Some younger gays may know the slang "chickenhawks" for mature guys who chase after twinks. But how many know we used to refer to twinks as "chicken"?
What gay slang has disappeared in your lifetime?
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Some younger gays may know the slang "chickenhawks" for mature guys who chase after twinks. But how many know we used to refer to twinks as "chicken"?
What gay slang has disappeared in your lifetime?
by Anonymous | reply 66 | July 22, 2019 8:57 PM |
Hanky Code.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | July 19, 2019 3:21 AM |
The word trick to refer to a sexual partner
by Anonymous | reply 2 | July 19, 2019 3:23 AM |
How I wish I was a chicken again so I could undo some of my biggest mistakes in life as well as enjoy the amorous attention of men in bars !
by Anonymous | reply 3 | July 19, 2019 3:23 AM |
Polari.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | July 19, 2019 3:24 AM |
r4 What does that mean?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 19, 2019 3:26 AM |
Yes but what is the specific Polari you know but the young'uns don't
by Anonymous | reply 6 | July 19, 2019 3:26 AM |
Street Meat
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 19, 2019 3:29 AM |
I remember when everyone would say, “Oh such!” Like saying oh shit. I remember the terms chicken and chicken hawk.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 19, 2019 3:29 AM |
Fairy, as in “Suck my dick, you fucking Fairy!”
by Anonymous | reply 9 | July 19, 2019 3:32 AM |
Trade
by Anonymous | reply 10 | July 19, 2019 3:32 AM |
Polari made gay men sound like they just walked of the set of A Clockwork Orange.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | July 19, 2019 3:33 AM |
It's old. I listen to a lot of old time radio, and a lot of the fellas call their girls 'chicken.'
It's a term of endearment.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 19, 2019 3:37 AM |
Dinge Queen
Rice Queen
Snow Queen
by Anonymous | reply 14 | July 19, 2019 4:34 AM |
he/she
by Anonymous | reply 15 | July 19, 2019 12:23 PM |
Tranny, meaning transvestite.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | July 19, 2019 1:06 PM |
Tea room
by Anonymous | reply 17 | July 19, 2019 1:12 PM |
Drop your hair/bobby pins.
Oh, Louise.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | July 19, 2019 1:16 PM |
[quote]Trade
This is still used widely. It may have fallen out of use for a while, but like “Mary,” it has made a comeback with the younguns.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | July 19, 2019 1:21 PM |
r17 What did tea room mean?
by Anonymous | reply 20 | July 19, 2019 9:27 PM |
cruisy bathroom
by Anonymous | reply 21 | July 19, 2019 10:05 PM |
As r7 said, street meat.
"The tubs" for "bathhouse."
"Wrinkle room" for any bar where the clientele was over 40.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | July 19, 2019 11:36 PM |
R20, Here's a tea room.
OP, thanks for that lovely photo of Leo and Lance.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | July 20, 2019 12:29 AM |
Cottaging
by Anonymous | reply 24 | July 20, 2019 12:31 AM |
"Hairbender" for hairdresser.
"Dropping a few bobby pins" has the same meaning as the current "spill some tea."
by Anonymous | reply 25 | July 20, 2019 12:36 AM |
I watch the video at R23 and have to wonder what kind of sick, homophobic closet cases would go to the trouble of rigging up a public restroom with cameras.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | July 20, 2019 12:39 AM |
Light in your loafers
by Anonymous | reply 27 | July 20, 2019 12:42 AM |
"Mousing" (out on the prowl/ hunting for the D)
by Anonymous | reply 28 | July 20, 2019 12:56 AM |
'ducats' or 'pearls' to mean 'cash/money'
by Anonymous | reply 29 | July 20, 2019 1:14 AM |
Doing the beat
by Anonymous | reply 30 | July 20, 2019 1:18 AM |
A few Polari idioms:
“pastry cutter” (a man’s oral sex technique) “tipping the ivy” (tuchus lingus) “vogue us up ducky” (light me a cigarette) and Hilda Handcuffs, Betsy Badge, and The Orderly Daughters (terms for the police).
Would be great if some of these made a comeback in the gay lexicon, rather than what we have now which is basically just made up of 98% Rupauls Drag Race references and 2% milk.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | July 20, 2019 1:36 AM |
Seafood
by Anonymous | reply 32 | July 20, 2019 1:37 AM |
I don't understand, I thought all gay culture "came from black drag queens".
by Anonymous | reply 33 | July 20, 2019 1:48 AM |
R33 Black trannys you better mean
by Anonymous | reply 34 | July 20, 2019 1:52 AM |
If you want to hear Conversational Polari, Google "Putting on the Dish," a short dramatic film completely spoken in Polari. Also, there's a scene in "Velvet Goldmine," and there are some Julian and Sandy episodes online. Once you bona, you'll never go back!
by Anonymous | reply 35 | July 20, 2019 2:12 AM |
Glory hole.
So many young guys don't know what they're missing by not having the porn stores with "arcades" in the back for a quick relief session.
Then, zip up your pants and leave.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | July 20, 2019 2:19 AM |
Interesting thread! I'm learning many new old terms lol. Being gay back then seems like so much fun. I feel like we no longer have our own insular culture due to teen girls appropriating the heck out of it. Also, what a great picture choice, OP! Leo Ford is definitely one of my favorite pornstars of all time.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | July 20, 2019 2:37 AM |
Leo got quite skanky, quickly, but he fucked with passion!
#12 Lance (David Alan Reis, 1962-1991/suicide due to AIDS)
Where do you begin with Lance? He was the gay-porn Madonna — one name only, please! This lumbering blond surfer came off as young, dumb and full of come-hither looks that he would happily consummate at length and with gusto.
He definitely had a big one and always seemed thrilled to share it. I think what I liked best about him was the contrast of the blond hair and the natural brown bush.
Lance reportedly grew up in foster-care environments and had a substance-abuse problem, but his issues were never reflected in his work, in which he always came off as carefree and sex-positive, especially in movies like Good Times (1982), Leo & Lance (1983), Big & Thick (1984), Student Bodies (1984) and Blonds Do It Best (1985).
by Anonymous | reply 38 | July 20, 2019 2:55 AM |
Packing - meaning having a big dick
Sister Woman - what you call your gay friends
Queen - we don't use that much anymore
Tunnel of Fudge - asshole
Take it up the butt - 'nuf said
Make me touch myself - make me horny
Horndog
Dark meat
by Anonymous | reply 39 | July 20, 2019 4:08 AM |
Lily Law.
Tomcatting.
Stemming the rose/Rose leaves.
Tipping the velvet.
Queer for boys.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | July 20, 2019 4:28 AM |
Box lunch
by Anonymous | reply 41 | July 20, 2019 4:45 AM |
Friend of Dorothy
by Anonymous | reply 42 | July 20, 2019 4:50 AM |
Look at that BOX! - a big dick hiding in clothes
by Anonymous | reply 43 | July 20, 2019 4:50 AM |
R42: FOD
I'm gonna nut!
Smegma
by Anonymous | reply 44 | July 20, 2019 4:52 AM |
R44 = Eric Swalwell
by Anonymous | reply 45 | July 20, 2019 4:59 AM |
Member of the chorus
Does he sing in the choir?
Is he.... musical?
by Anonymous | reply 46 | July 20, 2019 5:04 AM |
Is he family?
by Anonymous | reply 47 | July 20, 2019 5:09 AM |
Chickenhawk...my goodness, the memories!
by Anonymous | reply 48 | July 20, 2019 5:10 AM |
Brothers
by Anonymous | reply 49 | July 20, 2019 5:12 AM |
[quote] Being gay back then seems like so much fun.
Except for getting arrested, beaten up, outed, or losing your job it was a blast!
by Anonymous | reply 50 | July 20, 2019 5:42 AM |
Lover, as in "Let me introduce you to my lover George", meaning boyfriend, partner or husband.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | July 20, 2019 5:56 AM |
For days = An intensifier ("dick for days")
For points = With skill ("Miss Thing worked that gown for points, honey!")
Through = Ugly, tacky, badly dressed, etc. "Gurl, that queen looks through and wrong."
Rotted = See above
Ill piece = Somebody through and rotted
Used = Shocked, horrified, pissed
The Tee = flawless, hot shit (different from "tea" as in gossip)
Grease = gossip
by Anonymous | reply 52 | July 20, 2019 6:32 AM |
Cracked or face-cracked = hit by shocking news, rendered speechless
Gooked = screwed over, swindled, taken advantage of
by Anonymous | reply 53 | July 20, 2019 6:43 AM |
Trick was a noun (who was that cute trick of yours?) but also a verb (were you out tricking?)
Younger guys may still be using the former, but I've never heard it said nowadays without irony.
Also, trade, especially in the narrow traditional sense of "straight" men who get serviced: rough trade, etc.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | July 20, 2019 2:26 PM |
by Anonymous | reply 55 | July 20, 2019 3:31 PM |
Miss Thing — I was going to say, r52, that nobody says "Miss Thing" anymore. That was everywhere in the '90s.
We also no longer "Talk to the Hand."
by Anonymous | reply 56 | July 20, 2019 4:58 PM |
GURL
by Anonymous | reply 57 | July 20, 2019 5:06 PM |
Kewl
by Anonymous | reply 58 | July 20, 2019 5:52 PM |
"Truck Driver" for a lesbian, "Confirmed Bachelor," "Shirt Lifter," "Pansy," Poof," "Light in his loafers," "AC/DC" for a gay man
Rough Trade
To read beads...means to understand or see through someone
Drop Beads...accidentaly reveal one's homosexuality
Lace Curtains...an uncircumcised cock
Team Cream...an orgy
"One-Night Stand" has gone the way of trick.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | July 20, 2019 6:27 PM |
One-night stand was hetero as well, though.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | July 20, 2019 6:31 PM |
Nellie
by Anonymous | reply 61 | July 20, 2019 6:32 PM |
Nellie is “trans femme” in 2019
by Anonymous | reply 62 | July 20, 2019 7:43 PM |
"Sidewalk Sale"
Cruising the guys who are lingering outside the bar immediately after it closes for the night
by Anonymous | reply 63 | July 22, 2019 2:43 PM |
Pee'ed. As in Gurl friend pee'ed up on that stage. (Did well, was flawless)
Bootie flu - hiv
by Anonymous | reply 64 | July 22, 2019 7:56 PM |
Gay.com chat room.
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