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Question for defamation attorneys

A psycho who is obsessed with me has started a blog about me. I use to be friends with him -or so I thought we were friends. Some of the things he's posted are medications I use to be on, that he thinks I have a brain defect, and that mutual associates of ours agree that I'm heartless, manipulative, cold, mendacious, don't have a soul and on and on... Mind you, he and I do not have any mutual associates. He acknowledges on his little blog that I do not support or encourage it, thinking that he then has free reign to write whatever he wants. He is a loser with no money, and has to have his sister manage his bills and what little money he does have. What can I do about this if there is no money in it for an attorney? I just want the blog removed.

by Anonymousreply 36June 23, 2019 7:24 PM

OMG I wish I knew the answer. I'm a shopbottom passaround cum bucket so people talk smack about me all the time. Just ta say, I feel you. I'm sure some of DL's defamation attorneys will have a solution.

by Anonymousreply 1June 19, 2019 11:23 PM

[QUOTE] that he thinks I have a brain defect

Or just that your grammar and spelling are atrocious.

[QUOTE] use to

It's "used to," dear. The negative being "didn't use to." It works just like any other past tense verb.

You're welcome.

by Anonymousreply 2June 19, 2019 11:58 PM

but it's present tense...

by Anonymousreply 3June 20, 2019 12:04 AM

^No. It isnt. You're talking about something that happened or didn't happen in the past.

You used to be friends. Now you're not.

by Anonymousreply 4June 20, 2019 12:08 AM

You can just ask google to take it down. I've had them take something down about me

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by Anonymousreply 5June 20, 2019 12:12 AM

OP = Aaron Schock

by Anonymousreply 6June 20, 2019 12:15 AM

Shut the fuck up, D4vida.

by Anonymousreply 7June 20, 2019 12:46 AM

What did they remove about you, r5? I contacted them, and apparently it's perfectly acceptable to post meds I had been on. I strongly support free speech, but it is not right that someone with a grudge can start posting malicious things about you to assassinate your character and spit out lies.

by Anonymousreply 8June 21, 2019 3:04 AM

You're an English teacher, R2?

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by Anonymousreply 9June 21, 2019 3:09 AM

I'm a different kind of attorney but in cases like these you can burn his house down.

by Anonymousreply 10June 21, 2019 3:11 AM

Wait, there's a website out there about Poo Shoes with her meds and brain defects and fucked up, manipulative, lying, grifting and stealing exposed?

Oh my, how terrible!

by Anonymousreply 11June 21, 2019 3:24 AM

OP smells of đź’©

by Anonymousreply 12June 21, 2019 4:05 AM

Does he use your actual name?

You have to call or write an email to his internet provider company (the hosting site, you can easily find this out), and they will shut down his website.

by Anonymousreply 13June 21, 2019 4:09 AM

he cannot disclose medicines you’ve been on. Are you a public person? Are you famous? If not, call a lawyer

by Anonymousreply 14June 21, 2019 5:39 AM

Restraining order.

by Anonymousreply 15June 21, 2019 6:08 AM

[quote] thinking that he then has free reign to write whatever he wants.

He can add "poor speller" to his other charges against you

by Anonymousreply 16June 21, 2019 6:16 AM

Yes, R9. Let me explain it to you since you still didn't get it, even after reading a dictionary entry.

Past tense verbs in English can either be positive, negative, or interrogative (questions). For example:

Did you walk to work?

Yes, I walked to work.

No, I didn't walk to work.

You'll notice that the interrogative and negative employ a "do" verb, which is conjugated, and the other verb remains in its infinitive form. In the positive statement, the verb simply takes the -ed ending.

"Used to" works exactly the same way.

Did you use to smoke?

Yes, I used to smoke.

No, I didn't use to smoke.

That's how it works. I'm right. And your link actually shows that, had you bothered to read it.

The shitty grammar and spelling on this site is bad enough, but when the illiterates dig themselves in deeper by fighting back, it's just sad.

by Anonymousreply 17June 22, 2019 3:10 AM

Contact the web hosting company for the blog. Getting Google to de-index a page is not the same thing as having it taken down.

I'm the attorney who recommended burning their house down, and that remains my legal advice.

by Anonymousreply 18June 22, 2019 3:13 AM

Oh just cut the bitch-- then don't get caught

by Anonymousreply 19June 22, 2019 3:53 AM

I contacted both blogspot and blogger.com, and neither saw fit to delete his crap. Apparently listing meds someone was on is not a privacy issue for these jokers. Unreal. I mean, I would think something like that at least would be pretty much a given. There's other stuff too that I feel is a violation of my privacy. I wouldn't care as much if he was just going off about how much he hates me, but this goes way beyond that.

There is "false light", and that applies to something said or written that is malicious, tended to cause emotional distress, and/or is highly offensive to a reasonable person. This blog fits all three. It is even more infuriating and offensive to me because I just lost my mother, then I have his screwed up crap to deal with. I have left 2 messages with an attorney who has not called me back. I guess I'll try another one. This guy has had 2 different people pull a gun on him before, and I know I didn't get the truth as to why, but I'm sure they had good reason. He really pushed people. He's not worth getting yourself in serious trouble as far as I'm concerned, but one day he'll cross the wrong person. I'm trying to find a legal solution that will give him such a big slap in the face. If there is no option, then I guess there's just nothing I can do about it. He is a miserable person, and maybe that's enough. But I am worried about him escalating this shit when he finds this tactic will not produce the ultimate result he seeks - me contacting him.

I have filed a police report here in my county, and if he ever comes here he'll be arrested. I'm really hoping he threatens me so he can get a wake-up call. I don't think he would, but in reality I don't what he's capable of doing.

by Anonymousreply 20June 23, 2019 2:34 AM

"pushed" pushes

Forgot to mention that he mailed me a crazy and nasty letter a week after my mother passed away. That is why I filed a police report here. It alarmed me even though it didn't surprise me.

by Anonymousreply 21June 23, 2019 2:38 AM

And on the subject of "use to" vs "used to": I know I should have written "used to", it was a simple mistake made while typing. I am upset about the whole matter I was typing.

by Anonymousreply 22June 23, 2019 2:46 AM

SHUT.

THE.

FUCK.

UP.

D4VIDA.

by Anonymousreply 23June 23, 2019 3:14 AM

She uses chloroform on people that She doesn’t like and stealth to sneak into my house while I’m asleep to experiment on me. She also planted cameras to watch my every move and hire people to follow and keep a close watch on me wherever I go. She also plants devices in my ear and under the skin and some may even be directly on my brain. She shot it into my skull from a distance to keep it covert. They are small enough to where you only hear a pop and feel a small sting while you’re asleep. She communicates to me through the devices She planted in me and because no one really understands it or are afraid of it, She diagnosed this targeted individual with schizophrenia and gives false checkups and xrays to hide it. It’s all to make me look and sound unbelievable if I do come out about it. I was used as a puppet. A rag doll that is unable to prevent or defend against these people. She is a criminal that can cover up anything She wants covered up for the sake of national security. She’s shown me enough to know what these people are capable of doing to innocent people. Targets are picked based on knowledge and the side you pick. Pick their side, She’ll still experiment on you, only She’ll show you pornography whenever you feel too lonely. Pick your own side, She torture your mind and pick apart every relationship you’ve ever held close to your heart. She’ll rape, call me every thing in the book and crush my dignity so I will never be able to trust another man. She throws in campaigns with teenagers and people my age and display me on camera and make “voyeurism” acceptable with people in targeted cities. She accepts it because She threw a rad party and were nice enough hosts. She let very specific people with a say in society know to never let me leave or find help. Everyone is paid and/or threatened/killed to never come out with information. She use microwave weapons as a way to torture me even more. I’m sure She drugged me plenty of times so my credibility is ruined. I personally would never touch a drug except marijuana.

by Anonymousreply 24June 23, 2019 3:15 AM

[quote] I’m sure She drugged me plenty of times so my credibility is ruined.

That's not why your credibility is ruined.

by Anonymousreply 25June 23, 2019 3:22 AM

[quote] What did they remove about you, [R5]? I contacted them, and apparently it's perfectly acceptable to post meds I had been on

They actually took down a newspaper story that reported I had been arrested (drugs). Just tell google that person is a medical professional and is using your personal medical history

by Anonymousreply 26June 23, 2019 3:24 AM

You can have him killed. But then make it look like a suicide.

by Anonymousreply 27June 23, 2019 3:32 AM

OP, is your name or identifying information (other than the medications you take) given in the blog?

by Anonymousreply 28June 23, 2019 4:31 AM

Yes, r28. The blog title even has my name - first and last.

by Anonymousreply 29June 23, 2019 4:34 AM

And my last name is very unique.

by Anonymousreply 30June 23, 2019 4:36 AM

^"Unique" is not a gradable adjective; you can't use an intensifier with it.

Your name is either unique (one of a kind), or it is not.

by Anonymousreply 31June 23, 2019 4:53 AM

Maybe you make a blog about him and we will all follow you and say mean things about him

by Anonymousreply 32June 23, 2019 6:05 PM

I would contact the website and let them know what is going on. You could also file a TRO, as stated above.

by Anonymousreply 33June 23, 2019 6:32 PM

I can't believe the attention this unhinged schizophrenic is getting on here.

Also, it's probably Dee Arr.

by Anonymousreply 34June 23, 2019 6:40 PM

[quote]And on the subject of "use to" vs "used to": I know I should have written "used to", it was a simple mistake made while typing.

Twice.

Was “reign” the same typing mistake?

Don’t double down, OP, admit you fucked up. You’ll get a lot more respect that way.

by Anonymousreply 35June 23, 2019 6:55 PM

You will need get a gun and threaten to shoot him.

by Anonymousreply 36June 23, 2019 7:24 PM
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