Anyone Else Tired of People Saying “Spill the Tea”?

I’m tired of the trans/drag/gay/lesbian/BLM/feminist bashing.

(R1) You’re tired? As a black gay queer I’m just tired of hearing people use phrases like ( Yas, Spill The Tea, Chile, Honey, & Tongue Poppin etc) When it’s clear their fucking culture vultures. White and the Latino Gay men are the main offenders out here in Los Angeles . Queer femininity comes from Black Female Energy. Particularly Black Women of the south (Grandmas, Aunties, Nieces, & Muthas) who created these blueprint catch phrases / euphemisms at church meetings/Bible study, hair salons, department stores, tea luncheons, family gatherings etc) Us Black Women & Men of queer culture aren’t truly respected among the community and are still viewed lesser than yet The Community freely uses our cultures the euphemisms without really embracing black people in general.