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Fingerbang: a waste of time or a fun alternative to fucking?

I love to fingerbang guys, it’s good foreplay and opens them up for fucking. But some guys, even really committed bottoms, don’t like it. Is it too intimate? Too akin to fisting?

by Anonymousreply 49Last Wednesday at 10:25 AM

Not a fan

by Anonymousreply 109/13/2020

Smellyfingers

by Anonymousreply 209/13/2020

I hate it done to me. I'm tight.

by Anonymousreply 309/13/2020

I prefer it

by Anonymousreply 409/13/2020

I hear Janeane Garofalo loves it.

by Anonymousreply 509/13/2020

Dicks work better.

by Anonymousreply 609/13/2020

I love that video of a young guy in gym gear in a SUV outside a boy’s school in NOLA being finger banged to climax by a verbal daddy. It’s one of the hottest amateur videos to emerge in recent years. I think it will definitely inspire a lot of exploration by people not having played like that before.

by Anonymousreply 709/13/2020

More than five minutes is a waste of my time.

by Anonymousreply 809/13/2020

A well-placed thumb in the ass can work wonders, with some massaging of the prostate. But being jabbed by a pointy finger is thoroughly unpleasant

by Anonymousreply 909/13/2020

R7, if it's the same video you were think of, it goes by College Boy Finger Fucked by Dad Daddy and it's on Pornhub, which cannot be linked here.

by Anonymousreply 1009/13/2020

personally I find that it feels sort of clinical and invasive, which is weird since I’ve had cocks up my asshole before and don’t feel that way about them.

by Anonymousreply 1109/13/2020

Trim. Your. Nails. Bitch.

by Anonymousreply 1209/13/2020

I'm gonna fingerbang, bang you into my life

Girl, you like to fingerbang and it's alright

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by Anonymousreply 1309/13/2020

As a bottom, I love being finger banged even more than being fucked, especially if the banger knows what he’s doing.

My greatest sexual experience ever was one hot guy finger banging me while another was suck my cock.

It felt fucking amazing.

by Anonymousreply 1409/13/2020

Austin Wolf seems to be a master at this. He bangs and fills up twinks with his loads and then totally wrecks them with his fingers turning them into whimpering and shuddering destroyed holes.

by Anonymousreply 1509/13/2020

As another bottom, I once had a therapist ( no HE type) who used to go into a semi-trance while doing the massage. When he massaged my butt, he would use my crack as the resting point for massaging each cheek and would often place him thumb in the crack and use his hand to fan out over the cheek. One night, his thumb slipped into my hole for a few seconds. It felt like heaven. Since that time, I discovered the joys of stimulating the hole and insertion.

by Anonymousreply 1609/13/2020

I love getting fingerbanged but there are few porn videos showing it that don’t eventually become fisting

by Anonymousreply 1709/13/2020

Bottom here and my partner does it as foreplay to open me up before fucking me. He slowly enters and is gentle with his strokes. Pretty soon I'm begging for his cock. If done right, finger-banging is excellent foreplay. Quick pokes and jabs don't work, however. Luckily I landed a good top who knows what he's doing!

by Anonymousreply 1809/13/2020

Here's a mystery. I can take thick dicks but even one finger hurts my hole. What the explanation?

by Anonymousreply 1909/13/2020

It’s great and especially useful for opening and stretching out a bottom before fucking.

But it absolutely SUCKS for the bottom if the top has more than a mm or so of fingernails.

And there is a danger of rubbing a hole too raw and sore because you went too long with finger banging or were too rough and tore his flesh.

by Anonymousreply 2009/13/2020

Why is it either/or? You have to start lubing-up with fingers before you can insert a penis.

by Anonymousreply 2109/13/2020

I love to fingerbang myself! But I can cum hands-free and delay and increase my orgasm by flexing my lower abdominal muscles, that I can't do while fingerbanging myself.

by Anonymousreply 2209/13/2020

I love doing it - especially while sucking someone off, and as prep for fucking. Lots of men I've been with love it. But I've had sexual partners who let me know immediately that that don't like it and push my hand away, so it seems that people's response to it is very personal.

by Anonymousreply 2309/13/2020

I am not a fan of being fingered at all, but I like to do the fingering as prep for fucking, absolutely - I would generally only use 2 fingers max, and circle around the hole, dip in with quick shallow taps, slide in a bit further and swirl around opening up the hole a bit more, and perhaps then finish up with some harder taps and forceful rubs on the prostate - this is while kissing or sucking at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 2409/14/2020

The prostate massage is a must. I love it when a bottom is blowing me and gives me a prostate massage...the orgasm is heaven.

by Anonymousreply 2509/14/2020

R24 I want to feel your forceful rubs on my prostate, UK guy :P

by Anonymousreply 2609/14/2020

R26 do you precum a lot when your prostate is stimulated? That always gets me going when it's pouring out like a tap

by Anonymousreply 2709/14/2020

R27 I don't think so, but you should try. But I am not able to enter fully with one finger, more like half of my middlefinger. You should try!

by Anonymousreply 2809/14/2020

[quote] I love doing it - especially while sucking someone off

I've had the same experience. The guy will tell you if he likes it or not. Most do

by Anonymousreply 2909/14/2020

Who are these people who don't like fingering but still like dicks up their ass? I'm confused.

by Anonymousreply 3009/14/2020

Fingers usually feel uncomfortable to me for some reason. With a dick your hole gets opened up and relaxes around it but fingers cause a clenching reaction. Some guys aren't very smooth with it either and their motion is akin to checking for change in a vending machine coin return.

by Anonymousreply 3109/14/2020

exactly, I clench with a finger because it doesn’t feel the same. Maybe because it’s bony.

by Anonymousreply 3209/14/2020

The key to a successful fingering is to make yourself relax and open up your ass as much as it will while the guy explores with his fingers—3 or 4 lubed fingers feel Awesome

by Anonymousreply 3309/14/2020

r16 his thumb just slipped in?? did he leave it or immediately pull out and apologize?

most tops can't finger correctly. They think they can just jam it in. Agree with other poster on fingernails.

by Anonymousreply 3409/14/2020

I enjoy it as a brief way of opening me up before cock. I fondly recall finger banging a versatile top fuckbuddy of mine. He topped me better than anyone ever before or since. He had a definite preference for topping but fortunately liked being rimmed. After fucking me twice one night, he started go jerk off for a third go as I blew him. I slid one and then a second finger up his hole as he continued to jerk off and I watched his eyes roll back with pleasure. He said that I was only the second guy who had found and worked his prostate. Probably a lie, but it made me feel good

by Anonymousreply 3509/14/2020

I prefer to open up a hole with a tongue lashing and probing.

by Anonymousreply 3609/14/2020

I want to be fingerfucked to several powerful gushing orgasms right now!

by Anonymousreply 3709/14/2020

R30 if I had to choose between dick or a finger, I'd choose a dick every time - and I'm top/vers with a heavy emphasis (like, 95/5 split) on the top part.

A finger to me just feels uncomfortable whereas a dick feels a little uncomfortable initially and then quickly becomes pleasurable. A finger just always feels annoying.

by Anonymousreply 38Last Tuesday at 3:57 AM

Trim your nails, and it’s fine. I’m more of a top these days, but I enjoy a good finger fucking. And if you’re nice, I might even let you put your dick in.

by Anonymousreply 39Last Tuesday at 4:08 AM

[quote] if I had to choose between dick or a finger

Why should you have to choose?

by Anonymousreply 40Last Tuesday at 4:09 AM

Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the stage Dick Fingers!

by Anonymousreply 41Last Tuesday at 5:35 AM

Finger Fuck!! my dream

by Anonymousreply 42Last Tuesday at 5:56 AM

I remember fingerbanging this one guy who LOOKED clean (and there was no debris) yet for hours afterwards even after washing my hands several times I had stinky-finger.

by Anonymousreply 43Last Tuesday at 1:37 PM

Why do people call it fingerbanging? It's just fingering.

by Anonymousreply 44Last Tuesday at 1:40 PM

My woman friend (hetero) said that she inserted a finger up her boyfriends ass while giving him a blowjob. She said he loved it. She specified she used a condom (or maybe a glove) on her finger. I'm not sure which finger she used. IIRC, she always had short nails.

I was kind of surprised about the condom part, but he had, in the past, given her at least one STI.

by Anonymousreply 45Last Tuesday at 2:33 PM

OP- It's called FINGER FUCKING. NOT finger banging.

by Anonymousreply 46Last Tuesday at 2:54 PM

Or Finger-blasting if you do it vigorously.

by Anonymousreply 47Last Tuesday at 8:01 PM

It's finger lickin' good!

by Anonymousreply 48Last Wednesday at 10:13 AM

Love it and so does my partner. Every sexual act can be performed poorly - it doesn't make the act not pleasurable.

And you start with one finger and then really get it going with 2 fingers. 2 or 3 fingers more resemble a penis and you can do a lot more with finger movement than you can with a dick.

Highly recommend and if you don't like it, you or your partner are probably doing it wrong.

by Anonymousreply 49Last Wednesday at 10:25 AM
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