R6, no. It just means putting aside 2-3 hours on Sunday mornings to grocery shop and prepare all of your meals, juices and snacks for the week.
I ate breakfast every morning, before I left to the gym, did my daily treadmill, took my snacks and lunch to work, got home, ate dinner, hit an AA meeting, and then hit the gym and did my arms, chest shoulders, and back, or my bit and legs. Always did abs in the morning and at night, and had my final snack for the evening, before showering and going to bed.
I blew it because I was lonely, and started hanging out with a hot loser I had met on a meeting, and eventually moved him in, which was the beginning of making some very BAD decisions, which later allowed me to make even worse decisions, that had taken me 10 years of sobriety to exclude from my life and not repeat. Unfortunately, my self esteem was in tatters after that relationship, and I was too proud to admit to people that I had been profoundly hurt by that asshole, and eventually relapsed, based on more pride and sheer bullshit.
Anyhow, the moral of the story here is that I did something I had always wanted to do during those 10 years of sobriety, and patently, all of my adult life: I got my financial life in perfect order, I quit smoking, I stayed sober, I got really healthy, and I felt amazing and learned to trust again. I trusted the wrong people for a while there, and I did so because due to fear of being alone for the rest of my life.
Sad, yes, but that doesn’t mean that I lost those other lessons, and even learned a new one: Don’t let ego get in the way of saying “I need help”, or “I’m lonely and want to meet someone who’s a decent guy” rather than insisting that the decent guy be a 10. My mistake.
However, that doesn’t mean I didn’t walk away with some valuable insights: I’m capable of doing things correctly and I have the discipline to persevere, & I can do so again, as can anyone-including anyone who wants to get healthy. But you don’t get this huge reward at the end, like a new partner, or even a totally fulfilled life. You just get healthy physically. And that’s 100% a great thing, all on it’s own.
Getting healthy physically requires a lot more than monitoring one’s salt intake, however, it is a step in the right direction.
Sorry for the long rant. It’s just that lots of times, we do things like get our shit together because we want to live longer and healthier lives, however, sometimes we want something else, hidden away in the back of our minds, that we’re unaware of. Getting healthy will only be experienced by the person doing it, and that’s it. Nothing else, and that, in, and of itself, is what should always be the only motivation to do so.
Once you get there, remember all the work it took to get there and don’t blow it by selling yourself short and having a huge pizza, or something, just because you’re lonely and wanna hang out with people who don’t give a shit about themselves.