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Have You Ever Tried Heterosexual Sex?

Gay male here. I can honestly say that while the vagina doesn’t gross me out I was surprised by how similar it was to anal sex. I didn’t really see the difference. I guess it all comes down to aesthetics. I really was expecting something different. I guess the only difference is I don’t have to worry about accidentally knocking someone up. Funnily enough, I gave her a massive orgasm. Too bad I’m just not into women.

by Anonymousreply 154Last Tuesday at 11:01 AM

[quote} I gave her a massive orgasm

I faked it.

by Anonymousreply 106/26/2020

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by Anonymousreply 206/26/2020

Receipts, OP?

by Anonymousreply 306/26/2020

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by Anonymousreply 406/26/2020

I lived a heterosexual lifestyle in my 20s. I don't miss it.

by Anonymousreply 506/26/2020

Did you eat her pussy, OP? When did this partaking of tuna delight take place? How old are you/were you?

by Anonymousreply 606/26/2020

I have, and let's just say, once is enough.

by Anonymousreply 706/26/2020

Women get a lot of practice faking.

by Anonymousreply 806/26/2020

Yes. It didn’t gross me out or anything. I was just sort of indifferent to the whole thing. It was in group or threesome type situation each time I was with a woman, so cock was always involved. I don’t think I could do one on one with a female.

by Anonymousreply 906/26/2020

She squirted (not even joking) and shook like crazy. I felt her completely swell up. Believe me, she wasn't faking. I on the other hand...

by Anonymousreply 1006/26/2020

There was a similar thread and many replies said pussy was much better than ass. I can believe that's probably true, although I've never had straight sex.

That being said, why do guys in straight porn act like anal with a woman is the most desirable thing ever? Yes, porn is fantasy, but why promote such fiction these days?

by Anonymousreply 1106/26/2020

degradation

by Anonymousreply 1206/26/2020

"Funnily enough, I gave her a massive orgasm. "

By penetration, I assume, ha ha. This reveals what a bullshit asshole you are, OP.

by Anonymousreply 1306/26/2020

1/10

by Anonymousreply 1406/26/2020

OP, please answer the questions at R6.

by Anonymousreply 1506/26/2020

R11 I don’t know that I’d say it feels better, just different. I honestly felt satisfied with the orgasm I achieved with both and I’m glad I’ve experienced it. I just prefer men. It’s what I’m attracted to.

by Anonymousreply 1606/26/2020

God no, why would I want a woman if I am not at all attracted to them? That would be selfish and cruel.

by Anonymousreply 1706/26/2020

so you're bi, then, OP. Or some kind of new, exciting sexuality. Ask a genderspecial to give you your proper alphabet letter, because I can tell you: It ain't the G.

by Anonymousreply 1806/26/2020

Tried it? Um, no.

by Anonymousreply 1906/26/2020

No, but I want to.

by Anonymousreply 2006/26/2020

Yes. Loved giving oral. And the vagina was warm and that threw me off, but I soldiered on.

by Anonymousreply 2106/26/2020

Once. Like the Alien Queen's esophagus wet with acid slime.

by Anonymousreply 2206/26/2020

I like this kind of thread, it's helps to find gaslighting bi/Queer freaks to block.

by Anonymousreply 2306/26/2020

About 17 years ago, I was curious so I found someone willing and fucked her. It was fine.

About 12 years ago, I was getting a massage and one thing led to another and I fucked her. So I went back to the same place a few times and fucked about 5 more women.

I wasn’t attracted to them at all. Didn’t care for them at all. I was just aroused by the thought of fucking them.

by Anonymousreply 2406/26/2020

[quote]By penetration, I assume, ha ha.

No, that was done via oral.

by Anonymousreply 2506/26/2020

Tried it? Um, no.

by Anonymousreply 2606/26/2020

[quote]so you're bi, then, OP. Or some kind of new, exciting sexuality. Ask a genderspecial to give you your proper alphabet letter, because I can tell you: It ain't the G.

No, it just didn't do it for me. I can fuck anything, but there was nothing there emotionally. I hate to put it this way, but she was simply a hole, and that hole I could get from a guy. It felt no different. When I'm with a guy, I REALLY want to fuck him. Being with a woman was just, "I'm horny, let's give it a try." I didn't feel any connection whatsoever. Not her fault, but it just confirmed a lot for me. I know some gay guys are just completely turned off by the idea of a vagina, but I'm not. I fuck and eat ass. Who am I to judge? lol

by Anonymousreply 2706/26/2020

I fucked a lot of women but it never was much of a thrill as with dudes. I found broads only cum with eating their box. And even then it was always hard to tell. At least with a guy you know by blowing his load. Chicks may moan but you can still never tell for sure.

by Anonymousreply 2806/26/2020

Ew, I feel like I need a shower after reading this (gross) thread.

by Anonymousreply 2906/26/2020

R24 R27 R28 Queer gaslighting freaks, Block.

by Anonymousreply 3006/26/2020

[quote] About 12 years ago, I was getting a massage and one thing led to another and I fucked her. So I went back to the same place a few times and fucked about 5 more women.

a massage parlor?

by Anonymousreply 3106/26/2020

I don't mind watching straight porn but have never been with a woman and have no interest in it.

by Anonymousreply 3206/26/2020

Not thanks! I do enjoy nice tits on a woman, but I have no desire to go anywhere near the vag

by Anonymousreply 3306/26/2020

With you R33 .

by Anonymousreply 3406/26/2020

R10, "she swelled up". What. The. Actual. Fuck.

by Anonymousreply 3506/26/2020

I wonder if you guys like children too. (I bet you do, but no assumes) you queer freaks are really disgusting, yuck.

by Anonymousreply 3606/26/2020

R7, Mother Pence bore Mike Pence 3 children. That would be 3X, at least, that Mike Pence had heterosex.

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by Anonymousreply 3706/26/2020

Living with a women in my 20s... really loved her, and fucking was an act of connection, of love. I am certifiably gay (I have the membership card, stamped with many decades of renewals). And now I have a married partner, and absolutely love him, 25 years together.

But sex with men has been exciting, arousing, satisfying... but not the intimate connection I had with a woman. Penetrating her was an act of joining... my emotions emptied into her. Fucking a man is really hot, but it's more physically driven... a need to cum, to keep going, to get the guy off too...

And now to offend DL even more.... I liked when giving oral sex to a woman (I have always had a beard) even after washing I could smell "her" on me... erotic reminder, euphoric recall....

by Anonymousreply 3806/26/2020

OP twitter account.

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by Anonymousreply 3906/26/2020

Only made out a bit, at a party many years ago. It was OK. I have been attracted to two women in my life versus thousands of men. So I have the potential for bisexual attraction but it almost never happens. Even Straighty McStraight has probably had two fleeting same-sex attractions, however mild, in their lifetime. The only thing that matters in the end is where your strongest emotional loyalties lie, your long-term relationships.

by Anonymousreply 4006/26/2020

Never. For me it's men or nothing. Women can be beautiful creatures, no doubt, but sexually they do absolutely NOTHING for me. Men, on the other hand, are EVERYTHING.

by Anonymousreply 4106/26/2020

Ironically, sexuality isn't about sex. It's about who you fall in love with (irregardless of whether sex is involved).

by Anonymousreply 4206/26/2020

[quote]I was surprised by how similar it was to anal sex. I didn’t really see the difference.

What you don't know could fill a book.

by Anonymousreply 4306/26/2020

Even tho I disagree with "Queer theory" in some points, there are actual 'Queer' people like some guys here. Another example of a actual Queer is the pornstar Blu Kennedy, he likes everything including children.

I'm really not surprised if there are closeted paedos in DL.

by Anonymousreply 4406/26/2020

[quote] Ironically, sexuality isn't about sex. It's about who you fall in love with (irregardless of whether sex is involved).

R42, "irregardless" is a "non-standard" word. Some gay people simply have no or very little sexual attraction to the opposite gender. You're not gonna fall in love, in the traditional sense, with the opposite gender.

by Anonymousreply 4506/26/2020

R45 correcting, actual gay people just have a no sexual/romantic attraction to the opposite sex, the last point is correct tho.

by Anonymousreply 4606/26/2020

I’ve never had sex with a woman. In high school I would make out with a girl and even get aroused but I just didn’t want to take her pants off, I was forcing myself to go through the motions.. Kissing was okay though. In college I met a man I was very attracted to, the clothes couldn’t come off fast enough and the sex was mind blowing. There’s no comparison for me.

by Anonymousreply 4706/26/2020

no, most women unless they are lesbian would not swallow vaginal secretions from other women. i'm a man and fucking a woman is like bestiality to me.

by Anonymousreply 4806/26/2020

[quote]What you don't know could fill a book.

Oh, please. People bring up the fact that the vagina is self-lubricating and the vaginal muscles grip the penis, and blah, blah, blah. People make a big fucking deal out of it, and I was simply saying that even with the natural lubrication, it didn't give me any more pleasure than an ass would.

by Anonymousreply 4906/26/2020

[quote] She squirted (not even joking)

Women can do that? I thought that was just something fake in porn.

by Anonymousreply 5006/26/2020

That squirting has a scientific name: urination.

by Anonymousreply 5106/26/2020

You know op is full of shit when he said he made her squirt. Women don’t squirt. In porn it’s urine or douche that’s held in.

by Anonymousreply 5206/26/2020

Honestly, after an obligatory DL post, I'll say the truth is that I feel towards women like they're my sisters. I have no incest bug to "try." I think that's the best way to explain it. I am not put off by women's bodies. It's just a "that's how they look" feeling.

The "squirt" thing shows the level of Friday night posters.

by Anonymousreply 5306/26/2020

Many times. Pussy is fantastic. So made for fucking. Praise the Lord. But that was in my 20s. I don't miss it at all since I'm totally gay and prefer ass. Male ass, mind you though I've done anal with a gf.

by Anonymousreply 5406/26/2020

I tried it in college; SO desperate to fit in with the guys I fit in with a vagina.

I did with her twice; the first time I used a condom, the second I'd had a few drinks and I didn't; I thought this is how so many shotgun marriages happen.

The night after I'd had sex, I went out with the guys and the one who was the BMOC, whom I idolized but strangely wasn't sexually attracted to, put his hands on my shoulders and said Who's the last guy among us to get laid? And I raised my arms up in victory; everyone cheered. I never felt so accepted in my life.

I can imagine how some guys want that feeling to last so they go ahead and get married.

God help us all when they come out.

by Anonymousreply 5506/26/2020

As long as I don't have to look at her, or touch it, or be in the same room, I don't judge.

by Anonymousreply 5606/26/2020

Hard no. Thanks but no thanks.

by Anonymousreply 5706/27/2020

If you're gay and you have sex with an opposite-sex partner, you will develop unsightly face types and teeth types.

FYI.

by Anonymousreply 5806/27/2020

Nope, sorry, never have, never will, not interested, case closed, move on. The vagine holds no allure or promise for me.

by Anonymousreply 5906/27/2020

You gave her a massive orgasm OP? Your selflessness knows no bounds.

by Anonymousreply 6006/27/2020

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by Anonymousreply 6106/27/2020

No. Never wanted to, never will.

Even decades ago when I was a deranged teenager looking for fundamentalist Christianity to rid me of my attraction to men, I never sought or asked to become attracted to women.

by Anonymousreply 6206/27/2020

Yeah a lot in h.s. and college. And oral. Still do sometimes. But male ass is more exciting to me. Men are in general more fun sexually.

by Anonymousreply 6306/27/2020

R63 Bye queer freak, block.

by Anonymousreply 6406/27/2020

R64 Bye!

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by Anonymousreply 6506/27/2020

In college I tried to fap the gay away and couldn’t get it up when a woman was on the screen no matter how hard I tried. I don’t find the female body repulsive, but it’s not the slightest bit arousung. I’m definitely a 6 on the Kinsey scale. Obviously anyone physically capable of fucking a woman isn’t.

by Anonymousreply 6606/27/2020

R60 That was my thinking. Not to be too woke, but the woman who had the O with OP achieved it herself.

by Anonymousreply 6706/27/2020

This reminds me of a funny song...

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by Anonymousreply 6806/27/2020

r10, and you didn't feel her tighten around your dick at that time? You thought that felt the same as an asshole? I don't buy this.

by Anonymousreply 6906/27/2020

Gold Star Gay here. I’d puke if I were face down in the meat curtains.

by Anonymousreply 7006/27/2020

[quote] You know op is full of shit when he said he made her squirt. Women don’t squirt. In porn it’s urine or douche that’s held in.

Yes, women squirt. It’s called female ejaculation and it’s not urine. Try opening a book sometime.

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by Anonymousreply 7106/27/2020

Frau here, OP is a liar. The idea that all the women he's penetrated had orgasms is total clickbait. Next, he will claim to be 6'2" independently wealthy part-time neurosurgeon who builds homes for "Habitat for Humanity"

by Anonymousreply 7206/27/2020

but doesn't a man's ass and walls grip a erection too and milk it and pleasure it? can't a man's ass be "tight" if not tighter then a puss and cause that delicious friction pleasure?... it's NOT just a hole without any power or action....

as another posted posted, vag and male ass are different but both feel awesome and yes, can get any man off if they just concentrate on the pleasure and NOT who their screwing..

by Anonymousreply 7306/27/2020

R73 are you bi?

by Anonymousreply 7406/27/2020

R73 People like that are the actual "Queers", you "get off" by minors too? depraved freak.

by Anonymousreply 7506/27/2020

[quote]Frau here, OP is a liar. The idea that all the women he's penetrated had orgasms is total clickbait. Next, he will claim to be 6'2" independently wealthy part-time neurosurgeon who builds homes for "Habitat for Humanity"

That's not what I said, moron.

by Anonymousreply 7606/28/2020

The way you get a woman to ejaculate is by rubbing the upperside of her vagina, hitting the g-spot. It's like rubbing your tongue against the roof of your mouth.

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by Anonymousreply 7706/28/2020

[quote]but doesn't a man's ass and walls grip a erection too and milk it and pleasure it? can't a man's ass be "tight" if not tighter then a puss and cause that delicious friction pleasure?... it's NOT just a hole without any power or action....

Which was what I concluded after doing it. The only different was the self lubrication, but if you use enough lube, ass is no different than a vagina feel-wise. It really comes down to what you find visually stimulating. If you like tits, there you go, have sex with a woman. If you like the body of a man, fuck a man. Both the vagina and the ass will grip your cock the same exact way.

by Anonymousreply 7806/28/2020

*difference

by Anonymousreply 7906/28/2020

Never had sex with a woman but I thought vagina was more like a tube with muscular walls compared to the tight muscular ring but soft walls of an asshole?

by Anonymousreply 8006/28/2020

Pretty much most people start out trying to have a heterosexual relationship because they are conditioned to think that is the normal way. But if someone is gay, they quickly figure out what time of day it is.

by Anonymousreply 8106/28/2020

R72 here not a moron but an actual woman with a vagina.

by Anonymousreply 8206/28/2020

No. The furthest I ever went with a woman was French-kissing. I felt absolutely nothing.

The first time I French-kissed a guy, I got a hard-on that wouldn't quit.

by Anonymousreply 8306/28/2020

I had girl friends throughout high school and college and often had sexual with them (a teenager can have sexual with anything). It was fun, but in time I accepted that I was gay, not even bi

by Anonymousreply 8406/28/2020

[Quote] doesn't a man's ass and walls grip a erection too and milk it and pleasure it? can't a man's ass be "tight" if not tighter then a puss and cause that delicious friction pleasure?... it's NOT just a hole without any power or action....

The difference is a vagina can tighten throughout the length of it while an ass seems to tighten mainly at the entrance

by Anonymousreply 8506/28/2020

Frau here too. Met a wonderful, sensitive, brilliant artist of 24 my first year of college. We talked about EVERYTHING. The first time we went out we talked and made love 12 hours non stop. Later he came out as gay. Go figure.

by Anonymousreply 8606/28/2020

[quote]Ironically, sexuality isn't about sex.

R42 Wrong. Sexuality is about sex. What you are describing in your post can be defined as either love or attraction.

by Anonymousreply 8706/28/2020

R38, It's cunts like you why people STILL believe being gay is a choice and that we can change if we just try. You're last two sentences really gave your bi/queer self away. Actual gay men have no issues bonding/connecting/loving other men so fuck off trashbag.

by Anonymousreply 8806/28/2020

The guys here saying they've enjoyed sex with women aren't "queer", "queer" is something different, it's about the gender crap. "Queers" never even bother to consider sex as an issue that's important to people.

I don't doubt that gay men or even lesbians could find sex with someone of the opposite sex pleasant, in the same way that a dildo can be enjoyable but that doesn't mean you're attracted to dildoes.

by Anonymousreply 8906/28/2020

[quote]Frau here too. Met a wonderful, sensitive, brilliant artist of 24 my first year of college. We talked about EVERYTHING. The first time we went out we talked and made love 12 hours non stop. Later he came out as gay. Go figure.

r86, it really isn't that unusual. A cursory glance of threads like this will show that many people don't seem to get that being gay is an exclusive sexual attraction to your own sex. There are apparently a lot of bisexuals masquerading as gay men.

by Anonymousreply 9006/28/2020

[quote] That would be 3X, at least, that Mike Pence had heterosex.

Yes. Like I said, once was enough. I pray that Mother gets her libido in check.

by Anonymousreply 9106/28/2020

Yes, many times. It’s ok, but not worth the grief of having to deal with what comes with it.

by Anonymousreply 9206/28/2020

R27, I've heard this "just a hole, I can fuck anything" garbage here before. You're trolling is weak.

by Anonymousreply 9306/28/2020

"I'm a gay man that likes/liked having sex with women." Yes, OP. We've heard this one before, You trot this sentiment out periodically here on DL. "I gave her an orgasm" is the latest take. But not as funny as "my friend had to sit on my lap because we ran out of chairs so naturally I decided to fuck her just to make sure". That one deserved an Oscar.. or perhaps a Razzie given how bad it was, but still rather amusing.

Thanks for the laughs.

by Anonymousreply 9406/28/2020

Anal is tighter. Fucking a pussy isn’t tight unless she’s a virgin and never even penetrated herself.

by Anonymousreply 9506/28/2020

Lesbian (gold-star), have been strongly attracted to a few men in the distant past but never went there and almost certainly never will. I mean both ‘past’ and a few men’ literally; I make it four of all the men I’ve met in thirty years with whom I would ever have agreed to bed down, and that was when I was still in school and a mess of lonely confused hormones.

Of all those four times the qualities that attracted me to the guys were not the same as those that have drawn me to women all my life. I knew each of the men (well, I was only a girl and they were boys, back then) as student peers in a social capacity, and liked them not for their bodies or their hearts or any natural instinctive thing people in love & lust fixate on, but for their social confidence. In retrospect I suppose I admired and envied them, their easy humorous self-possessed way of being and their ability to charm other people (particularly girls), and thought that might rub off on me via sexual osmosis - pretty stupid, but it was a subconscious idea and coming from a closeted teen/College girl (and a naive shy one at that). I definitely wanted to befriend at least a couple of those guys, but bullshit sexual politics get in the way of intergender friendship, moreso in youth.

Thankfully, some deep quiet inner knowing prevented me from ever responding to making any advances toward these guys, and for their gallant part I think they probably knew I was lesbian long before I did and never bothered messing with me beyond friendly playful flirting to pass the time.

So I took my path ever onward never knowing the feel and taste of dick, and wound up very happy with that eventuality. All humans are curious about the unknown, though, and I have days where I wonder if and how my life would be different if I had fucked any of those men even just once to try it out. The idea piques but I think the reality would disgust me (and no, I don’t have sexual trauma before anyone asks) and I would be unable to get in the right headspace. No female who feels like I do just laying in bed with or holding another woman I’m attracted to could enjoy a man. I don’t even like the smell or the shape of men or the sounds of their voices.

Therefore I consider having a blank dance-card as a blessing. Anyone would having visited enough pornsites to know what straight/bi men are all about and having heard all the DL horror-stories. I recently checked the social media of a few of the guys I had girlhood crushes on, and they are all either fugged-out, alcoholic, political/religious fundie nutters, except in one instance where the guy is just as closeted as I used to be. Hilarious in hindsight.

Talking to my old HS girl friends (unlicked by me, remember I wasn’t Out even to myself then) about their love lives is always agony, because sex with straight men sounds so horribly boring and offputting when it isn’t pathetic, painful and humiliating (I’ve taken the COVID as a good excuse to drop contact with a few of these women). Why do hetero men only get off to gross lame weird shit with women? Pornsickness? Or just lack of imagination?

by Anonymousreply 9606/28/2020

R72, He literally said a vagina is just a hole, now he's trying to tell us how a vagina operates LOL He's never been near a vagina in his life!

by Anonymousreply 9706/28/2020

R90 - I really know he was not bisexual. I think he had lived a very sheltered but abusive life and was just happy to find someone like him. We were both young and hormones were raging. That was all. I know he is gay and I realized that very quickly.

by Anonymousreply 9806/28/2020

This is why transmen are fun. Masculine in appearance and pussy. You just have to ignore the chipmunk voice.

by Anonymousreply 9906/28/2020

Yes. I was in a relationship with a woman for almost 10 years, married for 7 of those. At the time I considered myself bi leaning hetero, whereas now I consider myself bi leaning gay. She knew I had slept with men and she had also slept with women. It was never an issue and we rarely spoke of it because we were in a committed relationship. Eventually the marriage fell apart but it had nothing to do with our sexuality. I don't regret it but I wouldn't do it again.

I still occasionally have sex with women but I am definitely more attracted to men. The male body is just more sexually arousing to me than a female one.

by Anonymousreply 10006/28/2020

R100 instead of sleeping you should have been fucking.

by Anonymousreply 10106/28/2020

R96 How old are you?

by Anonymousreply 10206/28/2020

R100 So you were both more into the same sex and cheated on each other with the same sex? Is she a lesbian now?

by Anonymousreply 10306/28/2020

No and no R103 but thanks for playing.

by Anonymousreply 10406/28/2020

R88 I can respect and appreciate your perspective. I grew up in a strict religious holiness environment which absolutely caused folks to assume that homosexuals where choosing a sinful act.

I don't think those people, in those environments, will ever be persuaded that that is not so... that gay sex is not a sin. Your best presentations of science and personal testimony will do... nothing?... to change their thinking.

And, I think perhaps your concerns are generated by a time in our history that has passed a bit. I think "gender fluidity" and "pansexualism" , while not replacing, in any way, an identity and an actualized reality of a "gay man", it makes the defense and need to reference science for a justification or explanation.

I, also, am fully connected and in love with the man I've lived with for over 25 years. I have absolutely zero need to point to science to "defend" that.

by Anonymousreply 10506/28/2020

I slept with 3 men while I was in college. The sex was enjoyable but I had no emotionally connection with them. I've been with my (now) wife for 32 years. She had slept with men in the past too.

by Anonymousreply 10606/28/2020

I slept with 3 women. One in high school and two in college. I didn't enjoy it but I was also too horny to care. The only thing I did like was making one of them cum by eating her out and, no, she didn't taste like fish. Similar to the taste and smell of cock but just wet.

by Anonymousreply 10706/28/2020

I lost my virginity to a girl when I was 14, it was an older girl from my middle school who was left back twice. I had no religious upbringing as my parents were and still are atheists. I loved it and even wanted to pursue further but she didn't care about me. It was a one time thing and I never once again thought about kissing a woman or having sex with one again.

by Anonymousreply 10806/28/2020

Not even at gunpoint.

by Anonymousreply 10906/28/2020

Nope, zero interest in it. I'd consider the possibility if asked into a threesome by a guy I'm really into as long as I like the woman as a person, but that hasn't happened as yet.

by Anonymousreply 11006/28/2020

Gay man here. I once had a great gal pal back in the 80s and we used to go out drinking a LOT. One time, too drunk to go home, I stayed over at her place. Long story short - we ended up in bed together but I was too drunk to get it up. BUT I thought "While I'm here I might as well try this" and I went down on her. I love oral so I went to town. She went crazy and told me the next day it was the best head she ever got BUT I had absolutely No Idea on what to do. Lots of oral but I didn't know when or if she was cumming or was it more than once or when do I stop, etc. It was nice to see her get so excited but I had no idea how to gauge where she was and what level.

by Anonymousreply 11106/28/2020

R102 why do you ask? And why does it matter? Bit of a creepy question. :/

Anyway, it’s easy to figure it out roughly from my original reply.

by Anonymousreply 112Last Monday at 3:07 AM

Ewwww, no!

by Anonymousreply 113Last Monday at 3:18 AM

Sex for women just seems so joyless most of the time.

And pussy may be nicer than ass, but if it’s attached to a bitch who cares?

That’s one the reasons why I don’t necessarily think guys who have casual sex with other men are gay. Two men can fuck their brains out and then clean up and go separate ways without getting attached. For the most part women can’t do that.

by Anonymousreply 114Last Monday at 3:20 AM

Why does nearly everyone here sound like an incel?

Here's a decent book covering the current understanding of the neurophysiology of sexuality. Although it applies equally to men, the book is written for and about women and should satisfy all of your curiosity about hetero sex and women's sexuality. I'll take my FF's offline, thanks.

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by Anonymousreply 115Last Monday at 3:39 AM

I'd rather die. I'm a platinum star gay and will be for the remainder of my days.

by Anonymousreply 116Last Monday at 5:18 AM

R81, That's how compulsory heterosexuality works. Some will try to force the attraction or even delude themselves that they felt something that wasn't actually there. Sad really. I hope the younger generation of gay people don't have to go through that as much as some of the older gays that have been through it.

by Anonymousreply 117Last Monday at 5:55 AM

A vagina is God’s axe wound.

by Anonymousreply 118Last Monday at 6:16 AM

Women are useless.

Vaginas are revolting.

The world would be perfect with no women.

by Anonymousreply 119Last Monday at 6:21 AM

Nope, never have. The furthest I've gone with a female is snogging, there was one time I snogged a female friend of mine at a party for a dare and then we did it a bit more and danced together, and I did get hard but I was 18, the vibrations on a bus would have got me hard.

I sometimes watch straight porn and I am not repulsed by vagina, and sometimes can even find it quite hot but in reality it is just not something I was ever interested enough to pursue. I like all the traditionally-masculine physical characteristics like strong jaw, beards, body hair, muscles - so I could potentially find a trans man hot and want to fuck him, but I wouldn't be attracted to a cis or trans woman.

by Anonymousreply 120Last Monday at 6:21 AM

R99, mentally disturbed, mutilated women doing a parody of manhood is considered "fun"? Lmao.

by Anonymousreply 121Last Monday at 6:55 AM

115 those books are all part of the heterosexual agenda, what they want you to buy is the idea that sexual attration and arousal with body parts that are vompletely unknown and dissimilar to our own is the normal neurophysiological condition in fact even experiments with sexually naive animals have shown that heterosexuality is a learned behavior. another concept that these so called scientific research wants you to believe is that if you are a male, sexual arousal with femenine body parts is a masculinization, even though computational science studying artificial intelligence have shown that the exchange of one's masculine parts for femenine ones for the purpose of sexual arousal induces some type of heteromorphosensitivity in males's brains. this condition is a mechanism of feminization because these so called "heterosexual" males strive to passively absorb exogenous femenine bodily sensations. this is also why these deceived alpha males pursue the condition of being dominant-submissive of the femenine and weaker opposite sex and still be able to feel more masculine than their counterparts the "homosexuals" aka gays who will never accept that deplorable condition of being heterosexual.

by Anonymousreply 122Last Monday at 8:44 AM

Hetero sex is wicked, vile, and abhorrent.

Most women reek of gone off fish.

by Anonymousreply 123Last Monday at 8:45 AM

Love that the thread title shows up on mobile as ‘Have You Ever Tried Heteros’.

No, but they do try me everyday.

by Anonymousreply 124Last Monday at 9:46 AM

R122: you've been peddling the same pseudoscientific junk here for years, always using the same language ("arousal with body parts"). Reducing people to "body parts" is bad enough, but then your English simply isn't good enough to communicate complex ideas.

by Anonymousreply 125Last Monday at 9:50 AM

r125 all modern research in neurobiology clearly understand that sexual arousal in animals and humans are broken down to "body parts". your pseudoscientific psychological 18 century notions of sexuality is totally updated.

by Anonymousreply 126Last Monday at 10:48 AM

Learn proper English, man, before trying to discuss abstract ideas. You can't even spell "feminine" correctly and are embarrassing yourself. I'm Dutch and made the effort to do it, and so can you.

You clearly have some pathological hatred of heterosexuality. If opposite-sex attraction is "learned behavior" as opposed to innate, as you claim, why do children who grow up to be heterosexual adults develop opposite-sex crushes as early as kindergarten?

by Anonymousreply 127Last Monday at 11:15 AM

R119 You are a fucking idiot. World would be a way better place if it there was only females

by Anonymousreply 128Last Monday at 11:19 AM

R122: someone who struggles to accept the basic reality of the predominance of heterosexuality in humans and animals has no business throwing around words like "science." Did you fail high-school biology as well as English?

by Anonymousreply 129Last Monday at 11:25 AM

Yes, only one time in High School. Bitch gave me the crabs! Ever since then vagina's kind of scared me.

by Anonymousreply 130Last Monday at 11:27 AM

Married for 25 years to a woman. Fucked my brains out. I used oral to get her started which included having menstrual blood drip down my chin.

Now I have been with a guy for a while. Even hotter.

by Anonymousreply 131Last Monday at 11:36 AM

english is not my first language. I also have a phd in biophysics and have a purely mathematical approach to the subject of sexuality. what the so called " scientists" are not telling you in those pseudoscientific research papers is that the condition they refer to homosexuality can happen WITH or WITHOUT the opposite sex, however, " heterosexual behavior does not occur in isolated groups of females or males. they are mathematical models and algorithms that show that the concept of heterosexuality and homosexuality is bullshit. in the future, mathematicians, information scientists, etc will explain the concepts of symmetric homophilia and antisymmetric heterophilia in relation not only to living systems but also to machines suchs robots.the concept of sex is irrelevant to understand the behavior and psychological characterictics of these two opposite conditions. morphology/topology is what matters. I was reading a philosophy paper about the sexuality of intelligent machines such as robots and they argued that eventually the concept of homosexuality and heterosexuality will dissapear and will be replaced by mathematical concepts that are based on the concepts of symmetry/ antisymmetry. they use models where they change the morphology of the heteromorphic pairs and calculate their sensory distance to the homomorphic ones. this is the reason why mathematicians use the terms heteromorphic /homomorphic pairs rather than opposite/ same sex couples. anyways it is not my intention to write a thesis dissertation here.

by Anonymousreply 132Last Monday at 12:01 PM

Do we sense a touch of the Asp?

by Anonymousreply 133Last Monday at 12:14 PM

i've never done it but have thought about it. doing it with a transguy maybe would make it easier, since it's just a dude with a pussy. i think the only pro of fucking pussy is there's no risk of shit on the dick. but then the major con is the risk of pregnancy, which makes a bit of shit on the dick a miniscule issue

by Anonymousreply 134Last Monday at 12:25 PM

R1 touché, girl

by Anonymousreply 135Last Monday at 12:28 PM

R133 I always thought a disproportionate number of gay folk were...

by Anonymousreply 136Last Monday at 12:28 PM

Yes a FTM and I LOVED it. But she looked like a guy. I was confused but loved it. She was wet wet wet.

by Anonymousreply 137Last Monday at 12:30 PM

R132 Are you trying to say that all men and women are deep down homosexual?

by Anonymousreply 138Last Monday at 12:31 PM

A hole is a hole.

That’s the truth.

by Anonymousreply 139Last Monday at 12:34 PM

R116 sounds impotent

by Anonymousreply 140Last Monday at 1:27 PM

[quote] a transguy maybe would make it easier, since it's just a dude with a pussy.

....no. Just, no.

This a disturbing incorrect statement that needs to stop being bandied about.

by Anonymousreply 141Last Monday at 2:20 PM

R139 - maybe so, but if that were the case gay men would chose to be with women cuz they would get less shit from society. So not all holes are equal to all men.

by Anonymousreply 142Last Monday at 4:46 PM

OP "I was surprised by how similar it was to anal sex."

I was surprised by how different it was unless she had a really sloppy pussy at the age of 16. A hole is not a hole: it was not tight.

And if it's not tight, it can't be right.

by Anonymousreply 143Last Monday at 5:19 PM

The vagina is a muscular tube that can expand or contract to accommodate dicks of any length and girth. After a childbirth of two it becomes looser and less elastic.

That's when married men of a certain inclination find fucking ass more pleasurable. Until of course they encounter a regularly and frequently fucked ass whose sphincter has lost its ability to grip.

So, Kegels, guys, do your Kegels to maintain a hole that continues to give pleasure.

by Anonymousreply 144Last Monday at 5:33 PM

In a MMF three way, I have. I had a good enough time, but I didn’t leave the encounter wanting more.

by Anonymousreply 145Last Monday at 5:48 PM

Did you suck the dick after it had been in a pussy r145? How did it taste?

by Anonymousreply 146Last Monday at 7:13 PM

R89, R92, R95,R114, R131,R143,R145 = queer/bi gaslighters freaks = Block.

R139 Typical "a hole is a hole" bi/queer freak, Block.

R134, R137 queer/bi freaks who fucks retarded mutilated women in testosterone (tranny chasers), Block.

R120 there's no such a thing as "cis" tranny chaser, retarded women who think are men, still are women, Blocked bi/queer freak.

by Anonymousreply 147Last Tuesday at 1:10 AM

People who have "cis" in their vocabulary = block.

by Anonymousreply 148Last Tuesday at 1:23 AM

Given how few people post here these days, block-happy R147, you'll hardly have any posts left to read.

by Anonymousreply 149Last Tuesday at 1:48 AM

I'm surprised how many guys (and women) are saying yes, in their youth, before they knew they were gay, wouldn't do it again etc. I expected there to be a lot more bisexuals, men and women on DL, who would say of course, I still do

by Anonymousreply 150Last Tuesday at 9:14 AM

R148, That poster has only made a handful of the comments here, mostly calling out phoney bi/tranny-chaser queerios pretending to be gay men. I don't see why that's a problem? After all this is a gay forum not a bi/trans forum. Also I'm sure many people still frequent DL.

by Anonymousreply 151Last Tuesday at 9:18 AM

I had plenty of opportunity when I was younger, but never acted on it or wanted to. My closest shave was with a young woman who was very offended that I wasn’t interested. She was determined and tried everything, even tears. It was pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 152Last Tuesday at 9:31 AM

Why do they always cry? Lol Do they think it's going to inspire sympathy? I wouldn't even drop trou for a crying man let alone a woman, but then I've never had a man cry at me for sex.

by Anonymousreply 153Last Tuesday at 9:50 AM

About half the gay men I know in their 40s were fucking women in their 20s.

When you're 20, it's easy to get hard for any hole.

by Anonymousreply 154Last Tuesday at 11:01 AM
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