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Straight porn and it's violent tropes

On the rare occasion that I stumble upon straight porn, I can't help but notice how violent the dynamic is. Even though on the surface it looks consensual (the girl being into it) there is always an element of forcefulness in the guy's expressions, in the way he holds or pushes around the lady.

Gay porn (generally) always seems to be a set between equals. Yes there's a top and a bottom but it never appears to be brutal, even if the actors are G4P and clearly not into it. Even if the top is supposed to be super aggressive it just doesn't appear as rapey as straight porn is. What do you think?

by Anonymousreply 49January 27, 2022 3:57 PM

Porn is general is brain frying - gay men and straight men alike have had their expectations warped by it. I'd say straight porn is more violent, but does it even matter if the effect on the brain is the same?

by Anonymousreply 1July 21, 2021 8:17 PM

Straight men perform for other men. It's the same dynamic that leads to street harassment, gang rape, etc. Chimps, the lot of them.

by Anonymousreply 2July 21, 2021 8:17 PM

Most men merely tolerate women, Porn is a way for them to degrade the gals and get their hatred out.

by Anonymousreply 3July 21, 2021 8:18 PM

[quote] On the rare occasion that I stumble upon straight porn

Sure. You just "stumble" onto that violent, degrading porn.

by Anonymousreply 4July 21, 2021 8:19 PM

Never believe anything typed by a moron who doesn't know the difference between its and it's.

by Anonymousreply 5July 21, 2021 8:21 PM

[quote]Most men merely tolerate women, Porn is a way for them to degrade the gals and get their hatred out.

Absolutely.

by Anonymousreply 6July 21, 2021 8:25 PM

R4 I meant that I don't actively search for straight porn. But whatever gets recommended to me is always violent, even if it is supposed to be between lovers or happy couples.

R5 kindly eat shit, throw it back up then eat it again.

by Anonymousreply 7July 21, 2021 8:25 PM

Dear R7 / OP, kindly learn basic grammar and punctuation in between viewing your favorite scat videos.

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by Anonymousreply 8July 21, 2021 8:28 PM

I like straight pron but only the amateur stuff. When I see bleach blonde hair, waxed bodies, fake boobs and garish lighting- it's a turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 9July 21, 2021 8:30 PM

I LOVe how rough and animate straight porn stars have become. Even rimming has become more common (girl on guy). I wish more gay tops could be that dominate and nasty in bed. It's all a bit of fun and gives the fantasy of the nice hard fuck most men love to have from time to time.

by Anonymousreply 10July 21, 2021 8:34 PM

What R2 said. Straight porn has nothing to do with what pleases women. Even the amateur stuff is bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 11July 21, 2021 8:34 PM

Someone asked why women are "obsessed" with gay porn. I wouldn't say obsessed per se, but this right here is why women watch this porn instead of its' straight counterpart.

by Anonymousreply 12July 21, 2021 8:35 PM

R12 Yep, we're not obsessed with gay porn but we enjoy watching the intimacy that doesn't exist in straight porn.

by Anonymousreply 13July 21, 2021 8:39 PM

[quote] its'

More apostrophe idiocy from the pornisseurs!

by Anonymousreply 14July 21, 2021 8:45 PM

Oh for fucks sake. Do we really need nibby nosing straight women trolling this site?!

by Anonymousreply 15July 21, 2021 8:45 PM

"Nibby nosing"??

by Anonymousreply 16July 21, 2021 8:49 PM

British or Appalachian-derived (either way, it should be hyphenated):

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by Anonymousreply 17July 21, 2021 8:50 PM

I saw something once, I think it was on Twitter, where a woman/young girl, was having her tits nailed or stapled down to a plank of wood. It was seriously disturbing the image of that lingered in my head for days after. And I saw something else where a guy was punching, spitting and stepping on the woman's face.

I don't understand how anyone can seriously find that enjoyable. There's some really sick and twisted fucks out there.

by Anonymousreply 18July 21, 2021 8:51 PM

[quote] There's some really sick and twisted fucks out there.

Not unlike the many DLers who pontificate about serial killers to the point of obvious sexual obsession?

by Anonymousreply 19July 21, 2021 8:54 PM

I don't understand how anyone who has seen the two can say there are any similarities. 90% of the time it's about abuse and degradation of the woman.

It's shocking.

But there are so many things in straight culture that are just so weird and fucked up from a gay's perspective. Straight people can be some of the meanest, unsympathetic, anti-social people on the planet. SEE Republican Party.

by Anonymousreply 20July 21, 2021 8:55 PM

There are different levels of hardcore in porn. If you watch stuffs from Brazzers, Tushy, Passion, Reality guys etc. then, you usually get the mellow version of hardcore. Some are outright silly and hilarious like the woman gets her torso "stuck" in the dryer machine and the guy fucks her to get her out. A lot of bangbros and bangbus videos are very focused on the body parts, so most of their videos are extreme close-ups of cock, ass and pussy. Watch Mike Adriano's stuffs for that. Most of the aforementioned porn are not violent or abusive per se. Now, if you stumbled upon a site like Facial Abuse, then you'd be perplexed. Pass around gangbang scenes? Yes, it is humiliating. If you see some stuffs from animated porn from a genre called Guro, you'd be downright traumatized.

Also, men and women are subject to different standards regarding sexuality. Certain things that would horrify you to see in straight porn will somehow be not so concerning in gay porn. For example, Sketchy sex is a gay porn site that films sex scene in a frat house setting where one or two bottoms get fucked silly by the house mates. There's a lot of name calling, degrading and humiliating elements to it. But we accept it as it is. However, a similar setting with a chick that's getting pushed around by bunch of frat boys, writing counts of loads on her ass that she's taken and being passed around to everybody would have different reaction.

by Anonymousreply 21July 21, 2021 9:36 PM

R21, eh....no.

Women like gay porn better than straight porn because it's more realistic.

by Anonymousreply 22July 22, 2021 1:37 AM

R22 I don't care what kind of porn women like. I was only pointing out that there are different levels of hardcore and different genre in porn. Straight porn is not targeted to women audience anyways.

by Anonymousreply 23July 22, 2021 1:43 AM

[quote] to women audience anyways

OH DEAR

by Anonymousreply 24July 22, 2021 1:52 AM

R18 That is grotesque and I wish I hadn't read it. It just sounds like torture/rape. I avoid straight porn because it is more about degradation and violence than sex. I guess some men hate women a lot. I also read in a DL thread the other day that someone felt gay porn was becoming too violent as well so there might be a larger problem with humanity in general. Homo sapiens are the worst.

by Anonymousreply 25July 22, 2021 1:55 AM

R24 Yes, please. Pick on a measly mistake while avoiding the main argument and discussion.

by Anonymousreply 26July 22, 2021 2:05 AM

What I hate about straight porn is the women are always moaning whores. It's more sexy to me if the woman is kind of reluctant. Give her some dignity!

by Anonymousreply 27July 22, 2021 2:07 AM

I can watch straight amateurs fuck but professional straight porn is pointless.

by Anonymousreply 28July 22, 2021 2:43 AM

There was a straight sex series I came across recently (no pun intended), and I can't remember the name but it was actually pretty sweet. In each video there would be two porn stars who you would normally see in all those fantasy/role-play pornos choose each other just to have sex with, like they normally would when not acting out a studio's fantasy. There's no weird positions for the camera or anything, they just fuck. After you've seen some of the straight porn out there, that many of these actors are involved in even, it is quite pleasantly surprising how romantic and gentle and fun the whole thing looks.

by Anonymousreply 29September 20, 2021 8:44 AM

R29 wish you remembered the name of this series. By any chance do you remember anyone who was in this?

by Anonymousreply 30September 20, 2021 8:52 AM

Oh yeah, I remember it had male porn stars like Chad White, Lucas Frost, Charles Dera. Like, I'd seen some of these guys be really rough in other videos, but when it was just casual and no frills and sex like they wanted it, it just looked sweet, fun and sexy.

I also watched a discussion between Robby Echo and Stirling Cooper before and they were talking about how the type of sex they like is like that too. The other stuff really is just acting, and it's based on what gets the most views - so it is down to what a lot of consumers want to see. They had a big joke about how everything was family related in porn now, but they have to call it "stepfather, stepdaughter, stepmother" etc, so it's not incestuous, but everyone knows what fantasy is being catered to.

I'll look around and see if I can remember what it was called, R30.

by Anonymousreply 31September 20, 2021 8:57 AM

Thanks for the info!

Was it possible 'Pure Taboo'?

by Anonymousreply 32September 20, 2021 9:05 AM

Hey R32. No, not Pure Taboo, but Pure Taboo is where a lot of the actors in this other series seem to do their work which is why it was nice seeing them doing something more light hearted.

by Anonymousreply 33September 20, 2021 9:57 AM

Hey R32, I found it. I think the company do different series, but this one is the type of thing I mean. These two hadn't actually met before doing this video.

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by Anonymousreply 34September 20, 2021 11:36 AM

Straight porn is sexist because a lot of times you don't even see the guy's face. He is just an object for the pleasure of women.

by Anonymousreply 35September 20, 2021 11:39 AM

And in this one, the two talk in the beginning about not being that fond of the storylines they get told to perform in their other work:

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by Anonymousreply 36September 20, 2021 11:39 AM

Do straight porn actors have vasectomies in case of an accident?

by Anonymousreply 37September 20, 2021 11:51 AM

I used to watch quite a bit of straight porn when I was trying to force myself to be straight (the fact that I only liked straight porn if it was mfm should've made me realize that was a lost cause) and so much of it had coercion as a theme. This has steeped into gay porn in recent years too.

by Anonymousreply 38September 20, 2021 12:01 PM

Straight sex, not just in porn, has always been about the man making the woman have his baby. Gay sex has a different dynamic.

by Anonymousreply 39September 20, 2021 12:06 PM

[quote] where a woman/young girl, was having her tits nailed or stapled down to a plank of wood

When I say I screamed😱

And I’m someone who doesn’t mind a bit of moderate S&M, and has a love/hate relationship with my own breasts (they’re D side sitters that hang low, fucking nightmare to make look presentable or perky). That is too fucking far.

by Anonymousreply 40September 20, 2021 12:22 PM

To make a guy flinch: going down pull the dick slightly to the right and lick the skin and hair on the left side base

by Anonymousreply 41September 20, 2021 12:37 PM

R35 Straight porn is catered to straight guys. They are the core audience and straight guys don't even like to hear the men in the porn breathe too heavy. Also, the women are the object of pleasure in straight porn, not men. How do you even write such a bullshit? Have you ever watched straight porn where the men tried to make the women cum? No, the climax is always the men jizzing and getting off.

by Anonymousreply 42September 20, 2021 7:05 PM

I don't watch straight porn, but there sure in the hell is a lot of ass slapping, rough play, mild choking, etc. in gay porn.

by Anonymousreply 43September 20, 2021 7:06 PM

R34 Thanks for finding the show!

by Anonymousreply 44September 20, 2021 7:14 PM

Suprised it's even debatable at this point. I believe there's been studies proving it's more violent. It's been theorized that straight women and girls have flocked to gay content for that reason (graphic novels, porn, etc.) They find it less aggressive, with pleasure being more mutual. Obviously that's not all porn, you can find anything these days, but on an average.

by Anonymousreply 45September 20, 2021 7:22 PM

R42 A lot of guys in straight porn are ugly with big cocks.

by Anonymousreply 46September 20, 2021 7:27 PM

I never understand people who look to porn for romance or positive depictions of sex. Porn is about beating that pussy up. Wrecking a hole. Messing up her makeup when you nut on her face. No one fucks like that in real life. It's a fantasy. Check out Legal Porno. 8 guys on one little Russian, just destroying her.

by Anonymousreply 47September 20, 2021 7:34 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 48January 27, 2022 3:39 PM

Captain Obvious typed what, this time?

by Anonymousreply 49January 27, 2022 3:57 PM
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