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Thoughts on swallowing?

Does it turn you on? Does it repulse you? Is it something that grew on you?

by Anonymousreply 98August 21, 2019 10:16 PM

Spit or swallow seems to be a thing among girls.

Based on my experience swallowing seems to be assumed when it comes to us. I mean why are you even sucking dick if you are going to spit out the cum?

by Anonymousreply 1August 14, 2019 2:26 PM

I don't know that the act of swallowing turns me on or off... it's just part of the blowjob experience. And I don't think I've ever spit.

by Anonymousreply 2August 14, 2019 2:31 PM

The taste of cum is beyond repulsive. It actually triggers a major gag reflex. It's only because of extreme self-control that I haven't thrown up.

by Anonymousreply 3August 14, 2019 2:31 PM

I don’t need to swallow my pride to swallow that load.

by Anonymousreply 4August 14, 2019 2:34 PM

A man's load belongs in another man's body, whether it's his mouth or his ass.

Women? Who cares what the do.

by Anonymousreply 5August 14, 2019 2:36 PM

I've swallowed my own sperm but never another guys.

by Anonymousreply 6August 14, 2019 2:38 PM

Always swallow. Helps that I love the taste of cum, but I always want to make sure a guy is all the way done before I let his cock out of my mouth.

by Anonymousreply 7August 14, 2019 2:42 PM

I like it when a guy swallows.

by Anonymousreply 8August 14, 2019 2:44 PM

Its polite to swallow.

by Anonymousreply 9August 14, 2019 3:01 PM

extra calories

by Anonymousreply 10August 14, 2019 3:06 PM

R10, but also extra protein too

by Anonymousreply 11August 14, 2019 3:09 PM

I’m more a fan of a messy shot to the open mouth/chin and lick the rest off his cock

by Anonymousreply 12August 14, 2019 3:09 PM

While it's really enjoyable having it done to me, just thinking of me swallowing is too gruesome to contemplate.

by Anonymousreply 13August 14, 2019 3:10 PM

I'm with you R3

by Anonymousreply 14August 14, 2019 3:10 PM

Swallowing is gross. I don't understand why people do it. In my opinion, swallowing is the most submissive act in sex.

by Anonymousreply 15August 14, 2019 3:12 PM

R15, what do you do with your partner/SO's cum?

by Anonymousreply 16August 14, 2019 3:13 PM

Really, r15?

You just worked for a reward and received it. How is that in any way submissive?

by Anonymousreply 17August 14, 2019 3:13 PM

I wasn't into it in my 20's but started to enjoy it in my 30s. I went through a brief period in my early 40s when I even fetishised cum loads. You know the score. If the guy excited me, and came in a condom, after the trick was gone, I would suck out the splooge and remember how hot I thought he was. Oh well. All that desire fades eventually.

by Anonymousreply 18August 14, 2019 3:15 PM

I’m 31 and I’ve never had cum in my mouth. Not even my own. What am I missing? x

by Anonymousreply 19August 14, 2019 3:17 PM

From what I've heard, the taste and texture really varies on the person's lifestyle and/or diet. I've had it where it was sweet and delicious.

by Anonymousreply 20August 14, 2019 3:18 PM

From a practical point of view it's less messy when you swallow. Do you want to ruin your make-up and foundation by washing jizz of your face? Do you want to mess up your hair by washing come out of it and ruin your well coiffed look? Do you want to do the walk of shame with obviously stained clothing?

And let's not get into what jizz can do when it hits your eye.

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by Anonymousreply 21August 14, 2019 3:19 PM

Its a way to show gratitude to the guy willing to share his cock with you! There's a lot of variety in the way it happens, too. Can you for example directly drain it down your throat from a huge cock lodged deeply past the tonsils? Also its fun to put a bottom through the paces, then make him squat with his head firm against a wall with his mouth open. Aim for his mouth from some distance and see how well you do. He will be crazily excited.

by Anonymousreply 22August 14, 2019 3:23 PM

[quote]And let's not get into what jizz can do when it hits your eye.

Yes we know

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by Anonymousreply 23August 14, 2019 3:24 PM

I love it!

by Anonymousreply 24August 14, 2019 3:43 PM

I personally like to see it fly. I want to see where it lands and then lap it up...unless it's clumpy. One should not have to chew the seed.

by Anonymousreply 25August 14, 2019 3:55 PM

[quote]And let's not get into what jizz can do when it hits your eye.

Tell me about it!

It can cause permanent damage.

by Anonymousreply 26August 14, 2019 4:06 PM

Not swallowing is pretty much a sign of contempt among gays.

by Anonymousreply 27August 14, 2019 4:12 PM

R25 eeeewww, chew the seed, that’s gross.

by Anonymousreply 28August 14, 2019 4:12 PM

When I tasted cum for the first time.

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by Anonymousreply 29August 14, 2019 4:17 PM

The act of sucking dick isn't complete until you've milked every last drop out and his softening muscle slips out of your mouth. If he "let's it fly" you either finished him with a handy or he jerked it off home.

by Anonymousreply 30August 14, 2019 6:35 PM

It's one of the great mysteries to me, how rentboys can handle having the semen of horribly unattractive men in their mouths, let alone swallow it.

by Anonymousreply 31August 14, 2019 6:38 PM

It's a great pleasure.

by Anonymousreply 32August 14, 2019 6:41 PM

r31, it's called acting and having a really great imagination.

by Anonymousreply 33August 14, 2019 6:45 PM

I try to deep throat as they are about to shoot so it goes straight down my throat. Not that I mind the taste, I just feel the recipient of the blowjob likes it.

by Anonymousreply 34August 14, 2019 7:17 PM

Swallowing is always the way to go. Otherwise you haven't shown your partner's member the proper respect.

by Anonymousreply 35August 14, 2019 9:58 PM

[quote]Not swallowing is pretty much a sign of contempt among gays.

Not at all! Some of us are really put off by the taste and/or smell of jizz. I think it would show more contempt by trying to swallow something vile and immediately puking all over your partner's lap, which I know damned well would happen to me if I tried to swallow his cum.

by Anonymousreply 36August 14, 2019 9:59 PM

It was always a safety thing, guys not wanting you to cum in their mouths.

I've done it with boyfriends and then it's a sign of affection, but with random hookups if a guy is willing to swallow on the initial hookup it was always a sign that he was not as "always play safe" as he claimed and (a) I'd get tested for STDs and (b) I quickly became a "total top" (a term I learned from DL) but basically once I came, he was on his own-- zip the fuck up and get out of there.

by Anonymousreply 37August 14, 2019 10:05 PM

At first I didn't swallow, then I met a guy who turned it all around. I couldn't get enough of him or his cock. From the first time I gave him head, I swallowed and I liked it. From then on, I swallowed most of the time. My only exceptions are when I don't know the guy very well. Do I like the taste? No, not really, but it seems like the right thing to do.

I have to finish my post and write about the time I blew a guy while his dad and brother were sleeping about 10 feet away. I think we got away with it. Yes, I swallowed.

by Anonymousreply 38August 14, 2019 10:12 PM

I’m sure r17 is a nice guy and good cocksucker but he is not terribly self aware.

by Anonymousreply 39August 14, 2019 10:18 PM

I've tasted a lot of cum in my days. The VAST majority of guys taste forgettable, and then you have a small percentage at either end that taste amazing and taste like shit.

by Anonymousreply 40August 14, 2019 10:20 PM

R31 It’s called work. And we all do a lot of things for/at work that we hate. But we wanna stay employed and collect the check. OTJ - on the job training can do wonders for your performance.

by Anonymousreply 41August 15, 2019 11:20 PM

Mmmm pudding pops!

by Anonymousreply 42August 16, 2019 3:17 AM

I don't do it often (because it's kind of nasty), but when I do, I feel it's a huge compliment to the guy who delivered the load.

by Anonymousreply 43August 16, 2019 3:25 AM

I get really turned on by seeing it in videos (or just facials in general, even if they don't swallow) but I could never do it myself.

I saw a Japanese gay porn video once where the recipient actually vomited after he ingested the cum. And they showed all of it. But then the Japanese are not shy about showing what we consider disgusting bodily functions.

by Anonymousreply 44August 16, 2019 3:30 AM

I am absolutely consumed by a cum swallowing fetish. Love huge load filling my mouth snd then swallowing. Making a guy cum and then staying on his dick to suck down every possible drop. The only time I’ve spit out was when I hooked up with a couple guys who didn’t look like their profile pics but I didn’t have the energy or heart to walk away. Not turned on by then.

by Anonymousreply 45August 16, 2019 3:50 AM

I spit it back in his mouth!

by Anonymousreply 46August 16, 2019 3:54 AM

R45 I'm with you, love the scent. Though not all tastes great to me, I find it highly erotic. Nothing hotter than when a bloke greedily swallows mine too.

by Anonymousreply 47August 16, 2019 4:05 AM

Context: Most DLers are bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 48August 16, 2019 4:11 AM

To be honest, I'm not a fan of the taste, but I'll swallow my partner's if the mood is right. Otherwise, the cum flies and is sometimes used as lube for me.

by Anonymousreply 49August 16, 2019 4:16 AM

Forgive me if this is a bit off topic - is it unusual that a guy unloads, his buddy keeps sucking, guy stays hard... after a while cums again.... then a third and fourth time. How unusual is that? (The experience required swallowing, by definition).

by Anonymousreply 50August 16, 2019 4:16 AM

R50 VERY rare, but possible. There are documented cases of men with no "refractory period". If you saw this in porno, more than likely faked with multiple shots... take or leave the pun. I'd love a bloke like that!

by Anonymousreply 51August 16, 2019 4:59 AM

Another slightly off-topic question, but still about cum. Does anyone else smell like cum when they sweat? Not in a strong or disgusting way, but just in a "Hey, I think I smell like cum" way. I don't know if it's noticeable to other people near me at the gym.

by Anonymousreply 52August 16, 2019 5:22 AM

I saw a guy on CHaturbate who would (partially?) ejaculate every few minutes while jerking off, and he'd last for an hour or more. He'd soak his t-shirt. He said he trained himself to do this. The fluid seemed clear, not cloudy like semen. When he finally climaxed, his head nearly blew off it was so intense. I was a bit jealous.

by Anonymousreply 53August 16, 2019 5:45 AM

R52 I've never heard of such an instance, nor have I sniffed it on a partner. It could be really sexy though I would imagine.

by Anonymousreply 54August 16, 2019 5:51 AM

[quote]with random hookups if a guy is willing to swallow on the initial hookup it was always a sign that he was not as "always play safe" as he claimed

I think about this whenever I see guys online who say they are cocksuckers just looking for loads. I often wouldn't mind just having a guy come over and suck me off but a bit hesitant to stick my cock in some guy's mouth who goes around swallowing the loads of any stranger who comes along, so will usually just finish myself off instead and call it a night. (And of course I also think about my friend who let some random guy in a park suck him off several years ago and ended up with gonorrhea as a result.)

by Anonymousreply 55August 16, 2019 6:03 AM

When I hear people talk about the bad taste, I think it's been said that guys with healthy diets often have the best-tasting cum.

by Anonymousreply 56August 16, 2019 6:04 AM

R50 - I have a FB that usually shoots multiple tiles in a session. I can blow him, swallow, then in a few minutes he’s good to go again although the load decreases in volume with each successive orgasm.

The most he’s shot with me is three, although he claims to once have done it seven times with another partner.

by Anonymousreply 57August 16, 2019 6:30 AM

I'm not really a fan - something I do maybe once a year these days. I think I may have been put off it by my 2nd boyfriend, a smoker, whose cum tasted really gross. I had enjoyed swallowing with my first bf (also a heavy pre-cummer, which I am still a big fan of) but I would try and swallow as he was squirting with his cock towards the back of my mouth to minimise the taste. To me, spitting is stupid because if you don't like the taste you'll end up tasting it more by storing it in your mouth then spitting it out.

I have only had my own load spat out once, I actually think he swallowed what he could but I am quite a heavy cummer and it was probably too much.

by Anonymousreply 58August 16, 2019 8:55 AM

But do they kiss you after?

by Anonymousreply 59August 16, 2019 10:06 AM

For me, cum has always tasted forgettable (always swallow of course). What foods do you think makes it taste better?

by Anonymousreply 60August 16, 2019 10:41 AM

R60 It has been said Pineapple juice, Orange juice, and strawberries all make for great tasting spunk. Of course one is also meant to avoid meat, tobacco, and sulphurous veggies as well. Coffee is said to make it bitter as well. I've had some really sweet tasting stuff now and again. I think guys who drink a lot of diet soda have very sweet sperm too.

by Anonymousreply 61August 16, 2019 11:25 AM

R50 I think you must have hooked up wirh a fuck busy of mine. He cums. Gets semi soft and rests for 3 mins. I blow him again. Not as much cum and takes longer to get him off. I’ve blown him three times in about an hours time. One time when he stayed overnight, I blew him three times, then woke him up on the middle of the night for a fourth, then a fifth before we left for work in the morning. That last time I rubbed some of his cum on my chest so I could smell it over the course of the day. The rest I swallowed.

I’ve probably sucked him off close to 150 times over the past 4 years. God I crave his cock and jizz.

by Anonymousreply 62August 16, 2019 1:12 PM

Swallowing was the whole point for me. I loved the taste and smell of cum.

by Anonymousreply 63August 16, 2019 1:21 PM

[quote]I have a FB that usually shoots multiple tiles in a session.

This sounds really dangerous. If one of those hits the floor it could shatter. Now you have shards all around you when you’re on your knees.

by Anonymousreply 64August 16, 2019 1:22 PM

[quote]a bit hesitant to stick my cock in some guy's mouth who goes around swallowing the loads of any stranger who comes along

But that has nothing to do with swallowing. If a guy is getting that much random cock in his mouth, he could catch anything (or everything) without getting cum down his throat.

by Anonymousreply 65August 16, 2019 2:15 PM

If you swallow it "ruins the show" because you don't get to see the guy cum.

by Anonymousreply 66August 16, 2019 2:30 PM

Mmmmmmm. Warm and tasty.

by Anonymousreply 67August 16, 2019 2:43 PM

To R60, there are a couple of things that will take the harsh edge off of the taste and give it a neutral (or even a pleasant) taste. As R61 wrote, pineapple or pineapple juice will do it, also eating cherries can sweeten the taste. Taking cinnamon supplements will do it to. All of these are only from experience with my husband, so I'm not sure if these things work for everyone.

by Anonymousreply 68August 16, 2019 2:55 PM

To me it tastes like it has baking soda in it. An alkaline taste.

by Anonymousreply 69August 16, 2019 3:14 PM

R62 Actually I was the "producer" - and while not always happening, some circumstances have had me stay hard and if the guy keeps sucking, I cum again, not getting soft. This thread made me realize I'd never asked anyone if that was common. The volume decreases with each orgasm, and the guys have kept sucking and swallowing each. DL is so informative, ha.

by Anonymousreply 70August 16, 2019 3:51 PM

I started with guys at 28 years old. I “dated” around a bit before I met my now husband. I never would swallow a load back then. I felt it was nasty and I was no cum guzzling gay boy. But, when my guy and I became exclusive, we swallowed each other’s loads. Mostly because there’s no clean up. It’s just tidier that way. We’ve been together 15 years and he’s the ONLY guy I’ve ever swallowed. I’m a total top and I guess I do enjoy swallowing him during sex night BJ sessions. I view the act of swallowing as an intimate thing and it’s not something I’d do indiscriminately.

by Anonymousreply 71August 16, 2019 4:01 PM

[quote]I’m a total top and I guess I do enjoy swallowing him during sex night BJ sessions

Um, total tops don't suck dick, let alone swallow cum. Your card is revoked.

by Anonymousreply 72August 16, 2019 4:05 PM

R69 - Yes, baking soda, or similarly, bleach.

Drinking a good amount of pineapple juice definitely does cause a same day improvement in some guys.

We all know to avoid asparagus, I assume.

by Anonymousreply 73August 16, 2019 4:52 PM

I akso like facials even though they are messier. Hot when it gets in the mouth. Then I swallow.

And how about them snowballs? Love cummy kissing.

by Anonymousreply 74August 16, 2019 10:12 PM

I'm semen-intolerant unfortunetly. If I swallow I'm guaranteed to have diarrhea. Go figure.

by Anonymousreply 75August 16, 2019 10:32 PM

I knew a guy who's bf was allergic to his cum.

by Anonymousreply 76August 16, 2019 10:34 PM

Any GOOD cocksucker is gonna swallow. Spitting is for amateurs.

by Anonymousreply 77August 17, 2019 4:19 AM

Spitters are quitters. (and uncouth)

by Anonymousreply 78August 17, 2019 4:29 AM

I cant decide if cum smells and tastes like baked Brie, or baked Brie smells and tastes like cum.

by Anonymousreply 79August 17, 2019 5:06 AM

Shoot it on my face. Aim for my open mouth. But I can't swallow.

by Anonymousreply 80August 17, 2019 5:08 AM

Vegetarian cum is tastier.

by Anonymousreply 81August 17, 2019 10:44 PM

R79 Funny, I've always thought buttermilk biscuits still warm remind me of cum. R81 I have heard this, but do not find it to be always true. Probably more dependent upon what else they DO eat. I have not been lucky enough to sample any yet, but I have heard diabetics have really sweet cream.

by Anonymousreply 82August 17, 2019 10:50 PM

I love jizz! It’s fucking delicious! My str8, married bf loves to use my mouth as his personal cum dump! I swallow every drop and then I find myself begging for more. Lol. Then I milk another orgasam out of his 8”.

by Anonymousreply 83August 17, 2019 10:54 PM

I love jizz! It’s fucking delicious! My str8, married bf loves to use my mouth as his personal cum dump! I swallow every drop and then I find myself begging for more. Lol. Then I milk another orgasam out of his 8”.

by Anonymousreply 84August 17, 2019 10:54 PM

Talk to Michael Douglas before you blow.

by Anonymousreply 85August 17, 2019 11:14 PM

Never, ever. And I don't like it when someone swallows mine. Gross.

by Anonymousreply 86August 17, 2019 11:19 PM

I've done it, with hookups when I was much younger. But sadly, once I fell in love, and lumbered into a monogamous relationship, my BF was always too inhibited to ever come in my mouth. There was one time, when we were 69ing that he asked me to come in his mouth, and Ii obliged. I watched his reaction, at first, then turned away, to give him the opportunity to spit it out. I don't know what he ended up doing, but he never asked me to do that again. I sort of feel like Darfur Orphan lusting after a corndog: he should have at least fed me, just once.

by Anonymousreply 87August 17, 2019 11:32 PM

R19 lick you finger, drip into a jar of MSG. Then you'll know what cum tastes like.

by Anonymousreply 88August 17, 2019 11:45 PM

Sounds like a shitty sex life. Sheesh. Ever heard of communication?

by Anonymousreply 89August 17, 2019 11:45 PM

I love sucking cock. Swallowing is the best part. I love holding it in my mouth, gently sucking the last drops out, and licking it clean, too.

by Anonymousreply 90August 17, 2019 11:51 PM

My thoughts:

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by Anonymousreply 91August 18, 2019 12:03 AM

DL is clearly full of submissive bottoms. Only submissive men go around swallowing cum. There is no need to swallow.

by Anonymousreply 92August 21, 2019 12:01 AM

Spooge deep and straight down the throat. Mmm.

by Anonymousreply 93August 21, 2019 10:13 AM

I only swallow if I'm super turned on by my partner and I know he really wants me to swallow.

by Anonymousreply 94August 21, 2019 10:57 AM

R94 So you give head and let a guy cum in your mouth who you are not "super turned on by...?"

by Anonymousreply 95August 21, 2019 3:03 PM

I've only swallowed like two different guys' loads and that was only because I was super into them

by Anonymousreply 96August 21, 2019 3:38 PM

I love love love to be swallowed. I love to swallow, too, but I find quite a few guys prefer to shoot on my face rather than down my throat. Yeah, guys will tell me to shoot on their face and that’s ok. But it’s way better when they completely and totally swallow me. And not with their hands jerking me. No. With my dick totally swallowed by them up to the base. Even with all the eager cocksuckers out there, hard to find the truly devoted ones.

by Anonymousreply 97August 21, 2019 4:21 PM

I used to suck off Wall Street guys, married I presume most of the time, at the glory holes in the financial district back in the day. It was hot when they unloaded without warning. Since they had to get back to work I swallowed to the last drop and cleaned their cocks off thoroughly before they withdrew.

by Anonymousreply 98August 21, 2019 10:16 PM
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