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Bear to Otter or ?

Are you a bear that has lost weight and transitioned to otter or something else? How has your life changed? And...congratulations!!!

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by Anonymousreply 1011/20/2020

I'm a Whitetino Husbear, thank-you-very-much.

by Anonymousreply 111/20/2020

Yes I stopped eating my feelings… And I’m now a Twink/otter.

by Anonymousreply 211/20/2020

This is quite simply the stupidest thread I’ve seen in 20+ years of reading Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 311/20/2020

Stupid because it hits close to home?

by Anonymousreply 411/20/2020

No, stupid because it’s stupid. I’ve lost 60 pounds in recent years but I don’t think that means I have to identify as some stupid label (bear, otter, etc.) invented by grown men so they can act like stupid 13 year old middle school girls and categorize strangers. That’s why I think it’s stupid, stupid.

by Anonymousreply 511/20/2020

Congrats! Tell us how your life has changed after losing 60 POUNDS!

by Anonymousreply 611/20/2020

We all know that bears are complete and total assholes. I’ve seen many many friends lose weight and be ostracized by the bear community and literally dropped as friends. They are no better than any other part of the gay community. R5 .I completely agree with you labels are stupid as fuck.

by Anonymousreply 711/20/2020

I think it’s sad when your whole identity is wrapped up in being fat. You vacation with other fat people, you eat with fat people, your sex life revolves around fat people etc. etc. Your move to places like Wilton Manors and live in a bear bubble. What happens when you lose weight? You lose your whole identity. I’ve seen it happen over and over with friends.

by Anonymousreply 811/20/2020

R6 Good for you for losing the weight! I bet you feel fantastic. I bet your doctor is thrilled with you as well.

by Anonymousreply 911/20/2020

No responses? What do bears do on a Friday night? Get fisted then eat Big Macs?

by Anonymousreply 1011/20/2020
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