I have this adorable fuck buddy

How old is he?

He’s 45.

He might need to do some kegels and pelvic floor muscle tightening.

OP, I understand the problem. But exactly what is it you expect your fuck buddy to do about it? If his rosebud is the entryway to Carlsbad Caverns, he can’t just wiggle his nose and turn his rear end into a human fleshlight.

Ace Hardware carries a line of sphincter reducers that work quite well, sort of a plug and go remedy.

Are you using a condom OP?

If so, get on Prep, and throw the rubbers in the trash.

Get a bigger hotdog.

As Reply 7 hints, maybe it's not him...it's you?

Fuck him from behind, and have him lie on his side. Bring a leg up, bent at the knee. (Doesn't matter which one) Squeeze the buttcheeks together. This felt a bit tighter when I was in relationship with a hallway.

R4, I was wondering if there were some exercises he could do, along the lines of what R3 suggested. There must be a way to tighten that mussy.

And no, it’s definitely him. I don’t have this issue with other guys.

Find a younger guy.

Perform the Palm Springs Pucker....Squeeze lime juice on his mussy ...that makes it draw up real good...

You could always try the old undignified Jeff Stryker line: "tighten that ass! I said tighten that ass!", but I prefer my previous advice.

Is it hot fucking him anyway? Does he enjoy it? If both are yes, then do it, but cum some other way.

The problem with the kegel advice is you'd have to tell him that he needs to do it...He might take that the wrong way. Perhaps he is used to getting fucked by someone much larger than you and he's just stretched out.

WHILE you’re fucking him tell him to squeeze down on your dick. Then when he asks afterward just say that’s hot to you.

Try Ballpark Franks - “They Plump When You Cook ‘Em”!

HEY OP, YOU HAVE A SMALL DICK!

Just throw a hambone in there for a little friction. If it's as loose as you say, he'll never notice.

Find a mate, double penetrate

This isn't difficult. Tell him you're into dildo play, and then wedge as many as you need to in there until the tightness suits your needs.

1] both be on PrEP 2] use old fashioned Vaseline, increased friction and drag, 3] make sure he gets a hardon when you you are inside him, 4] when all faiils...alum...

Various stores and sites sell "cock extenders" to add girth to your cock, and still maintain sensation for you.

R19 I like that one, and it rhymes too. Kudos for creativity and helping solve his problem

A true buddy would call in an army of support. I’m thinking the Salvation Army.

Flash a photo of salvationists before his eyes whilst throwing him a fuck. He’ll clamp up real good. Shit, ring a bell and see if the fucker coughs up change.

Nobody is going to want to buy the whole freaking ice cream truck when you hand out popsicles for free, OP.

OP, when you’re inside of your FB from behind, punch the back of his head as you feel like you're nearing climax. His body will momentarily seize, thus tightening your boy toy’s mushy mussy just long enough to achieve the snug sensation you desire. The Donkey Punch never fails. Good luck!

Tell him it's like flinging a hotdog down a hallway!

Wear a crocheted condom, telling him your Johnson gets cold in the cavern of secrets.

Fisting?