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Have You Ever Sold Your Body?

A few of my gay friends had gone that route, though for a short time. They made it sound easy. I was never hot enough to be picked up. I could barely get laid for free. But when I was broke I tried once by going to a hustler bar when I was about 18. An older, unattractive guy took me out to his place in the middle of nowhere. He took his clothes off, then mine, and laid on top of me. He came in a few seconds. I didn't know enough to get the money beforehand so when we went back out to his car so he'd drive me back to the city, he jumped in and drove off, leaving me there. I don't even recall how I got home. But I realized that, not only did I not have the face and body of a hustler, I didn't even have brains enough to get the money first. Never tried again. Anyone else? How much did you make doing it?

by Anonymousreply 83October 27, 2020 8:19 PM

I fucked for drugs but I was never an official prostitution whore.

by Anonymousreply 1October 20, 2020 11:54 AM

On or off the record?

by Anonymousreply 2October 20, 2020 12:03 PM

One night many years ago I was at the Townhouse bar in Manhattan and this VERY attractive guy was cruising me. He looked kind of like a modern version of James Dean. I'd noticed him earlier talking to some FAT sixtysomething. I guess he was a prostitute but if we ended up going to his place would he have charged me or not . I was his age maybe a bit younger at the time -36 years old.

by Anonymousreply 3October 20, 2020 12:30 PM

No I was always ugly but appreciate the ones that do!!! Grindr is a great place to get cheap but hot ones!

by Anonymousreply 4October 20, 2020 12:35 PM

I have donated my sperm so that my bitchy DNA will pass to the next generation. Does that count?

by Anonymousreply 5October 20, 2020 12:35 PM

I was offered money for sex, at least once. I was a blonde, slim and good looking twink in my 20’s, and also a broke student. I considered it for a brief moment, but then realised I’d have to live with that for the rest of my life (the thought I was a whore and I didn’t want to see myself that way), and also the guy in question was obese and quite ugly. The ones offering you money usually are. I’m so glad I didn’t.

by Anonymousreply 6October 20, 2020 12:38 PM

R3, age 36 at the Townhouse bar is equivalent to a 15 year-old in the outside world.

by Anonymousreply 7October 20, 2020 12:59 PM

Once, it was fun - once.

by Anonymousreply 8October 20, 2020 1:07 PM

When I was 17 at a park cruise spot. Figured I may as well make money from it. Left me feeling dirty - couldn’t do it again.

by Anonymousreply 9October 20, 2020 2:20 PM

I went to college in Philadelphia and used to troll the 30th Street Station. Occasionally, there was one guy who would take me to his car. We only jacked off, but he would ALWAYS hand me a $20. For a poor college student...it was like FREE MONEY!

by Anonymousreply 10October 20, 2020 2:35 PM

I have never sold it but I have fantasized about paying for it. I like the idea of role playing the uneven power dynamic.

by Anonymousreply 11October 20, 2020 3:04 PM

Yes, a few times, but with people i knew and had previously hooked up with or had relationships with. Several transactions, both for cash and exchange of hotel stays/excursions/expenses/vacation of sorts. I don't feel guilty. In one case, i was very down on my luck and needed the money, and in other cases, i still cared for the person and enjoyed being pampered and having sex with the person (was a past relationship, now married). I'm done with that now and it's been a year+.

by Anonymousreply 12October 20, 2020 3:08 PM

Only towards the end of the year. I use the money for Christmas presents. My grandkids need toys!

by Anonymousreply 13October 20, 2020 3:18 PM

OP, you didn't sell your body. At most it was a short-term rental.

by Anonymousreply 14October 20, 2020 8:43 PM

My grandkids have been acting REAL shitty this year. I’m not gonna turn no tricks to buy em xmas this year.

by Anonymousreply 15October 20, 2020 11:26 PM

Only as an architect, OP

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by Anonymousreply 16October 20, 2020 11:53 PM

Only one kidney to a very rich man in India.

by Anonymousreply 17October 20, 2020 11:54 PM

I tried but most took a look and took a hard pass.

by Anonymousreply 18October 21, 2020 12:09 AM

I worked as drawing class model when I was in college.

by Anonymousreply 19October 21, 2020 2:21 AM

It's a fantasy of mine to sell my body to an older man. Would love to do that one day.

by Anonymousreply 20October 21, 2020 3:43 AM

Does renting it out count?

by Anonymousreply 21October 21, 2020 3:48 AM

Once. When I was in my early 20s, I was pursued relentlessly by a closeted married man. After turning him down for a year, he finally offered $500 for an hour in a crummy interstate motel room. When he was finished, he deducted the cost of the room and gave me the remaining $445.

by Anonymousreply 22October 21, 2020 3:53 AM

Did it a couple times directly when I was in college and broke, never had a bad experience but it was mostly giving bjs to closeted dudes who approached me online. Did it indirectly with dating rich older guys for a few years but wasn't getting direct cash, mainly trips, fancy dinners, concerts, etc. I would've never done without them paying.

by Anonymousreply 23October 21, 2020 4:02 AM

everyday for the last 2 years!

by Anonymousreply 24October 21, 2020 4:08 AM

I sold plasma twice a week for $9 a pop. I feel like such a dirty whore.

by Anonymousreply 25October 21, 2020 4:09 AM

No. I was very attractive in my 20’s and was disgusted by ugly men that offered me money for sex. I have a degree and a decent job. I am not your fuckboy. That should actually be the title to my memoir.

by Anonymousreply 26October 21, 2020 4:12 AM

OP, I would have broken into the house and burned it down.

by Anonymousreply 27October 21, 2020 4:12 AM

R22 - so was it worth the $55 motel room rate...?

by Anonymousreply 28October 21, 2020 4:15 AM

When I was 18 or so, a skinny man paid me and a friend to wrestle him, one at at time. The rule was the wrestling would last 20 minutes max (20 minutes for each of us, me and friend). If he wanted to tap out, it could be less than 20 minutes.

He was very passive and I easily put him in a rear choke position and held him like that for 20 minutes (kind of like a 20-minute-long hug). My friend went 2nd and also put this guy in a rear choke hold, but started pulling up on the guy's head. The guy tapped out quickly.

Not sure what this guy's fetish was. To be dominated? (He didn't try to grab ass or genitals.)

by Anonymousreply 29October 21, 2020 5:02 AM

Like others I have fantasized about it but never bold enough to try it. I guess it would be on my conscience. Now I'm too old.

by Anonymousreply 30October 21, 2020 5:08 AM

On your conscience? Why? Do you think it's immoral to get money in exchange for sometime playing with you for an hour?

I, for one, don't think there's anything wrong with that. As long as I choose to do so.

by Anonymousreply 31October 21, 2020 5:34 AM

This guy did, and he Instagrams about it.

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by Anonymousreply 32October 21, 2020 5:54 AM

My grandkids need toys!

by Anonymousreply 33October 21, 2020 9:14 PM

When I was 19 I was contacted by a guy on AOL who owned an escort service featuring college guys. I went to his house and filled out some paperwork, took some profile shots, and chose a pseudonym...but I got cold feet as soon as he started sending potential clients my way.

I’m so glad I backed out of it.

by Anonymousreply 34October 21, 2020 9:37 PM

I was surprised when a FB confessed he had done Chaturbate for a summer and gotten a few thousand dollars. He has an amazing body so it makes sense.

Ive know two friends who escorted in their lives. One is now a successful lawyer, another a TV producer.

They both have interesting stories about how all different kinds of people hire escorts--from young and beautiful to the old and desperate. Fascinating.

by Anonymousreply 35October 21, 2020 9:59 PM

Is selling where you get some money instead of giving it away for free? In that case, no.

by Anonymousreply 36October 21, 2020 10:54 PM

Frank Garvin MALE PROSTITUTE.

by Anonymousreply 37October 22, 2020 12:21 AM

What if an older gentlemen thrusts money at you afterward even if you didn't ask for it? In that case, yeah, I guess I have.

I was 22. This was fucking years ago. I was in college. I met a majorly hot guy who was probably in his 50s at a bar one Friday night. He took an immediate shine to me. I was moderately attractive, but nothing to write home about. I thought he was out of my league. Dazzling smile, cleft chin, black hair, blue eyes, amazing ass in a pair of new Levi's 501s.

He invited me to his house, which was in a very nice part of town. The sex was fantastic and lasted until about 10 am the next day. I plowed his hot ass three times in about eight hours. It remains among the top three bangaramathons I've ever had.

Then when I was leaving, he thrust a wad of bills into my hand. I told him that was very kind of him, but I was there because I liked him, not for any money. "Just take it," he said. "You'd make me very happy." I thanked him profusely. When I got to my car I counted it. It was $500 in 20s. As a college student, this money was greatly appreciated, but certainly not expected. As I drove home in my old VW Beetle, I thought, "I'm not only a whore, I'm a high-paid whore." Which of course didn't' bother me in the least.

by Anonymousreply 38October 22, 2020 3:30 AM

I should have, I was once a young very cute, twink adjacent Italian morsel and could have sold it a lot. Now I'm the one thinking about buying it!

by Anonymousreply 39October 22, 2020 4:31 AM

[quote] I was moderately attractive, but nothing to write home about.

Once he found out you were a top, he didn't care what you looked like

by Anonymousreply 40October 22, 2020 4:08 PM

I used to be a stripper. Was generally non-sexual, although some people got very handsy. But I guess it was selling my body because my body made me money. Also was broke once and answered an ad from a guy looking for a nude cleaner. He tried to make it sexual but I just wasn't feeling it. Still got paid though and it was good money.

by Anonymousreply 41October 23, 2020 2:04 AM

The trick is you pick up a drunk , go back to his house , have sex and then steal the cash in his wallet or in his pants when he falls asleep. You quietly leave and if you run into him you just deny it ever happened.

by Anonymousreply 42October 23, 2020 2:15 AM

R29 what was the going rate for a 20 min wrestling match. Kinda wish I can pay for that.

by Anonymousreply 43October 23, 2020 8:32 AM

R42 this is why you kick em out after the act.

by Anonymousreply 44October 24, 2020 8:19 PM

Yes. I was in a jam, bro.

When I let him put inside me that one and only time, I told him that the deal was I get $20.00 per inch.

So I took my $60.00 and SPLIT!

by Anonymousreply 45October 24, 2020 8:26 PM

Well, I'm ready to sell myself.

by Anonymousreply 46October 24, 2020 8:29 PM

A couple of times.

A long, long time ago, pre-AIDS long time ago, I had a number that was one digit different from someone who advertised in the local gay newspaper. I'd get a call every now and then from one of his clients who'd misdialed, and if the guy sounded interesting, I'd go meet him. I'd warn the guy that he'd reached the wrong number, and that I might not be able to get it up for him, but that I expected to be paid anyway. It never turned out to be a problem.

And then one time, a friend of a friend opened a "modeling agency." I went on a call and I could not get it up for this guy. He was really very NGL. He paid me, I paid my friend, and I never did it again. Doing it casually was one thing, but being an actual prostitution whore...nah, that I wasn't up for.

by Anonymousreply 47October 24, 2020 8:31 PM

r46 How much are you charging?

by Anonymousreply 48October 24, 2020 9:02 PM

Cool stories. R29 and r38 especially.

by Anonymousreply 49October 24, 2020 9:14 PM

Prostitution whores!!!!

by Anonymousreply 50October 24, 2020 9:18 PM

No R50! He put it in US! And we charged! We had no choice. We were FORCED!

by Anonymousreply 51October 24, 2020 9:22 PM

R48 I was born to be cheap! I am the aldi version of whores!

by Anonymousreply 52October 24, 2020 9:29 PM

Closest I ever got was guys on Grindr years ago hitting me up and telling me they were "Gen" or "Generou$) and me blocking them and thinking that I likely had more money than they did.

The Chaturbate guys who never show their faces intrigue me in that I wonder how frequently people figure out who they are regardless.

by Anonymousreply 53October 24, 2020 9:34 PM

I had to interview for that art class modeling job by taking my clothes off and posing before the University’s Art Department’s drawing professors. There was one professor who wore his keys through the belt loop on his jeans and he asked me to respond physically to a bee sting. I spun around and slapped my ass. I was hired. I probably could have slapped my arm but I wasn’t thinking. I remember the same professor saying “Great perspective.” I was 6’4” and probably weighed 175 lbs.

by Anonymousreply 54October 24, 2020 9:34 PM

Sad!!

by Anonymousreply 55October 24, 2020 9:42 PM

Yep, at 18 to keep myself from going back to my homophobic family and a dead end town in Michigan. While the money was good for its time it was much harder to perform on demand in the pre viagra/cialis enhancement days for someone you would’ve never otherwise been sexually interested in. Still, it set me on a path that eventually led me to my partner of 20 years and never needing to worry about money again so I have no regrets.

by Anonymousreply 56October 24, 2020 9:45 PM

I had sex with an older man when I was 20 and he left money for me when I left. I didn’t take it. Couldn’t go down that road.

by Anonymousreply 57October 24, 2020 9:56 PM

R57 So stupid. I just don't understand why people would turn down money. I'd always take it!

by Anonymousreply 58October 24, 2020 10:04 PM

Every time I bend over, Baby Jesus pays with his tears!

by Anonymousreply 59October 24, 2020 11:34 PM

LOL @ R59

by Anonymousreply 60October 25, 2020 2:07 PM

Why not? I have the body of an 18 year old.

by Anonymousreply 61October 25, 2020 2:21 PM

I’ve known a couple of people who were basically trafficked as teenagers. I could have done it too. You don’t have to be that hot, just young.

by Anonymousreply 62October 25, 2020 2:32 PM

[quote]Why not? I have the body of an 18 year old.

Well, you'd better give it back. You're getting it all wrinkled.

by Anonymousreply 63October 25, 2020 3:18 PM

I have this free spirit of a friend that's done it once or twice. Was rather odd after finding out that he comes from a solidly upper middle class family. His parents supported him (school, housing, a car) but didn't give him an allowance so to his credit he worked. He's still young, early 20s, so he gets offers for sex. Depending on where he's going and if he finds the guy attractive, he will at times take them up on their cash offer. From these encounters, he's had one or two vacations partially paid by Johns turned "friend" but always destinations we had already planned to attend. He just found someone willing to subsidize his costs and give us a nice to amazing air bnb. The two guys I've met have always been fun and gracious so he chooses well.

To him it's just sex. He was going to have it anyway might as well make a buck when money is tight. P.S. he can ask his parents for money if really needed it, which allows him to have a nonchalant attitude about it all.

by Anonymousreply 64October 25, 2020 3:28 PM

I used to work as a bellhop in a small luxury hotel. I started getting fucked by this this older gay couple who were regular guests, staying for a few nights every couple of weeks for family reasons. Both handsome and hot and in their early 50s. And while they weren't paying for the sex as such, they would always leave a very brazenly generous tip at the end of each of their stays.

There was another couple who started to stay at the hotel and when I first took them up to their room they said 'We're friends of ____ and ____, and we understand you have an arrangement with them.' It happened a few times with them, too, but they would always just give me some cash before getting down to business.

This was almost 20 years ago, and at the time I was a horny hot twink who frankly couldn't believe his luck. I'm now a couple of years short of 40, far younger than the two couples were at the time, and I find the whole episode ever so slightly skeevy.

by Anonymousreply 65October 25, 2020 3:36 PM

When I was in college, sold a part of my body at the sperm bank on Madison Avenue.

by Anonymousreply 66October 25, 2020 3:45 PM

You are all GAY HOOKER. I hope my Barron never meet any of you.

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by Anonymousreply 67October 25, 2020 3:48 PM

Been trying to rent people on Grindr but keep getting banned... You can find a good selection for cheap there.

by Anonymousreply 68October 25, 2020 3:49 PM

Back in my 40s, I spent time with a writer in New York who made extra money as an 'escort'. I was only recently out of the closet and not completely comfortable with some of the physical aspects of sex with a man. I decided it was best to hire the best. After I talked calling him, it took me years to readjust my expectations down to reality.

He is was very handsome, well informed, funny and extremely comfortable with the situation. Only about 50% of clients actually wanted sex. The rest just enjoyed the company and being seen around town with a great looking younger man. Of course, I blew him on the first date and he fucked me on the second. We got together for about 2 years.

At the time, he charged $200 / hour and $4000 / weekend. At the time, it seemed expensive. But, I would never have been comfortable with anything less. We're still Facebook friends 10 years later. He's retired from escorting and is now married. It was a great experience for me and appropriate at the time.

by Anonymousreply 69October 25, 2020 3:49 PM

[quote] but then realised I’d have to live with that for the rest of my life (the thought I was a whore and I didn’t want to see myself that way),

MARY!!!!

by Anonymousreply 70October 25, 2020 3:54 PM

[quote] Once. When I was in my early 20s.

[quote]After turning him down for a year, he finally offered $500 for an hour in a crummy interstate motel room. When he was finished, he deducted the cost of the room and gave me the remaining $445.

Oh that’s such bullshit. No-tell motels weren’t charging $55 for a short stay 40 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 71October 25, 2020 3:56 PM

Original, r33. Very original.

by Anonymousreply 72October 25, 2020 3:57 PM

I did once. Made damn near $100,000!

I charged 10 cents a head at the Million Man March.

by Anonymousreply 73October 25, 2020 4:02 PM

I’ve done it a bit via Grindr rather than ask my parents for money when I’ve been short for rent or needed more spending money for an overseas trip. Being young, gorgeous and genuinely attracted to gross old/fat guys it was an obvious solution. I was quite unprofessional in that I didn’t really maintain a sensible level of detachment and a lot of the guys became a bit attached/obsessed after one session of passionate lovemaking and pillow talk, which is just how I operate naturally. A few times I didn’t make sure I got the cash first up and was too shy to ask for it afterwards, which left me feeling quite pathetic but on the whole I enjoyed myself. I’d do it more but it’s too much work finding johns and I’m sick of having my Grindr account banned. I also don’t quite have the personality for it and could see myself getting into trouble by being too personable/not using condoms... one guy found stuff about me online knowing just my first name and that I’m a musician. I shot 5 or 6 loads into him in the space of an afternoon so I can understand why he’d be obsessed 😌

by Anonymousreply 74October 26, 2020 2:06 AM

[quote] Being young, gorgeous and genuinely attracted to gross old/fat guys it was an obvious solution.

Congratulations on becoming the most popular man on Datalounge!

by Anonymousreply 75October 27, 2020 12:35 AM

Sold my body? No.

But I took a tip once.

by Anonymousreply 76October 27, 2020 12:39 AM

For those of you who did, did you dutifully declare the income on your tax form for that year?

by Anonymousreply 77October 27, 2020 1:47 AM

[quote] No. I was very attractive in my 20’s and was disgusted by ugly men that offered me money for sex. I have a degree and a decent job. I am not your fuckboy. That should actually be the title to my memoir.

That's sounds like a book worth skipping.

by Anonymousreply 78October 27, 2020 1:53 AM

HOW DARE YOU! I AM NOT A WHORE, YOU PRANCING GUTTER HUSSIES!

I'm a slut! I don't charge a single penny! That way I can walk home with my head held high and panties neatly folded in my purse!

by Anonymousreply 79October 27, 2020 1:59 AM

R79 your post would have been funnier had you spelled “penicillin” correctly.

by Anonymousreply 80October 27, 2020 12:33 PM

r80 I don't spellcheck for CUNTS!

by Anonymousreply 81October 27, 2020 6:29 PM

R81 has stated her boundaries.

by Anonymousreply 82October 27, 2020 7:59 PM

I posted a hook up post on Craigslist when that was possible and I remember a guy offering me money if he could come over. The stats and photos were fine to me and I asked him to my hotel room. I also told him that I was not interested in his money as I didn’t want it or need it in the least. He came over, we had a good time and he left. Afterwards I discovered he left me a hundred dollars on the dresser. I figured he just wanted some sort of financial transaction for sex.

by Anonymousreply 83October 27, 2020 8:19 PM
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