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Do I have potential or no?

How can I get guys to notice me? Don’t suggest contacts because I have misshapen corneas.

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by Anonymousreply 99November 20, 2019 2:42 PM

You're adorable and exactly my type, OP. Where are you?

by Anonymousreply 1November 18, 2019 2:46 AM

you looked cuter last year. What has happened?

by Anonymousreply 2November 18, 2019 2:46 AM

[quote]How can I get guys to notice me?

TOTAL change of wardrobe.

by Anonymousreply 3November 18, 2019 2:47 AM

You're in the passenger seat - is your Mom driving?

by Anonymousreply 4November 18, 2019 2:49 AM

Gain 50 pounds. Goatee. Buzz hair cut.

by Anonymousreply 5November 18, 2019 2:50 AM

Trim the beard shorter or keep a 5 o’clock shadow and put on a non creepy, sincere smile.

by Anonymousreply 6November 18, 2019 2:51 AM

How big is your dick, OP? We need that information to know if you have potential or not.

by Anonymousreply 7November 18, 2019 2:51 AM

You look better in drag.

by Anonymousreply 8November 18, 2019 2:52 AM

Agreed with R3. Lose the clothes, please. In fact, stop wearing them all together.

by Anonymousreply 9November 18, 2019 2:52 AM

What R6 said.

by Anonymousreply 10November 18, 2019 2:52 AM

Has to be the blandest dude ever.

by Anonymousreply 11November 18, 2019 2:55 AM

You are cute! Here’s the nasty secret about gay men. It’s not that they don’t notice you, but that they have and assume they can’t have you. In our culture, the snottiest man wins. The grand prize: eternal loneliness. They’ll critique your clothes, your glasses, your hair, on and on and on. All this while secretly creaming their pants. You’re going to have to make the first move, sorry.

by Anonymousreply 12November 18, 2019 2:56 AM

What r6 said, plus:

- Shave your neck

- Stop buttoning the top button of your shirts, especially a Henley

- Get glasses with a shape and size that suit your face shape (those are way too big for your face and the wrong shape)

- Get clothes that are both functional AND stylish, not just functional. You don't need to be a lipstick and Prada queen, but try to get some stuff that doesn't look like your mother bought them or were hand-me-downs from your deceased father's closet.

- Get some confidence. It really does add a lot to attractiveness.

by Anonymousreply 13November 18, 2019 2:58 AM

You don't appear to be covered in tats or to be a meth addict, so your potential with the hoes here on DL is limited.

by Anonymousreply 14November 18, 2019 3:00 AM

I'm surprised we're up to 14 replies and nobody has suggested presenting hole yet.

by Anonymousreply 15November 18, 2019 3:03 AM

maybe smile occasionally? you seem to be settling into resting grump face.

by Anonymousreply 16November 18, 2019 3:03 AM

If you have a nice butt wear tight pants.

by Anonymousreply 17November 18, 2019 3:04 AM

Are you outside the USA?

by Anonymousreply 18November 18, 2019 3:05 AM

Op, you ask this question every few months. Are you that insecure?

by Anonymousreply 19November 18, 2019 3:11 AM

Silly OP, how can we asses your true potential without a picture of your dick ? Length, girth, etc, etc,

by Anonymousreply 20November 18, 2019 3:13 AM

I’d fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 21November 18, 2019 3:14 AM

If that really is you OP, you look good, The glasses are fine!

by Anonymousreply 22November 18, 2019 3:19 AM

OP, get colored contacts, dye your hair many different highlights, liposuction and some skin work. New dental implants, too. Then yes, you are doable.

by Anonymousreply 23November 18, 2019 3:22 AM

Trim your beard to an even stubble. And replace those grandpa glasses.

Follow everything that R13 wrote.

by Anonymousreply 24November 18, 2019 3:22 AM

OP, you need the Queer Eye boys.

by Anonymousreply 25November 18, 2019 3:25 AM

Lose the glasses and get some contacts or lasik.

by Anonymousreply 26November 18, 2019 3:33 AM

The glasses are quite cute, just oversized.

by Anonymousreply 27November 18, 2019 3:38 AM

You have nice skin.

by Anonymousreply 28November 18, 2019 3:40 AM

He looks very Pacific Northwest crunchy. Perhaps Portland or Seattle.

by Anonymousreply 29November 18, 2019 3:40 AM

You are serving some Sebastian Gorka realness.

by Anonymousreply 30November 18, 2019 3:40 AM

Burgandy is not your color. Try wearing some natural earthy tones. Try a sharper blue or pale light green as an accent color.

by Anonymousreply 31November 18, 2019 3:42 AM

Are you Russel Crowe's son?

by Anonymousreply 32November 18, 2019 3:42 AM

R13 has offered some excellent advice OP.

Yes, you are attractive and many guys would be interested in you. Just spruce yourself up, do things that interest you and try to develop some confidence.

by Anonymousreply 33November 18, 2019 3:47 AM

OP is adorable and can have any guy he wants and he goddamn well knows it. He posted this because he wants other people to tell him that. GTFO, OP.

by Anonymousreply 34November 18, 2019 3:52 AM

OMG your corneas are fucking hideous -- you should not be allowed in public. Otherwise, it's only your relentless neediness that's turning us off.

by Anonymousreply 35November 18, 2019 3:54 AM

You have got a nice skull and face shape, OP. Keep your front hair looking good so you can style it in a dapper way.

by Anonymousreply 36November 18, 2019 3:54 AM

Are you at a BP garage?

by Anonymousreply 37November 18, 2019 3:56 AM

[quote]lasik.

Lasik surgery is causing many people to go blind.

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by Anonymousreply 38November 18, 2019 3:56 AM

Shave yer arse, get on all fours and walk backwards.

by Anonymousreply 39November 18, 2019 3:56 AM

OP, I think you look great. Just as you are.

by Anonymousreply 40November 18, 2019 3:59 AM

Well, OP, it seems there are lots of guys on this thread, including me, who would be happy to date you. Of course, they are all Dataloungers, but sometimes we have to take what we can get.

by Anonymousreply 41November 18, 2019 4:02 AM

Absolutely not.

by Anonymousreply 42November 18, 2019 4:05 AM

Get smaller glasses.

by Anonymousreply 43November 18, 2019 4:05 AM

Are you a felon?

by Anonymousreply 44November 18, 2019 4:08 AM

You're not a Trump supporter, are you?

by Anonymousreply 45November 18, 2019 4:10 AM

You’re very cute.

by Anonymousreply 46November 18, 2019 4:29 AM

Are you blushing in that photograph?

by Anonymousreply 47November 18, 2019 4:47 AM

Yes, you look pretty nice as is, you have lovely skin. I reckon you might look even nicer clean shaven.

by Anonymousreply 48November 18, 2019 12:47 PM

I like the scruffy look, OP. yes, maybe something zippier in clothes might work

by Anonymousreply 49November 18, 2019 1:17 PM

It’s funny how everyone assumes the person in that pic is really OP. Postimg troll serves pics of random guys all the time.

by Anonymousreply 50November 18, 2019 1:22 PM

You’re cute but get a better haircut and keep the beard trimmed. You don’t need contacts but maybe update your frames. Your fashion looks like it could use a boost too. You have decent looks but you’re not using them well! Put sone effort in.

by Anonymousreply 51November 18, 2019 1:25 PM

You look alright.

I would look into propecia however because you look like your hair is thinning a bit.

by Anonymousreply 52November 18, 2019 1:44 PM

The scruff makes you look like a FTM on testosterone. Your face is not masculine enough for that straggly beard. Post another picture clean shaven or with very short stubble and we can go from there.

Get glasses that suit your face and an updated wardrobe while you’re at it.

by Anonymousreply 53November 18, 2019 1:47 PM

Yeah, I think you could look really good in glasses, just not those "I don't give a fuck about how I look" glasses.

by Anonymousreply 54November 18, 2019 1:55 PM

[quote]Yeah, I think you could look really good in glasses

Something classy. IMPORTED!

by Anonymousreply 55November 18, 2019 2:02 PM

Superficially, I think you're cute. I don't know you so can't comment on if your personality/attitude is positive or negative. If you can't use contacts, buy some better looking frames for your specs. Good luck. Have fun.

by Anonymousreply 56November 18, 2019 2:09 PM

Misshapen corneas are the #1 reason men end up alone. I bet you didn't know that.

Sorry, OP.

by Anonymousreply 57November 18, 2019 2:13 PM

[quote]Good luck. Have fun.

Bless your cotton socks.

by Anonymousreply 58November 18, 2019 2:14 PM

Definite potential...ditch the spectacles for contact lens. Shave. You can keep the beard...just keep it trimmed. Wardrobe makeover...ditch the college freshman look.

by Anonymousreply 59November 18, 2019 2:31 PM

That's the college freshman look? Interesting.

by Anonymousreply 60November 18, 2019 2:34 PM

If it was a quarter till two and last call was being announced, and I had been drinking heavy, and the bartender handed me a shot of yagar and pointed to you and said "this if from that gentleman over there", and you came up and said, "let's get out of here, I need you in me and I have absolutely no limits." I might go with you.

by Anonymousreply 61November 18, 2019 2:41 PM

R60, It is. He looks like any number of students I teach. If he has problems with his eyes which make contact lens impossible, he should still ditch those spectacles. They don't do justice to the color of his eyes or his hair. I had a pair of the same frames for sunglasses in the late 1980s. He should take a friend with him (another gay man or a woman), when picking out another pair.

by Anonymousreply 62November 18, 2019 2:43 PM

You're very handsome

by Anonymousreply 63November 18, 2019 2:46 PM

Shave, let hair grow longer on top and have styled; get light colored (maybe wire-rimmed) frames for glasses, and smile, for starters.

by Anonymousreply 64November 18, 2019 2:49 PM

My shrink and pals say: You're terrific! I want you to ask five guys out by the next time we meet!

"Okay! I'll do it. (Beat). Would [italic] you [/italic] like to go out with me?"

Oh. Well. No. I...I...no.

by Anonymousreply 65November 18, 2019 2:53 PM

OOOPs...

Mary the detective here.

[bold]Check out OP's other posts.[/bold]

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by Anonymousreply 66November 18, 2019 2:54 PM

FFS, it's the PostImg troll?

by Anonymousreply 67November 18, 2019 2:55 PM

You might think seriously about turning straight. A young woman out there is desperate to start a family and you're available.

by Anonymousreply 68November 18, 2019 3:03 PM

r68 is right. You present as straight. College freshman is a good description. Another might be elementary school art teacher in a red state. You are working with fine raw materials and simply need to work on your grooming, eye-wear and fashion sense. Even a dark blue or green henley (with top button unbuttoned!) and a dark gray blazer would look way more fashionable than your current ... situation.

by Anonymousreply 69November 18, 2019 3:18 PM

You look perfect as you are. Work it!

by Anonymousreply 70November 18, 2019 3:30 PM

You're very cute OP. The only negative I have is the style of glasses you're wearing. They look like old man glasses.

by Anonymousreply 71November 18, 2019 3:32 PM

Who the hell actually calls glasses “spectacles?” Are you a billion years old?

by Anonymousreply 72November 18, 2019 4:04 PM

Unless you're a pron star, or related to or know a pron star, the pron addicts here don't want anything to do with you.

by Anonymousreply 73November 18, 2019 4:08 PM

[quote]Mary the detective here.

Did you discover OP's secret hidden inside an old clock?

by Anonymousreply 74November 18, 2019 4:29 PM

Bland but not hopeless. Nice eyes and mouth.

Plastic surgery to get rid of the butter nose to something a touch more assertive and masculine.

Foreskin and tatt status?

by Anonymousreply 75November 18, 2019 4:43 PM

Get some sun.

by Anonymousreply 76November 18, 2019 5:03 PM

Shave. You have nice lips so ditch the facial hair (and certainly the neck hair). Grow out your hair. You're good looking but you could use a better wardrobe. Essentially what you heard above.

by Anonymousreply 77November 18, 2019 5:35 PM

The glasses stay...it's the hair and makeup that has to change.

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by Anonymousreply 78November 18, 2019 5:46 PM

OP you're cute. You look handsome and nerdy, my favorite type. You're probably a freak in bed.

by Anonymousreply 79November 18, 2019 5:51 PM

I’d notice you. I think you’re handsome. Clothes, hair, glasses; who cares. But, if the conversation was awkward or you were too shy I’d walk on by.

by Anonymousreply 80November 18, 2019 7:00 PM

If you’re ever in Houston get on Grindr and I’ll put DL in the comments. I’d gladly fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 81November 18, 2019 8:07 PM

[quote] Who the hell actually calls glasses “spectacles?” Are you a billion years old?

Omigosh! My sincere apologies, R72, for forcing you to tax your mind. Rest assured that henceforth I shall endeavor to employ the simplest of terms for your benefit. I would not you to make a spectacle of yourself by a demonstration of your ignorance of the rich lode one finds in mining the English language.

by Anonymousreply 82November 18, 2019 9:48 PM

Pardon my boldness once more, R72. In the editing of my comments at R82, I overlooked the fact that I did not add a verb to the main part of the last sentence. It should read, "I would not want you..."

Blame the infirmities of my dotage for the omission.

by Anonymousreply 83November 18, 2019 10:08 PM

The neck must be shaved. It bears repeating.

by Anonymousreply 84November 18, 2019 10:10 PM

OP you are pretty decent looking, but clearly you lack confidence. This isn't the first time you have asked this question so unless it is your mother posting, wondering why you haven't found someone yet, you have some personality problems. Good news, a personality can be easier to change than your looks. Stop looking for validation from others and find it within yourself, this is pretty much the same advice I gave you last time, and I expect you not to take it again. Good Luck.

by Anonymousreply 85November 19, 2019 1:19 AM

You cannot be handsome on the inside if you're not handsome on the outside.

So OP the answer is a definite no.

by Anonymousreply 86November 19, 2019 2:42 AM

If you’re into middle-aged (end of middle-age), slightly overweight, balding white guys, I’d fuck you so slow, dirty, and sweaty. You’d feel my big belly against your back while I’m pounding your sweet, young, puckering rosebud. I’ve been told from my “boy” that they love dirty daddy sex. Oh, I also spank your bare ass and make it tingle before my beercan dick slides into your hole.

by Anonymousreply 87November 19, 2019 2:25 PM

Sure. Trim the beard tighter and move to Portland.

by Anonymousreply 88November 19, 2019 2:31 PM

R82, thank you for confirming that you are, indeed, a billion years old. Archaic language does not “tax my mind.” Did you mistake my ridicule for ignorance? How foolish, especially since I demonstrated that I knew “spectacles” referred to eyeglasses in my post. Please carry on speaking like a prim matron in a 19th century novel. You’re amusing at least.

by Anonymousreply 89November 19, 2019 2:38 PM

Looks like a Pacific Northwest granola-cruncher type.

by Anonymousreply 90November 19, 2019 2:47 PM

OP, you're cute, it's your desperation and insecurity that's a turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 91November 19, 2019 2:49 PM

Here's R23:

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by Anonymousreply 92November 19, 2019 3:02 PM

I can tell by your pasty neck that your body is very flabby and sloppy.

by Anonymousreply 93November 19, 2019 3:16 PM

I previously criticized his glasses, but now I realize he might be wearing them in an ironic way : "1950s Gay Dad."

by Anonymousreply 94November 19, 2019 3:23 PM

[quote] You’re amusing at least.

R89, Salutations! The knowledge of your amusement gratifies me. Rest assured that I am well aware that yours was an attempt to ridicule me and not a demonstration of your ignorance. Were you also aware that my desire was to underscore your tactlessness?

by Anonymousreply 95November 19, 2019 3:28 PM

[quote] You cannot be handsome on the inside if you're not handsome on the outside. So OP the answer is a definite no.

R86, can you get anymore shallow? I have known numerous people who were nothing to look at, borderline ugly, which OP is not, but once I got to know them, I found a beautiful person on the inside. SO sad for you that you dismiss people because you don't like the cover, I guess we know now how you pick books to read, by the cover.

by Anonymousreply 96November 20, 2019 1:14 PM

R95 BPC for the win again. I'm awfully fond of the word spectacles...bespectacled too. 'Tis a great pity not everyone can appreciate the richness of your posts.

by Anonymousreply 97November 20, 2019 1:58 PM

R97, I tip my hat to you. And R89, many thanks to you for our exchange. As I do, I am sure you take it in a spirit of good cheer. We all need a little more of that these days!

And OP, you have a great deal of potential. You're cute, and it will only take some tweaking to make you hot. New specs will help..just don't go for pince-nez or lorgnettes!

by Anonymousreply 98November 20, 2019 2:40 PM

You look great and I like your glasses! Best of luck to you. :)

by Anonymousreply 99November 20, 2019 2:42 PM
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