Serving up this steaming pile of
Celebrity Gossip
Gay Politics
Gay News
and Pointless Bitchery
Since 1995

Hello and thank you for being a DL contributor. We are changing the login scheme for contributors for simpler login and to better support using multiple devices. Please click here to update your account with a username and password.

Hello. Some features on this site require registration. Please click here to register for free.

Hello and thank you for registering. Please complete the process by verifying your email address. If you can't find the email you can resend it here.

Hello. Some features on this site require a subscription. Please click here to get full access and no ads for $1.99 or less per month.


Everyone and everything hurts me! Life is so unfair!

by Anonymousreply 94Last Friday at 4:17 AM

I’m performative allyship. Pretending to be a queer/trans ally is even worse than being outright hateful.

by Anonymousreply 1Last Tuesday at 12:51 PM

I'm the tears that will end this thread.

by Anonymousreply 2Last Tuesday at 12:53 PM

I'm Stephen King's statement that he votes for Best Picture based on the quality of the movie. Roxane Gay has a LOT to say about this literal violence, and she is going to bring King DOWN!

by Anonymousreply 3Last Tuesday at 12:54 PM

I am stunning. And brave.

by Anonymousreply 4Last Tuesday at 12:59 PM

Stephen King backed down by telling the transtapo that "trans women are women" when they confronted him about JK Rowling, whom he used to be friendly with. So he'll probably back down on this, too, R3.

by Anonymousreply 5Last Tuesday at 1:15 PM

I'm the concept of merit.

by Anonymousreply 6Last Tuesday at 1:44 PM

I am the transition everything we’ve ever known to placate 1% of the population who gets offended by the people pissing the wrong way in their own homes.

by Anonymousreply 7Last Tuesday at 2:59 PM

I am the corpses of trans women of color stacked up like cordwood every time someone writes "Ellen Page."

by Anonymousreply 8Last Tuesday at 3:17 PM

LITERAL VIOLENCE is when one’s or another’s or lots of others’ skin bruises or breaks, with may or may not additional deeper trauma.

by Anonymousreply 9Last Tuesday at 3:22 PM

I'm deadnaming.

by Anonymousreply 10Last Tuesday at 3:25 PM

I'm the period that the OP left out of LITERAL. VIOLENCE.

by Anonymousreply 11Last Tuesday at 3:26 PM

I am the clapping emoji used to stress every single word.


by Anonymousreply 12Last Tuesday at 3:29 PM

I'm a trigger. I'm out to get everyone who has ever had a shitty thing happened to them. You've probably been warned about me.

by Anonymousreply 13Last Tuesday at 3:29 PM

"...had a shitty thing HAPPEN to them"

I'm also typos for the grammar nazis.

by Anonymousreply 14Last Tuesday at 3:30 PM

I am exhausted.

by Anonymousreply 15Last Tuesday at 3:35 PM

I thought this was a thread about them. They are Literal Violence.

by Anonymousreply 16Last Tuesday at 4:00 PM

I'm the OP.

I'm a Republican who spends all my spare time bitching about "woke" people

I accuse them of being overly sensitive, even though I'm such a big baby that I boycotted football for players engaging in peaceful protest! And now I'm boycotting baseball because they dared to take a stand on voter suppression

by Anonymousreply 17Last Tuesday at 4:02 PM

R7 is against placating trans people, but is all for placate good billionaires, a group who makes up less than 1 percent of the population

I'm also too dumb to understand that gay people don't make up a large percentage of the population, either!

by Anonymousreply 18Last Tuesday at 4:04 PM

I am the onslaught of gay male supremist microaggressions on DL, and I am rising above them.

by Anonymousreply 19Last Tuesday at 4:36 PM

R17 R18 Xer boundaries have been stated.

by Anonymousreply 20Last Tuesday at 4:53 PM

Based on the responses to this thread, I know who are my real friends are! Woke culture can go die in a grease fire!

by Anonymousreply 21Last Tuesday at 5:37 PM

I am incorrect pronoun usage.

by Anonymousreply 22Last Tuesday at 6:28 PM

I am the “othering” of myself despite calls for equality!

by Anonymousreply 23Last Tuesday at 7:13 PM

IF 👏🏽 YOU 👏🏽 CLAP 👏🏽 I 👏🏽 CLAP 👏🏽 BACK 👏🏽 R12!

by Anonymousreply 24Last Wednesday at 3:01 AM

I'm the angry genderless person with a beard who hates Amazon because they sell books written by JK Rowling, and not because they treat their employees so badly.

by Anonymousreply 25Last Wednesday at 3:14 AM

I’m sex work, and if you don’t agree that I’m the best and healthiest career choice YOU ARE MURDERING ME!!!!

by Anonymousreply 26Last Wednesday at 3:25 AM

I am your words when I asked you to listen, not speak.

by Anonymousreply 27Last Wednesday at 3:34 AM

I am a fact that conflicts with your lived truth.

by Anonymousreply 28Last Wednesday at 4:43 AM


by Anonymousreply 29Last Wednesday at 4:55 AM

I'm low end scented candles ineffectively salving the wounds.

by Anonymousreply 30Last Wednesday at 4:59 AM

I'm Gwyneth Paltrow's vagina scented candle, which is transphobic because not everyone who wants a vagina has a vagina and not all vaginas smell like Gwyneth's vagina.

by Anonymousreply 31Last Wednesday at 5:09 AM

I'm gendered tarot cards, and I'm "suspiciously TERF-y". Why must I trigger dysphoria in Mynx every time she/they gives a reading? Why I gotta be that way???

by Anonymousreply 32Last Wednesday at 5:20 AM

I'm the feminist who tweets about male politicians trying to police womens' bodies with their anti-abortion policies. I am called a TERF and a bigot for assuming that only women can be pregnant.

by Anonymousreply 33Last Wednesday at 6:07 AM

I'm the bio. Either you list your pronouns in me or you're a hateful, transphobic bigot.

by Anonymousreply 34Last Wednesday at 6:09 AM

I am words, but also silence.

by Anonymousreply 35Last Wednesday at 6:15 AM

I'm the horrifically insensitive tampon commercial which has the audacity to feature only cis females. MEN HAVE PERIODS TOO!!!

by Anonymousreply 36Last Wednesday at 6:17 AM

I am the unused group pronouns you didn't use to refer to me. You used my name, but I SAW YOU DANCE AROUND MY PRONOUNS!

by Anonymousreply 37Last Wednesday at 6:27 AM

I'm the complete lack of intersectional equity.

by Anonymousreply 38Last Wednesday at 6:33 AM

I am what is happening too much today...which most people are sick and tired of. They want me to go away.

by Anonymousreply 39Last Wednesday at 6:42 AM

I'm a trans ally and I support sex workers even if I don't admit to using them. My pronouns are he/him and if those fucking TERF BITCH CUNTS think they can keep their sex based rights they're going to be picking up their teeth with broken fingers.

by Anonymousreply 40Last Wednesday at 6:47 AM

I stand for diversity and inclusion of skin color and gender identity but not a diversity of perspective or ideas.

by Anonymousreply 41Last Wednesday at 6:49 AM

I’m a giant, fully engorged penis.

I have no place here.

by Anonymousreply 42Last Wednesday at 6:56 AM

R42 Yes, you do. If you are on a beautiful trans woman.

by Anonymousreply 43Last Wednesday at 6:57 AM

I am “A seat at the table”.

I am cunningly elusive but seriously overrated.

by Anonymousreply 44Last Wednesday at 6:58 AM

R44 “You don’t agree with us, you get no seat! Men can give birth too! Say her name! Sex work is respectable! 🤡”

by Anonymousreply 45Last Wednesday at 7:01 AM

I'm the Pulse Nightclub shooting massacre. I'm the true, as opposed to hyperbolic, example of literal violence.

by Anonymousreply 46Last Wednesday at 8:48 AM

I am the Washington monument. My appearance is basically like a rape to every woman who sees me.

by Anonymousreply 47Last Wednesday at 9:05 AM

I'm the feminist meeting of biological women/AFAB/cis women (take your pick), convened to discuss things of concern to us alone.

by Anonymousreply 48Last Wednesday at 12:24 PM

I’m squirrels. I’m also death.

by Anonymousreply 49Last Wednesday at 12:29 PM

No one understands my Spoon Usage Scale.

by Anonymousreply 50Last Wednesday at 12:34 PM

I am January 6, 2021 at the United States Capitol around 12:30 pm and followed several hours later, with a lot of bloodshed and five deaths.

by Anonymousreply 51Last Wednesday at 12:55 PM

I am the trimmed hedges around, say Comstock and Wilder Houses at Smith. Not only do the patriarchal WASP neocolonialist benefactor names deeply wound, the trimmed hedges are symbolically performing prescribed gender roles that suffocate me with toxic hegemony. My front hole hurts and bleeds in accessing what should be a safe space.

by Anonymousreply 52Last Wednesday at 2:43 PM

R52 Where have you been all my life?

by Anonymousreply 53Last Wednesday at 2:46 PM

Thank you. I am currently a consulting editor at Essence Magazine and Buzzfeed. Look for my upcoming feature on monetizing the post-misogynoir moment as a POC micro-influencer.

by Anonymousreply 54Last Wednesday at 2:52 PM

I am your violent lack of attention to MY gender issues.

How can I display my utterly confusing, fluid non-binary gender identity...when you will not pay attention to me!

I NEED to see you struggle to keep up with me!

by Anonymousreply 55Last Wednesday at 3:21 PM

I'm the "IT'S NOT MY JOB TO EDUCATE YOU" line when someone on Twatter asks for my sources.

by Anonymousreply 56Last Wednesday at 3:26 PM

I am the LITERAL VIOLENCE that is done to my own self and billions of others around the world any time a stranger acts upset and shouts "I am not a racist!" when I have determined she is because of visible evidence (white, wearing a Harris campaign pin for cover).

You cannot talk or act your way out of being a racist.

by Anonymousreply 57Last Wednesday at 3:30 PM

I am the (1/8) Black undergrad at Princeton and literal violence is your not subtle inquiry about my financing.

by Anonymousreply 58Last Wednesday at 3:33 PM

I'm the act of ignoring or averting ones gaze. I kill more queer trans POCs than any john ever will.

by Anonymousreply 59Last Wednesday at 3:46 PM

I am "not centering the voices of BIPOC and trans people" in every conversation!

by Anonymousreply 60Last Wednesday at 5:18 PM

I'm the disinterest of lesbians in sexual activity with trans"women".

by Anonymousreply 61Last Wednesday at 5:23 PM

I am the x is "folx"

by Anonymousreply 62Last Wednesday at 5:27 PM

And I am FORGETTING the 'x' in 'Latinx'!

by Anonymousreply 63Last Wednesday at 5:41 PM

[quote] I am January 6, 2021 at the United States Capitol around 12:30 pm and followed several hours later, with a lot of bloodshed and five deaths.

Yeah, except not one of those deaths was caused by the mostly peaceful protestors. One unarmed peaceful protestor was basically murdered by Nancy Pelosi's personal shock troops, and the others died of natural causes. You need to stop watching CNN and learn the truth.

by Anonymousreply 64Last Wednesday at 6:04 PM

I'm the data that show the murder rate of trans people is actually lower than that of the general population. But who would want to pollute our fantasy world with the stench of reality?

by Anonymousreply 65Last Wednesday at 6:07 PM

I'm the space being held

by Anonymousreply 66Last Wednesday at 6:12 PM

I'm finger snapping. I'm unlike the literal violence of ableist clapping people and the untold literal harm inflicted on millions.

by Anonymousreply 67Last Wednesday at 6:14 PM

I am this thread. I am LITERAL VIOLENCE.

by Anonymousreply 68Last Wednesday at 6:26 PM

I'm the question, "did you also have bottom surgery?"

by Anonymousreply 69Last Wednesday at 6:52 PM

Are you a woman or a womyn?

by Anonymousreply 70Last Wednesday at 7:55 PM

I'm the question "where are you from?" asked by someone who has taken a gay male Syrian refugee on a date.

by Anonymousreply 71Last Wednesday at 8:34 PM

I'm gay men's disinterest in FTMs. What kind of gay guy would refuse atrophied vagina? One who deserves a punch in the face, that's who!

Offsite Link
by Anonymousreply 72Last Wednesday at 9:35 PM

I'm the constant reminder that I am a queer, disabled, non-binary person of colour with a mental illness who doesn't need labels.

by Anonymousreply 73Last Wednesday at 10:07 PM


by Anonymousreply 74Last Wednesday at 10:13 PM

Wait, isn’t literal violence actual violence? That’s the definition of literal. If you say you literally died today that means you really died and are now dead.

by Anonymousreply 75Last Wednesday at 10:34 PM

I'm the emotional labor that it takes to tell you what I want, when I demand you ask me what I want, and then you ask me what I want. You have to pay me for the things I demand you ask of me. I'm exhausted.

by Anonymousreply 76Last Wednesday at 10:40 PM

In honor of the batshit T at R72's link:

[quote]Gay men that don’t want vagina are transphobic dipshits. They tell us not to change the definition of gay, but they change the definition of man so it excludes trans men. ... When in fact trans men are men and I know a huuuuuge amount of trans men who go on gay dating apps, hide their gender and surprise cis gay men with their vaginas to teach them men can have vaginas.

I'm the reality that, no matter how much you insist, pump yourself full of horse piss hormones, or mutilate your body, you can never change sex and will never be satisfied.

by Anonymousreply 77Last Wednesday at 10:43 PM

My pronouns are he/him and I'm addicted to violent abusive porn (adults only LOL) and love telling lesbians to choke on a dick when they say they have genital preferences.

by Anonymousreply 78Last Wednesday at 11:36 PM

R63 - YOU ARE CLEARLY A TYPICAL WHITE MALE WITH A COLONIALIST MINDSET! What? Me insisting Spanish should change it's grammar to fit my native English tongue could be considered colonialist itself? HOW DARE YOU USE LOGIC TO DEFEAT ME?!

by Anonymousreply 79Last Thursday at 3:03 AM

I am you, when you won't acknowledge MY TRUTH.

by Anonymousreply 80Last Thursday at 3:44 AM

R80 Your truth? Your little twisted arsewipe truth?

by Anonymousreply 81Last Thursday at 4:03 AM

I'm the ridiculous level of privilege it takes for someone using a word I don't like to be 'LITERAL VIOLENCE'. I am not mentioned.

by Anonymousreply 82Last Thursday at 4:12 AM


by Anonymousreply 83Last Thursday at 6:30 AM

I'm the non-binary person who posted a topless picture that I DEMAND Instagram keep up. Only female nipples go against the terms and conditions (which is misogynistic in and of itself) but I don't identify as female. Instagram, you are oppressing all non-binary people by refusing to let me show my titties. #freethenipple

by Anonymousreply 84Last Thursday at 7:04 AM

I am a rumor about my son that I heard when I lived in the 25,000 square foot palace that was paid for by the British taxpayers.

by Anonymousreply 85Last Thursday at 10:38 AM

Clitoral Violence is what’s happening to the vanishing lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 86Last Thursday at 10:48 AM


by Anonymousreply 87Last Thursday at 10:57 AM

I am the result of Q idiots, who keep on with their lies and order to keep me going.

by Anonymousreply 88Last Thursday at 11:27 AM

I'm the question on a consent form for the Covid vaccine asking about biological sex, just before the question about gender.

by Anonymousreply 89Last Thursday at 11:29 AM

I'm LiDeral Violince. I am the way it is always pronounced by people who say it.

by Anonymousreply 90Last Thursday at 11:30 AM

I called you a zhey instead of a xem.

I'm on the warpath!

by Anonymousreply 91Last Thursday at 11:31 AM

I’m the mug being cradled so tightly the enamel is beginning to crack.

by Anonymousreply 92Last Thursday at 11:37 AM

R88 you are so brave to speak your truth in the face of the literal violence of R64. So brave. So strong. So stunningly brave and strong.

Oprah probably wants to talk to you. You are serving as an inspiration for an entire generation of teenaged emotional wrecks.

by Anonymousreply 93Last Thursday at 3:04 PM

I am the SJW who people politely walk away from anytime I enter their presence.

by Anonymousreply 94Last Friday at 4:17 AM
Need more help? Click Here.

Yes indeed, we too use "cookies." Take a look at our privacy/terms or if you just want to see the damn site without all this bureaucratic nonsense, click ACCEPT. Otherwise, you'll just have to find some other site for your pointless bitchery needs.


Become a contributor - post when you want with no ads!