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How come people don’t mention vers on this forum?

It’s either top or bottom with a lot of these people, they act like vers doesn’t exist.

It’s always “HE’S A BOTTOM!” or “HE’S A TOP!” and people forget about vers.

by Anonymousreply 20Last Tuesday at 1:13 AM

Do they exist?

by Anonymousreply 1Last Monday at 7:41 AM

Because this forum is full of false dramatics.

Ultimately most have a preference for some kind of role, but all verse really means is that you can be either sex position with high enjoyment.

by Anonymousreply 2Last Monday at 7:42 AM

Vers usually means bottom unless they are really, really horny.

by Anonymousreply 3Last Monday at 7:43 AM

Mary!!! Why are you even thinking about sex during a pandemic!!!

by Anonymousreply 4Last Monday at 7:43 AM

I am a small guy - short, small frame, tiny dick. I love both positions, but I usually defer to bottom bunk out of politeness/practicality, because otherwise, it would be ridiculous - like a Chihuahua humping a Great Dane's leg. When I am with another vers guy who is pretty evenly-matched with me, size-wise (not a common occurrence!) it makes a big difference as far as the dynamics of sex are concerned - and flipping back and forth is absolute HEAVEN.

by Anonymousreply 5Last Monday at 7:48 AM

I love flip flopping. I can't be in a relationship with a guy who's strictly top or bottom.

by Anonymousreply 6Last Monday at 7:56 AM

Vers = bottom

Vers-bottom = bottom

Vers-top = bottom

by Anonymousreply 7Last Monday at 7:58 AM

Because DL conventional wisdom is that "vers" only happens when two bottoms hook up and one of them has to be the top by default and he's actually doing the other bottom a favor.

Same thought pattern that believes in the existence of "total tops", men who only get blown and top, a common fantasy on the apps.

by Anonymousreply 8Last Monday at 8:01 AM

This forum skews old. It was top or bottom back then. Now young boys are fluid and enjoy less restrictions and more variation.

by Anonymousreply 9Last Monday at 8:04 AM

Because many DLers are eldergays who are from a time when being a strict top or a strict bottom was a thing. It hasn't been that way in at least two generations.

by Anonymousreply 10Last Monday at 8:04 AM

Because many DLers are younger gays who know that vers is not really a thing.

by Anonymousreply 11Last Monday at 11:54 AM

Flip flopping is the best, specially if you have chemistry with the other guy

by Anonymousreply 12Last Monday at 11:59 AM

Because 1, there are a lot of old folks here, and they seemed most attached to the top/bottom dichotomy. Second, there are a lot of trolls here, so some of it is just shit posting. Most gay men I know are versatile to one degree or another.

by Anonymousreply 13Last Monday at 12:01 PM

R7 Wish we could get Muriel to sticky this at the top of the board.

by Anonymousreply 14Last Monday at 12:03 PM

I'm a total top with some fuckbuddies. And a total bottom for others. I guess I'm versatile.

by Anonymousreply 15Last Monday at 1:34 PM

Oh please. Most of us DO have a preference of either topping or bottoming. Verse is a real thing of course, but it's not the norm and we all know it.

by Anonymousreply 16Last Monday at 2:51 PM

Maybe not for your generation, gramps.

by Anonymousreply 17Last Monday at 2:59 PM

[quote] How come people don’t mention

A lot of us don’t mention things because we know that the crazy Dataloungers will attack us.

by Anonymousreply 18Last Monday at 3:06 PM

R13 Anecdotal evidence is not evidence. Who you know means nothing.

by Anonymousreply 19Last Tuesday at 1:04 AM

[quote]Mary!!! Why are you even thinking about sex during a pandemic!!!

Regarding sex, what else is there to do other than thinking about it?

by Anonymousreply 20Last Tuesday at 1:13 AM
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