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Which countries have the most sexually obsessed and addicted horn dogs?

I’d have to say the good hole USof A.

by Anonymousreply 86Last Saturday at 6:32 AM

I agree, USA

Any city in the US I can go to any gym and some guy will suck my dick after, sometimes in the parking lot. The US are the cum guzzlers of the world.

by Anonymousreply 104/26/2021

We're simultaneously the most prudish and most horny country.

by Anonymousreply 204/26/2021

Wasn't there a study of world internet porn watching? I'm pretty sure Pakistan had the horniest men, followed by some Arab countries.

by Anonymousreply 304/26/2021

No other country is sex so front and centre in the culture as in the US. Even the news anchors and journalists are sexualised, like those surgically enhanced blowup dolls with blonde extensions on Fox News.

Another thing, it's only American culture that doesn't accept couples supposedly not on the same league lookswise. I've lived in Italy and France for years now and no one bats an eyelid at a so-called "physically mismatched" couple. It's not uncommon to see a super handsome guy with a plain Jane girlfriend. Someone told me that American couples are superficial because most see themselves as potential power couples.

by Anonymousreply 404/26/2021

I don't know...after my years in Germany, I think they would easily beat the US. And I also believe that there's a lot more that goes on in more repressive cultures than we can know about because they have to keep it under wraps.

by Anonymousreply 504/26/2021

Cuba is up there. No sexual hang ups at all. Always in heat.

by Anonymousreply 604/26/2021

How about Japan, where people read extremely kinky pornographic comics on public transport?

by Anonymousreply 704/26/2021

The USA is really boring as far as sexual expression goes. It's either extremely repressed or in your face but in a tacky plastic porn way.

by Anonymousreply 804/26/2021

I wouldn't say Brazil is obsessed, they just fuck around a lot. It's like drinking water for them.

by Anonymousreply 904/26/2021

The sheer range of options to indulge in the US is unmatched - apps, baths, video stores, movie theaters, orgies, sex parties, parks, clubs, church.

by Anonymousreply 1004/26/2021

Also, the US is one of the few countries where losing your virginity is, like prom, a major rite of passage. Up there with getting married and having kids. The first kiss/sex just doesn't carry as much weight, especially for men, in other cultures. In fact, until recently, many used to have their first experience with prostitutes because of their repressive environments where girls risked getting slut-shamed and ruined. American men will tell you the exact date, time and circumstance of their first time and it will be held up as a significant part of their lives. Biographies will allude to it. There's actually a whole genre of movies dedicated to the first time. It's so weird.

I'm not saying sex is not important in other cultures (it is) but the milestones Americans obsess over don't matter as much.

by Anonymousreply 1104/26/2021

High school and college-age Americans, if virgins, will be shamed endlessly for it. Their friends will make their mission to help them lose their virginity. Unless I want to fuck him, why should it concern me if my friend has had sex or not?

Also, note that the college fraternity/sorority system is uniquely American and doesn't exist anywhere else in the world. Peer pressure and conformity is ingrained from youth.

by Anonymousreply 1204/26/2021

Belgium, the men anyway.

by Anonymousreply 1304/26/2021

No other country would Hooters be such a successful franchise. Stripper also rule.

by Anonymousreply 1404/26/2021

*Stripper joints. ^

by Anonymousreply 1504/26/2021



by Anonymousreply 1604/26/2021

The US' puritan roots play a part in their sex obsession. Latin American countries don't have the same dynamic.

by Anonymousreply 1704/27/2021

You guys have obviously never been to Berlin. I even had guys hitting on me on the street minding my own business.

by Anonymousreply 1804/27/2021

Germany has Home Depot-sized legal brothels.

by Anonymousreply 1904/27/2021

"The sheer range of options to indulge in the US is unmatched - apps, baths, video stores, movie theaters, orgies, sex parties, parks, clubs, church."

So you've never left the USA I gather.

by Anonymousreply 2004/27/2021

Yeah, all that stuff R10 mentioned is easily accessible in most first world countries, I'm sure. In Germany you can't swing a cat without hitting a sex shop.

by Anonymousreply 2104/27/2021

Germany bids for the title.

“When the bomb squad arrived and inspected the contents of the bag, they determined it was a rubber grenade replica. The condoms and lubricant in the bag helped point to the device’s intended use, police told the German news agency dpa.

“An internet search confirmed the suspicion,” police said. “There are actually sex toys in the form of hand grenades.”

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by Anonymousreply 2204/27/2021

Based on population, wouldn’t it be Asian countries?

by Anonymousreply 2304/27/2021

R22 mine is green as it should be.

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by Anonymousreply 2404/27/2021

[quote]We're simultaneously the most prudish and most horny country.

Excuse me?

by Anonymousreply 2504/27/2021

China and India — do you think all those kids arrived by stork?

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by Anonymousreply 2604/27/2021

C'mon! Did anyone really think this was a hand grenade?

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by Anonymousreply 2804/27/2021

OP has obviously never been to India, or there would be no need for this question.

by Anonymousreply 2904/27/2021

Most Germans are repressed and not overtly sexually oppressive. Sex joints in Berlin don't represent the population.

by Anonymousreply 3004/27/2021

R29 what’s been your experience there?

by Anonymousreply 3104/27/2021


I was propositioned by cops, soldiers, hotel staff, kids in the street, taxi drivers, caleche drivers, tour guides, monument guards. It was relentless.

by Anonymousreply 3204/27/2021

Are you blond r32?

by Anonymousreply 3304/27/2021

He went around lifting his caftan and presenting hole.

by Anonymousreply 3404/27/2021

Italian men win.

by Anonymousreply 3504/27/2021

Porn consumption

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by Anonymousreply 3604/27/2021

The more a country is influenced by American culture, the more sex-obsessed it gets.

Top 10 porn watching countries in the Entire World:

1. United States

2. United Kingdom

3. India

4. Canada

5. Germany

6. France

7. Australia

8. Italy

9. Brazil


by Anonymousreply 3704/27/2021

Sexuality in the U.S. is more repressed than obsessed or even expressed. It's more about pursuit than about the sex.

In Germany gay men have sex with all of the effort and emotional excitement and attachment they might expend on picking up s loaf of bread from the shop at the corner. Sex shops are supermarket sized places, glass fronted, in the center of things not stuck away in some industrial park.

Nevermind all "stiff upper lip" business, the UK uses the cover of a pint or two as excuse for anything, "then all of us from the office went to a fisting party and I think I fucked the boss and his father who was visiting."

In Italy, catch someone's eye in the street or other public place and in a minute you may have a quick fuck in a toilet, an empty nook, or behind some bushes.

In France and Spain people in couples talk openly about other people they're fucking; people with kids still in school acknowledge that those kids are having sex (with the friends who are around the house all the time and are known by name by all the family, and with ones the family have never met. Friends will disappear and come back a bit later and explain that they just fucked, or that one saw a stranger he liked and fucked him in the bathroom of an ice cream shop.

An Argentinian will spot you, fuck you, take you out for a drink, put you in his Whatsapp friends circle, and invite you to dinner with friends all in an hour's time.

In the U.S. everything has the comparative complexity of Victorian courtship rituals; it's about the pursuit more than the sex. It's obsessed, yes, but in a different way that seems more about losing time than having sex.

In the U.S. it's about chasing after sex (or porn.). In many other places it's about fucking, not the thrill of the chase.

by Anonymousreply 3804/27/2021

I perform on Chaturbate. Most of my fans are north of and include France, North America does account for a lot of my revenue, but I could ban NA and still do well. The number of Muslims and Himdu is way understated. There are a lot of them.

by Anonymousreply 3904/27/2021

“In the U.S. everything has the comparative complexity of Victorian courtship rituals; it's about the pursuit more than the sex. It's obsessed, yes, but in a different way that seems more about losing time than having sex.”

This is called “Grndr”

by Anonymousreply 4004/28/2021

Maybe now r49 in this age of looking at your smartphoneall the time. But pre internet it was sex everywhere multiple times a day, bushes, backrooms, bathrooms, baths, bookstores.

by Anonymousreply 4104/28/2021

100% Brazil. You can parse words but no other place on earth is sex 24/7 everywhere. Not marketing sex - like the US. Actual experiential sex. Brazil is a horndog nation if there is one. US just acts like it to make money,

by Anonymousreply 4204/28/2021

It still is. there are a lot of people who are horny and lonely, It's not because they're pathetic. There are a lot of people who are just alone for whatever reason. I don't judge. I worked 14 hours last week and made $1100, BUT it is not as easy as it looks

by Anonymousreply 4304/28/2021

It still is. there are a lot of people who are horny and lonely,

- I meant it was more of a lifestyle then. With SCA meetings too.

by Anonymousreply 4404/28/2021

you're pretending to be me, r44. You aren't, I'm r43. I have no idea what SCA meetings are, and I don't care.

by Anonymousreply 4504/28/2021

Sorry kweeen, I should have signed that r41. SCA= sexual compulsives anonymous.

by Anonymousreply 4604/28/2021

Of course, you need to label and name everything. Sometimes people are just horny. It's not always an issue.

by Anonymousreply 4704/28/2021

Sexual desire is universal.

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by Anonymousreply 4904/28/2021

R47 that was indeed part of the discussion back then. Sex addiction was a big issue.

by Anonymousreply 5004/28/2021

Judging by Chaturbate, the U.S. and Colombia are right up there.

by Anonymousreply 5104/28/2021

Countries ranked by average number of sexual partners. India is dead last. Turkey is first.

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by Anonymousreply 5204/28/2021

It can be in the same way food addiction can be. It can be a problem, but it can also be a part of what normal human function. Too much = bad. Not enough might also be deprivation

Moderation is also a word.

by Anonymousreply 5304/28/2021

Interesting about Turkey r52. I guess the numbers would be higher if the stats were about gays only. What does r29 say about India being last I wonder.

by Anonymousreply 5404/28/2021

There are a lot of Indians (the country), and Muslims.

One of the weirdest stories I have, and I have a lot of weird stories .It was a private show with someone who was clearly Muslim, said they lived in Germany. The show went on forever, and he kept begging for phone call. I don't do that ever. He kept saying it wouldn't matter, that I'd never hear from him again after that night.

The next day there was a terrorist attack in France.

I'm not making this up. It stood out as one of the strangest private shows.

by Anonymousreply 5504/28/2021

How is that weird?

by Anonymousreply 5604/28/2021

Have you performed on any cam shows? You can tell a difference,

by Anonymousreply 5704/28/2021

I was trying to find stats on which countries' gay men had the most partners but couldn't find any.....

by Anonymousreply 5804/28/2021

The other most annoying private show person is a white man who lives in PA. Does that make you feel better?

by Anonymousreply 5904/28/2021

The USA is constantly thinking about sex. The problem is that they feel guilty about it and might not act on these thoughts. We'd probably be a lot better off if we just got it out of our systems.

We're both attracted to and repulsed by sex. It's very strange. Do other countries have these same attitudes? It seems very American.

by Anonymousreply 6004/28/2021

I live in the US, and I don't have any issues with sex. Speak for yourself, you do not speak for me.

by Anonymousreply 6104/28/2021

R33 Nope 50-something guy here.

All I can say is they must have been fucking desperate to get off if they wanted me. Leering, crotch-grabbing wasters the lot of them.

by Anonymousreply 6204/28/2021

In most countries, people don't get shamed for being virgins. It's even seen as a mark of virtue and self-will. Not in America.

by Anonymousreply 6304/29/2021

That's not really true, R63. There is truth to dating someone who is a virgin after a certain age. I don't think it reflects poorly on the virgin, but it does create undue pressure on the person taking the virginity. It's not a bad thing, but it is unusual.

by Anonymousreply 6404/29/2021

R64 no, what r63 says is true.

by Anonymousreply 6504/29/2021

Well, it hasn't been with me, and I'm more adventurous than average. So have many of my friends. I don't know anyone who would look down on anyone who would look down on someone who is a virgin.

by Anonymousreply 6604/29/2021

[quote]We're both attracted to and repulsed by sex. It's very strange. Do other countries have these same attitudes? It seems very American

Agreed, R60. In Germany, in Sweden, in Denmark, in the Netherlands, Belgium, Czech Republic...people are not repulsed by sex, they don't feel guilty for it. Nor in Southern Europe, where people talk about their sex lives much more openly than in the U.S. Meet someone new and you can expect to soon learn who he or she is fucking, whether the sex is good and why, and what their partner likes and is good at, and are toys or third persons or involved, and what kind of sex, and is Viagra involved, and how it compares to another they are still fucking now and then, and... And it's not bragging or boasting, or if it is a little bit it's probably more self-deprecating.

by Anonymousreply 6704/29/2021

Can someone translate r66 into English?

by Anonymousreply 6804/30/2021

Why is Germany leading but not Italy?

by Anonymousreply 6904/30/2021

[quote] Nevermind all "stiff upper lip" business, the UK uses the cover of a pint or two as excuse for anything, "then all of us from the office went to a fisting party and I think I fucked the boss and his father who was visiting."

True, but the pints are the more enjoyable and crucial part for us.

Drinking (beer, tea, doesn’t matter), watching sports, pontificating and having a moan are all more important cultural pastimes to British people than sex.

by Anonymousreply 7004/30/2021

“No sex please. We’re British.”

by Anonymousreply 7104/30/2021

Banter (aka ‘bants’), gardening/DIY, and walking the dog (literally, not euphemistically) are also prized above sex in the U.K.

by Anonymousreply 7204/30/2021

And Americans often channel their sexual urges into gluttony and consumerism.

by Anonymousreply 7304/30/2021

and guns

by Anonymousreply 7404/30/2021

America is also the cosmetic surgery capital of the world. Fake boobs, lips, teeth butts galore.

by Anonymousreply 7504/30/2021

I am American. You would be surprised how being genuine pays off, as I've said up above a lot of my fans are Northern Europeans.

by Anonymousreply 7604/30/2021

A lot of your ‘fans’?

Do us a favour, R76.

by Anonymousreply 7705/01/2021

Warmer countries. It’s the heat.

by Anonymousreply 7805/01/2021

I thought that was South Korea, r75

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by Anonymousreply 7905/01/2021

Look around. Is everything sexualized? The imagery, the appeal, and the seduction. The ads, commercials, billboards, fashion, faces, stars, singers, surgery.... If one is bombarded incessantly with hypersexualized images and messages, the result is sexual addiction and obsession.

by Anonymousreply 8005/04/2021

It's odd that the US is a country that uses Paris Hilton in a wet bikini to sell a Carl's Jr cheeseburger, but they don't really want to talk about sex. It's one of those topics people are very wary of unless you live in a big city with a lot of open minded individuals.

Many men will leer at a sexy billboard or commercial, but will shame other women for dressing provocatively. We're somehow obsessed with sex and puritanical at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 8105/04/2021

Is an olive-skinned latino considered exotic if he goes to the nordic countries for geigh sex?

by Anonymousreply 8205/04/2021

Speaking as a trans Asian, I can answer questions about Asians and Caucasians, as I’ve seen the world from both sides now....

by Anonymousreply 8305/04/2021

R82 it depends.

Some will love you and some are racist. Just like the rest of the world.

by Anonymousreply 8405/06/2021

Well R84, if it's around 50/50 those are odds I can live with.

by Anonymousreply 8505/06/2021


I can't go anywhere without some 'straight' guy wanting to suck my dick.

by Anonymousreply 86Last Saturday at 6:32 AM
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