Losing spark with your partner

Ask the Breeders, they have a 50% divorce rate. I am sure they know all about it.

Twice a week. Honey, you are still in the throes of passion. Give it 20 more years. It’s a reality that the sex drive changes. Especially for gay men who are used to variety. Learn to look for deeper things that connect. Sex is not the basis for a lifetime relationship/partnership.

R2 is a wise man.

OP are you starting to desire an open relationship? R2 That was a beautiful post.🥰👌

Twice a week is average for most straight and gay couples unless you are really young or just met.

Consider an open relationship where you BOTH pick the sex partner for each other. Hide in the closet/spare bedroom/bathroom/you get the point. Discuss the sex act after the fact and inevitably you will be fucking your brains out after listening in - men LOVE watching/hearing their man getting it. The scenario is almost always HOT and you will thank me if you take a walk on the wild side. Don't forget to push his boundaries in the process. Ask the trick (pretend to be him during the A4A or Grindr dialogue) to spank him, pull his hair, talk dirty - do something that you always wanted to do - but don't for whatever reason. Talk about spice.... It works, trust me - TRY IT.

I hope R6 is joking. Or an 8 year old school girl.

That is a circus, R6. Not a relationship.

Dreamers! Always looking for a spark? Does he make you come, or not? You sound like a teenager.

Twice a week sex is a sign of losing the spark? Talk to me when the frequency goes down to twice a year.

[quote] Hide in the closet/spare bedroom/bathroom

A couple pulled that shit on me. I almost punched the second guy's lights out. I thought I was being raped.

So the sex addiction treatment is working, OP?

That's fucked up that someone did that too you R11. People need to grow some balls if they want to have sex with you and stop playing prepubescent games when they claim to be mature enough to be in a relationship.