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DL Classification needed: Gay Bi WTF?

I know a guy who grudgingly identifies as bisexual to most, but privately says he doesn't really know what he is. He is currently, and has been for the past few years, in love with another man. He claims that his boyfriend is the only guy who has ever made his dick hard, and not for lack of trying on bi-guy's part. Gay porn or hookups with objectively attractive men generate no sexual response from him. But apparently his bf just needs to look at him the right way and he gets excited. Meanwhile, he's still very into women and finds all types of them attractive and able to turn him on without any issue. I thought maybe he has to have some kind of emotional connection for his sexuality to work with guys (he and his gay bf were quick friends first), but what does DL think of this oddity?

by Anonymousreply 7October 19, 2019 2:44 AM

It’s possible that he’s actually straight and his boyfriend is the one man out of however many billions on the planet that he’s attracted to.

by Anonymousreply 1October 19, 2019 2:24 AM

We need to know your friend's pronouns before we can reply

by Anonymousreply 2October 19, 2019 2:26 AM

Can you not use paragraph breaks?

by Anonymousreply 3October 19, 2019 2:31 AM

OP, the scenario is completely banal, as are the people and the sexuality. He is bi. Was that so fucking hard to figure out? Why did you need DL input and wisdom on this matter?

by Anonymousreply 4October 19, 2019 2:35 AM

I fell asleep reading your boring prose, OP. Your 'friend' sounds like an idiot and should be ignored until he reaches some sort of maturity.

by Anonymousreply 5October 19, 2019 2:37 AM

In the 1980s the classification would have been Confused.

by Anonymousreply 6October 19, 2019 2:39 AM

Yeah, R6.

OP, I would say he may be bi or gay but hasn't come to terms with it yet.

by Anonymousreply 7October 19, 2019 2:44 AM
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