Are you a bear that has lost weight and transitioned to otter or something else? How has your life changed? And...congratulations!!!
I'm a Whitetino Husbear, thank-you-very-much.
| by Anonymous | reply 1 | November 20, 2020 2:45 PM |
Yes I stopped eating my feelings… And I’m now a Twink/otter.
| by Anonymous | reply 2 | November 20, 2020 2:51 PM |
This is quite simply the stupidest thread I’ve seen in 20+ years of reading Datalounge.
| by Anonymous | reply 3 | November 20, 2020 3:03 PM |
Stupid because it hits close to home?
| by Anonymous | reply 4 | November 20, 2020 3:06 PM |
No, stupid because it’s stupid. I’ve lost 60 pounds in recent years but I don’t think that means I have to identify as some stupid label (bear, otter, etc.) invented by grown men so they can act like stupid 13 year old middle school girls and categorize strangers. That’s why I think it’s stupid, stupid.
| by Anonymous | reply 5 | November 20, 2020 3:11 PM |
Congrats! Tell us how your life has changed after losing 60 POUNDS!
| by Anonymous | reply 6 | November 20, 2020 3:14 PM |
We all know that bears are complete and total assholes. I’ve seen many many friends lose weight and be ostracized by the bear community and literally dropped as friends. They are no better than any other part of the gay community. R5 .I completely agree with you labels are stupid as fuck.
| by Anonymous | reply 7 | November 20, 2020 3:15 PM |
I think it’s sad when your whole identity is wrapped up in being fat. You vacation with other fat people, you eat with fat people, your sex life revolves around fat people etc. etc. Your move to places like Wilton Manors and live in a bear bubble. What happens when you lose weight? You lose your whole identity. I’ve seen it happen over and over with friends.
| by Anonymous | reply 8 | November 20, 2020 3:22 PM |
R6 Good for you for losing the weight! I bet you feel fantastic. I bet your doctor is thrilled with you as well.
| by Anonymous | reply 9 | November 20, 2020 3:41 PM |
No responses? What do bears do on a Friday night? Get fisted then eat Big Macs?
| by Anonymous | reply 10 | November 20, 2020 11:59 PM |