I met a 20 year old twink from Grindr...
...and it was honestly the most unreal and disappointing date I've ever been on.
First, he made it very clear that he wanted to choose the restaurant we'd go to. There was no polite suggestion, or hinting. He told me where he wanted to go and the idea that I could perhaps object seemingly didn't cross his mind. I unfortunately obliged him, still not realizing how bad he really was. I know young guys want what they want.
When at the restaurant he continuously made passive aggressive remarks about my age and my style of clothing, remarking how I didn't know fashion and he did. He also felt it necessary to point how expensive the restaurant was on several occasions. I could feel myself being used like a sponge.
After getting to my place he immediately stripped down to his underwear and started feeling me up, my keys still in hand and my leather satchel still across my back. I gently moved him aside and told him that I'd prefer if we chatted over drinks first. He looked at my like I had said something totally unheard of and then told me that I breathe "too loud". I have a damaged septum and sinusitis which causes me to have to breathe from my mouth sometimes. This usually happens toward the end of the day when I'm very tired. Which I was, of his bullshit.
So I politely asked him to leave. He visibly jumped and became defensive. Saying that I was a pedophile, and a loser, and ugly.
I responded very calmly and asked him why if I am all these things is he on a date with me? He knew exactly then that I'd summed him up and wasn't amused what he probably considered "cutesy antics".
He put his clothes back on and got the fuck out of there.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | September 19, 2019 9:01 PM
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OP you don't date twinks like that, you fuck them and then they go home, and hopefully don't steal anything on the way out. You don't talk with them or try to expand their minds or anything because they are too wrapped up in their own worlds and themselves to care.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | September 12, 2019 8:56 PM
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And then OP, who hasn't been on a date in 30 years, woke up from his reverie.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | September 12, 2019 8:57 PM
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This bitch would have lasted roughly 15 seconds with me. You are a saint, OP. May I ask how much older you are?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | September 12, 2019 8:57 PM
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Who in their right mind would take a twink fuckhole out for dinner?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | September 12, 2019 9:01 PM
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[quote]First, he made it very clear that he wanted to choose the restaurant we'd go to.
What kind of restaurant was it and what generic twink-style food did he order?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | September 12, 2019 9:03 PM
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OP, he obviously knew he was doing you a favor by even allowing you the opportunity to fool around with him and acted like it.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | September 12, 2019 9:04 PM
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This is why I call them "Generation Spoiled Whore".
by Anonymous | reply 9 | September 12, 2019 9:05 PM
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[quote]my keys still in hand and my leather satchel still across my back.
Admit it, OP: by "satchel" you mean "purse".
by Anonymous | reply 10 | September 12, 2019 9:07 PM
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Your ‘satchel?’ Are you a hundred? Lol
by Anonymous | reply 11 | September 12, 2019 9:07 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to you, OP. The kid sounds like total trash.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | September 12, 2019 9:11 PM
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What did he order? What kind of restaurant?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | September 12, 2019 9:12 PM
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I don't get the power 20 year olds have over some of you. Do you see a 28 year old and thin "Ew. Old hag"?
by Anonymous | reply 14 | September 12, 2019 9:16 PM
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[quote] Admit it, OP: by "satchel" you mean "purse".
It isn't a purse. It's European!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 15 | September 12, 2019 9:16 PM
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OP, I’m sorry to hear about this. You deserve to be treated better. I will fax you an oatmeal raisin cookie to help you feel better. You deserve it.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | September 12, 2019 9:53 PM
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Unfortunately it seems he took you for an easy mark from the beginning. He was treating you poorly all along but you still brought him back to your house? "When someone shows you who they are, believe them". Just chalk it up to a learning experience and read the signals better next time.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | September 12, 2019 10:03 PM
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[Quote] Just chalk it up to a learning experience
A learning experience at 54?
by Anonymous | reply 18 | September 12, 2019 10:07 PM
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He obviously realized that your desperation to date a 20 year old gave him the power.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | September 12, 2019 10:09 PM
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R11 What, do you expect OP to carry his Werther's Originals around in his pockets like an animal?
by Anonymous | reply 21 | September 12, 2019 10:14 PM
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I didn't know Grindr was a dinner companion app.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | September 12, 2019 10:17 PM
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I didn't know Grindr was a dinner companion app.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | September 12, 2019 10:17 PM
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[quote]A learning experience at 54?
People that age struggle with Facebook, so I would imagine there is some learning curve with Grindr as well.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | September 12, 2019 10:20 PM
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[quote]What kind of restaurant was it and what generic twink-style food did he order?
Chuck-E-Cheese, chicken nuggets.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | September 12, 2019 10:21 PM
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First sign of passive aggressive bullshit at the restaurant and I would have been gone. You're a better man than I, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | September 12, 2019 10:26 PM
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You should have told him you had a call would be right back and GTFO. He is a loser.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | September 12, 2019 10:30 PM
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I want to hear about your damaged septum and sinusitis.
Did it cause your rude behaviour?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | September 12, 2019 10:31 PM
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Yeah, yeah. But was he cut or uncut?
by Anonymous | reply 29 | September 12, 2019 10:34 PM
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You should have left him in the restaurant and made him pay the bill as well. I hate twinks
by Anonymous | reply 30 | September 12, 2019 10:35 PM
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I love twinks because they know they're self-absorbed and abusive and they don't believe in love and that means you can abuse them back a bit, and they LIKE it. I don't mean physically, of course, no no, I mean you mind-fuck them before you actually fuck them. It's a game, you have to dominate them not just physically but mentally or they will never stop testing their limits. They want you to throw them on a bed and sportfuck them with no mercy and if they don't get that, they have nothing but contempt for you.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | September 12, 2019 10:40 PM
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R14, yes. Youth and beauty should be worshiped like a sacred diety.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | September 13, 2019 3:54 AM
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What now, OP is Satchel Paige? Hold on a jiffy and let me fetch my ear trumpet.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | September 13, 2019 5:14 AM
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Did you call his Mommie and tattle on him too OP?
by Anonymous | reply 35 | September 13, 2019 5:42 AM
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An elderly person takes a very young person on Date and is surprised they are immature?
by Anonymous | reply 36 | September 13, 2019 5:45 AM
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Stop meeting kids off phone apps you dirty old man.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | September 13, 2019 5:50 AM
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[quote]After getting to my place he immediately stripped down to his underwear and started feeling me up, my keys still in hand and my leather satchel still across my back.
Wasn't Mitzi, your beloved Llasa Apso, disturbed by this activity, OP?
by Anonymous | reply 38 | September 13, 2019 5:50 AM
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Next time squeeze out a snake and slap him silly with your shit-bra!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 39 | September 13, 2019 6:01 AM
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A relatively small number of murders are ever solved, OP. Grow a pair.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | September 13, 2019 6:05 AM
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[quote]People that age struggle with Facebook,
People that age are the only people on FB.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | September 13, 2019 6:07 AM
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I would have replied to him, 'you remind me of me at your age." That would have gotten him thinking. Aging is a bitch.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | September 13, 2019 6:15 AM
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OP should be called the Satchel Troll.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | September 13, 2019 6:46 AM
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OP, was this your first time using Grindr? If not, do you usually wine & dine your hookup mate?
by Anonymous | reply 44 | September 13, 2019 6:55 AM
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OP you're old and managed to get a 20 yo twink and you have the balls to complain that he chose an expensive restaurant ? Do you honestly think he was going to fuck you and pay for the restaurant ? How delusional.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | September 13, 2019 6:58 AM
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OP, did you catch a natural twink?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 46 | September 13, 2019 8:29 AM
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You should go on a date with the "lesbian" troll who walked out on a date last night.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | September 13, 2019 9:08 AM
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How old are you OP? Who paid the bill for this expensive restaurant? Arent you afraid of bedbugs if you bring scum to your apartment and they leave their clothes on your floor.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | September 13, 2019 12:01 PM
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[quote]A relatively small number of murders are ever solved, OP. Grow a pair.
Do it. It’s a stupid, useless twink. Nobody will miss it.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | September 13, 2019 12:16 PM
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You sound like a sad caricature of an aging gay man, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | September 19, 2019 7:47 PM
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Why didn't you run up a large tab and left him with it? You were getting taken by a little dinner where! Should've given him a chance to wash some dishes and possibly learn what humility is.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | September 19, 2019 8:04 PM
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That happened to me once a long time ago. In the course of the meal, I excused myself to the men's room and left. He tried to come back to my place but I was living in a high rise and I wouldn't allow the front desk to send him up.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | September 19, 2019 8:05 PM
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You should have let him blow you, then kicked him out. So, at least you got what you paid for!
by Anonymous | reply 53 | September 19, 2019 8:07 PM
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You *feed* the fucktoys?
You are doing it -wrong-. Back to Daddy school.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | September 19, 2019 8:08 PM
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What's the age difference, OP?
by Anonymous | reply 55 | September 19, 2019 8:51 PM
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Did he look like this, OP?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 56 | September 19, 2019 9:01 PM
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