Fetishes that you just don't understand

Water sports

With fetishes is pretty simple, the ones you have are extremely erotic, the ones you don't are disgusting

Pretty much all of them are incomprehensible.

Trader Joe's

Diapers.

Scat.

Is it getting fucked at Trader Joe's or by a Trader Joe's employee or something else?

R4 big difference between a fetish and an obsession

Maybe TMI, but here's a list of paraphilias.

[Quote] Is it getting fucked at Trader Joe's or by a Trader Joe's employee or something else?

[Quote] big difference between a fetish and an obsession

I live where TJ's started. It's been a FETISH here for decades. It's fucking bizarre human behavior. It's a religion almost.

TJ's is overrated, IMO.

Pluses: they sell liquor, good prices on stuff like nuts and dried fruits.

Minuses: lots of packaged and prepared (premade, frozen, etc.) foods that aren't that great. This is what people go crazy over.

Telephone scatologia...

FURRIES.

Fisting.

Leather.

Bondage.

Master/slave play.

Daddy/son play. Just do not get it.

The obsessive attraction, by some, toward foreskins.

The dog stuff with the dog masks.

Shite, Piss, Ears, and armpits...

Leather shorts.

Zoophilia

Leather in general.

MARY!

I have no interest in anyone's feet whatsoever; however, I have had sex with men way over my pay grade because they asked me if they could smell my feel and jerk off to them. I always negoitate with what I need from them and the game is on. Muscle queens with big dicks wanting to lick my toes and smell my socks are fine by me, and yes it happens more than one can believe.

R17 beat me to it, wtf is going on with those creepy masks? Or when they have dildo tails? The pup culture is completely beyond my comprehension.

The gainer/encourager community as well. I mean, I get it but it's just so sad.

R23 Funny! It is the most common, or popular sexual fetish. Not everyone who finds feet to be erotic are automatically down with sucking toes, or sniffing. Some of us demand clean feet, and are more into the sensuous aspect of massage, and appreciating nice feet. I think it's somewhat similar to how many straight women appreciate the form of some bloke's hands: nice fingernails, long fingers, big hands, etc.

Feeders

Furries

Fart sniffing

Scat

Any form of BDSM and S&M and furries are just fucking creepy!

I’ve had a foot fetish since I was a little kid. I’ve stopped trying to figure it out...it just is. Once I decided to just go with it, it became so much easier to enjoy, and share. It’s the most common fetish among both men and women

Gloryholes.

No, wait. I love them....or used to when they were found in public, unlike nowadays, especially when found unexpected when I wasn't on the hunt for one. .

Shit. I’m open minded about other things even if I don’t get them, but scat is just sick.

Adult babies.

Scat, feeders, feet, and furies. Scat especially. The smell alone is horrible. Furies must be so uncomfortable under those costumes.

Water sports are slightly less bizarre, but it's still not my thing.

I’m a hairdresser and years ago discovered a site on Yahoo Groups that men and women had a perm fetish, how the cape was draped, cotton and rods pulled taut, the smell, etc.

How ghastly!

Gossip.

R35 you're an idiot who clearly has no idea what a fetish is.

Tassel loafers, argyle socks and spitting

I just dont get fetishes in general . Sex itself is an amazing act,why the need for props and costumes and themes ? I dont judge someone else for having one , Ive dabbled myself back in my 'try anything' stage of youth . But a theme queen is the biggest turn off to me ,always has been .

Some general fetishes I get - leather, for example - the smell is great. But, usually I'm so confused by fetishes - piss? scat? so disgusting.

yeah. shitting in someone's mouth...that's really disgusting...allegedly antivirus mcafee founder loves it. He paid some whores to shit in his mouth. I saw a documentary and that's what they said. How do you not get sick from eating shit?

^ Yeah, people into scat or being degraded during sex are mentally ill.

Speaking of mentally ill I don't understand how anyone could possibly be turned on by someone else's mental illness; how you can get off on a person who has literally butchered their body and think that is hot stuff seems rather sadistic to me. :/

Ingesting human waste, foreskin obsession, & fisting.

I agree R38 and fetish people are usually pushy about their kinks.

A foot fetisher once praised my feet. I asked why. He said high arches.

We fucked.

Twins, and/or twincest.

Pee Pee is glorious!

I guess I'm just a boring old fuck, just fuck and suck and cum.

I don’t understand men dressing up as women and thinking it’s really sexy.

R48, that's how they used to have sex back in the 1970s!!

I hooked up with this guy once who was really into armpits. I didn’t get it, but it seemed to make him happy so I just let him do his thing. I just always wonder how fetishes start. I’m thinking that it must be something in childhood or around puberty.

Being held afterwards

Shaving is another one I don't get.

"I'm really into hair removal, it makes me so hard."

Uh... what?

All that dom/sub bullshit.

I love a guy in leather. Always have. I remember being intrigued by leather at a young age, so it’s something I’ve carried with me awhile. I’m not into the leather scene, but seeing a hot guy in leather can get me off.

Any kind of drag, be it womens clothes or leather. Love w/s, scat, feet, pits

R34, years ago I stumbled on the men's perm-fetish group and thought it was a scream. I believe this Flickr collection is by the same guy who ran the Yahoo group.

What do shoe fetishist do? Look at them and jerk off? Fuck the shoe?

R58 - what's that old French movie about the man who fetishizes women's shoes? I couldn't imagine what interest they could have.

I remember as a college kid on the 80s stumbling across a personal ad in the back of a gay porn magazine—Mandate or Blueboy maybe? Anyway the guy had a thing for amputees and entreated them to contact him and fuck him with their stumps

I read an interview with Dian Hanson, a former porn magazine editor who now works for Taschen, and she said that a man once told her that when he died he wanted his skin to made into shoes so she could wear him.

Poop, pee, vomit, fisting, incest stuff I just don’t get. Feet and all don’t bother me. Nor do furries and S & M.

Bears who get turned on by Woofing and Growling during sex.

Fetishes really aren't that confusing or a mental illness, if you share the fetish you will understand, if you don't you won't understand. It is not all that dissimilar to a straight person not understanding gay attraction. The attraction is real to the people who have it and just seems crazy to the people who don't.

I have a slight shoe fetish, it is normally the second thing I notice about a guy after the face. I don't want to have sex with the shoe or lick them, just a nice looking pair of shoes piques my interest, makes an average looking guy hotter to me. You don't chose a fetish anymore than you chose what sex you are attracted to and I am grateful I don't have a more dangerous or revolting fetish. Some of you just need to accept then are sexual attractions you will never understand and get over it.

accept *there* are sexual attractions

How come I can proof read and proof read and don't see a mistake until I hit enter?

The crown

Datalounge's hallmark ass, fart, shit fetish. I would never have known.

You’re welcome.

When even gay people refuse to accept other people with non-traditional sexual desires that they don't share I get angry. The irony that some of the terms used above like "mentally ill" "disgusting" "creepy" "sick" are the exact same terms used by homophobes about same sex attraction is lost on some of you.

For years our mantra was "if you don't like it, don't do it", how soon we forget.

I don’t understand 🐏🐎🦮 and 🐓😳😳

puppy play, furries, fisting, watersports, pnp

Spanking, whipping, electric shocks...

Eons ago, in the embryonic era of the internet, there was a Usenet true crime group where a psycho poster who called himself Joe1orbit posted profusely about how turned on he was by women's feet. He especially enjoyed seeing women who were obviously in pain because of their shoes. He said he could barely go out in public because he'd get so turned on.

Sounding. Just the thought of it gives me the whim-whams.

Saline injections into your genitals. Oh goody, balls the size of grapefruits.

Immobilization from being wrapped up in plastic sheets. I'm sweating just thinking about it.

[quote]How come I can proof read and proof read and don't see a mistake until I hit enter?

Once more, you hit it too soon: "proofread and proofread."

R74 Thanks, I had forgotten about those!

all the tying up with all the little knots and everything.

it seems like an awful lot of work for no payoff. except someone has to undo all of it, which is pretty much a boner killer.

Is only wanting to suck a HUGE dick a fetish? or an obsession?

Buttplugs the size of road cones.

R78: We call that "high standards".

One poster mentioned the "fart" thing. I remember someone on here mentioning that one of their friends actually pays men to fart in their face. I do not get that /at all/. Do they get excited when they find out that their prospective lay eats a lot of legumes? Another "just weird" one.

Celine Dion.

Scat for sure

I used to read erotic stories posted on forums, the "other" category was always an eye opener. Some weren't my thing but I got why someone would be turned on (like stories about growing larger or smaller, or fantasies about burly cigar-smoking guys). But a sub-sub-genre of these type of stories was devoted to stories about guys who magically shrank and turned into cigars, which were then smoked by burly guys.

Diaper fetishes

Smoking apparently people can make anything into a fetish.

[quote] getting fucked...by a Trader Joe's employee...?

Some of them are pretty cute.

[quote] shitting in someone's mouth...that's really disgusting...allegedly antivirus mcafee founder loves it. He paid some whores to shit in his mouth.

OMG! I've met and spoken with this guy. He visited a software company that I worked for.

[quote] just a nice looking pair of shoes piques my interest

As long as they're on big feet.

I dont get scat. Im into leather and rubber though. I also have a thing for guys in sneakers. Fucking a bottom in hightops or nike TNs turns me on. Why? No idea, but its a strong sexual urge. And I'm not even into bare feet...

I dont understand pup/furries either. Interesting a lot of them are bi/ pansexual. Few are tidally gay. Nothing wrong with that, but its interesting that that sexuality seems to gravitate to that kink. Wonder why?

For r58

Fetishes just sound like too much work and these days who has the time.

Necrophelia.

A generation ago on the internet alt. groups there was a German guy who would post on every one trying to find someone to share his fetish of farting on cakes and having an unsuspecting woman eat a slice. He would get quite descriptive:

"Oh, look at the cake, with its creamy white icing! She cannot resist! She takes a slice and puts in her mouth! HA HA HA! Oh, it is so sour of his farts!"

Farts and cakes have to be lonely fetishes on their own, but pairing them up ...

Oh for Pete's sake, you don't have to understand a fetish nor think about it too much. That's the hole damn point. Either it turns you on or it doesn't. And when it turns you on, most of the time, the novelty wears off anyway and its no longer a fetish.

When you think of "fetish," do you think of:

- a strong performance or turn-on in sex play

or

- cannot perform without fetish present in some way

Most of these various fetishes are just manifestations if the same two things: domination and submission.

There's always an R69 around ready to equate fucking a guy with fucking a chicken wearing mini high-heels that eats your fart cake.

Sounding. Fisting.

That whole exposure/humiliation bullshit and furries aka cartoon bestiality practitioners.

The foot thing is is gross to me and it's not only gay or straights with foot fetishes either. It seems that commercials are constantly showing people with their feet right in the camera all the time now.

And certainly I do not like seeing all these nasty crusty hooves, untrimmed toenails, and middle age white men with varicose veins in their feet and up the legs. This flip flop thing has got to go.

Poop is gross for sure

Tentacles? Never got the erotic appeal

Fuck you OP. Feet are a common fetish and they are beautiful.

I have a question. On Tumblr, there is a pretty high incidence of "sports" bondage guys. The photos show these guys, almost always dressed up in regular, bulky, hockey or football uniforms, tied down on their backs somehow, just immobilized, alone, in one of these uniforms. That's all there is to it. What gives? Does their 'captor' just leave them there for hours (say for the duration of a television football or hockey game)? What part of this is the sex part? I think the sheer stupidity and pointlessness of it fascinates me, but what does it all lead to? There is no 'activity' involved, I guess. What's the point?

Pedophilia -- In the days before COVID when I used to shop inside the stores, there were always screaming kids and I wanted to shout in their faces "Shut the fuck up!" I don't know how some people find that sexy. Mental illness I suppose.

Incest -- All of my family members are disgusting so I don't get that one either.

Then obvious ones like bestiality, coprophilia, water sports, etc.

I’ve only heard of it in the world of straights, but sploshing. That’s where you smear food like chocolate pudding and ketchup all over your body. They’d have splash parties for this. It was particularly popular in the UK.

Female masking is another creepy one.

I went out with a guy who was big into men wearing female undergarments, and I wore them for him a couple of times. It did nothing for me. I guess I have a mild fetish for men in white briefs, or what are now called by the stupid name tightly whiteys.

Ick. Trump loving furries is doubly depressing.

[quote]just a nice looking pair of shoes piques my interest

I love a good looking pair of dress shoes with a high shine. I'm tingling at the thought!

Muscle worshiper here...also like a guy to show me how strong he is by doing feats of strength. I blame Bluto from the old Popeye cartoons.

People who like to be choked. I thought you wanted to be fucked, not feeling like you'll be murdered.

I will admit I'm curious about the choking/ S-M thing: how many guys are ACTUALLY done in during sex, when all this "play" goes too far? I've tried investigating the statistics on google, but have never found any info. How many guys a year are throttled to death during quickies every year? When I lived in New York, back in the early 90's, I had a slight acquaintance, who lived in the West Village, who was found dead, tied up in his bed; no one was ever arrested...

Anything that out of the bedroom/sex den would be considered assault and battery.

I loved daddy/boy role play when I was in my 20s. It wasn't quite a fetish, but it was close to it. Now? Just give me someone half way normal and I'm happy.

[quote]Anything that out of the bedroom/sex den would be considered assault and battery.

Bullshit. Whether in or out of a 'bedroom/sex den' crimes are crimes including murder.

I think this woman just came up with an all-new fetish!

Dress shoes w/sheer dress socks & garter (sans rest of business attire)

Apparently the scats have a sub-fetish called doing a "Cookie Sheet" where the person shits little pieces across the other person's chest in rows.

Sounding, daddy/son, scat, water sports, blood play.

Chest pounding, woofing/barking, sounding and that weird popper huffing gooning bullshit.

Shitting little bits in rows is quite a skill. What remarkable sphincters these shitters must have.

sdgdfhdhsdgj Happy New Year! Suck my toes!

Frottage or Fromage

Fisting

The only fetishes that excite me are twincest and incest between similar-aged siblings - must be young and beautiful. I have never participated in this and sadly never will.

Any other fetishes either bore, horrify or disgust me.

But, live and let live, as long as I am not involved and no one gets hurt.

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Most fetishistic guys tend to be at least a little crazy so they're best avoided when possible.