Does every young man have his dick out online now?

If only this was true in the 70s and 80s....

I just like that he admits he only tops 1% of the time.

He’s an only fans model. That’s what he’s selling.

And for any industry he might be interested in for the future (hospitality, real estate, sales) it probably doesn’t matter if he has nude modeling out there.

Stupid as hell.

Trashy.

R3 I know what he is. And that fits within my question still.

fluffed to the nines

We are truly living in a Golden Age.

Even the ones who won’t get naked find ways to show off their dicks by wearing leggings or tight gray sweatpants with no underwear

Because most of this generation doesn't think about this stuff in the same way you do and as long as we work for people in the same group we're usually fine?

I've had friends that have had their onlyfans/just4fans/4myfans reported to their supervisors or other superiors and guess what? Nothing happened. And yes, a few of them have really great jobs.

The REAL question people should be asking is why do people feel like they're not making enough money at their jobs and feel the need to resort to doing this for the money?

[quote]Stupid as hell. Trashy.

People have zero problems whipping their dick out and jerking off to porn stars and insta thots but will call them "trashy" once them cum.

That, I think, is what this generation realizes. You can't put down sex workers and then use them for pleasure when you want to get off. That doesn't make sense at all.

[quote]I have a few friends that have made one though, including this couple I know and this woman I used to work with.

You know a woman who has her dick out online?

Well, I guess it's possible these days.

R10 no. Her vagina. Lmao.

The weird, or ironic, thing is that they will show their dicks online but if somebody makes an unwelcome pass or comment their entire world falls apart

R9 I don’t believe you. Well, I do, but at the same time that is not the same outcome for everyone. There are people who have lost their jobs over it.

Your friends were fortunate their bosses could care less. Some see it as a bad look for their company.

[quote]Well, I do, but at the same time that is not the same outcome for everyone.

I honestly didn't say it was.

If you work in certain fields, if you work for gay men (who have probably sent nudes to someone else on the apps or run around in a revealing speedo once or twice), if you work a job where clients never see you, if you work for people generally in the same age group then that increases the likelihood that you'll be fine.

I'm the one with a really traditional job, and I'd never do this. They've been lucky to work in art, fashion, design, etc and they're good. Real estate is another big one where people probably don't care depending on the market. One works in STEM and they're just fine. I really do know a lawyer that has one but that's just for kicks. He never shows his face on it though which is another thing one should never do even when they're sending nudes.

I'm the prude out of my group of friends but I'm at the point where none of this phases me.

It seems that every young man with a big dick has it out.

Fine with me.

You can just tell that R12 is one of [italic]those[/italic] that the gogo boys warn each other about.

Only if even small-dicked young men are doing it does it "not matter anymore."

The Chinese have shut him down

Of course. You can’t have your dick out on tiktok

When did we start complaining about hot guys having their dicks out?

Tiktok is Chinese spyware.

Google is American spyware.

[quote] this kid I’ve been following for a long time suddenly has his ass and dick out too

His twitter account say he's been online since November 2017 but only shows posts from August last year.

I call fake on OP's link. The reason he did the nudie shots in that shadowy way is so you can't see where the artificial penis attaches.

Probably another ex-con trying to make money via prostitution.

R25 is stupid.

A lot of these men are probably nurses. Gay nurses are mammoth sluts.

Nah, thirsty str8 boys who've discovered that gay boys and old men will pay to see their candy. It's just exactly what you think it is.

What a gorgeous cock.

Full on whore. Great dick though

R27, For real! Gay nurses and gay flight attendants. Sluts in a good way.

And this is a problem how,OP?

R30:

[quote] For real! Gay nurses and gay flight attendants

Yes, these are the two biggest professional slut groups among gay men.

Yes, For real! nurses and flight attendants and underemployed theatre people.

[quote] We are truly living in a Golden Age.

You're right R7. I praise the man who invented the Apple mobile phone which allowed men to share so readily.

Good for them. Make that money while you're young enough to do it.

I am going to be totally superficial and say that it is wonderful and heavenly to live in an era of male instahoes,chaturbate, sex shows or naked posing etc on SKYPE, Onlyfans, free internet porn, twitter hoes,online escorts ,being able to communicate with or make an offer to a pornstar online, etc etc

I am not saying there is zero downside but I am very grateful for this aspect of our current era.

Seeing how gay men have an encyclopedic memory of every cock they've ever seen. Seeing how they never forget a porn star and know their current lives- even if they retired long ago... I'd be very hesitant to put my naked body (and face) out there forever.

R125, do us a solid and share the links for the STEM and the lawyer.

Sorry but all this porn at our fingertips has actually ruined porn.

They want to show, I want to look. Sexual liberation is warmly welcomed.

Playgirl had thousands of men asking to pose nude when the magazine ran its course. Such a lucky few who made it onto the pages. Lucky us!

The magazine came to Mizzou to seek out men for a “Men of the Big Eight” spread. One of my fraternity brothers “auditioned” for them. I thought he was a shoo-in, gorgeous face, nice hairy chest, big cock, huge bush. He showed them all of it. He didn’t get a callback. Do you know how hard it was on his ego??? I thought I could take care of his business,, to make him feel better,, but he was never up for it. I really tried.

Anyone else think a video like R23 is gross? A guy sitting on the toilet and jerking off? Like, I know it’s not open but still....

Pay attention to the mise en scene.

DL used to have thread after thread about young Millennial guys doing the towel dance in gym locker rooms. I guess Gen Z guys don't have the same hang ups about their bodies.

Most Gen Z are minors

Gen Alpha are all minors.

Gen Z (born between 1997 and 2012) only some of them are minors.

THIS guy is way hotter. And dressed. Blonde Hair. Blue dreamy eyes. Marine. Yummy.

They’re all filthy whores and thirst traps. This new generation is only going to have sex with others for money. OnlyFans is encouraging this

I've never posted a photo online that showed my face as well as my dick - I'm always quite surprised how many guys are willing to do this, but I guess these days it's not a big deal at all and there will be a singularity at some point in the near future where just about everyone has at least one nude floating around online, and there will be no shame whatsoever.

[quote]Does every young man have his dick out online now?

No, mostly mutilated ones who have no shame!

[quote] Does every young man have his dick out online now?

To which my answers are:

I hope so (if they're 18+, of course)

and

Where are the links?

This will come back to bite them. 8 out of 10 times it does

Having nudes online will be the norm in a few decades. These younger ppl really will change society and shrug at knowing that nudes of certain folks are out there. I mean, ppl shrugged at Melania Trumps nudes

R53 You mean on the dick, because it’s dangling?

That's what I think. If every other person has a dick pic online, then it's just not going to be a big deal. I think we need to throw some of the old ideas about this kind of thing out the window.

It’s still a big deal with many.

One day it will be the norm, but we aren’t there yet.

I want to deep throat and ride him.

I don't want to see [italic]everyone[/italic]'s dick online.

No one's going to buy that cow if he's giving the milk away for free!

[quote]Does every young man have his dick out online now?

Just the cute ones.

If you’re hot then you’ve got dick pics online. No question about it. It is the norm in 2021.

No. Many hot guys do not. The hottest ones are hard to get

R63 they’ve got em you’re probably old, naive and/or not tech savvy.

It’s hard to gather kompromat and blackmail Gen Z when they voluntarily put it all out there.

Brave new world, r65, that has such people in't.

Let us hope so. They definitely should.

It's a happy day in # alounge when they do.

Guys with BIG dicks are far more likely to show them off online, giving most people an unrealistic expectation of what the "average" dick size is.

Case in point.

Whatever appeal the pudgy cub guy at R23 might have had was lost when he decided to show off while on the shitter.

[quote] Does every young man have his dick out online now?

Yup, welcome to the 21st century

You're right, R7, we are living in a Golden Age.

I remember the bad old days in the 80s when the Kodak Store manager acted as our city censor.

He refused to process and release film negatives which included nudes.

Later on he allowed nudes and "natural erections" but refused to allow "erections which had been manipulated'

I know of a fraternity who posed full-frontal, all of them, for a group picture. This was after a picture was taken when they all wore shirts and ties. I don't know if some guys held back, but there was a good 50 or 60 of them letting it all hang out for the nude snap.

R74 ok.

Hugh Grant was in an English fraternity or club in the 70s with photos of them in fancy dress and I think one was nude.

Sheffield and Hallam [?] universities have (almost) nude calendars.

[quote]I mean, ppl shrugged at Melania Trumps nudes

Some of us vomited.

r73 When did Kodak have stores?

Melania is also a woman. Not a man showing hole online. That’s different

The answer to your question, R78, can be found in R73.

DLers are also downplaying it all.

Just nudes? That can be forgiven if it’s not showing hole etc.

Gay sex? That’s where they’re fucked.

r80 I was around in the '80s and don't recall ever having come across a Kodak store.

I've been saying for years that the post Kim Kardashian era would be like this. The pandemic was a huge catalyst and has created the perfect conditions for Onlyfans to proliferate. People need money, have been confined at home, cannot have sex like they once were. Shaming goes against the movement of social consiousness going on right now. The question is now if the market will become oversaturated in some way.

Its been said before.

When I was young in the 70s and 80s, we were nude with our teammates and classmates and friends often, in real life. gym-sports teams-local swimming holes. And nobody took nude pictures.

Nowadays, they all have their junk out in representations. But at least the straight guys - do the towel dance in real life.

[quote] The question is now if the market will become oversaturated in some way.

Do you think the prime motivation is Only Fans money?

I think it's a primeval need for men to display their power and their mighty 'tower of power'

It happens because the internet exists. It happened 10 years ago, there were kids on MySpace and other sites holding cameras as they fucked. A lot of years ago, people couldn't even take pictures of their dicks or any nudity, if they were sending out the pics to be developed. Because they wouldn't get them back. Then there was Polaroid, and instant photos, and that changed. I think over time this went from being something people on the edge did, to everyone doing. It's weird that a lot of kids have no shame or modesty about it, but it's just how things are.

[quote] It's weird

No, it's beautiful. I hope Americans will become as disinhibited as Europeans who appear nude in teenage dating magazines.

Again. Nudity and porn are not the same.

Yes, nudity and porn are not the same. Nick Sandell's nude videos are so unerotic they're rather boring to watch.

You have a generation of kids who have been photographed since they were in utero, and that same generation of kids who have grown up with the internet and access to everything, including porn and the ability transmit intimate photos in a way that was never available before. Now, these same kids have seen careers built on leaked sex tapes and dick pics and have a different relationship to all of this stuff than previous generations. Nudity, porn, sex work... it's just not the life destroyer it was once was.

There’s something very convenient about how this kind of “sexual liberation” falls into such a strict corporate business model. I’m not judging the individuals at all but this is just another way that corporations are asserting control over people’s private lives. It’s so intrusive. Airbnb turned people’s houses into business opportunities, YouTube is just free marketing from “content creators”. Onlyfans is doing the same to people’s sex lives. People’s closets are for sale on Grailed. There’s no space remaining that is not being exploited for business. These business models assert themselves so quickly and the governments are so slow to reply and legislate that by the time they get around to it it’s too late. Airbnb has destroyed communities all over the world. Nobody stopped them. I see very little to no critique of this kind of surrender of private space to corporate interests. And this isn’t from a place of sex negativity at all. Altho I do roll my eyes at these rich-kid white boy “sex workers” that have been on onlyfans for 5 minutes and use that term to kind of co-opt the suffering of people that have been held in forced prostitution etc. to make themselves seem #gritty and #edgy.

Its not just their dicks but their hot gorgeous asses that they get out online! Whilst I welcome it I do think the returns many make on onlyfans are going to shrink because there are so many of them doing it that the market is oversaturated. I think a possible knock on effect of that happening will be a noticeable but smallish shift by some guys away from onlyfans to more escort work.

R92 You're talking about the financial aspect. I suggest that lots of them get pleasure merely from displaying themselves and being adored by an unknown audience.

You think exhibitionism is a bigger driver of this trend? Possibly but there does just seem to be a higher proportion of young gay men prepared to do stuff sexually for money than there was 20 odd years ago and I am not trying to claim previous eras were pure that way or even close to pure! But taboos are going or at least weakening.

r94 was meant for r93 ^^^

Here's a 5000 word article about those flashers who existed before the internet.

We don't have much information about them because newspapers and police were so secretive.

The Internet has brought all this to a wider audience.

Whores deserve to be slut shamed online. Keep going girls!

[quote]No, it's beautiful. I hope Americans will become as disinhibited as Europeans who appear nude in teenage dating magazines.

I disagree that kids going online and being exhibitionists for money is "beautiful." There's something about the distance of being online that makes it more acceptable apparently but it's public exhibitionism and sex. If they were doing it actually out in public, how would that be? But regardless, it's a choice to do something for money (or for free) that's a waste of life, when they could be trying to do something that contributes to society, the world in some way. Working towards healthy, wholesome goals, or doing something to help other people. When you see more and more people going this way, it's just a sign of hopelessness and decadence. I'm not a conservative or prudish guy and I think it has its place, but this is too pervasive and it's sick and a sign of a sick society.

[quote] prudish

Dear R98, we can be as prudish as we like (for I am rather prudish myself). But we won't be suffering any possible consequences that these young men might meet.

And, truthfully, I applaud them for sharing.

[quote]that's a waste of life, when they could be trying to do something that contributes to society, the world in some way.

r98 IMO if your talent is being good at sex or if you are sexually attractive, I dont think society should marginalize it. Even if people dont say it, they need it and will seek it out.

I will also say it is unwise to make this kind of thing your primary means of living. To me that is the component that is not good for society. You may not be able to sustain yourself for as long as you think. It has happened in the entertainment industry forever. Fast money and a few years later when everyone has moved on to younger and sexier, the money is spent on nonsense and nothing is left.

One day they will regret it. They will move on from this and join the real world, with its limitations and judgement. It could lose them jobs, partners, and self respect when they realise they brought this on themselves. A reputation is a bitter thing to lose. Gay men especially have double standards. They will enjoy the images, but they wouldn’t be seen dead with the person they’ve wanked over. It’s hypocrisy.

Is anyone else disturbed that there is so much nudity on an app aimed at underaged children? Sickening.

r101 I agree to an extent. It depends greatly on the work you do as well. The judgement factor is still there, but on a personal level people dont dwell on it as much as they once did. Society is coming to terms with the fact that people are mutlifaceted. Will you get taken as seriously, probably not, but you wont be banished from society either.

As an eldergay. I'm loving it. If I was a life coach I'd be cringing. These idiots don't understand the internet is forever, storage is cheap, and society is hypocritical and unforgiving.

R102 What app, TikTok? I don’t think that is in any way intended for children.

[quote]I'm not a conservative or prudish guy and I think it has its place, but this is too pervasive and it's sick and a sign of a sick society.

People were doing it already, you just didn't see it online and they didn't always get paid for it.

When the President of the United States is married to a woman who got her tits out on camera for money, no matter what you thought of her politics, people didn't attack her en masse for it. That would have absolutely destroyed anyone a couple of decades ago. Not even the Democrats would harp on that.

Why? Because things are changing.

As a heads up it's going to get worse.

Twitter is adding a new "Super Followers" feature that will allow people to charge their followers for content. Rather than people linking to their onlyfans so their followers can see it, now people will be able to post content directly on their twitter and only their paid "super fans" will see it. It's going to make Twitter a lot of money and giving their massive userbase access to this is going to change things dramatically.

[quote]People were doing it already, you just didn't see it online and they didn't always get paid for it.

Of course people were doing it already, just not a lot of high school kids or college student. If you ever read or listen to Chris Hedges, he talks a lot about this stuff, in relation to hopelessness and economic and social collapse. People have lost self-esteem, ethics, morals, self-worth because of poor job prospects, decimated communities, etc.

[quote] Chris Hedges

R107 Are you talking about the Presbyterian minister?

R102, R105 The video in the OP's link bears the TikTok logo but it doesn't appear on TikTok.

His TikTok account mentions that he was 'banned' at some point from TikTok.

I don’t care for these OnlyFans whores. They aren’t people in my eyes. Just objects of desires. What happens to them after is none of my concern. They’re just wanking material who cares. Until the next load!

[quote]Of course people were doing it already, just not a lot of high school kids or college student

One of my classmates in high school brought pictures of his naked girlfriend to class to show everyone. She posed for him and he took pics with an old Panasonic camera. In college I got invited to a "College Fuck Fest" party where a camera crew filmed a couple of porn stars having sex and the crowd watched in a frat house or large apartment. (Yes, those videos were real if you remember the site.)

I'll give you that people had less access to these things because of a lack of sophisticated tech though.

I will check out this Chris Hedges. Thank you!

R110 is the type who has their escorts knocked off after they are done with them.

I’m still thinking about how beautifully and elegantly his robust cock swings and flops...

Dumb sluts are gonna be dumb sluts forever.

I don't know what but I'm grateful..

"The weird, or ironic, thing is that they will show their dicks online but if somebody makes an unwelcome pass or comment their entire world falls apart"

Are these the same young guys who do the towel dance when they undress in the gym locker room? Just when you think the younger generation are prudes, they're whipping it out on Instagram. Mind-boggling.

[quote]"The weird, or ironic, thing is that they will show their dicks online but if somebody makes an unwelcome pass or comment their entire world falls apart"

Come on, you have to understand the difference.

Yes, for the kids this has become the new normal. And once tumblr was no more, it made its way over to twitter, and it was normalized there. Yeah, but, wait a second. Twitter? TWITTER? Really? wtf? I thought Twitter was supposed to be worldwide platform for sharing and following the written/typed word. You could follow and read other peoples text, words and thoughts all within a limited word count. No? Pics are for Instagram.

I'm giving partial credit to Madonna for what's going on here. Her ascent to super-stardom started 1983-84, and in '85 Penthouse mag published top-to-bottom nude pics from a photoshoot she'd done pre-fame, when she was still struggling and unknown in NYC. Then another shoot surfaced with just her and a cat (aka her pussy). It sold as a progressive coffee table book. Instead of letting it kill her career, her response was "I'm not ashamed." A few weeks later she was a headliner at LIve AId in Philadelphia, where she referenced it by telling the packed stadium "I'm not taking shit off today!"

But these kids better take note. When Madonna read the book on fame, she skipped over a few of the last chapters, including "How to age gracefully in front of the entire world." Time flies, and your fifteen minutes are up before you know it.

R118 what Madonna lacks in aging gracefully, Vanessa Williams more than makes up for.

But the prototype for these kids today is Kim Kardashian. So many are chasing that

[quote] Does every young man have his dick out online now?

I would be glad to show my appreciation in any and every way I can.

[quote] shrugged at Melania Trumps nudes

And totally ignored Hunter Biden's erect penis and hardcore sex tapes.

[quote] Are these the same young guys who do the towel dance when they undress in the gym locker room? Just when you think the younger generation are prudes, they're whipping it out on Instagram. Mind-boggling.

Casual nudity is still discouraged among males at least in America. Meanwhile, girls can post shots of their ass and tits hanging out and no one blinks.

Everything is so extreme today. When I grew up in the 90s, it was cutting and eating disorders, now everything is permanent. You have young men and women transitioning, castrating themselves, manipulating their hormones either through blockers or steriods. I look at Instagram and I see an endless sea of young males who are obviously taking steriods. Tattooing their entire bodies. Or they masturbate online, they film themselves having sex—the Internet is forever. All this stuff is permanent. This generation is crazy. Every generation gets worse and worse.

[quote] Casual nudity is still discouraged among males at least in America.

People still view nudity the same way. There is a degree of innocence or playfulness when it comes to nudity in other countries. The stuff being posted on Twitter and Onlyfans is just amateur porn.

I just posted my first amateur video on one of the free sites. The first few seconds show my face but I didn't know how to edit it out. Oh well, I'm a pretty anonymous person.

It's basically a rear view of me fucking a plastic sex toy. I did it to see what I looked like and maybe boost my self-esteem (in my 50s). It turned out surprisingly good: my ass looks nice and my big balls are flopping while I pound that thing.

link

R125 😂

We're living in a dicktatorship.

[quote] If only this was true in the 70s and 80s....

Millennials have bigger dicks.

So true r91 these kids are riding all the glamorous aspects of sex work porn models and Instagram influencers show. But that is a facade.

R125, give us a link or throw a bone or something. I wanna see your balls and ass!

Was it Xhamster R125?

r120 Such kindness!!

Not all of us.

I wonder how they choose their media to display themselves—

Twitter.

Onlyfans.

Guys with iphones

Reddit Ladyboners.

Some involve money, others don't. Some are gayish and others not.

Three homes 🔑🏠

The TikTok Silhouette Challenge which inspired the OP has inspired another—

—and this, also.

AND—

I like the dumpy hot popper sniffer.

There is a chip missing in the mind of many millennials and Gen Z-ers. The few times I have exchanged numbers with one at a bar, he sends me a dick pic among other things. Bitch, I already told you I am total top, I don't give a shit about your dick! Like, how do you exist as a gay man?

Lots of tops still like hot dicks - visually, too play with, to suck, to give a reach around. Is everyone supposed to know everything about your sexuality based on a bar chat?

[quote] Bitch, I already told you I am total top,

But, R141, would you prefer he send you a picture of his anus?

It's just moral masochism normalised. It's like we live in a dying civilisation that has no real purpose anymore beyond consumption.

[quote] we live in a dying civilisation

Douglas Murray says "In the latter part of the 20th century we entered the post modern era.

An era which defines itself, and was defined, by it's suspicion towards all grand narratives.

The problem is one that is easier to feel than it is to prove, but it runs something like this: that life in modern liberal democracies is to some extent thin or shallow and that life the Modern Western Europe in particular has lost its sense of purpose.

Stefan Zweig said 'I feel that Europe is in a state of derangement and has passed its own death sentence.

Wanna see my dick?