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Homophobes who rape gay guys

Is this something that actually happens, or just a porn fantasy?

Inspired by this purporting-to-be-true story from another forum - does it sound plausible?

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by Anonymousreply 2408/03/2020

It happens. Don't make the same error many straight people do that rape is about sex. Rape is about power, control, and violence. Homophobes raping gay men is much the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 108/01/2020

r1, but so many gay men would love for this to happen to them according to DL.

by Anonymousreply 208/01/2020

R1 That's simply not true in most of the cases.

Most rapes are sexual relationships when one doens't stop when the other wanted to stop. And most of the rest are serial rapists (in this case is a mix of power and sexual obsession)

The cases where it's only about the power are very few, but it's quite prevalent on guys who were raped in the military, in those cases humiliation is a big part of the act.

It's quite uncommon than an homophobe (not a closet case with problems to accept his sexual orientation) rape a gay man because there are generally a lot of other ways to humiliate. And in most of those types of rape an object is used to commit the act (which is quite common on hazings that go too far). In those cases the agressor rarely thing that what he did is a rape

R2 A fantasy it's just that, in fact rape fantasies are quite common in women, but that doesn't mean they want to be raped. One thing is acting like it is a rape (which is consensual role play) and other very different a real rape (the same with the kidnapping fantasies)

by Anonymousreply 308/01/2020

Most is pure fantasy

by Anonymousreply 408/01/2020

Go ask Abner Louima

by Anonymousreply 508/01/2020

They rape with objects, not their penises.

by Anonymousreply 608/01/2020

Yeah, I should have clarified I only meant genital rape as described at the link, not rape with an object; I don't find the latter hard to believe.

by Anonymousreply 708/01/2020

The story is right out of Nifty

by Anonymousreply 808/01/2020

How can anyone read this crap? What is wrong with people anymore?

by Anonymousreply 908/01/2020

They don't rape them with their own parts. They cause internal damage or death by using broomsticks and broken beer bottles etc.

by Anonymousreply 1008/01/2020

Do you object to the content or the greentext format, r9?

by Anonymousreply 1108/02/2020

Can’t read what that says. Help.

by Anonymousreply 1208/03/2020

OP, the story is fake

by Anonymousreply 1308/03/2020

Nope, nothing suspicious about OP's link, with it's breathless friction-fiction dialogue and photo of fair-skinned, underage youths.

[quote]... he gets out a tub of lotion and unscrews it in front of me. "This time we're doing it properly."

Yup, sounds like teens. Nothing questionable here.

by Anonymousreply 1408/03/2020

Is there a link to some story? What does OP's; pic have to do with all this?

by Anonymousreply 1508/03/2020

the story is in small green print below the picture when you open Ops link. It looks like 4Chan

by Anonymousreply 1608/03/2020

There are lots of homophobic bisexuals who would never self-identify as anything other than straight, some of whom never realized they were bisexual before fucking a dude or continue to deny they are after they fuck a dude, who have raped gay guys.

Especially in prison.

They call it "situational homosexuality," where a bunch of woman-oriented or "straight" men are segregated from women so they begin to sexually prey upon other males. Gays and trannies become the first and easiest targets for situational homosexual rape or "prison sex."

by Anonymousreply 1708/03/2020
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by Anonymousreply 1808/03/2020

Military or boarding schools are other common places that situational homosexuality and rape occur.

by Anonymousreply 1908/03/2020

Lots of men think they aren't gay or bisexual if they're the top or they enjoy sexual relations with women.

They're wrong, but that's how they think and behave.

by Anonymousreply 2008/03/2020

Sorry people. There is NO SUCH THING AS RAPE!! Guys just like to get off and are sometimes too shy to admit it to one another. It’s just two or more guys helping each out. That’s it. Let’s don’t try to make anything more out of this than what it really is.

by Anonymousreply 2108/03/2020

r21, You are unbelievably ignorant. There most certainly is such a thing as rape and it is a huge problem in prisons.

by Anonymousreply 2208/03/2020

R22 prison rape is a definite lie! That is men helping men! Men have so many sexual shaming issues to work through. Prison is one of the best places to work it out.

by Anonymousreply 2308/03/2020

r3, [bold]Rape is always about power.[/bold] r1 is absolutely correct. Situational homosexuality and rape are two totally different things.

You say that "Most rapes are sexual relationships when one doesn't stop when the other wanted to stop." A rape is not a "sexual relationship." [bold]It is an act of violence.[/bold] You practically say this yourself when you say, "when one doesn't stop when the other wanted to stop." This requires one person to over-power the other and that requires violence.

r22, Where in the world did you get the idea that prison rape is a lie? Are you really so uninformed that you do not know how big a problem this is? Prison rape occurs between prisoners and prisoners and between guards and prisoners, both in men's and women's prisons. You are sadly misinformed.

by Anonymousreply 2408/03/2020
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