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J + R + others cont. thread 2

just starting the thread a bit early just in case.

from Runyon Canyon here are the pair on their latest trip

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by Anonymousreply 271February 2, 2020 8:32 PM

So tacky to go shirtless off the beach.

by Anonymousreply 1December 28, 2019 8:31 PM

He’s so tacky he goes shirtless everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 2December 28, 2019 8:31 PM

Fem queen at R1 , it’s natural for guys to go shirtless when it’s nice weather

You must be so hideous that other guys would puke on seeing your bare carcass

by Anonymousreply 3December 28, 2019 8:56 PM

R3 - hi Jake!! You found us again! By the way, do us all a favor and shave that hideous hair puff off your skull. It’s disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 4December 28, 2019 9:01 PM

Jake’s been shopping a “gay reality” show for several months now according to a PA friend of mine in Burbank. He’s so pathetic that no one has expressed any interest in it yet. It’s about him and a gaggle if gays traveling around the world and celebrating life at circuit parties. I can’t imagine the tragic queens all glittered-up and preening for the cameras.

by Anonymousreply 5December 29, 2019 5:43 PM

You would be the first viewer on his show R5

by Anonymousreply 6December 29, 2019 5:49 PM

Runar missed his grandmother’s funeral for this?? You can travel to LA and show your butt in the mountain any time. I just don’t understand.

by Anonymousreply 7December 29, 2019 5:52 PM

Omg, I am laughing my ass off at the tidbit offered in R5. What a truly pathetic loser. Something like that might have worked in 2005, but I think the reality show genre and the navel-gazing vapidity of someone like Jake is seriously waning.

The fact that he thinks his life is interesting enough to be the basis of a series is just some major next-level delusion. He’s also pushing 40. If they did that show, it would be twenty-something Instagays. Not whatever crowd he thinks he’s formed.

Is all this an “audition” for Runar then?

by Anonymousreply 8December 29, 2019 7:08 PM

R8 - good observation. Maybe this is a way for Runnar to get “jumped off.” Dr. Jake is too old to “happen.”

by Anonymousreply 9December 29, 2019 7:16 PM

the current thread just got paywalled but hey at least not deleted

time to start this one up now

by Anonymousreply 10January 5, 2020 10:38 PM

previous thread

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by Anonymousreply 11January 5, 2020 10:39 PM

last update is J + R were about to take down the xmas tree shirtless and with hot chocolate

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by Anonymousreply 12January 5, 2020 10:40 PM
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by Anonymousreply 13January 5, 2020 10:42 PM

Runar is really not attractive.

by Anonymousreply 14January 5, 2020 11:34 PM

jakejacob01 Sometimes unexpected late Christmas gifts are the best. From a niece to her guncle. Welcome to the gun show, and thank you @runarrafn for filling it with homemade mint hot chocolate. 💪🏻💪🏻

#guncles #gunshow #twohander

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by Anonymousreply 15January 6, 2020 1:04 AM

Runar has set up a temporary office in Jake's apartment until their next trip in 1 1/2 weeks to Miami

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by Anonymousreply 16January 6, 2020 6:57 PM
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by Anonymousreply 17January 6, 2020 6:58 PM

more from his stories:

[quote] It is really nice to step away from everything, all my responsibilities , all my rentals and kind of come up with a couple of ideas, write some business plans

Runar said he was lacking motivation in 2019 regarding work but he's motivated again to add to what he's already doing.

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by Anonymousreply 18January 6, 2020 7:02 PM

What Runar’s occupation? Is he gunning for a green card here? I’d love for him to get one through Jake and then dump him.

by Anonymousreply 19January 6, 2020 8:17 PM

R19 he runs several rental properties and has dabbled in construction. He posts numerous stories clips of himself fixing up his properties from time to time too

by Anonymousreply 20January 6, 2020 9:56 PM

I believe Runnar is in fact using Jake. He’s way too good for Jake and is just meeting all of his connections.

by Anonymousreply 21January 6, 2020 11:37 PM

a few weeks ago in his stories Runar did mention something about wanting to do some work in the US. Apparently he had done 1 project before in the past. He didn't elaborate but I would think he meant remodeling

by Anonymousreply 22January 7, 2020 12:42 AM

Runar is quite clearly angling for a green card. And Jake is just stupid and ego-driven enough to fall for his scheme to obtain one. In fact, I bet Runar was instrumental in the final ousting of Ted.

by Anonymousreply 23January 7, 2020 9:03 PM

Runar went for a morning stroll today, enjoying the extra hours of sunlight that KC gets this time of year compared to Iceland

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by Anonymousreply 24January 7, 2020 10:26 PM

Runar is a total grifter.

by Anonymousreply 25January 7, 2020 10:35 PM

This used to be Jakes apartment. I ate there as a teen

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by Anonymousreply 26January 7, 2020 10:46 PM

In his stories Runar says while Jake performs this ab exercise on his toes, Runar does it on his knees. Then he jokes that "but that's ok because I'm pretty comfortable on my knees"

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by Anonymousreply 27January 11, 2020 2:27 AM

Is Runar full-on living with Jake now? He seems like a leech.

by Anonymousreply 28January 11, 2020 8:33 PM

R28 he's on a 5 week trip to the US. Jake is not on vacation for that amount of time so Runar is staying in KC in between their trips. Their next trip will be to Miami.

William.Stud hung out with them again. Was Jake standing on a chair?

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by Anonymousreply 29January 11, 2020 10:47 PM
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by Anonymousreply 30January 11, 2020 10:50 PM
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by Anonymousreply 31January 11, 2020 10:52 PM
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by Anonymousreply 32January 11, 2020 10:56 PM

William stud is a butterface. Fits in well with J+R.

by Anonymousreply 33January 12, 2020 7:20 PM

Runar exemplfies the "brain drain" from Iceland. Come home, Runar! We need you!

by Anonymousreply 34January 12, 2020 7:38 PM

Runar was Jake's date for a gay wedding in KC last night

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by Anonymousreply 35January 12, 2020 7:45 PM

the couple

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by Anonymousreply 36January 12, 2020 7:48 PM
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by Anonymousreply 37January 12, 2020 7:48 PM
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by Anonymousreply 38January 12, 2020 7:49 PM

meanwhile Ted's page has gone private for a few weeks now

by Anonymousreply 39January 12, 2020 7:50 PM

I wonder if Jake remembers when he was married less than a year ago

by Anonymousreply 40January 12, 2020 7:50 PM

Who’s the bald guy on the right in R38?

by Anonymousreply 41January 12, 2020 7:54 PM

[bold] I really hope Ted doesn't still follow or view Jake's posts. The following might be kinda triggering for him. Yeah Jake your life changed a lot...you got divorced and now you're posting a pic from your last trip with Ted (the cruise when Runar first appeared). Now he's talking about wanting to visit Florida again, the place where he met native Floridian Ted before Ted moved out to accompany Jake for his residency in San Antonio and then job in KC. [/bold]

jakejacob01 Throwback to last year’s beach escape. Soooooo ready to get back into some warm weather this week.

I can’t begin to say how much of my life has changed in the last year, even in the last month. My priorities, confidence level, aspirations, goals, are all evolving, and mostly because I am allowing them to evolve. Sometimes focusing so hard on a pre-decided future/reality has stopped me from seeing the “forest through the trees.”

I’ve spent my energy trying to change myself to fit the future I thought I wanted. These past few months I’ve begun embracing the unknown, and allowing myself to alter the course of a life that was previously set in stone.

As for today, I’m loving the ice and snow but get this Miami boy back in his element. I’m loving where I’m at but I’m ready for new experiences, new adventures, new memories. For now I’m done changing myself from the inside out. My goal is to live and love my life exactly as I am, and jump at the chances to be my authentic best self.

#miami #warmweather #speedo #adventuretime #beachweather #backandlats #bööty #🍑

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by Anonymousreply 42January 12, 2020 11:16 PM

runarrafn I was so lucky to get to attend @jerradblake and @tuckrayl wedding yesterday ❤️ Thanks for letting me tag along @jakejacob01 😊

[bold] Jake comments [/bold]

jakejacob01 Matchy matchy 👯‍♀️

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by Anonymousreply 43January 12, 2020 11:18 PM

[bold] Runar commented on Jake's post at R42 [/bold]

runarrafn Ready for you to show me your Miami ❤️

[bold] so clearly Jake is going to take Runar to all the places Ted took him in Miami. ouch [/bold]

by Anonymousreply 44January 12, 2020 11:20 PM

Did J@ke get verified yet? Getting the blue check should be easier for him.

r44 It will be poetic justice when Runar does to Jake that he did to Ted. He just needs the green card.

by Anonymousreply 45January 12, 2020 11:31 PM

Jake will be Runar’s “starter wife” in a similar way that Ted was for Jake.

Oh, karma...

by Anonymousreply 46January 13, 2020 12:01 AM

R38 - that is Jake I think from a bad angle. I would not be posting some of those shots if I were Jake @ R38 & R43.

by Anonymousreply 47January 13, 2020 4:06 AM

How could that be Jake at R38? That’s some short chubby bald guy. When did he shave his head? Doesn’t even look like him in the face.

by Anonymousreply 48January 13, 2020 5:11 AM

yes lol that's Runar and Jake selfie-ing at the gay wedding last night

by Anonymousreply 49January 13, 2020 5:15 AM

Runar doing squats while Jake records

Runar says he stole someone's shorts from LA

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by Anonymousreply 50January 13, 2020 5:17 AM

What is up with these krazy klothing kleptos?

by Anonymousreply 51January 13, 2020 6:39 AM

I get this MacBeth quote out of my head when reading about these two:

This life, which had been the tomb of his virtue and of his honour, is but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.

by Anonymousreply 52January 13, 2020 8:13 AM

*I can't get

by Anonymousreply 53January 13, 2020 8:14 AM

I'm shocked and amazed that Jake managed to put some clothes on to attend that wedding. Does anyone know if he managed to sneak off to the toilets for a cheeky abs-shot at some time during the reception? I can't imagine him going for that long without the attention.

by Anonymousreply 54January 13, 2020 11:26 AM

it's Runar's 34th bday today. He's in Miami. I think Jake is joining him this weekend? he doesn't appear to be there yet

he mentioned in his stories he always used to hate birthdays because it made him feel he hadn't done enough but now he realizes life is about trying to have as much fun as possible and that he does plenty of that

after a few days in Miami he's going on a cruise. I assume Jake will be on that too.

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by Anonymousreply 55January 15, 2020 10:47 PM

Jake's insta-wishing of happy bday to Runar

this pic Jake jokingly chose was from the weekend in Iceland Runar went in the cabin with some friends rather than his now deceased grandmother's 90th bday party.

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by Anonymousreply 56January 15, 2020 10:49 PM

William.Stud also wishes him a happy bday

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by Anonymousreply 57January 15, 2020 10:51 PM

[quote]Over the past month I’ve been able to spend some amazing time with this Icelandic prince and every time he blew me

TMI, William Stud.

by Anonymousreply 58January 16, 2020 3:03 AM

an Icelandic friend wishes Runar happy birthday

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by Anonymousreply 59January 16, 2020 3:07 AM

I'd like to hear Runar's thoughts on respecting his elders. 🤔

by Anonymousreply 60January 16, 2020 3:25 AM

I am too lazy to bother with sourcing photos for side x sides, but does it look like Runar is starting with the injectables (aside from steroids)? I am wondering if he is starting with a little botox at R55. There were a couple of other photos recently where he looks subtly different. R57 is the best photo of Will I have seen posted.

by Anonymousreply 61January 16, 2020 11:34 PM

Jake is now in Miami with Runar

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by Anonymousreply 62January 17, 2020 1:21 AM

Jake called ahead to have their hotel room decorated for Runar's birthday and ordered flowers

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by Anonymousreply 63January 17, 2020 1:22 AM
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by Anonymousreply 64January 17, 2020 1:32 AM

Runar loves the hotel room view

he says it's all thanks to Jake

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by Anonymousreply 65January 17, 2020 1:37 AM

Runar continues celebrating his birthday at the hotel's adult pool with Jake

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by Anonymousreply 66January 17, 2020 1:39 AM

Who is the old man at R64? Why did they take a pic of some random old man at the hotel?

by Anonymousreply 67January 17, 2020 3:42 AM
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by Anonymousreply 68January 17, 2020 9:03 AM

What is she doing about her face though?

by Anonymousreply 69January 17, 2020 9:08 AM

And those monkey ears...

by Anonymousreply 70January 17, 2020 9:14 AM

R66 his hair...

by Anonymousreply 71January 17, 2020 2:45 PM

less than optimal hotel gym! improv needed!

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by Anonymousreply 72January 18, 2020 9:35 AM
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by Anonymousreply 73January 18, 2020 9:36 AM
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by Anonymousreply 74January 18, 2020 9:37 AM

Runar's friend and fellow Icelander Jombi is in Miami too

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by Anonymousreply 75January 18, 2020 9:39 AM

wishing insta-happy bday to a friend

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by Anonymousreply 76January 18, 2020 9:41 AM
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by Anonymousreply 77January 18, 2020 9:50 AM

Runar wearing heeled boots and Jake wearing platform heels

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by Anonymousreply 78January 18, 2020 9:52 AM

catwalk practice in platforms!

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by Anonymousreply 79January 18, 2020 9:54 AM

work

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by Anonymousreply 80January 18, 2020 9:55 AM

Jake wants to be Stevie Nicks?

Also, “forest THROUGH the trees”????????

by Anonymousreply 81January 18, 2020 10:05 AM

Eww, I stopped reading these threads for a while but it seems in that time Runnar has surpassed Jake in showing off his shitty personality. Jake actually seems less messed up now next to Runnar.

Sorry dead grandma but clearly a gangbang was more interesting to him.

by Anonymousreply 82January 18, 2020 12:01 PM

Photo at R79 is why Trump will win again in 2020.

by Anonymousreply 83January 18, 2020 1:51 PM

Palace Bar is definitely a paid promo. In the first two shots, the bar looked empty and then there were some chicks in the background of the photo as well. Also and this might be the most shocking revelation, I think this is the first time ever at a presumably gay bar where Jake and Runar have left their shirts on...in Miami?!?! This from men who walk around in the freezing cold mid west shirtless for any occasion. Jake is looking a little skinner in R79. I'm anticipating a body acceptance post coming soon about unrealistic expectations for himself but will keep pushing ahead.

by Anonymousreply 84January 18, 2020 5:22 PM

running on Miami Beach. Runar is amazed they can run outside shirtless in January and mentions maybe moving there (joking or not)

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by Anonymousreply 85January 18, 2020 6:51 PM
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by Anonymousreply 86January 18, 2020 6:53 PM
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by Anonymousreply 87January 18, 2020 6:54 PM
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by Anonymousreply 88January 18, 2020 6:55 PM

I wonder if they have sex. They’re just friends, right?

by Anonymousreply 89January 19, 2020 7:22 AM

They probably have sex videos, dr jake likes making those!

by Anonymousreply 90January 19, 2020 10:23 AM

jakejacob01 Miami is like coming back home. I love the people, the culture, the weather, the memories. I’ve stood on this beach (the gay beach on 12th) many times over the last 10 years. It’s hard to put into words the impact moving here had in my life.

I had a good friend comment yesterday that Miami is where I came into myself. They are right in part. It’s where I started accepting myself and started a journey that would open my mind and heart to new possibilities. Moving here, starting grad school, I felt like an imposter, not believing I was smart enough or good enough, having left everything I knew and arriving in a new city with only a car full of belongings, a stranger in a new land.

When I moved out to Miami 10 years ago I was battling with reconciling my mormon beliefs and having same sex attraction. I finally physically and mentally stepped away from years of conversion therapy, culture, religion that all told me I was broken. Needless to say it was a start and I had a long way to go. On top of that was a mountain of school work and training.

My years in Miami were filled with amazing growth but also my greatest struggles. I had been sheltered and biased by my cultural upbringing beyond help at times. I was full of rage and suspicion and rarely allowed anyone to see who I was, and honestly it was because I still didn’t know who I was myself. It was liberating but incredibly lonely because I hadn’t learned how to be vulnerable. I had no trust in family or friends or therapists or leaders because my past dictated abandonment, pain, and mistrust.

Now 10 years later, standing on the same beach I look back and see that young man and feel pride and pity at the same time. I am so happy I took the chance to step out of my comfort zone, to take the time to sort through, find, and build up who I really am from the mess of trauma of my youth. This trip back has truly been a trip back in time. I use to yearn to finally become and comprehend the person I knew I could be. Now I’m content with the man I’ve become.

#miami #memories #beach #content #transform

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by Anonymousreply 91January 19, 2020 6:08 PM

wow can't believe this...in his stories Jake admits "little known fact...I don't run or do cardio". He says when he lived in Miami he used to though as he liked being outside and he's doing it this weekend.

Kinda shocking that a doctor who's into fitness would only lift and not do cardio though. Surely he knows he should.

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by Anonymousreply 92January 19, 2020 6:12 PM

Runar is excited as today is the day they begin their cruise.

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by Anonymousreply 93January 19, 2020 6:16 PM

So miami is where he became a soul-less hoebag.

by Anonymousreply 94January 19, 2020 6:41 PM

Ted helped build him up and then poof! gone

by Anonymousreply 95January 19, 2020 6:44 PM

So Jake is happy to be a soulless narcissist who can't go a day without some sort of affirmation from a stranger that he is HAWT? Plus, he can't possible be happy sporting that hideous hair puff!

by Anonymousreply 96January 19, 2020 6:52 PM

"10 years later." That means he's 28 or 29, right?

by Anonymousreply 97January 19, 2020 6:57 PM

Jake is mid-thirties

by Anonymousreply 98January 19, 2020 7:34 PM

Jake is 37

by Anonymousreply 99January 19, 2020 7:35 PM

Jake looks 50

by Anonymousreply 100January 19, 2020 7:37 PM

I was thinking an option for the hair puff that might work for Jake is it shove it down crew cut style and then mohawk it, fade both sides out. I'm not a stylist, but the puff is terrible and makes him look much older.

by Anonymousreply 101January 19, 2020 8:46 PM

beginning of the cruise!

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by Anonymousreply 102January 19, 2020 10:51 PM

"Elevator selfie magic"

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by Anonymousreply 103January 19, 2020 10:52 PM

on board and into the gym!

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by Anonymousreply 104January 19, 2020 10:53 PM
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by Anonymousreply 105January 19, 2020 10:54 PM

the security briefing was at the gym and interrupted their workout

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by Anonymousreply 106January 19, 2020 10:55 PM

at a Todrick Hall performance

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by Anonymousreply 107January 20, 2020 4:18 AM

How much vacation time does Jake have? Does he EVER work?

by Anonymousreply 108January 20, 2020 6:27 AM

Jake works hard, and plays harder. Which makes him a more self-actualized and more fully evolved and loving human being.

by Anonymousreply 109January 20, 2020 12:57 PM

where are the sex videos?

by Anonymousreply 110January 20, 2020 2:16 PM

R66 yes, the hair, the hair, that god damn fuck’n hair

by Anonymousreply 111January 20, 2020 2:24 PM

R84 yes, a bit - leaner - all part of the pre-cruise preparations. No carbs/very low carbs to get completely shredded and ripped so that you will stand out in your speedo in a sea of younger flesh on the cruise. When you’re pushing towards 40 you need to do everything you can to stay hot and stay relevant. Both J and R want to party and have loads of ‘pleasure’ so you gotta do what you gotta do to get laid.

by Anonymousreply 112January 20, 2020 2:43 PM

So they’re on an Atlantis cruise? Should we start a betting pool on how many loads they will each take over the course of the cruise?

by Anonymousreply 113January 20, 2020 3:37 PM

runarrafn Miami you were good to me 😊 @jakejacob01 thank you for showing me around 😘

jakejacob01 That view! You make Miami brighter with your smile AND your skin 👏🏻

runarrafn @jakejacob01 thank you ❤️ #icelandicinbreeding

[bold] ah look, they're friends with DL "fave" Colby Melvin [/bold] colbymelvin You boys have fun!

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by Anonymousreply 114January 20, 2020 5:39 PM

so this year Runar brought along some Icelandic friends on the cruise: Gunnar, Thor, Jombi and Egill. The 4 Icelanders are sharing a room and decorated the outside to let others know they're Icelandic and about Iceland.

Jake and Runar love it

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by Anonymousreply 115January 20, 2020 5:48 PM
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by Anonymousreply 116January 20, 2020 5:50 PM

Jake decorated the outside of his and Runar's room to continue celebrating Runar's birthday

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by Anonymousreply 117January 20, 2020 5:52 PM

Jake decorated the outside of his and Runar's room to continue celebrating Runar's birthday

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by Anonymousreply 118January 20, 2020 5:52 PM

and then there's an area on the door where people can write stuff.

Someone wrote "how do you make your boyfriend scream during sex?"

"Call him when you're cumming"

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by Anonymousreply 119January 20, 2020 5:57 PM

"busy, busy gym day"

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by Anonymousreply 120January 20, 2020 5:58 PM
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by Anonymousreply 121January 20, 2020 5:59 PM

R115: That's a Viking foreskinpalooza in that room!

by Anonymousreply 122January 20, 2020 7:29 PM

R115 They might be fun to hang around.

by Anonymousreply 123January 20, 2020 7:38 PM

R113 I am surprised sex videos from this cruise don’t get leaked

by Anonymousreply 124January 20, 2020 9:05 PM

The Icelandic boys have installed more decorations outside their cabin door that continue to show the similarities between Icelandic and American culture and language

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by Anonymousreply 125January 20, 2020 10:17 PM

Anyone know what the T in "T-dance" stands for?

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by Anonymousreply 126January 20, 2020 10:43 PM
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by Anonymousreply 127January 20, 2020 10:45 PM

R127, this is why I hate us

by Anonymousreply 128January 20, 2020 11:06 PM

Like fucking teenage girls. Talk about arrested development.

by Anonymousreply 129January 20, 2020 11:41 PM

watching an aerial show

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by Anonymousreply 130January 21, 2020 3:51 AM
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by Anonymousreply 131January 21, 2020 3:52 AM
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by Anonymousreply 132January 21, 2020 3:53 AM
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by Anonymousreply 133January 21, 2020 6:44 AM
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by Anonymousreply 134January 21, 2020 6:46 AM

What hair puff? He stole Naomi's hairdo. Perfect with a man bun!

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by Anonymousreply 135January 21, 2020 7:29 AM

[quote] Like fucking teenage girls. Talk about arrested development.

Indeed. It all seems particularly douchey. Including the nonsense about how crowded the gym was. Or how inconvenienced they were when their workout was interrupted. 🙄

by Anonymousreply 136January 21, 2020 7:41 AM

R133 😫 Damn every time I see IG muscle gays in an Atlantis cruise every stereotype of vapid emotionally arrested queen is upheld. Glitter and near naked selfies. The bodies are great but damn Jake has an ugly face and sad powder puff hair.

by Anonymousreply 137January 21, 2020 11:14 AM

I clin up lub an cum an terrible theens on boat when bad boys leave boat.

by Anonymousreply 138January 21, 2020 11:47 AM

R137 I don't think Jake is ugly, he's a good looking man, and yes his body is awesome. However the rampant narcissism and soul-crushing gaping void of desperation for attention and validation is what is so unattractive. That and he needs to shave his head.

by Anonymousreply 139January 21, 2020 12:03 PM

The plucked eyebrows, hair tuft, and plastic looking face make him unattractive even if the body is amazing. And yes the narcissism and regressed behavior are the ultimate turn offs.

by Anonymousreply 140January 21, 2020 12:11 PM

If I was stranded on a ship with these idiotic, mincing, flouncing queens hell bent on being FAB-U-LOUS 24/7, I think I'd have to go overboard.

by Anonymousreply 141January 21, 2020 12:43 PM

So being a nearly 40-year old circuit fixture is living his best life? To each his own..

by Anonymousreply 142January 21, 2020 1:34 PM

new friend!

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by Anonymousreply 143January 22, 2020 3:15 AM

the new friend

if you scroll his instagram you'll see he's friends with "DL fave" Austin Wolf

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by Anonymousreply 144January 22, 2020 3:16 AM
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by Anonymousreply 145January 22, 2020 3:17 AM

meanwhile William.Stud has restocked Jake's ice cream!

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by Anonymousreply 146January 22, 2020 3:19 AM

Remind me what in that pic at R145 we're supposed to be envious about?

by Anonymousreply 147January 22, 2020 3:50 AM

That looks like a soul-crushing and toxic environment.

by Anonymousreply 148January 22, 2020 7:00 AM

Meh. Jake's body is nice to look at, but he is still a complete mess. With all the time spent going on holiday, I am not even convinced he is a (medical) doctor at this point.

by Anonymousreply 149January 22, 2020 10:07 AM

Gosh they really have such a diverse group of friends. They all look so different

by Anonymousreply 150January 22, 2020 3:39 PM

where are the sex tapes? I need to see popeye's dick in action.

by Anonymousreply 151January 22, 2020 6:21 PM

Party boys like Jake always have lots and lots of "friends." 10 years from now they will have all forgotten one another, but for now, they're BFF's/besties.

by Anonymousreply 152January 22, 2020 9:28 PM

meeting Todrick!

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by Anonymousreply 153January 22, 2020 10:43 PM

The cruise has landed in Puerto Rico

Jake + Runar + Runar's Icelandic buddies all posing

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by Anonymousreply 154January 22, 2020 10:49 PM

Hasn't Puerto Rico endured enough???

by Anonymousreply 155January 23, 2020 12:55 AM

Icelanders keeping it classy

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by Anonymousreply 156January 23, 2020 2:35 AM

So embarrassing and disrespectful. If it was a bunch of straight guys behaving the same way these same idiots would be howling about their crudity. These are men in their 30s not a bunch of horny teenagers.

by Anonymousreply 157January 23, 2020 10:45 AM

[quote]If I was stranded on a ship with these idiotic, mincing, flouncing queens hell bent on being FAB-U-LOUS 24/7, I think I'd have to go overboard.

Well, someone had your idea and couldn’t take it anymore and flung himself overboard. Body recovered from Atlantic cruise of man who fell from 10th floor deck while docked at Puerto Rico. I wonder how Jake and Runar are dealing with the tragedy.

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by Anonymousreply 158January 23, 2020 11:53 AM

They'll make it all about them, after coming down from whatever party drug they took and stealing someone's gym shorts.

by Anonymousreply 159January 23, 2020 12:22 PM

This recent post from my favorite IG account made me think of Dr. Jake and his Merry Band of Himbos:

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by Anonymousreply 160January 23, 2020 2:57 PM

R158 wow that's sad

so far no posts from Jake and Runar about it

by Anonymousreply 161January 23, 2020 6:15 PM

Runar's friend Jombi posted a stories video of the group walking through Puerto Rico yesterday. Here's a still from it

you can see everyone else has on either a shirt or tank top but not Jake and Runar! Shirtless of course

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by Anonymousreply 162January 23, 2020 6:50 PM

meanwhile the cruise has moved on and they docked in St. Martin today

by Anonymousreply 163January 23, 2020 6:50 PM

Jake posted this in his stories

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by Anonymousreply 164January 23, 2020 6:52 PM

R141 somebody just did

by Anonymousreply 165January 24, 2020 12:58 AM

ice cream in the rain in St. Martin

Runar's friend Gunnar is about to show his deep throating skills

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by Anonymousreply 171January 24, 2020 1:08 AM

I'm just amazed they managed to keep their shorts on. Of course they imagine that they're enlivening the locals lives by showing off their flesh

by Anonymousreply 172January 24, 2020 1:15 AM

R162 J didn’t spend all that time, effort and money on that body not to parade it around as naked as he can and be gazed upon, admired and drooled over by the masses, and especially the masses of gay men.

by Anonymousreply 173January 24, 2020 1:19 AM

someonepleasetellmethereisasextape

by Anonymousreply 174January 24, 2020 1:22 AM

R168 J does have one of the tiniest swimsuits I have seen on a guy. You work it gurl.

by Anonymousreply 175January 24, 2020 1:24 AM

R171 is it just me, or does it seem like J is never seen out and about without his baseball cap on, except for when he’s at the pool. Is he that concerned about the sun, or could it be something else, something deeper.

by Anonymousreply 176January 24, 2020 1:29 AM

The only deep thing about J is his level of narcissism

by Anonymousreply 177January 24, 2020 4:12 AM

the fun super water slide on the cruise

#1

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by Anonymousreply 178January 24, 2020 9:27 AM

you can see Jake with his tiny speedo on towards the top just shot out the tube

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by Anonymousreply 179January 24, 2020 9:28 AM

about to enter the other tube

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by Anonymousreply 180January 24, 2020 9:30 AM

Is there a missing panel there? It looks like Jake is about to fall through that square.

by Anonymousreply 181January 24, 2020 9:31 AM
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by Anonymousreply 184January 24, 2020 9:34 AM

So that poor crew worker died while installing black lights so Jake and friends can have their little glow in the dark T-dance. Was it worth it, Jake?

by Anonymousreply 185January 24, 2020 9:35 AM

R176, he is most likely insecure about his puff. Hats don't suit him very well because his ears become even more pronounced. He might as well go live in a cave.

by Anonymousreply 186January 24, 2020 9:46 AM

J & R are proof that deep, meaningful relationships can be built on a shared interest in steroids, party drugs, and abs.

by Anonymousreply 187January 24, 2020 12:28 PM

I get the parading around in the least amount of clothing possible. If you have worked for it, go for it. What I don’t get is the money and time off. Who is funding his lifestyle?? At best he makes $150K which is a lot but after taxes, basic living expenses and protein and roids - he has to be racking up debts. Or he escorts! The time off aS a doctor makes no sense. I have an unlimited vacation policy and this girl travels more than I do!!!

by Anonymousreply 188January 24, 2020 12:30 PM

R188, as an influencer, which at over a million followers sadly Jake is, everything is free. The Atlantis Cruise is free, the glow in the dark outfits are probably given to him, the hotels that he stays at. Anything in his posts where the brand, restaurant, gym, or bar/club is mentioned, Jake is being comped in some way. For Atlantis, it's worth it to comp 50-100 Jakes having a good time for PR. He has a nice place in Kansas, but it's Kansas. He doesn't live in LA/NYC...yet, but I am sure that is coming soon. He's allegedly shopping a reality show about muscle circuit boys and their adventures, but not gaining traction on that.

by Anonymousreply 189January 24, 2020 1:41 PM

Jake currently has 275K followers on instagram, don't know if he does twitter or how many followers he may have there. But even at that level he would receive certain benefits from sponsors. Not sure if the entire cruise would be comped, though.

by Anonymousreply 190January 24, 2020 2:02 PM

From the pic at R183:

[quote] Kind of obsessed with these light up hats and shoes.

Spoken like a 14-year-old girl. How incredibly vapid and shallow. I get wanting to “live your best life” and all 🙄 but get real. And it’s one thing to do this shit every once in a great while, but constantly chasing this insipid life ridiculous. I’m embarrassed for them.

by Anonymousreply 191January 24, 2020 2:19 PM

r189 Let's get Jake on Reality TV!

by Anonymousreply 192January 24, 2020 4:23 PM

jakejacob01 Can check off Mario and Luigi from token gay costumes. Brought to you by the Target women’s and children’s clothing department 😂🤣💪🏻

#costume #mario #gaycruise #funinthesun

[bold] Runar comments [/bold]

runarrafn We are having to much fun 😅

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by Anonymousreply 193January 24, 2020 7:33 PM

Old San Juan, Puerto Rico

runarrafn We found a pink house 😉 Puerto Rico was amazing on with the cruise 🥳

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by Anonymousreply 194January 24, 2020 7:39 PM

Oasis of the Seas

runarrafn Absolutely LOVE these boys ❤️ They have become like family to me after moving back to Iceland and I couldn’t imagine my life without them. #friendship #dogtagteadance #circuitboys

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colbymelvin Looking good! Hope you’re having fun boys!

jakejacob01 @colbymelvin miss you ❤️

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by Anonymousreply 195January 24, 2020 7:43 PM

it's also William.Stud's birthday

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by Anonymousreply 196January 24, 2020 7:46 PM
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by Anonymousreply 197January 24, 2020 7:47 PM

These queens must have steamer trunks full of costume changes when they go on these cruises.

by Anonymousreply 198January 24, 2020 8:04 PM

R176 deeper, as in he has finally realized that hair pouf is absolutely hideous.

by Anonymousreply 199January 24, 2020 9:06 PM

Funny that Jake always shaves his body hair off when he goes on one of these cruises or to a circuit party. As if he can't find himself attractive in his natural state or fears others won't find him to be hot. He obviously suffers from body dysmorphia if he thinks blowing up his physique to comic proportions is necessary to get gay men's attention. His forearms look like Popeye's. Just think if Jake had donated one-tenth the energy to therapy he does to creating his ridiculous costumes for these events. He has all the makings of an amazing person. Too bad he focuses on short-term thrills versus long-term viability. He must not realize his shelf life is coming to an end.

by Anonymousreply 200January 24, 2020 9:20 PM

Apparently those circuit sluts mean more to R than his own grandmother. Classy. And what, pray tell, is amazing about an aging, vapid, narcissist like J? The time he donates to worthy causes? Charities he supports? Nothing amazing to see with such a shallow hedonist.

by Anonymousreply 201January 25, 2020 1:18 AM

R190 - You have just restored my faith in humanity. This is what you get when you rely on DL for info and do not properly fact check. The idea that Jake had 1M made me so depressed for the gay community. 270K is a lot, but it's not what I thought. I really do like Jake's speedo with the chain print just on it's own without his chains. That would be a cool suit for swimming laps.

R200 - When he's not on a gay cruise, he always uses the #chesthair.

Damn you DL for introducing these train wrecks into my life. They are fascinating b/c I do think they reflect what a lot of gays aspire to.

by Anonymousreply 202January 25, 2020 1:42 AM

with @lavoixtheshow

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by Anonymousreply 203January 25, 2020 1:45 AM
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by Anonymousreply 204January 25, 2020 4:52 PM

You just know her Jake is just living for those chains!!!

by Anonymousreply 205January 26, 2020 2:17 AM

Jake posted this to his stories

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by Anonymousreply 206January 26, 2020 6:09 AM

last night was the white party

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by Anonymousreply 207January 26, 2020 6:12 AM
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by Anonymousreply 208January 26, 2020 6:13 AM

The molly officially kicked in when the photographer was taking R204 & the G shortly thereafter at R207.

by Anonymousreply 209January 26, 2020 6:21 AM

[bold] poor Ted got scammed recently. [/bold]

teddington_01 PUBLIC SERVICE WARNING

Yesterday, I was directed by someone on social media to register on this website “International - Awareness.org”. It was presented as a way to protect myself when meeting new people on line... it is a SCAM. Of particular distress, this ‘website’ is extremely well made and well organized. And it is DIRECTLY TARGETED AT GAY PEOPLE. The site talks about gay bashing, keeping yourself safe and protecting yourself when you meet people online. It is supposedly a site created to ensure your safety and protection from sexual predators by registering and certifying that the person you are meeting is not a sexual predator or have a criminal history of battery. It uses fear to steal your credit card information. So this is what happened I’ve the last 24 hours... I was approached online and chatted with some one for several hours, we were discussing the possibility of meeting when he asked if I was registered with IAPFHVC. He recommended that I look into it because it was a great way to protect myself from disreputable people. The site requires a credit card as a means to verify your identity and to give a $1 donation to the cause. However, my card was repeatedly declined, and the site asked for a different card from another bank. I, being gullible and stupid, put in a different card number. And when that was declined also with another request to use yet another bank, I became suspicious (obviously too late). So I started asking my new “friend” for details of the site only to realize that it was a Bot that baited me. When I confronted them, I was immediately blocked and the conversation vanished. Today, several of my accounts including Uber, Lift and Venmo were accessed from Africa. They were able to do this because they used my email address and the ‘generic’ password that I use for unimportant accounts to gain access. Today, I have reset every password that I have (which took 2.5 hours) and cancelled all my credit cards last night after the incident. So if anyone asks you to sign up on International Awareness.org (also known as IAPFHVC .org), tell them to go to hell.

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by Anonymousreply 210January 26, 2020 6:32 AM

[bold] this is terrible. Ted seems like a nice guy. Isn't what happened to him illegal? [/bold]

teddington_01 Update*** PUBLIC NOTICE... I have 3 credit monitoring services that I use and I’ve been notified that my personal information is now been posted on the DARK WEB. So the mother*uckers running this site are seriously horrible people. DO NOT USE this “International Awareness..org (IAPFHVC.org)”, they will steal your info then try to steal your shit. There is a good possibility I will be changing my phone number and canceling my hotmail account soon, they have posted it online for ‘sale’.

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by Anonymousreply 211January 26, 2020 6:34 AM

Some poor soul died putting up lights so they can party.

by Anonymousreply 212January 26, 2020 9:25 AM

Ted talked for hours with a bot?! God, he is an idiot. I would not be admitting that in public if I were him.

by Anonymousreply 213January 26, 2020 9:32 AM

[R212] J is silent about it because he's mega-pissed because the dead guy's generated more publicity from the cruise than him.

by Anonymousreply 214January 26, 2020 6:24 PM

I think things will swing in Ted's favor in the long run. Is Ted mid 40's? He has a thick head of nice hair, a handsome face that is more rugged/will look good with aging vs. a boyish face that has a shelf life, *seems* to be more sincere, and his friends appear to be more on the normal side. I think he looks great and not just for his age. Jake is going to look beat sooner than later with all the hard partying, especially when the puff goes poof. Doing the circuit or rave drugs as a teenager was hard on the body but I could not imagine doing them in my 30's. I'd be laid out for 2 weeks if I partied Atlantis Cruise style. He already looks rough in some of the unfiltered, natural light shots, where one poster here thought it was an elderly man posing with Runar. Ted also has 50K followers which is a lot or admiration. That was a dumb move though with the verification scam. I have never seen so many letters for a product: IAPFHVC. That makes LGBTQ look like BMW.

by Anonymousreply 215January 26, 2020 6:50 PM

from yesterday

last party was disco themed

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by Anonymousreply 216January 26, 2020 8:10 PM

of course "YMCA" was being played

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by Anonymousreply 217January 26, 2020 8:11 PM

Who is he?

by Anonymousreply 218January 26, 2020 8:14 PM

the Icelanders

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by Anonymousreply 219January 26, 2020 8:15 PM

for anyone who wondered about Runar's bulge

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by Anonymousreply 220January 26, 2020 8:16 PM

trip over airport selfie!

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by Anonymousreply 221January 26, 2020 8:19 PM

long way home

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by Anonymousreply 223January 26, 2020 8:20 PM

Jake is home and thrilled his bff William.Stud restocked his ice cream supply

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by Anonymousreply 224January 26, 2020 8:22 PM

"finally home from an amazing vacation."

Vacation from what?

by Anonymousreply 225January 26, 2020 8:45 PM

R224 with that pic of an ice cream stocked freezer, I’m now going to add bulimia to his list of body dystrophic behaviors

by Anonymousreply 226January 26, 2020 10:39 PM

The ice cream is part of his unquenchable need for attention and affirmation. Of course J skips over his steady diet of steroids.

by Anonymousreply 227January 26, 2020 10:43 PM

I could never do one of those cruises. I am struggling enough , socially, with living here in Palm Springs

by Anonymousreply 228January 26, 2020 10:50 PM

Why does Mr. Stud have a key to his apartment? And why is he eating shit ice cream like Blue Bell? Why not just eat Thifty’s ice cream then?

by Anonymousreply 229January 27, 2020 2:54 AM

R220 Oh my, that is nice. Runar has nothing to be ashamed about there, and I bet you it’s an uncut beauty too.

by Anonymousreply 230January 28, 2020 4:39 AM

You can completely see Jake’s dick at R219. Is he posting this for his relatives, nieces, coworkers, and employer to see?

by Anonymousreply 231January 28, 2020 5:28 AM

I don't think that's Jake in R219 = the one with the fanny pack? I think that's one of Runnar's friends. He has a belly and a different insta unless Jake really was hitting the ice cream

by Anonymousreply 232January 28, 2020 5:48 AM

I seriously doubt any of Jake's relatives or co-workers are interested in seeing him whoring around at all of these circuit parties wearing ridiculous outfits or posing shirtless at the gym for the 500th time. They might derive a certain enjoyment from laughing about his terrifically shallow yet pompous posturings he feels compelled to share.

by Anonymousreply 233January 28, 2020 12:17 PM

So Ted got scammed twice, first by Jake and then by bots on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 234January 28, 2020 1:34 PM

Co-workers would imply that J actually works

by Anonymousreply 235January 28, 2020 1:48 PM

R234 yeah, you’re right

by Anonymousreply 236January 28, 2020 6:22 PM

interesting...Jake deleted the post at R193

by Anonymousreply 237January 28, 2020 7:19 PM

Jake seems to have deleted a lot of his posts, including any that seem to have referenced Ted. Not surprisingly.

by Anonymousreply 238January 28, 2020 7:24 PM

Ted is clearly seen to be 'inconvenient' to J's thirsty ambitions to be some kind of Circuit 'Celebrity'. Sociopathic.

by Anonymousreply 239January 28, 2020 7:28 PM

Their bodies look disgusting at R193. Like warped women’s bodies.

by Anonymousreply 240January 29, 2020 4:03 AM

There is something quite creepy to me about the Jake/Runar relationship. Runar seems like an opportunistic whore. And who would ever post that story he did about his grandmother on her death bed while he attended a circuit party (that is different from the gay cruise he was just on last week). I guess their individual pathological natures make them well suited for now. But I have a feeling this will end in tears. As we all know, Jake likes to be the pretty one. Runar is taller, younger, and seems a bit craftier than Jake. Jake’s interminable and repetitious posts do not point towards an intellectual.

I also highly doubt that Jake has reached out to Ted as he is going through his identity theft. I bet he has his profiles on “mute” or he’s blocked altogether at this point. When people like Ted outlive their usefulness (helping you come out, transitioning from the hotter one to the older bottom third wheel, using him as a lapdog as he moves various places across the country to act as his nurse-wife), Jake tends to throw them away and move onto his next conquest. Not sure how he’ll feel being Runar’s “Ted” which, I can assure you, is where this all is going.

by Anonymousreply 241January 29, 2020 11:04 AM

["When people like Ted outlive their usefulness (helping you come out, transitioning from the hotter one to the older bottom third wheel, using him as a lapdog as he moves various places across the country to act as his nurse-wife"]

That is so depressing yet true.

by Anonymousreply 242January 30, 2020 5:10 AM

I'm fashionably late to the party. Who are these whores?

by Anonymousreply 243January 30, 2020 5:15 AM

R243, absolutely no one of importance... But the DLers love to talk about them.

by Anonymousreply 244January 30, 2020 9:31 AM

Pardon me, but our Jake is 1. a world-renowned physician 2. a key fixture on the gay circuit scene 3. an author and philosopher 4. fitness and diet expert 5. poised to become a major television personality with the launch of his reality show Hardly a person of no importance!!!

by Anonymousreply 245January 30, 2020 12:35 PM

R245, you forgot to mention hairstyle trendsetter.

by Anonymousreply 246January 30, 2020 4:16 PM

[bold] swipe to see the bunch of pics in Jake's post-cruise reflections [/bold]

jakejacob01 Memories of an amazing week with old and new friends. I get a lot of reactions when I mention gay cruises. Some positive, some negative, and everything in between.

For the most part I’ve found a gay cruise is a place where being gay is no longer an outlier or minority. Holding hands and talking to complete strangers happens naturally.

Yes there is no shortage of parties, lights, and dancing, which is fun. With anything else in life a cruise is whatever you make it. I love the excursions, watching an entire boat of LGBT unload into a port unapologetically. I love the comradery stepping into an elevator and smiling and chatting with people who are like me in one way but come vastly different backgrounds.

I’m a huge fan of the saying “I bring my own party” even if that means finding people I click with along the way. I didn’t drink alcohol until I was 32 so I did my first cruise completely sober and had an amazing time. I met lifelong friends from all over the globe. I’m grateful for the opportunity to surround myself with a community of self discoverers, of older generations who went through the initial HIV crisis, of younger generations who have a fresh new take on what being out is for them. Life is what you make it and I’m grateful for the great people that I was lucky enough to get closer to this past week. .

#gaycruise #cruise #instagay #miami #comingout

runarrafn Loved getting to share this experience with you and already excited for our next cruise ❤️🥳

jakejacob01 @runarrafn and a few trips in between ❤️

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by Anonymousreply 247February 1, 2020 3:28 AM

He is insufferable. And wordy. Definitely wordy.

by Anonymousreply 248February 1, 2020 4:27 AM

comradery?

by Anonymousreply 249February 1, 2020 4:44 AM

As if Jake would even acknowledge the existence of anyone over 40. Just another one of the reasons Ted had to go.

by Anonymousreply 250February 1, 2020 12:56 PM

If only the coronavirus ended up where Jake is now. Too bad he lives in yet another small town city(like San Antonio). Why isn't he living where the big fish are and guys like him are a dime a dozen? If Jake was truly special he would stand out.

by Anonymousreply 251February 1, 2020 2:32 PM

Only Jake would think a gay cruise packed with drugged up muscle Marys is a journey of self discovery

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by Anonymousreply 253February 2, 2020 1:17 AM

Runar and some Swedish friends watching the Swedish national competition to determine who goes to Eurovision to represent Sweden. Interesting, Runar said he doesn't understand Swedish so he doesn't know everything that's going on. I thought Icelandic and Swedish were similar?

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by Anonymousreply 254February 2, 2020 1:22 AM

Jake has the deadest eyes I've ever seen

by Anonymousreply 255February 2, 2020 5:32 PM

jakejacob01 Interesting how small changes in physical appearance can affect how people respond. Maybe it’s combination of my own personal confidence/presentation combined with others initial perception and association of who they think I am based on cultural physical characteristics.

When I have my #beard and #scruff I perceive others treat me with more respect. Different people approach me, and I even entertain different types of conversations. I am still the same person of course so after people get to know me they express their opinions of who they thought I was initially and what assumptions they had to break through as they developed a deeper understanding of who I truly am.

With obvious exceptions, each person gets to choose how they present themselves to the world, and which cultural assumptions are carried with their “look.” But appearances don’t reflect a person’s identity.

Overall it’s a great reminder to me that appearances are simply surface deep. The old adage “don’t judge a book by its cover” rings true. Baseline we work with what god and nature gave us, and then add to it: clean cut, scruffy, fluffy, lean, tattooed, pierced, makeup, smiling, stoic, and layers of clothing choices, and a personal choice of expression and identity.

Often the most common response I get after someone gets to know me is. “Jake you’re a lot nicer than I thought you’d be.” Obviously there a selection bias because people who take the time get to know me stick around to report as opposed to those who don’t like me I filter out, and a confirmation bias as I may be looking for these familiar patterns to reinforce my belief, but aside from an imperfectly designed study I find the anecdote holds true.

How I present myself to the world provides people initial information about myself, true or not. I want others to see me for who I really am, so I should also give others the benefit of the doubt to look past my perceptions/assumptions and find out who they really are. Odds are I will see someone a lot like me, an reluctantly #authentic, #vulnerable, slightly guarded soul, flawed but with good intentions, who simply wants to be loved and understood.

#appearances #beard

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by Anonymousreply 256February 2, 2020 6:50 PM

Oh good lord. Another ode to his personal appearance. Jake, you would be a lot better off if you didn't show people who you really are.

by Anonymousreply 257February 2, 2020 6:53 PM

OMFG yet another multiple-paragraphed screed devoted to his looks. Say, Jake, how about sharing how you feel about a book you read, or the time you did something for someone else? No, absolutely no interest in anything like that, is there?

Such a shame you can't post gifs n Instagram - I'd love to spam his posts with 'Too long; didn't read' gifs.

by Anonymousreply 258February 2, 2020 6:56 PM

[bold] LMFAO which 1 of you wrote this comment? [/bold]

deezldave You post and vomet about your life changing events all the time and when people share and comment back, nothing, no reply. So who cares Jake, you’ve been through stuff, you’re not the only one, you’re just another selfish guy that wants the world to feel for you and have compassion when you show none back. Maybe one day you’ll know that the stories touch people and if you’re truly looking to share experiences that mss as y help another, give them the decency and respect that they give you in reading your posts. It’s not just the world according to Jake. Good luck

[bold] Jake replies! [/bold]

jakejacob01 @deezldave I stopped reading after the word vomit. To sum up, your Sunday contribution has been to spend your time and energy writing an entire paragraph with the sole purpose to tear fellow human being down. I wish you the best and an optimistic future 🙏🏻

by Anonymousreply 259February 2, 2020 7:14 PM

Jake is like so many immature twats who dismiss the slightest criticism as evidence that the person is a 'hater', and therefore anything they have to say can be dismissed.

by Anonymousreply 260February 2, 2020 7:17 PM

[bold] and of course his bff had to affirm the post [/bold]

william.stud It’s hard to put into words how much I feel this. Not just because my similar experiences with others, but because my experience with you. I am so thankful I got rid of my perception and opened myself up to you. Getting to know your truth and the amazing person you are has created a friendship and love that is invaluable, and continually challenges me to be a better person. Love you, Jake. ❤️

jakejacob01 @william.stud Love you so much. Thank you being being exactly who you are and for loving me for me. ❤️❤️

by Anonymousreply 261February 2, 2020 7:19 PM

[quote] Overall it’s a great reminder to me that appearances are simply surface deep. The old adage “don’t judge a book by its cover” rings true.

Such utter and complete bullshit. He posts drivel to accompany a shirtless pic of him stroking his own body approvingly. 🙄

So, no. It doesn’t “ring true.” Talk about clueless and completely self-unaware.

by Anonymousreply 262February 2, 2020 7:21 PM

yes, Jake is often takes photos of himself with people who are old and out of shape

by Anonymousreply 263February 2, 2020 7:27 PM

that's a pic from a few years ago btw

notice how much more hair he has there. That was before the hairline receded greatly

by Anonymousreply 264February 2, 2020 7:45 PM

Dr J and friends after he reads a critical post on Instagram...

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by Anonymousreply 265February 2, 2020 7:46 PM

Ted has gone private again. Hopefully his various accounts weren't hacked by the scammer he gave his credit card to

by Anonymousreply 266February 2, 2020 7:52 PM

[bold] not to be outdone by William.Stud, Runar comments too [/bold]

runarrafn The real you is amazing ❤️ Pretty amazing when reality beats out presentation/perception 😁

jakejacob01 @runarrafn best compliment ever ❤️🙏🏻

by Anonymousreply 267February 2, 2020 7:54 PM

Considering Runar skipped his grandmother's last birthday on earth, and blew off her funeral so that he could attend a circuit party at sea, he's probably not the best judge of character.

by Anonymousreply 268February 2, 2020 8:00 PM

[bold] this is quite the post! Jake doesn't get a ton of negative comments but today is different. Jake responded to an empty account lol [/bold]

m212212212 #NarcissismVanity?

jakejacob01 @m212212212 and there’s your assumption. Excellent way to prove the point that people project their own perception based off of limited information 💪🏻

m212212212 @jakejacob01 No I think you’re misinterpreting what I’m trying to say unless you have some psychology degree which I doubt I merely stating that most people that do nothing but post pictures of their current body waiting for comments were trying to feed their own vanity and egos or monetizing your profile as a personal trainer or do you have physical relationships because of how they look you feel me?

by Anonymousreply 269February 2, 2020 8:00 PM

LOL!!! Oh we have heaps of examples of Jake's narcissism!

by Anonymousreply 270February 2, 2020 8:03 PM

[quote] I (was) merely stating that most people that do nothing but post pictures of their current body waiting for comments were trying to feed their own vanity and egos

Yikes!! He seriously exempts himself from the guys who do this??

😂😂😂😂😂😂

by Anonymousreply 271February 2, 2020 8:32 PM
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