How do I get more guys to notice me? Workout? Haircut? Get glasses? All tips welcome.
Your photo may be atmospheric but it is NOT informative.
You need to give us more information if you expect us to give you 50 replies with helpful analysis.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | November 20, 2019 9:27 AM |
Are you after sex or a relationship? Either way, not taking yourself too seriously and developing a light and fun approach to life and potential partners works miracles, regardless of the way you look (which is fine).
by Anonymous | reply 2 | November 20, 2019 9:30 AM |
Both, R2. Never been in a relationship but would like to. Guys just never notice me or give me the time of day.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | November 20, 2019 9:33 AM |
Sometimes people can sense your desperation. That's why you get more attention when you're actually in a relationship.
I have discovered that looking into people's eyes and smiling is a great way for them to notice you, I mean really notice. And don't become bitter after rejection - smile, make a self-deprecating joke and move on. Self-irony is incredibly attractive and rare. It's not just about the looks (and yes, I do realize you posted hoping for compliments). Personality matters.And confidence is the sexiest thing.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | November 20, 2019 9:40 AM |
Thanks. I can’t ever look people in the eyes, not even cashiers.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | November 20, 2019 9:45 AM |
Why not try? You're a lovely boy, soon you will find someone. There's nothing wrong with being shy but you need to make at least a little contact if you want something to happen.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | November 20, 2019 9:49 AM |
Show more of the hair on your chest.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | November 20, 2019 10:47 AM |
[Quote] (and yes, I do realize you posted hoping for compliments)
OP posted a pic of actor Tyler Blackburn.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | November 20, 2019 11:04 AM |
Tits?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | November 20, 2019 11:06 AM |
[quote]OP posted a pic of actor Tyler Blackburn.
Really, OP? You suck then and will die alone.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | November 20, 2019 11:07 AM |
Button up your shirt and don't look so disheveled! You weren't raised in a barn!
by Anonymous | reply 11 | November 20, 2019 11:07 AM |
Maybe use a picture that is more recent than 1979?
by Anonymous | reply 12 | November 20, 2019 11:08 AM |
You're good looking.
But the best answer is to not overtly give a fuck. Nice guys are treated like shit.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | November 20, 2019 11:28 AM |
R8 is correct - unless Tyler Blackburn stole OP's pic and is using it as his own (and if so, OP should sue):
by Anonymous | reply 14 | November 20, 2019 11:41 AM |