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I enjoy being an escort, is that so wrong?

I'm 31. I just use men for money now. The last two guys I dated and liked only cared about fucking me anyways. I may as well get paid for it. I make good money and get paid to get fucked. Is that so bad? I'm planning on investing in real estate.

by Anonymousreply 109December 27, 2019 4:16 PM

OP, please provide your nude pictures or a link to your rent.men profile so we can carefully assess the situation.

by Anonymousreply 1December 8, 2019 8:19 AM

Worlds oldest and most honest profession, it got me thru college and bought me a condo. Now im in finance and work normal. Miss the old days.

by Anonymousreply 2December 8, 2019 8:21 AM

OP, darlin' you're a whore.

by Anonymousreply 3December 8, 2019 8:28 AM

Do you end up stuck with fat guys with scat fetishes?

by Anonymousreply 4December 8, 2019 8:32 AM

R4 that's not how it goes. A while ago, I browsed local (which includes several cities) escort reviews since a friend knew several. I've never saw one involving scat. Not unusual that career escorts are HIV+. They usually charge extra for barebacking and giving/receiving loads. Many of the clients are older bottoms who pay to take it bare. You can read details by going to sites where escorts' customers describe for what they paid.

by Anonymousreply 5December 8, 2019 8:44 AM

Nothing wrong with being imaginative. But being so pathologically delusional while being morbidly obese that you have to throw up lies on DL... Too much, OP, too much.

by Anonymousreply 6December 8, 2019 8:44 AM

OP, wait a minute. You're claiming you're 31 and men are paying you for them to top/fuck you? I'm not going to believe that! I give this thread 0/10.

by Anonymousreply 7December 8, 2019 8:56 AM

Do you write off condoms as a business expense on your taxes?

by Anonymousreply 8December 8, 2019 8:59 AM

Can I play you OP ?

by Anonymousreply 9December 8, 2019 8:59 AM

Would it have killed you to have at least posted a picture or link OP? Would it? I mean would that have really been so hard? Would it? Why don’t you try to think more of others next time before you post? What's your problem? I mean really, what's your damn problem?

by Anonymousreply 10December 8, 2019 9:08 AM

Must contradict myself because I just remembered something odd but funny my father said a few times after I got older:

"Prostitutes get paid, but whores just give it away."

by Anonymousreply 11December 8, 2019 9:17 AM

Collin, is that you AGAIN ?

by Anonymousreply 12December 8, 2019 9:24 AM

I can smell the chlamydia from here, honey. x

by Anonymousreply 13December 8, 2019 9:47 AM

I wouldn't do it, but I have zero judgement for those who want to follow that path. If you treat it like a business and are professional and respectful, why not? Make that money girl, don't let the money make you....

by Anonymousreply 14December 8, 2019 9:50 AM

R13 as if that's the worst you've had.

by Anonymousreply 15December 8, 2019 9:51 AM

Its more honest than having sex and then asking for money afterwards or pretending to love someone and using them for their money. I think the world would be better off with more hookers and fewer users.

by Anonymousreply 16December 8, 2019 9:54 AM

R16, genuine, decent people don't permit users, pretenders and hookers into their lives.

by Anonymousreply 17December 8, 2019 9:57 AM

u queens are so off, escorting can be way kool. pick the ones u want, lots of nice gents out there jus want a sweet boy to spend time with. u girls sound like the enquirer.....clueless

by Anonymousreply 18December 8, 2019 10:10 AM

R18 that may be true, but OP specifically said he's 31 and being paid to get fucked. I don't believe that. There's always a shortage of tops.

by Anonymousreply 19December 8, 2019 10:12 AM

Sure worked for me!

by Anonymousreply 20December 8, 2019 10:34 AM

I find nothing wrong with the act of prostitution, per se. What I do find wrong is that most prostitutes are earning their money tax free. Prostitution should be legalized everywhere (not just a small area in Nevada), and its practitioners taxed just like everyone else.

by Anonymousreply 21December 8, 2019 10:44 AM

[R17] I don't care about your opinion on the actions of genuine decent people.

by Anonymousreply 22December 8, 2019 10:45 AM

Nothing wrong with it at all, legal in many countries.

by Anonymousreply 23December 8, 2019 10:47 AM

R21 I agree. Escorts should be licensed and regulated as in Holland. If they don't follow the rules and stay clean, they lose their licenses and potentially get prosecuted.

R22, I know, you probably don't care about anyone or anything.

by Anonymousreply 24December 8, 2019 10:49 AM

R24 No i just don't care about your opinion on the types of people that "genuine and decent" people let into their lives. But you can take that in whatever way makes you feel good☺

by Anonymousreply 25December 8, 2019 10:55 AM

R17, this is one of the stupidest, falsest, victim-blaming statements I have ever had the misfortune of reading. Talk about ignorance!

by Anonymousreply 26December 8, 2019 11:02 AM

R26 doth protest too much! Indicative of a greater problem! People without problems don't put up such a fuss! Ha ha ha!

by Anonymousreply 27December 8, 2019 11:06 AM

R17 has a fairy tale idea of what "genuine, decent people" get up to in private. In my city it's well known the strip clubs, and call girls (and boys) do their best business when the huge Baptist convention is in town.

by Anonymousreply 28December 8, 2019 11:09 AM

R19 that doesn't mean an attractive bottom wont be paid to get fucked.

by Anonymousreply 29December 8, 2019 11:14 AM

R27 lol shut up, pseudo-Freud, your stupid is showing

by Anonymousreply 30December 8, 2019 11:16 AM

I did it for 4 years. met a guy who fell for me and we had a blast for 2 years....made enuf to go back to college. escorting not bad, its how u do it....and to not party too much with the client. you guys' generalizations whove never done it, are amusing.

by Anonymousreply 31December 8, 2019 11:25 AM

Morally, I'd say it's no worse than real estate and by investing you'll meet the real whores---realtors, shady home improvement types and closing attorneys.

by Anonymousreply 32December 8, 2019 12:28 PM

[quote] Its more honest than having sex and then asking for money afterwards or pretending to love someone and using them for their money.

There is many benefits to this approach.

by Anonymousreply 33December 8, 2019 12:32 PM

Morally, sex work is fine. A positive even. But saying “I just use men for money now” is fucked up. You can be an escort without being a dead-eyed psychopath who treats people like human ATMs.

by Anonymousreply 34December 8, 2019 12:47 PM

R26, an addendum: Genuine, decent people never permit those types to remain in their lives. I don't blame others for problems they didn't cause.

Probably, you're either the dyslexic Brit who was involved with the Garden Lounge or the dishonest gossip who called me in a tiff because you bare-fucked CrazyNakedBoy. Unethical to spill the latter's tea. What's too damned sad is both of you are harassing me after 20 years. You insist I have a problem? Common knowledge about who has problems, which don't require professional diagnoses. Get help, control yourselves and stay away.

R17

by Anonymousreply 35December 8, 2019 12:59 PM

Are you haunted by it? The bad experiences, the degradation, hooking up with people who normally wouldn't give a second look, the STDs?

by Anonymousreply 36December 8, 2019 1:02 PM

You don't make real money in the sex industry selling yourself.

by Anonymousreply 37December 8, 2019 1:08 PM

R19 you are so full of shit. I hustled at 34 as a bottom and did very well. I to say no to clients I wasn't into but really I never had anyone that was that bad. Not every prostitute is in their 20's. Matter of fact, most shave off a few in their profiles any way. It's all about a person's look and their sexual talents. R19 you're just jealous because nobody would ever pay you for anything.

by Anonymousreply 38December 9, 2019 12:02 AM

OP, I once saw a TV movie about someone like you. It was called "Mistress," and it starred Victoria Principal. She thought she would like living in a high-rise penthouse, accepting gems and furs from a rich married man, but she didn't. Not one little bit.

by Anonymousreply 39December 9, 2019 12:06 AM

Here, OP. I hope you learn a thing or two from Victoria.

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by Anonymousreply 40December 9, 2019 12:21 AM

I am just looking for a good massage with a happy ending and everyone wants to fuck and suck. Where can I find a good massage?

by Anonymousreply 41December 9, 2019 12:41 AM

The best job I ever had.

by Anonymousreply 42December 9, 2019 1:41 AM

r41 as a massage therapist, "ugh".

by Anonymousreply 43December 9, 2019 1:56 AM

This just isn’t believable at all, I don’t care what OP says. There is very little demand for bottom escorts, why would someone need to pay for something that is already so plentiful? Are you’re clients 80 year olds or extremely obese guys who can’t get laid even from the most desperate bottoms?

Not to mention, 31 isn’t that young, and at age where most men lose their twinkish physiques.

by Anonymousreply 44December 9, 2019 2:14 AM

[quote]There is very little demand for bottom escorts

Hold on now, OP might have a really phat booty. All bottoms aint created equal!

by Anonymousreply 45December 9, 2019 2:19 AM

We thank you for your service son.

after radiation treatment for prostate cancer i had both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation issues. I thought my much enjoyed topping days were over. I was too nervous and fearful of failure to attempt sex with a fb of fwb.

Fortunately I found a handsome, kind, patient and young escort who worked with me over the course of several months. Through much practice and trial an error, I was able to regain both my performance skills and self confidence.

I paid him $400 for 90 minute sessions, all very professional, and it was worth every penny.

by Anonymousreply 46December 9, 2019 2:54 AM

Like I said, Best job I ever had. If you have the looks and the skills, I recommend it to everyone.

by Anonymousreply 47December 9, 2019 4:15 AM

So many funny comments from those who have no idea: I escorted for 6 year, paid off my credit cards, bought a car, etc....I picked the ones I wanted to see. and made friends to this day, most are just regular horney guy whose wife or bf don't do it any more. or want a shoulder to cry on...get real folks, its no biggie if u do it right.. do some go off the rails? yea,,,,but u don't have to be an escort to do that...

by Anonymousreply 48December 9, 2019 11:20 AM

I live in a very conservative city, in the Midwest. I look younger than my age and advertise as mid twenties. All my reviews are positive. I take care of myself and don't do drugs. There's not a lot of competition here. I do well. I don't bareback but do offer BBBJs.

by Anonymousreply 49December 9, 2019 7:59 PM

I'll also mention that I have a degree but was having trouble paying off my student loan debts, along with my living expenses, prior to escorting. My family is not well off and I had nobody to borrow money from.

by Anonymousreply 50December 9, 2019 8:02 PM

Not a market for bottoms hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

by Anonymousreply 51December 10, 2019 12:08 AM

R5 = Idiot of the Year Award.

As if most clients post escort reviews and any scat queens would be proud of it.

by Anonymousreply 52December 10, 2019 12:37 AM

R10 = tiresome, unfunny thread repeater bitter for being asked not to pollute.

I see you’re still using multiple accounts to W&W yourself. Now F&F yourself.

by Anonymousreply 53December 10, 2019 12:40 AM

Best year in my life was in LA in the 80s when I was an escort, Had 3 daddys who were pretty damn awesome. Made a bundle then went back to Austin when I got homesick. Fuckups are in all walks of life, does escorting have its bad stuff? yea, but it can be exciting as hell too, specially in Hollywood. Never saw or heard of any of the scat stuff mentioned above. But would I have pooped on a man if he paid me 2 grande?...….yea.

by Anonymousreply 54December 10, 2019 11:27 AM

No shit, I made more in 7 yrs escorting than I did in the previous 13 yrs......if ur hot enuf to score a big fish, its clear sailing all the way....

by Anonymousreply 55December 11, 2019 5:47 PM

Hi, Melania!

by Anonymousreply 56December 11, 2019 5:51 PM

Really nice men paid me to eat my ass out and swallow my cumwads.. Life don't get no better than that mary. now eat my Tesla dust.....

by Anonymousreply 57December 13, 2019 1:47 PM

OP you're a PROSTATUTE !!

by Anonymousreply 58December 13, 2019 1:57 PM

[quote]Really nice men paid me to eat my ass out and swallow my cumwads.

Yeah, but did you ever have to eat any of THEIR asses out or swallow THEIR cumwads?

by Anonymousreply 59December 13, 2019 2:48 PM

I'm not 31! I'm 29.

by Anonymousreply 60December 13, 2019 2:51 PM

R59, I'm not believing the bullshit R57 said just like I'm not believing men pay a 31 y/o to fuck him. I've never seen or heard of one successful bottom escort. If I'm were horny for ass, I'll masturbate or find one of a zillion horny willing bottoms before I pay a hooker. R58, that's freaking hilarious! Did you get that from the Help me move to Vegas thread?

by Anonymousreply 61December 13, 2019 3:08 PM

only if they were cute an had worked on High School Musical, or on Alice.....

by Anonymousreply 62December 13, 2019 3:09 PM

Nothing wrong with liking what you do and having the skill to do it. Good for you OP!

by Anonymousreply 63December 13, 2019 3:09 PM

r54 would you be paid in Arianna and Frankie or Latte?

by Anonymousreply 64December 13, 2019 3:11 PM

I don't think it's bad at all, but you OP do seem to have a tone of confessional. Do you want us to rebuke you?

by Anonymousreply 65December 13, 2019 3:22 PM

Sorry, Melania, but you can't pass for 31

by Anonymousreply 66December 13, 2019 3:22 PM

when uve been fuckd in a private plane by a very famous designer, honey there aint no goin back....

by Anonymousreply 67December 13, 2019 5:42 PM

I don't think it's wrong, but escorting really depends on a persons mindset and programming. I did not escort for fun or b/c I loved sex w/ strangers, but literally the rent was due. I stupidly quit my job, my parents had cut me off, and I use to spend money recklessly relying on my parents as a safety net. Lesson learned big time, for sure. If you are very open sexually, maybe it can be great. There are still many/most times when you really have to act b/c the guys are usually not who you would not want to be with. To be good, you have to turn it on b/c "regulars" are who pay the bills and add a safety element to work. One off guys you have to be able to give a hot experience but be ready to defend yourself simultaneously. I would say that at heart I have always been an old fashioned romantic and monogamist. Now having since retired for 3 years and back in my real job, I have a hard time shaking the experience. I've always had really great boyfriends prior, but now I do a feel a little tainted which is my own shame. Guys who I would normally date, more traditional and monogamists, would never want someone who escorted as a partner. I don't try to date, but I need to get over it. It's also a secret nobody knows, not even my best friends, which is hard and probably why I ramble about it here. I also find during just hook ups for fun, I instinctually go to my staple escort moves/my alter ego which makes for a disconnect. I personally wouldn't recommend it, but if you are proud, doing it, and feel good about, I say live life. Just remember those ads might be always floating around even after retirement. I never look or google my burner phone number b/c I'm terrified that it's all still out there.

by Anonymousreply 68December 13, 2019 6:28 PM

If you want to laugh, try reading OP’s original post as if it were being recited by Catherine Deneuve in the style of a Chanel No. 5 commercial:

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by Anonymousreply 69December 13, 2019 7:26 PM

R68 great post and very honest. Oddly, the older I’ve gotten the less judgmental I’ve become of escorts etc. Anything consensual, safe between 2 ADULTS is ok by me. Thanks for sharing that aspect of your life.

by Anonymousreply 70December 13, 2019 7:41 PM

R70 same here to a point, but a previous commenter pointed out that escorts get away without paying a penny in taxes. Prostitution should be legalized, escorts should be licensed, regulated and taxed as in Holland. In my state, transmission of a viral STD once to another person is a 3rd degree felony, which should apply to escorts nationwide. You get a viral STD, your license is permanently revoked, as it is in countries where whoring is legal and regulated.

by Anonymousreply 71December 13, 2019 7:55 PM

The "Nobody Would Hire a 31-year-old Bottom" Loon, because all bottoms are plentiful, equally scorching hot and willing to have sex with anyone, is a LOON.

by Anonymousreply 72December 13, 2019 8:29 PM

Are you Colin, OP?

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by Anonymousreply 73December 13, 2019 8:36 PM

R71 great point. I’m all for legalizing, regulating and taxing escorts.

by Anonymousreply 74December 13, 2019 9:23 PM

[quote]I've never seen or heard of one successful bottom escort.

Bitch, you better ask somebody!

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by Anonymousreply 75December 13, 2019 9:52 PM

You lost me at "anyways" .... your sort always do. What earnings you have you'll not invest.

by Anonymousreply 76December 13, 2019 10:14 PM

Legalized prostitution creates more sex trafficking. People think legalization of prostitution solves so many problems but it creates so many new ones.

by Anonymousreply 77December 13, 2019 10:22 PM

OP could be telling the truth. It really does depend on how convincingly you can pull off the old datalounge favorite, "looking years younger than you are." Another thing that can work for someone is niche marketing. Tats, piercings & scruff have become almost the norm in gay culture - it's not that unique anymore. In a big city where there is a diversity of all kinds, "all american" white guys who are tattoo/piercing free, clean cut, not on drugs, in shape, and educated can be a high demand segment. If a 31 y/o bottom fit that criteria and skewed more 20's in looks, OP could have had a cleaned up. Although the married/bi contingent are 85+% wanting to bottom or take a passive role. Shockingly or not more out gay men tend to be tops when seeking an escort vs. the coveted straight/married/bi that everyone fantasizes about. They get pussy at home, so they want something different.

by Anonymousreply 78December 13, 2019 10:55 PM

That's true, R78. I have a friend who "specializes" in married bi men and he told me that like 90+ per cent of them are bottoms, many with masochistic tendencies. And he has been with A LOT of guys.

by Anonymousreply 79December 13, 2019 11:36 PM

[quote] Guys who I would normally date, more traditional and monogamists, would never want someone who escorted as a partner.

I wonder how true this is anymore. Maybe 20 years ago, but society has changed since then.

by Anonymousreply 80December 13, 2019 11:46 PM

[quote]u queens are so off, escorting can be way kool. pick the ones u want, lots of nice gents out there jus want a sweet boy to spend time with. u girls sound like the enquirer.....clueless

This is true, especially if you have an innocent, pretty boy look. Before I married my hubby, I was a shy 20 something and found that sitting at the bar alone (I didn't have any gay friends at first) guys would approach me and talk. We'd talk about lots of stuff but I was honest and up front and tell them I wasn't interested in sex and it was ok.

Eventually, I learned I didn't have to put out, guys would want to hang out, be seen with me or take me on vacations. Looking back, i was just arm candy which was ok because I was making $$. It got me through school. I really was just escorting-- no sex. I met a lot of generous and sweet guys. I don't think I was using them, as they knew what the deal was.

by Anonymousreply 81December 14, 2019 12:17 AM

Haha, I found that wearing just jeans and t-shirt, basically looking like trade, was really profitable. I couldn't tell you how many times I've heard " Wow, you're smarter than you look!" I think I was offended at first, but now I find it kinda of funny.

by Anonymousreply 82December 14, 2019 12:28 AM

But OP, no escorting, having sex is not wrong. Prostitution should be legal and regulated. More power to you!

Good luck and be safe!

by Anonymousreply 83December 14, 2019 12:31 AM

it intrigues me that r2 went from escorting right into finance. It really does seem like a natural transition, whoring for the rich one way or another.

by Anonymousreply 84December 14, 2019 12:34 AM

R84 This escort/wannabe actor Billy Pelt managed to go from doing porn to being in tech. It's amazing what some of these whores can do when they want to retire from sex work. The dude totally scrubbed his prior presence online and I can't remember what his real name is, but this is from the peak of his "career" as an adult "entertainer."

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by Anonymousreply 85December 14, 2019 12:44 AM

As long as you suck my dick and have me suck your dick, I'm good with the $150/hour.

by Anonymousreply 86December 14, 2019 1:04 AM

Mother would be proud r86!

by Anonymousreply 87December 14, 2019 1:11 AM

Prostitution whore!

by Anonymousreply 88December 14, 2019 1:15 AM

This probably belongs in a porn thread, but I used to chat with a hottie who worked in Accounting at Disney who became a porn star. I think his name is Arthur, but he goes by Matt. He's thin and muscular, tall, dark hair and eyes, very attractive, loves sucking dick, group scenes and cum showers, don't think he does anal. I'll try to find photos. Sound familiar to anyone?

by Anonymousreply 89December 14, 2019 1:25 AM

Is not wrong. Stay escort for long time. Married life may be no anal but is no picnic.

by Anonymousreply 90December 14, 2019 1:26 AM

The year I escorted in LA in the eightys was the best most stimulating year of my life, met soo many witty entertainment folks/ in the industry, etc .. writers on the tv shows were a fuckiin blast.

hella fun!

by Anonymousreply 91December 14, 2019 2:45 PM

R90 What’s your going rate, love? Do you have a monthly/yearly payment arrangement in place? x

by Anonymousreply 92December 14, 2019 4:14 PM

OP = Blanche's niece, Lucy

by Anonymousreply 93December 14, 2019 4:15 PM

#BeBest (at hooking)

by Anonymousreply 94December 14, 2019 4:22 PM

I had a chance, bak in the day, to be supported by a rich doctor, he was nice/hot.....but I went bak to my damn job an im so sorry I did. I could have been his wife and got drunk all day with the other queens who married dr kidares...FUCK! He was gonna give me a weekly stipend for sex every other night, and vacations on my own. He was generous and kind. If only I had been in his will ide be living in madrid

by Anonymousreply 95December 14, 2019 6:18 PM

I'm versatile at work.

by Anonymousreply 96December 15, 2019 1:41 AM

I'm R85 and I bumped this because I found out the name of the guy who transitioned from doing porn to working at Google. Will Larche.

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by Anonymousreply 97December 23, 2019 10:19 PM

R97 A couple of his videos are still on pornhub. One is REALLY hot. He is not cute anymore and I never heard his voice in the videos. Boner killer. I wouldn't call him a porn STAR. Guys like him can easily transition.

by Anonymousreply 98December 23, 2019 10:28 PM

^ He's still sexy. I would hit it, no question.

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by Anonymousreply 99December 24, 2019 12:09 AM

Uhh, he definitely belongs as the paying John.

by Anonymousreply 100December 24, 2019 6:16 AM

I love hooking. I brought joy to a old lonely rich man tonite, xmas eve,,,,,it was grande

by Anonymousreply 101December 25, 2019 6:34 AM

You need to take better care of your appearance if this is your profession.

by Anonymousreply 102December 25, 2019 6:44 AM

Best years of my life were in NYC and Miami hooking. met tons of rich smart men who adored me and kept me well.. great conversationalists! bought a small home in ohio and now I flip houses and tell my kids of my wild days....

by Anonymousreply 103December 26, 2019 11:34 AM

Are whores in higher demand with economy doing so well?

by Anonymousreply 104December 27, 2019 3:43 AM

I enjoy doing opium, is that so wrong?

by Anonymousreply 105December 27, 2019 4:23 AM

My unstudied observation is that 5 years ago there was a peak of young men who turned tricks a few times each month for arrondir ses fins de mois. On the aps. It was quite a little trend that had built up over a few years. Guys in school and/or shitty jobs. But now their replacement age doesn't seem into that. Its going back to being full time whores. I think the ones willing to do paid sexy shit might do onlyfans and online wanking but not basic sex work.

by Anonymousreply 106December 27, 2019 4:40 AM

OP = Robert Sepúlveda Jr.

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by Anonymousreply 107December 27, 2019 5:03 AM

I AM NOT A PROSTATUTE!

by Anonymousreply 108December 27, 2019 4:12 PM

The poster who keeps swearing up and down there is no such thing as a bottom prostitute is nuts.

All you have to do is go to rentmen to see many escorts are bottoms (what do you think Alam Wernik is peddling--his mighty topping abilities?). And they get regularly hired--by men who are too shy or insecure to ask out non-prostitutes, or who want someone really handsome or well built.

by Anonymousreply 109December 27, 2019 4:16 PM
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