3 divorces? 2 are bad enough through your 40s and 50s, but by 29, there’s definitely a problem, and a common denominator: her.
She’s beautiful and she’s nuts. Plenty of gorgeous women are like this. They get hit on 20 times more than other women at school, work and at bars. They get charmed, THINK they fall because they’re having amazing sex, and the guy can’t resist a beautiful face and a great lay, and then they marry, and it immediately falls apart, because relationships don’t survive on being gorgeous, smart, impulsive, good in bed, sexual chemistry, and hard ons. And that’s the FIRST marriage. Most walk away, realizing they both made a mistake, learn, and become VERY picky about who they pick next, and what they share in common, and how well they communicate and resolve conflict, BEFORE even making the relationship exclusive, much less moving in together, or getting married.
I’ve had friends like this woman you describe, OP. Get ready for infidelity, theft, substance abuse, domestic violence, real or falsely accused of, police men who show up at her house to take you in, who are fucking her on the side, and all other kinds of madness. Make sure you have good homeowners’ insurance, lock down your valuables, and get full coverage on the car insurance, because eventually you will also come home to find your door kicked down, your watches missing, your nice suits ALL gone, or she will “borrow” your car and have a “small fender bender”. That means she totaled your ride. LMAO!
Have fun! And if this isn’t an EST, save this post, because every prediction is highly probable. Good family and education makes ZERO difference. 3 divorces by 29 is an obvious major personality disorder, (likely Borderline Personality Disorder) and/or mental illness, usually accompanied by drug/alcohol addiction and sometimes, an eating disorder. You think: she can’t be, she looks good and healthy. At 29, and some money, we all look great at 29. So don’t let her looks, education, job, etc., be the tip off, because normal and mentally healthy, emotionally well adjusted women just DO NOT marry and divorce 3x, by 29.
p.s. Don’t tell her where you work, or where your kids go to school, if you have any. And if you tell her you’re bi, she will accuse you of attempting to infect her with HIV, tell all your coworkers and boss, and that cop she’s fucking on the side will beat the living shit out of you with his pals one night, when you least expect.