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Why don't people masturbate more often?

It is SO relaxing.

And it feels SO good.

Is it religious guilt? You can't get it up? Low sex drive?

I jerk off every day, and it helps me to sleep better, I can think more clearly, and it is an orgasmic rush.

Those of you who don't masturbate, or are really uptight about it, are totally missing out!

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by Anonymousreply 83April 28, 2021 3:03 AM

Hell to the YES!

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by Anonymousreply 1November 10, 2020 5:58 PM

Excuse me for a moment...

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by Anonymousreply 2November 10, 2020 5:59 PM

What makes you think people don't masturbate often? Most people I know do it all the time.

by Anonymousreply 3November 10, 2020 5:59 PM

I just got the AutoBlow machine. For anybody that has used it, is it any good or just another rip off?

by Anonymousreply 4November 10, 2020 5:59 PM

[quote]People who regularly masturbate are more likely to be managers, survey reveals

My callouses should qualify me for CEO at least.

by Anonymousreply 5November 10, 2020 5:59 PM

You don’t need to masturbate when you can have hot men in your bed regularly

by Anonymousreply 6November 10, 2020 6:01 PM

During Covid, I rediscovered masturbation. I have perfected it by now. Amazing. Go for a long time. Edge. Then BAM. Unreal.

by Anonymousreply 7November 10, 2020 6:01 PM

Damn you start a lot of (stupid) threads

by Anonymousreply 8November 10, 2020 6:01 PM

Your answer is in the article's title. They don't want to deal with Karens.

by Anonymousreply 9November 10, 2020 6:02 PM

R8 = Psycho Stalker.

Get a fucking life, loser.

by Anonymousreply 10November 10, 2020 6:03 PM

Do you cum a lot, op ?

by Anonymousreply 11November 10, 2020 6:04 PM

During Covid I discovered the magical combination of weed + porn + flesh Jack + poppers. I sort of cursed myself because now I don't just jerk off normally; it's always a whole event.

by Anonymousreply 12November 10, 2020 6:11 PM

Lol R12.

That sounds like quite a production.

by Anonymousreply 13November 10, 2020 6:12 PM

On the other hand (no pun intended), there's a time and a place for everything.

by Anonymousreply 14November 10, 2020 6:14 PM

During Covid I signed for a site called “Bateworld”. There are tons of men exclusively into masturbation. A cool site.

by Anonymousreply 15November 10, 2020 6:44 PM

I do tantric self-pleasuring and I can hold my ejaculation for a few hours. And when I cum, it's the most electrifying orgasm I shall have, so I can't wank every day since it will be too physically draining for me.

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by Anonymousreply 16November 10, 2020 6:52 PM

I actually found that less is better, I use to be a daily wanker but now I find them more intense if I go without a couple of days but then I am old as dirt.

by Anonymousreply 17November 10, 2020 7:06 PM

Probably because you can't get it up, R17.

Sad!

by Anonymousreply 18November 10, 2020 7:39 PM

Prostate health

by Anonymousreply 19November 10, 2020 7:45 PM

I’m tired of doing myself.

by Anonymousreply 20November 10, 2020 7:48 PM

BECAUSE IT'S SIN, OP!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 21November 10, 2020 7:49 PM

[quote] I’m tired of doing myself.

Now listen here, you mullet.

Why don't you light your tampon, and blow your box apart.

Because that's the only BANG you're ever gonna get, sweetheart.

by Anonymousreply 22November 10, 2020 7:51 PM

[quote] BECAUSE IT'S SIN, OP!!!!!

GARGOYLES!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 23November 10, 2020 7:53 PM

How do I feel about masturbation?

I REBUKE IT IN THE NAME OF THE LORD!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 24November 10, 2020 7:55 PM

I can guarantee that the guys like R16 who waste hours getting themselves off are NOT the ones who are more likely to be managers.

by Anonymousreply 25November 10, 2020 8:12 PM

Living in a house with other people. Not everyone has privacy and their own space.

by Anonymousreply 26November 10, 2020 8:15 PM

Isn’t there privacy in the bathroom?

by Anonymousreply 27November 10, 2020 8:46 PM

[quote]What makes you think people don't masturbate often? Most people I know do it all the time.

I have to confess I'm not privy to the masturbation habits of most people I know.

by Anonymousreply 28November 10, 2020 8:51 PM

Too much work. I prefer nocturnal emissions.

by Anonymousreply 29November 10, 2020 8:58 PM

I should be so lucky, lucky, lucky, lucky.

Some people are just jealous, I can tell.

by Anonymousreply 30November 11, 2020 6:07 AM

People who regularly masturbate are more likely to be managers, survey reveals

*Sex Addicts more likely to be sociopaths who seek positions of power to feed addiction

by Anonymousreply 31November 11, 2020 6:13 AM

I already look like I am wearing fur gloves

by Anonymousreply 32November 11, 2020 10:13 PM

Besides getting older (54), some medicine I take knocked my libido down to absolute zero. I haven't jacked off since January! I don't miss it, really, I just don't think about it.

by Anonymousreply 33November 11, 2020 10:18 PM

R33, you should speak to your doctor about your incredibly low libido.

by Anonymousreply 34November 11, 2020 10:20 PM

In my opinion, there could be few reasons people don't masturbate everyday.

1. Taking away your interest in sex. Back when I madturbated daily, I did not even want to have sex with other and did not bother to look for any. Just being honest, masturbation sometimes is better than bad sex.

2. Wasting your time. When you madturbate daily, it will become more difficult for you to cum. Before you know it, you are spending half to one hour per day jerking off and watching porn. After you are done, you would just feel your time is wasted.

3. Taking away your energy. You felt tired after masturbating. It is a terrible way to use your energy.

by Anonymousreply 35November 11, 2020 10:25 PM

A couple of months ago, I had a procedure that meant I couldn't masturbate for 3 weeks.

And now, I have Prostatitis.

Related?

by Anonymousreply 36November 11, 2020 11:41 PM

R33 what medicine are you taking?

I'm going to see if I can get a prescription, because I need to LOWER my sex drive.

I think about sex all the time, and that's NOT a good thing.

I feel like a goddamned teenager with an out of control libido. I need help!

by Anonymousreply 37November 11, 2020 11:53 PM

Everyone is celibate these days.

by Anonymousreply 38November 12, 2020 12:27 AM

[quote]Besides getting older (54), some medicine I take knocked my libido down to absolute zero. I haven't jacked off since January! I don't miss it, really, I just don't think about it.

Sweetie, I'm 68 and I still jack off at least 3-4 times a week.

by Anonymousreply 39November 12, 2020 3:20 AM

R39 you don't, sweetie, but anonymous boards are fun!

by Anonymousreply 40April 18, 2021 10:58 AM

Most guys do jerk off at least once a day. They just prefer not to share that private info with anybody or even deny they masturbate.

by Anonymousreply 41April 18, 2021 11:12 AM

Some of us have sex with other people.

by Anonymousreply 42April 18, 2021 11:19 AM

R42 do those other people know?

by Anonymousreply 43April 18, 2021 1:35 PM

I masturbated last night to a strip search scene from an Italian tv series.

by Anonymousreply 44April 18, 2021 1:38 PM

How do you know how often people masturbate, OP, apart from your phony pose and bad data?

Some of us have alternatives to your lonely wanks. Maybe some day you'll get a chance, but of course you won't be able to get it up without your own hand at it.

by Anonymousreply 45April 18, 2021 2:26 PM

The Copycat Thread Thief is REALLY desperate for content now.

by Anonymousreply 46April 18, 2021 2:33 PM

Please share the scene, r44!

by Anonymousreply 47April 18, 2021 2:35 PM

Maturation is the only way we can evolve as a society. Maturation is key to being a post-sex society

by Anonymousreply 48April 18, 2021 2:36 PM

I’m 52 and I don’t do it every day anymore. I sometimes go several days. I will then edge for a while and get a huge load. I don’t know what happened last week, but I was so horny that I did it 3 times in one day. I haven’t done that in years.

I do have a partner, but we don’t live together, and he’s older and on medications and his sex drive is REALLY low. Long story. I’m lucky if we have sex once a month.

My record was 12 times in one day when I was 15. I was alone at my brother’s house and found my sister in law’s Playgirl mags. I had never seen anything like that. I used almost a whole roll of of toilet paper wiping up that cum.

by Anonymousreply 49April 18, 2021 2:42 PM

R49= Eldergay 🧓

by Anonymousreply 50April 18, 2021 3:28 PM

I edge every day, but usually prefer to ejaculate when I’m with another guy.

My first time after lockdown, I shot the biggest load of my life inside this dude. It felt fucking amazing.

by Anonymousreply 51April 18, 2021 3:54 PM

For me its more about cleaning out the pipes than it is getting off, but I can't really feel orgasms anymore--I blame years worth of anti-depressants which I haven't taken for ages--so going without isn't really a big deal for me at all.

by Anonymousreply 52April 18, 2021 4:14 PM

OP you are not alone

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by Anonymousreply 53April 18, 2021 4:34 PM

I used up all the retro gay porn scenes that worked, so now I just pop in Joan Armatrading or Annie Lennox for a wank of depression.

My prostate is healthier and it adds a new dimension to “Why”

by Anonymousreply 54April 18, 2021 4:41 PM

R22 "Light your tampon" -- I love the image of the little cotton string as a wick!

by Anonymousreply 55April 18, 2021 4:43 PM

Straight woman here. I love masturbating but here's my problem: It spoils me for male intercourse. I can make myself cum in minutes because I know what I'm doing. Men have such fragile egos, I wind up faking orgasms just to make them feel better.

by Anonymousreply 56April 18, 2021 4:49 PM

Hey, R56, reach down between your legs and work the hell out of that clit while engaged in coitus with a man. I always told my female partners to do just that. Most if not all men will find that to be a great turn on.

by Anonymousreply 57April 18, 2021 5:28 PM

That would be less shootings if more men did this.

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by Anonymousreply 58April 18, 2021 5:35 PM

R51 that’s how viruses spread!

by Anonymousreply 59April 19, 2021 12:14 PM

it's because they aren't sex addicts

by Anonymousreply 60April 19, 2021 12:26 PM

I really want to but I noticed that as I got older, I have less urge. And porn is not doing it as easily as before also. But I try to do it at least 2 a week.

by Anonymousreply 61April 19, 2021 1:08 PM

R61 I'm just the opposite. The older I get, the more I need to it. I'm afraid I'm losing brain cells.

by Anonymousreply 62April 19, 2021 2:43 PM

I did last night.

by Anonymousreply 63April 19, 2021 3:19 PM

Atta boy!!

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by Anonymousreply 64April 19, 2021 3:22 PM

Lately it’s an effort. Late 50s and my sex drive has plummeted. Which is fine - it really is a waste of time and doesn’t add much to my life. I make an effort once a week for prostate purposes - but I’ve stopped feeling like I NEED to. It’s one of the joys of getting older IMO.

by Anonymousreply 65April 19, 2021 3:34 PM

Religion is the reason for the shame associated with masturbation. (All the churches want more members to fight their wars and fill the offering plate, so they shame anyone who spills seed rather than uses it to fertilize an egg to create a future church member.)

In the Clinton Administration, Surgeon General, Jocelyn Elders was forced to resign after she said that masturbation should be taught in schools to prevent pregnancy and the spread of STIs. She also argued about the importance of making birth control available to young people. And she hinted that the welfare of pregnant teens was more important than that of the fetus.

As you can imagine, she wasn't popular with the churches.

by Anonymousreply 66April 19, 2021 3:36 PM

1. You will grow hair on your palms 2. YOU WILL GO BLIND.

by Anonymousreply 67April 19, 2021 3:39 PM

Folks are shamed for it. They masturbate less because of the shame by doctor Kellogs.

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by Anonymousreply 68April 19, 2021 6:41 PM

I've been jacking off semi-regularly lately to keep my prostate healthy. No sex with anyone for more than a year. And now I don't even care if I do. So I wank.

by Anonymousreply 69April 19, 2021 7:12 PM

I sometimes when I’m not even horny, for my prostate health too. Or I’m kinda bored and not much to do. In fact, I think I’ll do do now.

by Anonymousreply 70April 19, 2021 7:15 PM

My preacher told me I would go to hell if I did.

Then he raped me.

by Anonymousreply 71April 19, 2021 10:44 PM

Now I wank for a healthy prostate. And even though my sex drive has diminished, it of course does feels good. Plus, once I wank, my horniness subsides and it allows me to get some of my work done instead of looking at porn on the Internet for hours on end. I love looking at dick (and gossip) whether it's DL, tumblr, Chaturbate and those Bel Ami boys, Tim Tales, Pornhub, etc., but it is very time consuming.

by Anonymousreply 72April 19, 2021 11:01 PM

Oops I did it again 🤦‍♂

by Anonymousreply 73April 20, 2021 3:04 AM

Masturbation is a fact of life!

by Anonymousreply 74April 20, 2021 3:16 AM

This guy loves his pillow.

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by Anonymousreply 75April 20, 2021 3:19 AM

This guy loves the helping hand!

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by Anonymousreply 76April 20, 2021 3:24 AM

So, the headline in OP’s link ought to be: “Managers Tend To Be Wankers”. Something we kind of pretty much knew anyway.

I often get a strange guilt after masturbating. I think it’s from growing up in a fairly religious family. Masturbation was never directly addressed but the body was seen as kind of a shameful thing. I don’t intellectually believe that AT ALL, nor am I Christian now. But I still feel kind of ashamed after a quick fap. It didn’t help I got into Chinese martial arts theory and they frown upon masturbating on the basis you supposedly waste your body’s viral force. I’m not saying I believe it, but I definitely feel like I shouldn’t be masturbating.

by Anonymousreply 77April 27, 2021 1:56 PM

Leave it to the DL to scold you for NOT masturbating.

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by Anonymousreply 78April 27, 2021 2:01 PM

A huge percentage of people think it’s a sin or immoral

by Anonymousreply 79April 27, 2021 2:01 PM

When he was Napoleon's foreign minister, Talleyrand used to insist that the the young clerks jerk off before coming to work, just so they could focus on something other than their dicks for a few hours in the morning.

by Anonymousreply 80April 27, 2021 3:03 PM

R75 that guy is probably fucking a Fleshjack between pillows.

by Anonymousreply 81April 27, 2021 5:04 PM

R80 Thank you! I love military stories. The guys had to find satisfaction - it was called 'battle jack' for Marines - jacking off calmed them down before battle. Maybe other services did the same; I only know Marines.

by Anonymousreply 82April 28, 2021 2:45 AM

OP what makes you think people don’t? I’m sure as basement dwellers DLers wank off more.

by Anonymousreply 83April 28, 2021 3:03 AM
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