I find them hot. Young, old, overweight or muscular. Love them!
Well-muscled hairy bears are attractive. Forget the ones with the beer bellies and sagging tits.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | August 17, 2019 11:39 PM |
Daniel Franzese wants to be your poster boy, OP
by Anonymous | reply 2 | August 18, 2019 12:34 AM |
They all look so...scratchy. No.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | August 18, 2019 2:09 AM |
Obese gross dudes have co opted the Bear label.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | August 18, 2019 2:27 AM |
Some yes but sadly a lot are into that super creepy puppy play bullshit now.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | August 18, 2019 3:09 AM |
I find it tedious - like any 'scene'.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | August 18, 2019 3:14 AM |
Hairy muscle bears are the most beautiful men on this planet
by Anonymous | reply 7 | August 18, 2019 4:08 AM |
What’s the attraction? Who has the money to feed it let alone the patience to clean the damn tub after it bathes.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | August 18, 2019 4:16 AM |
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by Anonymous | reply 9 | August 18, 2019 4:17 AM |
[quote]Forget the ones with the beer bellies and sagging tits.
Yes — unbearable,
by Anonymous | reply 10 | August 18, 2019 4:22 AM |
The bear clique used to be all about positivity and inclusivity and just being merry. Jolly, if you wish. Now they're just as shallow and bitchy as any other gay group. LIke every other gay male, a bear is judged to be either A-list or lower, and friends and associates tend to exclusively hang out with guys who look just like them. Why should you care whether your friends have facial hair or not? A pot belly or not? This is just so high school. So shallow.
We went to Bear Week this year. Well, actually we just went for half the week, since we've been enjoying it less and less as the years have gone on. Maybe we've just been aged out. Maybe we're just hissing eldergays. But I think the event has lost its mojo. Just another hairy circuit party.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | August 18, 2019 4:53 AM |
I went to bear week this year too, likewise only partially. I had friends to spend time with but there are indeed a-list celebs who have followers and yet the festive nature was fun, to an extent that I would partake. Bears are indeed supposed to be about inclusivity but all tribes become exclusive by their very nature
by Anonymous | reply 12 | August 18, 2019 2:11 PM |
Bears seem to be into the grossest most extreme shit especially the older ones.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | August 18, 2019 3:50 PM |
R13 - I find the older gays to be the ones continuing the leather scene and more hard-core fetish stuff. There have been articles about that stuff dying off. It's not just bears.
A chalk it up to the decades of mental abuse they went through - plus they never let go of the sluttiness of the 70's.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | August 18, 2019 4:15 PM |
The bear and leather communities create the weirdest creepiest fetishes it seems like every other bear profile has puppy play listed as an "interest".
by Anonymous | reply 15 | August 18, 2019 4:18 PM |
What is with those creepy puppy masks on Twitter???
by Anonymous | reply 16 | August 18, 2019 4:20 PM |
I'm sorry but that puppy play and furry shit are too much like pretend beastiality I don't care what anyone says.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | August 18, 2019 4:26 PM |
I am not interested in this. However, they seem to be a very friendly, inclusive bunch of fun-loving guys.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | August 18, 2019 4:34 PM |
Otters for me, please.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | August 18, 2019 4:41 PM |
r18 - maybe generally so, but a lot of nasty ones in there too. They are just people after all - not some mythical tribe of gays of exceptionally good-natured and accepting men.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | August 18, 2019 4:46 PM |
Yes. Many are sexy to me, as I love hairy blokes, beards, and am not put off by a bit of a paunch. The pup role play and groups such as Noodles & Beef however, are a huge turn-off to me.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | August 18, 2019 4:59 PM |
Yes. Many are sexy to me, as I love hairy blokes, beards, and am not put off by a bit of a paunch. The pup role play and groups such as Noodles & Beef however, are a huge turn-off to me.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | August 18, 2019 4:59 PM |
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by Anonymous | reply 23 | August 18, 2019 5:37 PM |
I find bears and the leather guys to be among the friendliest gays. I’ll go to various leathers bars (I don’t wear leather) and random people will come and chat me up.
When I go to a pretty-boy bar or a circuit party, people are far more cliquish and stand off ish.
The only problem I have with leather is there are just way to many categories, terms, and definitions to learn. Why do people care that much to subdivide people even more? It hurts my brain
by Anonymous | reply 24 | August 18, 2019 9:28 PM |
Why do so many of them have no lips?
by Anonymous | reply 25 | August 18, 2019 9:40 PM |
Yeah but leather bears tend to be the ones into the really hardcore unsafe stuff too.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | August 18, 2019 10:16 PM |
Grrrr, YEEEESSSSSSS. And I count myself among them.
What I don't like is working Mondays, and also anything resembling direct confrontation.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | August 18, 2019 10:20 PM |
Anyone remember New York's GMSMA? A few hundred members.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | August 21, 2019 8:20 PM |
I like bear-ish guys but repelled by the 'bear culture'. I wouldn't want anyone who went to bear camps or bear potlucks or shit like that.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | August 21, 2019 8:28 PM |
What's nice is with Chaturbate you can find a lot of guys with those types of bodies that don't usually show up in mainstream porn.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | August 21, 2019 8:54 PM |
[quote] I like bear-ish guys but repelled by the 'bear culture'.
This. It seems like every bear event end up being a playpen/orgy. I'm no prude, but when I hang out with friends I like to hang out, not let it hang out. Few boundaries, in my experience.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | August 21, 2019 9:15 PM |
I thought we just had a thread about gay bears are dying out.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | August 21, 2019 9:34 PM |