[quote] So she only became friends with Oprah, Serena, and Amal AFTER the wedding?
r95, I don't know but what I think happened here is that Oprah, Amal Clooney and Serena took notice and interest based upon Markle's relationship with Prince Harry. And then hmmmm, this bears watching, and perhaps explored developing a friendship with her as her relationship with Harry deepened.
While it's possible that she was friends with them in her capacity as a 34 years old, "C" list star on a cable hit show, and ran in their circle, somehow, I doubt it.
Again, I've enjoyed observing The Duchess' climb. Nothing succeeds like excess, er, I mean success. I give the now Duchess of Sussex her due.
But still, she has not managed her new position and status astutely and appropriately.
How so? I'll indulge in a daydream here, much to the eyerolls of some, I'm sure.
If I, from the moment she curtsied to QE II ( and, based upon some of the DoS behavior, you'd think she saw QE II curtsy to her after she stated vows to her grandson) were an advisor to the Duchess of Sussex, here's what I'd have told her:
You, as a 34 years old, pretty, once-divorced American with African ancestry, educated at an elite university, semi-famous actor, caught "the most eligible bachelor in the world", nonsensical as that phrase is, a member of the BRF, grandson to QE II, and son and brother to future Kings of the UK. You're now a member of that family.
No more than those facts, and no more performance on your part, is needed to elicit attention and curiosity from the public. Their is built-in interest in you already. Therefore, you must swim against every instinct you have to seek public attention, other than appearances you're asked to make in your new duties. Learn. Don't set a foot wrong. Be discreet.
If you do that, your public appearances will have that much more impact; less is more will never be more apt.
Take my advice and act on it, and your stardom will be through the roof. Not in competition to Kate, but in CONTRAST to it. She knows meeting and interacting with celebrities isn't the job; it's a PART of the job, another duty. Absorb that reality and behave accordingly. You're not a celebrity anymore. They wait to meet you, not the other way around."
*daydream ends, abrupt awakening*
But no. The reality is that she started off with that superfluous, unnecessary, disastrous "A" List Celebrity Show Folk Trash NY City Shower and still hasn't recovered.
*sigh* I'll stay tuned...