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Tops who turn into bottoms

I feel that this has happened to me in the last two years. I used to top almost exclusively, but I made a new friend a couple of years ago and he’s been fucking me every couple of weeks. I’ve fucked him a couple of times, but I really like getting my mussy mashed. He’s so good! It’s like I’ve just discovered my prostate. His thick cock rubs against it and it drives me crazy.

Has this happened to you?

by Anonymousreply 29October 21, 2019 5:59 AM

Another gay guy who realizes he is a big ole bottom?

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by Anonymousreply 1October 15, 2019 12:48 PM

[QUOTE] Has this happened to you?

No.

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by Anonymousreply 2October 15, 2019 12:56 PM

A lot of guys turn bottom when they get older. It's just easier.

by Anonymousreply 3October 15, 2019 12:58 PM

"mussy mashed?"

*shivers*

by Anonymousreply 4October 15, 2019 1:13 PM

[quote]Tops who turn into bottoms

A disservice to all the bottoms who need their holes filled!

by Anonymousreply 5October 15, 2019 1:17 PM

Why, yes! It certainly happens.

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by Anonymousreply 6October 15, 2019 1:54 PM

What R3 said. After 60, I decided to bring my asshole online. The dick was still chugging along, but at 60, dicks are not what they were at 16. If you want to win, you have to stay in the game. This way, if my dick is rebelling, I can roll over and keep playing.

by Anonymousreply 7October 15, 2019 2:04 PM

[quote]Tops who turn into bottoms

Sadly, too many of them.

by Anonymousreply 8October 15, 2019 2:08 PM

Yeah but what about “DL conventional wisdom” that as one gets older ones opportunities to get fucked decreases and thus the advice to guys over X+ (fill in the blank) need to become tops?

by Anonymousreply 9October 15, 2019 2:25 PM

No never.

I tried it once, didn't like it. Tried it again just be sure.

I'm 100% top.

by Anonymousreply 10October 15, 2019 2:27 PM

I hope this doesn't happen to me, I see no reason why it should though - from when I first started having sex I have always known how I'm wired. I'm a 95% top, 5% bottom (at most) and I can't imagine bottoming on a regular basis, it's just not for me. Once every 6 weeks or so is plenty. The weird thing is, when I do bottom I absolutely love it, I get absolutely earth-shattering orgasms and I'm very vocal - but I have to be in the 'bottom' frame of mind which is only now and then. Plus I must admit to being lazy and all the prep that goes into bottoming does put me off.

I don't know why aging is linked to bottoming more - if it's an erection issue then just pop viagra.

by Anonymousreply 11October 15, 2019 2:39 PM

OP, there’s a name for this: versatile. You’re versatile. Embrace it.

by Anonymousreply 12October 15, 2019 3:00 PM

I was an exclusive top until my early 30’s. I have a big cock was it was expected. Also I associated HIV with being a bottom so I didn’t do it at all.

Then, oddly, I got bored. A FB convinced me to get feeling was interesting. Flash forward 7 years and I mainly bottom. I realize now I was never a good top (bottoms didn’t seem to care because my cock is big so I never got good at it).

Bring a bottom just adds more options

by Anonymousreply 13October 15, 2019 3:05 PM

[quote]Embrace it.

Oh, honey, I have.

It’s interesting that a poster associated being a top with laziness. I’ve never felt like I had to do much “prep,” as a bottom. I don’t have loose or messy stools and I know my body well enough to know when it’s just not a good time. A thorough shower is all it takes for me to get ready.

Being a bottom is much less strenuous, physically.

by Anonymousreply 14October 15, 2019 3:24 PM

Well R10, you tried it twice, so wouldn’t that make you a 98% top?

by Anonymousreply 15October 15, 2019 4:55 PM

I started out a bottom and became a top in my 40s.

by Anonymousreply 16October 15, 2019 5:40 PM

Took me a longtime to realize I liked cock up my ass. Meth helped

by Anonymousreply 17October 15, 2019 7:49 PM

Dear Lord in heaven!

by Anonymousreply 18October 15, 2019 9:19 PM

Meth doesn’t help anyone.

by Anonymousreply 19October 15, 2019 11:46 PM

How is getting shit out of your shithole prior to the fuck easier than just plunging a cock into that shithole??? Probably easier for lazy fat bottom whores who give out liquid gold to their tops.

by Anonymousreply 20October 15, 2019 11:51 PM

Why only every few weeks if you like it that much OP?

by Anonymousreply 21October 15, 2019 11:56 PM

Every couple of weeks with my friend. Occasionally I’ll also do a Scruff hookup. That’s sufficient sex for me. I need to be able to walk!

by Anonymousreply 22October 16, 2019 1:24 AM

R20, I don’t know about you, but I don’t typically walk around with impacted shit in my rectum. There’s something dreadfully wrong if you’re having incomplete evacuations all the time and there’s constant waste up there. If I feel that things haven’t cleared out, bottoming simply doesn’t happen.

by Anonymousreply 23October 16, 2019 1:27 AM

[quote] I can't imagine bottoming on a regular basis, it's just not for me. Once every 6 weeks or so is plenty.

Lol, R11, "once every 6 weeks" is pretty regular. That's more action than a lot of full-time bottoms get.

by Anonymousreply 24October 16, 2019 3:00 AM

R24.

by Anonymousreply 25October 16, 2019 3:06 AM

[QUOTE] tried it once, didn't like it. Tried it again just be sure. I'm 100% top.

You’re not “100% top” if you’ve taken one in the keister. I’ve never even had the urge to try it—that’s 100% top. How long before you try it a third time? There’s no need to suppress your desires.

by Anonymousreply 26October 16, 2019 3:08 AM

R25.

by Anonymousreply 27October 17, 2019 2:39 AM

I tried it but I think i have a narrow colon cause it hurt even though he hit my prostate for the first time. Still, was nice having a big Norwegian man take advantage of me in a fancy hotel room.

by Anonymousreply 28October 21, 2019 5:19 AM

I was 100% bottom who has turned into a top vers, preferring to top. Prep has been a game changer. Cumming in a tight ass feels really good.

by Anonymousreply 29October 21, 2019 5:59 AM
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