I Live With Six Brothers. I Have Sex With Two of Them.
I (a man) live in a large house along with six brothers, all adults and close to each other in age, two of whom I am having sex with. I am naturally much closer to them than the other four. “Yarin” and “Ferdinand” are both fully aware that I have sex with both of them. With the exception of occasional flares of jealousy on Ferdinand’s part (based in insecurity; we’re working on it), it seems to suit all of us very well. The house we share the rent for is large enough that I’m sure the other four brothers don’t know about the sex.
The problem is that I don’t know what to call this arrangement, even to myself. I’m often uncomfortably aware of just how unconventional it really is. When with one or both of them in public, I don’t know how to answer when people ask what Yarin and/or Ferdinand are to me. Yarin usually answers that we’re friends, which I don’t mind. Ferdinand has brazenly answered that I am his boyfriend whom he shares with his brother, which I DO mind. That part isn’t anyone’s business! Ferdinand is somewhat hurt by this, as he is openly affectionate with me in public and expects reciprocation, but I’m a quiet person, while there are Mardi Gras parades more reserved than Ferdinand. My sex life is absolutely not the business of random strangers. Should I follow Yarin’s lead and just say we’re friends? And can I tell Ferdinand to cool it in public?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 76 | February 21, 2020 3:42 AM
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They should call TLC: "Two and Counting!"
by Anonymous | reply 1 | January 22, 2020 9:46 PM
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Just call this relationship what it is. Incest.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | January 22, 2020 9:53 PM
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[quote]The house we share the rent for is large enough that I’m sure the other four brothers don’t know about the sex...The problem is that I don’t know what to call this arrangement, even to myself.
Well, if you and they are hiding the fact you're having sex, I'd say the best thing to call it would be "in the closet."
[quote]Just call this relationship what it is. Incest.
No. The author is having sex with individually with each of two brothers. It doesn't sound as if the brothers are having sex with each other or even threeways with the third dude.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | January 22, 2020 9:56 PM
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Shouldn’t be hard to find out their identity. How many families have 6 adult brothers in the same house with a slut? I’m sure they’ll be thrilled to see their roommate is writing articles.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | January 22, 2020 10:00 PM
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r4 I misunderstood. I thought the title "I live with 6 brothers" meant his brothers.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | January 22, 2020 10:00 PM
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Excuse me miss, but I have my own problems.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 7 | January 22, 2020 10:02 PM
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[quote]How many families have 6 adult brothers in the same house with a slut? I’m sure they’ll be thrilled to see their roommate is writing articles.
Good night, John Boy!
by Anonymous | reply 8 | January 22, 2020 10:02 PM
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Didn't the Duggars already do this storyline?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | January 22, 2020 10:07 PM
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Don't know what to "call" the "relationship"?
You're a whore, darlin.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | January 22, 2020 10:09 PM
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Who the fuck has these kind of problems and where? Is this some sort tenement? None of this is real.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | January 22, 2020 10:13 PM
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It sounds like the synopsis of Swedish Netflix series.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | January 22, 2020 10:15 PM
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OP: Sounds like a prime reality show on TLC right between 90-Day Fiance and The Pimple Popper.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | January 22, 2020 10:18 PM
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My guess is he and his brothers are all hideous
by Anonymous | reply 15 | January 22, 2020 10:18 PM
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"Yarin, Ferdinand and Me." Coming soon to Netflix.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | January 22, 2020 10:18 PM
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The Real World: DataLounge
by Anonymous | reply 17 | January 22, 2020 10:22 PM
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Taking on two brothers at once would be hot, but this just sounds like emo drama.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | January 22, 2020 10:24 PM
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[quote] I misunderstood. I thought the title "I live with 6 brothers" meant his brothers.
I thought the same thing. Now that I know the truth, the story has switched from being "ewwww, gross!" to "ooooooh, hot!"
by Anonymous | reply 20 | January 22, 2020 10:25 PM
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Please. Shut. The. Fuck. Up.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | January 22, 2020 10:29 PM
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Pretty sure this is a made up letter, also the advice for the second letter was just horrible.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | January 22, 2020 10:33 PM
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Regardless Slate published it.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | January 22, 2020 10:36 PM
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Ah, Rich Juzwiak is answering the letter.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | January 22, 2020 10:36 PM
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Sounds like a Pence family situation.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | January 22, 2020 10:37 PM
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I know how he feels. I slept with all the Hemsworth brothers. Or at least I did in my fantasies.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | January 22, 2020 10:39 PM
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I didn't know the Jonas brothers had three other brothers.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | January 22, 2020 10:40 PM
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There's something really.unclean about the whole situation. He's a whore and an attention whore. Not my cup of tea.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | January 22, 2020 10:42 PM
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Countdown to inevitiable threeway . . . 3 . . . 2 . . .
by Anonymous | reply 30 | January 22, 2020 10:46 PM
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It's weirdly worded. I'm actually wondering if the OP shares a house with 3 sets of brothers, and he's having sex with 2 of them (from different families).
by Anonymous | reply 32 | January 22, 2020 10:49 PM
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It is weirdly worded, English might not be their primary language.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | January 22, 2020 10:54 PM
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For society to work, when children grow up, they develop close romantic ideally permanent or quasi-permanent relationships with others and often reproduce. The way that happens is for there to be boundary limits between parent and child and between siblings. Good parents teach that gradually as children grow up. They model it for the children and encourage it when the children start developing those relationships, as children do when they become teens. Something isn't working right in that family.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | January 22, 2020 11:07 PM
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I was ok with it until Ferdinand started getting clingy.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | January 22, 2020 11:09 PM
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R36 Growing up I couldn't even share a Lego set with my brother.
Something very weird going on there.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | January 22, 2020 11:11 PM
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Why do we need to hear about pathetic closet cases and brotherly fuckbuddy swapping. This is gross. Not gay. Not bi. Just immense dysfunction if real, or pure fantasy bullshit.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | January 22, 2020 11:11 PM
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Weird. Why aren't the brothers out dating other boys and/or girls?
by Anonymous | reply 40 | January 22, 2020 11:16 PM
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Omg. I’m so sorry. I went to W&W r38 and I F&Fed by mistake. Muriel! Help!
by Anonymous | reply 41 | January 22, 2020 11:29 PM
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why isn't he sleeping with all 6 brothers? slacker...
by Anonymous | reply 42 | January 22, 2020 11:44 PM
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I did a crap this morning that was barely human
by Anonymous | reply 43 | January 22, 2020 11:45 PM
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Does he ever let one brother "churn the cream" of the other brother?
by Anonymous | reply 44 | January 22, 2020 11:47 PM
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R41 is worse than Hitler.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | January 22, 2020 11:49 PM
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Is this a cult situation?
by Anonymous | reply 46 | January 22, 2020 11:50 PM
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From the song ‘He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother“ by The Hollies
And the load
Doesn't weigh me down at all
He ain't heavy
He's my brother
by Anonymous | reply 48 | January 22, 2020 11:56 PM
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This is a household with household routines. When do Yari and Ferdi fuck their sub-brother. One after the other, same time of day and yes R44 do they churn the cream.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | January 22, 2020 11:59 PM
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I dated a guy who had 5 cousins who were always hanging around, and he suggested more than once that I should "help" one of his cousins. He'd pinch my nipple in front of them.
They were very machismo, from Central America, so maybe that was not unusual.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | January 23, 2020 12:06 AM
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I dated a guy who had 5 cousins who were always hanging around, and he suggested more than once that I should "help" one of his cousins. He'd pinch my nipple in front of them.
They were very machismo, from Central America, so maybe that was not unusual.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | January 23, 2020 12:06 AM
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I was engaged to one for a very short period of time.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | January 23, 2020 1:12 AM
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Because four of the brothers refuse to settle for sloppy seconds or in this case, sloppy thirds R42
by Anonymous | reply 53 | January 23, 2020 3:32 AM
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This is what I would have done with the movie, had I been director.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 54 | January 23, 2020 3:38 AM
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Op lives with six guys who are brothers to each other? Seems like a peculiar arrangement even without the sex.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | January 23, 2020 7:24 AM
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I think he has bigger problems than just knowing what to call this arrangement. Ferdinand clearly sees him as a boyfriend and is fine with him fucking Yarin, but if he's not able to nut up and ask Ferdi not to mention the Yarin-sex then he shouldn't be doing any of this.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | January 23, 2020 10:26 AM
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I suspect that letter is the work of DLer who wanted to troll that ex-Gawker guy. It's actually sort of funny as a completely over the top parody of the sort of letters they get.
Just as funny is the number of DLers who think "well it was in Slate, so it must be real."
by Anonymous | reply 58 | January 23, 2020 10:30 AM
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0/10!
Oh, wait it’s not a DL thread, it’s a Slate article?
by Anonymous | reply 59 | January 23, 2020 10:41 AM
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The correct term for this is "Troll Fantasy." Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | January 23, 2020 10:51 AM
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R59, I was just thinking that Slate is less discriminating than DL.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | January 23, 2020 12:25 PM
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This animal is from the Croatia yes?
by Anonymous | reply 63 | January 23, 2020 5:41 PM
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Wait, is this those Wolfpack Bros.?!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 65 | January 26, 2020 9:15 PM
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Just kill all of them and then kill yourself
by Anonymous | reply 66 | January 26, 2020 9:28 PM
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The letter is coming from INSIDE THE HOUSE!
by Anonymous | reply 67 | January 26, 2020 9:34 PM
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Maybe he's saying it's six black men.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | January 26, 2020 9:47 PM
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That hoe better not make Ferdinand mad. Did you see what happened when he got stung by a bee?
by Anonymous | reply 69 | January 26, 2020 10:58 PM
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This is a silly EST.
You too could write an anoymous letter to slate with some made up "juicy" scenario and get them to publish it. The point is to get clicks.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | January 26, 2020 11:35 PM
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True story: From the time I was 13 to 17, I managed to have sex with (all) four brothers in one family. None of them knew about each other, to the best of my knowledge. This happened between 1972-1981.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | January 27, 2020 1:01 AM
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R71, first names and cock sizes, please.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | January 27, 2020 1:03 AM
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Hah. Initials okay?
B -- small, maybe 4-5" and thin
M -- 5" and thick base but thin at the head
R -- 7-8" and thick. I gagged on him because he liked to jab. Massive precummer.
P -- 8" and perfect (he was the youngest and last one; I was 17, he was 16)
by Anonymous | reply 73 | January 27, 2020 1:48 AM
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R71, how were you 13 to 17 over the course of 9 years?
by Anonymous | reply 74 | January 27, 2020 2:27 AM
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Oh shit! 1977-1981. Thanks for catching that.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | January 27, 2020 2:29 AM
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R71 and R73 we still need more details. How did you make this happen?
by Anonymous | reply 76 | February 21, 2020 3:42 AM
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