Dad abandons son on side of road because he thought he was Gay
HAINES CITY, Fla. – A Florida man was arrested after leaving his son on the side of the road because he thought his son was gay.
Evenaud Julmeus, 30, dropped the boy off in front of the closed Haines City Police Department on Sunday with just a duffel bag filled with clothes. The boy was given no water, food or money.
When police found the boy, he was upset and crying, according to Bay News 9. The boy said his father thought he was gay because he was caught “watching male pornography on his cell phone.”
Julmeus allegedly told the boy to pack a bag because he was taking him to the police where they would find him a new home.
The man forced his son to get out of the car while it was sitting on a major road, and didn’t give him a phone to contact anyone. A witness saw the boy left alone and called police.
The unidentified boy’s mother went out to look for her son when she learned that Julmeus had left him alone.
Before police arrived at the Julmeus’ home, he fled, leaving two other children without supervision.
Julmeus was charged with multiple counts of negligent child abuse.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 69 | April 16, 2020 12:27 AM
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Fake news! With gay marriage, homosexual discrimination ended! That's why all major gay organizations became trans-focused!
by Anonymous | reply 1 | December 3, 2019 8:22 PM
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Probably for the best the poor kid be taken away from this looney.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | December 3, 2019 8:22 PM
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[quote]Evenaud Julmeus
Please don't let him be black, please don't let him be black
by Anonymous | reply 3 | December 3, 2019 8:22 PM
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No mention of the boy's age? How odd.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | December 3, 2019 8:22 PM
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[quote]A Florida man was arrested after leaving his son on the side of the road because he thought his son was gay.
I'll take him in!
by Anonymous | reply 5 | December 3, 2019 8:27 PM
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What kind of backwater place is this that the police station is closed?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | December 3, 2019 8:50 PM
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R6: Flori-DUH, of course. The whole state sucks.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | December 3, 2019 8:56 PM
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And people think Mayor Pete can win?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | December 3, 2019 9:09 PM
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Haines City is about 40 miles west of Orlando. It's fucking Alabama but with palm trees but no bodies of water. It's suburban sprawl at its worst, with no there there, consisting of nothing but strip malls, motels, fast food joints and trailer parks on either side of Route 27.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | December 3, 2019 9:10 PM
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There are only a few places OK to live in Florida. Miami, most of Brevard County, and parts of Orlando...the rest including Palm Beach (wealthy trumpers) and the west coast are backward hillbillies
by Anonymous | reply 12 | December 3, 2019 9:23 PM
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R4 I noticed that too, that's so weird. I checked and no other article on this story states the boy's age either.
I'm gonna assume he was a preteen (old enough to be peeking at porn, but still young enough that strangers would call the police when they see him alone).
by Anonymous | reply 13 | December 3, 2019 9:35 PM
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I hope the mother kicks the evil bastard out, but considering the dynamics I doubt she will.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | December 3, 2019 10:12 PM
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Not surprised, this is rural Florida. It's basically an extension of the Bible Belt.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | December 3, 2019 10:20 PM
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natch, these are the losers that don't like mayor pete…..pitiful disgrace to human race
by Anonymous | reply 16 | December 3, 2019 10:32 PM
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And people think Mayor Pete can win?
People like this kids father don't vote.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | December 3, 2019 10:45 PM
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I wanna say it, but I won't .
by Anonymous | reply 18 | December 3, 2019 10:49 PM
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Why, *what* homophobia in the African-American/Caribbean-American community? That's an awful slur! [cross-post to other story]
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 19 | December 3, 2019 10:53 PM
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R12. My family lived Orlando in the late 70’s to 80’s. I thought it was perfectly ok. I read how hideous Florida is and I wonder if this time period was before it became the armpit of America or if we live in a relatively ok area.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | December 3, 2019 10:59 PM
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Anyone with that kind of over the top reaction is probably harboring gay demons of his own...
by Anonymous | reply 21 | December 3, 2019 11:05 PM
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Yet another anti-Mayor Pete story.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | December 3, 2019 11:07 PM
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Floriduh is the armpit of america because it's where all the losers run to
tax scofflaws who won't pay taxes, divorced husbands who won't pay alimony, bankrupt businessmen fleeing liens, drug addicts who can live in their cars, deadbeat days who won't pay child support, scam artists and con men seeking easy marks, organized crime dons and others on the lam,
in short, sorta like Alaska but you don't freeze your ass off
by Anonymous | reply 23 | December 3, 2019 11:18 PM
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And you can’t see Russia from you window...
by Anonymous | reply 24 | December 4, 2019 1:10 AM
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[quote] I read how hideous Florida is
Florida is not hideous. There are plenty wonderful places to live in Florida. Don't believe every small minded ignorant word that comes out of the mouths of some of the hateful queens on this board.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | December 4, 2019 11:36 AM
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Exactly. Why are people here so simple-minded and vicious? No wonder there is so much depression and neurosis reported here.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | December 4, 2019 12:10 PM
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This story makes me want to scream. I just want to find that kid and give him a hug.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | December 4, 2019 12:31 PM
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Were black male slaves sodomized a lot during Pre-Civil War Slavery era? Just curious.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | December 4, 2019 1:18 PM
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R29 I've been curious about this years. You can't find too much written about male slaves being raped or forced into sex outside of being used to "breed" more slaves.
I remember reading one account years ago about a male house servant being the landowner's lover. The landowner was someone in the military, but I can't remember anything about it now.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | December 4, 2019 1:34 PM
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Isn't a large part of Florida comprised of NYC transplants?
by Anonymous | reply 31 | December 4, 2019 1:37 PM
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The father is 30, so the kid is probably preteen./tween.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | December 4, 2019 1:43 PM
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like to spend ten minutes with that damn dad in locked room, BAM
by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 4, 2019 1:44 PM
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Nice trauma. Sometimes I hate people.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 4, 2019 1:54 PM
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You hear about people abandoning their dogs like this and you want to butcher them. But your own kid? You want to say there's a special place in hell for people like this but hell isn't awful enough.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 4, 2019 1:59 PM
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R6, Many police stations are only open Mon to Fri during standard business hours.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | December 4, 2019 2:02 PM
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At least he left him with the police and didn't beat him till he died.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | December 4, 2019 2:03 PM
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R30, Yes landowners raped their male slaves as did the overseer. Don't forget slaves were auctioned off naked and in chains. There was an assumed link between large penis size and virility/potency so that played apart as well. Slave owners saw profit in a man who had a lot of energy to work the land plus father many children.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | December 4, 2019 2:11 PM
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Kudos to the Good Samaritan who stopped to help out the poor boy and took needed action.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | December 4, 2019 2:15 PM
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[quote]Isn't a large part of Florida comprised of NYC transplants?
Florida is full of transplants from NYC, mostly concentrated in Fort Lauderdale and West Palm Beach.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | December 4, 2019 2:21 PM
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This story makes my blood boil.
The thing is, it’s easy to paint this father as a monster, and I do think what he’s done is monstrous. But once we label him that way, it make it seem like he’s an anomaly, like his actions are rare.
I think it’s critical to recognize that in many ways he’s ordinary. He did what too many parents have done, and many more would probably like to do. The only difference is that this story happened to come to our attention.
The streets of our cities are filled with young gay people who have been cast out of their homes or frightened out of their homes. Stories like this are a reminder that - legal same-sex marriage and the frivolity of Will and Grace notwithstanding - gay people still face extreme hatred and violence in 2019.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | December 4, 2019 2:36 PM
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Why doesn’t the story tell what time he dropped him off? Bad reporting
by Anonymous | reply 44 | December 4, 2019 2:49 PM
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There is a reason why the question “Would you rather have a gay son or prostitute daughter” is such a popular question.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | December 4, 2019 3:08 PM
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R27 It is because most people on DL tell it like it is and come here for the same from others. Go to Instagram if you want some curated fake bs.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | December 4, 2019 4:39 PM
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Naw, it’s because they are embittered and often jealous of people who are happy and surrounded by love. The level of depression, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and sheer psychosis here naturally leads to a dismal outlook about others and the world in general. Content and joyous people don’t fixate on the negative.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | December 4, 2019 6:15 PM
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Naw, it’s because they are embittered and often jealous of people who are happy and surrounded by love. The level of depression, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and sheer psychosis here naturally leads to a dismal outlook about others and the world in general. Content and joyous people don’t fixate on the negative.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | December 4, 2019 6:15 PM
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Naw, it’s because they are embittered and often jealous of people who are happy and surrounded by love. The level of depression, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and sheer psychosis here naturally leads to a dismal outlook about others and the world in general. Content and joyous people don’t fixate on the negative.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | December 4, 2019 6:15 PM
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[quote] No mention of the boy's age? How odd.
Another report states: "The boy, whose age was redacted, was dropped off in front of the closed police department with a small duffel bag with several pieces of clothing, according to police."
by Anonymous | reply 50 | December 4, 2019 6:35 PM
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Completely agree with R21. It would be ironic if while daddy is incarcerated, he gets introduced to some same-sex attention of his own.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | December 4, 2019 7:00 PM
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1 - Black Evangelicals are the worst, especially in the south. I wonder if that is what unhinged dad.
2 - I would remind DL members that South West Florida has a large helping of beach homes priced at over 10 million each. One of those houses belongs to Florida Senator, Rick Scott
What you are talking about is the Red Neck Riviera, aka Florida Panhandle, which is worse than Alabama.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 52 | December 4, 2019 7:22 PM
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[quote] No mention of the boy's age? How odd.
In the Daily Mail UK report, they say. "Haines City police told Fox News the boy is a pre-teen."
by Anonymous | reply 53 | December 4, 2019 8:17 PM
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And the pre-teen boy had gay porn stuff on his mobile.
Mary!!!!!
by Anonymous | reply 54 | December 4, 2019 8:24 PM
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R6 I don't think it's that uncommon for police admin buildings to be closed after normal business type hours. I live in a city of over 100K attached to a major metropolis, and it basically has the same hours as the police building in Haines (population 13K) which is open M-F 8A-5P. Where I live it's M-F 8A-6P. You're supposed to call 911, which the kid probably couldn't do because dad more than likely took the porn-infested phone away from him.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | December 4, 2019 8:47 PM
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Gee, I wonder why people don’t come out before college? They must all be cowards!!
by Anonymous | reply 56 | December 4, 2019 9:10 PM
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[quote] And the pre-teen boy had gay porn stuff on his mobile. Mary!!!!!
You're one click away from porn on sites like Pornhub, gay or straight, on your phone. You don't even need to visit porn sites since porn gifs and clips are shared on social media, and some kids share it themselves even without the pedos. It's actually scary how easily available porn these days is for kids. I was a kid in the 80s and porn mags were regularly shared by some pre-pubescent kids who for whatever reason found it interesting. I was one of them but can't really remember why. Porn was forbidden and dangerous even though I didn't even properly realize what an erection means.
I can only imagine how much porn a regular kid sees these days before even reaching puberty. I'm just saying a gay porn clip on your phone doesn't necessarily even say anything about your orientation since I'm sure many boys use them for jokes without really even understanding what's going on. At the same time I'm wondering how many do realize they're gay or bi way faster these days since they see gay porn even without having to go looking for it.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | December 4, 2019 9:40 PM
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R47 You are projecting way too hard and your thinking is extremely black or white.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | December 5, 2019 1:22 AM
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I get tired of being lambasted for suggesting the scourge of lethal homophobia in the black community.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | December 5, 2019 1:40 AM
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My brother lives in Haines City. It really is nothing but strip malls, gated trailer parks and highways.
He lives it but he has also complained about it numerous times because the people are mean.
Like they won't stop and help you with a flat tire or if you're lost. Stuff like that. The cops told him the place is over run with meth heads and junkies that pretend to be in trouble to rob people. So most people never stop.
The traffic is hellacious.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | December 5, 2019 2:22 AM
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[quote]Content and joyous people don’t fixate on the negative.
Content and joyful people don't deny reality or simplistically label emotions as "good/positive" and "bad/negative."
by Anonymous | reply 61 | December 5, 2019 2:57 AM
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may the good lord have a special form of torment/karma for this dumb evil fuk.
he is the typical uneducated asswipe who wont vote for our pete…
victim of the bible.
god bless and help his son.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | December 5, 2019 2:24 PM
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Yeah, you're CLEARLY 'surrounded by love' and never 'focus on the negative', OP/R47/R48/R49.
Continue lusting after "mostly straight bros", supporting your friends beating the effeminacy out of their kids, and thinking that Florida is some utopia with good ol Southern values. Clearly that's all working out in spades. 🙄
by Anonymous | reply 63 | December 5, 2019 2:44 PM
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I can only assume the father left the child because "that's what Jesus would do"
by Anonymous | reply 64 | December 5, 2019 6:44 PM
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Hehe, takes me back. I did this very same thing to my disappointing whoops-kid, when his whore mother unfairly tried to foist him off onto me (the insatiable broad had 36 other brats already, at the last count, as well as a giant house to keep them - what was one more?). So when this hellspawn of mine was old enough to fend for himself - about 2 years - it was the only suitable recourse to put him in a box, leave him under a shrub in the nearest local park and walk off whistling. Never looked back, and I don’t regret a thing. Even back then I had a feeling he’d turn out queer somehow.
Of course, given that he’s my seed he grew to be quite the slippery resilient little fucker in spite of his...tendencies. Next thing I know, 20 years have gone by and I show up on a whim to visit an old mate of mine from my youth (needing a place to crash and hide out from a bit of, er. trouble)...and I find I’m standing nose-to-nose with a twinky soft-centred version of myself, in good health and looking smug as fucking anything (still needs to learn his damn place...)
So he tells me his story. It transpires that my lost issue had spent what was left of his childhood ruining the life of his foster-father (sucker), and his adolescence on the run from the cops for stealing and defiling public property and starting fires...a basically-fine kid, so I thought. However, then he lets me down, saying that by 17 he’d suddenly got a bizarre taste for a dull sedate square life of fishing (for pleasure?! Putting the fish back???!) and composing songs and seducing sweet hayseed boys from decent families into his tent for some sort of faggy herbivore romantic bucolics in that quaint middleclass valley he lives in. He even enjoys long walks in the countryside...with no violent sex or crime as a matter of course. He’s nothing like I was at the same age, hunting in the black forests to kill and robbing the virginity of every female Mymble of age in sight so I could take advantage of their hospitality and keep my own life exciting and easy.
I don’t get all his...kumbaya common-decency vegetarian bullshit, and palling around holding hands with another male all the time without having a wife or a girlfriend to screw every night. My own son even enjoys *shudder* helping people, being a good neighbour. How do I live that down? I may as well have had a daughter - at least then I could have an excuse to really get into it with whoever she inevitably let knock her up (like her dear Mama).
And no, I don’t think my presence would have changed a thing; kid always had it in him. Best thing I can say is that he’ll never had grandkids, and thank fuck for that.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 66 | April 15, 2020 10:36 PM
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Dad should have done a little research before he went draconian
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 67 | April 15, 2020 10:43 PM
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Anyone else hoping r66 doesn’t in a large, hot, flaming grease fire?
by Anonymous | reply 69 | April 16, 2020 12:27 AM
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