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What is your favorite international city?

One you could visit over and over?

by Anonymousreply 234June 24, 2021 5:05 PM

London NW3.

by Anonymousreply 1June 10, 2021 10:38 PM

Venice , Italy

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by Anonymousreply 2June 10, 2021 10:39 PM

Stockholm.

by Anonymousreply 3June 10, 2021 10:40 PM

New York or Amsterdam. New York for the theatre and the museums, Amsterdam for the markets, architecture and galleries.

by Anonymousreply 4June 10, 2021 10:41 PM

Istanbul.

by Anonymousreply 5June 10, 2021 10:41 PM

Berlin. Museums und Schwule.

by Anonymousreply 6June 10, 2021 10:42 PM

Odessa

Istanbul

Tbilisi

by Anonymousreply 7June 10, 2021 10:42 PM

Easy -- Cuzco.

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by Anonymousreply 8June 10, 2021 10:44 PM

Cape Town

by Anonymousreply 9June 10, 2021 10:45 PM

Nogales-Nogales, Mexicali-Calexico, or Barle-Hertog/ Barle-Nassau

by Anonymousreply 10June 10, 2021 10:45 PM

Rome .

by Anonymousreply 11June 10, 2021 10:46 PM

London

by Anonymousreply 12June 10, 2021 10:46 PM

Tie b/w Paris & HCMC

by Anonymousreply 13June 10, 2021 10:46 PM

HCMC over Hanoi?

by Anonymousreply 14June 10, 2021 10:49 PM

London. Wonderful, welcoming, International city

by Anonymousreply 15June 10, 2021 10:52 PM

Madrid

by Anonymousreply 16June 10, 2021 11:05 PM

Outside of the U.S. I've only been to two international cities: London & Paris. I adored both, but had a better time in Paris. So I vote for Paris.

Fuck I need to get out of the country, and travel.

by Anonymousreply 17June 10, 2021 11:20 PM

Athens

by Anonymousreply 18June 10, 2021 11:34 PM

Boise

by Anonymousreply 19June 10, 2021 11:35 PM

Paris

by Anonymousreply 20June 10, 2021 11:35 PM

R11, can you say what you like about Rome? Aside from the obvious stuff (Vatican, Trevi fountain, Pantheon). I went there for a brief trip and I don't feel like I missed out on that much (by not staying longer).

by Anonymousreply 21June 10, 2021 11:36 PM

I would love to go back to Paris. I didn't have enough time there when I went. Love NYC. Could go to Tokyo again.

by Anonymousreply 22June 10, 2021 11:38 PM

Bogotá can be great fun.

by Anonymousreply 23June 10, 2021 11:38 PM

LONDON

by Anonymousreply 24June 10, 2021 11:38 PM

Hanoi

by Anonymousreply 25June 10, 2021 11:42 PM

Rome, the Eternal City.

by Anonymousreply 26June 10, 2021 11:43 PM

New York, Berlin

by Anonymousreply 27June 10, 2021 11:44 PM

San Miguel de Allende

Copenhagen

Seville

Dublin

by Anonymousreply 28June 10, 2021 11:45 PM

Dublin, drunk Irish booty

by Anonymousreply 29June 10, 2021 11:46 PM

Barcelona

by Anonymousreply 30June 10, 2021 11:47 PM

Minsk

by Anonymousreply 31June 10, 2021 11:47 PM

r14 Prefer food, weather & accommodations in HCMC, and quick jumping point to Mekong Delta & Con Dao

by Anonymousreply 32June 10, 2021 11:50 PM

I prefer HCMC to Hanoi as well. Hanoi has lots of old world charm, but HCMC has an energy and vibrancy like few other places. (And I saw Brad and Angelina at my hotel there back in the day, so I'll always have that association.)

by Anonymousreply 33June 10, 2021 11:53 PM

Paris. Incredible.

by Anonymousreply 34June 10, 2021 11:54 PM

Florence (Firenze).

I work for a French company. I've been to Paris too many times.

by Anonymousreply 35June 11, 2021 12:05 AM

Cairo for the cock.

by Anonymousreply 36June 11, 2021 12:09 AM

I've never been to Italy myself, but isn't Venice now one of the most horrific tourist traps in the world?

by Anonymousreply 37June 11, 2021 12:10 AM

^ yes but it feels like being in a great set piece. And there are always quieter less touristy parts if you explore a bit.

by Anonymousreply 38June 11, 2021 1:03 AM

London - if I were very rich, I'd move there tomorrow.

R37 Venice is a tourist trap but it's magnificent.

by Anonymousreply 39June 11, 2021 1:05 AM

Venice, the most unique and architecturally beautiful city in the world with a rich and fascinating history .

by Anonymousreply 40June 11, 2021 1:08 AM

Edinburgh

Glasgow

Warsaw

by Anonymousreply 41June 11, 2021 1:09 AM

Lisbon. I need to find a way to stay.

by Anonymousreply 42June 11, 2021 1:09 AM

Stockholm

Runner-up: Moscow

by Anonymousreply 43June 11, 2021 1:14 AM

Another vote for Firenze, you’ve got about 1/6 of all the greatest art in the world located in basically a small walkable town with great architecture, wonderful food and gardens surrounding by beautiful countryside.

by Anonymousreply 44June 11, 2021 1:59 AM

Vorkuta - For the heavenly weather and hospitality.

by Anonymousreply 45June 11, 2021 2:05 AM

Tirana, Porto-Novo & Vientiane

by Anonymousreply 46June 11, 2021 2:33 AM

Paris

by Anonymousreply 47June 11, 2021 2:35 AM

ho chi min city

by Anonymousreply 48June 11, 2021 2:35 AM

^^ full of bad teeth and stupid, monarchist sheep

by Anonymousreply 49June 11, 2021 2:43 AM

^^ for R15

[quote] London. Wonderful, welcoming, International city

by Anonymousreply 50June 11, 2021 2:44 AM

Vienna. I have several that I definitely want to return to a couple of times, but Vienna is the one I can never see myself getting tired of. I love it.

by Anonymousreply 51June 11, 2021 3:11 AM

Lausanne is small but perfectly formed

by Anonymousreply 52June 11, 2021 3:16 AM

Lisbon, but mostly because my grandmother still lives there, and there's a lot of family history.

by Anonymousreply 53June 11, 2021 3:17 AM

Bangkok. Madrid is a close second.

by Anonymousreply 54June 11, 2021 3:23 AM

Asunción, Paraguay

by Anonymousreply 55June 11, 2021 3:42 AM

London

by Anonymousreply 56June 11, 2021 4:57 AM

Baghdad

by Anonymousreply 57June 11, 2021 5:09 AM

[R52]

Lausanne is a beautiful city! During her college years, my sister became an international phone operator for The International School in Lausanne. I visited her many times there. She loved the fact that she could ski in the morning, and then go to work. Eventually, she went back to college in the US.

My favorite city is Rome. The architecture, the food! I ended up just meandering for eight hours, and time just flew by.

by Anonymousreply 58June 11, 2021 5:24 AM

Tampa

by Anonymousreply 59June 12, 2021 3:15 PM

Berlin, just for the museums.and the nightclubs.

by Anonymousreply 60June 12, 2021 3:20 PM

Can I say Cape Town without getting my ass chewed?

by Anonymousreply 61June 12, 2021 3:20 PM

R61 I loved Cape Town!

by Anonymousreply 62June 12, 2021 3:23 PM

R61 me too but then I used to live there. As long as you stay in the safe areas it’s a wonderful city. The wine lands a short drive away make it special too.

by Anonymousreply 63June 12, 2021 3:39 PM

London will probably always be my favorite place in the world, but here are some others with a special place in my heart (and that I've been to multiple times and could always go back to):

Edinburgh, Cape Town, Florence, Buenos Aires, Madrid, Auckland

by Anonymousreply 64June 12, 2021 3:52 PM

-London

-Barcelona

-Paris

For fabulous smaller cities: definitely Lyon and San Sebastian.

I don't care for Rome but weirdly I do love Milan even though it's pretty gritty. I used to go there for business quite a bit and the hotels, restaurants and the overall "scene" was just so sexy. My boss would get us rooms at the Bulgari Milan and just walking into that bar would make you swoon. The men were gorgeous, especially the older wealthy daddies.

by Anonymousreply 65June 12, 2021 4:13 PM

Montreal

by Anonymousreply 66June 12, 2021 4:21 PM

Why Lyon, R65? Just curious as I've never been there.

by Anonymousreply 67June 12, 2021 4:50 PM

Is New York represented by an international coffee flavor?

by Anonymousreply 68June 12, 2021 4:55 PM

Bogalusa!

by Anonymousreply 69June 12, 2021 5:04 PM

Hong Kong

Despite the draconian Mainland overlords.

by Anonymousreply 70June 12, 2021 5:17 PM

Vienna, because it most reminds me of General Foods International Coffees.

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by Anonymousreply 71June 12, 2021 5:17 PM

Siena.

by Anonymousreply 72June 12, 2021 5:36 PM

Miami

by Anonymousreply 73June 12, 2021 5:39 PM

Buenos Aires

by Anonymousreply 74June 12, 2021 6:01 PM

"Why Lyon, [R65]? Just curious as I've never been there."

If you really dig gastronomy, Lyon is fucking Valhalla (more than Paris). The restaurant scene/food is incredible. Bordeaux is also amazing in this capacity.

by Anonymousreply 75June 12, 2021 8:40 PM

Tampa

by Anonymousreply 76June 12, 2021 8:53 PM

London again.

by Anonymousreply 77June 12, 2021 8:54 PM

Paris is my hang out City. I lived there for a few years and in non-pandemic times return a few times each year.

by Anonymousreply 78June 12, 2021 9:04 PM

Cannes. I have a friend who goes each year for a conference. We spend a few days in Paris and then take the train to Cannes. I love it there. It's small, walkable, has great food and shopping, a beautiful beach, beautiful people. I look forward to it each year. It's not a place you'd spend a week but if you go to Nice, I'd recommend a side trip for a day or two.

by Anonymousreply 79June 12, 2021 10:24 PM

Barcelona and Berlin

by Anonymousreply 80June 12, 2021 10:33 PM
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by Anonymousreply 81June 12, 2021 10:40 PM

Tokyo - food, art, fashion, trend-spotting, amazing small bars and very polite and friendly people.

Of course all the above was pre Covid-19.

by Anonymousreply 82June 13, 2021 1:31 AM

Vancouver, BC

by Anonymousreply 83June 13, 2021 2:47 AM

Lyon is a gangster town. Be suspicious of these people.

by Anonymousreply 84June 13, 2021 4:32 AM

R84 Lyon is the headquarters of Interpol!

I love Lyon. A friend of mine and I were visiting the city years ago, and we were sat outside a gay bar having a drink and then suddenly the Lyon Pride march came last the bar!

Lyon has great restaurants, is very pretty to walk around and I really like it and would return.

by Anonymousreply 85June 13, 2021 8:37 AM

Madrid: art, gastronomy, Chueca...

by Anonymousreply 86June 13, 2021 8:47 AM

Anywhere along the Cote D'Azur from Monaco to St. Tropez. MonteCarlo, Nice, Cannes...all heaven if you've got the cash. Paris, London, again only if you're loaded. Berlin if you're destitute.

by Anonymousreply 87June 13, 2021 9:00 AM

Prague. Hot twinks.

by Anonymousreply 88June 13, 2021 9:06 AM

I found Bratislava and the Baltic States were Twinksville

by Anonymousreply 89June 13, 2021 9:38 AM

r89 Absolutely. Kraków, Poland delivers on the twink front too. Enchanting architecture as well.

by Anonymousreply 90June 13, 2021 9:43 AM

Hong Kong, Tokyo, or Madrid, but only in the winter or autumn.

by Anonymousreply 91June 13, 2021 9:56 AM

Tampa. Coffee, cigars, craft beers, grouper, Cuban food. Great jumping off place to beach towns on the Gulf.

by Anonymousreply 92June 13, 2021 9:57 AM

Nairobi.

And they have the best coffee in the world too. Better than even Paris or Rome.

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by Anonymousreply 93June 13, 2021 10:38 AM

OK queens - when asked to name your favorite, why do you have to list 3 or 4 or more? You're annoying.

Lisbon

by Anonymousreply 94June 13, 2021 10:45 AM

Peoria

by Anonymousreply 95June 13, 2021 10:49 AM

I assume OP’s definition of the word “international” is “anything not in the US.”

by Anonymousreply 96June 13, 2021 11:10 AM

I’m sorry, but the choices should only be limited to cities that are part of the General Foods International Coffees line, the height of sophistication!

by Anonymousreply 97June 13, 2021 11:44 AM

I've spent vacation time in many major and minor Western European cities, with the notable exceptions of Barcelona, Helsinki, and Berlin, but including Dresden, Budapest, Athens, Dubrovnik, and Venice, if those are considered "outliers."

But of all the "international cities" I have visited, the one I, along with Dr. Samuel Johnson, would never tire of would be....

LONDON.

A dozen times, and I have not yet gone to the London Zoo, the Tate Gallery, the V&A, most of the British Museum, the Wheel, and the theatre (except to see "The Mousetrap" and a drama with Julie Christie), among other attractions and sites.

I love the parks; the pageantry; the pubs (Scotch eggs!); the history, both in museums and extant buildings; the shops; the literary heritage; the architecture; the liveliness; simply everything!

Look right!

by Anonymousreply 98June 13, 2021 11:48 AM

R98 In all regards to Samuel Johnson, perhaps one of the most learned and knowledgeable men of the world for his time, there is no current city, including his beloved London, that would even be even slightly recognizable and his ability to carry out what for him would have been a deeply analytical process for making that decision.

by Anonymousreply 99June 13, 2021 11:55 AM

R79 - Cannes?? It’s so small and boring apart from the festival season, with mostly miserable and cold people living there. I was one of them until I got the hell out. But the city I could return to again and again is Melbourne.

by Anonymousreply 100June 13, 2021 12:16 PM

London.

by Anonymousreply 101June 13, 2021 12:18 PM

Sipping General Foods International Coffees in Tampa. Thinking about that waiter, Jean-Luc.

by Anonymousreply 102June 13, 2021 12:21 PM

I loved Madrid. If I could speak Spanish, I would love to live there

by Anonymousreply 103June 13, 2021 12:40 PM

R103 Have you been to Barcelona? I found Barcelona even more beautiful then Paris.

by Anonymousreply 104June 13, 2021 1:03 PM

Yes, Barcelona is gorgeous, but not as cosmopolitan as Madrid or Paris, of course.

Years before it gay marriage was legal in the US, I saw gay couples Kissinger public in Madrid and no one cared

by Anonymousreply 105June 13, 2021 1:26 PM

R99, One's London is as one finds it. The sentiment is eternal.

And the good doctor could still have a nip at his Ye Olde Cheshire Cheese!

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by Anonymousreply 106June 13, 2021 2:00 PM

R105, I've always wondered about Henry.....

by Anonymousreply 107June 13, 2021 2:02 PM

Most British people nominate York as their favorite, London comes a miserable 22nd?

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by Anonymousreply 108June 13, 2021 2:20 PM

R108 Was that survey done by the Church Times.

I think every city in the top 10 has a cathedral and most of them do in the top 20!

by Anonymousreply 109June 13, 2021 3:33 PM

[quote] Most British people nominate York as their favorite, London comes a miserable 22nd?

English cities like York and Bath are charming and good for a visit once before you die. I can see how Brits who choose to spend their holiday in the UK rather than travel abroad would enjoy cities like these. I enjoyed both cities, but once was probably enough unless business or something happens to take me there.

by Anonymousreply 110June 13, 2021 3:44 PM

R109 It was done by The Government.

London has four Cathedrals and an Abbey, It didn't seem to push them up them up the list?

British people aren't very impressed by it overall.

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by Anonymousreply 111June 13, 2021 3:51 PM

R111 What makes an Anglican cathedral? Isn’t a Catholic cathedral based on it being headed by a cardinal?

by Anonymousreply 112June 13, 2021 3:54 PM

I'd like to return to Belfast.

by Anonymousreply 113June 13, 2021 3:58 PM

R112 I think an Anglican Cathedral has a Bishop, I'm Atheist though so I could be wrong?

by Anonymousreply 114June 13, 2021 4:02 PM

When I lived in Tampa there were so few gays they didn't even have a parade, just a picnic in a park. And there was no adult porno theater but the Ritz in Ybor City had a big screen for hetero porno movies and a super 8 set up in a room with a few folding chairs for the gays.

by Anonymousreply 115June 13, 2021 4:27 PM

Seoul is pretty cool

by Anonymousreply 116June 13, 2021 6:11 PM

R114 is right.

R111 The trouble with London is it was full of bloody foreigners visiting. Now it's much more peaceful and super to explore.

by Anonymousreply 117June 13, 2021 6:57 PM

San Sebastián for the food, great weather and stunning beach.

by Anonymousreply 118June 13, 2021 7:42 PM

London used to be far better before they allowed the Arabs to move in and ruin it with their tacky sports cars and lack of manners. I guess that could be said of most Western cities these days.

by Anonymousreply 119June 13, 2021 7:45 PM

Madrid

by Anonymousreply 120June 13, 2021 7:46 PM

[quote]Have you been to Barcelona? I found Barcelona even more beautiful then Paris.

Barcelona is Euro Trash Central. It's only slightly better than Athens. How could anyone even think to compare it to Paris?

by Anonymousreply 121June 13, 2021 7:51 PM

R121 A bit harsh, nowhere is even close to being as bad as Athens.

by Anonymousreply 122June 13, 2021 8:05 PM

R121 The Eixample is a stunning example of urban planning with it’s wonderful grid system and beautifully cut corners at the intersection with a human scale and a uniformity of architecture that then allows break out buildings, such as the Gaudis, to shine in comparison. It is very livable modern setting for an old European city. The break during the day and late night eating schedules is very conducive to cosmopolitan living. There is a beach and the artistic and cultural resources are plentiful and human scaled without being overwhelming like some other major cultural centers. I prefer it the same way I enjoyed living in Long Beach over LA. Barcelona is just a more livable city to me then Madrid, Rome, Paris or London. All of those are nice to visit, but I don’t know if I would actually like to live there for an extended time.

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by Anonymousreply 123June 13, 2021 8:19 PM

R114 In Roman Catholicism, a cathedral is the seat of a bishop.

by Anonymousreply 124June 13, 2021 8:34 PM

I haven't been to Paris or Lyon, but Lyon actually looks more beautiful to me than Paris.

by Anonymousreply 125June 13, 2021 8:43 PM

[quote] A bit harsh, nowhere is even close to being as bad as Athens.

Athens is fucking amazing. I can't wait to get back there. I love that city.

by Anonymousreply 126June 13, 2021 9:17 PM

Florence is beautiful.

The Ponte Vecchio, the statue of David, the Duomo, the Uffizi the English Cemetery...........

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by Anonymousreply 127June 13, 2021 9:21 PM

Some of you mentioned cities that were "twinksville". I want a city full of burly, beefy, hairy men. Which city would that be?

by Anonymousreply 128June 13, 2021 10:50 PM

Istanbul

Amazing city.

by Anonymousreply 129June 13, 2021 11:38 PM

Seville (home)

Rome (back up)

by Anonymousreply 130June 14, 2021 12:34 AM

Paris Madrid Amsterdam Capetown Johannesburg! Buenos aires Seville Budapest Taiwan! and oddly enough Phnom Penh a gay paradise

by Anonymousreply 131June 14, 2021 12:44 AM

This proves how subjective travel recommendations are. Everyone is different in interests - and experiences vary. The multiple Lyon references does make me want to reconsider spending more time there. In the brief stays, never saw much to attract a longer stay. London, Paris and Rome are all just too much - coming from NY. The historical architecture is nice - but the global affluent cosmopolitan vibe is too predictable.

Amsterdam and Barcelona provide something unique. Generally prefer smaller cities - that are still international.

by Anonymousreply 132June 14, 2021 1:34 AM

R132 You're right.

by Anonymousreply 133June 14, 2021 3:18 AM

I was in Lyon two years ago and will also encourage you to give it a chance. The food scene is amazing - many high grade restaurants and the Paul Bocuse Market is beautiful. For history/architecture lovers the old town is beautiful and there is the mini Notre Dame cathedral up on the hill. It’s a nice city to walk around with no sense of purpose or urgency and just go with the flow.

I would also recommend hiring a car then driving south to the coast. I spent 7 days in Bandol, lazing around, doing wine tours of Provence, day trip to Cassis. Heaven.

by Anonymousreply 134June 14, 2021 3:52 AM

Bangkok, as the global top destination city by international visitor arrivals

by Anonymousreply 135June 14, 2021 3:55 AM

Porto, Paris and Amsterdam.

by Anonymousreply 136June 14, 2021 3:56 AM

[quote][R11], can you say what you like about Rome? Aside from the obvious stuff (Vatican, Trevi fountain, Pantheon). I went there for a brief trip and I don't feel like I missed out on that much (by not staying longer)

I'm not r11, but I think Rome is unmatched not just for its very attractive culture, but for its historicity and the sheer volume of art, beauty, architecture and artefacts layered over millennia. For example, the city has 900 churches, nearly all of which are of some historical significance. Most people born and raised in Rome only get to experience a fraction of these and other treasures the city has to offer. The sites you mentioned (plus the Colosseum and the Forum) is just scratching the surface. You are confronted by history and monuments on literally every street and corner.

But the thing I love most about Rome is the piazzas and the culture around them. No city in the world has such a high number of aesthetically unique public squares and spaces.

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by Anonymousreply 137June 14, 2021 4:33 AM

Tokyo

by Anonymousreply 138June 14, 2021 5:08 AM

R136, r98 here. Spent a few unexpected days in Porto. Got violently ill on unpasteurized cheese.

Doctor in ER knew of my (also sick) husband's internationally-renowned doctor brother, so he personally drove us, once better, back to our hotel in order to continue the conversation.

What Porto actually looks like, I couldn't tell you!

by Anonymousreply 139June 14, 2021 10:03 AM

R2, r98 here. Have been to Venice four times. Stayed twice in Mestre and took a train as part of the rest of the trip; the third time in an air-conditioned hotel near San Marco (heaven!); and finally with a tour in a hotel on the Lido.

One of those times we decided to bring home some stunning and unusual masks, which have hung on my living-room wall since.

The approach to Venice from the sea is like a dream vision out of "Kubla Khan."

To anyone going there: Sit on the piazza at night. Have a drink while listening to the musicians. Magical.

by Anonymousreply 140June 14, 2021 10:14 AM

R135 Any chance of Bangkok being interesting died with this video for me, but it was nice to see the Solid Gold Dancers get work outside of their TV show.

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by Anonymousreply 141June 14, 2021 12:40 PM

Ah, Paree!

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by Anonymousreply 142June 14, 2021 1:01 PM

Paris and, now, this small city I live in because I learned the nice spots that always change but it isn't international, just relaxing.

by Anonymousreply 143June 14, 2021 1:06 PM

[quote] I think Rome is unmatched not just for its very attractive culture, but for its historicity and the sheer volume of art, beauty, architecture and artefacts layered over millennia. For example, the city has 900 churches, nearly all of which are of some historical significance.

I agree with r137. I've been several times, and I still can't wait to go back. On my last trip there, I spent two days just going around through as many churches as possible. Some of the artwork in Roman churches is better than you'd find at some art museums in other cities.

I think everyone should visit London, Paris, Rome, and NYC at least once in their lives.

by Anonymousreply 144June 14, 2021 3:03 PM

[quote] Have been to Venice four times. Stayed twice in Mestre and took a train as part of the rest of the trip;

I absolutely hate Venice. I know it's an unpopular opinion, but it's just not my cup of tea. The second time I was in the area, I stayed in Mestre and didn't bother going into Venice. I really like Mestre, though. It's got a suburban feel with great shopping, great food, and nice people.

by Anonymousreply 145June 14, 2021 3:06 PM

Istanbul. Sailing on the Bosphorus is an absolutely breathtaking experience.

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by Anonymousreply 146June 14, 2021 3:12 PM

The time to see Venice is in the late fall thru early spring--when the tourist hordes depart. There is something about a damp and misty (quiet) Venice that brings out a sense of mystery and grandeur. Also no noxious smell or mosquitos.

Favorite city: Berlin, Paris, London in that order. Berlin wins for me due to its ease of transport and relaxed vibe.

by Anonymousreply 147June 14, 2021 3:18 PM

Agree with R137 that Rome is an amazingly beautiful and rich and fascinating city. It was my first big trip on my own, and I walked everywhere and saw, among other places, some 120 churches. I walked until my feet bled and left knowing a lot about the city but also aware that I had not scratched the surface. There is beauty everywhere and layers and layers of things to discover. It was one of my two picks for favorite city, I think because I can turn a corner and stop dead in my tracks to see something so startlingly beautiful.

It's always interesting to me, though, that so many people don't like Rome. Maybe they were there too short a time and jostled between too many monuments? Or maybe we just have very different tastes but I love the place and, for me, it's impossible to tire of that kind of dense concentration of history and beauty.

by Anonymousreply 148June 14, 2021 3:27 PM

Another non-fan of Rome. I appreciate its beautiful individual churches - but as a whole it’s too chaotic, disorganIzed, aggressive and strangely non-gay. You can find it, but for such a large city the gay scene is pathetic. Paris provides the architecture in a more structured and wholly enjoyable way. Rome is always work - never enjoy it but willing to deal with it to se the art and history.

by Anonymousreply 149June 14, 2021 3:34 PM

I'm really scratching my head over the votes for Bangkok. Dirty, congested, not much beauty and not much to see. The rest of Thailand - sure.

Tokyo or NYC for me.

by Anonymousreply 150June 14, 2021 3:44 PM

R144 - I agree but I had a miserable time in Italy because the transport sucks, it's dirty and people are not just rude but hostile and it smells like pee. Of course the artwork is amazing. I also went to every church and monument. Hated the Lazio cuisine so my folks found a restaurant with Neapolitan cuisine and I always just went there for dinner. The grooming and clothes on Roman women was disconcerting and nothing like the rest of Italy.

by Anonymousreply 151June 14, 2021 4:23 PM

[quote] I agree but I had a miserable time in Italy because the transport sucks, it's dirty and people are not just rude but hostile and it smells like pee.

That's true of the subway system, I suppose. It's super crowded and dirty. I almost never take public transit when I'm in Rome - it's so walkable - and if I do, it's usually a bus. The busses aren't nearly as bad as the subway. The trains to the outskirts of the city and surrounding areas are fine, though.

by Anonymousreply 152June 14, 2021 5:00 PM

R150 when we went to Bangkok we hired a company that is basically your personal chauffeur. Get picked up at the hotel, air conditioned ride to the site you want to go to, step out at the entrance and when you are sick of the heat call the driver and go back to the hotel. It wasn’t even as expensive as it sounds.

by Anonymousreply 153June 14, 2021 5:09 PM

Lyon's great for foodies but it's a crime-ridden city. Last two times I was there to shop at the Part Dieu my car was broken into.

by Anonymousreply 154June 14, 2021 5:14 PM

Another anti-Rome guy here. I have spent a total of five weeks in Rome across four separate trips. Of course, it is a beautiful city with astonishing art, history, and architecture. White the subway is shitty, the buses are good when they actually run. Transportation in Rome is just chaotic. But it is miserable most of the time. The stifling humidity and heat in the summer is overwhelming. When it’s hot outside, it’s also hot inside. The smell of sewer gas and urine is powerful.

The best trip was in October one year. It rained every day, so the air was cleaner than usual. It was warm, but not hot. But lots of Rome is disfunctional in hard rain. It was nice to roam around with a good umbrella, even with no particular destination. Overall though, not my favorite.

by Anonymousreply 155June 14, 2021 8:01 PM

[quote] The stifling humidity and heat in the summer is overwhelming.

This is true. Rome is best visited in the late fall / early winter.

by Anonymousreply 156June 14, 2021 8:08 PM

Tel Aviv.

Beach, great food, great music and art scenes, easy to get to anywhere else in Israel, big gay scene and a whole lot of fine looking men with cut cocks.

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by Anonymousreply 157June 14, 2021 8:12 PM

Bologna's severely underrated. Best food in Italy and nice to stroll around in too.

by Anonymousreply 158June 14, 2021 8:28 PM

Rio de Janeiro……those fuckin Brazilians know how to party…..

by Anonymousreply 159June 14, 2021 8:33 PM

[quote]I also went to every church and monument.

Old people who've lived their entire lives in Rome will readily admit they haven't seen everything because there is just so much.

by Anonymousreply 160June 15, 2021 2:40 AM

Florence, without compare.

by Anonymousreply 161June 15, 2021 2:42 AM

R161, Florence must have more great art per capita than any city of comparable size. Another reminder than even small European cities are more interesting than American cities two or three times larger.

by Anonymousreply 162June 15, 2021 2:45 AM

It's almost insane r162. It's just everywhere. You walk into any church, or pretty much any building, it's really kind of crazy.

by Anonymousreply 163June 15, 2021 2:46 AM

R163, you don't even really need to go to a museum to see art there, it's just everywhere. That's how ubiquitious it is.

by Anonymousreply 164June 15, 2021 2:48 AM

Another vote for Florence. It's such a gorgeous city with so much to do - and it's really clean.

by Anonymousreply 165June 15, 2021 2:49 AM

I was actually a little frustrated when I went to the Medici Palace hoping to get some history. But nope, another amazing art collection. The whole city is just art, art, art masterpiece after masterpiece. Loved it, but could have used a little history too.

by Anonymousreply 166June 15, 2021 2:51 AM

Amsterdam

by Anonymousreply 167June 15, 2021 2:55 AM

Morpeth, Northumberland.

by Anonymousreply 168June 15, 2021 2:56 AM

Arts for art’s sake

by Anonymousreply 169June 15, 2021 3:05 AM

[quote] I was actually a little frustrated when I went to the Medici Palace hoping to get some history. But nope, another amazing art collection. The whole city is just art, art, art masterpiece after masterpiece. Loved it, but could have used a little history too.

Florence does have a nearly unsurpassed art collection, but there's history there, too. Did you check out the Palazzo Vecchio or the old Roman Baths at the Basilica San Miniato al Monte?

by Anonymousreply 170June 15, 2021 3:09 AM

Oh I know there is, r170, there totally is. And I exaggerate, had some interesting tours and talks about the republic and the Medici. But sometimes the constant proliferation of masterpieces, and damn, was there a constant proliferation of masterpieces, overwhelmed everything else. With the Medici I was just wondering, okay, where did all this come from, how did they pay for all this? Who was actually making the money to pay all those artists, and how? But who cares? It's an amazing city all the same.

by Anonymousreply 171June 15, 2021 3:14 AM

And I will second Amsterdam. I love Florence forever and ever, but I actually plan to revisit Amsterdam next year. Great and interesting city.

by Anonymousreply 172June 15, 2021 3:17 AM

[quote] Oh I know there is, [R170], there totally is. And I exaggerate, had some interesting tours and talks about the republic and the Medici. But sometimes the constant proliferation of masterpieces, and damn, was there a constant proliferation of masterpieces, overwhelmed everything else. With the Medici I was just wondering, okay, where did all this come from, how did they pay for all this? Who was actually making the money to pay all those artists, and how? But who cares? It's an amazing city all the same.

I get what you mean. When I was there, I used the Rick Steves app and listened to his free audio guides for the big places of interest. That kind of filled in the gaps in terms of the context and backstories of what I was looking at. They are really good, actually - I give them two thumb up.

by Anonymousreply 173June 15, 2021 3:19 AM

I don' t understand the question. Is this about "international cities" such as Geneva and Monte Carlo and London and Dubai? Filled with expats and people from around the world, passing through?

by Anonymousreply 174June 15, 2021 3:37 AM

I’ve been to Florence six times. Yes, it is an amazing place to visit. But ding my last visit, in May 2018, my travel partner and I conducted a small amount of research. We spent hours one afternoon just walking around the city, without going inside any buildings except a couple coffee bars for a pick me up. Nine of ten conversations we overheard were in English. It seems that nine months of the years, the only people in Florence are tourists. And to me, this spoils a visit to a different culture.

And don’t even get me started about Venice in the summer! Mercifully they banned those >3000+ passenger cruise ships that were docking next to the Doge Palace and ruining the lagoon.

by Anonymousreply 175June 15, 2021 5:28 AM

London

by Anonymousreply 176June 15, 2021 5:55 AM

Tokyo

by Anonymousreply 177June 15, 2021 7:05 AM

R172, If you haven't yet seen the Rijksmuseum, the Stedelijk, or the Van Gogh museum, do!

Last time I decided I was sated. I had tired of once-craved rijstaffels; seeing "The Gap" store was sad; Vondelpark had a bad vibe; and dodging bikes, cars, and trams---once falling hard---finally got to me.

Plus I realized I had enough copper bowls, coal scuttles, and other Delft-handled pieces from the Waterlooplein flea market that it, too, lost its charm.

by Anonymousreply 178June 15, 2021 7:50 AM

The many pleasures of Tampa: Walking along Bayshore Boulevard as dawn rises over Hillsborough Bay, sipping tea in the wintergarden at Oxford Exchange, shopping for knickknacks in Hyde Park Village and sitting with R115 and the other gays on folding chairs to watch a porno at the Ritz Theater in Ybor City.

by Anonymousreply 179June 15, 2021 9:28 AM

R175, the cruise ships are back in Venice…

I know it’s hypocritical of me to say it, but I hate how mass tourism is ruining so many places. Most large capital cities are large enough to withstand the onslaught, but places like Venice, Florence, Bruges, Edinburgh, Prague and Amsterdam are in danger of losing what makes them so attractive. I know that the Dutch tourist authorities are working to encourage tourism to other cities, and actively discourage people from visiting Amsterdam just to get stoned. I hope it works!

Personally, I enjoy visiting cities which get fewer tourists, even if it means missing out on the most amazing sights. I adore New York, but found Philadelphia a wonderful place to wander around, and the revolutionary era history there is worth a visit on its own. Rome is a historic and artistic treasure chest, but it’s smelly, congested, and car owners use their car horns as instruments of torture, so I visit Pisa and the smaller towns of Tuscany. Paris is definitely somewhere everyone should see when they get the chance, but Nancy, Metz, Strasbourg, and the small wine villages of Alsace make a wonderful destination for a week or two. As a Brit, I recognise that London has benefitted from investment in the arts for centuries, but Bath, Brighton and York are much more places to potter around.

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by Anonymousreply 180June 15, 2021 10:36 AM

*much more PLEASANT places…

by Anonymousreply 181June 15, 2021 10:41 AM

The weighted positive responses to date, more or less

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by Anonymousreply 182June 15, 2021 12:46 PM

Tampa really is amazing

by Anonymousreply 183June 15, 2021 12:55 PM

Brighton Beach Brooklyn - Internationally flavored peen galore!

by Anonymousreply 184June 15, 2021 1:55 PM

Cologne, Munich & Hamburg are nice cities. Especially at Christmas.

by Anonymousreply 185June 15, 2021 1:55 PM

Geneva's great. Elegant and pricey. Can't believe Biden's staying at the Intercontinental which always looks like a seedy leftover from the 60s. Why doesn't he stay at the Bergues? Much classier.

by Anonymousreply 186June 15, 2021 3:38 PM

Au contraire, R186. Geneva is among the most boring cities in Europe. For Switzerland, opt for Zurich. If you must be in French-speaking Switzerland, go for Lausanne.

by Anonymousreply 187June 15, 2021 4:46 PM

[quote] Istanbul

Not Constantinople

by Anonymousreply 188June 15, 2021 6:57 PM

God, where do I start..?

Vienna will always be my darling. I’m a sucker for history, rococo and grandeur - Vienna has it all.

I also very much enjoy Madrid, it’s just such a “real” city, unlike Barcelona that feels overrun and ruined.

Amsterdam because it’s vibe and architecture is unlike anything else in European countries.

Love that some of you mentioned Hanoi, I really liked that city, too. Much more than Ho Chi Minh (Saigon). Bangkok is always a treat, but only for three days. Total madness.

I could go on and on, but I’ll stick with VIENNA.

by Anonymousreply 189June 15, 2021 7:23 PM

Per Roma non basta una vita. I'm a culture vulture and Italian food lover; I go to Rome at least once in most years, and I've never done more than scratched the surface of its riches.

Vienna is a lovely underrated city with 1500 years of art and history to discover.

by Anonymousreply 190June 15, 2021 7:23 PM

No love for Havana?

by Anonymousreply 191June 15, 2021 7:33 PM

London, Rome, Copenhagen, Amsterdam, Venice, Sidney, Melbourne. (Aussies are very friendly).

by Anonymousreply 192June 15, 2021 7:34 PM

Katmandu, Delhi, McLeod Ganj, Taipei, Yangshuo..

by Anonymousreply 193June 15, 2021 7:37 PM

R191 Americans can't easily visit Havana.

by Anonymousreply 194June 15, 2021 8:15 PM

How ya gonna keep ‘em down on the farm after they’ve seen Par-eee?

by Anonymousreply 195June 15, 2021 11:26 PM

Ottawa, Ontario.

by Anonymousreply 196June 16, 2021 2:16 AM

R187 - I lived in Switzerland for 40 years. Zurich's full of fucking Swiss Germans. Horrible city. Lausanne's great when you're a student, boring as shit when you aren't. Geneva's the center of all the UN organizations and a mass of NGOs with staff from every country in the world. The most international city in the world and a great place to live.

Parc LaGrange is looking gorgeous on CNN today.

by Anonymousreply 197June 16, 2021 3:20 PM

Budapest

by Anonymousreply 198June 16, 2021 3:46 PM

Pyongyang, North Korea

by Anonymousreply 199June 16, 2021 9:08 PM

Prague, Copenhagen, St. Petersburg (that's right).

by Anonymousreply 200June 16, 2021 9:28 PM

As a kid, I learned about "international" cities through coffees. I begged my mother to buy these coffees at the grocery store because I thought they were so classy and elegant. I envisioned my adult self visiting Geneva, Rome and Vienna and sipping these coffees in their natural habitat. Thankfully, I eventually did and loved every minute of it.

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by Anonymousreply 201June 16, 2021 9:58 PM

R201 = Marge Simpson

by Anonymousreply 202June 16, 2021 10:16 PM

Vienna, for the opera.

by Anonymousreply 203June 16, 2021 10:19 PM

R202 I immediately went back and reread that in Marge’s voice and almost shit myself laughing!

by Anonymousreply 204June 16, 2021 10:20 PM

[quote]Zurich's full of fucking Swiss Germans. Horrible city.

But a lot of gay orgies I hear.

by Anonymousreply 205June 17, 2021 3:28 AM

If it’s Vienna for me, it’s going to be all about the desserts.

by Anonymousreply 206June 17, 2021 3:29 AM

I'm delighted to see so many of us gays like Vienna. It's one of my favorites as well. It always gets inexplicable hate over on the Reddit travel communities.

by Anonymousreply 207June 17, 2021 3:39 AM

R106, went on the Pub Walking Tour and visited the Cheshire Cheese and The Mitre. Later went on my own to The Grapes in Limehouse, where Dickens famously lived while separated from his wife. The bartender showed me where they used to dump bodies into the Thames. London is magnificent.

Still, I'm voting for Mexico City because the literal layers of history are so compelling.

by Anonymousreply 208June 17, 2021 4:26 AM

Do you like The Great Beauty, R148? A real love letter to Rome and companion piece to La Dolce Vita.

by Anonymousreply 209June 17, 2021 4:29 AM

I'm an aging shop-bottom living with my mother in Flyoverstan. My favorite international cities are Las Vegas and Epcot at Disney World. And who doesn't love the exciting international wares at the San Marcos Texas outlet center!

by Anonymousreply 210June 17, 2021 5:50 AM

Thank you, R209. I know of it and have seen bits of the film, but somehow have never seen it. I'll make a point to watch it very soon. During the tightest period of the Covid lockdown when I had to enjoy my city from the rooftop I watched the series "Suburra" on Netflix and suffered some fernweh for Rome. It's not so lush a vision of the city, but not at all half bad, and when the world was limited to home and the grocery store...

by Anonymousreply 211June 17, 2021 7:55 AM

For those of you missing your cities, there are many walking tours (usually without commentary) of hours long walks through different destinations. As someone mentioned, there seem to be primarily people speaking English through the streets of Firenze filmed here in July 2019. It’s a fun way to visit, especially the cities like this that you primarily explore by walking, though the route can be strange. They go back and fourth over the Ponte Vecchio here.

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by Anonymousreply 212June 17, 2021 12:50 PM

Suburra sounds great--I'm always looking for Italian series.

by Anonymousreply 213June 17, 2021 5:02 PM

I like the idea of London, even though I’ve never been there. In my imagination it’s a Carnaby Street-fantasy where it’s 1967 forever, and I prefer to keep it that way.

by Anonymousreply 214June 21, 2021 9:49 PM

I once did that Euro-train thing where you travel all over Europe for a fixed fee and London came out tops - but you have to explore round the back streets, get off the beaten tracks to find the real London. Also on that trip I stayed in Nice and loved it - but it's been ruined since cheap flights from England began.

by Anonymousreply 215June 21, 2021 10:08 PM

R213. Hope you like. Suburra is one of two great things I saw on TV this Covid year, an unlikely gay love story amidst some glorious Roman locations.

by Anonymousreply 216June 21, 2021 10:51 PM

[quote] I once did that Euro-train thing where you travel all over Europe for a fixed fee

Are you European, r215? I looked into doing the Eurail-wander-around-Europe thing, but found that (as an American) it was way cheaper to just buy single tickets. I think the price and policies are different for EU citizens, though. Just curious.

by Anonymousreply 217June 22, 2021 12:04 AM

I find London dull and spread out. I really enjoy the gritty beauty of Rome much more than the white dazzle of Paris. Tokyo is a fun but overwhelming at times. Kyoto is pure serenity; the most beautiful place.

by Anonymousreply 218June 22, 2021 1:08 AM

Also Venice, Italy, for me!

by Anonymousreply 219June 22, 2021 2:09 AM

Agree on London being way too spread out. So many better cities - especially as a tourist. I’ll never understand the love of London - except that they speak English.

by Anonymousreply 220June 22, 2021 2:46 AM

Rome is very 'spread out' It's just that most tourists are too stupid to leave the historic centre.

by Anonymousreply 221June 22, 2021 2:52 AM

I enjoy mall-hopping in Tampa, my fave international city. Shopping for knickknacks in International Plaza, shopping for athletic gear at Dick's Sporting Goods in Westshore Plaza, shopping for medical marijuana at the Trulieve dispensary at Citrus Park Mall.....it always feels fresh and new, like sipping warm and flavorful General Foods International Coffees, like French Vanilla Cafe, but with a generous pour of Tuaca liqueur, to really reinforce the vibrant vanilla flavor. ☕

by Anonymousreply 222June 22, 2021 3:15 AM

Oy - while I appreciate Tampa, it does not belong in the International City category.

by Anonymousreply 223June 22, 2021 3:34 AM

Yes, I am R217 - but there were tons of Americans doing it who also had the Euro-Pass, but I think you had to be under 27 or something like that, to get a cheap rate.

by Anonymousreply 224June 22, 2021 8:12 AM

The Eurail pass was great for young Americans, it was setup and purchased by the number of days and you could travel extensively as much as you wanted within that twenty four period. I would do things like catch a train after midnight in Madrid, sleep the night on the train so I wouldn’t have to pay for a hotel, arrive in Granada in the morning enjoy it for the day and take the late afternoon train back to Madrid before midnight. I did this with a Firenze to Dijon trip as well, saving that extra hotel night’s money and the cost of two days of train travel down to one.

by Anonymousreply 225June 22, 2021 12:20 PM

I live in it. New York.

But Paris.

by Anonymousreply 226June 22, 2021 12:43 PM

R225 you must have smelled pretty ripe with that travel routine.

by Anonymousreply 227June 22, 2021 3:55 PM

[quote]I like the idea of London, even though I’ve never been there. In my imagination it’s a Carnaby Street-fantasy where it’s 1967 forever, and I prefer to keep it that way.

r214 >

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by Anonymousreply 228June 22, 2021 5:22 PM

R225 sounds like a shitty low-rent Grand Tour.

by Anonymousreply 229June 23, 2021 9:46 AM

r229 We have a Lord among us, guys. Nothing screems "poor" like acting that pretentious.

by Anonymousreply 230June 23, 2021 6:21 PM

[quote] We have a Lord among us, guys.

Can't you buy a tiny plot of land in Scotland for £19 and officially have the title of Lord? I used to see commercials for that quite often.

by Anonymousreply 231June 23, 2021 6:38 PM

[quote] the white dazzle of Paris

That's a really unique way to describe pee.

by Anonymousreply 232June 23, 2021 11:05 PM

Flint MI

by Anonymousreply 233June 24, 2021 2:48 PM

Scunthorpe

by Anonymousreply 234June 24, 2021 5:05 PM
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