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Do you like (gay) bears?

I find them hot. Young, old, overweight or muscular. Love them!

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by Anonymousreply 32August 21, 2019 9:34 PM

Well-muscled hairy bears are attractive. Forget the ones with the beer bellies and sagging tits.

by Anonymousreply 1August 17, 2019 11:39 PM

Daniel Franzese wants to be your poster boy, OP

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by Anonymousreply 2August 18, 2019 12:34 AM

They all look so...scratchy. No.

by Anonymousreply 3August 18, 2019 2:09 AM

Obese gross dudes have co opted the Bear label.

by Anonymousreply 4August 18, 2019 2:27 AM

Some yes but sadly a lot are into that super creepy puppy play bullshit now.

by Anonymousreply 5August 18, 2019 3:09 AM

I find it tedious - like any 'scene'.

by Anonymousreply 6August 18, 2019 3:14 AM

Hairy muscle bears are the most beautiful men on this planet

by Anonymousreply 7August 18, 2019 4:08 AM

What’s the attraction? Who has the money to feed it let alone the patience to clean the damn tub after it bathes.

by Anonymousreply 8August 18, 2019 4:16 AM

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by Anonymousreply 9August 18, 2019 4:17 AM

[quote]Forget the ones with the beer bellies and sagging tits.

Yes — unbearable,

by Anonymousreply 10August 18, 2019 4:22 AM

The bear clique used to be all about positivity and inclusivity and just being merry. Jolly, if you wish. Now they're just as shallow and bitchy as any other gay group. LIke every other gay male, a bear is judged to be either A-list or lower, and friends and associates tend to exclusively hang out with guys who look just like them. Why should you care whether your friends have facial hair or not? A pot belly or not? This is just so high school. So shallow.

We went to Bear Week this year. Well, actually we just went for half the week, since we've been enjoying it less and less as the years have gone on. Maybe we've just been aged out. Maybe we're just hissing eldergays. But I think the event has lost its mojo. Just another hairy circuit party.

by Anonymousreply 11August 18, 2019 4:53 AM

I went to bear week this year too, likewise only partially. I had friends to spend time with but there are indeed a-list celebs who have followers and yet the festive nature was fun, to an extent that I would partake. Bears are indeed supposed to be about inclusivity but all tribes become exclusive by their very nature

by Anonymousreply 12August 18, 2019 2:11 PM

Bears seem to be into the grossest most extreme shit especially the older ones.

by Anonymousreply 13August 18, 2019 3:50 PM

R13 - I find the older gays to be the ones continuing the leather scene and more hard-core fetish stuff. There have been articles about that stuff dying off. It's not just bears.

A chalk it up to the decades of mental abuse they went through - plus they never let go of the sluttiness of the 70's.

by Anonymousreply 14August 18, 2019 4:15 PM

The bear and leather communities create the weirdest creepiest fetishes it seems like every other bear profile has puppy play listed as an "interest".

by Anonymousreply 15August 18, 2019 4:18 PM

What is with those creepy puppy masks on Twitter???

by Anonymousreply 16August 18, 2019 4:20 PM

I'm sorry but that puppy play and furry shit are too much like pretend beastiality I don't care what anyone says.

by Anonymousreply 17August 18, 2019 4:26 PM

I am not interested in this. However, they seem to be a very friendly, inclusive bunch of fun-loving guys.

by Anonymousreply 18August 18, 2019 4:34 PM

Otters for me, please.

by Anonymousreply 19August 18, 2019 4:41 PM

r18 - maybe generally so, but a lot of nasty ones in there too. They are just people after all - not some mythical tribe of gays of exceptionally good-natured and accepting men.

by Anonymousreply 20August 18, 2019 4:46 PM

Yes. Many are sexy to me, as I love hairy blokes, beards, and am not put off by a bit of a paunch. The pup role play and groups such as Noodles & Beef however, are a huge turn-off to me.

by Anonymousreply 21August 18, 2019 4:59 PM

Yes. Many are sexy to me, as I love hairy blokes, beards, and am not put off by a bit of a paunch. The pup role play and groups such as Noodles & Beef however, are a huge turn-off to me.

by Anonymousreply 22August 18, 2019 4:59 PM

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by Anonymousreply 23August 18, 2019 5:37 PM

I find bears and the leather guys to be among the friendliest gays. I’ll go to various leathers bars (I don’t wear leather) and random people will come and chat me up.

When I go to a pretty-boy bar or a circuit party, people are far more cliquish and stand off ish.

The only problem I have with leather is there are just way to many categories, terms, and definitions to learn. Why do people care that much to subdivide people even more? It hurts my brain

by Anonymousreply 24August 18, 2019 9:28 PM

Why do so many of them have no lips?

by Anonymousreply 25August 18, 2019 9:40 PM

Yeah but leather bears tend to be the ones into the really hardcore unsafe stuff too.

by Anonymousreply 26August 18, 2019 10:16 PM

Grrrr, YEEEESSSSSSS. And I count myself among them.

What I don't like is working Mondays, and also anything resembling direct confrontation.

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by Anonymousreply 27August 18, 2019 10:20 PM

Anyone remember New York's GMSMA? A few hundred members.

by Anonymousreply 28August 21, 2019 8:20 PM

I like bear-ish guys but repelled by the 'bear culture'. I wouldn't want anyone who went to bear camps or bear potlucks or shit like that.

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by Anonymousreply 29August 21, 2019 8:28 PM

What's nice is with Chaturbate you can find a lot of guys with those types of bodies that don't usually show up in mainstream porn.

by Anonymousreply 30August 21, 2019 8:54 PM

[quote] I like bear-ish guys but repelled by the 'bear culture'.

This. It seems like every bear event end up being a playpen/orgy. I'm no prude, but when I hang out with friends I like to hang out, not let it hang out. Few boundaries, in my experience.

by Anonymousreply 31August 21, 2019 9:15 PM

I thought we just had a thread about gay bears are dying out.

by Anonymousreply 32August 21, 2019 9:34 PM
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