get fucked.
So that "Top" who makes your toes curl, chances are somebody leaked in his ass, and will do so again at some point.
The distinctions you're making about who's a "real man" based on who has taken cock up the ass are fantasy.
I've never understood the gay community's shunning of bottoms. Y'all need to stop that. It's not reality.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | August 3, 2021 7:32 AM |
I don't like anal sex, I'm more into kissing and touching.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | August 3, 2021 8:13 AM |
[quote] Some sources have said that he doesn't top or bottom. Like how!?
I'm so gay and I'm a cocksucker, period.
I've started threads about being bothered that everyone goes straight to "top or bottom?"
Too messy, too much prep work, too smelly. Not into it. You need to broaden your gay horizons and realize not everyone is into butt, and butt fucking is not what defines a person as gay.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | August 3, 2021 8:19 AM |
He might not have fucked before going to Hollywood
by Anonymous | reply 75 | August 3, 2021 12:05 PM |
R74
But that makes you an oral bottom.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | August 3, 2021 12:08 PM |
[quote]Wentworth Miller gives me "I'm 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" pornstar vibes.
Somehow I doubt he even gives you a passing thought OP, much less anything else.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | August 3, 2021 12:08 PM |
He has been very gay since he was 5 and has basically done anal fuck and bottom. Thank you.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | August 3, 2021 9:51 PM |
^He was a flaming homo the minute he emerged from the womb and locked his lips around the phallus of a hospital orderly when he was 10 seconds old.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | August 3, 2021 9:59 PM |
Yes. He is a prodigy and a genius as gay. Thanks.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | August 3, 2021 10:16 PM |
R79 you gross
by Anonymous | reply 81 | August 4, 2021 12:34 AM |
R79 I know Wentworth. He told me that her mother umbilical fluid is of rainbow color. When he came out of her mama womb, he sang "I'm coming out" by Diana Ross.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | August 4, 2021 5:44 AM |
He's a raging homo, licking his lips at every bulge in the room! He only thinks about women when he's "acting" or lunching with mommy.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | August 4, 2021 6:38 AM |
My recent fav quote is definitely 'positive reviews are blowjobs' by Wentworth.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | August 8, 2021 11:59 PM |
Nobody knows what WM thinks about anal, but everyone's treating some DL rumors (ie, likely lies) as gospel.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | August 9, 2021 12:01 AM |
Love Love him! I'll do anything for him whenever and wherever he likes!
by Anonymous | reply 86 | August 9, 2021 12:25 AM |
Sorry r84, but that's "Positive reviews become blowjobs"
by Anonymous | reply 87 | August 9, 2021 4:15 AM |
What's there for you by knowing whether he does anal, top or bottom? There's no chance you'll have sex with him though.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | August 23, 2021 1:12 PM |
I'm not into anal. But I've had pussy. Pussy is pretty amazing, I must say.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | August 23, 2021 1:31 PM |
I guess he has never got any pussy and this is not so common even for gay men
by Anonymous | reply 90 | August 23, 2021 7:27 PM |
R90 how do you know that?
by Anonymous | reply 91 | August 23, 2021 7:28 PM |
The personality test that I took the other day says that I'm an intuitive type
by Anonymous | reply 92 | August 23, 2021 7:34 PM |
Who's this? He really prefers good-looking young guys.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | September 2, 2021 5:44 AM |
He needs his ass pound constantly. I guess just one BF cannot satisfy him.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | September 2, 2021 5:54 AM |
who??!
by Anonymous | reply 95 | September 2, 2021 7:05 AM |
[quote] He really prefers good-looking young guys.
I've never met a gay man who doesn't.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | September 2, 2021 11:32 AM |
[quote]But that makes you an oral bottom.
There is no such thing as "oral top" or "oral bottom". If there is then straight guys who go down on chicks are "bottoms"
by Anonymous | reply 97 | September 2, 2021 12:01 PM |
Oral tops only receive blowjobs, never give them
by Anonymous | reply 98 | September 2, 2021 12:03 PM |
R96
I hardly see cute gay couples.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | September 2, 2021 12:04 PM |
R99 Get an Instagram account and type "gay" or "LGBT" in your bio/profile. All Instagram will recommend to you is Instahos, Instaho couples and drag queens.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | September 2, 2021 12:22 PM |
Anal shmanel.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | September 2, 2021 12:38 PM |
so who R93??!
by Anonymous | reply 102 | September 2, 2021 12:55 PM |
That's such a classy statement. Wtf
by Anonymous | reply 103 | September 2, 2021 4:22 PM |
I'm a straight girl (and like him). Why are you gays obsessed with sex positions and bi suspicions of gay celebs? I've been wondering.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | September 5, 2021 11:56 AM |
R104 you will know darling, you were a gay man before you decided to identify yourself as a straight woman..
by Anonymous | reply 105 | September 5, 2021 12:06 PM |
??????
by Anonymous | reply 106 | September 5, 2021 12:11 PM |
Those things of them are important to you, aren't they?
by Anonymous | reply 107 | September 5, 2021 12:14 PM |
Exactly, R104. I'm a gay guy and I wonder the same.
Fifteen years ago, I was 'obsessed' (not really, but interested in) with Anderson Cooper'a glass closet because I found it strange and somewhat offensive, and later I became 'obsessed' with Aaron Schock—onetime sluttiest gay of DC, while closeted and trying to pass antigay legislation as a congressman—being exposed for his hypocrisy. Other than that, I don't care who is gay or bi or what they like to do in bed (or elsewhere).
Who cares?
Well, gay men do, evidently.
I feel like it's probably a remnant of the days when being gay was taboo, this thing about sniffing out people's secrets. (I hope so.)
There's also the fact that 95 percent of gay porn scenarios involve either two straight guys having sex or one gay guy coercing a straight guy into having sec through temptation, blackmail or some other threat. I find the prevalence of this in gay sex media disturbing—I want to see two guys who are into one another having sex, not coercion, but these scenes are rare—and I don't understand why gay men want to watch this more than anything. I would blame the porn production companies but message boards like this one show that gay guys remain obsessed with gay-vs-straight shit in a disturbing way. On these anonymous boards:
—Gay guys typically mock and judge and sometimes condemn effeminate gay men.
—Gay guys here are always trying to prove any attractive male celebrity is gay.
—Gay guys tend to attack attractive gay celebrities here (take your pick: Wentworth Miller, Cheyenne Jackson, Anderson Cooper, Don Lemon, et al.) while lusting after attractive straight celebrities and suggesting or wishing they are secretly gay.
—And yet, despite lusting after straight male celebs (and suggesting they are probably secretly gay), gay guys here who are obsessed with porn insist straight guys who do gay porn are actually gay, and hate especially the porn stars who say they are straight and also do hetero porn, seeming to view them as traitors of some sort.
It's really mixed up.
I feel like gay men internalize the hatred foisted upon us during adolescence and grow up to secretly detest gay-acting gay men and covet the straight men who abused us—always evident on these message boards.
It makes me sad because it makes me feel like the psychological damage done to gay men from an early age sets in deeply and will never wane. So many gay men are repulsed by stereotypically gay men. (Most of us are stereotypically gay, whether we think we could 'pass' or not.) I'm sure part of it is just that pesky you-want-what-you-can't-have thing but part of it is a lot more complicated than that: it's being afraid of who you are and wanting to manipulate someone who doesn't want you into wanting you.
by Anonymous | reply 108 | September 5, 2021 12:14 PM |
Seems like a light treatise....
'—Gay guys here are always trying to prove any attractive male celebrity is gay. —Gay guys tend to attack attractive gay celebrities here (take your pick: Wentworth Miller, Cheyenne Jackson, Anderson Cooper, Don Lemon, et al.) while lusting after attractive straight celebrities and suggesting or wishing they are secretly gay.'
These two tendencies have really confused me and made me incomprehensible. But somehow I understood, and there're still questions about sex positions.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | September 5, 2021 12:55 PM |
It’s annoying and pathetic
by Anonymous | reply 110 | September 5, 2021 1:05 PM |
Really op? Because he gives me, “I haven’t worked in decades so I sell my ass to pay the bills” vibes. He hasn’t had a steady income since his little Fox show which was NOT paying a no-name actor big bucks for its flash in the pan rise and fall.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | September 5, 2021 1:55 PM |
R111 He is 50 and balding. I don't think the option of "selling ass" is still on the table for him.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | September 5, 2021 2:45 PM |
On one of the Richard Armitage/Lee Pace threads, there was a poster who insisted they didn't do anal because their relationship was "more spiritual" than that. I don't think I've ever seen a post on Datalounge that read more obviously as a middle aged housewife.
by Anonymous | reply 113 | September 5, 2021 4:30 PM |
Wentworth has been receiving royalties on PB? Does he have stocks?
by Anonymous | reply 114 | September 5, 2021 4:38 PM |
Not bald yet!
by Anonymous | reply 115 | September 7, 2021 1:09 AM |
So do I understand technically Wenty is a 'side'?
by Anonymous | reply 116 | September 7, 2021 1:18 AM |
He gives me "I'm gay and like sucking and taking big dick" vibes. Some of the posters here are either ignorant straight women or self-hating gays who think every gay men must be a femmy queen. There's nothing wrong with being effeminate but not every gay person is.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | September 7, 2021 1:27 AM |
Anyone else have a chance to read his latest script off scribd?
by Anonymous | reply 118 | September 7, 2021 2:20 AM |
R117 His ex boyfriends have full of negative vibes, giving wise.
R118 I wouldn't read "Necksnappers". To be honest, even if this is a masterpiece, his writing style isn't so much my taste.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | September 7, 2021 5:17 AM |
I mean, I'm not one of those DLers, who think every hot Hollywood actor or every attention-seeking twink is gay. But Wentworth Miller is gay, he came out ages ago (by saying so, not by "hinting" or wearing a scarf) and obviously had some problems coming to terms with his sexuality. He's troubled in general, but that doesn't make him not gay lol.
R117 Yes.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | September 7, 2021 5:32 AM |
"Im 'gay' but sometimes I fuck women" seems to be the default of most 'gays' these days. Gross.
by Anonymous | reply 121 | September 7, 2021 7:59 AM |
Tyron Leitso was the best
by Anonymous | reply 122 | September 7, 2021 8:25 AM |
I never knew he was born in the UK and is mixed race. What he does or doesn't like in sex is irrelevant, and about as irrelevant as those two facts.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | September 7, 2021 11:12 AM |
R122 🖕
by Anonymous | reply 124 | September 7, 2021 4:31 PM |
R98 That's called a guy who never gets a blowjob from the same guy twice! 😂
by Anonymous | reply 125 | September 14, 2021 12:27 PM |
R112 I saw him on Law and Order SVU recently. He's still cute, but he is nothing like he was. I almost didn't recognize him. He has aged considerably. He aint selling no ass. LOL
by Anonymous | reply 126 | September 14, 2021 12:32 PM |
Do older guys still identify as tops and bottoms? Elder gays?
by Anonymous | reply 127 | September 14, 2021 12:36 PM |
R121 No, it's not. As stigma around homosexuality lessens, fewer gay men are having heterosexual sex. Learn to differentiate normal gay men from the handful of washedup hookers you follow on OnlyFans.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | September 14, 2021 11:49 PM |
R126 Wentworth god more gray hairs and they have almost spoiled his youthful looks!
by Anonymous | reply 129 | September 15, 2021 10:28 AM |
R129 I'd say Wenty is still way above average in the looks department, especially for his age, but the "youthful" looks are gone! He's definitely entered the DZaddy stage. His eyes are beautiful and he is still fit, I just need him to grow some hair on his face.
by Anonymous | reply 130 | September 15, 2021 11:05 AM |
Nevertheless, he badly needs tops?
by Anonymous | reply 131 | September 15, 2021 11:53 AM |
Go ahead and "Mary!" me for this, but Miller had major struggles with coming out in the first place (likely due in part to stigma among black families), and he later said that he has depression and has had suicidal thoughts relating to his appearance and his body. He seems to have some kind of dysmorphia. I know people here doubt this, but the guy is incredibly handsome and he almost never posts pictures of himself to his Instagram account, which is bypassing a promotional opportunities I'm sure his agent would like him to take advantage of. I believe the guy is tormented by personal issues and I think it's pretty shitty to dissect his appearance on a forum like this. I don't understand why people are compelled to do it.
by Anonymous | reply 132 | September 15, 2021 12:10 PM |
Has coming out cost him work?
by Anonymous | reply 133 | September 15, 2021 12:15 PM |
What made he quit Instagram?
by Anonymous | reply 134 | September 15, 2021 12:48 PM |
R132 Nobody said anything bad about Miller. In fact, everyone said he looks good. Is it about him getting older. Honey he knows he's old. Calm down. He put his sexuality out there - and even if he didn't do you think his name would not come up on DL?
by Anonymous | reply 135 | September 15, 2021 4:06 PM |
he can’t beat Bomer
by Anonymous | reply 136 | September 16, 2021 12:02 AM |
I dated a guy, who I'm pretty sure was autistic. He was obsessed with gardening and fantasy books. Anyways, he insisted that he would never do anal because "it looks like it hurts." Like I would've respected it if he said "I like being dominant" or something else, but the wimpy/whiney answer was disappointing, especially cause im vers. We never fucked but he gave blowjobs like a CHAMP. So I think it might be the same with Went, he is scared of being uncomfortable and likes being in his box. He probably has a hard time getting hard for sex anyways because of performance anxiety.
by Anonymous | reply 137 | September 16, 2021 12:29 AM |
he's without a doubt a pain in the butt
by Anonymous | reply 138 | September 16, 2021 1:05 AM |
It's far from impossible to be gay and not into anal sex.
by Anonymous | reply 139 | September 16, 2021 1:20 AM |
R137
He has sex. I do remember, he has actually touched on that on FB. just so that you won't be misunderstood.
by Anonymous | reply 140 | September 21, 2021 7:50 AM |
A lot of people in the industry have many types of mental disorders. The arts attract people who feel they can't fit into conventional society. Wentworth is high-functioning and is successful but that doesn't stop the self-loathing and depression that comes from being autistic because the disconnect from others is very frustrating. Like you have empathy but you don't understand things at the moment and have a completely different process which makes socializing taxing. You say the wrong things or don't react properly and offend others. It's very traumatizing for a young child because it results in harsh criticism and bullying. That insecurity carries over into adulthood hence why many develop a monotone voice or won't speak at all. I get the vibe Tom Cruise is autistic too, he's always socially awkward and twitchy in interviews and he forces himself to smile and laugh, he can transform himself on screen though with Hollywood magic. In general, good looks can make autism much more bearable but the depression, frustraton, anxiety and self-loathing is still there.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | November 1, 2021 11:31 PM |
Not all gay men are into anal sex. They're still gay.
by Anonymous | reply 142 | November 1, 2021 11:34 PM |
true! But as for Wentworth, he does. I'm amazed that he keeps a lot of fans even though he has often taken time off work long term. It's really a shame!
by Anonymous | reply 143 | November 2, 2021 5:53 AM |
[quote] Not all gay men are into anal sex. They're still gay.
Apparently straight people associate gayness with anal sex. It disgusts straight men yet fascinates straight women. Young straight girls can be annoying with using phrases like "he's such a top" and "bottom energy". And of course, straight people can have multiple sexual acts and not be defined by the missionary position.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | November 2, 2021 5:21 PM |
Maybe Wentworth has got the 'rrhoids now that he's old and bottoming isn't an option for him any longer.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | November 2, 2021 9:36 PM |
Didn't his mother do an education-related job? I wonder why she didn't recognize her child had autism.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | November 4, 2021 12:03 AM |
I don't think autism was widely understood or diagnosed in the 70s and 80s when Wentworth was a kid. They just called kids "shy", "withdrawn", "late bloomers", and didn't seek them treatment. Just harsher discipline. Like avoiding eye contact, rocking back and forth or twitching would get you yelled at or slapped as a way to correct it. That of course lead to more problems. It's no wonder depression and anxiety is common in autistic people.
by Anonymous | reply 147 | November 4, 2021 12:09 AM |
R144, it's the opposite. Straight guys love anal porn. Women don't care
by Anonymous | reply 148 | November 4, 2021 12:11 AM |
R147 I see your point, but …that's at least her field of study?
by Anonymous | reply 149 | November 4, 2021 12:37 AM |
Diagnosis change over time. Many autistic people back then were underdiagnosed because autism was less understood. Even if his mother was an educator, it's not like teachers back then were trained to recognize it. It was still pretty new in the medical field. Wentworth is also clearly high functioning. It would be easy to write him off as shy and eccentric rather than having a disorder. The criteria for autism is more detailed now because of decades of research. Wentworth would have gotten an earlier diagnosis and better treatment if he was born in the '90s or 2000s.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | November 4, 2021 12:48 AM |
And to add to what I said. I think he was diagnosed with depression. His mom even though she was a teacher for special needs would still be a product of the training she received. A high functioning autistic man could just be written off as introverted and depressed. He's clearly very intelligent too. A lot of people born before the 90s were underdiagnosed.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | November 4, 2021 12:53 AM |
I don't think Wentworth is an attention whore. No one can lose himself if he suffers from a mental illness.
by Anonymous | reply 152 | November 4, 2021 2:35 AM |
He's just a quiet guy who likes to have lunch with his mother. I get a gay versatile vibe from him. I don't think he fucks women and/or pornstars.
by Anonymous | reply 153 | November 4, 2021 1:27 PM |
I have always seen him as a vers gay man.
by Anonymous | reply 154 | November 5, 2021 2:36 PM |
He's attractive (lacks only dirty vibes though😖), people are drawn to him. Even if he becomes an old geezer and old fogie, he must just get young/elderly gay guys a lot! Won't it make you so jelly, R145?
by Anonymous | reply 155 | November 7, 2021 2:36 AM |
Autism is a terrible disorder
by Anonymous | reply 156 | November 7, 2021 2:38 AM |
He's an introvert who dealt with depression and anxiety and said he's on the spectrum. It's believable he doesn't live a promiscuous lifestyle. But he's good looking enough that he's had tons of guys proposition him that I'm sure he's also very experienced.
by Anonymous | reply 157 | November 7, 2021 2:12 PM |
While I don't believe the title to be true, so what if it is?
Is there some law that says a gay man cannot fuck women or pornstars?
FYI there are men who identify as gay (not bisexual) who actually have children.
I say, so what?
by Anonymous | reply 158 | November 7, 2021 2:26 PM |
He's probably lost count of the number of guys he's had sex with.
by Anonymous | reply 159 | November 7, 2021 8:13 PM |
I'd love to meet him.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | November 8, 2021 12:25 AM |
He's very handsome. I am sure lots of me would gladly top or bottom for him.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | November 8, 2021 7:34 AM |
How does he spend his time these days?
by Anonymous | reply 162 | January 19, 2022 3:18 PM |
A meager acting talent who apparently has a first-class mind. He should have done something else.
by Anonymous | reply 163 | March 14, 2023 7:19 PM |
He probably just gives and receives head. Some gays are like that especially if they are OCD. I know it’s rare and weird but they do exist. He is so hot and nerdy. I would wife up his autistic ass.
by Anonymous | reply 164 | March 14, 2023 7:28 PM |
[quote] A high functioning autistic man could just be written off as introverted and depressed. He's clearly very intelligent too. A lot of people born before the 90s were underdiagnosed.
Yes, depression is often handwaved as a diagnosis not a symptom of a larger issue.
It happened to me. I was born in the early-mid 90s, and was written off young as just a weird avoidant moody loner kid, then diagnosed with 'depression of unspecified cause' and AvPd in highschool and College, then spent years in a miserable spiral until C0VID, when I decided to seek more answers and go to proper psychs instead of just shitty therapists & doctors.
Now I have an ASD diagnosis, and things are starting to make more sense. Of course, it's disheartening in a way, too, as ASD has no cure and there's little to be done about it remedially, but it does feel way less lonely and somewhat less hopeless when you know what's going on with you, because you can connect with others and take practical advice from them on how to cope.
by Anonymous | reply 165 | March 14, 2023 8:23 PM |
As usual I'm the weird one, I need anal and really don't like sucking a dick for very long, stick me or dick me! And I will hardly kiss unless I get drunk, even then there's a limit, neither do I want your snake tongue down my throat.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | March 14, 2023 9:08 PM |